Definitions....

Fore = situated or placed in front.

Play = activity engaged in for enjoyment and recreation, especially by children.

Foreplay = most definitions say --- what happens before intercourse...

What an awful definition in my mind and so short-sided.

How about.....

Foreplay = the connection and playful embrace two partners share throughout their life that provides the foundation for meaningful sexual connection.

We could probably even stop that definition right after the word "life."

❤️ Fore play starts when you wake up in the morning until you go to bed.

❤️ It starts with knowing what you like and what your partner likes…

❤️ It starts with identifying patterns you’ve had in past relationships and deciding if those patterns still serve you?

❤️ It starts with making an effort even when you don’t want to and being vulnerable about the difficulty of keeping intimacy alive…

😊 Normalize the fact that you may go through periods with neither of you are really feeling it….and foreplay hasn't been great. That could even be foreplay!

Take a listen to what our keys to Foreplay are!

BE Together Episode 2: Deep Seeded Manipulation

The BE Together PodcastBy Brianne MunchApr 06, 2021