Making Nice with Naughty with Dr. Tom Murray
By Dr. Tom Murray || Sex Therapist, Relationship Expert
For 20+ years, Dr. Tom has worked with everyday folks to embrace their weirdness, shed labels and shame, lean into anxiety, and build better and stronger relationships.
Making Nice with Naughty with Dr. Tom MurrayJan 20, 2023
Overcontrol: Can Perfectionism Ruin Your Sex Life? - With Eggshell Transformations by Imi Lo
In this conversation between Imi and Dr. Tom, a sex therapist, they discuss the concept of overcontrol, which refers to having too much self-control that can impede one’s ability to connect with others. Dr. Tom explains that people who lean towards over control tend to fear vulnerability and often struggle in intimate and sexual relationships. He also notes that symptoms of overcontrol can include being aloof, risk-averse, and rejection-sensitive. The conversation highlights the importance of authentic connections and a willingness to be vulnerable in building healthy relationships.
Sex Therapy with Perfectionists: An Interview with Dr. Tom Murray
Curt and Katie speak with Dr. Tom Murray regarding therapy for individuals with an overcontrolled temperament in relation to their sexual experiences. During the interview, they discuss the impact of temperament on sexual relationships, common oversights made by therapists in discussions about sex, and what an effective sex therapy session might entail for clients with this temperament.
The Book-Writing Journey to Making Nice with Naughty with Dr. Tom Murray
Lots of people fantasize about writing a book, but not everyone takes the plunge! In this episode, you'll hear Dr. Tom Murray talk about his journey from book idea to published author. He'll discuss his personal process, the challenges he faced, and the tips and tricks he learned along the way. Whether you're considering writing a book or just want to be inspired, this episode is for you. Plus, it's packed with fascinating sex education information as well.
Discernment Counseling: The Better Option for Couples on the Brink of Divorce
On this episode of Kate Anthony's Your Divorce Survival Guide Podcast, she's joined by Dr. Tom Murray. Dr. Tom is an expert in sexuality and intimate relationships, and he's here to discuss the difference between discernment counseling and couples therapy. We get to the root of why couples therapy might not be the best option for everyone, and how discernment counseling could be a better solution. This is a great discussion for anyone who's considering counseling or therapy for their relationship.