
Beautiful Behavior
By Diane Sorensen

Beautiful BehaviorJun 26, 2023

162. Co-Parenting w/Mikki Gardner
Today’s episode is with guest Mikki Gardner. Our conversation was all about how to co-parent well, how people pleasing gets in the way of our peace, triggers, and more. This was a very informative conversation.
Mikki is a Certified Life + Conscious Parenting Coach, a mom, speaker, and host of the Co-Parenting with Confidence Podcast and author of the People Pleaser’s Guide to Co-Parenting Well.
Mikki’s personal struggles with divorce motivated her to become a “better mom” so that she could better help her son overcome the challenges of their new family dynamic. Drawing on her academic background, professional training and personal experience, she empowers other moms to move beyond the overwhelming obstacles of co-parenting and thrive after divorce.
Mikki strives to guide moms to navigate the divorce & co-parenting drama by becoming calm, confident co-parents, even without their ex’s participation.
Mikki is on a mission to help children by helping their moms learn to handle the emotional and practical difficulties of divorce and co-parenting while creating an intentional, joyful, and ease-filled life for both themselves and their children.
Connect with Mikki:
Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/co-parentingwithconfidence/id1591303883
Book: https://geni.us/ThePeoplePleasersGuide
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mikkigardner/
Website: www.mikkigardner.com
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161. Becoming the Change w/ Megan Rempel
Today's episode is inspiring, vulnerable and insightful. Megan Rempel vulnerably shares her stories and how she created change in her parenting, marriage and other areas of her life. She is a true inspiration. You won't want to miss this episode.
Megan Rempel is the host of the Unlearning podcast, a Registered Nurse, and an online health and wellness advocate. Megan helps women go from who they are, to who they want to be, by creating simple habits. Her own journey from overwhelmed and exhausted mom of 4 to gaining back control of her life through simple and effective habits is what fuels her passion to help women get out of survival mode and find ease and joy in their lives.
Connect with Megan:
IG @itsmeganrempel
Podcast - Unlearning
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160. A Different Version of Motherhood
I don't want to mess up my kids.
I don't want my kids to feel the way I did.
I don't want to do it the way my parents did.
These are comments and statements, or some version of them, that I hear from parents around the globe AND they are ones that I claimed myself.
I think what it really means is, I want to give my children a different mothering experience.
I wanted to offer a different version of what was offered to me.
I had to BECOME the mother I always wanted so I could offer a different experience to my children.
This is an INSIDE job.
We must do our INNER work to free ourselves and our children from unhealthy behavioral patterns passed down from generations before us. These not only come from our own individual family systems but also from our culture as a whole.
It is never to late to BECOME the mother you want for your children!!
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The Need to Be Right
Do you feel the insatiable need to be right? Or maybe you give up being right to others to avoid conflict. Which actually means you are silenced into go along with others to get along. If this is you, you may be playing the victim in your life. If you take on the stance of, “I’m always right” you may be playing the persecutor in your life. Both roles are a way to avoid conflict and defend our own sense of self-worth. Both roles create drama and more conflict in our lives. In today’s episode we navigate the need to be right as we move from controlling to connecting.
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Beautiful Behavior Defined - Free Lunch & Learn: Topic for November– Live Coaching. Ask me anything.
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158. Time Freedom w/K. Margaret Solorio
Here we are in November and for me, I am looking to stay grounded as we head into the holiday season. In today's episode I am joined by a guest, K. Margaret Solorio, who is the host and creator of the Delicious EASE podcast and a time freedom mentor.
She lives in Northern California with her husband and two kids, and helps women live and work with more time freedom and ease. In 2020, like so many others, the pandemic flipped her life on its side. She faced some of her greatest fears and took responsibility for her happiness. It was through this journey she learned that changing her mindset and managing her relationship with time had the power to change her life. Life is what we experience. Our expectation of time and the quality of time spent make all the difference. She has created her Sparkle Time membership for women, coaching programs, the Delicious EASE podcast and shop to support women in transforming from feeling they never have enough time for anything to knowing we have more than enough time for everything. She is also currently writing a book about transforming your default mindset. Connect with K. Margaret :
Instagram @deliciousease
http://deliciousease.com/meditation
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157. Welcome to Season 3
Wow, its been three years since I started the podcast. I remember how scared I was in those first episodes. In today's episode I recall what brought me here and my intention for season three. I am so grateful for this journey and your presence here as we travel into unfamiliar territory and discover new ways. Together we pave a new frontier. Together we make an impact. Together we change the world.
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Hypnosis audio https://www.dianesorensen.net/hypno-rec
Drama to Empowerment Workbook https://www.dianesorensen.net/drama-to-empowerment
New self-guided course - Understanding Temperament https://www.dianesorensen.net/temperament

156. The Missing Link That Took Me From Being the Mother I Thought I Was Supposed To Be, To Becoming the Mother I Really Wanted to Be
I had an image of what being a mother would be like. It didn't match my actual experience of being a mother at all. In today's episode I share my mothering journey and what had to shift to create a different experience.
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155. Perfection & The Power of Noticing
Do you relate to perfection? The need to be a certain way or do things a certain way so as to not feel judged by the world? I have been known to say (quite often) that I am a recovering perfectionist. I now realize that when I can notice where perfection shows up, acknowledge it and work with it I can continue to move the needle in the direction of my truth. In this episode I talk about how perfection showed up for me last week and how I am working with it.

154. Working With Emotions In The Body
Did you know that 95% of what we do each day is coming from an unconscious program? This program downloaded in early childhood runs the show. It's time to bring the unconscious to the conscious where we can work with it and download a conscious more empowering program into our system. This is the power of working with the subconscious mind. Whether its through hypnosis, reinvention or the parenting program my commitment through the work I do is to empower you to create the life you most desire. In today's episode I offer you the gift of hypnosis to explore emotions in your body.
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153. Discovering Boundaries through Reinvention
We tend to have an idea of what boundaries are. Culturally, most of us were not taught boundaries nor did we have a model for them. The traditional model is focused on compliance. It looks through a lens of control. So, typically when we think about boundaries we are looking through a lens of control. Boundaries are the opposite of control. Boundaries are the new paradigm.
In this episode I have a conversation with Kim, a Reinvention client, who went from resisting boundaries to embracing boundaries and finding the freedom that they offer.
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Beautiful Behavior Defined - Free Lunch & Learn: Topic for October is Temperament
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Self-Compassion Script https://www.dianesorensen.net/self-compassion
Connect with Kim:
Instagram @running.on.grit
Podcast - Redefining Anger https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kimberly-roy2023

152. I Have This New Awareness Now What?
I often hear people say, “I have this awareness but now what?” What they are really asking is, “ How do I create change?” In this episode, we talk about how to create the change you are seeking once you have the awareness using the transformation equation coined by Nancy Levin, which is CHANGE=VISION+CHOICE+ACTION.
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Beautiful Behavior Defined - Free Lunch & Learn: Topic for September is, Feeling Grounded with Hypnosis
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151. "CHORES"
Do you experience frustration, anger, and/or resistance with “chores” and your children? I did too and I hear many parents voice this frustration. It has created curiosity within me, and I wanted to take a deeper look at this dynamic. We also have a teenager in our home, and we have been exploring what household tasks might look like, sound like and feel like from a new perspective. A perspective of collaboration versus reward and punishment. It has been insightful as we engage in conversations and collaborate on possible solutions. One thing I have learned is that solutions evolve over time. And as solutions evolve so does the relationship.
We are taking “chores” from obligation and power struggle to collaboration and growth. It is both emotionally uncomfortable and empowering for all involved.
This is a BIG conversation and one that may create some fear and discomfort. I would love to hear your thoughts.
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Beautiful Behavior Defined - Free Lunch & Learn: Topic for September is, Feeling Grounded with Hypnosis
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150. Worry as a Means of Control
Are you a worrier? Do you worry about what other people are going to think? Do you find yourself constantly thinking up the worse case scenarios?
I was a chronic worrier. On today's episode we will dive into chronic worrying and how healthy boundaries freed me from this negative, automatic pattern that kept me stuck for decades.
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Self Compassion video - https://www.instagram.com/reel/CvnwgPbLoAU/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

149. Understanding Grief with Alison Marshall
On today's episode Alison Marshall, a grief recovery specialist, joins me in helping us understand grief. After our conversation I am seeing grief in a whole new way. Alison, is a social worker and certified in the Grief Recovery Method. Alison has 20 years experience in providing mental health support to those in her community.
Alison offers services both in person and on-line – in both group and one-on-one formats.
On top of the Grief Recovery Method program – Alison is excited to share that she also offers a 6 week program for Pet loss and a 4 week program for Helping Children with Loss. Both of these programs can be provided virtually as well.
Connect with Alison on Instagram @alison_marshall_
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148. Daring to Step Out of the Performance
Become more genuine. Show up rested and real. Embrace your authentic self.
In this episode we break down what keeps us driven to stay busy. Busy offers validation and a sense that we are important and matter. It’s rival is Boundaries. What keeps us leaning into busy and away from boundaries?
In this episode, we are diving into our relationship with Busy, Boundaries and Ourselves.
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147. Dating Boundaries
I am breaking up with busy and now I am dating boundaries. In this episode I am sharing my journey with boundaries and why they are important. Boundaries come bearing gifts of authenticity, self-acceptance, and self-trust. Boundaries give us the gift of more time and energy allowing us to have more ease in our life. Ultimately, Boundaries give us the gift of FREEDOM.
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#146 Breaking Up with Busy
Are you a doer? Do you keep yourself busy all day long? Cultural messages about “hard work” and “making something of yourself” have us in the busy hamster wheel. Busy makes us feel productive and important. It’s like I matter if I’m busy.
Do you find yourself needing to look busy when your partner arrives home, or someone walks in the room or perhaps by your office? This habit of busy starts in our early experiences to keep ourselves contained and out of trouble. Maybe you received negative messages about lazy and you decided not to be that. We often overcompensate for the rejection of lazy by staying BUSY.
We continue this habit into adulthood except now it is no longer serving us. It is draining us.
Tune into today’s episode as I invite you to start recharging your batteries and use guilt as a sign you are moving in the right direction AND taking your time inventory.
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#145. Two Key Ingredients for Solving Any Problem
Want to know how to solve any problem? How do we help our children become problem solvers?
There are 2 main ingredients to solving any problem - SAFETY & CONNECTION.
Safety and connection take us from the drama roles to the empowerment dynamic where we create solutions.
Tune into today’s episode to discover how to create safety and connection and get out of the drama.
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#144 How Do I Help My Child Be More Confident?
We all want our children to feel confident. We want them to have a voice, stand up for themselves and what they believe in. We want them to be involved and know they are enough.
In this episode we discuss the path to confidence.
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#143. 3 Gifts We All Have
As humans we all have 3 jobs. These are the gifts we all innately have – To THINK, to FEEL, To DO.
We live in a culture that values thinking and doing but falls short when it comes to feeling. We tend to leave out the feeling and do anything to keep it at bay. Rejecting this deep, intimate part of ourselves leads us to over-thinking and over-doing to compensate for avoiding feeling. Feeling is Uncomfortable. However, if we are honest with ourselves, how many of us are truly comfortable in our current life?
Over-thinking often has us in decision fatigue. Can you relate to not wanting to make another decision? Or feeling agitated every time your child asks you something?
Over-doing has us exhausted. Do you feel the urge to look “busy” whenever someone is near? Do you have the feeling of “being in trouble” or feeling “guilty” if you don’t have all those things checked off your to do list by the end of the day or week?
Do you define success in how much you achieve, produce, accomplish or how much you do for others?
On today’s episode we are bridging the gap between thinking and doing and stepping into becoming WHOLE humans. This is where fulfillment is experienced.
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RESOURCES:
Book – Running on Empty, by Jonice Webb https://drjonicewebb.com/the-book/
Book – 90 Seconds to a Life You Love https://drjoanrosenberg.com/books/

#143 Becoming the Parent You Want to BE
Are you the parent you want to be? I was not. There was a time I realized this parenting thing was not what I thought it was going to be. My image of being a parent and actually being a parent did not match up. I swore I was going to do it differently than my parents and in many ways I did but I also unknowingly carried some of the internalized behavior patterns into my own parenting journey. These patterns (like yelling) were not helpful in establishing a safe, trusting relationship with my children.
So, I had to do the work to consciously BECOME the parent I wanted to be. In today’s episode we’ll discuss how to become the parent YOU want to be.
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Healthy Boundaries Are the Path to Respect and Responsibility
“Setting boundaries will set you free.”
-Nancy Levin
Boundaries are a way to stay true to yourself. Boundaries are the path to respect and responsibility.
Boundaries take you out of victimhood and put you in the driver’s seat. In today’s episode, we are talking about:
· Shifting a generational pattern from rewards and punishment to healthy boundaries
· How boundaries support us in becoming the model for respect and responsibility
· Boundaries help us manage ourselves rather than try to control others
· 7 important facts to know about boundaries
· How to start to implement boundaries into your life one small step at a time
What questions do you have around boundaries?
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141. The Fantasy of Should, Shouldn't and Supposed To
On today’s episode we separate fantasy from reality. “Should” “Shouldn’t” and “Supposed to” put you in a position of powerlessness. It puts you in the victim role and creates drama. Do these sound familiar?
“I should go to the gym.”
“You shouldn’t do that.”
“I shouldn’t have done that.”
“You should know better.”
“What am I supposed to do?”
We often “should” on ourselves and our children. Today, I want to empower you to reframe this fantasy and put what you want into reality. This reframe will also help you to support your children rather than judge them.
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#140 “Breaking Up With Diet Culture and Finding a new Soulmate” w/ Leah Hortin
Leah Hortin joins me today on this episode as we discuss the cultural trauma around body shame and diet. Join us for this informative conversation around healing our relationship with our body and food.
Leah Hortin is a Certified Intuitive Eating Counselor, and Master Health and Life Coach specializing in helping women get off the diet rollercoaster for good. Using the principles of Intuitive Eating, she empowers women to find their food freedom, love their bodies and redefine what health means to them.
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IG @antidiethealthcoach
https://www.facebook.com/groups/antidiethealthclub
https://www.chirpcoaching.com/
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Boundaries Pave the Path to Compassion
"One of the greatest (and least discussed) barriers to compassion is the fear of setting boundaries."
-Brene Brown
We often think of boundaries as restrictive. I want to invite you to seeing boundaries as expansive. As Nancy Levin says, "Setting boundaries will set you free."
In today's episode we'll discuss how setting boundaries takes you closer to compassion.
RESOURCES:
The Gifts of Imperfection by Brene Brown:
https://www.amazon.com/Gifts-Imperfection-Anniversary-Features-brand-new/dp/1616499605/ref=asc_df_1616499605/?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=532779770075&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=14540638698513760849&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=1025714&hvtargid=pla-1391292576413&psc=1
Setting Boundaries will Set You Free by Nancy Levin:
https://www.amazon.com/Setting-Boundaries-Will-Set-Free/dp/B081VQG3XN/ref=sr_1_1?hvadid=407508753487&hvdev=c&hvlocphy=1025714&hvnetw=g&hvqmt=e&hvrand=17001297858573352507&hvtargid=kwd-913990218637&hydadcr=7436_9611128&keywords=setting+boundaries+will+set+you+free&qid=1687175676&sr=8-1
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Who is Regulating You?
We often think others, especially our children, have the power to make us feel certain ways. When we believe our children or others are responsible for our feelings we are a victim to them. It puts them in charge of us. We put them in charge of regulating our emotions.
In this episode, we will discuss how to take your power back by understanding what drives your emotions and taking ownership of them.
In this month’s Beautiful Behavior Lunch & Learn we will be discussing and practicing how to reclaim your power by taking ownership of your emotions and how to manage them in a helpful, productive ways. Register for free here: https://www.dianesorensen.net/registration-page
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137. Triggers as Teachers
Our triggers are our teachers. Triggers can be a powerful tool offering us an opportunity for healing. When we take ownership of our triggers our relationships bloom. If we allow it, triggers can be a beautiful journey to living a life of fulfillment.
This episode is dedicated to understanding triggers and changing hurtful behavior into helpful relationships.
What is your biggest trigger?
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How to Not Mess Up Your Kids
As a parent most of us have probably had the thought or worry about messing up our kids. Culture puts tremendous pressure on parents and in turn parents put tremendous pressure on themselves which transfers to the children. Tune in for today’s episode and start putting your worry of messing up your kids to rest. You can be a parent AND experience peace.
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135. "They Need to Learn Right from Wrong" (Is it true?)
When I talk about conscious parenting or connected relationships parents and teachers alike repeat this statement with conviction, “But they need to learn right from wrong.” I totally get it. I too was quite attached to this belief. And of course, we want our children to be accepted into society. We want our children to take ownership of their own behaviors. We all want to live in safe, compassionate environments. My question is what is EFFECTIVE in accomplishing those goals?
On this episode I challenge this popular belief and offer a SHIFT in perspective.
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The Power of Vulnerability (A personally vulnerable episode)
Most of us grew up around the message or some version of vulnerability being a weakness. We tend to see weakness as something bad or wrong, something we don’t want to be. We cover these so-called weaknesses up and hide behind what we think we’re supposed to be in order to be accepted. It forms shame around the parts of us that are deemed as bad or wrong. These are the parts of us that got us in trouble. It forms shame.
This is a generational pattern. In today’s episode I share my story of generational shame and the hurtful patterns it created and were passed from generation to generation UNTIL I got a wakeup call. My children are my greatest blessings and my catalyst for growth. They rocked my world so I could open up to a new more authentic self. I FINALLY LISTENED TO THEM.
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Bridging the Gap Between Anger & Compassion
In a culture of control, anger and blame run on autopilot. Ownership and compassion are generally not our go-to. And it doesn’t feel good. Control and blame create resentment. Relationships cannot thrive where resentment grows.
Compassion requires ownership. Ownership creates trust. Relationships thrive where trust grows.
In today’s episode we are closing the GAP between anger and compassion. We need both.
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RESOURCES:
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Book - Setting Boundaries Will Set You Free by Nancy Levin
Nancy's podcast - The Permission Prescription
Kristin Neff - Self-compassion practices - https://self-compassion.org/

132. The Bridge
Do you often gain information and then wonder, "How do I integrate this into my life?" I mean, it all makes sense but then what?
Yes, it all starts with new information but there is a difference between having a new mindset and integrating new skills into daily living.
In today's episode we are exploring how to BRIDGE the gap:
*From drama to empowerment
* From the old model (of blame and defense) to the new model (of ownership and connection)
* From power struggles to collaboration
*From "I'm not good enough" to "I am worthy."
* From anger to compassion
*From dysregulation to self-regulation
On today's episode we will discuss how reinvention coaching is the bridge. So, POWERFUL!
Reinvention allows you to see yourself, others and the world from a new lens AND supports you in integrating AND embodying new skills. So you not only know them, you live them. POSSIBILITY is just a call away.
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131. Reclaiming My Voice
Have you been silenced?
Do you feel comfortable sharing your opinion with others? Do you find yourself staying silent especially when your opinion might differ from others? Do you bend yourself to accommodate others? Maybe you’ve noticed how you make yourself into whoever you have to be in order to fit in. Do you have an aversion to conflict or upsetting others? Are you a peacekeeper?
These are all the ways I kept myself small and silent until now….
On today’s episode we’ll talk about how I am reclaiming my voice and how you can too.
Are you willing to take a risk, step out of your comfort zone? What is one new choice AND one new action you are willing to take to move you forward? DM me or comment on my post -
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130. Parenting is an Inside Job
Parenting is an inside job. What do I mean by that? That’s what we’re going to get into today.
If you have ever had some version of this thought, I don’t like being around my kids, then today’s episode is for you.
This thought can elicit a lot of shame. Culture teaches us that we are supposed to love being with our kids but the truth is, it doesn’t always feel good. On today’s episode we go inward to uncover our own truth.
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129. What I learned from "pop"
“What we resist, persists and grows bigger.”
-Carl Yung
Everything is a relationship and today I’m talking about my relationship with “pop” and what it has taught me. If we are willing and open we can learn more about ourself through every relationship in our lives.
On today’s episode we will dive into recognizing avoidance strategies, the power of noticing, and how acceptance (being open to) allows for lasting change.
What are you resisting?
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128. Leading Your Life with Confidence
Lead your life with confidence.
Do you identify as a leader?
Many of us don’t see ourselves as leaders. I for one never saw myself as a leader. I just wanted to fit in. I just wanted to go along with whatever others were doing. I wanted to be accepted.
I wanted to be noticed but not stand out. To be good enough but not too much.
On today’s episode we’ll talk about how to step out of of should, shouldn’t, and supposed to, that culture has dictated to us and step into following our own path.
I share 3 steps to becoming the leader of your own life and and building confidence in the process.
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127. Get out of the Drama
We all have drama in our lives. We often blame that drama on our kids especially our teens. We often may even label them as drama queens (or kings). In fact, I thought I had the mother of all drama queens living in our home (and it wasn’t me). The truth is we all play a part in the drama in our lives AND there is a way out.
In today’s episode I talk about the drama roles we play in our relationships and the alternative empowerment roles so you can GET OUT OF THE DRAMA.
Stay tuned for more information coming soon about some upcoming workshops I will be hosting around these roles.
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Body Confidence with Krysti Beckett
"I come from a long line of women who hate their bodies."
Can you relate to this?
I know I can! Until recently I had zero body confidence. Cultural expectations of a woman's body is traumatizing; leaving so many of us hating our bodies and disconnected from our deepest, truest self.
In today's episode Krysti Beckett joins me to talk about body confidence, self-worth and self-love.
Krysti is a Plus Size Fitness Professional and Women's Health Coach at her company, The Confident Mama. She lives in a small town in Ontario, Canada with her husband, 3 children and beloved dog, Ozzy. With more than 15 years in the Fitness industry, Krysti serves women with healthy habits and focus on pelvic health so they don't have to live with pain, leaking and other postpartum issues. She wants you to be the healthiest, most confident mama you can be, no matter what the scale says.
If you're curious whether Krysti can help you change your health, message her for a free health strategy call.
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Making Friends with Fear
How do you experience fear? Fear shows up in many ways. Fear can be sneaky and at times not so obvious to detect. Fear can show up in procrastination, self-doubt, excuses, and many more ways. In fact, western traditional culture is based in fear.
Today, I share how fear showed up in my life, how I made friends with it and it and where it ultimately lead me.
Tune in as we talk about fear, vulnerability and authenticity. Then head over to my IG or Facebook and continue the conversation.
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Creating Safe Environments
Creating safe environments? What does that mean? This goes beyond physical safety.
In this week’s episode we delve into emotional safety. When we live our life believing some version of, “I’m not good enough,” we are living in a constant state of threat. This is problematic because threat works against the brain putting us into a survival state unable to access logical thinking skills. Without our logical thinking skills online we are apt to react in ways that do not feel good and don’t feel safe to those around us.
Takeaways to creating safe environments:
· Emotional awareness and regulation
· The Practice of going inward through deep breathing (which can be done anywhere, anytime), meditation, just sitting quietly and noticing what your body feels like.
· Noticing your thoughts without getting lost in them. Or noticing when you get lost in them and coming back to the present moment.
· Noticing your internal state when others express emotion or when something upsetting happens.
· Self-compassion. Talking kindly to yourself and all your emotions and internal parts, such as the inner critic, shame, anger and other feelings, as well as joy, excitement, etc.
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From Failure to Freedom
Do you feel like you’ve failed if you don’t check all the to-do items on your list by the end of the day or week? Do you feel like a failure if your house isn’t always picked up and tidy? Are you under constant fear that you might mess up your kids?
Today, we are talking about why we seem to always be running from any possibility of failure. Why are we are always doing, perfecting, and proving? How do we shift from the habit of DOING and OVERWHELM to allowing ourselves more freedom to BE and EASE?
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Choosing Joy [interview w/ Connie Monroe]
In today’s episode I’m chatting with Transformational Coach and Author, Connie Monroe. Connie experienced abandonment and divorce. Today, we talk about how she overcame both to experience joy. Connie shares her journey from childhood abandonment and the similarities that followed in her marriage. She is breaking generational patterns, cultivating deep connections and leading her life with a renewed confidence. Tune in to hear how Connie overcame these adversities and is now living an authentic life.
About Connie:
Connie worked as a director at Merrill Lynch before she decided in 2008 to pursue her ultimate dream of writing and transformational coaching, she is the author of Holding onto Joy Through Abandonment & Divorce where she wrote about her experiences of abandonment and divorce which lead her into the authentic and fulfilling life she enjoys now in Costa Rica with her life partner Martin.
She is the CEO of Monroe Coaching which helps women after their divorce, and when they either cannot or do not want to have children - enabling women to achieve living their ultimate dream life even after these adversities. Moreover, she runs women's renewal retreats in Costa Rica facilitating a lasting new mindset of joy and happiness while surrounded by nature, peace, and tranquility.
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Book: Holding onto Joy through Abandonment and Divorce
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The Power of Love
“Fear separates, love unites.
Fear judges, love enjoys.
Fear focuses on what is missing; love sees the best of what is.
Fear looks for blame, love seeks solutions.”
-Dr. Becky Bailey
Happy February. I’m celebrating self-love in February. Today we are talking about the Power of love and how compassion isn’t necessarily our go to. One of the most loving things we can do for ourselves and our relationships is to learn the skill of composure. This is different than “pretending” to be composed. Often we stuff feelings down and put on a mask of composure only to explode when we get home behind closed doors. Listen in and spread the LOVE.
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Resources:
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120. Navigation Sibling Relationships part 2
Today, we are diving into part 2 of this two-part series on sibling relationships. On this episode we discuss navigating sibling arguments and fights.
It can be challenging to know when to step in and when to step back. My hope is that this will provide some helpful guidance in navigating these moments.
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119.Navigating Sibling Relationships (Part 1)
One of the great challenges of parenting is navigating sibling relationships. This is part 1 of a two part series on sibling relationships. Parenting has two parts, the slow developing of a healthy relationship and the skills needed to navigate present challenges and problem solving. Today’s episode is a discussion on the building of the relationship.
It’s all about awareness.
To understand and navigate sibling relationships we must understand what impacts them. The building blocks of all healthy relationships are safety and trust. How secure your children feel in the relationship with you has a big impact. Other factors include temperament and parent expectations about how siblings “should” be.
Listen in to understand the dynamics of sibling relationships.
Resources:
Book – Good Inside, by Dr. Becky Kennedy
Podcast – Good Inside, Hosted by Dr. Becky Kennedy
Book – Siblings Without Rivalry, by Adele Faber & Elaine Mazlish
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Infidelity [Interview with Shannon Brown]
Today we are discussing a topic not often talked about. Beautiful Behavior is all about bringing the not-so-beautiful out in the open and the willingness to become the change we seek. Transformation starts with awareness and honest conversations about the sticky things. My guest, Shannon Brown, is a licensed therapist and relationships coach with over 20 years of experience. Her passion is working with couples who have experienced infidelity. Shannon’s desire is to bring this topic into the open and engage in honest conversations that create healing. Tune in to hear what Shannon has to say about this intimate topic.
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117. Am I Good Enough? Part 2
I am so passionate about healing the “not good enough” wound that I wanted to continue the conversation from last episode. I am passionate about self-worth because I spent most of my life feeling alone and not good enough. I talk and teach about this because it is what I need the most. You know what they say, “You teach what you most need to learn.”
Since starting my personal discovery journey 13 years ago I have been finding my way back to my wholeness. I continue to heal as I guide others on the journey back to their wholeness.
Together we can shift this generational pattern of lack, to a generational pattern of wholeness as we learn and grow.
Resources mentioned on today’s podcast:
The Dark Side of the Light Chasers by Debbie Ford-
https://www.amazon.com/Dark-Side-Light-Chasers/dp/B007UL932I/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2SL5AX44NBAX6&keywords=debbie+ford+dark+side+of+the+light+chasers&qid=1672423430&s=books&sprefix=debbie+ford%2Cstripbooks%2C101&sr=1-1
Internal Family Systems by Dr. Richard Schwartz-
https://ifs-institute.com/
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116. Am I Good Enough?
Happy New Year! Let’s make 2023 the year of, I AM ENOUGH!
This feeling of “not enough” is so prevalent in our culture today. It is also at the core of many problematic issues that impact our relationships. The “I’m not enough” belief is a negative belief we hold about ourselves and it limits us to what we can and cannot do, say or be.
On today’s episode we discuss the nature of this belief and how we can shift this generational pattern.
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115. Self Talk
What kind of self talk do you use inside your head? If your like me you may have a critic living in your head ready to judge you and punish you every time you make a mistake. This critic makes sure you stay small and don't shine too bright so you can dodge any criticism or disapproval the world has to deal out. How does this voice develop and is there something we can do about it?
On today's episode you will learn how this voice gets developed and what we can do to shift to more positive self talk and how it impacts our life and those around us.
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Kids and the Holidays
On the last episode we talked about distressing the holidays for ourselves. On this episode I wanted to talk about destressing the holidays for our children.
Yes, the holidays can be stressful for children too. From threats of Santa not coming to an elf who focuses on watching out for negative behavior, all play into child holiday stress. In this episode we discuss some ways to reframe from the language of fear to the language of safety.
What children want and need most from us is our engagement with them. Being present in the moment free from distractions. They want to know we are proud of them. As we validate their goodness they internalize it forming a positive sense of self. This is key in the ability to express helpful behavior.
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Yes, the holidays can be stressful for children too. From threats of Santa not coming to an elf who focuses on watching out for negative behavior all play in to child holiday stress. In this episode we discuss some ways to reframe from the language of fear to the language of safety.
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