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When He Speaks Erotica

When He Speaks Erotica

By J.R. Robinson

A relationship and intimacy platform discussing everything from dating to the hottest sex stories. All from a man's perspective.
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If You Enjoy Sex Don’t Marry Someone Who Never Prioritizes It

When He Speaks EroticaMar 19, 2023

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Mental Health Will Equals Sexual Wealth

Mental Health Will Equals Sexual Wealth

Podcast About Episode Tonight's topic, JR discusses the damaging words you shouldn't say in bed. Also, tonight's question, " How to Overcome Codependency in Your Relationship?"

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May 28, 202318:43
Networking with Women: How to Connect Without Being Creepy

Networking with Women: How to Connect Without Being Creepy

Tonight's topic, JR discusses how men should be able to network with women without being creepy. Also, tonight's question, "Why Do Women Insist They're Not Getting Sex When Men Talk to Them?"

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May 22, 202322:31
Get Down and Dirty: The Benefits of Having Sex on the Floor!

Get Down and Dirty: The Benefits of Having Sex on the Floor!

Tonight's topic, JR discusses the benefits of being intimate on the floor. Also, tonight's question, "Do Men Lose Interest When a Woman Chases Them?"

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May 14, 202321:09
Embracing and Understanding Asexuality

Embracing and Understanding Asexuality

Tonight's topic, JR discusses understanding and embracing asexuality. Also, tonight's question, "Why Love Keeps You Guessing: On-Again / Off-Again Relationships?"

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Apr 30, 202327:14
The 5 Emotional Needs Every Man Craves In a Marriage

The 5 Emotional Needs Every Man Craves In a Marriage

Tonight's topic, JR discusses the 5 emotional needs of a husband. Also, tonight's question, " Not All Coochie Is Created Equal: What Makes ‘Good P*ssy’ Good?"

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Apr 23, 202318:08
Feeling the Pleasure: Is an Orgasm the Ultimate Goal of Sex?

Feeling the Pleasure: Is an Orgasm the Ultimate Goal of Sex?

Tonight's topic, JR discusses is having an orgasm, your sex endgame. Also, tonight's question, "Getting Married: Should I Take His Last Name?"

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Apr 16, 202330:23
Stop Dating Multiple People & Retiring From the Hoe Phase!

Stop Dating Multiple People & Retiring From the Hoe Phase!

Tonight's topic, JR discusses to Stop Dating Multiple People & Retiring From the "Hoe Phase. Also, tonight's question, "Sleep or Sex: Are You Choosing the Pillow Over a Lover?"

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Apr 09, 202331:26
Love Bombing

Love Bombing

Tonight's topic, JR discusses the effect of Love Bombing. Also, tonight's question, "Ladies, Is Your Male Friend Want a Relationship?" #anchor #spotify #Applepodcasts #lovingbombing #whenhespeakserotica

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Mar 26, 202332:51
If You Enjoy Sex Don’t Marry Someone Who Never Prioritizes It

If You Enjoy Sex Don’t Marry Someone Who Never Prioritizes It

Tonight's topic, JR discusses the importance of prioritizing sex in your relationship or marriage. Also, tonight's question, "How Could Someone Commit to a Relationship They Never Wanted?"

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Mar 19, 202329:38
The Power of Tantra Intimacy for Positive Sexual Connections

The Power of Tantra Intimacy for Positive Sexual Connections

Tonight's topic, JR discusses Tantra intimacy. Also, tonight's question, "Can Setting an Ultimatum Save Your Relationship?"

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Mar 12, 202324:39
The Bachelor Dilemma: Dude, Why Are You're Getting Married?

The Bachelor Dilemma: Dude, Why Are You're Getting Married?

Tonight's topic, JR discusses a bachelor dilemma when transitioning from being single to getting married. Also, tonight's question, "Why Do Men Prefer Women With a Low Body Count?"

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Mar 05, 202329:13
5 Sex Tips A Lesbian Shared That Made Me a Better Lover

5 Sex Tips A Lesbian Shared That Made Me a Better Lover

Tonight's topic, JR shares 5 sex tips a lesbian shared to be a better lover. Also, tonight's question, "If Foreign Women Love Men American Women Don't Want, Why the Fuss?"

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Feb 26, 202333:16
I’m a ‘Trophy Husband’ With Multiple Wives

I’m a ‘Trophy Husband’ With Multiple Wives

Tonight's topic, JR discusses the damaging words you shouldn't say in bed. Also, tonight's question, "Why Do Others Want You After You’ve Found Love?"

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Feb 19, 202331:44
Reaching New Peaks of Pleasure in the Sixty-Nine Position

Reaching New Peaks of Pleasure in the Sixty-Nine Position

Tonight's topic, JR discusses the pleasure of the sixty-nine position. Also, tonight's question, "Is It True That Guys in the Friend Zone Make Better Husbands?"

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Feb 12, 202328:23
How Sexual Aftercare is Often Overlooked

How Sexual Aftercare is Often Overlooked

Tonight's topic, JR discusses the damaging words you shouldn't say in bed. Also, tonight's question, "Want to Know Secrets for Keeping Him Forever?"

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Feb 05, 202333:19
Hurtful Words You Never Say to Your Lover in Bed

Hurtful Words You Never Say to Your Lover in Bed

Tonight's topic, JR discusses the damaging words you shouldn't say in bed. Also, tonight's question, "What Made Sex So Exciting When We Were Younger?"

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Jan 28, 202334:50
Men Stop Simping, and Start Living !

Men Stop Simping, and Start Living !

Tonight's topic, JR pleads with men to stop simping, and start living. Also, tonight's question, "Is Divorce Really a Loss for Women?"

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Jan 22, 202322:27
3 Reason Some People Are Always Unlucky in Love

3 Reason Some People Are Always Unlucky in Love

Tonight's topic, JR questioned if he was led to infidelity, or did it willingly. Also, tonight's question, How Do Men Handle Unwanted Sexual Propositions?"

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Jan 19, 202339:59
Did She Lead Me On? Or Was It Me… Damn, I Shouldn't Have Cheated

Did She Lead Me On? Or Was It Me… Damn, I Shouldn't Have Cheated

Podcast About Episode

Tonight's topic, JR questioned if he was led to infidelity, or did it willingly. Also, tonight's question, Is sleep sex common or strange?"

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Jan 14, 202336:52
Black Women Face Fertility Crisis Due to Sperm Donor Shortage

Black Women Face Fertility Crisis Due to Sperm Donor Shortage

Tonight's topic, JR discusses the injustice black women face with the shortage of black male sperm donors. Also, tonight's question, "Should a Booty Call Spend the Night?"

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Jan 12, 202328:10
Love is a Resolution: Make 2023 Lastingly Yours

Love is a Resolution: Make 2023 Lastingly Yours

We are starting the New Year off right. Tonight's topic, JR discusses as we set new goals and resolutions for the upcoming year, consider making your relationships a priority. Also, the question of the night, Do Men Compare Women to Women in Porn?

Jan 05, 202335:27
Don’t Be Fooled: If Physical Compliments Are All You Hear, It’s Only About Sex

Don’t Be Fooled: If Physical Compliments Are All You Hear, It’s Only About Sex

In tonight's topic, JR discusses when unwanted physical compliments are about sex. Also, tonight's question, "How to Cut the Cord: Adding Closure with a Break-up Date"?

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Dec 22, 202237:26
7 Signs You’re Getting Dickmatized

7 Signs You’re Getting Dickmatized

Tonight's topic, JR discusses the 7 signs that indicate when a woman is dickmatized. Also, tonight's question, "Is It Better to Mistletoe or Let Go Before the Holidays?"?

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Dec 18, 202243:15
To Ex or Not Ex

To Ex or Not Ex

Tonight's topic, JR discusses how a second chance at love with the same person. Also, tonight's question, "What’s The Hype Around Sex Gummies?"

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Dec 11, 202232:46
Delicious Desires: What Your Favorite Food Reveals About Your Sex Life

Delicious Desires: What Your Favorite Food Reveals About Your Sex Life

Tonight's topic, JR discusses how food and sex are a great combination. Also, tonight's question, "What is your Sexual Life Expectancy?"?

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Dec 08, 202220:53
"The Power of Praise: Uncover the Benefits of Appreciating Sex!"

"The Power of Praise: Uncover the Benefits of Appreciating Sex!"

Tonight's topic, JR speaks on the Power of Praising in relationships. Also, tonight's question, "Why Women’s Feminine Energy is Kryptonite for Men"?

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Dec 04, 202229:15
"Finding Passion Within Monogamy"

"Finding Passion Within Monogamy"

Tonight's topic, JR discusses how to keep the romance alive and bring back the spark in your relationship after infidelity. Also, tonight's question, "Is Chivalry Dead?"

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Dec 01, 202239:42
Ladies: You Have Sex Appeal, But Your Attitude Sucks!

Ladies: You Have Sex Appeal, But Your Attitude Sucks!

Tonight's topic, JR speaks on how some women may have great sex appeal, but a horrible attitude. Also, tonight's question, "What Are 4 Reasons Why Men Leave After Sleeping with You"?

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Nov 27, 202238:60
Don't Buy into the Rules of Sacrifice

Don't Buy into the Rules of Sacrifice

Tonight's topic, JR discusses Standing Your Ground in the Relationship. Also, tonight's question, Is "I Love You" Only a Lie to Have Sex?

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Nov 20, 202227:59
"The Science of Kissing: What Our Lips are Really Saying"

"The Science of Kissing: What Our Lips are Really Saying"

Tonight's topic, JR discusses the sexuality of an introvert. Also, tonight's question, "What do people fantasize about during sex?"

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Nov 13, 202229:31
The Sexuality of an Introvert A Unique and Intimate Perspective

The Sexuality of an Introvert A Unique and Intimate Perspective

Tonight's topic, JR discusses the sexuality of an introvert. Also, tonight's question, "What is First-Date Chemistry and How Can You Tell If You Have It?"

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Nov 10, 202223:33
Story Time: My Dream

Story Time: My Dream

Tonight's topic, JR shares a story of heartbreak from his past. Also, tonight's question, "What It's Like to Spend 24 Hours Naked with Your Partner?"

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Nov 06, 202239:26
Forgiveness After the Affair

Forgiveness After the Affair

Tonight's topic, JR discusses finding ways to forgive an affair. Also, tonight's question, "Sexual Crossroads: Break up or Break Through?"

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Nov 03, 202226:03
Cuffing Season - The Phenomenon of Hooking Up During the Winter

Cuffing Season - The Phenomenon of Hooking Up During the Winter

Tonight's topic, JR discusses how the phenomenon of hooking up during the winter. Also, tonight's question, "Dysfunctional Relationships: The New Normal?"

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Oct 29, 202234:44
Ladies, Stop Blaming All Men for the Actions of a Few Bad Apples!!!

Ladies, Stop Blaming All Men for the Actions of a Few Bad Apples!!!

Tonight's topic, JR discusses how women need to stop thinking all are bad apples. Also, tonight's question, "Why Do Men not Want Relationships but Still Want Sex?"

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Oct 27, 202238:05
It's a Forbidden Love for a Reason

It's a Forbidden Love for a Reason

Tonight's topic, JR discusses eating forbidden fruits Also, tonight's question, "Is It Possible to Love Two People at Once?"

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Oct 23, 202236:54
Sexuality and Aging...You're Never Too Old to Sexy!

Sexuality and Aging...You're Never Too Old to Sexy!

Tonight's topic, JR discusses how you're never too old to be sexy! Also, tonight's question, "Why Men Are Unable to Forgive a Cheating Woman?" #anchor #spotify #Applepodcasts #sexualityandaging #whenhespeakserotica

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Oct 20, 202232:05
My Biggest Sex Regret

My Biggest Sex Regret

Tonight's topic, JR shares and discusses sex regrets. Also, tonight's question, "Is Your Partner "Quiet Quitting the Relationship" Without You Realizing It?" 

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Oct 12, 202238:22
Virtual Date Ideas That Will Connect You While Apart

Virtual Date Ideas That Will Connect You While Apart

Tonight's topic, JR discusses how virtual dating helps when you and your lover are apart. Also, tonight's question, "Is Sex Therapy Right for You and Your Relationship?" 

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Oct 09, 202235:22
The Secrets That Can Make Him Fall in Love With You

The Secrets That Can Make Him Fall in Love With You

Tonight's topic, JR discusses the secrets women must know if they want a man to fall for them. Also, tonight's question, "Which is Better, Smoking Weed or Having Sex?" 

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Oct 06, 202241:46
Why do Men Hate Condoms Pleasure, Pressure or Privilege?

Why do Men Hate Condoms Pleasure, Pressure or Privilege?

Tonight's topic, JR discusses why many guys dislike wearing condoms. Also, tonight's question of the night, "Why Flirt with Others if You're in a Relationship?" #anchor #spotify #Applepodcasts #menhatecondoms #whenhespeakserotica

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Oct 02, 202236:29
Your Partner is The Blueprint to Your Growth and Potential

Your Partner is The Blueprint to Your Growth and Potential

Tonight's topic, JR discusses how important it is to have a partner help you reach your full potential. Also, tonight's question, Is sex addiction a mental illness?  

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Sep 29, 202225:26
 Romance In The Workplace

Romance In The Workplace

Tonight's topic, JR discusses inappropriate relationships at work. Also, tonight's question, "Are Neurotic People Good Lovers?" #anchor #spotify #Applepodcasts #inappropriateworkrelationships #whenhespeakserotica

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Sep 24, 202235:08
 The 5 Pillars of Trust in a Relationship

The 5 Pillars of Trust in a Relationship

In tonight's topic, JR discusses how trust is essential in a romantic relationship. Also, tonight's question, "What Does My Favorite Sex Position Say About My Personality?" #anchor #spotify #Applepodcasts #pillarsoftrust #whenhespeakserotica

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Sep 22, 202237:22
Pillow Talk: The Power of Talking Before Bed

Pillow Talk: The Power of Talking Before Bed

In tonight's topic, JR discusses the power of pillow talking before bed. Also, tonight's question, "What if We Remove Sex From the Dating Equation?" #anchor #spotify #Applepodcasts #pillowtalk #whenhespeakserotica

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Sep 15, 202236:30
Conscious Beauty

Conscious Beauty

Tonight's topic, JR shares his thoughts and story about the love of a conscious woman. Also, tonight's question, "Could you Time Travel for Love or a Missed Opportunity?" #anchor #spotify #Applepodcasts #loveofaconsciouswoman #whenhespeakserotica

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Sep 10, 202242:39
Makeup Sex is So Good, She Will Argue to Get Some

Makeup Sex is So Good, She Will Argue to Get Some

Tonight's topic, JR discusses how some use makeup sex as a reason to fight in order to be intimate. Also, tonight's question, "Could you Marry the Same Person Twice?" #anchor #spotify #Applepodcasts #makeupsex #whenhespeakserotica

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Sep 07, 202240:04
You Can’t Have Side Chick Energy if You Want to Be a Wife

You Can’t Have Side Chick Energy if You Want to Be a Wife

Tonight's topic, JR discusses why you can't have side chick energy if you want to be a wife. Also, tonight's question, "Can Your Partner Have Access to Your Phone?" #anchor #spotify #sidechickenergy #googlepodcasts #whenhespeakserotica

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Aug 28, 202241:04
Should I Ask, “Are We Exclusive” Or Just Let It Happen?

Should I Ask, “Are We Exclusive” Or Just Let It Happen?

Tonight's topic, JR asks if you should clarify the status of your new relationship, or just let it happen. Also, tonight's question, "Is the forehead kiss the most intimate gesture of love?" #anchor #spotify #Applepodcasts #exclusive #whenhespeakserotica

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Aug 25, 202232:02
The Secrets Men Keep

The Secrets Men Keep

Tonight's topic, JR discusses 30 Secrets men have while in relationships. Also, tonight's question, "Why do you keep ignoring the Red Flags of your sexy lover?" #anchor #spotify #30secretsmenkeepfromtheirlovers #googlepodcasts #whenhespeakserotica

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Aug 20, 202244:37
How Much Sex is Required to Get Over a Breakup?

How Much Sex is Required to Get Over a Breakup?

*In tonight's topic, JR asked how much booty one needs to get over someone after a breakup. Also, tonight's question, "Is Courtship Dating Juvenile?" *#anchor #spotify #Applepodcasts #sextogetoverabreakup #whenhespeakserotica

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Aug 18, 202240:08
The Death of Relationship Courtesy and What has Replaced It

The Death of Relationship Courtesy and What has Replaced It

Tonight's topic, JR discusses the Death of Relationship Courtesy. Also, tonight's question, "Should Your Marriages Be A Lease: Because Forever May Be Impossible?" #anchor #spotify #Applepodcasts #relationshipcourtsey #whenhespeakserotica

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Aug 14, 202243:26
Why Are You Waiting For God To Send The Perfect Partner?

Why Are You Waiting For God To Send The Perfect Partner?

Tonight's topic, JR discusses why you shouldn't wait on the Almighty to deliver your soulmate. Also, tonight's question, "Hall Pass: Why do you need permission to screw other people?" #anchor #spotify #Applepodcasts #prayingforgodtosendpartner #whenhespeakserotica

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Aug 11, 202233:36
3 Qualities of The Perfect Va Jay-Jay

3 Qualities of The Perfect Va Jay-Jay

Tonight's topic, JR discusses 3 Qualities of The Perfect Vagina. Also, in the question of the night segment, What Do Men Find Better than Sex "?" #anchor #spotify #perfectvagina #googlepodcasts #whenhespeakserotica

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Aug 07, 202243:49
Money on The Nightstand

Money on The Nightstand

JR discusses tonight's topic: Should you Leave Money on the Nightstand After Sex? Also, tonight's the question, "Is Masturbation The Ultimate Escapism?" #anchor #spotify #Applepodcasts #moneyonthenightstand #whenhespeakserotica

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Aug 04, 202241:57
Black Panther 2 isn’t About the Absence of Black Masculinity

Black Panther 2 isn’t About the Absence of Black Masculinity

Tonight's topic, JR discusses how Black Panther 2 isn’t About the Absence of Black Masculinity. Also, tonight's question, "Dating After a Breakup: How to Overcome Your Doubts??" #anchor #spotify #blackpanther #googlepodcasts #whenhespeakserotica

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Jul 30, 202235:58
Faces of Pleasure

Faces of Pleasure

Tonight's topic, JR discusses What Your Orgasm Face Reveals About You. Also, tonight's question, "Who Pays for What When You're Dating?" #anchor #spotify #Applepodcasts #orgasmface #whenhespeakserotica

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Jul 28, 202237:42
The Reasons Spanking Feels So Damn Good

The Reasons Spanking Feels So Damn Good

*Tonight's topic, JR discusses why spanking feels so damn good. Also, tonight's question, "In a Relationship, Do We Have an Obligation to Take Care of Each Other?" 

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Jul 21, 202236:46
Do Unto Others: The Science of Relationship Karma

Do Unto Others: The Science of Relationship Karma

Tonight's topic, JR discusses the good and bad of Karmic relationships. Also, tonight's question, "Why Do Women Love Emotionally Unavailable Men?" #anchor #spotify #thescienceofrelationshipkarma #googlepodcasts #whenhespeakserotica

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Jul 17, 202234:31
Suicide: An Ultimate Betrayal in a Relationship

Suicide: An Ultimate Betrayal in a Relationship

Tonight's, JR discusses how the impact of committing suicide while in a relationship. Also, tonight's question, "Is It Strange to Keep Memories of an Ex?" #anchor #spotify #Applepodcasts #committingsuicideinarelationship #whenhespeakserotica

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Jul 14, 202242:44
Men Crave Women Who Initiate Sex - 5 Hot Ways to Do It

Men Crave Women Who Initiate Sex - 5 Hot Ways to Do It

In tonight's topic, JR discusses how men love women initiating sex and provide 5 tips for ladies to use. Also, tonight's question, "Do you take more of a financial responsibility in a relationship if you receive a pay increase?" #anchor #spotify #Applepodcasts #mencravewomenwhoinitatesex #whenhespeakserotica

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Jul 09, 202228:56
Compromises In a Relationship

Compromises In a Relationship

Tonight, JR discusses how to communicate" with your partner by compromising. Also, tonight's question, "Why Would Anyone Marry Someone They Don't Love?" #anchor #spotify #Applepodcasts #compromiseinarelationship #whenhespeakserotica

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Jul 07, 202234:00
The First Date Killers

The First Date Killers

*Tonight, JR discusses what not to do on a first date. Also, tonight's question, "Am I obligated to do for your kids that are not mind?" 

*#anchor #spotify #Applepodcasts #firstdatekillers #whenhespeakserotica

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Jun 30, 202237:01
Getting Down and Dirty Outside

Getting Down and Dirty Outside

*Tonight, JR discusses the excitement of having sex outdoors in the woods. Also, tonight's question, "Why is Crushing on Friends Complicated?"

* #anchor #spotify #Applepodcasts #sexoutdoors #whenhespeakserotica

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Jun 26, 202226:15
The Non-Negotiable Boundaries Set in Relationships

The Non-Negotiable Boundaries Set in Relationships

Tonight, JR discusses how talking about and setting specific boundaries is essential for maintaining a healthy relationship. Also, tonight's question, "During Sex Do You Like Being in Charge or Taking a Back Seat to Your Partner?" #anchor #spotify #Nonnegotiableboundariessetin relationships #googlepodcasts #whenhespeakserotica

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Jun 22, 202240:36
Have You Ever Felt You Were Only Good Enough to Fuck, But Not Date?

Have You Ever Felt You Were Only Good Enough to Fuck, But Not Date?

Tonight, JR discusses when someone only sees you as sex object. Also, tonight's question, What Effects Do Child Support Have on Men? #anchor #spotify #Applepodcasts #googlepodcasts #whenhespeakserotica
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Jun 19, 202235:56
When a Man Moves in With a Woman, Does He Lose His Status as King of the Castle?

When a Man Moves in With a Woman, Does He Lose His Status as King of the Castle?

*When a Man Moves in With a Woman, Does He Lose His Status as King of the Castle? Tonight, JR discusses the changes a man experiences when moving to an established woman's home. Also, tonight's question, "Are You Feeling Frisky? These Herbs Can Help!"

* #anchor #spotify #Applepodcasts #kingofhiscastle #whenhespeakserotica

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Jun 12, 202243:04
When Comfort Replace Passion, Our Relationship Improve

When Comfort Replace Passion, Our Relationship Improve

* "When Comfort Replace Passion, Our Relationship Improved." On tonight's show, JR discusses the importance of understanding, sometimes Comfort, maybe a better choice than Passion in a relationship. Also, tonight's question, Have you ever Craved Someone ?" 

*#anchor #spotify #Applepodcasts #Comfortoverpassion #whenhespeakserotica

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Jun 09, 202242:46
Identifying and Removing Yourself From Toxic Relationships

Identifying and Removing Yourself From Toxic Relationships

*"Identifying and Removing Yourself From Toxic Relationships." Tonight, JR discusses how to Identify and Remove Yourself From Toxic Relationships. Also, tonight's question, "Is It Really an Emotional Affair If We're Just Friends?" 

*#anchor #spotify #Toxicrelationships #googlepodcasts #whenhespeakserotica

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Jun 05, 202234:38
7 Weird Fetishes Men Have

7 Weird Fetishes Men Have

* 7 Weird Fetishes Men Have Tonight, JR discusses how achieving a balance of opposing forces as a couple is important for maintaining a peaceful and loving relationship. Also, tonight's question, "Do Threesomes Enhance or Hurt Relationships?" 

*#anchor #spotify #Applepodcasts #fetishes #whenhespeakserotica

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Jun 02, 202243:54
Story Time (Caught Slippin)

Story Time (Caught Slippin)

* Story Time (Caught Slippin). Tonight, JR shares a story from his past. #anchor #spotify #Applepodcasts #googlepodcasts #whenhespeakserotica

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May 28, 202203:55:35
Dating Introverts

Dating Introverts

*"Dating Introverts !" On tonight's topic, JR discusses Can shy people find love? Also, tonight's question, "Kissing Your Women's Feet, Yay or Nay?" #anchor #spotify #Applepodcasts #googlepodcasts #whenhespeakserotica

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May 25, 202237:04
Watchful Eyes of Voyeurism

Watchful Eyes of Voyeurism

*"Watchful Eyes of Voyeurism." On tonight's topic, JR discusses voyeurism types effects. Also, tonight's question, "How Can Anyone Justify Cheating?" #anchor #spotify #Applepodcasts #googlepodcasts #whenhespeakserotica

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May 22, 202239:29
5 Relationship Goals That Has Nothing to do with Sex

5 Relationship Goals That Has Nothing to do with Sex

* "5 Relationship Goals That Has Nothing to do with Sex." On tonight's topic, JR discusses how "To succeed at having a long-term relationship, make sure you both have realistic goals". Also, tonight's question, "How to Protect Your Relationship from Social Media ?" #anchor #spotify #Applepodcasts #googlepodcasts #whenhespeakserotica

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May 19, 202234:47
Why Do I Keep Attracting a Certain Type?

Why Do I Keep Attracting a Certain Type?

*Why Do I Keep Attracting a Certain Type? On tonight's topic, JR discusses the biggest mistake someone can make while dating. Also, tonight's question, "Can Erotica and Porn Killed My Sex Drive?" #anchor #spotify #Applepodcasts #googlepodcasts #whenhespeakserotica

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May 12, 202232:07
Sex Robots: What to Expect (and How They Will Affect Relationships

Sex Robots: What to Expect (and How They Will Affect Relationships

Sex Robots: What to Expect (and How They Will Affect Relationships. !" On tonight's topic, JR discusses, what happens when you mix sex with technology. Also, tonight's question, "What do you prefer: A modern or traditional relationship?" #anchor #spotify #Applepodcasts #googlepodcasts #whenhespeakserotica

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May 07, 202238:50
The Supreme Court Vote to Overturn Abortion Rights Roe v. Wade

The Supreme Court Vote to Overturn Abortion Rights Roe v. Wade

On tonight's topic, JR discusses how the Supreme Court has voted to overturn Roe v. Wade abortion rights. Also, tonight's question, "Why the Hell You're Having a Baby at Fifty?" #anchor #spotify #Applepodcasts #googlepodcasts #whenhespeakserotica

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May 04, 202245:27
What's More Important. Love or Loyalty? They Often Don't Come Together

What's More Important. Love or Loyalty? They Often Don't Come Together

*What's More Important. Love or Loyalty? They Often Don't Come Together. On tonight's topic, JR discusses which is important Love or Loyalty. Also, tonight's question, Clitoris Stimulation. Does He Turn You On? 

*#anchor #spotify #Applepodcasts #googlepodcasts #whenhespeakserotica

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May 01, 202235:20
THE 100TH EPISODE

THE 100TH EPISODE

*"THE 100TH EPISODE!!!" Almost two years ago JR started "When He Speaks Erotica." Tonight he shares his journey as a relationship podcaster.

* #anchor #spotify #Applepodcasts #googlepodcasts #whenhespeakserotica

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Apr 28, 202228:09
Why He Will Come Back After You Give Him Space

Why He Will Come Back After You Give Him Space

*Why He Will Come Back After You Give Him Space, On tonight's topic, JR discusses how when men ask for a break, don't mean he wants to end the relationship. Also, tonight's question, "Should the Church be Involved with Marriages?" #anchor #spotify #Applepodcasts #googlepodcasts #whenhespeakserotica

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Question of the Night

Apr 23, 202237:53
Lover’s Peaks: Help Your Partner Reach Climax

Lover’s Peaks: Help Your Partner Reach Climax

*Lover’s Peak: Helping Your Partner Reach Climax. Tonight JR discusses how sometimes partners and are needed to aid their significant other reach their sexual peak. Also, the question of the night, "What's the Best Thing About Getting Head?" #anchor #Spotify #Applepodcasts #googlepodcasts #whenhespeakserotica *Thank you so much for listening! If you enjoy the podcast, please rate it 5 STARS on Apple Podcast! Keep listening, like, subscribe and share!
Apr 20, 202234:58
Dating Someone with Kids

Dating Someone with Kids

*Dating Someone With Kids. Tonight JR discusses the pros and cons of dating someone with kids. Also, in the Question of the Night segment, he asks, What Lingerie Color is The Sexiest? " #anchor #spotify #Applepodcasts #googlepodcasts #whenhespeakserotica

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Apr 17, 202243:25
5 Types of Men Women Can't Resist

5 Types of Men Women Can't Resist

*5 Types of Men Women Can't Resist Tonight JR discusses the certain type that can capture the hearts of women. Also, in the Question of the Night segment, "If You're Not Loyal, Then Don't Expect Loyalty From Me!"
* #anchor #spotify #Applepodcasts #googlepodcasts #whenhespeakserotica
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Apr 13, 202239:35
Loving Bipolar: An Untouched Topic of Love

Loving Bipolar: An Untouched Topic of Love

*Loving Bipolar: An Untouched Topic of Love. Tonight JR, discuss loving someone living with bipolar disorder. Also, the question of the night, "If a man pays for every date, should a woman be obligated to give up the booty?

*#anchor #spotify #Applepodcasts #gogglepodcasts #whenhespeakserotica

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Apr 06, 202237:31
The Truth About Long Distance Relationship

The Truth About Long Distance Relationship

*The Truth About Long Distance Relationship. Tonight JR, discuss being in a committed relationship with the distance between lovers. Also, in the question of the night segment, he asks, "If you could only have one type оf sex for the rest оf your lіfе, what would you сhoose: Vaginal, Oral, or Anal?

* #anchor #spotify #Applepodcasts #googlepodcasts #whenhespeakserotica #lovedistance #longdistance

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Apr 02, 202232:45
Keep My Woman Name Out of Your Damn Mouth!

Keep My Woman Name Out of Your Damn Mouth!

*Keep My Woman Name Out of Your Damn Mouth! JR discusses the situation at the Oscars! Award-winning actor slaps Oscar presenter. Was it a slap or cap? Who knows? #anchor #spotify # Applepodcasts #googlepodcasts #whenhespeakserotica

Mar 30, 202227:24
The Five Reasons People Have Random Sex After a Break-Up

The Five Reasons People Have Random Sex After a Break-Up

*The Five Reasons People Have Random Sex After a Break-Up. Tonight JR discusses why people get with others for causal humping in five random ways. Also, he asks his question of the night, "Will You Make Sacrifices for Your Relationship?" 

*#anchor #spotify #Applepodcasts #googlepodcasts #whenhespeakserotica

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Mar 26, 202244:22
Just My Thoughts

Just My Thoughts

*Just My Thoughts, Tonight, J.R. Speaks his thoughts. #anchor #spotify #Applepodcasts #googlepodcasts #whenhespeakserotica

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Mar 24, 202227:39
Connecting With Your Sexual Dark Side

Connecting With Your Sexual Dark Side

* "Connecting With Your Sexual Dark Side." In tonight's episode, J.R., discusses, Connecting With Your Sexual Dark Side, as We all Have a Dark Side to Our Sexuality. In the Question of Night Segment, J.R., ask the question, "Should You Introduce Your Partner to Your Friend?"  #anchor #spotify #Applepodcasts #googlepodcasts #whenhespeakserotica

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Mar 20, 202232:60
A Wig Times Three Women

A Wig Times Three Women

*"A Wig Times Three Women!" In tonight's episode, J.R. tells a story from his past. It involves three women and a wig, kind of, in a way. In the question of the night segment, J.R. poses the question,  "Do People Love to Lust, or Lust for Love?"

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* #anchor #spotify #Applepodcasts #googlepodcasts #whenhespeakserotica

Mar 16, 202201:05:24
The Extravagant Life of a Fuckboi

The Extravagant Life of a Fuckboi

*"The Extravagant Life of a Fuckboi." In tonight's episode, J.R. discusses what a Fuckboy. Also where the word originated from, along with why men choose to act like Fuckboys. 

*Plus he explains, Why Dating Apps Make Relationships Seem Like a Full-Time Gig? in the Question of the Night Segment.

* Thank you so much for listening! If you enjoy the podcast, please RATE 5 STARS on the Apple podcast! Like, subscribe, and share!  #anchor #spotify #Applepodcasts #googlepodcasts #whenhespeakserotica

Mar 12, 202245:37
Dating, Sex, and Love

Dating, Sex, and Love

*"Dating, Sex, and Love." Tonight, JR discusses how a healthy relationship is based on dating, sex, and love, along with mutual respect. Plus the question of the night, "Porn and Your Relationship: Can a Healthy Union Exist Between the Two?" #anchor #spotify #Applepodcasts #googlepodcasts #whenhespeakserotica

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Mar 06, 202241:04
What's Your Number?

What's Your Number?

*"What's Your Number? JR discusses the number of sexual partners a person has had is a personal detail, and it is up to each person to decide whether or not to share that information. Also, tonight question of the night, what to do, "When I'm single because I'm interested in someone who don't want me?" #anchor #spotify #Applepodcasts #googlepodcasts# #whenhespeakserotica

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Feb 27, 202242:40
The Concept of Yin and Yang in the Bedroom

The Concept of Yin and Yang in the Bedroom

*"The Concept of Yin and Yang in the Bedroom!"  On tonight's topic, JR discusses how achieving a balance of opposing forces as a couple is important for maintaining a peaceful and loving relationship. Also, tonight's question, "Is Kissing Someone Other Than Your Partner Cheating?" #anchor #spotify #Applepodcasts #googlepodcasts #whenhespeakserotica

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Feb 24, 202241:03
Reboot your Marriage, Forget About Divorcing

Reboot your Marriage, Forget About Divorcing

*"Reboot your Marriage, Forget About Divorcing." In tonight's topic, JR discusses how to "Hitting the "Refresh" Button on your marriage." Also, check out the question of the night, "How Would you React if your Best Friend Dated your Ex?" #anchor #spotify #Applepodcasts #googlepodcasts #whenhespeakserotica. 

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Feb 20, 202250:08
Sexting. How to turn your lover on through texting

Sexting. How to turn your lover on through texting

*Sexting. How to turn your lover on through texting. In tonight's topic, JR discusses sexting. Intimate conversations through texting are the perfect way to connect with your partner! Check out the question of the night, Why Do People Believe in Marriage at First Sight? #anchor #spotify #applepodcasts #gogglepodcasts #whenhespeakserotica

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Feb 17, 202238:52
Ten Unforgettable Valentine Day Ideas

Ten Unforgettable Valentine Day Ideas

Ten Unforgettable Valentine Day Ideas. Tonight JR gives ten memorable suggestions to couples that should try on the most romantic day of the year, Valentine's Day. #whenhespeakserotica #anchor #spotify #applepodcasts #googlepodcasts


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Feb 13, 202235:03
Is it My Fault You Didn't Have an Orgasm?

Is it My Fault You Didn't Have an Orgasm?

Is it My Fault You Didn't Have an Orgasm? Tonight, J.R. discusses the importance of helping your woman if she's unable to have an orgasm. Also, tonight's question, Should my partner post our relationship on social media?


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Feb 10, 202226:20
Pimping: The God Hypnosis

Pimping: The God Hypnosis

Pimping: The God Hypnosis. Tonight J.R. discussed the relationship of a pimp and his woman. He shares his experiences with pimping as a young kid and as a Navy seaman. So check him out! #whenhespeakserotica #Anchor #Applepodcast #Spotify #gogglepodcast

Feb 06, 202237:03
The Date from Hell with a Twist

The Date from Hell with a Twist

The Date from Hell with a Twist! Tonight J.R. shares his first-date experience when moving to Atlanta Georgia over twenty years ago. Plus the question of the night, should you have sex with an ex. So sit back and relax as you listen to When He Speaks Erotica, from a Man's Perspective. #When He Speaks Erotica #Anchor #Spotify #applepodcast #googlepodcast 

Feb 03, 202240:04
Are Men Sex Addicts?

Are Men Sex Addicts?

Are Men Sex Addicts? Because I enjoy sex, doesn't make me a womanizer. Tonight, J.R. discusses how men are looked at as sex addicts.

Jan 30, 202238:54
The Psychology of Gold Diggers

The Psychology of Gold Diggers

Tonight, J.R. talks about, The Psychology of Gold Diggers: Would a Woman Leave her Partner for Someone with More Money? Question of the Night: Why Some Women Don’t Care if Their So-Called Man Entertains the Attention of Other Women?

Jan 27, 202234:41
The Reality of Missionary

The Reality of Missionary

The Reality of Missionary. Tonight J.R. discussed "The Reality of the Missionary Position", an underrated position that’s not boring, contrary to popular belief.

Jan 23, 202230:12
Battle of The Sexes

Battle of The Sexes

Battle of the Sexes. Tonight J.R. discusses the problem with men and women clashing in today's society.

Jan 20, 202229:04
The Language of Lust

The Language of Lust

The Language of Lust. Tonight J.R discuss talking dirty and communicating needs and desires.

Jan 13, 202228:37
Intimacy Anxiety: Breaking the Cycle of Anxiety

Intimacy Anxiety: Breaking the Cycle of Anxiety

Tonight J.R. discuss intimacy anxiety, and how to break the cycle of anxiety.

Jan 09, 202228:57
Shared Husband: Caught Between Two Women

Shared Husband: Caught Between Two Women

Shared Husband: Caught Between Two Women. A Story of Love, Lust, and Betrayal.

Jan 05, 202255:08
Why We Don't Talk About Sex?

Why We Don't Talk About Sex?

Why We Don't Talk About Sex?

Jan 02, 202228:03
Why an Open Marriage?

Why an Open Marriage?

Why an Open Marriage?

Dec 30, 202125:52
Holiday Romance, Can They Last?

Holiday Romance, Can They Last?

Holiday Romance, Can They Last?

Dec 26, 202124:12
 The Dynamics of Interracial Relationships

The Dynamics of Interracial Relationships

The Dynamics of Interracial Relationships

Dec 23, 202129:32
Let's Just be Friends

Let's Just be Friends

Let's Just be Friends

Dec 19, 202129:41
The Advantages of Great Sex

The Advantages of Great Sex

The Advantages of Great Sex
Dec 16, 202128:53
It Wasn't a Mistake, We Slept Together

It Wasn't a Mistake, We Slept Together

It Wasn't a Mistake, We Slept Together

Dec 12, 202125:24
Is Ghosting the New Rejection?

Is Ghosting the New Rejection?

Speaking on the the term "Ghosting!"
Dec 09, 202123:56
Do You Have Another Heart Break Left?

Do You Have Another Heart Break Left?

Do You Have Another Heart Break Left?

Dec 05, 202125:55
Ladies, Stop Letting Men Define You

Ladies, Stop Letting Men Define You

Ladies, Stop Letting Men Define You

Dec 02, 202128:06
Story Time! Hiding in Her Closet!

Story Time! Hiding in Her Closet!

Story Time! Hiding in Her Closet!

Nov 28, 202128:42
The Power of Male Intuition

The Power of Male Intuition

The Power of Male Intuition: Relationship advice for women, understanding men.

Nov 25, 202126:34
Signs That Say She Interested

Signs That Say She Interested

Signs That Say She Interested
Nov 21, 202128:16
Naked in Socks

Naked in Socks

Naked in Socks
Nov 18, 202127:21
The Four Horsemen of a Relationship

The Four Horsemen of a Relationship

The Four Horsemen of a Relationship

Nov 13, 202127:18
Lust in a Raincoat

Lust in a Raincoat

Lust in a Raincoat

Nov 10, 202129:03
10 Signs Your Relationship is Suffocating!

10 Signs Your Relationship is Suffocating!

10 Signs Your Relationship is Suffocating!

Nov 07, 202124:04
The Definition of a Man (According to Women)

The Definition of a Man (According to Women)

The Definition of a Man (According to Women)

Nov 04, 202126:44
The Ideal Sex Duration: How long should Intimacy last?

The Ideal Sex Duration: How long should Intimacy last?

The Ideal Sex Duration: How long should Intimacy last?

Oct 30, 202126:46
The Laws of Attraction. Getting Continuous Attention From a Person of Interest

The Laws of Attraction. Getting Continuous Attention From a Person of Interest

The Laws of Attraction. Getting Continuous Attention From a Person of Interest

Oct 28, 202126:20
Understanding the Truth about Anal Sex

Understanding the Truth about Anal Sex

Understanding the Truth about Anal Sex

Oct 23, 202125:37
Ten Things to do Before Sex, That’ll Guarantee Mind-blowing Orgasms

Ten Things to do Before Sex, That’ll Guarantee Mind-blowing Orgasms

Ten Things to Do Before Sex, That’ll Guarantee Mind-blowing Orgasms

Oct 21, 202127:33
Should you Hook Up with Your Ex on the Rebound

Should you Hook Up with Your Ex on the Rebound

Should you Hook Up with Your Ex on the Rebound

Oct 14, 202124:41
Bruised Ego, sorry, but I've had better

Bruised Ego, sorry, but I've had better

Bruised Ego, sorry, but I've had better

Oct 09, 202128:02
The Secluded Location

The Secluded Location

The Secluded Location
Oct 07, 202124:44
Date Me, is to Know Me (The Lost Art of Courtship)

Date Me, is to Know Me (The Lost Art of Courtship)

Date Me, is to Know Me (The Lost Art of Courtship)

Oct 03, 202119:03
When a Cheater Becomes a Home-Wrecker

When a Cheater Becomes a Home-Wrecker

When a Cheater Becomes a Home-Wrecker

Sep 30, 202130:01
Marriage, is it Love, or Convenience?

Marriage, is it Love, or Convenience?

Marriage, is it Love, or Convenience?

Sep 26, 202128:42
7 Items to Spice Up Your Sex Life

7 Items to Spice Up Your Sex Life

7 Items to Spice Up Your Sex Life

Sep 19, 202125:39
Should You Pay for Sex?

Should You Pay for Sex?

Paying for Sex in 2021
Sep 12, 202129:12
Should You Pay for Sex?

Should You Pay for Sex?

Paying for Sex in 2021
Sep 12, 202100:05
6 Ways to Not Become a Friend Zone Person

6 Ways to Not Become a Friend Zone Person

6 Ways to Not Become a Friend Zone Person

Sep 05, 202129:03
Six Ways to Protect your Hear in a Relationship

Six Ways to Protect your Hear in a Relationship

Six Ways to Protect your Hear in a Relationship

Aug 29, 202128:25
Horrible Hook-ups : Everything That Look Good, Ain't Good

Horrible Hook-ups : Everything That Look Good, Ain't Good

A bad hook-ups from my past.

Aug 22, 202128:28
Tonight's topic: You told me to sleep with them. Why are you mad?

Tonight's topic: You told me to sleep with them. Why are you mad?

You told me to sleep with them. Why are you mad?

Aug 15, 202129:05
 Strawberry Motion Lotion Love

Strawberry Motion Lotion Love

Tonight's podcast episode entails a story of love at first sight and a bottle of Strawberry motion lotion.
Aug 07, 202129:42
 How to Know You're Living in a Situationship!

How to Know You're Living in a Situationship!

Tonite topic How to Know You're Living in a Situationship!


Aug 01, 202129:39
5 Questions To Ask Yourself Before Admitting To Cheating

5 Questions To Ask Yourself Before Admitting To Cheating

Tonight on the When He Speaks Erotica podcast, the title is, 5 Questions To Ask Yourself Before Admitting To Cheating.
Jul 24, 202129:47
Psychological Facts about Attraction

Psychological Facts about Attraction

Tonight's topic: Psychological Facts about Attraction
Jul 18, 202129:59
Men Need to be Loved, Women Need to be Wanted

Men Need to be Loved, Women Need to be Wanted

Tonight's  topic, Men need to be loved, Women need to be wanted

Jul 11, 202129:36
Safe Sex. Protection or Not

Safe Sex. Protection or Not

In tonight's topic, I talk about what safe sex is, wearing protection, couple's pre-sex conversation, and more.

Jul 04, 202128:29
G-Spot, Hitting it Every Time

G-Spot, Hitting it Every Time

G-Spot, Hitting it Every Time. Check out the blog, www.sexually-speaking.digital

Jun 27, 202129:45
Do you Remember your First Love?

Do you Remember your First Love?

Do you Remember your First Love?

Jun 20, 202128:52
The Best Sex Positions Matching your Zodiac Sign

The Best Sex Positions Matching your Zodiac Sign

The Best Sex Positions Matching your Zodiac Sign. “Pisces, Leos, Virgos, and those Goddamn Libras!”
Jun 13, 202129:58
Why is Sex Still Taboo in 2021

Why is Sex Still Taboo in 2021

10 Taboo Sex Subjects, People Enjoy but Refuse to Talk About

Jun 06, 202130:09
One-Night Strangers

One-Night Strangers

 One-Night Strangers, The Joys, Regrets, and Lust of a One-Night Stand. 

May 30, 202129:31
F ME PUMPS

F ME PUMPS

In tonight's episode, I discuss the allure of women in high heels. Fashionable footwear has enticed men for centuries.

May 23, 202129:26
Narcissist Lover

Narcissist Lover

Being a relationship with a narcissist partner

May 16, 202128:23
A Swinger's Lifestyle: Kinks, Exhibitionists, and Swapping Couples

A Swinger's Lifestyle: Kinks, Exhibitionists, and Swapping Couples

Tonight topic, I discussed the alternative lifestyle, where people participate as swingers

May 09, 202129:39
Can You Be Happy Without Romance?

Can You Be Happy Without Romance?

This week I am asking the question. Can you be happy without Romance?

Apr 25, 202129:42
Curvy Love: The Love and Desires of a Thick Woman

Curvy Love: The Love and Desires of a Thick Woman

Love and Desires of a Thick Woman

Apr 18, 202128:30
BDSM. Are willing to explore or not?

BDSM. Are willing to explore or not?

The Lifestyle of BDSM

Apr 11, 202129:18
Why Love the Same Person Every Day

Why Love the Same Person Every Day

Tonight I address how people love someone every day.

Apr 04, 202126:04
How to Date in a Pandemic, but avoid contact with others?

How to Date in a Pandemic, but avoid contact with others?

Tonight podcast is about dating during this Pandemic

Mar 28, 202127:44
The Night I Fell In Love With A Stripper

The Night I Fell In Love With A Stripper

Falling In Love With A Stripper

Mar 21, 202127:24
Music that puts you in the Mood

Music that puts you in the Mood

Tonight topic, music that adds to the mood for spending time together.

Mar 14, 202128:28
Are you a Jealous Lover?

Are you a Jealous Lover?

Jealousy in relationships.

Feb 28, 202129:07
Story Time (The Black Bag of Surprises)

Story Time (The Black Bag of Surprises)

This is a story told to me by a Navy pal, twenty-plus years ago. In his words. I hope that you enjoy.

Feb 21, 202129:43
Valentine's Day. A Day of Love or Hype?

Valentine's Day. A Day of Love or Hype?

Tonight topic, is Valentine's Day considered as a day of love or hype?

Feb 14, 202129:09
Intimacy, 50 and Beyond

Intimacy, 50 and Beyond

Intimacy at 50 and beyond.

Feb 07, 202129:52
I Never Should Have Told You That Your My Only One

I Never Should Have Told You That Your My Only One

S2/E4 Dissect the lyrics of Georgie Porgie by Toto (1979), Eric Benet Featuring Faith Evans, 1999). Signs you are in a one-sided relationship.

Jan 31, 202128:29
The O Word

The O Word

The O Word Episode (Fellatio, Cunnilingus, and Oral Sex, O My!) Enough said!

Jan 24, 202129:36
Dreams and Fantasies (Season # 2/ Episode # 3)

Dreams and Fantasies (Season # 2/ Episode # 3)

Tonight topic. Dreams and Fantasies.

Jan 17, 202128:27
Handcuffs and Heels

Handcuffs and Heels

Episode 8

Tonight's topic is the story of a loyal listener that emailed me and asked if I would share.

Jan 10, 202125:00
Pajamas, Panties, or Nudie Bootie? Night Wear or Not?

Pajamas, Panties, or Nudie Bootie? Night Wear or Not?

Season 2 / Episode 1:  Topic of the different types of underwear and my fetish for matching colorful bra and panties sets.

Jan 03, 202127:58
The Five Love Languages

The Five Love Languages

In episode # 6, I am talking about each of the five love languages how they can benefit a relationship.

Dec 27, 202027:08
Work Spouses

Work Spouses

Work spouses, is it a good thing or a bad situation?

Dec 20, 202029:56
The Art of Seduction

The Art of Seduction

This is the fourth episode of the When He Speaks Erotica platform

Dec 13, 202029:01
Why Do We Cry During and After Sex?

Why Do We Cry During and After Sex?

Tonight's topic, Why do we cry during and after sex?

Dec 06, 202028:38
The Quickie and Foreplay Comparison

The Quickie and Foreplay Comparison

In episode # 2, I talk about which is more desired, A quickie of foreplay.

Nov 29, 202020:16
What is Romance?

What is Romance?

My thoughts on what create a relationship filled with romance.

Nov 22, 202029:59