HER Dating & Relationship Secrets

Barry shares “How To Tell If A Man Is Secure or Insecure”!

Barry shares how to connect with the part of you that completely KNOWS and SHOWS “You’re Worth The Effort!”

Barry explains the importance of breaking your routine, and how you can bring romance into your life whether you are single or in a relationship!

Barry shares “Why Men Don’t Open Up Emotionally” and what to do about it!

What To Do If You Want Him Back

When my client said “He’s actually TOO nice!” we went deep on why she felt that way. In this episode I share the reasons this feeling can come up, some of which are healthy and some of which are unhealthy — and what to do about it.

Exercise To Find Out Your Relationship Beliefs

Your Family Story and Your Relationships

What Is Love?

Barry shares a quick, easy, but overlooked way to improve your dating and relationships!

Do’s And Don’ts for Keeping The Spark Alive

How To Respond To A Text That Upsets You

Levels of Consciousness In Relationships

How To Tell If Its Your ‘Issues’ or His ‘Issues’ Causing Problems

Breakups (Understanding The Importance of “Why”)

The Workplace

The Biggest Turn-Off For Men

Why You Relationships Aren’t How You Want Them To Be

The Healthy And Unhealthy Way To Choose Being Single

Spring Fever Is In The Air! How to embrace this re-awakening season in your dating and relationships!

Is Your Self-Worth Performative? (Are You Always the Do-er)

Can You ‘Make’ Someone Fall In Love With You?

“Why Am I Always With Emotionally-Unavailable Partners?”

Giving and Getting Physical Affection (Mary’s Story)

Respect and Loss of Respect

Are You Mistaking Chemistry For Connection?

Why You Want A Good Man AND The Bad Boy

Family

Barry shares his thoughts when he was asked “How long does love last?”. He shares the elements necessary for lasting love, amd also how to know when it’s time to let it go.

Barry teaches us to discern healthy from unhealthy fear, and gives an example of how unhealthy fear based on the past can get in the way of letting the good in our life today. He gives a simple exercise to move from fear to excitement.

In this episode Barry shares that we do not have to choose between our dream or a healthy relationship, in fact you MUST create both! He describes common pitfalls that prevent powerful women from having both, and how you CAN!

Barry shares the secret spot all the good men have been hiding in, with a twist!

Barry describes how most men are reluctant to do self-help, personal development, spiritual, therapeutic and coaching work — despite their woman doing it! He shares how to get a guy to do the emotional and spiritual work a couple needs to have a healthy relationship. He teaches us about “The Window”, something he has learned about men and willingness. Once you understand The Window, you can get any man to become more willing to change!

“Letting Go Of Someone” shares how to let go of a person and relationship that is not healthy for you anymore, or never was. Instead of just will-powering your way through it, Barry shares a gentler approach to releasing that attachment.

Kissing! It tells us SO much about the emotional content of a relationship! Barry describes the emotional content of different types of kisses amd what they mean! He then leaves you with something to consider about your next kiss.

In this episode, Barry describes how past trauma affects your current dating and relationships. He shares about Complex Trauma, and the relational aspects of trauma. He then provides a path to spotting and clearing the destructive effects of past trauma on your relationships today.

Barry tells the story of Pam, a successful woman who struggled to maintain her worthiness in relationships with men. He also shares how Pam overcame this pattern and rewired her self-worth around men! Check this out if you’re successful but find men amd relationships challenging!

Barry describes how your friend, the Brain, can give bad advice with good intentions. He describes the protective measures called Cognitive Distortion amd their drastic effects of you, and your dating and relationships. He pulls back the curtain on some very common cognitive distortions and invites you to see if your brain may be doing this too!

Barry describes a technique used in behavior change and by high performers to decrease stress and increase your odds of success on ANY dating or relationship situation. This works for approaching men, initiating conversations, going on dates, romantic moments with a partner, difficult conversations with a partner, or any situation in your personal or professional life. Don’t miss this — it’s simple and effective!

Barry shares how appreciative he is of you, his listeners, and how to apply three forma of appreciation to instantly improve your feelings and focus around dating and relationships! You’ll have a better day if you listen to this!

How To Be Independent But Not Alone

The REAL Reason Men Fall In Love (and Stay!)

Getting Out Of Your Head (Stop Over-Thinking)

Connecting With Love Again

The Biggest Turn-Off For Men

The Phenomenon Called Cuffing Season

Your Standards

Signs A Relationship Will Last

Don’t Pay The Bill Twice On Past Hurt (Janice’s Story)

In “You’ll be Loved When You’re Willing To Be Unliked” Barry covers how people pleasing, conditional love and over giving cause us to put ourselves last, and how accepting your Shadow part can free you of fear of rejection and allow you to be fully loved!

“I don’t want a relationship, just companionship.”

Healthy vulnerability is a mist for a healthy relationship. Barry shares how we can shield ourselves from healthy vulnerability, and disrupt relationships by numbing. He describes Brene Brown’s research on vulnerability, and then tells us how to apply it to improving your dating and relationships today!

The Biggest Difference Between A Weak Man and A Strong Man

Emotional Dysregulation (How Your Brain Ruins Relationships)

How To Tell If He Is A Man Or A Boy

Is He Too Different From Me?

The Victim - Perpetrator - Rescuer Triangle

Living Together

How To Tell If A Man Is Secure Or Insecure

How To REALLY Get To Know Him

Self-Love (Getting Off The Emotional Roller Coaster)

I Want You To Want Me

Is It Me or Him? (Telling Old Issues From Real Problems)

Joy Is Attractive

Who - Becoming Aware Of Your Relationship Partner Pattern

When And How To Speak Up (w Partners, Friends, Family, Work)

Emotional Resilience

Empathy

Trying Too Hard

Self-Worth and Healthy Relationships - I am Worthy of Love!

Does He Like, Love or Lust You?

Needing Control In Relationships

Releasing Fear of Rejection

We

Willingness

Fantasy Is Destroying Your Relationships At The Start

How Men See You

Believing In Love!

Bringing Out The Best In A Man

Why Men Pull Away

Touch

Is This Relationship Worth Saving?

Knowing Someone Is There For You (Presence)

The Spark!

Living Together

Self-Talk

Quick Turnaround Question For Any Situation

All I Need To Be Is Myself

Giving AND Receiving

The Way Into A Man’s Heart (To Be The Only One In It)

The Breath of Love

“Aren’t ALL relationships co-dependent?” No, And Here’s Why!

How To Get Compliments From Men

Does He Understand You?

Relationship Scars

Why Men Don’t Open Up Emotionally

Healthy Boundaries

Exercise To Find Out Your Relationship Beliefs

Attraction

The Holidays!

Handling Stressful Times

Letting Yourself Go Deep - Empowered Vulnerability

Too Fast or Too Slow (Tina and Tracey’s Stories)

Is It Really Possible To Be Happy In A Relationship?

Healthy, Empowered Communication (I - We - You)