The Dave Glaser Podcast

What red flags do you see showing up within yourself and others? Do any of the red flags discussed in this live video resonate with you? Grab a pen and paper because in this live recording from Tiktok, I talk really fast and deep about Red Flags that show up in modern dating. If you're looking for more support in your dating journey right now, try out my group coaching program free for one week. Ask me anything and receive the support you're looking for with the rest of the group! Click https://beacons.ai/dave.glaser to apply now. The Dave Glaser Podcast takes a look at modern relationships through the lens of The Enneagram, attachment theory and self-awareness. If you're like me, you've been overwhelmed with all the choices available to you on dating apps and the mixed signals that you receive over text that are hard to understand. A few years ago, I was in the same place so I sought out relationship experts and real life daters to help our audience understand how to navigate modern dating where texting, social media and dating apps are ways that people connect and communicate in the modern world. Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave me a review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the Dave Glaser Community, and help others find the self-awareness they’re looking for. Are you looking for support as you navigate modern dating with texting, social media and dating apps as a primary way that people connect and communicate?  Are you looking to heal your relationships while receiving and contributing to the lives of others from around the world? Check out The I Believe group and join me today for a free week trial of the like changing program. Check out my Tiktok Page for a candid look into modern dating. Subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube

From dating app users building a roster to people ghosting you, modern dating can be confusing and frustrating.  What do you do when you get frustrated?  I share real world solutions to dating burn out and confusion on today's episode. On today's solo episode of the podcast, I share 10 facts about online dating that you NEED to know right now to be more successful dating in the modern world.  Technology, texting, social media and dating apps have us all chasing our tail when it comes to getting dates and connecting deeply with others.  These 10 facts will both shock you and bring some explanation to why it is so damn hard to date in 2022. Check out The Challenge Group and join this life changing program free for one week! Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave me a review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the Challenge Group Community, and encourage others to find the self-awareness they’re looking for to show up more authentically in modern dating. Are you looking for support as you navigate modern dating with texting, social media and dating apps as a primary way that people connect and communicate?  Are you looking to build onto your relationships while receiving and contributing to the lives of others from around the world? Follow me on Tiktok for a candid look into modern dating and live Q&As. Subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube For more episodes and programs engage with me at DaveGlaser.com | Instagram

“The best way to get over somebody is to get under someone.”  On this week’s episode of the podcast, Kate Vosti joins me to talk about the difference between sensuality and sexuality. We dive deep into masculine and feminine energy, attachment styles and practices to help you get into your body whether you’re have sex or not!  If her message resonated with you today, please connect with Kate at rhythymrose.love or on Instagram @rhythm.rose Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave me a review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the Challenge Group Community, and encourage others to find the self-awareness they’re looking for to show up more authentically in modern dating. Are you looking for support as you navigate modern dating with texting, social media and dating apps as a primary way that people connect and communicate?  Are you looking to build onto your relationships while receiving and contributing to the lives of others from around the world? Check out The Challenge Group and join this life changing program today. Check out my Tiktok for a candid look into modern dating. Subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube For more episodes and programs engage with me at DaveGlaser.com | Instagram

On this week's episode of the podcast, Jordan Pendleton joins me as guest host where she interviews me on how our attachment styles show up to influence our relationship with money.  I truly enjoyed this conversation with her on her podcast REAL Money Talk as she asked great questions about my journey from scarcity to abundance in life, money and relationships. Please take a moment to leave us a review of the podcast on your favorite platform as it really helps us spread the message shared on the podcast about modern dating, texting, social media and dating apps.  Are you looking for support as you navigate modern dating with texting, social media and dating apps as a primary way that people connect and communicate?  Are you looking to build onto your relationships while receiving and contributing to the lives of others from around the world? Check out The Challenge Group and join this life changing program today. Check out my Tiktok for a candid look into modern dating. Subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube For more episodes and programs engage with me at DaveGlaser.com | Instagram

On this week's episode of the podcast, I am joined by Ross Rosenberg, the author of Human Magnet Syndrome, a transformational book redefining codependency.  Ross renamed codependency as self-love deficit disorder and has made ground breaking strides forward in the field of psychology and relationships. If his message resonates with you today, please connect with him on Youtube or on his website at www.SelfLoveRecovery.com and share this episode with one person you feel would benefit from the conversation. Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave me a review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the Challenge Group Community, and encourage others to find the self-awareness they’re looking for to show up more authentically in modern dating. Are you looking for support as you navigate modern dating with texting, social media and dating apps as a primary way that people connect and communicate?  Are you looking to build onto your relationships while receiving and contributing to the lives of others from around the world? Check out The Challenge Group and join this life changing program today. Check out my Tiktok for a candid look into modern dating. Subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube For more episodes and programs engage with me at DaveGlaser.com | Instagram

Nicole Drew is the creator and founder of Rater Date, a brand new dating app that invites users to rate the profiles they interact with for authenticity.  This gives you the chance to call out catfishes, ghosters, and inauthentic people that aren't really intentionally dating.  On this week's episode, Nicole shares her own personal journey that inspired her to create the app and we dive into the deep end from there. If her message resonates with you today, please connect with her on Instagram @rater.date or through the app store on Google Play and Apple Store by searching Rater Date. Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave me a review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the Dave Glaser Community, and help others find the self-awareness they’re looking for. Are you looking for support as you navigate modern dating with texting, social media and dating apps as a primary way that people connect and communicate?  Are you looking to fix your relationships while receiving and contributing to the lives of others from around the world? Check out The Challenge Group and join this changing program today. Check out my Tiktok Page for a candid look into modern dating. Subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube For more episodes visit me at DaveGlaser.com | Instagram

On this week's episode of the podcast, we welcome back Nicole Kay to discuss fasting, social media cleansing and downloading Hinge... again.  Although this time, it doesn't seem to be a mistake.  Tune in to hear all about how driving past someone's house twice a day for two years isn't stalking and how a new mindset to dating will help you win. If her message resonates with you today, please connect with her on Tiktok and Instagram @nakdash Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave me a review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the Dave Glaser Community, and help others find the self-awareness they’re looking for. Are you looking for support as you navigate modern dating with texting, social media and dating apps as a primary way that people connect and communicate?  Are you looking to fix your relationships while receiving and contributing to the lives of others from around the world? Check out The Challenge Group and join this changing program today. Check out my Tiktok Page for a candid look into modern dating. Subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube For more episodes visit me at DaveGlaser.com | Instagram

This week's episode on the podcast is the conversation I have been wanting to have for years and Talia Bombola joins me to talk all things attachment theory and masculine/feminine dynamics in modern dating.  If you've ever wondered why it feels like men and women are adversaries, then this conversation aims to answer those questions for you today. If her message resonated with you today, please connect with Talia on Instagram @taliabombola  Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave me a review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the Dave Glaser Community, and help others find the self-awareness they’re looking for. Are you looking for support as you navigate modern dating with texting, social media and dating apps as a primary way that people connect and communicate?  Are you looking to fix your relationships while receiving and contributing to the lives of others from around the world? Check out The Challenge Group and join this changing program today. Check out my Tiktok Page for a candid look into modern dating. Subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube For more episodes visit me at DaveGlaser.com | Instagram

On this week's episode of the podcast, I am joined by Samantha Graham, cohost of Where's Our Participation Trophy podcast, to talk about modern dating from the lens of attachment theory.   The title of this podcast comes from viral videos and memes on the internet which can feel confusing for daters in the modern world being told that the right person would be able to read your mind and just give you everything you need, without being asked.  Sam and I dig into what is behind this overused phrase that perpetuates the toxic "throw away" culture of modern dating. If her message resonated with you today, please connect with Sam on Instagram @_samanthagraham_ and check out her podcast here.  Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave me a review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the Dave Glaser Community, and help others find the self-awareness they’re looking for. Are you looking for support as you navigate modern dating with texting, social media and dating apps as a primary way that people connect and communicate?  Are you looking to fix your relationships while receiving and contributing to the lives of others from around the world? Check out "The Challenge" group and join me today for a free week trial of the like changing program. Check out my Tiktok Page for a candid look into modern dating. Subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube For more episodes visit me at DaveGlaser.com | Instagram

On this week's episode, I am joined by real life dater Natalie Bell, from Cleveland, Ohio, to discuss how to shoot your shot on social media in a way that works to get you a first date; even if the person does not live near you.  Natalie believes that fear of being judged and not liked is what holds people back in dating and relationships and we dig into the limiting beliefs we carry with us from our past.  After a long term relationship that ended, Natalie set out to heal and learn more about herself as she put herself back out there, began to improve her life and put herself first.  Since then, she has seen more excitement in her dating life and has learned more about herself as a result.  If her message resonates with you today, please connect with her on Instagram @nataliebell9 on Tiktok @natalie_bell or on her website at chatswithnat.com  Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave me a review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the Dave Glaser Community, and help others find the self-awareness they’re looking for.  Are you looking for support as you navigate modern dating with texting, social media and dating apps as a primary way that people connect and communicate?  Are you looking to fix your relationships while receiving and contributing to the lives of others from around the world?  Check out The I Believe group and join me today for a free week trial of the like changing program. Check out my Tiktok Page for a candid look into modern dating. Subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube  For more episodes visit me at DaveGlaser.com | Instagram

On this week's episode of the podcast, we continue on with our series on first dates with a real life dater Becky Bradley.  I am so impressed with her bravery to come speak with me on the podcast about dating after divorce with an anxious attachment style. We dig into Becky's life story beginning with a medical condition as a child that left her feeling alone in school and isolated from her friends.  Fast forward to her life now with children and a challenging marriage, she describes her first few relationships afterward with openness and tremendous self-awareness. If her message resonates with you today, please connect with her on Instagram or Tiktok at gatekeeper_prob Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave me a review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the Dave Glaser Community, and help others find the self-awareness they’re looking for. Are you looking for support as you navigate modern dating with texting, social media and dating apps as a primary way that people connect and communicate?  Are you looking to fix your relationships while receiving and contributing to the lives of others from around the world? Check out The I Believe group and join me today for a free week trial of the like changing program. Check out my Tiktok Page for a candid look into modern dating. Subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube For more episodes visit me at DaveGlaser.com | Instagram

On this week's episode of the podcast, I am joined by Dr. Morgan where we dig into repetition compulsion that is found in modern dating where it feels like you're dating the same person over and over again with a "different haircut". Dr. Morgan is a clinical psychologist and coach serving women through her Empowered Secure Loved method and you can connect with her on Instagram @drmorgancoaching Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave me a review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the Dave Glaser Community, and help others find the self-awareness they’re looking for. Are you looking for support as you navigate modern dating with texting, social media and dating apps as a primary way that people connect and communicate?  Are you looking to fix your relationships while receiving and contributing to the lives of others from around the world? Check out The I Believe group and join me today for a free week trial of the like changing program. Check out my Tiktok Page for a candid look into modern dating. Subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube For more episodes visit me at DaveGlaser.com | Instagram

On this week's episode of the podcast, I wanted to answer some great questions submitted by our audience.  Subscribe to the podcast and tune in next week as I begin a new series on First Dates with returning guests Dr. Morgan Anderson and Nicole Kay plus real life dater Becky. The questions I address on today's episode are the following: When dating online over 35, what are some recommended sites and what are some key things to think about when building a profile? Can anyone really find a life partner on Tiktok?  How does anyone learn to communicate on an emotional level with an avoidant?  We both are familiar with our attachment styles, is there hope? What's your opinion on paid dating sites versus free sites and apps?  Any preference one way or another?  Any experiences you want to share? Submit your questions to be answered on a future episode on Tiktok, Instagram or by email riseup@fitlifechampions.com  Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave me a review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the Dave Glaser Community, and help others find the self-awareness they’re looking for. Are you looking for support as you navigate modern dating with texting, social media and dating apps as a primary way that people connect and communicate?  Are you looking to fix your relationships while receiving and contributing to the lives of others from around the world? Check out The I Believe group and join me today for a free week trial of the like changing program. Check out my Tiktok Page for a candid look into modern dating. Subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube For more episodes visit me at DaveGlaser.com | Instagram

On this week's episode, I walk you through 10 signs that your date may have a secure attachment style.  Attachment theory research has been evolving since the last 60s and I discovered its impact in my life about five years ago and have been working towards earned security ever since.  Hope this episode brings you valuable information and reflection about how you show up when you date. After a couple of bad breakups in 2017, I decided to make a change and took ownership of my role in the ending of those relationships.  I sought out new tools to understand myself through the Enneagram and Attachment theory.  Subscribe to the podcast so that you never miss an episode that will give you the tools to show up authentically in modern dating. Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave me a review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the Dave Glaser Community, and help others find the self-awareness they’re looking for. Are you looking for support as you navigate modern dating with texting, social media and dating apps as a primary way that people connect and communicate?  Are you looking to fix your relationships while receiving and contributing to the lives of others from around the world? Check out The I Believe group and join me today for a free week trial of the like changing program. Check out my Tiktok Page for a candid look into modern dating. Subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube For more episodes visit me at DaveGlaser.com | Instagram

On this week's episode, I walk you through 10 signs that your date or partner may have an anxious attachment style.  Attachment theory research has been evolving since the last 60s and I discovered its impact in my life about five years ago. After a couple of bad breakups in 2017, I decided to make a change and took ownership of my role in the ending of those relationships.  I sought out a counselor and began to interview experts in relationship theory and practice on this podcast.  Tune in today to learn how to spot an anxiously attached date while learning tools to grow through this lens of self-awareness. Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave us a review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the Dave Glaser Community, and help others find the self-awareness they’re looking for. Are you looking to for support as you navigate modern dating with texting, social media and dating apps as a primary way that people connect and communicate?  Are you looking to fix your relationships while receiving and contributing to the lives of others from around the world? Check out The I Believe group and join me today for a free week trial of the like changing program. Check out my Tiktok Page for a candid look into modern dating. Subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Spotify | YouTube For more episodes visit me at DaveGlaser.com | Instagram

On this week's episode, I lay out ten things to look out for on a first date that can tell you that your date has an avoidant attachment style.  In tune last week's episode, I'd like to encourage everyone to be mindful in how they approach making assumptions about their date and instead of writing them off as red flags, get curious about what you see and label the behavior. If you're looking for more support in your relationship right now, I have two spots available in our private group coaching program that meets every Monday at 7 pm mst.  This is a safe space to ask me anything, connect with other women and learn more about self-awareness through attachment styles and The Enneagram.  Click here to try it free for a week.

On this week's episode of the podcast, Dave is back with a solo share of a story from his dating life. Showing up authentically on a date isn't always easy and when two strangers meet, there is bound to be a collision of their pasts. Listen in as Dave narrates how the Enneagram can be a helpful tool for couples to connect and how it can be a way to make some not so warranted assumptions about your date!   If you're looking for more support in your dating life right now, head over to daveglaser.com to apply for coaching today. The Dave Glaser Podcast is for partnered and single adults looking to understand relationships through the lens of The Enneagram, attachment theory, self-awareness and personal growth. If you're like me, you're overwhelmed with all the choices available to you and the mixed signals that you receive are hard to navigate. A few years ago, I was in the same place so I sought out relationship experts and real life daters to guide you to understand how to navigate the dating "scene" where texting, social media and dating apps are ways that people connect and communicate in the modern world.

On this week's episode of the podcast, I am joined by Charlotte Warren to talk all things ghosting in the modern dating era.  What is ghosting?  We dig into the timeline of when ghosting is acceptable and when it's not at all justifiable. If you're single in 2022, you've been ghosted.  You may have even done some ghosting yourself.  Hell, I have experienced both and today we get clear on what the definition of ghosting really is.  Charlotte and I even expand on a few questions submitted by our audience members.  Here they are: A definition. I see this term used so often and it seems to mean different things to all. Why (would someone ghost)? Where did this trend come from?  Is it a lack of accountability in dating? What do we do to recover from the shock and heartache? When is ghosting a YOU problem? If Charlotte's message resonated with you today, please connect with her on Tiktok @welcometothepeasantparty and to read her entire blog with the Ghosting chart mentioned in today's episode, click here now. Want to watch this episode? Subscribe on YouTube today! Do you have a question you'd like answered on the podcast?  Message me on Instagram @daveglaser_cscs now and I'll get back to you with an answer or a future episode.

On this week's episode, I welcome back Dr. Carrie Johansson to speak with me about psychological flexibility, modern marriage and what to look for on a first date.  We both believe that fear and anxiety hold people back in relationships and I cannot thank Dr. Carrie enough for joining me to provide a reflection for me about my recent break up. We dig into so many awesome topics on this podcast and here are a few of the biggest takeaways: Psychological flexibility is the ability to notice the things around you while putting less weight to it. Spinning in outrage keeps you in the stance of the victim. A lot of modern daters want everything to move quickly and the point of a first date is to determine if you want a second. If Dr. Carrie's message resonates with you today, please listen to her previous episode and reach out to her via her website at selfhelponthego.com and pick up a copy of her new book! If you're looking for more support in your relationship right now, please reach out to me with any questions on Instagram @daveglaser_cscs or on Tiktok @dave.glaser