
Grace for the Growth with Courtney Leo
By Courtney Leo

Grace for the Growth with Courtney LeoMay 05, 2023

015 A Birthday Heart to Heart: Some Reflections from the Last Year of Growth
Today marks the last day of my birth year! I turn 31 tomorrow and before I start a new year, I wanted to take a few moments to look back with you. I can't look back without taking you along the journey and THANKING you for every thing you've done for me along with some big themes:
In this episode, you'll hear:
What made me start my summer dating marathon How one connection created a safe space for me to heal from a toxic relationship Grief Growth Some things coming next A big virtual hug and thank you from me.I wouldn't be here without you. Thank you for every review, DM, listen, masterclass attendance and more. I'm so thankful and I can't wait for the next year that is coming!
Work with Courtney:
Are you looking for a safe space to process what's going on? I highly recommend signing up for Virtual Coffee Chats, your 60 minute coaching session where we can talk grief, hope and singleness and more. Click here to book your Virtual Coffee Chat now!
Or consider joining Bloom🌼. Click here or DM me on Instagram to see if it's the right fit for you!
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Engage in the conversation:
@GracefortheGrowth on IG & Facebook
@CourtneyyLeo on IG and TikTok
Email: hello@graceforthegrowth.com with ideas, questions, and stories about your own growth journey!

014 "I Talk to God & My Therapist": Blending Faith and Therapy to be your Mental Health GPS with Mike Guess
This week, I join my friend, Mike Guess, as we talk all things mental health and therapy. Mike started attending therapy and addressing traumas in his life and now encourages others on their journeys as well. If you have wondered "Why therapy?" "What is the value of it?" "What to look for in therapy?" "How does this work with prayer and faith?", this is the episode for you!
Topics we discuss:
Mike's story and journey How to blend faith and therapy together Is praying about it enough? What are some things to look for in a therapist? The different purposes of therapy The power of vulnerability Men & vulnerability How to create safe spaces in relationships Is therapy for you even if you haven't been through intense trauma? Therapy as a GPS for lifeAbout Mike:
Mike Guess is a father and creative who spent many years working in the music industry as an artist, producer, and engineer. However, when the pandemic brought the world to a standstill, Mike's life took a new direction. He recognized the need to confront the traumas he had experienced throughout his life and started attending therapy sessions, which had a profound impact on him.
Inspired by his own transformation, Mike launched Be Good Brand in November 2021, with the goal of promoting the benefits of therapy and ending the stigma surrounding seeking help. The brand has made a profound impact, with a growing community of advocates in 49 states and three countries. Mike and his team continue to advocate for the power of therapy, the importance of mental health, and spreading hope and positivity.
Want to connect with Mike and Be Good Brand more?
Website | Instagram | Other Mental Health Resources
Work with Courtney:
Are you looking for a safe space to process what's going on? I highly recommend signing up for Virtual Coffee Chats, your 60 minute coaching session where we can talk grief, hope and singleness and more. Click here to book your Virtual Coffee Chat now!
Or consider joining Bloom🌼. Click here or DM me on Instagram to see if it's the right fit for you!
Catch up on previous episodes on Apple, Spotify, Google Podcasts, and more!
Please rate, review, subscribe and share. Thanks so much!!
Engage in the conversation:
@GracefortheGrowth on IG & Facebook
@CourtneyyLeo on IG and TikTok
Email: hello@graceforthegrowth.com with ideas, questions, and stories about your own growth journey!

013 Building Faith & Intimacy with the Lord with Danielle Schaaf
#013 Two years ago, Danielle Schaaf took a step of faith and left her full time job to pursue full time life coaching. In the last two years, she's experienced incredible provision and blessing as a single falling more in love with Jesus. Every conversation I have with Danielle leaves me inspired, encouraged and FIRED up about what God can do. You're going to love hearing her story about how, after a challenging broken engagement, she found herself fully devoted to the Lord. We'll be talking about how her experience can serve as encouragement to those of you navigating relationships, faith, and even embracing singleness.
Together, we dive into topics like idolizing marriage, the desire for companionship, and how to build healthy friendships with men. If you're interested in learning more about Danielle and her incredible journey or have any questions for her, feel free to follow her on Instagram at @DanielleLynnShaaf.
Topics Discussed:
- Developing Faith to Pursue Goals
- Surrendering to the Lord’s Will
- Singleness as a Gift
- The Importance of Building a Relationship with the Lord
- Building a Healthy Friendship with Men
- Idolizing Marriage and the Need for Companionship
- Understanding Your "Why" for Desiring Marriage
- Obeying God's Will in All Aspects of Life
- Engaging in Healthy Friendships Before Romance
About Danielle:
Danielle Schaaf is a Faith-based Life coach, teacher and recovering people-pleaser who is all about you walking in your God-given worth. Ice baths, salsa dancing, and traveling are a few of her favorite things.
Want to connect with Danielle more?
Instagram | Website | Schedule a Connection Call
Work with Courtney:
Virtual Coffee Chats, your 60 minute coaching blitz where we can talk grief, hope and singleness. Click here to book your Virtual Coffee Chat now!
Or consider joining Bloom🌼. Click here or DM me on Instagram to see if it's the right fit for you!
Catch up on previous episodes on Apple, Spotify, Google Podcasts, and more!
Please rate, review, subscribe and share. Thanks so much!!
Engage in the conversation:
@GracefortheGrowth on IG & Facebook
@CourtneyyLeo on IG and TikTok
Email: hello@graceforthegrowth.com with ideas, questions, and stories about your own growth journey!

012 Learning to Grieve Well with Bridgett Blood
On today's episode, I get to introduce you to one of my dearest friends, Bridgett Blood. Bridgett life song of encouraging people to grieve well, rest well and love well has been so impactful in my life. Our conversation today is full of deep truth, extreme vulnerability and personal stories as we dive into this conversation. We talk about:
How to avoid comparing grief How to hold space and be intentional with others in their grief Grief helps us live more authentically Utilizing compassion and curiosity for ourselves as we experience triggers Allowing people to carry the weight of the hurt they cause us The relationship between resentment and boundaries Finding freedom as we listen to our mind, heart, and bodyAbout Bridgett:
Bridgett is passionate about emotional health, trauma informed discipleship and sexual wholeness. She is a gifted communicator who enjoys equipping others to live powerfully in the tension of both the glory and grief of life. You will always find her learning new things! Whether that’s listening to a podcast, taking an e-course and reading or book. After serving as a spiritual formation pastor in Ohio for five years, Bridgett recently moved to Nashville TN where she founded Recover Your Life Consulting in hopes of empowering people to grieve well, rest well and love well.
Want to connect with Bridgett more?
Website | Instagram | Schedule a Coaching Session
Work with Courtney:
Virtual Coffee Chats, your 60 minute coaching blitz where we can talk grief, hope and singleness. Click here to book your Virtual Coffee Chat now!
Or consider joining Bloom🌼. Click here or DM me on Instagram to see if it's the right fit for you!
Catch up on previous episodes on Apple, Spotify, Google Podcasts, and more!
Please rate, review, subscribe and share. Thanks so much!!
Engage in the conversation:
@GracefortheGrowth on IG & Facebook
@CourtneyyLeo on IG and TikTok
Email: hello@graceforthegrowth.com with ideas, questions, and stories about your own growth journey!

011 Hold On, Sunday's Coming: Good Friday Episode
I had other plans for this week but God came in and took over all of my plans.
On this Good Friday, I'm reflecting on what it would be like to stand in the disciples' shoes on that night....hope lost, expectations not met, dreams dead, grief felt. Wow, I've felt like that too many times. Today, my heart as we sit in the virtual living room is to encourage you to hold on.
I share a post I wrote 5 years ago about seasons and change...holding on to hope when we find ourselves in transition. I share from my heart in the hopes to encourage you if you feel hope lost, expectations not met, dreams dead and grief felt.
In the episode, I mentioned Virtual Coffee Chats...a 60 minute private 1:1 session for me. I've made them more accessible than ever before. Click here to book your Virtual Coffee Chat now!
Want to dive deeper and experience long lasting and sustainable change in your mindsets and labels? Consider joining Bloom🌼. Click here or DM me on Instagram to see if it's the right fit for you!
Catch up on previous episodes on Apple, Spotify, Google Podcasts, and more!
Please rate, review, subscribe and share. Thanks so much!!
Engage in the conversation:
@GracefortheGrowth on IG & Facebook
@CourtneyyLeo on IG and TikTok
Email: hello@graceforthegrowth.com with ideas, questions, and stories about your own growth journey!

010 Wrestling for Answers & Leaning into Grief with Kathryn Means
Healthy relationships have healthy conflict. So why do we feel like we can’t wrestle with the Lord? Kathryn Means, host of the podcast Unlearning the Narrative of Singleness, shares about feeling like the older son in the parable of the Prodigal Son. “God, I’ve done it right. Why is marriage not a gift to me? Why have I never been chosen?” Many times we find ourselves pursuing the idol of marriage instead of the heart of God.
Why have I not been chosen? Finding freedom through grieving Singleness is a gift to the body of Christ To receive the gift, we have to own it God is not Santa Claus or a vending machine How to hold on to hope Can God handle my emotion and grief?About Kathryn:
Kathryn never intended to be an expert in Christian singleness, but at 42 years old and never married, that’s just what happened. Passionate about bridging the gap between single and married Christ-Followers and exposing the idol the Church has made of marriage, she is the host of Unlearning the Narrative of Singleness, found wherever you listen to podcasts. Dog mom to Willa, daughter to two outrageously generous parents, aunt to three really cool nephews, and sister to biological and spiritual siblings alike, Kathryn is leaning into community now more than ever before, knowing there is safety in the risk of being known.
Want to connect with Kathryn more?
Website | Instagram | Facebook | Podcast
Work with Courtney:
Virtual Coffee Chats, your 60 minute coaching blitz where we can talk grief, hope and singleness. Click here to book your Virtual Coffee Chat now!
Or consider joining Bloom🌼. Click here or DM me on Instagram to see if it's the right fit for you!
Catch up on previous episodes on Apple, Spotify, Google Podcasts, and more!
Please rate, review, subscribe and share. Thanks so much!!
Engage in the conversation:
@GracefortheGrowth on IG & Facebook
@CourtneyyLeo on IG and TikTok
Email: hello@graceforthegrowth.com with ideas, questions, and stories about your own growth journey!

009 The Labels We Wear
Sometimes we consciously or unconsciously wear labels. If we aren't aware of them, these labels will define us, filter us, and keep us from living in our unique design. Today, I invite you to recognize the labels in your life, dig deep into what caused those, replace them with Truth, invite God into the process, and shift your mindset.
In this episode, you will hear:
Practical exercise to help us define those labels Examples of deep and not-so-deep labels that shape who we are Encouragement on your journey Ways to move forward and start living in that freedom as your authentic self.
I'd LOVE to hear what stands out to you and what strikes a chord with you. Please reach out and lets chat more about this. Let me know what we should talk more about!
In the episode, I mentioned Virtual Coffee Chats...a 60 minute coaching blitz where we can dive into these mindsets, labels and start working through them together. Click here to book your Virtual Coffee Chat now!
Want to dive deeper and experience long lasting and sustainable change in your mindsets and labels? Consider joining Bloom🌼. Click here or DM me on Instagram to see if it's the right fit for you!
Catch up on previous episodes on Apple, Spotify, Google Podcasts, and more!
Please rate, review, subscribe and share. Thanks so much!!
Engage in the conversation:
@GracefortheGrowth on IG & Facebook
@CourtneyyLeo on IG and TikTok
Email: hello@graceforthegrowth.com with ideas, questions, and stories about your own growth journey!

008 Shifting Some Singleness Mindsets
There is NO topic I have more requests to share about than Singleness...and I'm not mad about it at all. 😊 We have a lot to cover and it's much more than one episode but here's a summary of what we dive into :
Courtney's personal story of when she realized she was going to have a single season separate from the model she'd expected
We take some time to breakdown some narratives or mindsets that we often hear in singleness. Here are some truths we share:You can be content in singleness and also be sad at the same time.
Singleness isn't a preseason or waiting room season. Singleness is a season. Period. Marriage isn't a reward for doing singleness well. "If only I was_____ enough." There isn't a pass/fail for your singleness and if you pass, you get marriage. Run your race fully. Don't let anyone dim your light. Don't settle for misaligned purpose to prioritize the idol that marriage can become. Don't settle for companionship instead of partnership Your Heavenly Father LOVES YOU. Spend time with him. Know his character. Get to know the peace the Holy Spirit brings. He gives good gifts. He won't skimp out on you. Singleness isn't your punishmentAnd I answer the listener submitted question: What legacy do you want to leave in your season of singleness and how you do it?
I pray that this episode encourages you and invites you to reflect and journal on these thoughts. Have there been moments where some of these mindsets have creeped in? Is it time to speak some truth to them.
I'd LOVE to hear what stands out to you and what strikes a chord with you. Please reach out and lets chat more about this. Let me know what we should talke more about!
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Want to learn more about Bloom🌼? Click here or DM me on Instagram!
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Engage in the conversation:
@GracefortheGrowth on IG & Facebook @CourtneyyLeo on IG and TikTok Email: hello@graceforthegrowth.com with ideas, questions, and stories about your own growth journey!
007 Letting Go of Emotions with Dom Leo
When you think of being emotionally self-aware, what comes to mind? Did you ever realize that emotional sobriety can be a source of freedom in your life?
In this episode, Courtney hosts a conversation with Dom Leo, a personal coach for people wanting to breakthrough barriers in their growth and health journeys and he happens to be Courtney's brother. Here are some topics we covered:
Healthy mindset around pivots of life Difference between knowing and understanding "Letting go of emotions" doesn't mean being apathetic but practicing fully feeling them Addition to emotions Being honest with emotions Finding emotional sobrietyThis is a JAM PACKED episode. Let me know what stands out to you!
A little about Dom Leo...
Dom Leo is a personal coach that works 1 on 1 with people to breakthrough the barriers that are in their growth and health journey. Dom has been involved in the Health and Wellness space for over a decade and has a passion for personal growth. He and his wife have been in the Network Marketing space for almost 4 years and in that time they have earned top 10 income earners for their age group multiple times and have helped almost 1000 people become healthier and build an additional income stream. Dom is passionate about working with people to help them achieve their health goals as well as reach new heights in their life.
Want to connect with Dom further?
Instagram: @_DomLeo_
DM Dom for ways to partner with him further via Network Marketing, 1:1 Fitness Coaching or 1:1 Personal Coaching
Engage in the conversation:
@GracefortheGrowth on IG & Facebook @CourtneyyLeo on IG and TikTok Email: hello@graceforthegrowth.com with ideas, questions, and stories about your own growth journey! Check out Courtney's programs here.Please rate, review, subscribe and share. Thanks so much!!

006 3 Thoughts on Rest
This week on the podcast we are talking about rest. I used to avoid it at all costs. I lived as if rest was laziness and that was the LAST thing I wanted. In today's episode, I share three things to remember about rest
1. Rest is Biblical
2. Rest is Productive
3. Rest is Brave
I hope that you leave this episode encouraged and challenged to build in a healthy habit of rest in your life. Let me know what stands out to you by reaching out on Instagram!
Links references:
The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer
The BEMA Podcast Episode 1
The BEMA Podcast Episode 2
Design Your Dream Solo Date Masterclass + Workbook
Want to learn more about Bloom🌼? Click here or DM me on Instagram!
Engage in the conversation:
@GracefortheGrowth on IG & Facebook
@CourtneyyLeo on IG and TikTok
Email: hello@graceforthegrowth.com with ideas, questions, and stories about your own growth journey!
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005 Learning to Embrace and Embrace
We're backkkkk. It's been a hot minute and I'll explain why a little bit here. Also, I will share about the biggest lessons that I've learned over the last year:
How to listen to your heart and sit still Learning to say yes to the right things and not allowing fear to keep you from God's blessings How to get out of the way and let God take control Realize how important you are to God How to get out of the way so God can come in and comfort usWant to learn more about Bloom🌼? Click here or DM me on Instagram!
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004 Practicing Self-Love Through Holiday Traditions
In this episode, we get REALLY practical. We are talking all things Holiday Traditions. Courtney shares some of her favorite holiday traditions and ones that you can try that answer the question "What brings me joy?" No matter the season of life you find yourself in, this episode is full of ideas, inspiration and encouragement on making this Holiday Season one to remember!
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@GracefortheGrowth on IG & Facebook @CourtneyyLeo on IG and TikTok Email: hello@graceforthegrowth.com with ideas, questions, and stories about your own growth journey!Please rate, review, subscribe and share. Thanks so much!!

003 "I was NOT expecting this" - 3 Things I've Learned About Grief
As we enter into this holiday season, there are a lot of emotions of joy and thankfulness but also moments of sadness and grief of loss or waiting. Grief is often looked at as this big thought or this big concept reserved for traumatic pain that often times we discredit ourselves from stepping into the healing process. We compare our grief to others. We don't know how to handle missed expectations, drifting relationships or being let down again. We stuff it and we carry it on our own. In this episode of Grace for the Growth, Courtney shares 3 things she's learned about grief. She dives into real authentic conversation about how to navigate when things don't turn out the way that we planned. How do we bring God in to it? Is it too much for God? Is it not big enough of a deal for him?
Also stick around through the end for an inspired Holy Spirit moment that may just be for you. 🤍
References:
Seasons of Waiting | Dr. Barb Hill
Matthew 11:28-30 NLT
Psalm 130: 1-18 NLT
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002 "It's okay that I'm not okay"
Ever feel like you are performing? Ever feel exhausted from playing a character or keeping up a storyline? Do you find yourself staying so busy or numbing your feelings to avoid taking a beat and looking inward? In this episode of Grace for the Growth, Courtney shares her past where she hit a breaking point after years and years of performing. Listen today to hear how six little words changed her outlook on life and growth forever and practical tips on how you can do the same.
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001 Welcome to the Journey
Welcome to the first episode of Grace for the Growth. Tune in to hear the heart behind this podcast and get to know a little bit of Courtney's background and story.
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