
It's Called Culture
By Folk and Fad
Sharing our own stories (and those of our guests and listeners) across the backdrop of the immigrant experience, we unwind ideas of guilt, fear, shame, and social norms influenced by ethnicity, religion, and media. Each new episode also has a segment dedicated to sharing mental health best practices (the elephant in the room of our culture).
Guests and listeners of all cultures encouraged!

It's Called CultureMay 30, 2023

085: The Bridgewater Triangle

084: O Weekend Update
A fun and casual weekend update including tickets to the church supper and an idea for training grounds for Portuguese children.
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083: Initial Settlement of the Azores
In this episode we discuss the burning question on everyone's minds regarding the people who came over to test fertility of the lands and be the first to settle the uninhabited Azores in the 1400's... "Who would volunteer for that?!"
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Reference: The Azores by Walter Frederick Walker, 1886

082: The Cultural Art of Ignoring Your Kids
In observance of Daughters Day celebrations around the world, we discuss the book Hunt, Gather, Parent: What Ancient Cultures Can Teach Us About the Lost Art of Raising Happy, Helpful Little Humans by Michaeleen Doucleff, which challenges Western-centric views of parenting. The discussion is eye-opening even for those who don't have kids. Merch: folkandfad.com/thebazaar
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081: Brazilian Medium Who Was Once At-Large
We discuss Netflix's documentary John of God: The Crimes of a Spiritual Healer. Idolized medium João Teixeira de Faria rises to international fame before accusations of abuse come from survivors, prosecutors, and the press. Warning: You'll never drink a Hi-C Ecto Cooler again.
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080: Red Wine from Levira Distillery Floods Portuguese Village Street
By listener request, we cover the Great Vinho Flood of 2023. We've all seen the viral video of the red wine flowing down the road from the Levira Distillery in the village of São Lourenço de Bairro in Anadia, Portugal. Let's talk about wine surplus, similar spills, potential new crops, and firefighter calendars. #neverforget! #newfesta!
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079: At the Festa with Guest: Kyler Canastra

078: Weekend Soccer and Portuguese Family Outings
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077: Boston's North End Molasses Flood
We discuss the events leading up to the devastating January 15, 1919 Great Molasses Flood in Boston's North End immigrant community as well as the investigations that followed.
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076: The Legend of Cocaine Island
We discuss Netflix's The Legend of Cocaine Island, about a family man with no drug running experience who searches the island of Culebra, Puerto Rico during the Great Recession for a lost stash of cocaine said to be worth at least $2 million... And how "Portuguese dad" financial advice could have prevented this entire scandal.
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075: Lisbon Lobotomy
We discuss a controversial Portuguese Nobel Prize Winner who made lobotomies happen and shared his findings with his colleagues at a World Neurological Convention (a.k.a. he bragged to his booth mates at the science fair).
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Walter Freeman's Lobotomies: Oral Histories

074: Old Timey Hygiene, A Terceira Jewelry Heist, and a Jam in Customs
Up first is the concept of personal hygiene in our parents' villages before they immigrated to the US. Next, we dissect a recent photo we received of gendered porta-potties from São Miguel Island in the Azores, Portugal. We wrongly speculate about a Terceira jewelry mystery and discuss the fate of Mel's mom's confiscated jam.
Stay Tuned-in: Tomorrow's episode details the Portuguese inventor of the lobotomy. Yikes!
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073: Press 1 For English
This episode tackles the challenge of dealing with automated call-center menus both for ourselves and on our parents' behalf. We also share a story about how cancelling Comcast is similar to a bad breakup with an ex, including being subjected to deceptive tactics and endless loops. Please hold...
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072: WWAD [What Would Azoreans Do?]
In this episode, we discuss the concept of WWAD (What Would Azoreans Do?), our new mantra for mindful living. We explore the Netflix docu-series "Broken," exposing the dark side of consumer products like cosmetics - including the staggering volume of goods, counterfeiting, toxic ingredients, and the role of scarcity marketing. Kel recalls her own experiences in China, where she encountered people selling counterfeit items to tourists. Further exploring the beauty industry, we unveil the historical context behind the removal of body hair in the United States. Ultimately, we find corporate manipulation frustrating and assert our right to embrace our natural selves as our families historically had done in their remote villages.
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071: Azores White Ocean Party & Gastronomic Showcase
In this episode, we explore the world of all-white parties, from this year's famous event in the Hamptons to unique experiences in New York City and Ponta Delgada, São Miguel. We discuss the history of white parties and their significance. Lastly, we describe the gastronomic showcase celebration put on by Mel's dad's village which includes representations and re-enactments of the way life used to be...
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070: What We're Watching in the Murder-Mystery Comedy Space
Woohoo! We're trying out bonus mini-sodes on Mondays to get you through the start of the week! On this inaugural Monday we chat Hulu's Only Murders in the Building, Peacock's Based on a True Story, and Riley Sager's fiction novel Lock Every Door. And we discuss which specific episode of a beloved 90's TV series inspired our love for this genre.
Don't forget to continue to tune in on Tuesdays for regularly scheduled episodes.
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069: Travel Gone Wrong, Tory Burch v. Portugal, Coworkers Are Not Your Friends
First, a segment about what we're watching and reading: Netflix's Longest Third Date, Netflix's The Volcano Rescue from Whakaari, and Malcolm Harris' Palo Alto History of California, Capitalism, and the World. Next, we discuss Tory Burch's overpriced and under-attributed Portuguese-inspired items including a sweater tunic with similarities to Povoa de Varzim's camisola poveira, a lettuce-ware line bearing resemblance to Bordallo Pinheiro's cabbage-ware, and even a logo that appears inspired by The Order of the Christ Cross. We close out with a mental health segment sorting out the nature of relationships with coworkers.

068: AI-Generated Interview Questions with Guest Connie Marques on Portugal Travels
The always-funny Connie Marques shares her recent trip to Portugal, including stops in Lisbon, Coimbra, Curia, Porto, and São Miguel. We hit her with a curious list of interview questions generated by AI which get her to talk about trying the popular dish francesinha, night-seagulls (cagarros), train chaos, funny language encounters, and a surprise transatlantic visit from her dad. We speak with fondness of our shared village roots and desire to be part of that community lifestyle. A truly touching and hilarious episode!

067: Macau, Mahjong, Abercrombie & Fitch
For our culture segment, we discuss Portugal's former colony in China, its history, culture, travel logistics, and other unique aspects. Our nostalgia segment covers Mahjong and its connection to retailer Abercrombie & Fitch. We share our memories of playing Mahjong on the computer and the confusion felt when encountering the traditional version. We also touch on the marketing tactics of Abercrombie & Fitch and their controversial hiring practices, which excluded minorities. We discuss the documentary that exposed Abercrombie's discriminatory actions and their subsequent settlement of a class action lawsuit.
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066: Immigrant Parent Zero-Waste Policy, Foil Papered Stove, Smoking or Non?
Mel & Kel discuss immigrant parents' zero-waste policy and some real-life quirky examples. Our culture segment delves into the quirks of the underground kitchen life including foil-papering the stovetop. For our nostalgia segment, we take a trip down memory lane to a time when smoking indoors was commonplace (even at Venus de Milo wedding receptions). And our mental health segment explores the psychology behind "saving things for later".
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References: Living Underground | Feel Portugal Magazine

065: Cape Cod Maria, Experiencing a "Fraqueza", Bow-lingual
In this episode, we discuss recent travel experiences, including memorable interactions with hotel staff. We explore the concept of "fraqueza" and its connection to blood glucose levels. We also talk about a device called Bow-lingual for translating dog barks into human phrases and other Time Magazine "Best Inventions" of 2002. For our mental health segment, we emphasize the importance of identity protection online. Watch the full video episode on YouTube. Subscribe here: @folkandfad
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064: Titan, Triton, Titanic
In this episode, we explore the uncanny connections between the tragic submersible incident and the iconic story of the Titanic. We discuss familial links, delve into controversies surrounding the Oceangate CEO's motivations, and recount unusual premonitions related to the Titanic. You'll also find out which tycoon associated with the Titanic once spent a year in the Azores. Watch the full video episode on YouTube. Subscribe here: @folkandfad
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063: Travel Portugal, Queen Ines, and Rebranded Immigrant Psychosis
We discuss planning a trip to Portugal, a scandalous story from the 1300s, nostalgia's impact on mental health, and cultural heritage preservation through nostalgia. Watch the full video episode on YouTube. Subscribe here: @folkandfad
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062: Boogeyman, Buried Alive, and The Eternal Preparedness of the Anxious Mind
Our culture topic is the Portuguese boogeyman (bicho papão, coco) including etymology, poems, and festas. We read a new message that a reddit user left for us about São Miguel burials, including some people who were not-so-dead when buried. And finally, we discuss the readiness of the anxious mind to respond to disaster in our mental health segment.

061: The Butterfly Effect
We take a butterfly effect-like journey through former Pope JPII's survival of three unique but seemingly interconnected assassination attempts in Italy, Portugal and The Philippines.
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060: Turn of the Tide [Rabo de Peixe] Netflix Series Commentary
[SPOILERS BEGIN AT MINUTE 36:00]
We react to the Netflix series Turn of the Tide loosely based on the real life event of cocaine washing ashore in the village of Rabo de Peixe, São Miguel in the Portuguese archipelago of the Azores. Our parents are from this island, so we feel inherently connected to the show and its cultural details. The first half of the commentary is relating to vibes not plot lines, so there are no spoilers until minute 36:00. Watch the show, enjoy our commentary, and leave us your own notes!
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059: Rabo De Peixe, 7th Heaven, Pet Grief
As always, we kick things off with a fun social media roundup. Our culture topic is a recap of the true life events of cocaine washing ashore in the village of Rabo De Peixe on the island of Sao Miguel (Azores, Portugal) to complement the newly released Netflix series loosely based on these events. Nostalgia topic is the unhinged plot lines of the cult-classic show 7th Heaven. And Kel gets real with us in a raw mental health segment about recent the loss of her beloved dog.
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References:
Pink Street Lisbon: The Place That's Keeping Us Up All Night
Snow blind: how half a ton of cocaine destroyed a tiny Portuguese island

058: Individualism vs. Community, Cultural Sleep Habits, Europe's Most Fearful Countries
Kel was out this week grieving the unexpected loss of her dog so we pulled together some segments from the vault that haven't yet aired as part of any prior episodes. Our social media roundup contrasts the isolation of the U.S. vs. community-centric cultures. Our culture topic is cultural sleep habits, not limited to our very own Portuguese post-meal napping. And we end by recapping a list of Europe's Most Fearful Countries **spoiler alert** Portugal wins.
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References:
The Portuguese Are the Most Fearful People in Europe
9 Sleep Habits From Around the World

057: Azores Trip Advisor, Lunch Duty, Staying Calm Under Stress
First we round up Trip Advisor and Reddit posts about "men standing around doing nothing" and the unrelated surprising source of a Covid-19 outbreak on the island of São Miguel in 2020. Our nostalgia segment takes a stroll down memory lane as Mel recounts recent volunteer work as the recess and lunch duty adult. And our mental health segment is a tale of two reactions to a jetski ride gone bad.
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056: May Day, Azores Burial Customs, Information Overload
First, our social media roundup unlocks a new fear of being stuck in a trunk with a distinctive cultural carcass. Our culture topic is May Day, where we discuss both the introduction to an evil-eye-less spring and the dramatic lead-in to International Workers' Day. Our nostalgia topic is prior generations' burial customs in the Azores, including first-hand accounts that we've gathered. And finally, we have a hearty chat about the age of information overload and our attempts to overcome it.
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What is May Day? For the most part, the opposite of capitalism.

055: Swill Milk, 'Got Milk?', The Cherry Blossom Experiment
It's called a microbial culture. Ever heard of it? We cover a broad swath of Big Dairy beginning with the swill milk scandal all the way to a sexist 'Got Milk?' campaign about PMS that was retracted in 2011. And we end with a mental health discussion about the cherry blossom experiment and legacy trauma.
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054: Questionable Wedding Pranks, Nostalgic Rooms, Gratitude Journal Update
First we update on the shared cultural experience of having a relative eat your pet bunny. Our culture topic is real life tales about the art of the Portuguese newlywed prank. Our nostalgia topic includes discussion of both a 90s con childhood bedroom replica and a haunted-house style escape room. And Kel updates us on her gratitude journal progress for our mental health segment.
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053: British Food Folklore, Street Smarts, Manipulative Content
First we cover the local government-document-leaker that has made global headlines. Our culture topic is British food folklore which we are sad to report includes more than one instance of butts touching food. Our nostalgia topic is the early 2000's era game-show Street Smarts and our mental health segment is about the manipulation of negative emotions in content-creation and media.
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052: Barcelos Rooster, TGIF, Kava
We start by celebrating our podiversary and recounting some special memories from the past year! Our culture topic is The Barcelos Rooster (it did what!?) and we update a few of our favorite clips as our nostalgia topic. For our mental health segment we discuss kava and the art of getting good sleep.
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051: Thirty-Six Hours in Canada
First we read a note from a Canadian listener. Then we cover driving to Toronto and driving in Toronto. Celebrity neighborhoods. A wedding blackout. We reminisce over my dad's collection of "I know a guy" Canada travel stories. And a mental health segment about badass women.
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050: Spanglish, Saved by the Bell, and Unmasking
First from our social media roundup [01:57] we have Strega Nona, Furnas, São Miguel, and a traumatizing earthquake museum. Our culture topics [16:00] are Spanglish the movie and Spanglish the linguistics phenomenon and our nostalgia topic [36:12] is 90's con 2023 debrief. For our mental health segment [01:04:22] we discuss the concepts of unmasking and gratitude journaling.
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049: Electricity, Blue's Clues, and The Wellness Spectrum
First from our social media roundup [01:36] we have Portuguese beach boys and steak plate ratings spreadsheet. Our culture topic [08:23] is home improvements and our nostalgia topic [19:04] is 90's con. For our mental health segment [37:49] we discuss how opposite ends of the wellness spectrum appear to converge.

048: Kiss Me I'm (Not) Irish
First we update on the phallic pottery of Portugal's Caldas Da Rainha. Our culture topic is [unraveling Saint Patrick's Day] and our nostalgia topic is [leprechauns in 90s-00s media]. For our mental health segment we discuss death by 1,000 paper cuts and balancing chaos with stability.
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References: The Incredible True Story of Ireland's Last Leprechauns

047: European Weddings and Pre-Cana Woes
There's a lot to unpack here with country-specific wedding traditions from the UK, France, Italy, Portugal, Spain, and Greece. Then we unravel the catholic church's unserious positions on love & marriage, discuss the cinematic masterpiece "The Two Popes", and end with a tech-savvy mental health segment.

046: Marriage Superstitions and Miseries
We dig back through marriage history and make some eye-opening discoveries. A bride pie contained WHAT?! A bundling board is for WHAT?! May is bad luck for weddings because of WHAT?! We're with you on this rollercoaster ride, for better or for worse.
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References:
7 Portuguese Wedding Traditions That Will Make The Romantic In You Swoon
St. James Magazine, London, 1871: Marriage Superstitions & Miseries of a Bride Elect
The Accomplisht Cook - The Whole Art and Mystery of Cookery, Robert May, 1660: Bride Pie

045: Fat Tuesday Around the World
Mardi Gras! Fat Tuesday! Shrovetide! Pancake Tuesday! Carnival! Malassada Tuesday! Entrudo! Of course there are an excess of names for a celebration of *excess*. We've got the hilarious deets on the not-so-conventional ways that different countries celebrate this day.
Carnival Traditions in Portugal
The Weird Historic Traditions Around Pancake Tuesday in Ireland

044: Valentine's Day (Dia dos Namorados)
We discuss the three most forbidden words in Portuguese households: "I-love-you". Then we journey from the history of Saint Valentine all the way to The Satanic Temple in Salem, Massachusetts. We explore lovers' traditions around the world and end with a mental health segment on consumerism. You know, keeping it light!
References:
Travel Triangle: 18 Valentine's Day Traditions Around the World

043: Disney Culture
We dig into the history of the Walt Disney World Company and its parks including: little-known incidents, Portugal getting snubbed out of EPCOT representation, and what it was like on Splash Mountain's final day of operation.
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042: Chouriço Do Diabo (Devil's Chouriço)
We bring you three entirely separate incidents involving self-proclaimed "Sausage Kings" and murder. A fourth generation Portuguese-American Sausage King in California, a German immigrant Sausage King in Chicago, and a Russian Sausage King near Moscow, Russia. Plot twist, one of them is a victim not a perpetrator. Either way, if you ever see the words “Sausage King” in a profile on Bumble, swipe hard left.

041: Altar Serving at the Funeral for $3 with Guest: Michelle DeMelo
Michelle DeMelo has put in more time and effort into our culture and its traditions than most people our age. From her altar serving side hustle as a kid to her current involvement as a cult member (for the holy ghost of course)....and all the funeral and marching band trauma in between.

040: I Guess I Gotta Give You Part II Of My Confessions (of a Hypochondriac)
Just when we thought we said all we can say, the host on the side talks about when she had one on the way. If we're gonna tell it then we're gonna tell it all!
Cliffs notes = C-Sections, Parasites, Long Covid, Man Flu.

039: Living with Medical Anxiety: Confessions of a Hypochondriac
Hypochondriacs unite! We share our real life encounters with illness anxiety disorder and the mental gymnastics needed to fight the urge to visit Web MD. And as always, we do it with a healthy dose of humor. Just what the doctor ordered.

038: Happy New Year aka Feast of the Snip
First, it would be remiss not to mention the January 1st Feast of the Holy Foreskin and its history. Next, we learn about New Year customs from various countries around the world and preach about how fireworks are detrimental and unnecessary. And we end by discussing our New Year's resolutions as our mental health segment.

037: Christmas-y Liqueurs and the Anti-Santa
First we address a few discussions from our social media community before diving into Krampus, the anti-Santa. Then we cover a variety of interesting Christmas-y liqueurs and the multi-cultural fruit cake. And as always, we end with mental health tips!

036: Fun with FIFA: World Cup History and Controversies
Lower your expectations. In this special *SpOrtS* edition, we talk football in our own style - including confessing to what we don't know. We highlight the importance of the sport to our Portuguese culture. And of course, we would never leave you without at least a few nuggets about alleged corruption.