
Bevin: A Femme Over 40 and her Friends
By Bevin

Bevin: A Femme Over 40 and her FriendsJul 17, 2020

155. Leah Garza: Desire, Disgust and Dyads
Leah has taught me so much about dyads--relationships with others, the world around me, and my soul. One of the most essential things in the creation of the world of our dreams is our individual growth. Creating our own path, pursuing our desires, and not letting the judgment of others slow us down or stop us. Leah's relationship with disgust as a concept is gorgeous. I hope you enjoy this conversation, our previous conversations and her podcast Magical Baddies! Links below.
Episode 109: What even is reality? https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/bevin/episodes/109--Leah-Garza-What-Even-is-Reality-e18l8o2
Episode 133: Make the world better by becoming more YOU https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/bevin/episodes/133--Leah-Garza-Make-the-World-Better-by-Becoming-More-YOU-e1hqiv1
Magical Baddies podcast: https://magicalbaddies.podbean.com/
Leah's Website: https://crystalsofaltamira.com/
Leah's Email list (to find out about upcoming class enrollment): https://crystalsofaltamira.com/links (scroll to bottom of page)
Leah's Instagram: @crystalsofaltamira
Bevin on Instagram: @bevinsparty @fatkiddanceparty
Support the podcast:
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Venmo: @bevinb
Cash App: $BevinBoss
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Buy my aerobics video! fatkiddanceparty.com/video4pack
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154. (Solo) Not Going Home For the Holidays Pep Talk
You get to have the holiday experience you want to have! Going home can be stressful! I have some tools and suggestions that can help you have the holidays you want to have! I hope you get to eat delicious food and spend time with people who nourish you inside and out!
Support the podcast!
Patreon.com/fkdp (you can follow for free and get updates and freebies from me!)
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Venmo: @bevinb
Cash App: $BevinBoss
Amazon Wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1SJCL864DDKEH?ref_=wl_share
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Instagram: @fatkiddanceparty @bevinsparty
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153. (Solo) Funerals as an Empath
I've attended dozens of funerals for loved ones. And I have not attended funerals for dozens of loved ones. I have some experience using funerals (or choosing not to) as part of my grieving process and want to help you by sharing my experience. Being intuitive and connected easily with others' emotions doesn't exactly resonate for being in crowds of mourning folks. Please click this post about spiritual hygiene to learn more about protecting your energy in those and ALL environments. We are like energetic katamari!
https://queerfatfemme.com/2023/10/10/simple-self-care-spiritual-hygeine/
Also here's the sweatshirt I'm wearing it's so cute!
https://genuinevalentine.com/collections/fat-kid-dance-party/products/nobody-ever-died-of-awkward-confetti-arms-hoodie?variant=39785663004743
SUPPORT THE PODCAST (Bring My Flowers Now While I'm Living I love you! Thanks to everyone who supports this free podcast!)
Patreon.com/fkdp (you can follow for free and get updates and freebies from me!)
https://www.buymeacoffee.com/bevin (safe and secure way to buy me a snack!)
Venmo: @bevinb
Cash App: $BevinBoss
Amazon Wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1SJCL864DDKEH?ref_=wl_share
Fatkiddanceparty.com/classes
Instagram: @fatkiddanceparty @bevinsparty
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152. (Solo) My Spiritual Approach to Creating Ease, Joy, Play and Rest
At the top of this episode I talk about why I haven't been producing as many podcasts as I once was. Responding to a listener and community member question about how I have been creating ease, joy, play and rest for the past four years. I employ a lot of spiritual practices and success mindsets so that what I do is intentional and not just busy work. We are socialized to toil and we don't have to live like that!
As with everything I create: please take what you like and leave the rest! I love you!
I reference my teacher Leah Garza many times on this episode she was with me on Episodes 133 & 109.
Please buy a pet portrait from my friend Kendrra Thoms (Episode 117) who is the reason my blog looks so cute. https://kendrrathoms.com/
My blog is QueerFatFemme.com go visit explore the tags and find some fun stuff that can help you create shortcuts in life!
Support the podcast! If you find value in my work I would love to keep doing it! I need help from folks to make it possible!
Patreon.com/fkdp (you can follow for free and get updates and freebies from me!)
https://www.buymeacoffee.com/bevin
Venmo: @bevinb
Cash App: $BevinBoss
Amazon Wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1SJCL864DDKEH?ref_=wl_share
Tee shirts: https://genuinevalentine.com/collections/fat-kid-dance-party
Fatkiddanceparty.com/classes
Instagram: @fatkiddanceparty @bevinsparty
You Tube Channel:
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Email list: http://eepurl.com/dyX3db
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Facebook.com/bevinsparty
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151. (Solo) My Experience as a Cancer Caregiver
In 2013-2014 I supported my ex-fiance through her treatment for breast cancer. I talk about my experience, what I learned, what I wished I would have done and how caregivers can learn to take care for themselves, too. I hope this helps anyone out there dealing with the uncertainty of a cancer diagnosis for a loved one. And I hope you have the best of all possible outcomes!
Here is a list of my blog posts about cancer experience: https://queerfatfemme.com/tag/cancer/
Support the podcast:
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Work one-on-one with me: https://queerfatfemme.com/one-on-one-with-bevin/
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Bevin on Instagram:
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Email list: http://eepurl.com/dyX3db
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149. Michael Anthony: Twin Flames, Soulmates and Transitions
Michael Anthony returns to the podcast with a new name, pronoun update and a metaphysical perspective on Twin Flames! This isn't the buttery you tube clickbait version promising a Cinderella / Prince Charming union, it's a holistic approach to soul growth and development. We all deserve to freely express ourselves, our truth, our sovereignty and receive love. Happy LGBTQIA+ Pride 365 days a year! Let's learn how to love ourselves so much exactly as we are so that it is easy to love everyone else exactly as they are!
The primary work he cites is Todd R. Diviney: Expansion for Ascending Consciousness https://amzn.to/42HtWUQ
Michael Anthony previous episodes:
Episode 83. Love and Connection: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/bevin/episodes/83--Mags-Ickes-Freedom-and-Connection-euhmrf
Episode 24. Coming Out, Polyamory and Serving under Don't Ask Don't Tell: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/pod/show/bevin/episodes/24--Magaly-on-Coming-Out--Polyamory-and-Serving-in-the-Military-Under-Dont-Ask-Dont-Tell-eavlc7
Michael Anthony on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/michaelanthonygendersorcerer/
Bevin on Instagram: @bevinsparty @fatkiddanceparty
Support the podcast! Patreon.com/fkdp
Work one-on-one with me: https://queerfatfemme.com/one-on-one-with-bevin/
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148. Bianca Russo: Tips to Support Mental Health Spirals
Bianca is a Zoom-based personal trainer with a big heart and great cheerleading! As I have experiienced and shared on this podcast, sometimes those of us with big cheer to offer also have mental health struggles! As her friend I've witness Bianca develop exceptional self awareness and not only learn but use tools to regulate and recover. This episode is chock full of ideas for how to get back to center, how to define success for ourselves and how Bianca pivoted from nursing to personal training!
Virtual Personal Training on Zoom with Bianca starts with a 1-hour intro appointment to get acquainted. All follow up workouts are 30-minutes in duration from warmup to cooldown. This is a radically inclusive space for anyone who's healing their relationship with movement. Calling all Shes, Theys, Gays, and the Weirdos in Between! Let's boogie.
Instagram: @hi.biancarusso
Website: www.biancarussofitness.com/
Schedule Consult: bit.ly/talk-with-bianca
If you find value in this podcast, please consider supporting!
Support the Podcast:Work one-on-one with me: https://queerfatfemme.com/one-on-one-with-bevin/
Buy me a Coffee:
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I'm crowdfunding a new laptop so I can keep publishing podcasts, blogs & aerobics:
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Venmo: @bevinb
Cash App: $BevinBoss
Amazon Wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1SJCL864DDKEH?ref_=wl_share
My Small Business Wishlist
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Fatkiddanceparty.com/classes
Tee shirts: https://genuinevalentine.com/collections/fat-kid-dance-party
Bevin on Instagram:
Instagram.com/bevinsparty
You Tube Channel:
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Email list: http://eepurl.com/dyX3db
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147. Jana Barrett: Reading Taylor Swift's Astrological Birth Chart and Astrology for Personal Transformation
If you were born between 1989-1991 you are part of a micro generation of millenials with a specific destiny to help the world get better. It's giving "chosen one" vibes. As this generation is 33 right now (or coming soon), integrating the lessons of their Saturn returns in Capricorn, this is the time to decide you're going to live up to your potential in this lifetime! No pressure!
I'm pretty obsessed with this micro generation and invited my friend Jana on the podcast because she is a 1989 millenial AND she's a gifted astrologer, Akashic Records practitioner and tarot reader. Jana's readings are soothing and full of empowering homework to come into alignment with our life's purpose. This episode is great for astro-nerds and astro-newbies alike. And Swifties, of course.
Releasing this on Lesbian Visibility Day (April 27th) because it's never a bad time to be your most authentic self! Love you!
Jana's link tree which takes you to every social platform and most importantly her booking link--you WANT a reading with her! https://linktr.ee/feelingloudly
If you find value in this podcast, please consider supporting!
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Instagram: @fatkiddanceparty @bevinsparty
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Email list: http://eepurl.com/dyX3db

146. Jerri Berry & Michelle: My first Alien Encounter! And Glowing Up with Cannasisters at a Wellness Retreat!
Jerri had an alien encounter in June gathering with our cannasisters and had another one with me and her sister Michelle on 03/17/2023 in Loomis, CA. We talk about the circumstances of each experience, how they overlap and what the experience felt like. (I was shocked!) We also talk about our whole trip to the women's wellness cannabis retreat we were attending when we met our Star Family! "Follow Taylor Swift's voice" is my favorite part of our tale.
Jerri is a you tuber, bullet journal designer and has her own podcast! You can hit up Michelle through Jerri!
My episode with Jerri on her podcast: https://youtu.be/AzNOntYENgY
Jerri's You Tube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@jerribberry
Jerri's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jerribberry/
Glowing Goddess Sisterhood: https://www.instagram.com/glowinggoddesssisterhood/
If you find value in this podcast, please consider supporting!
Support the Podcast:
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Buy me a Coffee:
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I'm crowdfunding a new laptop so I can keep publishing podcasts, blogs & aerobics:
https://www.buymeacoffee.com/bevin/w/4466
Venmo: @bevinb
Cash App: $BevinBoss
Amazon Wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1SJCL864DDKEH?ref_=wl_share
My Small Business Wishlist
https://docs.google.com/document/d/1X49srtmBmbZCYo-QQwZTDBHIaYPTltGwBNbfhajKNP0/edit?usp=sharing
Fatkiddanceparty.com/classes
Tee shirts: https://genuinevalentine.com/collections/fat-kid-dance-party
Bevin on Instagram:
Instagram.com/bevinsparty
You Tube Channel:
https://www.youtube.com/c/SelfCareParty
Email list: http://eepurl.com/dyX3db

145. Tamara Chance: Microdosing Psilocybin in Community for Manifestation and other Earth Medicine Lessons
DISCLAIMER: The information and experience in this episode are not a substitute for medical care. I encourage you to advise with your trusted medical professional before seeking healing through plant medicines of any kind.
Tamara healed the effects of her alcohol use with conscientious use of psilocybin. She now facilitates cohorts of community healing together with earth medicines. I just completed her Winter Microcosm/Macrocosm cohort with profound results in my brain, spiritual connection and well-being! We also talk about Tamara's journey to become a full time healer and her build out of her dream home with her partner made with their bare hands and you tube!
Microcosm Macrocosm is offered seasonally, join the invite list any time here: https://forms.wix.com/f/6978805375927583046
Tamara's 4/20 Retreat Details: https://www.mohala.yoga/retreat
Tamara's Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/MohalaYoga
Tamara's IG: https://www.instagram.com/ganjayogahawaii/
Tamara's YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCVy_5aPg2exBYxAoO0EIOug
If you find value in this podcast, please consider supporting!
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NEW Tee shirts: https://genuinevalentine.com/collections/fat-kid-dance-party
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Bevin on Instagram:
Instagram.com/bevinsparty
You Tube Channel:
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Email list: http://eepurl.com/dyX3db

144. Scott K. Smith: Solstice, Magick and Discernment
One of the most potent things you'll do moving into the next phase of your life is determine who is going to influence you! Scott K. Smith is back on the podcast with a Solstice candle magick ritual! We talk through the ethics of spiritual leadership falling down conspiracy rabbit holes and how to choose who and how people influence us. Trusting your intuition and your intimate connection with the Divine is the most important skill you will develop! Scott is here to help!
Website featuring Scott's practice: TheSacredOther.com
Star Stone Education LLC, featuring Scott's company and book: StarandStonellc.com
Scott's Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/ScottKSmith/
Scott on IG: https://www.instagram.com/scott_k_smith/
Everything else including socials is listed under links and socials at: http://Linktr.ee/Scott_k_smith
If you find value in this podcast, please consider supporting!
Support the Podcast: Patreon.com/fkdp
NEW Tee shirts: https://genuinevalentine.com/collections/fat-kid-dance-party
Buy me a Coffee:
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I'm crowdfunding a new laptop so I can keep publishing podcasts, blogs & aerobics:
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Venmo: @bevinb
Cash App: $BevinBoss
Amazon Wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1SJCL864DDKEH?ref_=wl_share
My Small Business Wishlist
https://docs.google.com/document/d/1X49srtmBmbZCYo-QQwZTDBHIaYPTltGwBNbfhajKNP0/edit?usp=sharing
Fatkiddanceparty.com/classes
Bevin on Instagram:
Instagram.com/bevinsparty
You Tube Channel:
https://www.youtube.com/c/SelfCareParty
Email list: http://eepurl.com/dyX3db

143. Jes Baker: Somatics, Embodiment, Reclaiming Spirituality after Mormomism
Jes Baker's fifth word on this podcast is a swear word. I love her brilliant mind and bold use of language and am so thrilled for you to hear her tools for unlocking the wisdom of your body! The first glitches Jes observed in the Matrix was when she was being raised in Mormonism. Their journey publishing and creating as the Militant Baker focusing on fat liberation for eight years has evolved! "There's a moment where I digested fat stigma intellectually but it didn't get me where I want to go." Jes followed the yeses into training in Somatics. "Somatics is what comes after the intellectual deconstruction of the paradigm that bodies are measured against each other. Systems of oppression rely on our disconnection from our bodies." The spiritual aspects of having a body, creating personal ritual and ceremony is now a big part of what Jes is creating in the world and what they are teaching!
Jes on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/jesbaker
Website: https://www.jesbaker.com/
Email list: https://mailchi.mp/bf73dd97aff2/sp9n4n0y76
IG: https://www.instagram.com/themilitantbaker/
Teachers and practitioners mentioned in this episode:
Marika Heinrichs: https://wildbody.ca/
Prentis Hemphill: https://prentishemphill.com/
Leah Garza: https://crystalsofaltamira.com/
Jessa Reed: https://www.jessareed.com/
Sonya Renee Taylor: https://www.sonyareneetaylor.com/
adrienne maree brown: https://adriennemareebrown.net/
Bridget Sweetin: https://www.coach-sweetin.com/
If you find value in this podcast, please consider supporting!
Support the Podcast: patreon.com/fkdp

142. Colin Bedell of Queer Cosmos: Healing Wounds and Partner Pre-Selection
Colin is back and fresh from filming the new reality dating show he lent his astrology expertise to--Written in the Stars premiers on Discovery+ on November 27th! On this episode we talk show biz filming--best case scenario, Colin reports--and the process of partner pre-selection! Chiron, the wounded healer of the zodiac, is heavy in our convo about how to address those wounds that keep popping up! The balance between friends and family, responsiblity and freedom, rejection, money, and so much more!
Colin's show! https://www.discoveryplus.com/ie/show/written-in-the-stars
Previous episode 96 with Colin about values: https://anchor.fm/bevin/episodes/96--Colin-Bedell-of-Queer-Cosmos-Discerning-Values-to-Create-a-Life-Worth-Living-e145hdt/a-a63f69k
Previous episode 68 with Colin about his back story! https://anchor.fm/bevin/episodes/68--Colin-Bedell--Queer-Cosmos-eo7bfk/a-a475usk
Colin's website: https://www.queercosmos.com/
Colin's IG: https://www.instagram.com/queercosmos/
If you find value in this podcast, please consider supporting!
Support the Podcast:
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NEW Tee shirts: https://genuinevalentine.com/collections/fat-kid-dance-party
Buy me a Coffee:
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I'm crowdfunding a new laptop so I can keep publishing podcasts, blogs & aerobics:
https://www.buymeacoffee.com/bevin/w/4466
Venmo: @bevinb
Cash App: $BevinBoss
Amazon Wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1SJCL864DDKEH?ref_=wl_share
My Small Business Wishlist
https://docs.google.com/document/d/1X49srtmBmbZCYo-QQwZTDBHIaYPTltGwBNbfhajKNP0/edit?usp=sharing
Fatkiddanceparty.com/classes
Bevin on Instagram:
Instagram.com/bevinsparty
You Tube Channel:
https://www.youtube.com/c/SelfCareParty
Email list: http://eepurl.com/dyX3db

141. (Solo) Releasing Guilt and Shame from Fundamentalism, Fat Stigma, and Colonial Programming
Afraid people are easier to control and we are programmed with shame and guilt to make us tools for systems of oppression. The good news about shame being something we are programmed to feel is that we can deprogram ourselves and undo that brain washing!
In this episode I walk through tools to create a personal growth plan to release guilt and shame so you can live the life you were meant to live. I believe everyone has unique dreams and gifts only they can bring the world and your shame is standing in the way of your unique thrive!
This whole podcast is full of people who have healed from limited thinking and show a myriad of ways to be a happy, successful adult! I highly recommend digging into the archives!
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140. (Solo) Lessons from my Recent Mental Health Spiral
Content Warning: Suicidal thoughts. Part of my mental health plan when I am feeling suicidal is to review how can I radically resource my wellness right now? How can I clear and drop everything that’s not benefitting my mental health? So I took an unplanned and unannounced break from podcasting. I'm back now, I'm doing way better and feel leveled up in my discernment and connection to the Divine. Let's visit! Coming soon with more interviews and podcasts!
Here are the blog posts I mention that have my mental health plan and help you get started making yours: https://queerfatfemme.com/2022/09/22/suicide-prevention-awareness-how-i-create-impulse-control-for-myself/
https://queerfatfemme.com/2022/10/03/suicide-prevention-awareness-how-i-address-suicidal-thoughts/
This episode is on you tube with auto generated captions!
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Bevin on Instagram:
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139. (Solo) How to get paid to create via Patreon!
I'm so passionate about helping folks use Patreon to nurture and support their ongoing creative and world changing work! I know consultants, activists, psychics, healers, musicians, visual artists, you tube creators, group projects, and so many other types of creators who use Patreon to keep their work going. It's a really cool platform with a lot of flexibility and resources. Here's much of what I've learned in nearly four years using the app as a primary source of income. And much of what I've learned from studying Prince Rogers Nelson about creating a body of work that I think is very well nurtured by Patreon and the death of record labels.
Resources/cool creators I mentioned in the episode:
For branding/logos support connect with Kendrra of Streetratdraws: Patreon.com/streetratdraws
To check out one of my fav musical projects in lieu of a record label he's using Patreon my friend Rick Sorkin: Patreon.com/ricksorkin
To check out my tarot reader Bethany's work in project Patreon that's getting her small biz started: Patreon.com/bethanytarot
My Patreon pep talk about asking for help: https://www.patreon.com/posts/pep-talk-asking-71332349
If you find value in this podcast please support!
Patreon.com/fkdp
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Bevin on Instagram:
Instagram.com/bevinsparty
You Tube Channel:
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Email list: http://eepurl.com/dyX3db

138. (Solo) Gossip! What it is and why I avoid it!
You've probably heard the saying that gossip is the thief of abundance and joy. I noticed in my early adulthood that friends I connected to through gossip ended up being untrustworthy. (If they'll do it with you they'll do it to you.) Because I wanted to level up my vibe and my association I got very clear about what gossip is versus what it is not, and set boundaries about the type of information sharing I will participate in. I talk about these lessons and why I decided to build a bionic bullshit detector. Hopefully these lessons will help you discern who you invest your energy with and examine your intentions!
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137. Chrissy Tolley: Reality TV Psychic and Avoiding Demonic Possession
Chrissy Tolley is an excellent teacher of intuition and observation for empaths / psychics. Her best method involves her great passion: hilarious scrutiny of human dynamics on reality television.
Chrissy talks about her new project Reality TV Psychic, her new Patreon which is a metaphysical community with a side of reality tv, and best practices to avoid demonic possession. (Trust a professional psychic to know how this happens--the best defense is a good offense!)
Reality TV Psychic on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/chrissytolley
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136. (Solo) Diagnosing Myself with ADHD from Memes on Instagram Dot Com
It was undeniable to me that my brain was likely ADHD when my favorite productivity expert received her diagnosis. Why did her systems work so well for me? I started to recognize the signs because I had done lots of work on myself to embrace neurodivergence and different ways to thrive in this world that stigmatizes differences and mental health. Hopefully my story will help you create sovereignty over how you perceive your brain/body/life/experiences.
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17. Skip Bacon on Sex Ed and Catholocism
Catholics aren't widely known for being sexually liberated, but Skip Bacon is a Catholic theologian with a lot of opinions about sex ed. She's also a stand-up comedian! We talk bodies, the puberty of the Christ, starting a faith journey and what she does when Catholic women ask her about sex.
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135. (Solo) Rest, Recovery and Really Good Binge Watches
Getting injured last week has given me the opportunity to work on my mindset around rest, recovery and surrender. It's also given me more time to watch streaming shows and movies and I have recommendations! Netflix has The Lake House and You've Got Mail, Amazon Prime has Lizzo's Watch Out for the Big Grrrls, and HBO Max has Dr. Brene Brown's The Atlas of the Heart. Heartily recommend! Reflections on growth and surviving this pandemic--I hope you'll enjoy!
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134. Mskindness B. Ramirez: Canna Mom, Entrepreneur and Educator
Mskindness is on this planet to teach us how to elevate our lives! Her education about healing with Cannabis, hair care line and book The Root Family's Very Special Garden support families in a refreshingly empowering way. We talk healing mental health with psilocybin, destigmatizing the plant in parenting and much more!
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133. Leah Garza: Make the World Better by Becoming More YOU
Leah is my favorite decolonial teacher. I learn so much from her! An Akashic Records teacher and phd student of ontology (the study of reality) I love the way she thinks and connects to information. We talk fatphobia, disgust, belonging, trauma, cancel culture, how to level up emergent timelines to save Earth from climate change. SO MUCH!
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132. Samantha Montanaro: Mushroom Medicine, Music and Motherhood
Mama Sam is a plant healing musician, community builder and international business woman. She co-founded Tokeativity, the largest women's cannabis community in the world! She knows a lot about healing with psilocybin and non-psychedelic mushroom medicine! Sam is a plant maximalist and stuff minimalist and has much to share about parenting while using plant medicine and becoming willing to hear the truth revealed to us through the use of plants.
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131. Aunt Mimi: Leaning into Pleasure and Delight for Chronic Pain
Aunt Mimi is a ball of joy and radiates love! She also lives with chronic pain. In 2016 she turned a corner in how she experienced her body and leaned into learning mindfulness. She has lots of resources to share that worked for her! One of those tools was leaning into joy and delight! Cannabis and other plant medicine help! She's an incredibly talented jewelry maker, creating canna accessories covered in treasures as Pimp My Pipe. Out of necessity makes incredible salves, teas and thick thigh butter as Aunt Mimi's Apothecary. Explore her world through her links and enjoy our conversation!
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130. (Solo) Developing Intuition
Intuition is data processed too fast for our logical mind to understand. My intuition is the biggest topic I have in therapy because sometimes it feels BONKERS to me to go against my logical mind. Learning to trust myself, my inner knowing, my connection to Source has been one of the singular most important skills I have. My primary goal as a mom is to teach my kids to follow their inner knowing. The past two weeks my intuition has saved me from burn out by guiding me to rest more. I've gotten so creative during this time and it's been really helpful. I hope this episode helps YOU! (P.S. I had an interview scheduled that I intuitively knew was going to get rescheduled! HA!)
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129. Noemi Sparks: Emotional Freedom and Energetic Mastery
My friend Noemi is a Tapping Wizard! I've been working with her one on one to release trauma and energetic blocks through EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique aka Tapping). Life changing! Such an incredible modality. We talk tapping with a brief demo, using psychedelics for emotional wellness, toad medicine, divorcing our attention from the news and stepping into the fullness of our destiny!
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128. Jennifer Axcell: Building Back after Burn Out
I love the saying that God first speaks in a metaphor and then a two by four? That reminds me of burn out. Burn out is our body's alarm system telling us we need a full control alt delete reset! My friend Jennifer Axcell is an amazing entrepreneur with a big heart. Her desire to serve so much burnt her out and she's spent the past year rebuilding. She uses plant medicine, including psilocybin, to intentionally self care back from burn out. Her work now is to empower other entrepreneurs to do the same. She's also an identical twin (Gemini!) which has influenced some of her most profound realizations. Enjoy this conversation and I hope it inspires you to take breaks and create intentional rest!
My previous episode with Jennifer (Episode 56): https://anchor.fm/bevin/episodes/56--Jennifer-Axcell--Co-Founded-the-first-Free-Cannabis-Nurse-Hotline-ekg04j/a-a3drdf9
Jennifer on IG: @jenniferaxcell for plant medicine https://www.instagram.com/jenniferaxcell/
@her.s.e.l.f for burnout recovery and self care journey https://www.instagram.com/her.s.e.l.f/
@herhighestself_retreats is for her retreats https://www.instagram.com/herhighestself_retreats/
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127. (Solo) I'm Not Done Talking About Grieving My Dad
Grieving my dad brought up grief I didn't have the tools to process at the time. My step mom Liz died when I was 19. I could have anticipated that his death would bring it up but I didn't. However, grieving her freshly has been surprisingly pretty sweet and inspired me to take some big action in my life to develop myself into a more loving person--like she was. More grief talk on this episode! Quality of grief is quality of life!!
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126. (Solo) Taking 20 Years to Figure Out My Career Path
Fat Kid Dance Party Aerobics turns five years old on March 2, 2022! I'm thrilled that I've found the gift I'm uniquely meant to bring to the Earth and that it's already sustained so long! I can't wait to see what the next fifty years bring! But before I figured this aerobics class out I had a winding career through law school and residential real estate and nightlife production and various small businesses and side hustles. I share about my experience to inspire YOU to figure out what YOUR special gift is to bring to the Earth. I think everyone has some special way they are meant to create and connect.
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125. Radavie Riom: Healing Inner Child to Live in Freedom and Harmony
Radavie is the comforting spiritual guide to help your inner child healing. We all have inner children who need our unconditional love and acceptance, but if we weren't taught how to do that for ourselves we need to learn. Radavie is a healer with a gift for holding space for that journey. Click the link to her website for a free 20 minute exploration session with her and experience the magic! In the meantime, cuddle up with your favorite childhood blanket and enjoy our conversation. Remember, you're never too old and it's never too late to heal & pursue the life of your dreams!
Radavie's website--seriously get one of those 20 minute sessions! https://radavie.net/liberation-program/
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124. (Solo) The Complicated Grieving of my Deadbeat Dad
My dad passed away one month ago and I've learned a lot on the ground walking through this grief. Every grief is an opportunity to open up to more loving on the other side of the pain. I have also learned you gotta walk through the pain or you end up paying for it with interest. The father/daughter relationship I had already grieved for quite some time but you can't outsmart the pain of actual death. Part of what helps me get through the hardest days is knowing that I can teach from the pain. Hopefully this can help you when you next need a pal in grief. Sending lots of love!!
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123. (Solo) 10 Minute Body Positive Aerobics Class
Recorded live on Zoom this is a 10 minute class with testimonials from some of my beloved Regulars about Fat Kid Dance Party aerobics on Zoom! We have made such a special community over the past nearly five years, it's nourishing for mind, body and soul!
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Episode 122 Deidra Bliss: Rest Evangelist and Plant Based Air Frying
When Deidra came back to the community from having been down for a month with Covid, she declared, "Rest is my LOVER." She needed epic amount of rest for her body to recuperate and it has ignited a newfound redirection in how she prioritizes the needs of her body versus productivity. Since she's my favorite person to talk about plant based foods I wanted to talk about living my best life air frying plants (especially potatoes!!) and the best vegan dips! Really Deidra loves dips and drops some great recipes. She's also a multi-hyphenate entrepreneur and the lifestyle of the entrepreneur is definitely a risk taking one and we talk about taking command of your life, your dreams by stepping away from the 9 to 5 grind. (Grind culture is dead! Long live rest culture!!)
Previous episodes with Deidra:
Episode 5 her backstory (Mormonism! Coming Out!) and the GGG backstory: https://anchor.fm/bevin/episodes/5--Deidra-Bliss-on-wholehearted-living--finding-sisterhood--self-development-and-cannabis-e5rs00/a-apnsnu
Episode 74 using plants to heal! https://anchor.fm/bevin/episodes/74--Deidra-Bliss--Give-Plants-a-Chance-epve9u/a-a4i46ht
Deidra on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/missbliss710/
Glowing Goddess Getaway Patreon (Gateway to Discord): https://www.patreon.com/glowinggoddessgetaway
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121. Y Thuan La: Acupuncture and Traditional Chinese Medicine
Acupuncture and Traditional Chinese Medicine have been profound allies to me in my healing journey. Meet my real life acupuncturist! Y Thuan is an incredibly gentle and wise practitioner and has much to share with us about great mental and physical health in these times. We talk about what happens in a session, how TCM works and what it can help with! We didn't even talk about ear seeds one of my favorite treatments! Glamorous and effective!
Y Thuan's website: https://www.deersongwellness.com/
Y Thuan's phone number (Defender V is the name of the supplement!): (562) 373-2298
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120. (Solo) Getting Over My Resistance to Goal Setting and Planners
I noticed I was having massive resistance to setting goals and using a planner. Turning myself from a stressed out Type A person to being more of an "in the flow" artist was life saving for me, but I also recognize my big dreams won't come true if I don't take action. I got curious about my resistance to goals and using planners and recognized shame was holding me back! Shame is something we learn from people and systems. I have busted through and set some goals for myself this year. I'm also one month into successfully using a planner! I share my process and my inquiry!
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119. (Solo) Navigating Emotionally Treacherous Trigger Moments
Covid is a disease of many losses! My birthday is tomorrow and I feel like a total birthday Grinch because I don't want to risk Covid exposure. I am, once again, asking God for the courage to accept the things I cannot change. I got triggered today and talk through how I weathered that moment to release it. I hope it helps you get clarity on whatever you're going through this wacky and wonderful Second Pandemic Holiday season!
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118. Scott K. Smith: Navigating a Magickal Path to Ascend Amidst Mass Death and Madness
Scott K. Smith just finished a Reiki manual that might lead you to a better more resilient version of yourself. My own path as a Reiki Master Healer has absolutely rooted me in a spiritual life path. Scott is one of my favorite people to talk about spiritual philosophy with and we discussed a prediction for the Age of Aquarius that a third of people will die, a third of people will go mad and a third of people will ascend. We talk how to navigate the mass death that's already underway, and how we ensure we are green and growing in the new world that is unfolding.
Happy Solstice! My previous conversations with Scott!
Episode 60. Scott K Smith Shadow Work, Darkness and Witchcraft:https://anchor.fm/bevin/episodes/60--Scott-K--Smith-Shadow-work--darkness-and-light-in-witchcraft-elpgcd/a-a3msmhj
Episode 14. Scott K Smith on Connecting to the Magic We All Have Insidehttps://anchor.fm/bevin/episodes/14--Scott-K-Smith-on-Connecting-to-the-Magic-We-All-Have-Inside-e9gcs9/a-a15i146
This episode on You Tube: https://youtu.be/h8ppYERRP74
Scorr's practice: TheSacredOther.com
Scott's Work as Priest and Teacher: Temple-LA.com
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117. Kendrra Thoms: Cannabis Fine Artist on When a Piece of Art is Done, Neurodivergence, and Expanding Creatively
Kendrra went to art school... for an area of art she actually hates! She's now creating art in entirely new ways and leading groups for other creative cannabis entrepreneurs. Later in life discovery of her autism helps her make peace with the ways she has been different (and a genius artist) all her life. We talk using lifestyle and changing how we see "work" to minimize chronic health conditions, perfectionism, how to know when a creative piece is "done" and so much more!
Kendrra's website: www.kendrrathoms.com
Kendrra on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/streetratdraws/
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P.S. No voice intro this week, Spotify is giving me a new option with a video upload???
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116. Ashley Manta: Using Ketamine for Treatment Resistant Depression!
Ashley Manta (The Cannasexual) is truly the kind of teacher who goes the way and shows the way! She has been working to heal her CPTSD and depression using lots of modalities over the year and in the pandemic needed a level up. We talk about her recent Ketamine treatments, the process and the result. We also discuss her exceptional course Activating Your Cosmic Pussy and how she leads vulva owners in connection, growth, satisfaction and liberation!
Episode 23: Bevin & Ashley talk Defeating Imposter Syndrome! https://anchor.fm/bevin/episodes/23--Ashley-Manta-on-Pleasure--Imposter-Syndrome-and-Allowing-Ease-ear14g/a-a1fkkcl
Bevin on Ashley's Elevated Intimacy Podcast! https://www.audible.com/pd/Ep-49-Radical-Self-Love-w-Bevin-Podcast/B08TGRWVS3
Ashley's Website: https://www.ashleymanta.com/cannasexual
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115. (Solo) Holiday Mourning, Holiday Mourning, Holiday Morning
How do we find a song on our hearts every day when we carry the weight of what could or should have been with loved ones? When we get caught in thought loops that bring us down or are in the acute stages of grief? How do we harness our power on our Holiday Mornings. What traditions are meaningful to us? How do we release our expectations and connect to our joy even while carrying grief?
All that and my favorite never miss holiday breakfast casserole recipe--Spotted Owl Casserole!
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114. (Solo) Pep Talk About Your Body!
Maybe your body has changed in the past couple years. Maybe you are annoyed anticipating what folks might say about your body. Maybe you're feeling frustrated with your body? Maybe you just can't seem to make peace with it? Here's a pep talk for that.
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113. (Solo) Creating more than you Consume
Creativity can be really hard. Imposter syndrome! Feeling like making a thing and not finishing is a waste of time (it's not)! Freezing because what you say could be criticized! (Everything you fear will come to pass and you will be okay.) I talk about my recent call to create more than I consume and how I've been getting through all of these head blocks. I assure you that the world needs what only you have to offer and part of the creative process is letting it be messy!
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112. Meredith aka Hippie Dippie Gypsy Teaches Boondocking! Life on the Road Tips!
My friend Meredith ditched her corporate life for a life on the road boondocking in a small red truck! She lived on the road for several months this year. She shares her story of how she planned, visioned and executed her life on the road. If you have dreams of travel life I hope this inspires you to think about what is possible for you!
This episode (without the intro) is also on You Tube! https://youtu.be/6OlUfjC-LEo
Meredith is now going to base her life out of a plant medicine friendly bed and breakfast in the Northern California Redwoods! https://www.riverbarpharms.com/
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111. (Solo) What are Your Personal Values?
Personal values (also known as core values) are beliefs that are so important to you that they guide how you organize your behavior and association. Values are a great way to know yourself and being clear and prioritized with your values makes decision making much easier. Especially in terms of who you are going to invest time and collaboration. We live in a world that teaches us to people please, say yes to everything and run on other's priorities. Having values clear makes being unique easier! And we are all unique by design!
In this episode I talk through my personal values and give a list of other possible values.
Here's a link to that list by James Clear, author of Atomic Habits: https://jamesclear.com/core-values
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110. Mindie Gum-Grivell: Into the Mind of an Artist--Welcome to the Creatch Universe
While this episode is optimized for you tube (see link below in show notes), the first 20 minutes are great for an audio podcast about healing with art!
Does the art heal us or do we heal through the art?
I walk through a career retrospective with visual artist Mindie Gum-Grivell. Her Creatch collection began as an art practice that has developed so many delightful layers! Characters, aesthetic, personal branding, merchandising--as a brand nerd I just adore this on so many layers. Our conversation touches the work I've been doing to heal my social anxiety and the importance of connecting to people and communities who see the divinity within you.
VISUAL VERSION You tube video of this episode: https://youtu.be/0ve0BvYFJxs
Episode 97 is the previous podcast episode with Mindie! Her background and so much good stuff about making life as an artist! https://youtu.be/pgZ7KMNJfD8 or listen to it here: https://anchor.fm/bevin/episodes/97--Mindie-Gum-Grivell-on-Making-a-Life-in-Art-and-Business-e14h89e/a-a656em8
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109. Leah Garza: What Even is Reality?
Leah Garza taught me how to question what even is "normal." Decolonizing our mind is some of the most important work we can do on ourselves to reclaim our power from systems of oppression. Learning how to think for yourself comes with great teachers and Leah is great at showing how to question the colonizer in our mind.
Leah is a phD student in Ontology--the study of reality. She's also a reader of the Akashic Records. We talk about both of these at length. Leah is truly unforgettable and sharp!
Leah on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/crystalsofaltamira/
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Book with Leah for an Akashic Records reading through Mostly Angels LA: https://mostlyangelsla.com/pages/leah-garza
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108. (Solo) Sister Sesh Camp Out! My first adventure in 80 weeks!
I left my quarantine for the first time since March 2020! I went camping with friends in Southern Oregon and had a blast! I share all about the trip, plant medicine in the woods, taking covid precautions and grieving our friend Purple Courtney together. Cultivating joy and grief in the same space is beautiful and healing.
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107. Casey: Psychic Medium Extraordinaire
Casey has been a working psychic medium for decades! We talk about how she grew up, opened up to her gifts, how she creates boundaries with seeing clients. She and her husband also work together alongside each other in a muggle business and she gives her tips for a long lasting relationship. I asked for some tips on grieving and on working with our own psychic power!
Connect with Casey here--she asks for DMs: https://www.facebook.com/Casey-PsychicMedium-and-Yogi-extraordinare-478519665534638
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106. Beautiful Existence: Connecting with Your Soul Sovereignty
Beautiful Existence (B3 for short) is an oracle! In this episode we talk about the Age of Aquarius and how to level up for that. We also explore the entirety of humanity, connecting with nature and spirits. B3 truly channeled and downloaded a lot of information for us!! Take notes!
B3 mentions the experience of embodiment as a full five sensory experience! I want to encourage you to really hear that and think about how you can embody your own beautiful existence even deeper!
This episode is also on you tube!
Episode 18, my previous episode with Beautiful Existence from back in the before times, January 2020: https://anchor.fm/bevin/episodes/18--Beautiful-Existence-is-a-Business-Oracle--Plant-Spirit-Channel-and-Wants-You-to-Live-Your-Greatness-ea3glf/a-a19q4er
B3's website--$1.99 a month for SOURC3 membership: https://www.yoursoulsovereignty.com/
Cannabis Tarot: https://www.yoursoulsovereignty.com/cannabis-tarot
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