
HER Dating & Relationship Secrets
By HER Dating and Relationship Secrets
HER Dating and Relationship Secrets helps women who are successful at everything, except with men, dating and relationships. I give you a daily action to attract, create and maintain a lasting, healthy relationship! Subscribe, turn Notifications “On” and share the show with everyone you know!

HER Dating & Relationship SecretsMay 09, 2023
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How To Tell If A Man Is Secure or Insecure
Barry shares “How To Tell If A Man Is Secure or Insecure”!
May 09, 202306:09

You’re Worth The Effort!
Barry shares how to connect with the part of you that completely KNOWS and SHOWS “You’re Worth The Effort!”
May 09, 202304:44

Romance vs Routine
Barry explains the importance of breaking your routine, and how you can bring romance into your life whether you are single or in a relationship!
May 09, 202303:45

Why Men Don’t Open Up Emotionally
Barry shares “Why Men Don’t Open Up Emotionally” and what to do about it!
May 09, 202307:09

What To Do If You Want Him Back
What To Do If You Want Him Back
May 09, 202305:46

“He’s actually TOO nice!”
When my client said “He’s actually TOO nice!” we went deep on why she felt that way. In this episode I share the reasons this feeling can come up, some of which are healthy and some of which are unhealthy — and what to do about it.
May 09, 202305:04

Exercise To Find Out Your Relationship Beliefs
Exercise To Find Out Your Relationship Beliefs
May 09, 202306:35

Your Family Story and Your Relationships
Your Family Story and Your Relationships
May 09, 202303:53

What Is Love?
What Is Love?
May 09, 202305:57

A Quick Way To Boost Your Dating & Relationships
Barry shares a quick, easy, but overlooked way to improve your dating and relationships!
May 09, 202304:31

Do’s And Don’ts for Keeping The Spark Alive
Do’s And Don’ts for Keeping The Spark Alive
May 09, 202304:34

How To Respond To A Text That Upsets You
How To Respond To A Text That Upsets You
May 09, 202307:04

Levels of Consciousness In Relationships
Levels of Consciousness In Relationships
May 09, 202304:53

Is It Me or Him? (Telling Old Issues From Real Problems)
How To Tell If Its Your ‘Issues’ or His ‘Issues’ Causing Problems
May 09, 202305:19

Breakups (“Why”)
Breakups (Understanding The Importance of “Why”)
May 09, 202305:30

The Workplace, Dating, Relationships & Boundaries
The Workplace
May 09, 202304:46

The Biggest Turn-Off For Men
The Biggest Turn-Off For Men
May 09, 202304:10

Why Your Relationships Aren’t How You Want Them To Be (Julia’s Story)
Why You Relationships Aren’t How You Want Them To Be
May 09, 202306:07

The Healthy And Unhealthy Way To Choose Being Single
The Healthy And Unhealthy Way To Choose Being Single
May 09, 202306:01

Spring, Love & Attraction Are In The Air!
Spring Fever Is In The Air! How to embrace this re-awakening season in your dating and relationships!
May 09, 202303:43

Is Your Self-Worth Performative? (Are You Always the Do-er)
Is Your Self-Worth Performative? (Are You Always the Do-er)
May 09, 202305:56

The Biggest Difference Between A Weak & A Strong Man
The Biggest Difference Between A Weak & A Strong Man
May 09, 202307:49

Can You ‘Make’ Someone Fall In Love With You?
Can You ‘Make’ Someone Fall In Love With You?
May 09, 202305:57

“Why Am I Always With Emotionally-Unavailable Partners?”
“Why Am I Always With Emotionally-Unavailable Partners?”
May 09, 202305:16

What To Do Before Holidays & Special Occasions
What To Do Before Holidays & Special Occasions
May 09, 202307:04

Giving and Getting Physical Affection (Mary’s Story)
Giving and Getting Physical Affection (Mary’s Story)
May 09, 202305:34

Respect and Loss of Respect
Respect and Loss of Respect
May 09, 202305:47

Are You Mistaking Chemistry For Connection?
Are You Mistaking Chemistry For Connection?
May 09, 202308:37

Why You Want A Good Man AND The Bad Boy
Why You Want A Good Man AND The Bad Boy
May 09, 202308:59

Family
Family
May 09, 202303:50

Conflict, Criticism & Control
Conflict, Criticism & Control
May 09, 202307:47

Does Love Last? (It Can, Here's How)
Barry shares his thoughts when he was asked “How long does love last?”. He shares the elements necessary for lasting love, amd also how to know when it’s time to let it go.
Jan 30, 202306:20

Turning Old Dating & Relationship Fear Into Excitement
Barry teaches us to discern healthy from unhealthy fear, and gives an example of how unhealthy fear based on the past can get in the way of letting the good in our life today. He gives a simple exercise to move from fear to excitement.
Jan 30, 202305:01

How To Chase Your Dream While Having. Healthy Relationship
In this episode Barry shares that we do not have to choose between our dream or a healthy relationship, in fact you MUST create both! He describes common pitfalls that prevent powerful women from having both, and how you CAN!
Jan 30, 202305:56

Where To Meet Quality Men
Barry shares the secret spot all the good men have been hiding in, with a twist!
Jan 30, 202305:22

“The Window” (The ONLY Way To Get A Man To Grow & Change)
Barry describes how most men are reluctant to do self-help, personal development, spiritual, therapeutic and coaching work — despite their woman doing it! He shares how to get a guy to do the emotional and spiritual work a couple needs to have a healthy relationship. He teaches us about “The Window”, something he has learned about men and willingness. Once you understand The Window, you can get any man to become more willing to change!
Jan 30, 202305:41

Letting Go of Someone
“Letting Go Of Someone” shares how to let go of a person and relationship that is not healthy for you anymore, or never was. Instead of just will-powering your way through it, Barry shares a gentler approach to releasing that attachment.
Jan 30, 202303:58

Kissing
Kissing! It tells us SO much about the emotional content of a relationship! Barry describes the emotional content of different types of kisses amd what they mean! He then leaves you with something to consider about your next kiss.
Jan 30, 202305:43

Freeing Your Present Dating & Relationships From Past Trauma
In this episode, Barry describes how past trauma affects your current dating and relationships. He shares about Complex Trauma, and the relational aspects of trauma. He then provides a path to spotting and clearing the destructive effects of past trauma on your relationships today.
Jan 30, 202307:21

Re-Wiring Self-Worth Around Men (Pam’s Story)
Barry tells the story of Pam, a successful woman who struggled to maintain her worthiness in relationships with men. He also shares how Pam overcame this pattern and rewired her self-worth around men! Check this out if you’re successful but find men amd relationships challenging!
Jan 30, 202307:14

Your Brain and Men (Cognitive Distortion)
Barry describes how your friend, the Brain, can give bad advice with good intentions. He describes the protective measures called Cognitive Distortion amd their drastic effects of you, and your dating and relationships. He pulls back the curtain on some very common cognitive distortions and invites you to see if your brain may be doing this too!
Jan 30, 202305:23

How To Make Any Conversation, Date, or Romantic Moment Go Well
Barry describes a technique used in behavior change and by high performers to decrease stress and increase your odds of success on ANY dating or relationship situation. This works for approaching men, initiating conversations, going on dates, romantic moments with a partner, difficult conversations with a partner, or any situation in your personal or professional life. Don’t miss this — it’s simple and effective!
Jan 30, 202305:41

You Come First
Barry describes how we often choose to put our needs last to avoid conflict or disappointment, or to get the conditional love we crave. He challenges us to step up today and show ourselves we matter with ONE simple action!
Jan 30, 202305:03

Appreciation Will Change Your Dating and Relationships
Barry shares how appreciative he is of you, his listeners, and how to apply three forma of appreciation to instantly improve your feelings and focus around dating and relationships! You’ll have a better day if you listen to this!
Jan 30, 202304:35

How To Be Independent But Not Alone
How To Be Independent But Not Alone
Jan 30, 202304:09

The REAL Reason Men Fall In Love (and Stay!)
The REAL Reason Men Fall In Love (and Stay!)
Jan 30, 202305:05

Getting Out Of Your Head (Stop Over-Thinking)
Getting Out Of Your Head (Stop Over-Thinking)
Jan 30, 202304:04

Connecting With Love Again
Connecting With Love Again
Jan 30, 202304:57

The Biggest Turn-Off For Men
The Biggest Turn-Off For Men
Jan 30, 202304:10

Cuffing Season (aka How Cold Weather and The Holidays Make Us Couple-Up)
The Phenomenon Called Cuffing Season
Jan 30, 202304:40