the agaphey podcast

In this episode Bec talks about the key things to focus on when healing from a heartbreak.

In this episode Bec discusses the question of whether you should date someone who believes it's ok to have sex before marriage.

In this episode Bec talks about how you don't have to answer every question that someone asks you on a date.

In this episode Bec talks about how important it is to talk to God about your dating questions before going to anyone else.

In this episode Nicole discusses how God revealed to her that she was offended with him about not being married yet, how it affected her attitude and dating life and how the Lord brought breakthrough in this area for her.

In this episode Bec responds to a comment from one of her Facebook groups about what it looks like to be led by the Holy Spirit.

In this episode Bec discusses what it is like to date as a Christian man with Branden Schraven. He gives excellent insight that men can glean from and will help women to understand men better.

In this episode Bec discusses toxic purity culture with her friend Devon who grew up in this culture. They discuss what it is, the effect it had on sexuality and how to heal from it.

This is a recording of a TikTok LIVE talking about Flirting.

This is a recording of a TikTok LIVE talking about Dating breakthrough in 9 weeks 

This is a recording of a TikTok LIVE talking about  our part vs. God's part

This is a recording from a TikTik LIVE discussing the heart behind agaphey

This is a recording from a TikTik LIVE discussing Red Flags in Dating

This is a recording from a TikTik LIVE discussing Red Flags in Dating 

This is a recording from a TikTik LIVE discussing the 3 date rule

This is a recording from a TikTok LIVE talking about this topic

In this episode Bec discusses the heart of men in dating and how Christian women can have grace for men in the process

Join Bec as she interviews Tim and Maaria as they recount the details of their love story

In this episode, Bec and guest speaker Camille discuss what having a plan looks like and why it is so irresistible to women.

In this episode Bec along with her guests Camille and Josh discuss why it is important for every single to have friends of the opposite sex

In this episode Bec discusses the concept of giving everyone at least the chance for a first date, plus the 3 date rule.

Listen as Bec shares her testimony and all that God did around getting pregnant.

In this episode, Bec discussed how settling is hurtful to the person you settle for and how it impact them

In this episode Bec discusses how to navigate receiving attention from someone of the opposite sex when they have no intention of dating you.

In this episode, Bec highlights the key behavioral indicators to identify if you are needy/clingy and then how to overcome them with Holy Spirit

In this episode Joshua Cruz interviews Bec to get the scoop on all things AgapHEY.

In this episode Bec discusses dating as a single Dad with Darren Mejia. Darren shares his wisdom on things to consider when dating as a single parent and the Holy Spirit revelations he has had.

Join me while I discuss marriage, timing, red flags and all things concerning rushing into marriage with my guests Charity and Leila. Hear their stories and the wisdom they now have about dating for marriage. 

Have you ever wanted to have better quality dates but aren't sure where to find them? Matchmaking might be the answer for you.

Whether it is with a professional or a family member, there are a lot of benefits. 

Sarah went through 3 months of relationship coaching with Bec- on this podcast she discusses how she learnt and grew through the process.

In this podcast Trena talks about how the Holy Spirit guided her through her dating journey, especially over the last 3 months and all the incredible BREAKTHROUGH that came from it!

Sarah went through 3 months of relationship coaching with Bec- on this podcast she discusses how she learnt and grew through the process

This men's panel was originally LIVE in the Revivalist Christian Singles group

This men's panel was originally LIVE in the Revivalist Christian Singles group

This men's panel was originally LIVE in the Revivalist Christian Singles group

In this episode, Nick and Bec discuss one of the biggest issues that many singles have when it comes to getting dates and also the role of confidence in dating and how to grow in it. 

Hear Wendy's story of overcoming a breakup in her mid 40's, maintaining hope for her future husband, writing a book that would help thousands of women and meeting the love of her life in her early 50's.

Wendy's unwavering faith and hope will inspire any single person who has been eagerly awaiting their husband/wife.

In this episode Nick and Bec discuss the expectations they had around marriage before they were married and what the reality has proven to be.

It's a super fun (and exposing) episode as they discuss things most married people don't talk about.

Do you ever feel like the shy/nerdy type that doesn't get noticed by girls or have the courage to go and ask them out?

That was Luke's story before God radically transformed him....and it all started with one word...STUD!

Listen as Luke talks about his journey from 'nerd to 007'.

Hear what we are creating and why- to help you find a husband or wife who is also charismatic and loves the Lord!

In this episode Bec and Nick candidly discuss their journey to freedom from sexual addictions (while they were still single), so that their future marriage would benefit. 

Listen as my friend Darren recounts his struggles that ultimately led to his divorce and how the Lord worked all things for good.

Key topics:

Divorce

Pornography addiction

Single parenthood

Salvation

HOPE in Christ

Dating

Join me as I interview the amazing Brandon. He is one of the most honouring people when it comes to dating that I know and because of this, he has probably the most healthy and respectful dating experiences that i have heard of.

Listen up ladies, if you have ever said this, this episode is for you especially.

When I was dating, I believed that no guy would want to be with me because I'm too:

-Chatty

-Outgoing

-Bubbly

-Assertive

-Driven

-Entrepreneurial

In this episode I chat with my husband (Nick) about these personality traits and what he thought about them and how they have played out in our marriage.

My friend Michelle gets asked out more than any woman I know. Men often approach her or ask me about her in our singles groups.

Michelle is incredibly wonderful and unique. She wears bold pink eye shadow and has made the decision not to shave her legs. She shows up as her authentic self in dating.

In this episode we discuss why men are attracted to her and what affect being her authentic self has had in her dating life.

How I Met Your Father (the story I will tell my future kids- no, I'm not pregnant...yet ;-) )

Topics:

Testimony of virginity restored

Our Story

In this episode we talk about what dating is for, and what it is not for. We talk about the waiting season vs. putting yourself in the waiting room.

It's a fiery one packed full of revelations.

We want to be real and raw and share what the first 6 weeks of marriage have been like for Nick and I (the good and the bad) and what happened to us after getting the word from God for our relationship. Many people think you ride off into the sunset because the Lord has spoken, but that wasn't the case for us....

In this episode I talk about the origins of AgapHEY, the crazy way it came about, my heart for singles and some of the lies I believed when I was single that ACTUALLY DIDN'T HAPPEN. Crazy, I know!