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We're Not Kidding

We're Not Kidding

By Anna Marie Olson

People have been opting out of parenthood for a long time, yet being childfree still feels taboo. This podcast is devoted to sharing the stories of the childfree and breaking the stigma.

As a life coach, I am passionate about helping women feel empowered and confident in their decision not to have kids. I'll share stories, tips, and ideas to help you live your best childfree life.

You can connect with me on Instagram: @coachannaolson (https://www.instagram.com/coachannaolson/)

Join our private childfree community to find friendship and support (wnk-club.com).
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BONUS: Session 4 Financial Planning with Dr. Jay

We're Not KiddingMar 15, 2023

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BONUS: Session 4 Financial Planning with Dr. Jay

BONUS: Session 4 Financial Planning with Dr. Jay

In this episode, Grant and I sit down with Dr. Jay at the end of February to recap how our budget went in February. We also discuss the ins and outs of disability insurance and talk about what might be best for Grant. Then we talk about an upcoming trip and how to budget for that.  If you haven't heard the first three sessions with Dr. Jay, you can listen to them here: Session 1 Session 2 Session 3 Or watch the sessions here.  
Mar 15, 202349:15
Sunday Class & The Pink Engine with Antara Sarkar

Sunday Class & The Pink Engine with Antara Sarkar

Antara Sarkar is the creator of Sunday Class, a free STEM school for underprivileged youth. Her passion for volunteering turned into a mission to help students stay in school through the creation of Sunday Class. For this work, she was named the iVolunteer Hero Winner in 2022. Antara is also the co-founder of The Pink Engine which makes 3d-printed Indian Railway scale models. Connect with Antara on YouTube and Instagram. You can follow The Pink Engine on IG as well. Read more about Antara and her husband Anurup.
Mar 08, 202344:57
BONUS: Session 3 Financial Planning with Dr. Jay

BONUS: Session 3 Financial Planning with Dr. Jay

In this episode, Grant and I sit down with Dr. Jay at the end of January to recap how our budget went over the holidays. We also get into more detailed goal discussions. If you haven't heard our first two sessions with Dr. Jay, you can listen to them here: Session 1 Session 2 Or watch the sessions here. As you heard in this episode, I am looking to understand how my work has impacted you. Feel free to let me know via email: anna@annaolson.com. Thanks!
Mar 06, 202346:60
Creating Deep and Meaningful Friendships with Jewel Hohman

Creating Deep and Meaningful Friendships with Jewel Hohman

Jewel Hohman is a life coach who specializes in helping people feel secure and confident, while also teaching them how to create deep, meaningful friendships. In this episode, she shares what she calls the connection formula, an intentional way to build fulfilling friendships. Did you know that research shows that roughly half of our friendships change and shift every seven years? Tune into this episode to learn more about that and so much more! Connect with Jewel: Website: jewelhohman.com Instagram: @jewel.hohman Mentioned in this episode: Shasta Nelson  Looking to make more childfree friends? Join WNK-Club today!
Feb 22, 202343:42
From Childless to Childfree with Jordan

From Childless to Childfree with Jordan

In this episode, Jordan who runs the Instagram account, @violet_unexplained, shares her experience navigating IVF. After she and her husband decided to stop IVF treatments, they were faced wtih the question, "now what?" Tune into this episode to hear how they embraced being childfree after finding themselves childless.   Follow Jordan on Instagram, @violet_unexplained, and her adorable dogs Lulu and Dexter, @dachshundduderanch.   Want to join a childfree community? Check out wnk-club.com!
Feb 15, 202339:19
Spinsterhood Reimagined with Lucy Meggeson

Spinsterhood Reimagined with Lucy Meggeson

Lucy Meggeson is the creator of the incredible podcast, Spinsterhood Reimagined. Lucy is reclaiming and redefining the image of the spinster as something to be aspired to rather than pitied, feared, or avoided. She also coaches women and helps them lean into their solo lives and find freedom and fulfillment. Lucy is brilliant and this episode is not to be missed! Connect with Lucy: Email: lucy@lucymeggeson.com Website: https://www.lucymeggeson.com/ (Grab her free Top 10 Mindset Tips) Podcast: Spinsterhood Reimagined (Listen to my interview on her podcast) Instagram: @spinsterhoodreimagined Book a free 30-minute 'taster' session with Lucy Mentioned in this episode: Miracle Morning by Hal Elrod Want to join a childfree community? Check out wnk-club.com!
Feb 08, 202352:11
Are Kids For Me? with Margaret O'Connor

Are Kids For Me? with Margaret O'Connor

Margaret O’Connor has worked as a counselor and psychotherapist since 2011. She specializes in helping those who are unsure about parenthood make the right decision for them. Margaret has conducted two pieces of research regarding this topic. The first explored the role of personality factors and how they impact the decision to have kids. She also researched how women in Ireland make the decision whether or not to have children. In this episode, Margaret shares her insight and expertise in helping people navigate the decision of whether or not they want to have kids. You won't want to miss this episode! Connect with Margaret: Instagram: @arekidsforme Website: https://www.arekidsforme.ie/ Read her research: https://www.arekidsforme.ie/research-and-resources Want to join a childfree community? Check out wnk-club.com !
Feb 01, 202344:32
Best Childfree Life Possible with Jared Hansen

Best Childfree Life Possible with Jared Hansen

In this episode, I sit down with Jared Hansen the founder of the Facebook group, Best Childfree Life Possible, a community that is 9K strong. Jared co-created the Childfree Convention along with Cody Hetzel and LeNora Faye. He also created the Facebook group Childfree Runners and has organized an in-person childfree 5k walk taking place May 14th in Punt Gorda, FL at Laishley Park. Additional links mentioned in this episode: Jared's YouTube video from 2013 Laura Carroll Need a childfree t-shirt? Check out my collaboration with I Love Inspiration Avenue.
Jan 26, 202334:04
BONUS: Session 2 Financial Planning with Dr. Jay

BONUS: Session 2 Financial Planning with Dr. Jay

This bonus episode is our second coaching session with financial planner Dr. Jay Zigmont. In this session, we go over our current finances and began creating our monthly budget. If you haven't heard our first session, you can listen here: Listen to Session 1 Want to see the video footage of session 2? Watch it here. Resource mentioned in this episode: Childfree Wealth Annual Assessment Money Management System The Gardner and the Rose
Jan 23, 202354:37
Forget Having Kids, I'm Having Fun with Dane Reid

Forget Having Kids, I'm Having Fun with Dane Reid

Dane Reid is a Brooklyn, NY-born voice actor and author based in Atlanta. His voiceover work spans two decades, and his previous book, Dana the Procrastinator, was published in 2008. In his latest book, Forget Having Kids, I’m Having Fun, Dane collects anecdotes from his life and experiences from close friends. His life as the child of immigrants, his work as an after-school teacher, his passion for travel, and the complex responsibilities of raising a child are all critically examined in a child-free context. In this episode, Dane and I discuss his experience writing the book and what he hopes readers will take away from it. Buy the book: childfreebook.com Connect with Dane: danereidmedia.com __________________________   Don't forget to share, rate, and review this podcast! It helps the podcast reach more listeners. (And thank you!!) Are you looking for a community of others who are childfree? Join WNK-Club a community for those opting out of parenthood.
Jan 18, 202343:00
Embracing All of Who We Are with Dr. Morgan Levy

Embracing All of Who We Are with Dr. Morgan Levy

Dr. Morgan Levy is a psychologist and therapist who helps executives and professionals maximize their personal and professional development. In this episode, she shares tips for embracing all of who we are not just one aspect of our identities as well as how to create more balance and less burnout in our lives. This is a value-packed episode you won't want to miss! Connect with Dr. Morgan Levy: https://www.drmorganlevy.com/ __________________________ Don't forget to share, rate, and review this podcast! It helps the podcast reach more listeners. (And thank you!!) Book your free clarity call today! Are you looking for a community of others who are childfree? Join WNK-Club a community for those opting out of parenthood.
Jan 11, 202327:46
Choosing A Financial Professional with Eli Weissman

Choosing A Financial Professional with Eli Weissman

In this episode, I sit down with Eli Weissman, a Senior Private Wealth Advisor. Eli shares what to look for in selecting a financial professional as well as the top five mistakes he sees people without children making when it comes to their finances. If you’re wanting to improve your finances in 2023, don’t miss this episode. Links & Resources Mentioned in the Episode: Choosing A Financial Professional: https://www.sec.gov/brokers-and-investment-advisers-tips-chairman-jay-clayton Top Tips for Selecting a Financial Professional: https://www.sec.gov/oiea/investor-alerts-bulletins/ib_selectpro.html#.Y7NzKxtRHPI.mailto Accredited Designations: https://www.finra.org/investors/professional-designations/accredited-designations 3 Things to Know About Financial Designations:https://www.finra.org/investors/insights/financial-designations Connect with Eli: Eli’s website: www.spire-weissman.com LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/eliweissman/ Also mentioned in this episode: Childfree Financial Planning with Dr. Jay Zigmont __________________________ Don't forget to share, rate, and review this podcast! It helps the podcast reach more listeners. Book your free clarity call today! Are you looking for a community of others who are childfree? Join WNK-Club a community for those opting out of parenthood.
Jan 04, 202347:41
On Starting Childfree Millennial with Marcela

On Starting Childfree Millennial with Marcela

I finally got to sit down with the one and only Childfree Millennial. Marcela shares what it was like to realize she didn't want kids and navigate both cultural and religious pressures in doing so. She opens up about how loved ones responded to her choice and how she started her incredibly popular Instagram and YouTube accounts. We had a lot of fun recording this episode! Connect with Marcela on Instagram and YouTube. Don't forget to share, rate, and review this podcast! It helps the podcast reach more listeners. Book your free clarity call today! Are you looking for a community of others who are childfree? Join WNK-Club a community for those opting out of parenthood.
Dec 21, 202234:20
Surviving the Holidays with Lana Manikowski

Surviving the Holidays with Lana Manikowski

In this special holiday episode, Lana Manikowski shares tips for navigating those dreaded questions over the holidays. Bio Lana Manikowski is a fertility survivor, dog mom, and life coach for women looking to create meaningful lives without motherhood. In this episode, she shares how she came to love her life without kids and how she helps clients do the same. Connect with Lana Instagram: @lana.manikowski Podcast: The So Now What Podcast Mastermind: Thrive After Infertility Connect with Anna (host) annaolson.com @coachannaolson wnk-club.com
Dec 18, 202244:50
Asking 'Why' with Nikki W

Asking 'Why' with Nikki W

Nikki is an artist, designer, photographer, entrepreneur, and podcaster. Nikki shares her childfree journey along with a pivotal moment in her life that lead her to ask the question "why?" Connect with Nikki: Her website: iloveinspirationavenue.com Email here: iloveinspirationave@gmail.com Connect with her in WNK-Club: wnk-club.com Shop the childfree merch collection from Nikki and me: https://www.iloveinspirationavenue.com/shop?Collection=Childfree
Dec 14, 202242:51
The Unapologetically Childfree Collective with Maggie Dickens

The Unapologetically Childfree Collective with Maggie Dickens

Maggie Dickens is a licensed professional counselor and childfree millennial in Texas. In addition to providing mental health support for her private practice clients, she’s also an online community builder for women who are childfree by choice or circumstances. Her online group, "the unapologetically childfree collective," is a place for women to find friends with similar values and encouragement to enhance and maximize their lives. She shares her personal decision to be childfree and the importance of choice, boundaries and friendships. 0:00 Teaser 1:00 TikTok 2:20 About Maggie 5:30 1:1 vs group settings 10:00 Finding identity 12:30 “yes” life 18:30 Untamed 20:00 Maggie’s child-free choice 30:00 Friendship and boundaries 39:04 More than a label 40:30 Final thoughts 43:30 Connect with Maggie Maggie Dickens https://maggiedickens.com/freestarterpack https://maggiedickens.com/collective TikTok @childfreecoach_maggie Mentioned Untamed by Glennon Doyle Anna Marie Olson https://www.instagram.com/coachannaolson/ Free Clarity Call Join our private childfree community to find friendship and support (wnk-club.com)
Dec 07, 202245:20
Childfree, Child-free, or Child Free with Cody Hetzel

Childfree, Child-free, or Child Free with Cody Hetzel

Cody is the creator of the micro-networking site Childfree Family, where he launched the first interactive map to help childfree people find others around the world. He also co-founded the Childfree Convention as well as Childfree Media. Cody works to amplify the work of other childfree content creators to help broaden the reach of the childfree community. Connect with Cody via email at info@childfreefamily.com or join his micro-networking site Childfree Family and connect with him and other childfree members there! Check out BuyChildfreeByChildfree. __________________________ Curious to know what it's like to work with a childfree life coach? Book your free 45-minute clarity call with podcast host and life coach, Anna Olson, to find out! I can't wait to talk with you!
Nov 30, 202254:10
Life as a Childfree Polynesian New Zealander with Jake Punimata

Life as a Childfree Polynesian New Zealander with Jake Punimata

Jake Punimata originally thought he'd one day have kids, that was until he realized it was a choice. He is from Auckland, New Zealand, and of Niuean descent (Polynesian/Island in the South Pacific). Jake spends his days as a youth worker advocating for kids (Specialist in Mental Health) and is studying Social Work at University with the goal of creating policy change to better protect at-risk youth. Connect with Jake on Instagram: @jakepunimataphotos and @childfreenewzealand Resources: https://snip.co.nz/  (For childfree males in NZ who want to get a vasectomy.) https://www.ctvnews.ca/lifestyle/gen-z-millennials-speak-out-on-reluctance-to-become-parents-1.6048148   https://www.familyplanning.org.nz/   https://www.samoaobserver.ws/category/contributors/98597 ___________________________________________________ Want to meet and connect with others who have also chosen not to have kids? Join a growing global network of childfree people today: wnk-club.com
Nov 23, 202237:05
BONUS: Session 1 Financial Planning with Dr. Jay

BONUS: Session 1 Financial Planning with Dr. Jay

This bonus episode is the first coaching session with Dr. Jay Zigmont. My husband Grant and I will be receiving coaching monthly from Dr. Jay and are sharing the sessions in hopes that they will help other childfree people learn more about financial planning as individuals without kids. This was a very vulnerable session and we are so grateful to Dr. Jay for his expert coaching. You can learn more about financial planning and get tips from Dr. Jay at childfreewealth.com. And you can read Dr. Jay's blog featuring this session here: https://childfreewealth.com/blog/introductory-meeting-cfp
Nov 21, 202257:07
Childfree Financial Planning with Dr. Jay Zigmont

Childfree Financial Planning with Dr. Jay Zigmont

In this episode, Dr. Jay Zigmont shares his tips and expertise as a Childfree Financial Planner. If you've ever wondered who will take care of you when you're older. You won't want to miss this episode as he shares how to prepare for old age when you don't have kids. Dr. Jay Zigmont and his wife are childfree and live in Water Valley, MS. He has a Ph.D. in Adult Learning from the University of Connecticut and is a CERTIFIED FINANCIAL PLANNER™ and Childfree Wealth Specialist. He is the founder of Childfree Wealth, a life and financial planning firm specializing in helping Childfree Individuals. He has been featured in Fortune, Forbes, Wall Street Journal, New York Times, Business Insider, Woman’s World, Investors Business Daily, FinancialPlanning, and many other publications. Connect with Dr. Jay: Check out his website, follow him on Instagram, and follow him on LinkedIn. ___________________________________________________ Want to meet and connect with others who have also chosen not to have kids? Join a growing global network of childfree people today: wnk-club.com
Nov 16, 202245:20
Childfree & Nurturing with Mireille Robinson

Childfree & Nurturing with Mireille Robinson

Mireille Robinson is passionate about helping others know they are not alone. As a homeless domestic violence specialist, she has devoted her career to creating safe spaces for others. Her compassion, empathy, and faith fuel her. Mireille also makes time to podcast and empower others through Beauty With A Cause, Mentally Aspiring Podcast (available on Spotify and Apple Podcasts). Connect with Mireille on Instagram: @wise_girl_dear_heart ___________________________________________________ Want to meet and connect with others who have also chosen not to have kids? Join a growing global network of childfree people today: wnk-club.com
Nov 09, 202221:59
A Glimpse Inside the Life of a Childfree Content Creator with LeNora Faye

A Glimpse Inside the Life of a Childfree Content Creator with LeNora Faye

LeNora is a childfree lifestyle advocate, speaker, and moderator who creates global platforms, both public and private, for people who are choosing not to birth or raise children. She is a co-founder of Childfree Media, a co-host of the international podcast and web series, Childfree Girls, and serves as PR manager and co-moderator for Childfree Convention. Connect with LeNora on Instagram: @childfreeblog Watch the Childfree Convention. Check out, Childfree Girls. ______________________ Want to meet and connect with others who have also chosen not to have kids? Join a growing global network of childfree people today: wnk-club.com
Nov 02, 202258:48
A Turning Point with Rob Hosking

A Turning Point with Rob Hosking

Rob had never given much thought to whether or not he wanted kids. After a turning point in his life, that changed. Not only did Rob realize he didn't want kids, but shortly after he made the choice permanent by getting a vasectomy. Rob is passionate about helping others in their times of crisis and improving their overall wellbeing. Having navigated his own mental health experiences, he is on a journey to help others ensure they live the life they want, instead of what society demands. Together with his partner Kaigan, he founded a free wellbeing magazine, Rise of Happiness, which aims to provide inspirational and uplifting stories. Connect with Rob: LinkedIn ______________________ Want to meet and connect with others who have also chosen not to have kids? Join a growing global network of childfree people today: wnk-club.com
Oct 26, 202244:58
One Woman's Sterilization Experience with Zoë

One Woman's Sterilization Experience with Zoë

Zoë is a childfree woman living in Kentucky with her husband and their two corgis. She is the creator of a childfree-focused blog called "Not Kidding." Recently Zoë decided to make her childfree choice permanent by undergoing a bilateral salpingectomy. She shares her experience in this episode and how she arrived at this decision. Submit questions for the upcoming sterilization Q&A episode: Submit a voice memo through Anchor Submit written questions via email to anna@annaolson.com Resources mentioned in the episode: Sterilization Build A Binder Site Study on Sterilization and Regret Childfree Friendly Doctors List Connect with Zoë: Not Kidding Blog Instagram ______________________ Want to meet and connect with others who have also chosen not to have kids? Join a growing global network of childfree people today: wnk-club.com
Oct 19, 202253:26
Childfree in India with Hamsa

Childfree in India with Hamsa

Hamsa is a digital marketing professional from India. She is passionate about intersectional feminism and human rights. Hamsa shares her perspective and experience as a childfree woman living in India. It's a conversation you won't want to miss! Connect with Hamsa: hamsanandini97@gmail.com  ______________________ Want to meet and connect with others who have also chosen not to have kids? Join a growing global network of childfree people: wnk-club.com
Oct 12, 202259:54
A Conversation With Hannah, Wife Without Kids

A Conversation With Hannah, Wife Without Kids

In this episode, I got to sit down with Hannah, Wife Without Kids. Hannah shares her childfree experience and opens up about how she got started creating childfree content. Do you know what kind of content she created before she put out childfree content? Listen to find out! Here are Hannah's YouTube videos referenced in our conversation: Her first ever childfree YouTube video. The one with the awesome Christmas tree. Follow Hannah on Instagram and YouTube. ______________________ Want to meet and connect with others who have also chosen not to have kids? Join a growing global network of childfree people: wnk-club.com
Oct 05, 202247:30
 A Well-Curated and Purposeful Life with Kaigan Carrie

A Well-Curated and Purposeful Life with Kaigan Carrie

This week's guest is the lovely Kaigan Carrie. Kaigan is passionate about improving well-being and encouraging people to live an aligned life that brings them joy. She is eager to improve prisons around the world to make them places of growth and transformation. When she's not working to improve prison systems, Kaigan spends her time pursuing her interests as an avid travel lover, foodie, and personal development enthusiast. In our conversation, Kaigan shares her childfree experience, along with how her parents have responded, the common bingos she's received, and what a well-lived life entails for her. Connect with Kaigan on Instagram: @kaigancarrie (personal) @riseofhappinessltd (business) @evolvingprisons (podcast) Download the latest copy of Kaigan and her partner's well-being magazine, Rise Of Happiness. Listen to Kaigan's podcast, Evolving Prisons, on Anchor, Spotify, or Apple Podcasts. ______________________ Join a growing global network of childfree people: wnk-club.com
Sep 28, 202252:24
Researching Single, Never-Married, Childfree Women of Color with Kimberly Martinez Phillips

Researching Single, Never-Married, Childfree Women of Color with Kimberly Martinez Phillips

Kimberly Martinez Phillips is a Doctoral Candidate at Memorial University in Newfoundland and Labrador. Her dissertation studies single, never-married, childfree women of color. She has a bachelor’s degree in both Cultural Anthropology and Criminology, a master’s in Sociology, and has been teaching sociology courses in colleges and universities for over 24 years. Previous to her work in academia she was a Program Director, Jury Consultant, Local Evaluator, Safety Educator, and Health Educator working in extremely diverse communities. In this episode, Kimberly shares what is coming to light from her research interviewing single, never-married, childfree women of color. We also talk about her past study on the portrayal of the single woman in films and how what she's learning from her research participants is that they are gloriously happy and fulfilled counter to the crazy cat lady narrative. Follow and connect with Kimberly: Website: ichoosefeminism.com Twitter: @ichoosefeminism Instagram: @kimmartinezphillips Listen to additional interviews featuring Kimberly Martinez Phillips: New Legacy Radio Spinsterhood Reimagined ______________________ Join a growing global network of childfree people: wnk-club.com
Sep 21, 202201:06:56
Solo Episode: Regret

Solo Episode: Regret

I share my thoughts on regret along with a couple of tips for anyone who is conflicted about having kids and fears regret. Let me know what you think of this episode. DM me on Instagram or email me your thoughts at anna@annaolson.com Learn more about the We're Not Kidding Club.
Sep 07, 202218:20
From Three to None with "Kelly"

From Three to None with "Kelly"

This week's guest chose to remain anonymous, going by "Kelly" for our interview. She is a pediatric dentist who loves kids and once dreamed of having three of her own but ultimately decided on none. I found her story incredibly powerful. Please know there is mention of death and loss in this episode. Learn more about the We're Not Kidding Club.
Aug 31, 202254:09
Deconstructing and Reconstructing Faith as a Childfree Christian with Courtney Clucas

Deconstructing and Reconstructing Faith as a Childfree Christian with Courtney Clucas

Courtney Clucas is a digital nomad who owns her own business and travels full-time with her husband. Courtney opens up about her realization that she didn't want to have kids and how that impacted her faith as a Christian. She also shares how she and her husband who wants kids have navigated this together. You can follow Courtney's van life adventures on Instagram and TikTok. Learn more about the We're Not Kidding Club.
Aug 25, 202240:21
Navigating Being Childfree as a Couple with Kenn & Renee

Navigating Being Childfree as a Couple with Kenn & Renee

Renee and Kenn of Aussies Without Kids share their experience wrestling with the question of whether or not to have kids. This is an incredibly vulnerable and sincere conversation. Their passion for helping others feel validated in their choice is evident in their message as well as the work they are doing through social media. You can follow them on YouTube and Instagram. Learn more about the We're Not Kidding Club.
Aug 17, 202201:01:58
On Never Regretting Her Childfreedom with Marcia Drut-Davis

On Never Regretting Her Childfreedom with Marcia Drut-Davis

I got to sit down with a childfree icon! Marcia Drut-Davis is the childfree guru and a pioneer in the childfree movement. She has written two best-selling books: “Confessions of A Childfree Woman” and “What? You Don’t Want Children?” And has now appeared in two documentaries revolving around the idea of being childfree which are, “To Kid or Not To Kid” by Maxine Trump, and, “My So-Called Selfish Life” by Therese Shechter.  Marcia talks about the backlash she received after 60-Minutes aired a conversation between her, her then-husband, and her in-laws. During which she and her husband expressed their desire not to have kids. She also talks about her passion for uplifting and celebrating the childfree choice.  Connect with Marcia on Instagram and Facebook. Learn more about the We're Not Kidding Club.
Aug 10, 202248:06
Wild Egg with Jennifer Flint (Part 2 of 2)

Wild Egg with Jennifer Flint (Part 2 of 2)

Jennifer Flint's debut novel, Wild Egg, is a delicious story about one woman's search for her childfree life. From ambivalence to clarity and beyond, I was hooked from page one. In part one of this two-part episode, Jennifer shares her own childfree experience. In part two, we dive into all things Wild Egg! Follow and connect with Jennifer Flint on Instagram: @wildegg21 and Twitter: @jenniferflint5 Get your copy of Wild Egg. Learn more about the We're Not Kidding Club: wnk-club.com
Aug 03, 202250:01
Wild Egg with Jennifer Flint (Part 1 of 2)

Wild Egg with Jennifer Flint (Part 1 of 2)

Jennifer Flint's debut novel, Wild Egg, is a delicious story about one woman's search for her childfree life. From ambivalence to clarity and beyond, I was hooked from page one. In part one of this two-part episode, Jennifer shares her own childfree experience. In part 2 we dive into all things Wild Egg!  This is an episode with lots of twists and turns. Strap in, it's a fun one! Follow Jennifer Flint on Instagram: @wildegg21 Get your copy of Wild Egg. Learn more about the We're Not Kidding Club: wnk-club.com
Jul 28, 202244:59
Therese Shechter: On Pronatalism & Her Documentary "My So-Called Selfish Life"

Therese Shechter: On Pronatalism & Her Documentary "My So-Called Selfish Life"

I had the insane honor of sitting down to record a podcast with the award-winning documentary filmmaker, Therese Shechter. She shares her process of making the film as well as what she was surprised to learn in the process. This is an episode you won't want to miss! Therese's film will be available to stream from July 29-August 1 in celebration of International Childfree Day. You can buy a ticket and learn more about the film here.  In the episode, Therese mentioned that the Childfree Convention takes place the same weekend as her film screening. You can find more info on that here. Connect with Therese: Facebook Instagram: @trixiefilms, @mysocalledselfishlife Check out her other documentaries. Watch the Filmmaker Conversations Recordings Additional resources mentioned in this conversation: Article: The Clock is Ticking for the Career Woman New Legacy Institute Population Balance Nobibsburpsbottles Dr. Kimya Nuru Dennis Learn more about the We're Not Kidding Club: wnk-club.com
Jul 22, 202258:45
Tara Wells: Assertiveness & The Childfree Choice

Tara Wells: Assertiveness & The Childfree Choice

Tara works as a therapist and a life coach. In this conversation, she shares her experience dating as a childfree woman and the cultural expectations that come with it. We also talk about the harm caused by society holding up motherhood as the default path for women. It's a great conversation that you won't want to miss! Connect with Tara Instagram: @finishlinemindset TikTok: @finishlinemindset  Join WNK-Club: wnk-club.com
Jul 18, 202246:06
Lee & Lindsay: A Conversation With My Childfree Role Models

Lee & Lindsay: A Conversation With My Childfree Role Models

Lee and Lindsay are two of my favorite people. I met them ten years ago through my husband and they've had a huge impact on both of us. I'm honored to share their story and wisdom with you in this episode. If you have questions for Lee & Lindsay to answer on our follow-up episode you can submit them by email to anna@annaolson.com. Or submit a voice memo by going to https://anchor.fm/anna-marie-olson/message Learn more about the We're Not Kidding Club: wnk-club.com
Jul 13, 202247:25
Podcast Update

Podcast Update

Due to technical difficulties, today's episode is going to be rescheduled. In the meantime, get your questions ready. I will sit down with Lee & Lindy, who have 40 years of experience as a childfree couple. They have already suggested we do a follow-up episode to answer listener questions. So be on the lookout. We'll put a call out for questions once their episode airs. Stay tuned!
Jul 01, 202200:52
Sina Scheithauer: On Her Experience & Work As A Childfree Coach

Sina Scheithauer: On Her Experience & Work As A Childfree Coach

Sina is a life coach for childfree women. She shares her own experience as a childfree woman as well as what she's learned from working with childfree clients. She has a lot of wisdom to share. You won't want to miss this conversation. You can connect with Sina through her website and her Instagram account @sinascheithauer. If you'd like to schedule a call with me, the host, Anna Olson, you can reach out to me via email at anna@annaolson.com. Learn more about the We're Not Kidding Club: wnk-club.com
Jun 27, 202237:37
Ilinca Roibu: Shares Her Research On Childfree Women

Ilinca Roibu: Shares Her Research On Childfree Women

Ilinca conducted research on the lived experiences of childfree women for her undergraduate dissertation. We talk about her experience doing this research and what she learned from interviewing 13 childfree women residing in Western English-speaking countries.  You can read Ilinca's dissertation here.  You can share your thoughts and feedback with Ilinca by connecting with her on Instagram, @ilincaroibu. Learn more about the We're Not Kidding Club: wnk-club.com
Jun 15, 202240:49
Robin: A Conversation Between CF Friends

Robin: A Conversation Between CF Friends

This is a very special episode for me. I sat down with one of my dearest friends, Robin. For the first time in our 20-year friendship, we have an in-depth conversation about the fact that we're both childfree and what that means to us and our friendship. Learn more about the We're Not Kidding Club: wnk-club.com
Jun 09, 202249:08
Mary Benbenek: On Navigating Dating & Friendships While Being Childfree

Mary Benbenek: On Navigating Dating & Friendships While Being Childfree

Mary shares her journey of leaving the engineering field to start a coaching practice. We also talk about her experiences dating as a childfree woman and navigating the changing dynamics of friendship as friends become parents. If you're interested in any of the topics or resources Mary and I touched on (and the ones we didn't), send her an email here and ask for her resource guide. She'll happily share the books, ideologies, and websites that have been transformative for her. You can email her at merrilymaryjean@gmail.com. You can also connect with Mary on her Instagram accounts: @marybenbenek and @merrilymaryjean Learn more about the We're Not Kidding Club: wnk-club.com
Jun 03, 202247:22
Liz Combdon: On Finding Contentment

Liz Combdon: On Finding Contentment

Liz shares her deeply personal journey navigating an unexpected experience in her childfree life. After going through something she never envisioned, she reconnects to herself and her purpose, finding contentment along the way. You won't want to miss this episode! Liz is a wildly successful entrepreneur. She runs three businesses, all of which can be found on Instagram: @seasaltandtwig @lizcombdonwellness @puravidahomestead Learn more about the We're Not Kidding Club: wnk-club.com
May 19, 202250:31
Keltie Maguire: Living By Design Rather Than Default

Keltie Maguire: Living By Design Rather Than Default

Keltie is a clarity coach who specializes in helping business leaders and entrepreneurs. In this episode, she shares her story and applies her clarity expertise to the topic of being childfree.  Here are the four questions she discusses in the episode: What would I choose if ____'s perspective didn't matter? What would I choose if I knew that the outcome was guaranteed? What if I can be fulfilled either way? What do I stand to gain if I decide to be childfree? For even more clarity questions from Keltie, you can access her clarity guide here. You can connect with Keltie on Instagram, LinkedIn, or through her website.
Apr 04, 202239:49
Solo Episode: Limiting Beliefs

Solo Episode: Limiting Beliefs

When deciding whether or not to have kids, if you're not 100% sure one way or the other, limiting beliefs can trip you up and keep you stuck from moving forward with your life. I talk through some common limiting beliefs I've seen come up concerning this decision, as well as how to identify the limiting beliefs that might be keeping you stuck and how to move through them. Let me know what you think of this episode. DM me on Instagram or email me your thoughts at anna@annaolson.com
Mar 17, 202219:55
Shweta Ramkumar: On Finding Childfree Community

Shweta Ramkumar: On Finding Childfree Community

Shweta is passionate about all things childfree. She has written numerous blogs and has been instrumental in bringing childfree people together in Melbourne where she lives. Connect with Shweta on Instagram: @childfreesrbuddysmum Watch other interviews with Shweta:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5g2FkiUznVk&list=PLrKJQMlU-aAmDEG6RQ34g4h_06B85CLEN&index=3 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PCC_eRcxxI8&list=PLrKJQMlU-aAmDEG6RQ34g4h_06B85CLEN&index=1 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YkAPaUqGYhg&list=PLrKJQMlU-aAmDEG6RQ34g4h_06B85CLEN&index=4
Mar 10, 202234:17
Maddie Beange: The Joy & Freedom of Deciding to be CF

Maddie Beange: The Joy & Freedom of Deciding to be CF

Maddie shares how she came to the decision to be childfree and the freedom she felt making that choice. Connect with Maddie on Instagram: @bibliomaddiac
Feb 28, 202252:15
Alanna Harris: On Knowing At 18 She Was Childfree

Alanna Harris: On Knowing At 18 She Was Childfree

Alanna shares her insights and experiences in becoming confident in her decision to be childfree and her ability to meet people where they're at, even when they don't understand her choice.  Connect with Alanna through her AlannaAccessories accounts on Instagram, Facebook, and Etsy.
Feb 10, 202252:58
Patty Thornicroft: Travel & The Childfree Lifestyle

Patty Thornicroft: Travel & The Childfree Lifestyle

Patty shares her experience as a childfree woman and avid traveler. She's been to 75 countries and counting and doesn't have a single regret for deciding to be childfree. Connect with Patty on Instagram and check out her amazing travel photos: @pattytraveladventures
Feb 03, 202242:23
Solo Episode: Thoughts On "Real Love"

Solo Episode: Thoughts On "Real Love"

Most of us have heard the saying, "You don't know what love is until you have a child." In this bonus episode, I share some thoughts on what's problematic about this saying. Let me know what you think of this episode. DM me on Instagram or email me your thoughts at anna@annaolson.com
Jan 24, 202208:34
Usha Sitaaraam: Only You Can Decide What's Right For You

Usha Sitaaraam: Only You Can Decide What's Right For You

Usha shares her journey to deciding to be childfree. She and her husband went from thinking they'd have kids, to contemplating adoption, and ended up choosing to be childfree.  Connect with Usha through Instagram @ushasita and check out her blog, Le coin des Bobby.
Jan 21, 202242:14
Emma Duval: Childfree, Childless, & Single Women Throughout History

Emma Duval: Childfree, Childless, & Single Women Throughout History

Emma shares her childfree story in addition to her research on women throughout history who were childfree, childless, and/or single.  Connect with Emma through Instagram @millennialemma and Twitter @MillennialEmma.
Nov 21, 202101:04:04
Erin Bailey: Being Childfree & Working In The Beauty & Wellness Industry

Erin Bailey: Being Childfree & Working In The Beauty & Wellness Industry

Erin Bailey shares her story as a childfree individual working in the beauty and wellness industry. We also talk about internalized messages and systems that don't support women. Connect with Erin through Instagram: @erinlaurabailey
Nov 14, 202124:60
Jerra Mitchell: Unfertilized Eggs

Jerra Mitchell: Unfertilized Eggs

Jerra Mitchell started her company, Unfertilized Eggs, to support childfree and childless women. Jerra is someone who understands both experiences and supports women in living and speaking their truth.  Connect with Jerra: Email: info@unfertilizedeggs.com Instagram: @unferilizedeggs Website: https://unfertilizedeggs.com/ YouTube: Unfertilized Eggs
Nov 07, 202131:16
Grant Olson: My Husband Shares His Side Of Our Childfree Story

Grant Olson: My Husband Shares His Side Of Our Childfree Story

Grant Olson is not just an amazing, talented human. He happens to be my husband. In this episode, he shares his experience navigating the childfree decision.  Grant and I aren't fully aligned as a couple on the childfree decision. Tune in to hear how we handle this in our relationship.
Oct 17, 202134:20
LiLi Roquelin: On Writing & Producing Her Song "Childfree"

LiLi Roquelin: On Writing & Producing Her Song "Childfree"

LiLi Roquelin is a New York City-based, award-winning songwriter-producer with songs featured on TV and Film. This September she released her song "Childfree." In this episode, she shares the story behind the song as well as her experience as a childfree woman. Listen to "Childfree": https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Oz6eBLCwmR0 Connect with LiLi: Official website and all music platforms links: http://liliroquelin.com Instagram: http://instagram.com/liliroquelin Twitter: http://twitter.com/liliroquelin Youtube: http://youtube.com/liliroquelin
Oct 10, 202134:37
Kelsie Bentley: Happily Childfree

Kelsie Bentley: Happily Childfree

Kelsie is a self-care coach. After experiencing burnout in her career she learned to find balance in her life. Recognizing her childfree desire was a final piece to the puzzle. Connect with Kelsie on Instagram: @simplybentley
Oct 03, 202138:24
Samantha Tirado: Being Childfree & Working In A Child-Based Career

Samantha Tirado: Being Childfree & Working In A Child-Based Career

Samantha has known from a young age she never wanted kids, but that didn't stop her from dedicating her career to helping children. She genuinely loves kids and shares how being childfree has helped her better serve the children who are already here. Connect with Samantha: @_50_shades_of_green_ Reproductive Coercion Resources: https://utswmed.org/medblog/reproductive-coercion/ https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/relationships/healthy-relationships/what-sexual-and-reproductive-control https://www.washingtonpost.com/health/pregnancy-pressure-domestic-abuse/2021/03/12/ff9d0b2e-7f7b-11eb-9ca6-54e187ee4939_story.html
Sep 26, 202129:10
Trixy Godart: Being At Peace With Deciding To Be Childfree

Trixy Godart: Being At Peace With Deciding To Be Childfree

Trixy shares her childfree journey and how she came to be at peace with her decision. You won't want to miss this episode! Connect with Trixy on Instagram: @trixy_beatrice and don't miss her adorable bunnies @doubletrouble_bunbuns
Sep 19, 202101:00:25
Ruchi Patel: Realizing Motherhood Is A Choice

Ruchi Patel: Realizing Motherhood Is A Choice

Ruchi Patel shares the moment she realized motherhood was an option. She'd always thought she'd have one child because one felt manageable, but all that changed when she realized she didn't have to have any. She also talks about the cultural pressures of growing up in India.  Connect with Ruchi on Instagram: @ruchipatel7 (personal account) and @orion_laketonebula (photography account)
Sep 12, 202142:26
Maggie Juen: On Always Knowing She Never Wanted Kids

Maggie Juen: On Always Knowing She Never Wanted Kids

Maggie Juen has always known since she was young that she didn't want kids. She's someone who has carved her own path her entire life. But in her mid-twenties, someone's comment caused her to start questioning herself and wondering if being childfree would make certain goals unattainable. You can connect with Maggie on her two Instagram accounts: @maggiecjuen and @house_inthe_hills
Aug 29, 202159:07
Kimberly Fisher: It's Okay To Not Like Kids

Kimberly Fisher: It's Okay To Not Like Kids

Kimberly Fisher is a childfree advocate who started sharing her story on Instagram a couple of years ago. In doing so, she discovered an incredible community of other childfree individuals. In today's episode, she talks about many aspects of her childfree experience and how not liking kids is taboo even within the childfree community. You can connect with Kimberly on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kimberlyfisher.cf/ Blog: https://kimberlyfisherblogs.com/
Aug 22, 202158:18
Kristin Hart Bowers: How To Figure Out Whether Or Not You Want Kids

Kristin Hart Bowers: How To Figure Out Whether Or Not You Want Kids

Kristin Hart Bowers shares her process for coming to her decision of whether or not kids were right for her. This was prompted when her husband decided he didn't want kids and she faced a big decision. Find out how she handled this in today's episode. Connect with Kristin: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hartswell_stitch/ or https://www.instagram.com/hartswell_khb/ Email: kristin@hartswell.org
Aug 15, 202144:40
Jill Vanden Heuvel: Deciding to Be Childfree After Marriage

Jill Vanden Heuvel: Deciding to Be Childfree After Marriage

Jill Vanden Heuvel wanted kids when she met her husband but decided to be childfree shortly after getting married. Tune in to hear how she came to the decision.  Jill is a life coach who helps frustrated overachievers find peace and fulfillment. Connect with her here: Instagram https://www.instagram.com/jill.vhcoaching/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/coach.jillvh Website jillvh.com
Aug 08, 202144:49
My Childfree Story

My Childfree Story

In this episode, I share my journey to making the decision to be childfree. It wasn't something I had planned on. In fact, I always thought I'd become a mom. Listen to hear why I changed my mind.
Jul 31, 202120:25