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Frank Friar Fridays

By Fr Patrick Baikauskas OP

Weekly reflections from a Dominican friar.
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Why is it so hard to forgive another?

Frank Friar FridaysSep 18, 2023

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Are you generous or stingy?

Are you generous or stingy?

The parable this week is about the generous landowner who pays the workers who worked only an hour the same as those who worked all day. He was generous in ways that can be difficult for us to understand, but it is supposed to be a parable that gets us thinking - how am I called to act?

Sep 21, 202311:08
Why is it so hard to forgive another?

Why is it so hard to forgive another?

In this Sunday's reading, we hear Jesus being asked by Peter, "How many times do I have to forgive, as many as seven?" Well, actually we're called to do much more, but why is it so difficult for us?

Sep 18, 202310:43
Do you build up - or tear down?

Do you build up - or tear down?

How do we confront the people we love - and the people we live with? Jesus shows us the way.

Sep 08, 202308:56
I talk to Br. Alonso Salas, OP about his work on the streets of Memphis this summer

I talk to Br. Alonso Salas, OP about his work on the streets of Memphis this summer

Listen to this interview with Br. Alonso Salas, OP, a second year student brother and his inspiring story of meeting and accompanying those living on the margins on the streets of Memphis.

Sep 01, 202324:46
What's it like to be a chaplain in a big city hospital trauma center

What's it like to be a chaplain in a big city hospital trauma center

This week we interview Br. Joseph Hilliker OP who we interviewed last year detailing his summer experience in Kenya. This summer he served as a chaplain in a Houston ER. Hear his inspiring story.

Aug 25, 202327:15
Highlights of our pilgrimage to Poland and Prague

Highlights of our pilgrimage to Poland and Prague

After four attempts over three years - we finally made it - thanks be to God. Hear some highlights of our pilgrimage.

Aug 18, 202326:07
God is her co-counsel

God is her co-counsel

Missy Sims was recently featured in a New York Times article that details her legal suit against big oil companies on behalf of several cities in Puerto Rico. She blames them for climate change and that their indifference has been the cause of the devastating storms that have plagued that island. What comes through very clearly is that she her Catholic faith has guided her in this David vs. Goliath undertaking.

Aug 11, 202322:43
The Transfiguration and Oppenheimer

The Transfiguration and Oppenheimer

Transfiguration is about an openness to being changed. I think there is some interesting theological connections to the film Oppenheimer.

Aug 04, 202313:18
What is the most precious thing you own?

What is the most precious thing you own?

This is a question we may need to ask ourselves everyday - but let's really reflect on this question this week. every day

Jul 28, 202309:52
Costa Rica - Pura Vida

Costa Rica - Pura Vida

Having just returned from a vacation in Costa Rica, I thought I would offer some of my reflections on this extraordinary place. Pura Vida is the official slogan of Costa Rica, and people say it as often as people say Ciao! in Italy. Literally it. means "pure life" but it means more in the way the Ticos use it. It mean's "Everything is great, how about you?" or "Isn't this day beautiful?" or "Gosh, it is so nice to meet you. I failed to mention that on our first night in Costa Rica we got to visit Boiler Catholic Beatriz Cisneros - what a special occasion that was!!

Jul 21, 202319:15
Let's unburden ourselves

Let's unburden ourselves

We can let ourselves get weighed down. That's a choice. There's another one too.

Jul 07, 202308:23
What's the key to our happiness?

What's the key to our happiness?

Does the answer surprise you?

Jun 30, 202312:27
We are all worth a lot - a lot - in the eyes of God - and me

We are all worth a lot - a lot - in the eyes of God - and me

and so what are we called to do about it?

Jun 23, 202309:59
Let our hearts be on fire!!!

Let our hearts be on fire!!!

Yes, we are supposed to love one another as Jesus loves us - but let's kick it up a bit.

Jun 16, 202309:44
We extend a special welcome

We extend a special welcome

This is a welcome statement a made a couple of times at St. Tom's, but I believe we lived it out every day. Feel free to share it - and live it.

Jun 09, 202304:36
What does it mean for YOU when we celebrate the Holy Trinity?

What does it mean for YOU when we celebrate the Holy Trinity?

We - meaning priests - tend to make it complicated. It isn't. Celebrating the Trinity means celebrating hospitality.

Jun 02, 202317:33
What do you with all the gifts you have received?

What do you with all the gifts you have received?

God has given us a lot - maybe we don't notice. Do we keep them to ourselves - or share them? Easy question.

May 26, 202310:41
Go out and share the good news!!

Go out and share the good news!!

Jesus asks all of us - commissions all of us - to share what he has given each of us.

May 19, 202309:35
Jesus commands us to pray - why does he have to command us?

Jesus commands us to pray - why does he have to command us?

And a special Mother's Day column from Erma Bombeck (my absolute favorite!)

May 12, 202311:13
What great things will you do today?

What great things will you do today?

We are all called to do amazing things, and with the help of God, we can do them. Are you ready?

May 05, 202309:45
Are YOU a good shepherd?

Are YOU a good shepherd?

On Sunday we hear the familiar story of the good shepherd - a beautiful story that images Christ as our good shepherd. But there's more to the story. The story asks for something from each of us.

Apr 28, 202312:39
Stay with us, Lord. Stay with us.

Stay with us, Lord. Stay with us.

Where are you on your journey of faith?

Apr 21, 202309:03
Where do we find Jesus in our lives?

Where do we find Jesus in our lives?

This week we hear the story of the doubting Thomas. Do we let Jesus into our lives - or do we try to keep him out or contained to Sunday?

Apr 14, 202308:60
What does Easter joy mean for you - for each of us?

What does Easter joy mean for you - for each of us?

Yes, two episodes in one weekend - but it's Easter and I can't let that pass without a special reflection for this Easter Sunday.

Apr 08, 202309:15
Part 2 of my interview on "A Veiled Response"

Part 2 of my interview on "A Veiled Response"

I was interviewed by Our Sunday Visitor as part of the Eucharistic Revival initiative of the USCCB. The subject? Why do some women wear veils, and how are we called to respond?

Apr 07, 202323:57
A veiled response.  Veils!  Are the for all women?

A veiled response. Veils! Are the for all women?

I was interviewed recently by OSV as part of a project of the Eucharistic Revival that includes interviews with the preachers involved with the revival. I cannot say I am an expert on the topic, but it provided for an engaging conversation.

Mar 31, 202322:17
What are the ties that bind us?

What are the ties that bind us?

How do we let our afflictions and fear keep us from living out our lives fully?

Mar 24, 202314:50
What blinds us to what we need to do and how we are called to live?

What blinds us to what we need to do and how we are called to live?

Maybe we already know the whats?  What are the hows?

Mar 17, 202310:53
What will satisfy your thirst?

What will satisfy your thirst?

In the famous story of Jesus' encounter with the Samaritan woman at the well, we get a chance to reflect on what we need in our own lives to satisfy our desires.

Mar 10, 202308:49
What does it mean to be transfigured?

What does it mean to be transfigured?

And is it something we can explain to others?

Mar 03, 202309:18
A letter from Kiev

A letter from Kiev

Today, February 24, markes the one year anniversary of the Russian invasion of Kiev.  I share with you a letter written by one of my Dominican brothers in Kiev reflecting on the past 12 months there.  

Feb 24, 202315:23
Lying - if everyone does it, what's the big deal?

Lying - if everyone does it, what's the big deal?

Is our culture buying into the notion that lying is okay - because, well,  everyone does it.

Feb 17, 202324:55
Is it ever permissible to tell a lie?

Is it ever permissible to tell a lie?

What if no one is harmed?  What if it is to save someone from danger?  What does it even mean to be permissible?  To whom, or. to what?  What the heck is a lie anyway?  Find out the answers to these questions and so much more in our interview with moral theologian, Dr. Stewart Clem, PhD.

Feb 10, 202322:51
We are called to be salt and light.

We are called to be salt and light.

What's that mean, and how do we live our lives to be the salt of the earth and a light to others?

Feb 03, 202310:51
How do we live the beatitudes?

How do we live the beatitudes?

And what lessons can we learn from our children?

Jan 27, 202313:52
Are you a light to the world?

Are you a light to the world?

And if not to the world, to your neighbor, or your family?  At the very least?

Jan 20, 202311:49
Let’s talk about what it means to be an evangelized.

Let’s talk about what it means to be an evangelized.

This interview with former campus minister and Catholic counselor, Grant Freeman goes into the whys, what and when on sharing the good news of Jesus Christ with our family and friends.
Jan 13, 202333:20
How good are we at putting Christ at the center of our lives?

How good are we at putting Christ at the center of our lives?

What do the Magi and the response of King Herod say about us?

Jan 06, 202314:01
New Years' Resolutions

New Years' Resolutions

No telling where a New Year's resolution might lead us.

Dec 30, 202212:35
How does Christ come to us at Christmas?

How does Christ come to us at Christmas?

The beginning of the Gospel of John is not what we might think about at Christmas - the word of God - darkness - but it is very much how God enters into our lives.  

Dec 23, 202209:52
Fourth week of Advent

Fourth week of Advent

What do our dreams tell us about ourselves?

Dec 16, 202208:40
Third Sunday of Advent

Third Sunday of Advent

Are you ready for Christmas?  Rejoice, be patient, and be a messenger.  

Dec 09, 202210:31
Do I really need to change?

Do I really need to change?

There's a lot of bad stuff happening in the world.  How do we change our world?  "Let there be peace on earth, and let it begin with me."

Dec 02, 202210:13
Wow! It doesn't get any better than this!!

Wow! It doesn't get any better than this!!

My almost famous story about waiting in line at Ted Drewes - and waiting for Christ to enter our lives.

Nov 25, 202210:07
Who do we call our king - our ruler?

Who do we call our king - our ruler?

We have just had elections.  There have been elections in other countries - new rulers chosen.  Who do we consider our ruler?

Nov 18, 202213:18
We are motivated by fear or love?

We are motivated by fear or love?

The choice is ours - let Jesus and his way be our guide.

Nov 11, 202210:21
What is heaven like?

What is heaven like?

We think a fair amount about heaven - not a bad thing - but why do so many of us fear getting there?

Nov 04, 202213:42
An interview on thoughts about how we help to bring others back to the faith

An interview on thoughts about how we help to bring others back to the faith

This interview with my fellow Dominican Br. Bernard Wierdak discusses his own journey of faith and gives some important insights into how we are each called to live out our faith life.  

Oct 27, 202223:33
What does Church Lady from SNL teach us?

What does Church Lady from SNL teach us?

Church Lady and the gospel reading this weekend both want us to look into our own hearts before we judge others.  A tough thing to do.  

Oct 21, 202210:59
Pray - pray - pray - don't give up.

Pray - pray - pray - don't give up.

We are told to persevere in prayer - but some times we can't seem to wait for God's response.  

Oct 14, 202210:36