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Cynthia Bailey-Rug

Cynthia Bailey-Rug

By Cynthia Bailey-Rug

Thank you for checking out my podcasts! They cover the same topics as my writing (Christianity, abuse recovery, mental health, Narcissistic Personality Disorder, etc.) and everything is from a Christian perspective.

Some topics are repeated, because sharing new information and perspectives from a different angle can make it "click" sometimes where it didn't before.

I try to add podcasts often, but due to my mental health struggles, they won't be added consistently. I apologize and I'm trying!

Transcripts and more are available on my website: www.CynthiaBaileyRug.com
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Depression During The Holiday Season

Cynthia Bailey-RugNov 28, 2021

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A Commonly Ignored Narcissistic Behavior

A Commonly Ignored Narcissistic Behavior

This podcast addresses a common behavior of narcissists, snooping on and gossipping about people.

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Helpful Routines For Highly Sensitive People

Helpful Routines For Highly Sensitive People

This podcast was created to help highly sensitive people, or HSPs, learn ways to navigate their sensitivity without burning out.

Aug 10, 202303:53
Forever The Victim – A Narcissistic Tactic

Forever The Victim – A Narcissistic Tactic

This podcast discusses a common abusive tactic of narcissists (in particular coverts) - twisting any situation around to where they claim that they are the victim, no matter what cruel things they have done to someone else.

Jul 10, 202303:11
You Matter So Do Not Let Anyone Make You Feel Otherwise

You Matter So Do Not Let Anyone Make You Feel Otherwise

This podcast reminds you that you matter and have a purpose, no matter what anyone says.

Jun 13, 202303:10
"You Should Just Leave!"

"You Should Just Leave!"

This podcast discusses some reasons why victims stay in abusive relationships, and why it's not always possible to "just leave."

May 15, 202303:43
Nostalgia After Trauma

Nostalgia After Trauma

This podcast discusses the very natural attraction to nostalgia that many people who have survived trauma experience.

Apr 24, 202302:56
Willful Ignorance

Willful Ignorance

Today's podcast is about those people who choose to remain ignorant over facing the truth as a way to avoid dealing with certain topics and situations.

Mar 05, 202303:04
Extreme Independence Is A Trauma Response

Extreme Independence Is A Trauma Response

This podcast discusses how people who have experienced trauma often react to that trauma by being overly independent, and how it happens.

Feb 07, 202303:25
A Way Dysfunctional Families Try To Keep Everyone Close

A Way Dysfunctional Families Try To Keep Everyone Close

This podcast discusses a common way that dysfunctional families try to keep everyone close.  This tactic is especially common in narcissistic families.

Jan 05, 202303:55
Is It REALLY The Most Wonderful Time Of Year?

Is It REALLY The Most Wonderful Time Of Year?

This podcast addresses some of the challenges of dealing with narcissists at Christmas time and how to cope.

Dec 12, 202203:23
Why Narcissists Feel They Must Know All About Their Victims After The Relationship Is Over

Why Narcissists Feel They Must Know All About Their Victims After The Relationship Is Over

This podcast explores how and why narcissists snoop on their victims after the relationship is over.

Nov 29, 202203:12
Dysfunctional Families And The Holidays

Dysfunctional Families And The Holidays

Dysfunctional and narcissistic families can ruin holidays.  This podcast offers ways to cope with their toxic behavior.

Nov 02, 202203:34
Highly Functional Versus Highly Dysfunctional

Highly Functional Versus Highly Dysfunctional

This podcast is about the differences in being highly functional and highly dysfunctional.  They aren't necessarily what you think they are.

Oct 11, 202204:05
You Are Not Responsible For How Other People Feel About You

You Are Not Responsible For How Other People Feel About You

This podcast discusses how other people's feelings about you aren't your responsibility.

Oct 11, 202203:05
People Who Believe Their Opinions Are The Only Right Ones

People Who Believe Their Opinions Are The Only Right Ones

This podcast is about the arrogant people who believe their opinions are the only right ones, and everyone else's is wrong

Sep 26, 202203:26
You Matter

You Matter

This podcast is a reminder to victims of narcissistic abuse that they matter and are valuable, no matter what any narcissist has told them.

Sep 09, 202203:33
Highly Functional Versus Highly Dysfunctional

Highly Functional Versus Highly Dysfunctional

This podcast describes what it really means to be highly dysfunctional.

Aug 25, 202204:05
Not Every Cause Can Be Yours

Not Every Cause Can Be Yours

This podcast discusses having balance & prioritizing what causes you support.

Aug 25, 202203:18
Ways The Spirit Of Fear Can Manifest

Ways The Spirit Of Fear Can Manifest

This podcast discusses some ways the spirit of fear can manifest in a person's life.

Aug 09, 202203:33
Warrior For Truth

Warrior For Truth

This episode discusses the incredible value of living for truth.

Aug 04, 202203:04
Subtle Signs Of Disrespect

Subtle Signs Of Disrespect

This podcast is about some of the more subtle signs of disrespect people display.

Jul 13, 202203:18
Narcissists Stalk Their Victims Online

Narcissists Stalk Their Victims Online

This podcast discusses the disturbing phenomenon of what happens when narcissists stalk their victims online.

Jul 13, 202203:30
Feeling As If You Were Reborn

Feeling As If You Were Reborn

This podcast is about things that make you feel as if you were reborn.

Jul 01, 202203:48
When Broken People Are Toxic

When Broken People Are Toxic

This podcast discusses the dysfunctional people who refuse to become healthier, and when their behavior becomes toxic.

Jul 01, 202203:13
Regarding Snooping Narcissists

Regarding Snooping Narcissists

This podcast is about those who want to know about their former victims' lives.

Jul 01, 202204:17
For Those Who Blindly Support Parents Whose Children Have Severed Ties With Them

For Those Who Blindly Support Parents Whose Children Have Severed Ties With Them

This podcast is for those misguided people who blindly support parents after their child has severed ties with them.

May 18, 202203:14
Feeling Like You Must Forget Yourself To Focus On Others In Relationships

Feeling Like You Must Forget Yourself To Focus On Others In Relationships

This podcast discusses how often victims of abuse feel that they must forget everything about themselves to focus on others if the relationship is to be happy.

May 18, 202203:22
Depression During The Holiday Season

Depression During The Holiday Season

Many people experience depression around Thanksgiving and Christmas.  This podcast discusses the phenomenon and offers some tips to help those in this position.

Nov 28, 202104:24
When Narcissistic Parents Try To Keep Their Children, Children Forever

When Narcissistic Parents Try To Keep Their Children, Children Forever

This podcast discusses how narcissistic parents use infantilization as a way to abuse their children by making them feel like they never can grow up into capable adults.

Aug 12, 202104:34
Some Simple Things You Can Do To Add Joy To Your Life

Some Simple Things You Can Do To Add Joy To Your Life

This podcast offers ideas for simple changes to make that can add joy to your life.

Aug 12, 202103:35
If Someone Has Not Proven Themselves Safe, They May Be Proving Themselves Unsafe

If Someone Has Not Proven Themselves Safe, They May Be Proving Themselves Unsafe

This podcast discusses how some people may be proving themselves safe by failing to prove themselves safe.

Aug 12, 202103:44
Executive Dysfunction After Narcissistic Abuse

Executive Dysfunction After Narcissistic Abuse

This podcast is about problems with executive dysfunction in the brain after narcissistic abuse.

Aug 12, 202103:24
Dealing With Foolish, Critical People

Dealing With Foolish, Critical People

This podcast offers tips for dealing with foolish, critical people.

Aug 12, 202103:25
For Male Victims Of Abusive Women

For Male Victims Of Abusive Women

This podcast offers encouragement for male victims of abusive women.

Apr 27, 202103:43
For Adult Children Who Went No Contact With Narcissistic Parents

For Adult Children Who Went No Contact With Narcissistic Parents

This podcast offers encouragement for adult children who have severed ties with their narcissistic parents.

Apr 27, 202104:15
Empathy vs Codependency

Empathy vs Codependency

This podcast discusses the differences in empathy and codependency.

Apr 27, 202104:05
Dysfunctional Family Gatherings

Dysfunctional Family Gatherings

This podcast is about the nightmare of dysfunctional family gatherings, such as on birthdays and holidays.  Ways to handle them are included.

Apr 27, 202104:15
Your Perceptions Of People Aren't Always Accurate

Your Perceptions Of People Aren't Always Accurate

This podcast discusses how sometimes your perceptions of people can be inaccurate due to your own personal experiences, and how to learn to change.

Feb 21, 202103:08
Why Some People Hate And Abuse Victims Of Narcissistic Abuse

Why Some People Hate And Abuse Victims Of Narcissistic Abuse

This podcast explains why some people are so dysfunctional that they hate and even abuse victims of narcissistic abuse.

Feb 21, 202104:36
When People Play The Victim

When People Play The Victim

This podcast addresses the topic of people who pretend to be a victim in order to manipulate others, & how to deal with them.

Feb 21, 202103:50
Anticipation Stress

Anticipation Stress

This podcast discusses the topic of anticipation stress.  In other words, the stress & anxiety that can be as a result of narcissistic abuse.

Feb 21, 202104:18
About Self Validation

About Self Validation

This podcast teaches how to learn to rely on yourself for validation rather than external sources.

Feb 21, 202104:01
When You Think Sacrificing Yourself Is The Only Way To Save Your Marriage

When You Think Sacrificing Yourself Is The Only Way To Save Your Marriage

This podcast is about how sometimes when married to a narcissist, a victim thinks sacrificing everything about themselves is the only way to save their marriage.

Nov 12, 202004:19
When Someone Mentions A Relative As An Outsider Or Outcast

When Someone Mentions A Relative As An Outsider Or Outcast

This podcast discusses the red flag of a potential abuser - referring to a relative as an outsider or outcast.

Nov 12, 202004:03
When People Don't Believe Victim's Stories Of Narcissistic Abuse

When People Don't Believe Victim's Stories Of Narcissistic Abuse

This podcast is about what happens when people don't believe victims' stories of surviving narcissistic abuse.

Nov 12, 202004:03
How To Handle A Smear Campaign

How To Handle A Smear Campaign

This podcast offers advice about ways to cope with a narcissist's smear campaign.

Nov 12, 202003:41
Brain Fog After Trauma

Brain Fog After Trauma

This podcast discusses how to cope with brain fog after traumatic experiences.

Nov 12, 202004:04
Being Comfortable With Who God Made You To Be

Being Comfortable With Who God Made You To Be

This podcast discusses how you can become comfortable with and enjoy the person God made you to be.

Nov 12, 202003:59
Being A New Creation

Being A New Creation

This podcast discusses how certain life events can make you feel as if you have been reborn.  

Nov 12, 202003:48
Behaviors Most People Don't Consider Abusive But Are

Behaviors Most People Don't Consider Abusive But Are

This podcast addresses some abusive behaviors that are seldom perceived as abusive.

Nov 12, 202003:54