
Can We Talk?
By Can We Talk Podcast

Can We Talk?Apr 25, 2021

S3 E6: Finding Home: In Friendships
On this episode, I have a chat with Ethel and Shari, two best friends and two halves of the creative duo, Shnaks. They are passionate about producing vibrant, culturally relevant content that tells stories and offers experiences. We talk about what finding home in their friendship has looked like and how that has evolved over a span of more than ten years. What is finding home in friendship? How do we leave space for the self within friendships? How do you make home for the ways in which the friendship changes?
Follow Shari: @_asianut, Ehel: @_kugana and their page @xpressionsug
Get ready for some good ol' conversation. Instagram: @can_we_talk_media Website: canwetalkpodcast.online Music by: @tinaford.now Art by: @ibrahimkizza_

S3 E5: Finding Home: In Your Roots

S3 E4: Finding Home: In Your Mind
On this episode, I have a chat with Roberta Kisubi, who is pursuing a career in mental health policy. She takes us on her personal journey of finding home within her mind and how that journey has changed over the years. She keeps it real about how hard doing the work can get, but how rewarding it is. How do you protect your mind? Do you set boundaries for yourself? Have you found home within your mind? What does that look like?
Get ready for some good ol' conversation. Instagram: @can_we_talk_podcast Website: canwetalkpodcast.online
Music by: @tinaford.now
Art by: @ibrahimkizza_

S3 E3: Finding Home: In Your Body
Have you found home within your body? What does that look like? How does finding home in your body impact other parts of your life?
Get ready for some good ol' conversation. Instagram: @can_we_talk_podcast Website: canwetalkpodcast.online Music by: @tinaford.now Art by: @ibrahimkizza_

S3 E2: Finding Home: In Yourself
On this episode, I am joined by Tina Ford, a Ugandan Neo-Afro soul musician, who uses music as an art of storytelling, incorporating dance and drama as a form of expression. She shares what home means to her, and takes us on her personal journey of finding home within herself. We talk about facing the darkness within us, standing in our power and things we have had to unlearn along the way.
Do you ever find home within yourself? How do we know when we are living in our truth?
Get ready for some good ol' conversation. Instagram: @can_we_talk_podcast Website: canwetalkpodcast.online Music by: @tinaford.now Art by: @ibrahimkizza_

S3 E1: What it means to Find Home

S2 E5: The isms of Uganda: Tribalism, Classism, Sexism

S2 E4: Realities of Relationships

S2 E3: Spirituality & Religion

S2 E2: Alcoholism
On this episode, we talk about alcoholism in our community. We open up about our personal journeys with alcohol. Sometimes we drink because it's Saturday. Then we drink because we just got off work. Or because we're stressed. Maybe because we're socializing. How do you know when it's time to put the bottle down? How can we change our habits for better coping mechanisms?
Get ready for some good ol' conversation. Instagram: @can_we_talk_podcast Website: canwetalkpodcast.online Music by: @themekaslab Art by: @a.o.draws

Bonus episode: Allow us to reintroduce ourselves!
Instagram: @can_we_talk_podcast
Website: canwetalkpodcast.online
Music by: @themekaslab
Art by: @a.o.draws

S2 E1: The Culture of Silence
We talk about our different experiences being raised in Ugandan homes (one in Kampala, and the other in Canada) and how it affected the way we express ourselves. We touch on why some of us in the younger generation to speak on the current political situation in Uganda. We also get into silence in the workplace, church and lots more! Get ready for some good ol' conversation.
Instagram: @can_we_talk_podcast Website: canwetalkpodcast.online
Music by: @themekaslab
Art by: @a.o.draws

Season Two: Taboo Topics Trailer
WE'RE BACK!
Season Two of the podcast is going to be focused on healing and learning through conversations about taboo topics in our Ugandan community. I (@muna_kampala) is joined by Kabasigyi (@shesamukiga) for this season.
Understanding what causes us trauma and causes us to be the way we are is not only the first step to healing, but breaking generational patterns. So join us this season as we unpack and break the silence around different taboo topics; from family-inflicted trauma to sex and alcohol, we're going in!
We're showing up authentically, keeping it real and going IN this season. So, CAN WE TALK?
Intro jingle by @themekaslab
Art by @a.o.draws

Ep. 27: Conversation Series - Masculinity & Culture
What are some of the things men of today's generation have to unlearn and learn? Can men be allies in gender equality? How?
The conversations series features guests from different backgrounds, who are close to our reality, trying to figure out career, love, family and everything adulting. So get ready for some good ol' conversation!
Don't forget to follow/ subscribe on Apple podcasts, Google podcasts, Stitcher, and Anchor.
Instagram: @can_we_talk_podcast
Website: canwetalkpodcast.online
YouTube: Can We Talk Podcast

Ep. 26: Conversation Series - Imposter syndrome
Excited to be back with another episode in the conversation series! In this episode, I talk to Jarvin and Esther from the Millennial Rants Podcast (@millennialrants.pod). We talk about how imposter syndrome can affect different parts of our lives, from the art we create to our careers and relationships. We talk about the root of imposter syndrome and how it presents itself for men versus women. And more!
Do you find yourself comparing your accomplishments to others? Has social media increased levels of feeling inadequate? Do you have an unconscious fear of success?
The conversations series features guests from different backgrounds, who are close to our reality, trying to figure out career, love, family and everything adulting. So get ready for some good ol' conversation!
Don't forget to follow/ subscribe on Apple podcasts, Google podcasts, Stitcher, and Anchor.
Instagram: @can_we_talk_podcast
Website: canwetalkpodcast.online
YouTube: Can We Talk Podcast

Ep. 24: Conversation Series - What is your money personality?
Excited to be back with another episode in the conversation series! In this episode, I talk to Patsy Mugabi (@patsymugabi on IG, Patsy Mugabi on YouTube), a money and creative coach. We explore the topic of money through different lenses. We talk about the culture of silence around money in African families, how women relate with money versus how men relate with it. We also talk about unlearning and learning certain money beliefs and more!
What is your money personality? How do you relate with money; are you a spender or saver? Do you discuss finances in your dating life? What is your mental relationship with money?
The conversations series features guests from different backgrounds, who are close to our reality, trying to figure out career, love, family and everything adulting. So get ready for some good ol' conversation!
Don't forget to follow/ subscribe on Apple podcasts, Google podcasts, Stitcher, and Anchor. Follow us on instagram at @can_we_talk_podcast and check out our website: canwetalkpodcast.online.

Ep. 23: Conversation series - What Do You Want To Be When You Grow Up?
Excited to be back with another episode in the conversation series! In this episode, I talk to Esther Nshakira (@sometimes_esi on IG), a Communications, Digital Marketing & Branding Consultant. We explore the topic of career and purpose. We talk about her decision to go to law school that was shaped by societal and family pressures and how she turned her career around. We talk about the lows of unemployment and the job search, productivity, the fear of rejection and more!
What shaped your decision to enter the field you are working in now? Does creativity allows have to turn into a side hustle? What's your life's purpose and is that different from your career path?
The conversations series features guests from different backgrounds, who are close to our reality, trying to figure out career, love, family and everything adulting. So get ready for some good ol' conversation!
Don't forget to follow/ subscribe on Apple podcasts, Google podcasts, Stitcher, and Anchor. Follow us on instagram at @can_we_talk_podcast.

Ep. 22: Conversation series - Resilience
Excited to be back with another episode in the conversation series! In this episode I talk to Mugabi Byenkya, writer, poet and occasional rapper. We talk about his experiences as a black man living with disabilities, existing within multiple marginalized social categories, spirituality and more!
How do you deal with pain? Do you sit with it in acceptance or do you try to run from it? Do you recognize your privileges as an able bodied person in society? What is your experience with finding the right therapist?
Don't forget to subscribe on Apple podcasts, Google podcasts or follow on Anchor. Follow us on instagram (@can_we_talk_podcast)
You can also follow Mugabi Byenkya (@mugabs) or check out his website here: https://www.mugabibyenkya.com/

Ep. 21: Conversation series - Finding Home

Ep. 20: S.E.X.
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Ep. 19: Conversation series - Speaking as an African woman
In this episode, I talk to Dushiime, co-founder of Pearls for Her, a Ugandan female owned business, about our experiences as African women (Ugandan women in particular). We talk about the role feminism plays in empowering Ugandan women, the power of representation, women's reproductive health and much more! Should men be included in the conversation on feminism? What does the landscape for the next generation of the African woman look like?
Don't forget to subscribe on Apple podcasts or follow on anchor. Follow us on instagram at @can_we_talk_podcast.
You can follow Pearls for Her on instagram (@pearlsforherug)

Ep. 18: Spirituality/Religion

Ep. 17: Conversation series - Beauty is a bad investment
Excited to be back with another episode in our conversations series! The series will feature guests from different backgrounds, who are close to our reality, trying to figure out career, love, family and everything adulting. So get ready for some good ol' conversation!
In this episode, I talk to Melissa Tendo about beauty. How do you define beauty? What frames what/who we consider beautiful? Does conventional beauty play a role in your dating life? Would you consider cosmetic plastic surgery? We talk about colorism, how it affects us as young black women and how society's view on dark-skin has changed, and what implications that has had. All this and more!
Don't forget to subscribe on Apple podcasts or follow on anchor. Follow us on instagram at @can_we_talk_podcast.
You can follow Melissa on Instagram (@thesourceug and @sugarboo_256)
Music: Big Bumpa- Mun G

Ep. 16: Things To Do While You Stay Home
Hey guys! Excited to be back with another episode! Hope you are keeping your social distance and listening to the medical professionals' advice on flattening the curve during this time of Corona Virus. Before we get back to our regular episodes, here's an episode on what you can do to keep busy while you stay home. Whether it's getting enough rest or pumping up your home workout, we got you! How are you spending this time at home?
Let us know by reaching out on our social media: can_we_talk_podcast on Instagram. Don't forget to subscribe!
Music: Muna Kampala | Ykee Benda

Ep. 15: Conversation series - I'm not responsible for her happiness, but I can contribute to it
We are excited to be back with a new episode in our Conversations series! The series will feature guests from different backgrounds, who are close to our reality, trying to figure out career, love, family and everything adulting. So get ready for some good ol' conversation!
In this episode, I continue to talk with Bwomono about all things love and relationships. Have you been heartbroken? How did you find healing? How do you maintain your sense of self within a relationship? We get into how society's view on relationships has changed and how to keep the outside noise out of your relationship. All this and more in this second part of the conversation!
Don't forget to subscribe on Apple podcasts or follow on anchor. Follow us on instagram at @can_we_talk_podcast.
Music: When a man loves a woman
Omukwano | Maddox

Ep. 14: Conversation series - You have to love the person you're in love with

Ep. 13: Conversation series - There's a difference between toxic & fragile masculinity
You asked for more conversations & we are excited to be back with a new episode in our Conversations series! The series will feature guests from different backgrounds, who are close to our reality, trying to figure out career, love, family and everything adulting. So get ready for some good ol' conversation!
This is part 2 of my conversation with Martin (you can find part 1 here https://anchor.fm/can-we-talk/episodes/Conversations-series-Ep--3-Culture-is-not-static-e9aa2q). In this second part of the conversation we talk about places to visit in nigeria, then we dive into toxic masculinity, physical vs. emotional strength, masculinity in the context of nigerian culture, women's attraction to toxic masculinity and more! Connect with Martin on instagram: @ijele_africaa Connect with the host, Belinda on instagram: @kemisolar Connect with us on instagram: @can_we_talk_podcast

Ep. 12: New Beginnings
Kind of late to the party, but Happy New Year! February is already here, but its never too late to start your new year! What are some of your new year rituals? How do you set your goals? Are you intentional about your goals? What lessons have you learnt from the previous decade? We discuss this and more in this episode.
Song: Obudde - Radio & Weasel
Don't forget to join the conversation on our social media, https://www.instagram.com/can_we_talk_podcast/ Subscribe! on Apple podcasts.

Ep. 11: Conversation series - Culture is not static
This time I sit down with Martin to talk about men are trash, feminism in regards to the African culture and we get into masculinity on part 2 of the conversation next week! In this first part of the conversation, we talk about the watering down of the men are trash message, how the African culture upholds patriarchy and lots more!
Connect with Martin on instagram: @ijele_africaa
Connect with the host, Belinda on instagram: @kemisolar
Connect with us on instagram: @can_we_talk_podcast

Ep. 10: Relationships with parents
Back with a new episode about navigating relationships with parents! The relationship we have with our parents/guardians can get tricky as you grow up and begin to make your own decisions. This episode explores boundary setting with parents, as well as the implications our the relationship we had with our primary care giver can has on us as adults. I also talk about the different attachment styles.
Don't forget to join the conversation on our social media, https://www.instagram.com/can_we_talk_podcast/ Subscribe! on Apple podcasts.

Ep. 9: Let's talk 12 Rules of Life
Can we talk? is an honest fun informative conversation about the messiness of adulting and everything in between. Don't forget to join the conversation on our social media, www.instagram.com/can_we_talk_podcast/ Subscribe! on Apple podcasts.

Ep. 8: Is this love?
Can we talk? is an honest fun informative conversation about the messiness of adulting and everything in between. Don't forget to join the conversation on our social media, www.instagram.com/can_we_talk_podcast/ Subscribe! on Apple podcasts.

Ep. 7: Conversation series - It's called growth!
In this part two, we talk about being comfortable in your skin, having difficult conversations and setting boundaries with friends, social media identity and trying out internet dating. And more!
Connect with AJ on instagram: @thejulesguide @dinewithjules_
Connect with us on instagram: can_we_talk_podcast
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Ep. 6: Conversations series - You're Cancelled!
First up, is Awele Juwe, Nigerian, currently living in Canada. She's a blogger, feminist, digital marketer, and is not afraid to be herself. We talk about the last season, cancel culture, owning your identity in the dating game and navigating relationships with African parents. And more!
We love to keep our episodes short and sweet so look out for part 2 next week!
Connect with AJ on instagram: @thejulesguide @dinewithjules_
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Ep. 5: Mental health
Can we talk? is an honest fun informative conversation about the messiness of adulting and everything in between. Don't forget to join the conversation on our social media, www.instagram.com/can_we_talk_podcast/ Subscribe!

Ep. 4: F.R.I.E.N.D.S.
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Ep. 3: What do you want to be when you grow up?
In this episode, we explore the decisions we make when it comes to our career life. How do you make your decisions in your career life? How do you decide which jobs to apply for and what field you are choosing to navigate? How do you balance between working to survive and fulfillment?
Can we talk? is an honest fun informative conversation about the messiness of adulting and everything in between. Tune in and don't forget to join the conversation on our social media. You can follow us on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/can_we_talk_podcast/, or email at canwetalkpodcast25@gmail.com.

Ep. 2: Everyone is hooking up
In this episode, we explore hook up culture and how it has impacted society's dating world, as well as mental health. What are your thoughts on hookup culture? How are you navigating dating and commitment in a society where casual sex has become the norm?
Can we talk? is an honest fun informative conversation about the messiness of adulting and everything in between.
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Ep. 1: What story are you telling yourself about yourself?
Welcome to Can We Talk!
In this episode, I talk about IDENTITY and the importance of knowing who you are especially in your 20s. What do you base your identity on? Your own values and experiences? Your family? Your social media?
Can we talk? is an honest fun informative conversation about the messiness of adulting and everything in between.
Tune in and don't forget to join the conversation on our Instagram, can_we_talk_podcast. Send any questions or feedback to canwetalkpodcast25@gmail.com.