Convos With Chloe: Faith, Healing, Dating, Relationships, Breakups, Divorce, Self-Worth, Miscarriage

How long will I have to wait for God to heal me? How long will I be here? How long is it going to take for Him to answer my prayer? Sounds familiar? In the midst of waiting, it can get tough, exhausting, frustrating, and hurtful. As we wait, sometimes these feelings can get overwhelming and we try to find some way to fix it or escape it; hoping to bridge over to healing and restoration. But, is it wise for us to jump ahead of God?  Lets find out in today's "Saturdays with Chloe." - www.chloemgooden.com 

You've broken up. He has packed his things and left. He doesn't call anymore. He doesn't show any interest. He even has told you he doesn't love you anymore. How did you get here? What went wrong? Break-ups can be so heartbreaking and we sometimes find it hard to let go. It can be really tough seeing them moving on so easily while you are still crying, hoping, and wishing they would come back. Is there a reason you are still holding on? Is there something you are doing to prevent your healing and letting go? Let's find out with todays "Convos with Chloe". Get my new book "The Break Up: How to Let Go of Your Ex, Heal, Forgive, and Move Forward" to help with your journey of moving forward - www.chloemgooden.com/my-books 

We all love to be shown favor. A job opening we didn’t expect. A miracle awakening. A vision only you have been graced to see. It’s amazing. But, do we ever think of the other part that comes with favor? The part no one tells you about? Well, I hope this “Saturdays with Chloe ☀️” prepares you for Gods favor! - www.chloemgooden.com

You’re sitting at home. Bored. Unsure what you will do on another Friday alone. As you are sitting there feeling lonely, boom, a text from your ex. What do you do? Do you respond? Will you get back in the crazy cycle with him? Will he hurt you again? It’s tough. Especially when you are alone. In this episode I hope to help you know what to do as well continue moving forward. For more help with moving on from your ex check out “The Break Up : How to Let Go Of Your Ex, Heal, Forgive, and Move Forward” - www.chloemgooden.com/my-books 

How many times have we said to someone “I’m waiting to hear from God on what to do,” or “I haven’t heard from God and I don’t know why or how to?” I’ve been there a couple times. I then realized God is always talking to us as well as always excited to talk to us! But, why don’t we hear Him? Let’s find out! - www.chloemgooden.com 

When losing someone special in our life we all go through similar emotions called the 5 Steps of Grief. But, what about when you lose a child, or experience a miscarriage? Do we deal with the same emotions even though we didn't experience a life with them? Yes. I hope in the final episode on the 5 Steps of Grief Series: Acceptance, I help you understand this feeling as well as how to process and push pass it. For more resources and assistance, visit: https://chloemgooden.com/after-miscarriage-pregnancy-loss/

When losing someone special in our life we all go through similar emotions called the 5 Steps of Grief. But, what about when you lose a child, or experience a miscarriage? Do we deal with the same emotions even though we didn't experience a life with them? Yes. I hope in the second episode on the 5 Steps of Grief: Denial, Bargaining, and Depression, I help you understand this feeling as well as how to process and push pass it. For more resources and assistance, visit: https://chloemgooden.com/after-miscarriage-pregnancy-loss/

When losing someone special in our life we all go through similar emotions called the 5 Steps of Grief. But, what about when you lose a child, or experience a miscarriage? Do we deal with the same emotions even though we didn't experience a life with them? Yes. I hope in the first episode on the 5 Steps of Grief: Anger, I help you understand this feeling as well as how to process and push pass it. For more resources and assistance, visit: https://chloemgooden.com/after-miscarriage-pregnancy-loss/

In this episode I want to tell My Story of my losses and introduce you to After Miscarriage, Pregnancy Loss. Giving you insight on our purpose and hope for our listeners in these segments. Visit https://chloemgooden.com/after-miscarriage-pregnancy-loss/ to learn more about our resources.

Dating today can be rough. You see different people getting into relationships easily. You see your friends having multiple dating prospects. You feel you've been dating for years with no avail. You can begin to ask yourself, "What's wrong with me?" I think we all have been in this place and it can be pretty depressing. Where does it come from ? Why do we feel this way? What can we do about it? I hope in this Convos with Chloe I can help you see where these thoughts come from, why it's dangerous, and how to change your perspective.  Visit www.chloemgooden.com for more resources. 

In becoming a divorcee, or single mom, you may have felt that you lost some of your life's purpose. Chloe M. Gooden shares how pain relates directly to your calling, and can further God's purpose for your life. She also discusses the role of gifts and talents in discovering your calling, and how to assess your gifts to learn more about God's purpose for you. She also talks about the impact of relationships on your calling, and how to look at dating from the perspective of living on mission for God. Chloe M. Gooden Ministries: www.chloemgooden.com  Agape Moms : https://www.agapemoms.com/

Didn't get the job you were hoping for? Still haven't gone out on a date and you've been on that dating site for months? Finding yourself signing divorce papers even though you gave them all you had for years? Rejection. No one likes it. It hurts. It's uncomfortable. It makes you want to crawl up in your bed and eat ice cream, cry, and snuggle up with your pet, kiddos, or childhood stuffed animal, that make you feel loved unconditionally.  Rejection is sadly apart of life and no matter what you do; you can't prevent it nor avoid it. I hope in this Convos with Chloe I help you : Understand What Rejection Is Why It Hurts So Bad How to Deal with Rejection How God Views Rejection How to Continue in Hope After Rejection As always, we hope this podcast episode encourages you, brings you hope, and deepens your relationship with God so you can experience a beautiful life on earth and eternity in heaven. - www.chloemgooden.com 

“Saturdays with Chloe ☀️ “ : Is it really that big of a deal for me to stop this sin since I’m saved? 🤷🏽‍♀️ I mean, God knows my heart, right? . Is it really that big of a deal if I keep doing this? 👀 .... I mean, Jesus died for my sins, and I’m saved, so I should be good, right? Like, Heaven is a guarantee soooooo what’s the big deal? 🤔🧐 Hmmm, Let’s talk about that...For more resources visit www.chloemgooden.com Related Resources: The Cost of Disobedience : Is It Holding You Back? - https://youtu.be/_j9Hjp5bMQ4  4 Reasons You Struggle With the Same Sin - https://youtu.be/ZN9YK0HoRPg For more resources: visit www.chloemgooden.com 

"I feel like I'm suffering."...  "I feel so unstable."...  "I'm scared to leave."...  "I feel crazy & confused."  Have you found yourself expressing these exact sentences to describe how you feel in your current relationship? I've been there, and my guest, Michelle Donnelly, has been there too. It drains you mentally, spiritually, emotionally, and physically. We know how it feels. We know the many nights of crying and pain. We know you feel stuck. We know you feel hopeless. We know you are hurting. We know you are tired. Today, on Convos with Chloe, me and my special guest, Michelle Donnelly from Agape Moms, hope to help you understand how to :  Recognize Toxic/Abusive People/Relationships. How to Handle Toxic/Abusive People/Relationships. How to Recover and Heal from Toxic/Abusive People/Relations.  We hope to give you insight on this topic so you can walk in peace, freedom, and healing. As always, here at Chloe M. Gooden Ministries, we hope to help you experience a beautiful life on earth + eternal life in heaven. - www.chloemgooden.com   Supplemental Resources: The Break Up Guide: How to Let Go of Your Ex, Heal, Forgive, and Move Forward  How to Forgive Those Who've Hurt You When You Are Waiting On Him to Change  When the Past Still Hurts: 6 Ways to Cope & Process Past Hurts & Pains Our Special Guest; Agape Moms Founder & Guest: Michelle Donnelly is a single mother of three, and firmly believes that women can discover a life of peace, power, and purpose as they journey with God through brokenness and heartbreak. Her passion for single mothers led her to develop an online resource community for single moms called Agape Moms. She is also the producer/ host of The Christian Single Moms Podcast and author of Seen: Hope and Healing for Single Moms. You can learn more about Agape Moms by visiting http://www.agapemoms.com

"I feel like I'm suffering."... "I feel so unstable."...  "I'm scared to leave."... "I feel crazy & confused."  Have you found yourself expressing these exact sentences to describe how you feel in your current relationship? I've been there, and my guest, Michelle Donnelly, has been there too. It drains you mentally, spiritually, emotionally, and physically. We know how it feels. We know the many nights of crying and pain. We know you feel stuck. We know you feel hopeless. We know you are hurting. We know you are tired. Today, on Convos with Chloe, me and my special guest, Michelle Donnelly from Agape Moms, hope to help you understand how to : Recognize Toxic/Abusive People/Relationships. How to Handle Toxic/Abusive People/Relationships. How to Recover and Heal from Toxic/Abusive People/Relations. We hope to give you insight on this topic so you can walk in peace, freedom, and healing. As always, here at Chloe M. Gooden Ministries, we hope to help you experience a beautiful life on earth + eternal life in heaven. - www.chloemgooden.com   Supplemental Resources: The Break Up Guide: How to Let Go of Your Ex, Heal, Forgive, and Move Forward  How to Forgive Those Who've Hurt You When You Are Waiting On Him to Change  When the Past Still Hurts: 6 Ways to Cope & Process Past Hurts & Pains Our Special Guest; Agape Moms Founder & Guest: Michelle Donnelly is a single mother of three, and firmly believes that women can discover a life of peace, power, and purpose as they journey with God through brokenness and heartbreak. Her passion for single mothers led her to develop an online resource community for single moms called Agape Moms. She is also the producer/ host of The Christian Single Moms Podcast and author of Seen: Hope and Healing for Single Moms. You can learn more about Agape Moms by visiting http://www.agapemoms.com

What are you finding yourself worried about for the day or weekend? A need being met? How you will pay a bill? Or, maybe if God heard your prayers and will provide the answer right when you need it? I remember hearing somewhere from Kirk Franklin "Fear/Worry is Amnesia of what God has done in our lives before...".......I couldn't agree more. I hope today on Saturday's with Chloe, you are able to get a new perspective on your worries of today. For more resources visit www.chloemgooden.com  Related Content: "What Are You Worried About ? ": https://anchor.fm/convoswithchloe/episodes/What-Are-You-Worried-About-e2hm18  "How to Use the Faith Over Fear Trail to Overcome Anxiety" : https://anchor.fm/convoswithchloe/episodes/How-to-Use-The-Faith-over-Fear-Trail-to-Overcome-Anxiety-e2g14j  "Fear Is A Liar" : https://chloemgooden.com/home/fear-is-a-liar-overcoming-fear-worry/ 

Anytime we have something that occurs in our lives that causes pain, it can take some time to truly heal and move forward from the event. Whether it's a divorce, job loss, losing a home, or sadly even a child; it's a process. Sometimes, even in the midst of processing the hurt in a healthy way, you can find yourself literally feeling the pain in your heart as if it happened that same day. I hope in this "Convos with Chloe" I am able to relate to you on these feelings and give you healing, hope, encouragement and guidance in this topic so you can continue  having a beautiful life on earth and eternal life in heaven. Podcast Highlights: My Story Express to God How You Feel Don't Try to Fill the Voids See the Past for What It Truly Is Don't Ruminate or Revisit the Pain Don't Try to Restore Yourself Too Soon Always Have Hope & Never Give Up  Helpful Related Links :  The Break-Up: How to Let Go of Your Ex, Heal, Forgive & Move Forward : https://chloemgooden.com/my-books/  When It Feels Like God Isn't There: https://anchor.fm/convoswithchloe/episodes/When-It-Feels-Like-God-Isnt-There-e4f7c6  Songs of Encouragement Mentioned: The Blessing with Kari Jobe & Cody Carnes | Live From Elevation Ballantyne | Elevation Worship : https://youtu.be/Zp6aygmvzM4  Psalm 23 (I Am Not Alone) [Live at Linger Conference] People & Songs ft Josh Sherman: https://youtu.be/8OlMGnPUAdw

Having moments of loneliness a bit more often towards the holiday season? Recently became single from a break-up or divorce and feeling empty in your home alone? Have you found yourself hating the feeling and trying to fill the void as quickly as possible? Even if that means doing something you know isn't good for you in the long run? Yeah; me too. Feeling loneliness is normal and definitely something I know many of us can relate to as single women. I hope in today's "Convos with Chloe" I'm able to connect with you on these feelings, show you how to process them, how to deal, as well as show you God's perspective. For more help in this holiday season and dealing with loneliness, check out the blog "Surviving the Holidays after a Recent Break-up or Divorce" at www.chloemgooden.com. 

Wondering what you should do today? Join Chloe for "Saturdays with Chloe" and get an idea of your true purpose, plan, and agenda that we all should have today....well, really.... everyday. For more resources, visit chloemgooden.com 

Been praying for years for them to change? Frustrated with going through the same issues in your relationship/marriage? Finding yourself making excuses for their behavior? Tired? Frustrated? Questioning God? Yeah. I've felt all those things before and I know the toll it carries on your heart and spirit. I hope in this "Convos with Chloe" I'm able to help navigate you through this tough season of waiting on someone to change and bring you hope, healing, and encouragement. For more resources visit www.chloemgooden.com - "Leading women to healing, hope, strength, and fulfillment through Christ to help you experience a fulfilling life on earth and a beautiful life in Heaven." 

Hello and thanks for stopping by “Convos with Chloe”. My name is Chloe M. Gooden , Author, Mentor, and Speaker and founder of Chloe M. Gooden Ministries. We focus on leading women to healing, hope, strength, and fulfilment through Christ and house the ministries: Her Worth Is Far Above Rubies & After Miscarriage. On Convos with Chloe we discuss topics on Break-ups, Divorce, Dating, Relationships, Miscarriage, Faith, Identity in Christ, and more. I hope you are able to attain healing, guidance, and hope on our podcast to help you experience a fulfilling life on earth and a beautiful life in heaven. Speak soon! - www.chloemgooden.com

Yes. We are going to talk about masturbation. I know these topics are so taboo; but that is the issue. Many of us struggle with these issues and I brought in two special guest to talk about loneliness, pornography, and masturbation and sexual temptations. I hope our conversation sheds light on these topics, but also gives you a fun and open space to have an honest conversation on "Convos with Chloe" and yourself. Visit www.chloemgooden.com for more resources. Check out "Not Tonight: My Worth Is Far Above Rubies" and "Single, Celibate, and Dating" for more help on sexual temptation, singlehood, celibacy, dating, and more! Go to www.chloemgooden.com/my-books

Can't figure out why you keep thinking about him? Frustrated that you keep finding yourself going back to an ex no matter how hard you try to move on? Yeah; me too. Soul ties are real, strong, but not impossible to break. I hope in this segment of "Convos with Chloe" I'm able to give you some quick tips on how to break a soul tie and finally move on. Visit www.chloemgooden.com for more resources and to subscribe and never miss a new post from Chloe! NEW BOOK COMING JANUARY 2021! Visit chloemgooden.com/my-books for more information and special pre-order pricing!

I hate not knowing what will happen next in my life. Don't you? I am a major planner and enjoy the security of knowing where I'm going, how I will get there and when! Haha. I am sure if we all could have a crystal ball and see our future; we would possibly take that chance to do so. Why do we feel the need to know what will happen in our future? Why must we know everything will go as we have planned? Why do we feel the need to be prepared at all times for any future possible circumstances? I hope in this "Convos with Chloe", I not only show you why you feel this way but how to have peace with your unknown future. Visit https://www.chloemgooden.com/ for more resources, books and videos!  Maslows Hiearchy of Needs Citation: https://www.simplypsychology.org/maslow.html

Ugh! That frustrating sentence that we all hate to hear from a guy we love and adore. I've been there. You've given your all to this guy, and when it's time for that next step, he utters the words, "I'm not ready for a relationship/commitment." Where did this come from? We've been dating and seem to be on the same page, but you don't want a relationship? It's tough. I know. I'm hoping in this segment of "Convos with Chloe" I give you some insight from guys on what they mean when they say they aren't ready, as well as what to do when they say it. Visit www.chloemgooden.com for more resources and more! 

Geesh! Will you ever meet the guy you've been praying for? I remember the feeling. Felt like it took forever to meet my husband and I remember all the frustrations before I met him. Dating one guy after another. One hope to another being crushed. What can you do to deal with these frustrations? How can you be patient in this season without going crazy? In this Segment of "Convos with Chloe" I hope to give you some advice, encouragement and hope in your waiting season. Visit www.chloemgooden.com for more resources, books and more! 

Why are you dating? Do you know the type of husband you desire? Do you have an idea of the type of family life you want? Do you have a plan? Whether it's dating, or any aspect in our lives, we should have a plan and also be mindful of our actions. If we don't have a purpose; we will just end up with anyone and anything. If your actions don't line up with you desires; then your goal will not be attained. What's your plan? I hope on this "Convos with Chloe", with special guest Anthony D. Sparks, you are able to gain insight on "How to Date Deliberately" and attain the relationship and marriage you desire. Visit  https://www.chloemgooden.com/  for more resources! For more information of our guesinhibitedt, visit here:  https://www.anthonydsparks.com/  

How many times have you gone back to an ex that you know isn't good for you? What about that guy you had 2-3 dates with but you had a good feeling he wasn't a good person? Or, maybe that guy that treated you like dirt? Whoever he may be, I think we all have fell victim to going back to guys that we know aren't good for us. I hope in this segment of "Convos with Chloe" you learn why you go back, the dangers of going back as well as remedies to not repeat the same behaviors. Don't forget, "Ask Chloe" segment after the podcast as I answer questions from listeners like YOU! Additional Resources:  https://www.chloemgooden.com/rubies-healing-letting-go/ Additional Resources:  https://www.chloemgooden.com/one-on-one-mentorship/  

Have you ever felt like God wasn't with you in your life? Maybe you are going through a rough time and have prayed to God multiple times; but no answer. You've asked God to help you and  change the situation; but nothing has changed. Where is He? Why hasn't He answered you? I hope in this segment of "Convos with Chloe" you are able to receive understanding, encouragement and guidance, and realize; He never left. 

 I’ve always wanted to be a wife and mother since childhood. I played house, fed my fake baby doll and cooked meals in my easy bake oven with pride and enthusiasm. I loved it. I couldn't wait for the day to become a Mrs. and mother. However, somewhere along my life, this desire turned into an obsession and my actions portrayed desperation. How did this happen? How did such a natural and innocent desire turn into idolization? How can you know if your desire has actually turned into desperation? I hope in this "Convos with Chloe" you not only see the dangers of being desperate for marriage but why you feel this way and how to have a healthy balance in your desire for marriage. To visit Chloe M. Gooden website for more resources: Click Here. To support "Convos with Chloe" and future episodes & transcribing, Click Here.

Never experienced a long-term relationship? Or, maybe it seems no matter who you date the same things keeps happening. Break-up after break-up.  Disappointment after another. Eventually you have to take a step back and question, "What is really going on?! Will I always be single?!” I hope in this "Convos with Chloe" you are able to step back and evaluate your past and present dating/relationships and get some insight on "Why Your Relationships Seem To Never Work Out".   To visit Chloe M. Gooden website for more resources: Click Here. To support "Convos with Chloe" and future episodes & transcribing, Click Here. 

 How many times have you met a guy and assumed he had a love and vigor for God simply because he went to church? Or how many times have you been fooled because he quoted scriptures and seemed to be the Godly man you've been waiting for, but eventually, his true colors came out and you realized he was definitely not sent by God? On this "Convos with Chloe" myself and special guest, Dana Bryant, are going to speak with you about what to look out for to ensure he truly has a relationship with God and/or on a journey of seeking God.  For more resources : Chloe M. Gooden, www.chloemgooden.com & Special Guest Dana Bryant , www.liftedwoman.blog.  To visit Chloe M. Gooden website for more resources: Click Here. To support "Convos with Chloe" and future episodes & transcribing, Click Here. 

Ever wondered if the guy you are dating is the right one for you? Yeah, me too. I always questioned whether or not if I was making the right choice and constantly found myself asking others, or researching, what would make the right fit for me. I hope in this "Convos with Chloe" you gain insight on what to look out for when choosing a potential mate and how to know if he is the right one for you.  To visit Chloe M. Gooden website for more resources: Click Here. To support "Convos with Chloe" and future episodes & transcribing, Click Here. 

Single, Dating & Waiting. Some of you are frustrated in this season and some of you are enjoying. Those who are frustrated may constantly be wondering, “When will God send me my mate?” “Will I ever be a wife?” “I’ve been waiting for years and still single, why?” “I’ve been hurt so many times, when is God going to send me a good guy?” I remember so many thoughts, and hopeful dreams, playing in my mind during my single season. If I could go back to my single self and have a conversation, there are so many things I would say as well as advise. What would they be? Listen in on “Convos with Chloe” and find out.  To visit Chloe M. Gooden website for more resources: Click Here. To support "Convos with Chloe" and future episodes & transcribing, Click Here. 

The New Year is coming up! For some; that brings excitement, while others; possibly disappointment. The New Year usually brings on the idea of new beginnings for many, but, somehow, we end up at the end of the year in the same place we were the year before. What New Years Resolution did you set that didn't happen? What desire did you speak into your year that didn't come into fruition? Why does this happen? What do you need to do differently for next year and how do you reflect on the previous one? Check in on "Convos with Chloe" and find out.  To visit Chloe M. Gooden website for more resources: Click Here. To support "Convos with Chloe" and future episodes & transcribing, Click Here. 

What have you been asking God for? What desires are you waiting to be fulfilled? A new job? Healing? Or maybe a spouse? I think we all are asking and waiting on God for something and sometimes wonder, “Why am I still waiting?” Check in on “Convos with Chloe” and find out Why You Are Still Waiting on Your Desires.  To visit Chloe M. Gooden website for more resources: Click Here. To support "Convos with Chloe" and future episodes & transcribing, Click Here. 

Our Country. Our Relationships. Our Lives. Our Jobs. There are so many Vows, Promises, and Oaths we’ve pledged our lives to and it seems we do this on a pretty regular basis. Some of these vows are really important. But, there is one vow that was the most important dedication you’ve ever made in your life. Many times, we forget the true meaning of the words we speak and what we’ve dedicated our lives to forever; Our vow to Christ. Have you? Check in on “Convos with Chloe” and see if you’ve forgotten.  To visit Chloe M. Gooden website for more resources: Click Here. To support "Convos with Chloe" and future episodes & transcribing, Click Here. 

You’ve cried. You’ve prayed. You’ve hurt. But, you’re still there. Going in circles over the same issues, excuses and pain time and time again. Yet, you still love them and keep going back. Why? Catch up with Chloe on “Why You Can’t Seem to Let Him Go” and let’s find out why you won’t leave this Harmful and Unloving relationship. If you are struggling to let go, I suggest my book, "The Break-up: How to Let Go of Your Ex, Heal, Forgive & Move Forward" - www.chloemgooden.com/my-books

What worries you today? Is it your job performance? Or maybe if your relationship will survive? Or maybe it’s your health? Whatever your worry, its something that affects us all and strangles our day. How can you deal with these worries? Catch up with Chloe and let’s see how we can get peace even in the midst of our worries.  To visit Chloe M. Gooden website for more resources: Click Here. To support "Convos with Chloe" and future episodes & transcribing, Click Here. 

Over 6 million adults deal with anxiety! Wowzer. Nervous about a date? Worried you won’t pass that exam? Stressed about your relationships? Let’s go down the Fear Trail and get to the root of your anxiety with Convos with Chloe!  To visit Chloe M. Gooden website for more resources: Click Here. To support "Convos with Chloe" and future episodes & transcribing, Click Here.