Live daily

I realized that I spent the whole time in the episode describing “marinate” as simmer, but then again, I can’t change that now, can I? Anyway this is a very free flowing monologue and so I would not try to order or try to determine what you get out of this. So I’ll just let you flow with it and into the right places, whatever those places are for you. Enjoy!

What do you do when you are faced with a situation that requires you grow?

For everything in existence there is a purposes, a reason for its existence that makes utility possible, it is safe to say that one of our greatest joys as humans is to find the purpose of a thing, but even more interestingly give purpose(meaning) to certain thing that we are privileged to create or pioneer. And so for me this is one idea that is so dear to me. But it is worthy of note the that we no longer LIVE with that sense of purpose, there is a less and less emphasis on purposefulness and a heightened emphasis on emotions. We live now a very sensual era, where everything is subject to feelings and less to meaning. I honestly think that is quite limiting, how we feel is indeed important but it has to be subject or at least get its definitions from PURPOSE, so meaningful endeavor should be encouraged irrespective of how discomforting it may feel, and things along those lines. So before you assume this is me coming to teach you about “your purpose in life” take a break from that thought. Pervades the simply fact that we think we know what purpose is when in reality we have absolutely no client should be a major concern. Because we read books about it, attend seminars and listen to so many persons and yet at the core of idea we miss it. So today I’m not here to teach you about your purpose even though you are likely to get some direction if you listen close, I am here to establish what that idea means at the basic form of it. And it is captured in the question WHY? Why is anything made, made? Why am I here now? Why are you here now of all the p places and things you could have been doing? I believe that when we understand purpose better, especially at its basic form we are better equipped to utilize moments, opportunities, relationships, and to LIVE a more intentional and meaningful life. This i tell you is the game changer. To truly live, you must live purposefully daily.

Self leadership is the heart of leadership

Lessons I've learned in the last one year

Love is not always about what “we” think it's mostly about the other person. Love is in its purest forms very sacrificial and selfless, yes and not just the kind of selfless that makes the rounds these days, I'm talking of really putting yourself out if the equation and staying there. So if that is the case then it's easy to understand that there is indeed a difference between how you love and how the object of your love wants to be loved. Just imagine giving a bottle of milk to a kid you love nothing knowing if they are lactose intolerant. If you do that then the probability rnag this kid will really.see this as an expression of love is dangerously close to, IMPOSSIBLE. So does that mean we shouldn't love? If not, then how should we then live? All these and more are all I addressed in this particle episode.

Let's just take a second look at society.

Your impact is not in the tree but the fruit of the tree. Let’s explore this depth.

Have you been caught in that phase where you think you are so productive but the time you have is not enough? Here's the truth...

Let’s have another look at the idea of scars.

Mirages are an illusion, you think it's cooler from where you stand, so you really want to go over there. No no no it ain't that simple. You may be shocked that it's hotter there than where you are at the moment, so your best bet is to learn ways to be true to you. Listen to get the tips on how to make that work.

It's not that they are too busy but that you are not valuable enough. It's not a bad thing you know. Now the truth is that whatever people give time is valuable to them. Value can be misconceived, even nuisance value. A what exactly is the problem here.... Listen to find out how to make your time more valuable and in effect become more valuable

There is no such thing as “absolute” in existence in the human realm. This is the reality that explains that you can't be absolutely wrong or absolutely right. So no matter how small or how big, there is something to correct. You must find it and most times it's found in the idea of success. To ensure continuity and innovation.

So I’ve seen young minds get stuck and depressed and worse unable to grow because of the idea that have of “clarity” I’ve been caught in that trap myself one too many times and it really sucks.. truth is that we’ve been living in the dark for far too long. Permit me to speak from the heart. Clarity is not knowing the whole picture but trusting the first step or even the next step makes all the difference. Trust me after listening to this episode you’ll be amazed at the reality of the subject. Take a break and enjoy this

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