
Counselors & Coffee
By Jessie Brockel & Ashley Geist

Counselors & CoffeeMay 17, 2023

Check in on those New Year's Resolutions!
Its been a few months since we made New Year’s Resolutions or Intentions…hows your’s going? On this episode, Jess and Ash check in on eachother and see how they are coming on the goals and intentions they set for themselves a few months back, and look to the future and how they can be even more successful.
WE ALSO TALK ABOUT:
How to recommit or reaffirm your goals
Tips for setting goals and intentions
How to brush yourself off if you missed the mark
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Spring and the Transitions of Life
Spring is here!
SUMMARY PARAGRAPH: At least here in the Midwest, spring has finally sprung after a long winter. But the change in seasons can bring some new feelings and opportunities for transitions. Jess and Ash walk through how to navigate this time of transition and how to thrive while doing it!
WE ALSO TALK ABOUT:
Opportunities that the change in seasons gives us to make change
It’s ok if transitions are hard for you
Go to the milestones, you won’t regret it!
Instagram: @wholeheartedhub
Website: wholeheartedhub.com

Resilience
Have you ever felt like you just can't go on, or life is too hard? Turns out you can help yourself get through the hard times in life by building your resilience! This week Ash and Jess talk about how to keep going and thrive when things get hard.
WE ALSO TALK ABOUT:
What makes people resilient
The joys of pushing through the hard times
How to be mindful and have positive self talk
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Website: wholeheartedhub.com

Becoming a Lifetime Learner
EP. 8 - Lifetime Learning
SUMMARY PARAGRAPH: Have you ever wanted to learn a new skill? This week, Ash and Jess talk about the best ways to learn new things, some of the best techniques for making it stick and how to take the first step.
Although we work hard to bring inspirational, educational and impactful info to you...it does not in any way take the place of counseling or dictate a clinician/client relationship. This podcast is for enjoyment and we encourage you to consult a professional if needing specific services.
WE ALSO TALK ABOUT:
What are we learning right now!
Ways that we learn things
Things that can get in the way of learning
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Website: wholeheartedhub.com

Sleep
Feeling sleepy? This week Jessie and Ash talk about one of the best things you can do for your body; sleep! They discuss why sleep is so important, what is impacting your sleep and how you can get more sleep!
Although we work hard to bring inspirational, educational and impactful info to you...it does not in any way take the place of counseling or dictate a clinician/client relationship. This podcast is for enjoyment and we encourage you to consult a professional if needing specific services.
WE ALSO TALK ABOUT:
What happens to your body when you sleep
Things that effect your sleep, both positive and negative
How parenthood impacts your sleep
How to set your sleep schedule
Chemicals and stimuli that can mess with your sleep
Tips for better sleep
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Website: wholeheartedhub.com

Stress: Friend or Foe?
On today’s episode, Jess and Ash talk about the the daily stressors that can get us down and the anxiety that can come with those stressors. They tackle how to identify sources of stress, how to calm yourself back down and how to generally reduce stress in your life.
Although we work hard to bring inspirational, educational and impactful info to you...it does not in any way take the place of counseling or dictate a clinician/client relationship. This podcast is for enjoyment and we encourage you to consult a professional if needing specific services.
WE ALSO TALK ABOUT:
How your body will tell you when you are stressed
The effects of long term stress on the body
The body systems and their response to stress
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Website: wholeheartedhub.com

Part 4. Let's Take Action. Planning Next Steps & Outlining Goals.
SUMMARY PARAGRAPH: This week Jess and Ash share their personal approaches to goal setting, treatment plans and what to focus on first in your helping journey.
You have laid the groundwork for having an amazing first session, now we move to identifying next steps to feeling better!
Although we work hard to bring inspirational, educational and impactful info to you...it does not in any way take the place of counseling or dictate a clinician/client relationship. This podcast is for enjoyment and we encourage you to consult a professional if needing specific services.
WE ALSO TALK ABOUT:
Roadmap to feeling better
Treatment plan & outlining goals as a team
One idea to take out the door to apply today.
Priotizing information
Setting goals with being able to measure outcomes, are we making progress?
Treatment planning is fluid and changes with the needs of the client.
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Website: wholeheartedhub.com
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Part 3: What Is Going To Counseling Like? De-Mystifying The First Appointment
EP. 4 - PART 3: What Is Going To Counseling Like? De-Mystifying The First Appointment
SUMMARY PARAGRAPH: The first time telling someone about struggles or tough things happening to you can be scary. Maybe these are things you’ve never told anyone before. This week, Jess and Ash break down the first appointment and what you can expect. It might seem like a lot of questions, but it is the first step to growth.
Although we work hard to bring inspirational, educational and impactful info to you...it does not in any way take the place of counseling or dictate a clinician/client relationship. This podcast is for enjoyment and we encourage you to consult a professional if needing specific services.
WE ALSO TALK ABOUT:
Honoring uncertainty and feelings that come up before you first appointment.
Therapists LOVE to meet you and hear your story
All steps, no matter a stumble or solid, are still steps!
Your experiences impact your behavior.
The past is important, the initial appointment will be a information gathering time.
Confidentiality, right to privacy, licensure, supervision arrangements, and mandated reporting.
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PART 2: Which Mental Health Professional Is Right For You?
While we LOVE that mental health care is getting mainstream attention, it can still be daunting to dip your toe in with no experience. How do you find a therapist? Do you ask a friend? Is their person right for you? There are a million questions that your mind will throw at you once you’ve made up your mind to pick up the phone. We’re here to calm your worries and answer those questions so you can move forward with the right partnership with confidence.
Although we work hard to bring inspirational, educational and impactful info to you...it does not in any way take the place of counseling or dictate a clinician/client relationship. This podcast is for enjoyment and we encourage you to consult a professional if needing specific services.
WE ALSO TALK ABOUT:
- How to find a mental health professional
- Getting a therapist before you NEED one
- Reaching out for referrals
- Counselors aren’t mind readers
- Finding the right “fit”
- Clinician licensure
- Keep the appointment even if you “feel better”
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PART 1: Getting In Tune With Your Mental Health
Looking at social media, it can seem like you either “have” mental health or you don’t. The reality is, mental health is something we ALL have and get to build a personal relationship with. The signs and symptoms of positive or negative mental health can show up in many forms, but it isn’t always talked about. We’re here to bring this conversation to the forefront, normalize its many signs, and help you understand what steps are necessary on your journey.
Although we work hard to bring inspirational, educational and impactful info to you...it does not in any way take the place of counseling or dictate a clinician/client relationship. This podcast is for enjoyment and we encourage you to consult a professional if needing specific services.
WE ALSO TALK ABOUT:
- Everyone “has” mental health
- Symptoms of mental health issues
- When to look for support
- The shifting mental health narrative
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Instagram: @wholeheartedhub
Website: wholeheartedhub.com

Welcome Back to the Show!
Jess & Ashley are back! After a much-needed break, we are back and ready to share all of our learnings from our time away. There is refreshed energy in the air and this podcast is shifting with it! We are excited to have you along for the ride as we learn and grow into this platform. Get ready for more content surrounding mental health and bringing wellness practices into your life.
Although we work hard to bring inspirational, educational and impactful info to you...it does not in any way take the place of counseling or dictate a clinician/client relationship. This podcast is for enjoyment and we encourage you to consult a professional if needing specific services.
WE ALSO TALK ABOUT:
- Realigning the podcast
- Where we’ve been + what we’ve learned
- Living intentionally
- Shifting phases of motherhood
- Personal intentions moving forward
- What we’re excited about this year
JOIN OUR COMMUNITY:
Instagram: @wholeheartedhub
Website: wholeheartedhub.com

How To Enjoy Your Own Company
It's time for a little quality time with... ourselves! The longest relationship we'll ever be in is the one with ourselves. Jessie and Ashley talk about the importance and benefits of learning to thrive in our own company.
* The content provided on this podcast should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions. In no way does listening, reading, emailing, or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.

Give Yourself A Break
With hustle culture and productivity held on a pedestal, burnout can creep up without us even knowing. In this episode, Jessie and Ashley discuss why taking breaks throughout your day, week, month, and year is of the utmost importance.
* The content provided on this podcast should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions. In no way does listening, reading, emailing, or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.

It's All So Routine!

Get to Know Ashley!
Get to know your Hubster Chatroom co-host! Ashley is taking the hot seat as she shares her experience with grad school, choosing a career path, fighting the constant urge to quit, and so much more.

What Is Authentic Self-Confidence and Where Can We Get It?
The Hubster Chatroom ladies are back, this time to tackle the topic of self-confidence! What is it? Why do we need it, what is it NOT, and how do we create some if we don't have any? Let's dive in!
* The content provided on this podcast should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions. In no way does listening, reading, emailing, or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.

Get to Know Jessie!
Since we are kicking off the new year, the Hubster Chatroom hosts thought it would be a great time to reintroduce themselves! Listen in as Jessie discusses navigating relationships, parenthood, starting her wellness business, and so much more.

Let's Get Spiritual
What is spirituality and why is it important for our wellness? Jessie and Ashley explore what spirituality means to them and how it can support us in our wellness journeys.
* The content provided on this podcast should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions. In no way does listening, reading, emailing, or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.

How To Handle Tough Emotions During the Holiday Season
The past two years have brought incredible change to the world and to each of us. If your family is looking a little different this year, it can be a struggle to feel the holiday joy. Join Jessie & Ashley as they discuss how to handle these mixed emotions during this celebratory season.
* The content provided on this podcast should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions. In no way does listening, reading, emailing, or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.

Help, I Have a Lot to Change!
Jessie & Ashley explore breaking down our goals when the task looks too big & overwhelming. This week's example is making changes that support healthy sleep, which has a huge impact on all the areas of our lives.
* The content provided on this podcast should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions. In no way does listening, reading, emailing, or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.

I Liked the Way Things Were... Am I a Stick in the Mud?
Ever feel stuck when the rest of the world seems to be moving forward? In this episode, Jessie & Ashley explore why we might be resistant to changes and how to honor our feelings and growth through the process.
* The content provided on this podcast should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions. In no way does listening, reading, emailing, or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.

How to Handle Changes We Didn't Ask For
This change is happening; now what? Jessie & Ashley explore coping with changes that are sudden, unasked for, and possibly unwelcome in our lives.
* The content provided on this podcast should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions. In no way does listening, reading, emailing, or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.

Setting Boundaries
You can do all the things you want to do, but you can't do them all at once. Join Ashley & Jessie as they discuss the importance of setting boundaries and how to approach the subject when you're used to being the "yes man" in others' lives.
The content provided on this podcast should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions. In no way does listening, reading, emailing, or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.

Self-Sabotage
Have you ever had a goal in mind, but everything seems to be getting in the way? Some of these things might be self-sabotage! Jessie and Ashley discuss why we might be creating our own conflicts and how we can adjust our lifestyles to avoid them.
The content provided on this podcast should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions. In no way does listening, reading, emailing, or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.

How to Create Changes that Last!
Improvement is great, but how do we keep it going? Join The Hubster Chatroom conversation as we explore how to maintain our gains long after those mountain top moments.
* The content provided on this podcast should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions. In no way does listening, reading, emailing, or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.

I'm Doing Something Exciting, so Why Am I Freaking Out?
Do you ever freak out while doing something cool? Us too! Join The Hubster Chatroom as Jessie & Ashley explore the feelings that arise while making our way through a positive change.
* The content provided on this podcast should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions. In no way does listening, reading, emailing, or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.

Overcoming Obstacles
Oh, the obstacles we meet! Join Jessie & Ashley as they explore making our way under, over, around, through, and even embracing obstacles and setbacks on the path of life.
* The content provided on this podcast should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions. In no way does listening, reading, emailing, or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.

How to Prioritize Self-Care During Seasons of Change
In this episode of The Hubster Chatroom, Jessie and Ashley discuss the difficulties of prioritizing self-care when our lives become overwhelming, and why the best time to focus on yourself is when you feel like you have no time at all. How do we manage to love ourselves when so many other things are demanding attention? They give their own tips and tricks for time management and small ways to treat yourself during the busy seasons of change. Let's dive in!
* The content provided on this podcast should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions. In no way does listening, reading, emailing, or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.

What is Wholehearted Hub?
In this episode of The Hubster Chatroom, founder Jessie Brockel answers our most frequently asked questions: What is Wholehearted Hub? Who is it for? Why is it important? Jessie has a passion for mental health that expands past the clinical aspect. Listen to learn how her newest venture, Wholehearted Hub, can help you and your loved ones reach their full potential.
