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Centered Living Podcast

By Kalin Hardecopf, LMFT + Attachment Coach

Kalin is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist + Attachment Coach. This podcast will provide you with the tools, tactics and support to navigate relationships and life. https://linktr.ee/centeredliving
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Understanding the Scapegoat: From Childhood Blame to Adult Impact

Centered Living PodcastNov 17, 2023

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Understanding the Scapegoat: From Childhood Blame to Adult Impact

Understanding the Scapegoat: From Childhood Blame to Adult Impact

Join host Kalin Hardecopf in a compelling exploration of the scapegoat role in families and its lasting impact into adulthood. This episode of the Centered Living Podcast examines how children unfairly blamed for family problems often grow up feeling inadequate, impacting their self-esteem and relationships.


Kalin discusses the various origins of scapegoating, highlighting that it's not exclusive to families with narcissistic parents. The conversation includes insights into 'black and white thinking,' a cognitive distortion linked to relational trauma, and its role in family dynamics.


Through a narrative of the Johnson family, Kalin illustrates the harmful effects of being labeled as the scapegoat or the 'golden child' in a family with a narcissistic parent. The episode also delves into the reasons behind parents' use of scapegoating and offers guidance on healing and self-compassion.


Tune into this insightful episode for a deeper understanding of family dynamics and self-healing. Subscribe to the Centered Living Podcast for more discussions on enriching relationships and living meaningfully. Share and leave a review if this episode speaks to you.

Nov 17, 202317:13
Development & Impact of Fearful Avoidant Attachment

Development & Impact of Fearful Avoidant Attachment

Throughout this video, I'll be discussing the development, impact and practical tips for navigating the complexities of fearful avoidant attachment. I'm here to provide a safe space for open discussion and growth


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Nov 11, 202308:15
#24 Signs of Fearful-Avoidant Attachment as a Mom: Is Your Parenting Style Harming Your Child's Growth?

#24 Signs of Fearful-Avoidant Attachment as a Mom: Is Your Parenting Style Harming Your Child's Growth?

As a mother, your love and care are essential for your child's healthy development. However, it's crucial to recognize the impact of your parenting style on your child's emotional well-being. In this video, we delve into the signs of fearful-avoidant attachment as a mom and explore how your parenting style may inadvertently be hindering your child's growth.


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May 29, 202306:04
#23 Overcoming Resentment: The path to inner peace
May 23, 202208:47
#21 How to overcome people pleasing
Apr 04, 202207:16
#20 “The Secret"/Law of Attraction Misconceptions
Jan 31, 202207:53
#19 What Is Self-Love?

#19 What Is Self-Love?

-What is self-love
-How self-love is developed
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Oct 26, 202105:34
#18 Fear of rejection
Oct 20, 202108:51
#17 How to support your anxious partner
Aug 04, 202105:01
#16 Things To Know When Starting Your Spiritual Journey
Jul 25, 202107:45
#15 Hyper Independence Trauma Response
May 29, 202110:57
#14 Why relationships fail-5 common causes

#14 Why relationships fail-5 common causes

You can also find this Episode on my YouTube!
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+Create a healthy relationship with self and others
+Cultivate confidence to feel empowered in life/relationships
+Attract abundance in all areas of life
+Reprogram subconscious to shift patterns+behaviors
+Tap into authentic self and anchor in practices to support highest self
May 09, 202106:30
#13 How to Overcome a Dismissive Avoidant Attachment Style?

#13 How to Overcome a Dismissive Avoidant Attachment Style?

Ep: Sharing 4 Key Ways To Overcome A Dismissive Avoidant Attachment Style >>>Hi! My name is Kalin, I am a Psychotherapist, Life+ Relationship Coach Let's Connect!: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/centered.li... Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@centered.living Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/centeredlivi... YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCN_APEbpquBr6-cG95SwJ-g Work with me: 1:1 Application: www.kalinhardecopf.com +Create a healthy relationship with self and others +Cultivate confidence to feel empowered in life/relationships +Attract abundance in all areas of life +Reprogram subconscious to shift patterns+behaviors +Tap into authentic self and anchor in practices to support highest self
May 07, 202116:06
#12 Dismissive Avoidant & Dating

#12 Dismissive Avoidant & Dating

DA & Dating  Let’s Connect!  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/centered.li...  Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@centered.living  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/centeredlivi...  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCN_APEbpquBr6-cG95SwJ-g  >>>I am a Psychotherapist, Life+ Relationship Coach >>>Are you looking to be the most empowered version of yourself? You came to the right place!  Helping you:  +Create a healthy relationship with self and others  +Cultivate confidence to feel empowered in life/relationships  +Attract abundance in all areas of life  +Reprogram subconscious to shift patterns+behaviors  +Tap into authentic self and anchor in practices to support highest self
Apr 14, 202115:23
#11 Dating Red Flags

#11 Dating Red Flags

EP: Dating Red Flags >>>Hi! My name is Kalin, I am a Psychotherapist, Life+ Relationship Coach Let's Connect!: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/centered.li... Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@centered.living Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/centeredlivi... YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCN_APEbpquBr6-cG95SwJ-g Work with me: 1:1 Application: https://linktr.ee/centeredliving +Create a healthy relationship with self and others +Cultivate confidence to feel empowered in life/relationships +Attract abundance in all areas of life +Reprogram subconscious to shift patterns+behaviors +Tap into authentic self and anchor in practices to support highest self
Apr 06, 202116:44
#10 Shadow work and Law of Attraction: How to implement both to create a more empowered life

#10 Shadow work and Law of Attraction: How to implement both to create a more empowered life

In this episode I go over: +Run down on Shadow Work & Loa +How Shadow Work & Loa play a part in your life +The differences in Shadow Work & Loa +How to implement Shadow Work & Loa for a more empowered life You can follow me on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/centered.li... Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@centered.living Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/centeredlivi... YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCN_APEbpquBr6-cG95SwJ-g Work with me (1:1 Application): Linktree: https://linktr.ee/centeredliving >>>I am a Psychotherapist, Life+ Relationship Coach >>>Are you looking to be the most empowered version of yourself? You came to the right place! Helping you: +Create a healthy relationship with self and others +Cultivate confidence to feel empowered in life/relationships +Attract abundance in all areas of life +Reprogram subconscious to shift patterns+behaviors +Tap into authentic self and anchor in practices to support highest self
Apr 06, 202111:25
#9 Narcissistic Mother+Tips

#9 Narcissistic Mother+Tips

This episode covers characteristics of a narcissistic mother & tips you can utilize! You can follow Kalin at:  Linktree: https://linktr.ee/centeredliving Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/centered.li... Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@centered.living Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/centeredlivi...   Kalin is a Psychotherapist, Life+ Relationship Coach   Are you looking to be the most empowered version of yourself? You came to the right place! Helping you: +Create a healthy relationship with self and others +Cultivate confidence to feel empowered in life/relationships +Attract abundance in all areas of life +Reprogram subconscious to shift patterns+behaviors +Tap into authentic self and anchor in practices to support highest self
Mar 03, 202111:42
#8 Seeking Constant Validation?-YouTube

#8 Seeking Constant Validation?-YouTube

How to stop seeking validation from external sources
Jan 12, 202104:31
#7 Healing abandonment wounds-YouTube

#7 Healing abandonment wounds-YouTube

How abandonment issues show up, how it’s developed and how to HEAL
Nov 28, 202006:22
#6 Feeling stuck? How to get unstuck by shifting your state of being

#6 Feeling stuck? How to get unstuck by shifting your state of being

How to get unstuck & line up with your desire!
Nov 19, 202003:18
#5 Self acceptance Guide-YouTube

#5 Self acceptance Guide-YouTube

Self-acceptance: a guide on how to start loving yourself fully
Nov 06, 202007:10
#4 The end to procrastination

#4 The end to procrastination

What do you keep putting off?? A lot of people think that procrastination has to do with time management and I'm here to bust that myth!
Oct 16, 202006:37
#3 Law of Attraction Misconceptions

#3 Law of Attraction Misconceptions

The two parts of LOA
Aug 09, 202005:07
#2 Masculine & Feminine Energy

#2 Masculine & Feminine Energy

Learn what's keeping you stuck from attracting your ideal partner!
Aug 03, 202011:20
#1 Receiving Love

#1 Receiving Love

Recognize what's blocking you from receiving love and how to start accepting love into your life
Jul 31, 202011:03