
Centered Living Podcast
By Kalin Hardecopf, LMFT + Attachment Coach

Centered Living PodcastNov 17, 2023

Understanding the Scapegoat: From Childhood Blame to Adult Impact
Join host Kalin Hardecopf in a compelling exploration of the scapegoat role in families and its lasting impact into adulthood. This episode of the Centered Living Podcast examines how children unfairly blamed for family problems often grow up feeling inadequate, impacting their self-esteem and relationships.
Kalin discusses the various origins of scapegoating, highlighting that it's not exclusive to families with narcissistic parents. The conversation includes insights into 'black and white thinking,' a cognitive distortion linked to relational trauma, and its role in family dynamics.
Through a narrative of the Johnson family, Kalin illustrates the harmful effects of being labeled as the scapegoat or the 'golden child' in a family with a narcissistic parent. The episode also delves into the reasons behind parents' use of scapegoating and offers guidance on healing and self-compassion.
Tune into this insightful episode for a deeper understanding of family dynamics and self-healing. Subscribe to the Centered Living Podcast for more discussions on enriching relationships and living meaningfully. Share and leave a review if this episode speaks to you.

Development & Impact of Fearful Avoidant Attachment
Throughout this video, I'll be discussing the development, impact and practical tips for navigating the complexities of fearful avoidant attachment. I'm here to provide a safe space for open discussion and growth
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#24 Signs of Fearful-Avoidant Attachment as a Mom: Is Your Parenting Style Harming Your Child's Growth?
As a mother, your love and care are essential for your child's healthy development. However, it's crucial to recognize the impact of your parenting style on your child's emotional well-being. In this video, we delve into the signs of fearful-avoidant attachment as a mom and explore how your parenting style may inadvertently be hindering your child's growth.
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#23 Overcoming Resentment: The path to inner peace
*What Resentment is
*How to overcome Resentment
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#21 How to overcome people pleasing
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#20 “The Secret"/Law of Attraction Misconceptions
-Learn how to attract the life you want from your most authentic state!
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#19 What Is Self-Love?
-How self-love is developed
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#18 Fear of rejection
-How is it developed
-How to start healing
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#17 How to support your anxious partner
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#16 Things To Know When Starting Your Spiritual Journey
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#15 Hyper Independence Trauma Response
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#14 Why relationships fail-5 common causes
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#13 How to Overcome a Dismissive Avoidant Attachment Style?

#12 Dismissive Avoidant & Dating

#11 Dating Red Flags

#10 Shadow work and Law of Attraction: How to implement both to create a more empowered life

#9 Narcissistic Mother+Tips

#8 Seeking Constant Validation?-YouTube

#7 Healing abandonment wounds-YouTube

#6 Feeling stuck? How to get unstuck by shifting your state of being

#5 Self acceptance Guide-YouTube

#4 The end to procrastination

#3 Law of Attraction Misconceptions

#2 Masculine & Feminine Energy
