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Mentor Of Life

Mentor Of Life

By Dr. Shola Ezeokoli

Welcome to Mentor Of Life, your one stop shop for innovative solutions in life, health, and relationships. Yes! You can have it all!
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Season 8: Episode 8: People will hate you for this! Do it anyway!
May 25, 202311:24
Season 8: Episode 7: Avoid this dangerous group of people!

Season 8: Episode 7: Avoid this dangerous group of people!

𝑨𝒗𝒐𝒊𝒅 𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒔 𝒅𝒂𝒏𝒈𝒆𝒓𝒐𝒖𝒔 𝒈𝒓𝒐𝒖𝒑 𝒐𝒇 𝒑𝒆𝒐𝒑𝒍𝒆! I have often talked about how it’s not necessary to be a people pleaser. I have talked about how it can rob you of your life, when you spend all your time and energy, running from pillar to post trying to do the bidding of others. You have no time for your own priorities because you inherently see yourself as less important than other people. Many people pleasers also pick and choose who they will “please” and who they will “recruit” to join their “people-pleasing lifestyle”. Here is a word if you are someone who has a lot of people pleasers in your life: 1. They will subtly try to make you behave like them. 2. They will rather you shut up, and go along to get along. 3. When you stand up for yourself, a people pleaser will make you feel as though you are the bad guy. 4. They may secretly resent the fact that you have agency and you use it. 5. They are NOT victims. 6. People-pleasing is a form of control. People pleasers think that they have to “make everybody happy“. You cannot try to control everyone’s emotions, because you do not want to feel uncomfortable ones. 7. If you find yourself constantly in a tug-of-war with a people pleaser, and you are not one, try your best to extricate yourself from their drama, before they take you down with them.

May 18, 202310:27
Season 8: Episode 6: How To Develop Confidence As A Woman

Season 8: Episode 6: How To Develop Confidence As A Woman

𝑯𝒐𝒘 𝑻𝒐 𝑫𝒆𝒗𝒆𝒍𝒐𝒑 𝑪𝒐𝒏𝒇𝒊𝒅𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝑨𝒔 𝑨 ğ‘¾ğ’ğ’Žğ’‚ğ’ 1. 𝘾𝙚𝙡𝙚𝙗𝙧𝙖𝙩𝙚 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙨𝙩𝙧𝙚𝙣𝙜𝙩𝙝𝙨: Focus on your accomplishments and the things you're good at. Celebrate your achievements, no matter how small they may seem. Remind yourself of your strengths, skills, and talents, and use them to your advantage. 2. 𝘾𝙝𝙖𝙡𝙡𝙚𝙣𝙜𝙚 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 ğ™žğ™£ğ™£ğ™šğ™§ ğ™˜ğ™§ğ™žğ™©ğ™žğ™˜: Pay attention to your self-talk and challenge negative thoughts. Replace negative self-talk with positive affirmations. For example, instead of saying "I can't do this," say "I'm capable of handling this." 3. 𝙏𝙖𝙠𝙚 𝙘𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝙤𝙛 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧𝙨𝙚𝙡𝙛: Self-care is essential for building confidence. Make time for activities that make you feel good, such as exercise, meditation, or spending time with friends and family. 4. ğ™Žğ™ªğ™§ğ™§ğ™¤ğ™ªğ™£ğ™™ 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧𝙨𝙚𝙡𝙛 ğ™¬ğ™žğ™©ğ™ ğ™¥ğ™¤ğ™¨ğ™žğ™©ğ™žğ™«ğ™š 𝙥𝙚𝙤𝙥𝙡𝙚: Spend time with people who uplift and support you. Avoid those who bring you down or make you feel inferior. 5. ğ™Žğ™šğ™© 𝙜𝙤𝙖𝙡𝙨 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙩𝙖𝙠𝙚 ğ™–ğ™˜ğ™©ğ™žğ™¤ğ™£: Set realistic goals for yourself and take action to achieve them. Break down larger goals into smaller, manageable steps, and celebrate each milestone along the way. 6. 𝙇𝙚𝙖𝙧𝙣 𝙣𝙚𝙬 ğ™¨ğ™ ğ™žğ™¡ğ™¡ğ™¨: Building new skills can help you feel more confident and capable. Take a class, read a book, or join a group that interests you. 7. ğ™‹ğ™§ğ™–ğ™˜ğ™©ğ™žğ™˜ğ™š ğ™–ğ™¨ğ™¨ğ™šğ™§ğ™©ğ™žğ™«ğ™šğ™£ğ™šğ™¨ğ™¨: Speak up for yourself and assert your needs and boundaries. Don't be afraid to ask for what you want or say no when necessary. Remember, building confidence is a journey, and it takes time and effort. Be patient with yourself, and celebrate your progress along the way. Watch, learn, and get my book on Amazon to know more! https://www.amazon.com/FREE-BE-Empowered.../dp/B0B45DXH6W

Apr 27, 202310:55
 Season 8: Episode 5:T he Dark Side Of Altruism

Season 8: Episode 5:T he Dark Side Of Altruism

𝑻𝒉𝒆 𝑫𝒂𝒓𝒌 𝑺𝒊𝒅𝒆 𝑶𝒇 ğ‘¨ğ’ğ’•ğ’“ğ’–ğ’Šğ’”ğ’Ž 10 Signs of Pathological Altruism Do you know that Altruism has a dark side? 𝙃𝙚𝙧𝙚 𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝙏𝙀𝙉 ğ™¨ğ™žğ™œğ™£ğ™¨ 𝙤𝙛 ğ™‹ğ™–ğ™©ğ™ğ™¤ğ™¡ğ™¤ğ™œğ™žğ™˜ğ™–ğ™¡ ğ˜¼ğ™¡ğ™©ğ™§ğ™ªğ™žğ™¨ğ™¢ Check out Dr. Jattu Senessie’s website https://www.essenceofstrength.com/ Check out Rock Your Medical Career https://physicianhealyourself.life/rock-your-medical-career/

Apr 07, 202318:44
Season 8: Episode 4:How I Scared Away My Workplace Bully!

Season 8: Episode 4:How I Scared Away My Workplace Bully!

𝑯𝒐𝒘 𝑰 𝑺𝒄𝒂𝒓𝒆𝒅 𝑨𝒘𝒂𝒚 𝑴𝒚 𝑾𝒐𝒓𝒌𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒄𝒆 𝑩𝒖𝒍𝒍𝒚! Bullies At Work? Here is 𝙝𝙤𝙬 𝙩𝙤 𝙝𝙖𝙣𝙙𝙡𝙚 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙢! If you are a doctor: MD/DO/MBBS/MBChB join my Physician Heal Yourself Group for more! This week, The Rock Your Medical Career 5 Day Challenge is taking place, right in the group https://www.facebook.com/groups/PhysicianHealYourself#drshola #balancewithdrshola #mentoroflife #lifecoach #drsholaezeokoli

Mar 22, 202316:29
Season 8: Episode 3: Have “No willpower”? You need this instead!

Season 8: Episode 3: Have “No willpower”? You need this instead!

𝑯𝒂𝒗𝒆 “𝑵𝒐 𝒘𝒊𝒍𝒍𝒑𝒐𝒘𝒆𝒓”? 𝒀𝒐𝒖 𝒏𝒆𝒆𝒅 𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒔 𝒊𝒏𝒔𝒕𝒆𝒂𝒅!  

Description: If you have ever wanted “More willpower”, ğ™¡ğ™žğ™¨ğ™©ğ™šğ™£ 𝙩𝙤 ğ™©ğ™ğ™žğ™¨! You don’t need more willpower, you just need this well kept secret.

 This is how to get it!  Watch, learn, and get my book on Amazon to know more!   

https://www.amazon.com/FREE-BE-Empowered-Womans-Handbook/dp/B0B45DXH6W

Mar 15, 202315:60
 Season 8:Episode 2: Which Of These Thinking Errors Are You Making?
Mar 08, 202315:19
Season 8: Episode 1: Defeat Overwhelm Once And For All(with these 7 secrets)

Season 8: Episode 1: Defeat Overwhelm Once And For All(with these 7 secrets)

𝑫𝒆𝒇𝒆𝒂𝒕 ğ‘¶ğ’—ğ’†ğ’“ğ’˜ğ’‰ğ’†ğ’ğ’Ž 𝑶𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝑨𝒏𝒅 𝑭𝒐𝒓 𝑨𝒍𝒍 (𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒔𝒆 7 𝒔𝒆𝒄𝒓𝒆𝒕𝒔)  

Listen To This, And Never Feels Overwhelmed Again!  

Happy Women’s History Month!

Mar 03, 202314:19
Season 7: Episode10: Listen and Know TODAY what your purpose and calling is!
Feb 24, 202318:16
Season 7: Episode 9: "Survive & Thrive: The Power of Self Love To Overcome Your Character Flaws!”

Season 7: Episode 9: "Survive & Thrive: The Power of Self Love To Overcome Your Character Flaws!”

Listen To My Story about discovering self-love and self-compassion as the key to dealing with counterproductive tendencies that we all have 


 THEN….  Check out my latest program for Doctor Moms: ğ“ğ¡ğž 𝐋𝐚𝐮𝐧𝐜𝐡 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 ğ‡ğšğ©ğ©ğ¢ğžğ¬ğ­ ğ‹ğ¢ğŸğž: ğ’ğžğ¥ğŸ ğ‹ğ¨ğ¯ğž ğ‚ğ¨ğ®ğ«ğ¬ğž 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐃𝐨𝐜𝐭𝐨𝐫 𝐌𝐨𝐦𝐬  

https://physicianhealyourself.life/your-best-life-ever/ 

#drshola #balancewithdrshola #mentoroflife #lifecoach #drsholaezeokoli

Feb 08, 202313:38
Season 7: Episode 8: One IMPORTANT Goal I am sure you haven’t set… YET.

Season 7: Episode 8: One IMPORTANT Goal I am sure you haven’t set… YET.

Listen in to hear 5 𝒑𝒐𝒊𝒏𝒕𝒔 𝒕𝒐 𝒑𝒐𝒏𝒅𝒆𝒓  on this crucial step that most people take for granted!   

ğ‡ğšğ¯ğž 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐬𝐞𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐠𝐨𝐚𝐥𝐬 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 ğšğ«ğžğš?  

 Let me know in the comments.   

#drshola #balancewithdrshola #mentoroflife #lifecoach #drsholaezeokoli

Feb 01, 202317:14
Season 7: Episode 7: Crushing Your Goals- Are you making any of these mistakes?
Jan 25, 202315:13
Season 7: Episode 6: This Daily Practice Will Enhance Your Quality of Life!
Dec 02, 202213:47
Season 7: Episode 5: The Secret To Happiness that MOST don’t know!
Nov 24, 202215:36
Season 7: Episode 4: Why you should write and publish a book
Nov 11, 202215:36
Season 7: Episode 3: “Dr. Shola answered questions I have had for years”!

Season 7: Episode 3: “Dr. Shola answered questions I have had for years”!

Description: Meet Ms Toyin Arowolo, MBA: Software Developer, Information and. Communication Technology Manager, and founder of TYworkspace (co-working space).

She  shares her journey working with me as a her coach!

If you are looking for the type of transformational experience, that goes beyond motivation, book a call with me!

bit.ly/atolima

Nov 04, 202217:31
Season 7: Episode 2: Familial Duty vs Personal Growth: Something Has To Give!
Oct 28, 202215:36
Season 7: Episode 1: How to revive your hope
Oct 20, 202215:38
Season 6: Episode 10: “I went from zero to hero!”

Season 6: Episode 10: “I went from zero to hero!”

Meet Dr. Uche Njiaju: Oncologist, Author, Biographer, and Publisher  


She shares her journey with me as she evolved from a blogger to an author, to a biographer, and finally a publisher!    

bit.ly/atolima  


You can join/follow any of Dr Uche’s communities here: 

https://linktr.ee/DrUcheBooks

Oct 13, 202217:18
Season 6: Episode 9: End Procrastination Once And For All

Season 6: Episode 9: End Procrastination Once And For All

Everyone acts as though procrastination is a character flaw, but in this video, not only do I show how it is not. I give you real strategies that will help you stop procrastinating.  

Still need help? 


 Book a call and let’t talk.  


bit.ly/atolima

Sep 28, 202215:38
Season 6: Episode 8: My Story: How I Eliminated Burnout For Good
Sep 16, 202215:53
Season 6: Episode 7: For ALL Mothers: You DON’T need wine to make it through the day!

Season 6: Episode 7: For ALL Mothers: You DON’T need wine to make it through the day!

1. Take care of yourself 

2. Stop feeling guilty 

3. Set boundaries with your children  

Want more?  

Get my book:  

https://www.amazon.com/FREE-BE-Empowered-Womans-Handbook/dp/B0B45DXH6W

Sep 08, 202217:28
Season 6: Episode 6: Explaining Calculus To A Cockroach (What To Do When You Cannot Get Through)

Season 6: Episode 6: Explaining Calculus To A Cockroach (What To Do When You Cannot Get Through)

* There are people who are committed to misunderstanding you.  

* There are people who will argue with you even if you believe the same things (they are just contradictory and contrarian).  *


 There are some people who will argue with you just because it’s you.  

* Those same people when they hear from others,  they will not say  “pim” * There are some people whose worldview is vastly different from yours and you still have to co- exist with them * If logic did not get them there, logic will not get them out.  

What to do? 

* Step back 

* Remove your own emotions from the situation

 * Think about a bug, and that you are trying to teach it calculus. 

* Ask yourself: can they receive what I am giving 

* Last but not least, always remember that you can explain something to people, but you cannot understand it for them.

Aug 24, 202214:02
Season 6: Episode 5: How To Identify and Avoid Toxic Relationships. Listen here!

Season 6: Episode 5: How To Identify and Avoid Toxic Relationships. Listen here!

To buy my book Free To Be; The Empowered Woman’s Handbook, which has more on relationships…  

Click here: https://www.amazon.com/FREE-BE-Empowered-Womans-Handbook/dp/B0B45DXH6W 


To get on my calendar and see how I can help you uplevel your relationships and eliminate toxic ones, 

click here. bit.ly/atolima

Aug 17, 202214:03
Season 6: Episode 4: What is Savior Behavior? 7 Signs that you must know.
Aug 09, 202215:45
Season 6: Episode 3: My parents have sex?? EW!!

Season 6: Episode 3: My parents have sex?? EW!!

What happens when our “roles” in peoples lives change?     

  * Instead of trying to fit into someone else’s framework, just to keep the       peace and keep your relationship with them, it is better to be your authentic self and let the chips fall where they may.      

 * If you need to make changes necessary for your growth as a person, do it. It can be argued that anyone that doesn’t want you to grow and become better should probably be at the periphery of your life, and not at the center.     

  * Don’t remain angry when people’s attitudes toward the “New You” change. Instead of being angry and trying to force them to accept this better version of you, just re-direct your energy and emotions to the new crop of supporters that will inevitably come your way.  

    * Don’t over explain yourself. Remember, those who truly matter won’t mind and those who mind don’t really matter.      

* Make your growth a priority. That way, you will not be distracted by other people’s attitudes. 

 *Don’t condescend. Just accept that some people will be ok with the NEW YOU and some people won’t.  

 To get to know how I can help you navigate changing roles, book a call with me here: 

bit.ly/atolima

Aug 03, 202213:36
Season 6: Episode 2: 5 Things That You Must Have For A Smooth Transition

Season 6: Episode 2: 5 Things That You Must Have For A Smooth Transition

In these post pandemic days, people have found the need to pivot and transition to more suitable careers, businesses and vocations.

Here are 5 things that you absolutely must consider when you are in that transitional phase

Watch/Listen.

Link to book a call with me:

bit.ly/atolima

Jul 28, 202209:39
Season 6: Episode 1: Sharing My Story/ What To Do When You Feel Overwhelmed

Season 6: Episode 1: Sharing My Story/ What To Do When You Feel Overwhelmed

They say when the going gets tough, the tough get going. Well when life seems to have you in knots and you have more tasks and less time, here is what to do..  

1. Remember you can only do one thing at a time. Worrying about all the things you have to do is not going to get them done. 

2. Making a to do list is so that you don’t forget tasks, not something to beat yourself up with, when you “only” do 25 things out of 50.  

3. Instead of working off a “to do list”, take the things from the list in order of urgency (deadlines) and importance, and assign them spots on your calendar. 

4. Use a calendar/ schedule 

5. Delegate, hire and outsource, and don’t micromanage. 

6. Make peace with an imperfect life. 

7. Do calming activities so that you don’t feel frantic (frantic feelings make you feel like everything is worse than it is)- meditation, breathing exercises, being out in nature etc. 

8. Share your struggles with a close trusted friend.  

My calendar bit.ly/atolima  

My website: https://sholaezeokoli.com/ 

Coaching https://physicianhealyourself.life/

Jun 25, 202214:09
Season 5: Episode 10: Dear Doctor

Season 5: Episode 10: Dear Doctor

Dear doctor,  

 1. Take care of your health. Don’t pretend to be a superhero. Because, the day you crumble, everything you’re holding up will crumble too.  Also because you just need to.  

 2. Burnout is common, but not necessary. You do not have to fall prey to this scourge.   

3. Develop a healthy identity that doesn’t involve you being a superman, a savior, a martyr, or a fixer.  

 4. If you suffered certain things on your path to becoming a doctor, it doesn’t mean that you get to subject Junior Doctors to the same suffering. Do better.   

5. Get the best job you possibly can.  

6. Don’t fall prey to the belief that there are no better jobs out there. Remember, there is a Physician shortage, not a patient shortage.   

7. Do something that you love every day.  


 I am Dr. Shola Ezeokoli, Physician coach. I help busy physicians defeat and prevent burnout, as well as create options for themselves outside of traditional medical practice.   Watch a free Masterclass on burnout here.  https://physicianhealyourself.life/burnout-to-balance-masterclass-optin/

Jun 07, 202207:55
Season 5: Episode 9: Client Success Interview!
May 26, 202213:18
Season 5: Episode 8: Build Confidence For Your Next Level

Season 5: Episode 8: Build Confidence For Your Next Level

How?

Change your identity to a more confident, empowered one. Recognize and conquer confidence blockers Learn skills to build more confidence Learn how to be more confident at work Learn how to confidently face backlash and criticism Have your own confidence road map.

In my newest program, I show you all these steps.

Book a call on my calendar

Link in comments

May 19, 202210:53
Season 5: Episode 7: 5 MISTAKES THAT REDUCE YOUR SELF CONFIDENCE!
May 10, 202212:02
Season 5: Episode 6: 5 Confidence Blockers and How To Defeat Them!

Season 5: Episode 6: 5 Confidence Blockers and How To Defeat Them!

In this episode you will learn:

What confidence is What confidence is not Why you need confidence 5 Enemies Of Confidence 5 Confidence building tips!

If you are a woman, needing a confidence boost, join me on the 29th of April in my facebook group: Empowered Womanhood for a conversation on confidence with Dr Otito Okpor

Link to join here:

https://www.facebook.com/groups/1564235207260468/?ref=share

Apr 26, 202219:03
Season 5: Episode 5: Client Success Interview! with Dr. Laura Suttin
Mar 31, 202206:37
Season 5: Episode 4: Do you embody one or more of these 7 disempowering identities?
Mar 21, 202216:02
Season 5: Episode 3: The Busy Woman’s Guide to True Self Care: 10 Secrets Part 2 (contd)
Mar 14, 202211:37
Season 5: Episode 2: The Busy Woman’s Guide to True Self Care: 10 Secrets Part 1
Mar 05, 202211:06
Season 5: Episode 1: Client Success Interview!
Feb 22, 202208:36
Season 4: Episode 10: 5 Signs That You Do Not Love Yourself (And How To Change That)
Feb 14, 202215:15
Season 4: Episode 9: Doctors and Professional Women: 5 things you need to stop doing NOW!
Feb 10, 202211:55
Season 4: Episode 8: How To Be An Empowered Woman In 2022!

Season 4: Episode 8: How To Be An Empowered Woman In 2022!

As I launch my brand new Community, Empowered Womanhood in 2022, here are some strategies to true empowerment for every woman. Stay tuned, we launch on 1/4/2022

Happy New Year!

Dec 31, 202113:19
Season 4: Episode 7: 6 Strategies for freedom from Stressful Hoildays!
Dec 14, 202116:16
Season 4: Episode 6: 7 Essentials To Thriving as an Attending Physician Part 1
Aug 12, 202120:16
Season 4: Episode 5: Client Success Interview With Laurene Dougherty

Season 4: Episode 5: Client Success Interview With Laurene Dougherty

Laurene Dougherty one of my many amazing clients!

Working with me she did the following:

1. Made forward movement in her career

2. Developed more empowering thoughts around food and eating

3. Learn the potential that she has and what she is truly capable of

She sat down with me to share her experience working with me as her coach.

Here is her interview!

To work with me, book a call here http://bit.ly/drsholacoaching

Aug 05, 202111:58
Season 4: Episode 4: Interview with Dr Seema Harichand: Board Certified Oncologist.
Jul 28, 202113:40
Season 4: Episode 3: How To Make Time Work For You (And not against you) FB live

Season 4: Episode 3: How To Make Time Work For You (And not against you) FB live

Time is for you, not against you, listen in...

Jul 27, 202157:54
Season 4: Episode 2: Interview with Dr April Ruffin: Board Certified Internist, Speaker, Youth Mentor

Season 4: Episode 2: Interview with Dr April Ruffin: Board Certified Internist, Speaker, Youth Mentor

Dr April Renee-Md (Dr April Ruffin) board-certified internist, youth mentor, and speaker is one of my amazing clients.

Working with me she did the following:

Left a toxic work environment
Started her speaking company
Took specific steps to grow her 501 3c organization.

She sat down with me to share her experience working with me as her coach.
Here is her interview!
(You can contact her here: reneehealth20@gmail.com)

Or support her youth mentoring organization here youngdebsinc.org
Link to view in comments


To work with me, book a call here http://bit.ly/drsholacoaching

Jul 15, 202118:54
Season 4: Episode 1: THEY DON'T GIVE A ****

Season 4: Episode 1: THEY DON'T GIVE A ****

In my work as a coach, I come across people who don’t take the next step of life, career, or a business because of worry about what other people might think.

Through coaching, I can actually help you to stop caring about what people think, especially if it is stopping you from living Your Optimum Life Now.

I am still booking calls for anyone who wants to work with a coach who truly “gets it”.

https://calendly.com/drshola/discovery-call?month=2020-11

May 31, 202115:20
Season 3: Episode 10: Taking Daily Vacations!

Season 3: Episode 10: Taking Daily Vacations!

Can you really take a vacation everyday? Listen in!

Apr 29, 202113:45
Season 3: Episode 9: Burnout To Balance Part 4: New Options, New Life
Apr 08, 202120:56
Season 3: Episode 8: Burnout To Balance Part 3: Allies and Support Systems!
Mar 31, 202125:17
Season 3: Episode 7: Burnout To Balance Part 2: Sources Of Burnout And Creating A New Identity
Mar 25, 202117:47
Season 3: Episode 6: Burnout To Balance Part 1: Debunking Myths About Burnout
Mar 18, 202118:36
Season 3: Episode 5: You Are NOT Lazy- Perfectionism is killing you: Day 3 Of Three Day Livestream Series, Self Love And Doctor Moms

Season 3: Episode 5: You Are NOT Lazy- Perfectionism is killing you: Day 3 Of Three Day Livestream Series, Self Love And Doctor Moms

This is from a facebook livestream series so it contains chatter. Also, the program in question was launched in February 2021.

Mar 04, 202121:26
Season 3: Episode 4: Day 2 of 3 Day Livestream Series, Self Love And Doctor Moms

Season 3: Episode 4: Day 2 of 3 Day Livestream Series, Self Love And Doctor Moms

This is from a facebook livestream series so it contains chatter. Also, the program in question was launched in February 2021.

Mar 03, 202118:32
Season 3: Episode 3: Self Love, Shade and Haterade: Day 1 Of Three Day Livestream Series, Self Love And Doctor Moms

Season 3: Episode 3: Self Love, Shade and Haterade: Day 1 Of Three Day Livestream Series, Self Love And Doctor Moms

This is from a facebook livestream series so it contains chatter. Also, the program in question was launched in February 2021.

Mar 02, 202122:55
Season 3: Episode 2: Saying NO is an act of self love

Season 3: Episode 2: Saying NO is an act of self love

If you are a people pleaser or a recovering people pleaser, you will want to listen to this! Saying NO is a radical act of self-love. Here are three advantages of saying no, and three mindset shifts that need to be made in order to be able to say no without guilt


Feb 09, 202116:55
Season 3: Episode 1: Strategies To Start Your Next Income Stream: Day 3 Of Three Day Livestream Series, Your Optimum Life Now
Jan 27, 202135:53
Season 2: Episode 10: How To Handle A Toxic Work Environment: Day 2 Of Three Day Livestream Series, Your Optimum Life Now
Jan 26, 202132:35
Season 2: Episode 9: Time Management For Busy Physicians: Day 1 Of Three Day Livestream Series, Your Optimum Life Now
Jan 25, 202154:50
Season 2: Episode 8: Beware Of Princess Energy! What is it, and why you should avoid it!

Season 2: Episode 8: Beware Of Princess Energy! What is it, and why you should avoid it!


Looking to all and sundry for approval of your decisions. As a sovereign being over your own personal life, you don’t need the approval of everyone. No it behooves you to obtain advice, counsel, mentoring or coaching from the appropriate people. However, the approval of everybody and their grandmother is not needed.
Taking advice from the wrong people: some people literally run away from the right people and take advice from the wrong people. What do I mean by the wrong people? People have an agenda beyond your own success. People who have disparaged you in the past. People who are typically not supportive. I think there’s something in it in people where we want our critics to approve of us. The truth is that this is why they are critics. Frequently, they will never approve. Seek advice from people who have your best interest at heart. Better yet, learn to trust your own intuition, and add counsel, as another layer.
Being afraid to do the unconventional. How many times have you heard people say things like “I’ve never seen that done this way before“. The truth is unconventional does not mean wrong or bad. As a sovereign person over your own life, you are the only person, that knows the details and intricacies of your own life. Therefore there will be times when you will have to make decisions that are not popular, but our decisions for your own good.
Not being in integrity: as a sovereign person, you need to walk your talk. In addition, your thoughts, feelings, and actions should pretty much line up. If you are pretending to be OK with being an employee just because everyone around you seems to be that way, you will never attain the heights of what you truly want. This is because your actions are out of integrity with your thoughts and feelings. What if do you want to own your own business? Also, the converse is true. Nowadays, in this gig economy, many people are starting businesses and it is causing a lot of people who don’t feel the need to do so to feel a bit left out. Don’t run off and start a business that your thoughts and feelings are not lined up with, simply because everyone is doing so, that is a lack of integrity.
Giving away your personal sovereignty. There are things that you control, and there are things that you cannot control. A sure way to live a disappointed life Is trying to Control things you cannot, while simultaneously not controlling the things that you can. You can control what you eat, who you listen to, what do you think, what do you feel, who are you allowing in your life, how much time you spend on non-obligatory activities; the life you choose to create. You cannot control what the government does, the weather, the traffic, what specific illness what patient has; how many COVID-19 patients there are; and a myriad of other things. Make a distinction between the two and spend more time, money, and energy in the things that you can actually control.
Jan 20, 202117:34
Season 2: Episode 7: 4 Big mistakes that make physician burnout worse

Season 2: Episode 7: 4 Big mistakes that make physician burnout worse

𝕋𝕙𝕖𝕣𝕖 𝕒𝕣𝕖 𝟜 𝔹𝕀𝔾 ğ•žğ•šğ•¤ğ•¥ğ•’ğ•œğ•–ğ•¤ 𝕥𝕙𝕒𝕥 𝕕𝕠𝕔𝕥𝕠𝕣𝕤 ğ•žğ•’ğ•œğ•– 𝕥𝕙𝕒𝕥 ğ•žğ•’ğ•œğ•– 𝕓𝕦𝕣𝕟𝕠𝕦𝕥 𝕨𝕠𝕣𝕤𝕖

ğ•Žğ•™ğ•šğ•”ğ•™ 𝕠𝕗 𝕥𝕙𝕖𝕤𝕖 ğ•žğ•šğ•¤ğ•¥ğ•’ğ•œğ•–ğ•¤ 𝕒𝕣𝕖 𝕪𝕠𝕦 ğ•žğ•’ğ•œğ•šğ•Ÿğ•˜?

𝕄𝕀𝕊𝕋𝔸𝕂𝔼 #𝟙: ℕ𝕠𝕥 𝕥𝕖𝕝𝕝𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕥𝕙𝕖 𝕥𝕣𝕦𝕥𝕙 𝕒𝕓𝕠𝕦𝕥 𝕨𝕙𝕒𝕥 𝕪𝕠𝕦 𝕣𝕖𝕒𝕝𝕝𝕪 𝕨𝕒𝕟𝕥.

𝐌𝐚𝐧𝐲 𝐨𝐟 𝐮𝐬 𝐰𝐞𝐫𝐞 ğ¬ğ¨ğœğ¢ğšğ¥ğ¢ğ³ğžğ 𝐭𝐨 ğ›ğžğ¥ğ¢ğžğ¯ğž 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 ğ¨ğ§ğœğž 𝐰𝐞 ğ›ğžğœğšğ¦ğž 𝐝𝐨𝐜𝐭𝐨𝐫𝐬, 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐰𝐚𝐬 𝐢𝐭. ğ–ğž 𝐰𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐧𝐨𝐭 ğšğ¥ğ¥ğ¨ğ°ğžğ 𝐭𝐨 𝐰𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐚𝐧𝐲𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐧 ğ¦ğžğğ¢ğœğ¢ğ§ğž 𝐚𝐧𝐝 ğ¦ğžğğ¢ğœğ¢ğ§ğž ğšğ¥ğ¨ğ§ğž. 𝐅𝐨𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 ğ«ğžğšğ¬ğ¨ğ§, 𝐰𝐞 ğšğ«ğž 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐪𝐮𝐢𝐜𝐤 𝐭𝐨 𝐚𝐝𝐦𝐢𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 ğ¦ğšğ²ğ›ğž 𝐰𝐞 𝐰𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬 𝐚𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐭 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 ğ¦ğžğğ¢ğœğ¢ğ§ğž. 𝐈𝐭’𝐬 𝐨𝐤 𝐭𝐨 𝐰𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐥𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐚 ğ«ğžğ¥ğšğ±ğžğ 𝐛𝐮𝐫𝐧𝐨𝐮𝐭 ğŸğ«ğžğž ğ¥ğ¢ğŸğž. 𝐈𝐭’𝐬 𝐨𝐤 𝐭𝐨 𝐰𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐚 𝐧𝐨𝐧-ğ¦ğžğğ¢ğœğšğ¥ 𝐩𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐮𝐢𝐭. 𝐈𝐭’𝐬 𝐨𝐤 𝐭𝐨 𝐰𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐰𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐛𝐨𝐨𝐤, ğ­ğ«ğšğ¯ğžğ¥ 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐥𝐝, 𝐨𝐰𝐧 𝐚 ğ›ğ®ğ¬ğ¢ğ§ğžğ¬ğ¬! 𝐈𝐭’𝐬 𝐨𝐤!!

𝕄𝕀𝕊𝕋𝔸𝕂𝔼 #𝟚: 𝔹𝕖𝕝𝕚𝕖𝕧𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕥𝕙𝕒𝕥 “𝔹𝕦𝕣𝕟𝕠𝕦𝕥 ğ•”ğ• ğ•žğ•–ğ•¤ 𝕨𝕚𝕥𝕙 𝕥𝕙𝕖 𝕥𝕖𝕣𝕣𝕚𝕥𝕠𝕣𝕪”

𝐓𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐢𝐬 𝐚 𝐡𝐮𝐠𝐞 𝐨𝐧𝐞 ğ›ğžğœğšğ®ğ¬ğž 𝐚𝐬 𝐝𝐨𝐜𝐭𝐨𝐫𝐬, 𝐰𝐞 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞𝐬 ğ¡ğšğ¯ğžğ§â€™ğ­ 𝐬𝐞𝐞𝐧 𝐚𝐧𝐲𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐧 ğŸğžğ¥ğ¥ğ¨ğ° 𝐩𝐡𝐲𝐬𝐢𝐜𝐢𝐚𝐧𝐬 𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐠𝐠𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐛𝐮𝐫𝐧𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐩𝐥𝐚𝐢𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐌𝐨𝐧𝐝𝐚𝐲𝐬, ğ›ğžğ¢ğ§ğ  𝐨𝐧 𝐜𝐚𝐥𝐥, 𝐡𝐨𝐬𝐩𝐢𝐭𝐚𝐥 𝐚𝐝𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐭𝐨𝐫𝐬, ğžğ­ğœ. 𝐁𝐮𝐭 𝐚𝐬 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐰𝐡𝐨 ğ›ğ®ğ«ğ§ğžğ 𝐨𝐮𝐭, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 ğ¬ğ®ğœğœğžğ¬ğ¬ğŸğ®ğ¥ğ¥ğ² ğ«ğžğœğ¨ğ¯ğžğ«ğžğ 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐰𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐨𝐧 𝐭𝐨 ğœğ«ğžğšğ­ğž 𝐚𝐧 𝐚𝐦𝐚𝐳𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐪𝐮𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐲 𝐨𝐟 ğ¥ğ¢ğŸğž, 𝐧𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐜𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐝 ğ›ğž ğŸğ®ğ«ğ­ğ¡ğžğ« 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐭𝐡! 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐜𝐚𝐧 𝐥𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐚 𝐛𝐮𝐫𝐧𝐨𝐮𝐭 ğŸğ«ğžğž ğ¥ğ¢ğŸğž.

𝕄𝕀𝕊𝕋𝔸𝕂𝔼 #𝟛: ℍ𝕒𝕧𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕟𝕠 𝕠𝕦𝕥𝕝𝕖𝕥 𝕒𝕡𝕒𝕣𝕥 ğ•—ğ•£ğ• ğ•ž ğ•žğ•–ğ••ğ•šğ•”ğ•šğ•Ÿğ•–.

𝐖𝐢𝐥𝐥𝐢𝐚𝐦 𝐎𝐬𝐥𝐞𝐫 𝐬𝐚𝐢𝐝: â€œğ“ğ¡ğž 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐠 𝐝𝐨𝐜𝐭𝐨𝐫 𝐬𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐝 𝐥𝐨𝐨𝐤 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐚𝐧 𝐚𝐯𝐨𝐜𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 ğ­ğšğ¤ğžğ¬ 𝐡𝐢𝐦 𝐚𝐰𝐚𝐲 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 ğ©ğšğ­ğ¢ğžğ§ğ­ğ¬ 𝐩𝐢𝐥𝐥𝐬 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐩𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬” 𝐎𝐧𝐞 𝐤𝐞𝐲 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐡𝐞𝐥𝐩𝐞𝐝 𝐦𝐞 ğğžğŸğžğšğ­ 𝐛𝐮𝐫𝐧𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐢𝐧 𝐦𝐲 𝐨𝐰𝐧 ğ¥ğ¢ğŸğž, 𝐰𝐚𝐬 ğ›ğžğ¢ğ§ğ  ğšğ›ğ¥ğž 𝐭𝐨 𝐩𝐢𝐜𝐤 𝐮𝐩 𝐰𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚𝐠𝐚𝐢𝐧. 𝐀𝐬 𝐈 𝐰𝐫𝐨𝐭𝐞 𝐈 ğ¬ğ­ğšğ«ğ­ğžğ 𝐭𝐨 ğğ«ğžğšğ¦ 𝐨𝐮𝐭𝐬𝐢𝐝𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐠𝐨𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐨 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐤 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲 𝐝𝐚𝐲 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐦𝐲 𝐰𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 ğ›ğ¥ğ¨ğ¬ğ¬ğ¨ğ¦ğžğ 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐨 𝐦𝐮𝐥𝐭𝐢𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐛𝐨𝐨𝐤𝐬, ğ°ğžğ›ğ¢ğ§ğšğ«ğ¬, 𝐜𝐨𝐚𝐜𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐠𝐫𝐚𝐦𝐬, ğžğ­ğœ. ğ„ğ¯ğžğ§ 𝐢𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮 ğšğ«ğž 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐚 𝐰𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐞𝐫, 𝐢𝐭 𝐡𝐞𝐥𝐩𝐬 𝐭𝐨 ğğžğŸğžğšğ­ 𝐛𝐮𝐫𝐧𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐢𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮 ğ¡ğšğ¯ğž 𝐚 𝐩𝐚𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧 ğ©ğ«ğ¨ğ£ğžğœğ­ 𝐨𝐮𝐭𝐬𝐢𝐝𝐞 𝐨𝐟 ğ¦ğžğğ¢ğœğ¢ğ§ğž.

𝕄𝕀𝕊𝕋𝔸𝕂𝔼 #𝟜: ℕ𝕠𝕥 𝕘𝕖𝕥𝕥𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕥𝕙𝕖 𝕤𝕦𝕡𝕡𝕠𝕣𝕥 𝕥𝕙𝕒𝕥 𝕪𝕠𝕦 𝕟𝕖𝕖𝕕.

ğƒğžğŸğžğšğ­ğ¢ğ§ğ  𝐛𝐮𝐫𝐧𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐚𝐧𝐝 ğœğ«ğžğšğ­ğ¢ğ§ğ  𝐚 𝐧𝐨𝐧-ğ¦ğžğğ¢ğœğšğ¥ 𝐩𝐚𝐭𝐡 𝐢𝐬 𝐚 ğ­ğžğšğ¦ 𝐬𝐩𝐨𝐫𝐭. 𝐍𝐨 𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐠𝐨𝐞𝐬 𝐢𝐭 ğšğ¥ğ¨ğ§ğž! 𝐈 𝐭𝐚𝐥𝐤 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐨 𝐦𝐚𝐧𝐲 𝐝𝐨𝐜𝐭𝐨𝐫𝐬 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐝𝐞𝐬𝐢𝐫𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐥𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐚 𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐬-ğŸğ«ğžğž ğ¥ğ¢ğŸğž 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐫𝐭 𝐚 𝐧𝐞𝐰 𝐯𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐮𝐫𝐞 𝐲𝐞𝐭 ğ«ğžğŸğ®ğ¬ğž 𝐭𝐨 𝐡𝐢𝐫𝐞 𝐚 ğ¡ğ¨ğ®ğ¬ğžğœğ¥ğžğšğ§ğžğ«, 𝐥𝐞𝐭 ğšğ¥ğ¨ğ§ğž 𝐠𝐞𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐫𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐨𝐫𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐩 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐬𝐮𝐩𝐩𝐨𝐫𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 ğšğœğœğžğ¥ğžğ«ğšğ­ğž 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐢𝐫 ğŸğ«ğžğžğğ¨ğ¦ 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐛𝐮𝐫𝐧𝐨𝐮𝐭. ğ“ğ¡ğž 𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐭𝐡 𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐢𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐰𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐚 𝐛𝐮𝐫𝐧𝐨𝐮𝐭 ğŸğ«ğžğž ğ¥ğ¢ğŸğž, 𝐢𝐭 ğƒğŽğ„ğ’ ğğŽğ“ ğœğ¨ğ¦ğž 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 “𝐠𝐨𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐢𝐭 ğšğ¥ğ¨ğ§ğžâ€

Jan 11, 202112:26
Season 2: Episode 6: Stop Making All These New Year Resolutions

Season 2: Episode 6: Stop Making All These New Year Resolutions

There is nothing magical, spiritually significant, or special about the first day of January except the significance that we ourselves attach to it. I like to remind myself that the Gregorian calendar is man-made and was a reform of a previous calendar( the Julian calendar) which was itself a reform of the Roman calendar. There are also in use many different calendars( the lunar calendar, Igbo calendar, Hebrew calendar, the Chinese calendar, etc) in use, side by side with the Gregorian. The point I am making is that you do not have to “make new year resolutions”; you do not have to fall into despair at the end of the year, and you do not have to wait until the first of January to make the changes that you need to make in life.

The first of January is, however, a convenient time to set goals, and, the span of a year is a good time to review those goals you set( depending on what they were). However, new year resolutions are a total waste of time.

Jan 05, 202119:33
Season 2: Episode 5: Back To The Basics- The Five Pillars Of A Balanced Life Part 2

Season 2: Episode 5: Back To The Basics- The Five Pillars Of A Balanced Life Part 2

When you live a Balanced Life, you are better equipped to handle what life throws at you.

Why do I prefer to talk about the balanced life, instead of self-care. Self-care conjures up pictures of a spa day, Massage, exercise, and sometimes people throw in meditation. The balanced life, however prioritizes total care for your spirit soul and body. It is divided into five pillars, which I call the five pillars of balance. Physical, mental, emotional, spiritual, and relational. When “self care” is seen from this perspective, it becomes more than just one spa day every few months. It is a way of life. It is realizing that unless you take care of yourself consistently, you are no good to anyone. Contrary to what seems to be popular belief, a balanced life does not mean giving equal amounts of time, energy, and focus to everything in your life. That is not possible to do. Somethings in your life are more important than others, and some things in your life are more important at certain times than others. Of course, true emergencies are most important, and most urgent. For example, a burst appendix, is always going to be more important than a  therapy session, simply because it is a life threatening emergency. I will now break down the five pillars of balance, and how to be practical about taking care of the whole you.

Oct 14, 201913:22
Season 2: Episode 4: Back to The Basics- The Five Pillars Of A Balanced Life Part 1

Season 2: Episode 4: Back to The Basics- The Five Pillars Of A Balanced Life Part 1

When you live a Balanced Life, you are better equipped to handle what life throws at you.

Why do I prefer to talk about the balanced life, instead of self-care. Self-care conjures up pictures of a spa day, Massage, exercise, and sometimes people throw in meditation. The balanced life, however prioritizes total care for your spirit soul and body. It is divided into five pillars, which I call the five pillars of balance. Physical, mental, emotional, spiritual, and relational. When “self care” is seen from this perspective, it becomes more than just one spa day every few months. It is a way of life. It is realizing that unless you take care of yourself consistently, you are no good to anyone. Contrary to what seems to be popular belief, a balanced life does not mean giving equal amounts of time, energy, and focus to everything in your life. That is not possible to do. Somethings in your life are more important than others, and some things in your life are more important at certain times than others. Of course, true emergencies are most important, and most urgent. For example, a burst appendix, is always going to be more important than a  therapy session, simply because it is a life threatening emergency. I will now break down the five pillars of balance, and how to be practical about taking care of the whole you.

Oct 07, 201912:16
Season 2: Episode 3: The Unstoppable Trio For Long Term Success

Season 2: Episode 3: The Unstoppable Trio For Long Term Success

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Whatever your long-term goals are, without the following three qualities below, you will very likely fizzle out before you get to your goals. The unstoppable trio comprises perseverance, Patience and Passion.

Sep 30, 201907:09
Season 2: Episode 2: Do You Truly Rest?

Season 2: Episode 2: Do You Truly Rest?

Do You Truly Rest?

No, I am not talking about working yourself into the ground and falling asleep, stuporous on your sofa. I read a book on leadership by Reverend Nolan McCants and ironically, the first chapter is on rest! In today’s crazy world, with busy schedules, school, work, home, marriage, children, church, volunteer commitments etc, how do we get ourselves some rest?

May 13, 201908:40
Season 2: Episode 1: The Power Of A Personal Retreat

Season 2: Episode 1: The Power Of A Personal Retreat


 Every three months I go on a one day personal retreat. I save up a few dollars each month, and I use this to book a hotel room within a 30-40 minute distance from my home and I take off. I usually stay for 10 to 12 hours and I have no agenda. As someone who plans out every single minute of her life, this is a refreshing change of pace. I pray, sleep, swim, exercise, eat, read, and do very little by way of work. Since I started taking these personal retreats, my life has moved to a new level. I have become more creative, more productive, more efficient and more peaceful.

Here is the power of a personal retreat when done properly...

May 06, 201908:20
Episode 10: Handling Haters Part 2

Episode 10: Handling Haters Part 2

How  you handle negative or critical people is key to your growth, and key to living a life of and harmony. Here are eight simple keys to handling haters. 

Apr 08, 201910:20
Episode 9: Handling Haters Part 1

Episode 9: Handling Haters Part 1

How you handle negative or critical people is key to your growth, and key to living a life of and harmony. Here are eight simple keys to handling haters. 

Apr 01, 201908:27
Episode 8: Choices, Challenges and Change

Episode 8: Choices, Challenges and Change

Today I will be writing about about choices, challenges and change. These are three things the we are faced with, everyday of our life. We cannot escape these three things and it is vital to a balanced life for us to be able to handle the “C” triplets....

Mar 25, 201908:32
Episode 7: 5 Actionable Tips For A Thriving Marriage

Episode 7: 5 Actionable Tips For A Thriving Marriage

In 2005, we tied the knot. Sealed the deal. Got hitched. Jumped the broom.

A year later, we moved to Chicago. From then on, it was an endless cycle of offenses, silent treatment, outbursts, and make up sex. The next three years of our marriage were rather rocky. Fast forward to 2019, our marriage is thriving, we have helped many people’s marriages not only survive but thrive; we have counseled scores of people getting married, and we have our own marriage charity. So the question is: how did we get from there to where we are now?

Listen in for 5 actionable tips for a thriving marriage

Mar 21, 201912:05
Episode 6: What Can A Life Coach Do For You?

Episode 6: What Can A Life Coach Do For You?

If you are having trouble with limiting mindsets, procrastination, meeting your goals, and getting organized, you may need to take it a step further- hiring a life coach.

What can a coach do for you?

Mar 18, 201910:00
Episode 5:Stop Feeling Overwhelmed Once And For All!

Episode 5:Stop Feeling Overwhelmed Once And For All!

Have you ever felt overwhelmed? Okay, don’t answer that. Everyone at some point in their life has felt overwhelmed with their circumstances. Something we don’t realize, however, is that we do not have to feel that way....

Listen in for the keys to banish overwhelm from your life!

Mar 14, 201914:52
Episode 4: You've Got The Power!

Episode 4: You've Got The Power!

Power is defined as the ability to do something or act in a particular way. Another definition is the capacity to direct or influence.  Yet another definition is the right or authority that is given or delegated to a person or body. Other definitions include physical strength, and energy. What power do you as an individual actually have?

The answer is, a lot!

Mar 11, 201910:25
Episode 3: Your calling is calling

Episode 3: Your calling is calling

Discover your purpose in this podcast, that breaks down finding your purpose into actionable steps!

Mar 07, 201918:01
Episode 2: 10 Steps To Achieving All Of Your Goals

Episode 2: 10 Steps To Achieving All Of Your Goals

In this episode, Dr. Shola shares practical strategies on how you can set achieve your goals in 2019!
Dec 17, 201814:07
Episode 1: 7 Tips To Prevent Holiday Stress

Episode 1: 7 Tips To Prevent Holiday Stress

In this (test) episode of the Mentor Of Life podcast learn practical tips and strategies to prevent holiday stress once and for all!
Nov 22, 201815:37