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Lawyers & Mediators International Podcast

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Welcome to the Lawyers & Mediators International Show & Podcast by InstantMediations, where we discuss law and conflict resolution topics to educate both professionals and every day people. Top experts join co-hosts Mac Pierre-Louis & Natalia Olowska-Czajka weekly to discuss legal and nonlegal solutions to contemporary problems.
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Benefits of An Organizational Ombuds With Neil Katz

Lawyers & Mediators International PodcastNov 04, 2022

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EP 187 Part 2 A Conversation on Postnuptuals with Cindy Hide of HoustonPrenupAttorney.com on Manousso Musing

EP 187 Part 2 A Conversation on Postnuptuals with Cindy Hide of HoustonPrenupAttorney.com on Manousso Musing

TBA
Feb 27, 202324:05
EP 185 OurFamilyWizard.com in the Mediation Process on Manousso Musing

EP 185 OurFamilyWizard.com in the Mediation Process on Manousso Musing

TBA
Feb 20, 202323:16
EP 186 A Conversation with Cindy Hide of HoustonPrenupAttorney.com on Manousso Musing

EP 186 A Conversation with Cindy Hide of HoustonPrenupAttorney.com on Manousso Musing

TBA
Feb 20, 202324:06
EP 184 Tips for Parties with Psychologist & Mediator Dr. Michael Leach on Manousso Musing

EP 184 Tips for Parties with Psychologist & Mediator Dr. Michael Leach on Manousso Musing

TBA
Feb 13, 202325:11
EP 183 Tips for Mediators with Psychologist & Mediator Dr. Michael Leach on Manousso Musing

EP 183 Tips for Mediators with Psychologist & Mediator Dr. Michael Leach on Manousso Musing

Dr Michael Leach being a guest of Dr Barbara Manousso of Manousso.us and Mac and Natalia of OlowskaPierre.com and talks how the psychological assessments can help in mediation. He discusses different approaches and different types of roles, which can be present in mediation to represent the child (amicus, evaluator) and what benefits it brings to mediation.
Feb 06, 202325:12
EP 181 Is Mediation Mandatory in Divorces

EP 181 Is Mediation Mandatory in Divorces

In this video Tye Bourdony of cfmediationcenter.com together with Mac and Natalia of OlowskaPierre.com are explaining if mediation is mandatory in divorces in different jurisdictions (including Florida, Texas and Poland). They explain what issues pertaining to divorce can be mediated (like parenting plans, property settlements) and whether it is better to do mediation before or after filing for divorce.
Jan 28, 202322:22
EP 182 Being Bullied at Mediation

EP 182 Being Bullied at Mediation

Tye Bourdony of cfmediationcenter.com and Mac and Natalia of OlowskaPierre.com present different aspects of whether bullying can take place in mediation at all and what if it does.  They go through how a mediator can stop a bully and present how you can trust a mediator will not allow that you are bullied.  This video explains how a caucus mediation work and why it can be effective in preventing or stopping attempts of bullying and what other tools a good mediator has to make parties feel safe in mediation and free from the threat of bullying.
Jan 28, 202322:11
EP 178 Choosing a Mediator Both Sides Can Trust

EP 178 Choosing a Mediator Both Sides Can Trust

Mac Pierre-Louis and Natalia Olowska-Czajka of OlowskaPierre.com talk with Tye Bourdoney of CPLSPA.com to explain why a mediator can be trusted by both parties to the conflict, even if a particular mediator is indicated by the other party or this party's attorney. They are also showing how to choose a mediator yourself if you do not have a clue how to do it, showing the mediators' directory available at InstantMediations.com. Mediators are not biased and they are not there to judge any of the parties. Mediators need to be transparent to the parties of who they are and what they do in the mediation process and on top any circumstance which might raise doubt as to the mediator's neutrality and impartiality should be disclosed by the mediator at the very beginning of the mediation.  There are also safeguards in mediation to ensure that mediator can be trusted, such as its confidentiality and the fact that it is voluntary throughout the entire process. Lastly, mediators are bound by the law, the ethical rules and the contracts they enter into with the parties.
Jan 07, 202322:46
EP 180 Elderly Care Mediations

EP 180 Elderly Care Mediations

Mac and Natalia of OlowskaPierre.com in conversation with Fran Brochstein (FamilyLaw4u.com) about the family conflicts which can arise with the ageing of our loved ones - moms, dads, grandmas, grandads, uncles and aunts, brothers and sisters. Handling such a situation with dignity and gentleness requires skills which can be offered by a family mediator specializing in elderly care mediations. Such a mediation may engage a few generations yet assures that a tailored made solution is reached when it comes to the care of family members and covering the costs of it.
Jan 07, 202317:16
EP 179 Extreme Emotional Triggers in Mediations

EP 179 Extreme Emotional Triggers in Mediations

Fran Brochstein of FamilyLaw4U.com and Tye Bourdony of CPLSPA.com joined Mac and Natalia of OlowskaPierre.com to discuss emotions in mediations.  They explain in simple words and show practical examples of how a good mediator can create a safe place for the mediating parties, even if difficult emotions come into play.  It's not just about showing empathy or allowing parties to vent - it is also about leading them through understanding the emotions and making the parties at ease with whatever they are going through to help them reach an agreement. Amongst practical solutions, Douglas Noll's concepts of emotional validation, deep listening and de-escalation are being mentioned (see another video on this podcast with Doug Noll: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FzDQYVc_dtI) as well as some other tools available to mediators, like caucus mediation (placing the parties in different rooms to mediate separately), working closer on improving communication between the parties or simply taking a break.
Jan 07, 202324:54
Conflict on Ukraine Update Dec 2022

Conflict on Ukraine Update Dec 2022

Conflict
Dec 21, 202218:33
Year-in-Review 2022 @LMIPodcast

Year-in-Review 2022 @LMIPodcast

This is a review of 2022
Dec 21, 202219:34
Leadership Book Review With the Author - A Manousso Musing Interview with Rev. Tope Popoola

Leadership Book Review With the Author - A Manousso Musing Interview with Rev. Tope Popoola

Rev. Tope Popoola (topepopoola.com.ng) as a guest of Dr. Manousso (manousso.us) and Natalia and Mac (OlowskaPierre.com) talks about leadership based on Rev. Tope Popoola's two books: "Lead as you go" (which is about to be published) and "Leadership is for the dead" (already available for purchase).  Out of his own experience in life and as a minister, Rev. Popoola states credible and understandable principles of leadership which are often misunderstood.  He starts with an assertion that the society blames the leaders for a lot of things -  not realizing or perhaps forgetting that the leaders themselves are the products of this very society (in Rev. Popoola's words: "The system produces the leaders after their own kind"). This shows a crucial characteristic of leadership which we need to keep in mind always - the leaders are  poisoned by the same problems that the society is - and this can be traced in the previous work and service of the leaders. So the leaders come to their offices with the experience gained in this very society - yet on top, the power has the ability to amplify the real self of a man, bringing new traits and strengthening the pervious mistakes and errors.  However, the key to good leadership is to understand that leadership is a service to others, not a way for fulfilling one's ego and as such it needs to embrace the sacrifice. Hence Rev. Popoola speaks about "the dead" - as a lot egoistic traits and myths need to die before a good leader is created.   Leadership is therefore the ability to take responsibility for the outcomes and consequences.  Also, you can't give what you do not have. The virtues the leader wishes to offer should arise in this leader first and only then can be given to the society.  Therefore integrity is such a vital feature in any leader and makes them authentic and easy to follow and identify with.   As power is the ability to influence people to make them do the desired things, the leader using the power needs to be service minded and community oriented and willing to act, to do things that others are not willing to do. And when these things are done - accept the responsibility for the outcomes.  LINKS: https://books2read.com/ap/nzM75p/Tope-Popoola https://books2read.com/b/4NjMKG  https://www.facebook.com/lifempower/  https://twitter.com/topheritage?lang=en   https://ng.linkedin.com/in/tope-popoola-clc-cmt-fimc-cmc-b89b35a
Dec 12, 202221:27
PART 2 Music Industry Changes And Conflict - Manousso Musing With Hank Moore

PART 2 Music Industry Changes And Conflict - Manousso Musing With Hank Moore

Hank Moore of HankMoore.com is being the guest of Dr. Barbara Manousso (manousso.us) with Mac and Natalia of OlowskaPierre.com. In his widely recognised work as a business consultant not only did Hank work with the most important business entities and chains but also worked with the top figures in the music world. He had the chance to speak to Elvis Presley and obtain some interesting answers to his queries, he had a chance to interview the Beatles and hear All You Need is Love long before it became a slogan popularised by them based on the song.   Hank explains the truths of the music world, explains how the conflicts get resolved there and what they build upon, shares some fascinating insights about the people and pop culture. His book "Pop Music Legends" leads the reader through 100 years of changes in the musical industry, going backstage and showing interesting stories of the most famous music performers of all times, including, apart from those already mentioned, Frank Sinatra and Beyonce. The book goes also through genres and changes in the music world. More can be found in Hank Moore’s “Big Picture of Business” series (books 1-2-3-4) (nominated for the Pulitzer Prize). LINKS: http://www.hankmoore.com/ http://www.facebook.com/hank.moore.10 http://www.linkedin.com/profile/view?id=43004647&trk=tab_pro
Dec 05, 202226:12
Music Industry Changes And Conflict - A Conversation with Business Guru Hank Moore

Music Industry Changes And Conflict - A Conversation with Business Guru Hank Moore

Hank Moore of HankMoore.com is being the guest of Dr. Barbara Manousso (manousso.us)  with Mac and Natalia of OlowskaPierre.com. In his widely recognised work as a business consultant not only did Hank work with the most important business entities and chains but also worked with the top figures in the music world. He had the chance to speak to Elvis Presley and obtain some interesting answers to his queries, he had a chance to interview the Beatles and hear All You Need is Love long before it became a slogan popularised by them based on the song.   In his book "Pop Music Legends" he leads the reader through 100 years of changes in the musical industry, going backstage and showing interesting stories of the most famous music performers of all times, including, apart from those already mentioned, Frank Sinatra and Beyonce. The book goes also through genres and changes in the music world. More can be found in Hank Moore’s “Big Picture of Business” series (books 1-2-3-4) (nominated for the Pulitzer Prize). LINKS: http://www.hankmoore.com/ http://www.facebook.com/hank.moore.10 http://www.linkedin.com/profile/view?id=43004647&trk=tab_pro
Nov 28, 202226:42
Customer Service With Rev. Tope Popoola - A Manousso Musing With Mediator Trainer with Dr. Manousso

Customer Service With Rev. Tope Popoola - A Manousso Musing With Mediator Trainer with Dr. Manousso

Rev. Tope Popoola (topepopoola.com.ng) as a guest of Dr. Manousso (manousso.us) and Natalia and Mac (OlowskaPierre.com) explains the secrets of the customer relationship management for mediators. In his  latest book (Customer Relationship Management, Rules of Engagement) Rev. Popoola shares concepts checked out in practice in his own life as a customer and coach, to shift the perspective of any business to the proper core of it, which is not making money but serving the customer. His thoughts shared in this video make us aware that it is the customer who pays our salaries and that pay comes as a reward for the value we give. And since we serve our customers in every business, also as mediators and attorneys, we need to satisfy our customers' needs in the most fulfilling manner, and especially focusing on their emotions.   He expands on the concept of the brand and how visual identification gives us the first distinction, which in terms of value is a promise of what they can get. Yet then come the next steps - expectation based on the brand and the first contact and then the real experience - which ultimately leads to perception - which becomes the reality of being served by the business.  An crucial part in this entire process plays good communication - which in fact is the ability to connect with the customer and in other words is all about how we make our customers feel. We need to remember, that every customer decision is based on their emotions, and if these emotions are positive and if we avoid being perceived as just selling something to the customer - we should be successful and our pay should be in place without discussion. Being aware of these steps is a key to taking care of the customers the way which creates a value - and the value gives the reward - which is the ultimate step of the customer relationship management and the economical purpose of the existence of the business.
Nov 28, 202226:07
Business Recovery - A Conversation with Business Guru Hank Moore

Business Recovery - A Conversation with Business Guru Hank Moore

Hank Moore of HankMoore.com is being the guest of Dr. Barbara Manousso (manousso.us)  with Mac and Natalia of OlowskaPierre.com. In his widely recognised work as a business consultant Hank found certain truths regarding the crises and shows the challenges and opportunities they bring, including the ones connected with Covid-19.   He presents business trends, challenges and opportunities that will affect the business going forward and shows some interesting business aspects of the new after-Covid reality. He is now working on a book which will describe the consequences of Covid-19 for the businesses and the trends resulting from it. More can be found in Hank Moore’s “Big Picture of Business” series (books 1-2-3-4) (nominated for the Pulitzer Prize). LINKS: http://www.hankmoore.com/ http://www.facebook.com/hank.moore.10 http://www.linkedin.com/profile/view?id=43004647&trk=tab_pro
Nov 21, 202225:26
Peer Mediation & Student Engagement With Dr. Angela Miller

Peer Mediation & Student Engagement With Dr. Angela Miller

Dr. Angela Miller of mediationnikan.com in conversation with Natalia and Mac of olowskapierre.com discuss the necessity of bringing mediation skills to schools to educate children as young as 13 years of age till they are adults (8 grade till 12 grade).  The time of adolescence is crucial when learning to resolve conflicts in an amicable manner as these are the moments when the children are appreciating of their peers' views more than those of the adults, like teachers and parents.  Teaching mediation skills to the youngsters not only enables them to solve the conflicts by themselves but also equips them with the skills they will take outside of the classroom - like active listening, avoiding prejudice and understanding and accepting differences. It also produces the effect of calming down stressful situations in the school territory and outside of it in any peer groups leading to better anger management and improving social skills. Angela shows how this should be the mediator's initiative as part of their community service and how it will benefit long term the individuals themselves and their environment: families, communities, workplaces.
Nov 20, 202221:55
Talking With Children About Divorce With Monika Perkowska

Talking With Children About Divorce With Monika Perkowska

Monika Perkowska talks about children in divorce.
Nov 19, 202222:42
Neutral Impartiality With Tye Bourdony

Neutral Impartiality With Tye Bourdony

Tye Bourdony shares thoughts on being neutral in mediation.
Nov 19, 202216:48
The Heart of Mediation With Dr. Barbara Sunderland Manousso

The Heart of Mediation With Dr. Barbara Sunderland Manousso

Hear Dr. Manousso share what the heart of mediation is truly all about.
Nov 16, 202225:17
Positives of Post-Pandemic Conflicts in the Workplace With Dr. LaVena Wilkin

Positives of Post-Pandemic Conflicts in the Workplace With Dr. LaVena Wilkin

Dr. Barbara Manousso's (http://manousso.us ) guest Dr. LaVena Wilkins (https://peacefromconflict.com/)  presents a fresh and insightful view on solving conflicts in the workplace in the post pandemic world, joining the discussion with Mac Pierre-Louis & Natalia Olowska-Czajka of https://olowskapierre.com. Dr. LaVena Wilkin shows how conflicts in general give an opportunity to change through open, honest and courageous communication. First condition though - you must engage in the conflict and not avoid it. There are some rules to solving the conflicts via this sort of communication: 1. being respectful 2. listening to other people's perspectives and thus build trust and a safe workplace. In the post pandemic world what helps a lot is mindfulness - being hyperaware of our emotional reactions and understanding that we would not have a conflict if we were not emotionally engaged in this particular issue ourselves. LINKS: https://www.degruyter.com/document/doi/10.1515/9783110746365/html?lang=en https://peacefromconflict.com/
Nov 10, 202226:12
Benefits of An Organizational Ombuds With Neil Katz

Benefits of An Organizational Ombuds With Neil Katz

Dr. Barbara Manousso (https://manousso.us ) and her guest Dr. Neil Katz (https://neilkatzconsulting.com ) with Mac Pierre-Louis & Natalia Olowska-Czajka of https://olowskapierre.com speak about the ombuds and their role in conflict solving. Dr. Neil Katz gives a definition of what an organizational ombuds is by giving the main features of such a post:  an informal, independent, neutral person acting in confidentiality to resolve disputes and address concerns of the employees or group of employees. What an ombuds can do is not just address a particular issue but also listen to the worries of an employee, resulting from e.g. burnout or lack of satisfaction at work trying to remedy it. The range of actions of an ombuds in the organizational space is huge and the sky seems to be the limit for it - starting from informal visits to learn about the problem, through facilitating meetings (also in the form of caucus), up to group interventions. Dr. Neil Katz presents some practical examples and how such an institution     can be more effective than trying to seek a solution via the HR departments.
Nov 04, 202220:31
From Discord to Harmony: Making Your Workplace Hum With Dr. LaVena Wilkin

From Discord to Harmony: Making Your Workplace Hum With Dr. LaVena Wilkin

Hosts: Mac-Arthur Pierre-Louis & Natalia Olowska-Czajka of https://olowskapierre.com Co-Hosts: Dr. Barbara Manousso of https://manousso.us Guest: Dr. LaVena Wilkins of https://peacefromconflict.com/ YouTube Podcast: https://youtu.be/dSzmW-0-6E4
Oct 25, 202223:46
#MeToo Movement 5 Years Later. Did It Fail?

#MeToo Movement 5 Years Later. Did It Fail?

Although the phrase “MeToo” was created in 2006 by activist Tarana Burke, it didn’t become apart of America’s vocabulary until 2017 when actress Alyssa Milano encouraged those who have experienced sexual harassment or assault at work to post their stories on social media using #MeToo. So now post 5 years since we have this term in use, it brought certain consequences into a lot of people's lives.   Brett Lovett of https://familyreconcile.com in conversation with Mac and Natalia of https://OlowskaPierre.com discuss the pros and cons and how to prevent sexual harassment at the work place. LINKS: https://www.hollywoodreporter.com/news/general-news/me-too-five-years-later-1235228665/ https://www.deseret.com/2022/9/29/23373536/how-americans-feel-about-viral-metoo-5-years-after-pew-research-poll-believe-all-women Watch Here On YouTube: https://youtu.be/2bEDvrgZbX4 Instant Mediations' BlogPost: https://instantmediations.com/metoo-movement-5-years-later-did-it-fail/
Oct 05, 202220:55
Pros & Cons of Arbitration with Federico Vasoli

Pros & Cons of Arbitration with Federico Vasoli

Watch here on YouTube: https://youtu.be/jQpQzASNUN0 Podcast Hosts: Mac & Natalia ~ https://OlowskaPierre.com Contributing Guest Federico Vasoli ~ https://dmtvglobal.com/ 
Sep 29, 202221:12
Tips By Mediator & Friend Traci Ahart

Tips By Mediator & Friend Traci Ahart

Watch here on YouTube: https://youtu.be/PJS7At_pivk    Podcast Hosts: Mac & Natalia ~ https://OlowskaPierre.com   Contributing Guests:                                       {1} Traci L. Ahart ~ https://hellonheelsmediation.com                                          {2} Fran Brochstein ~ https://familylaw4u.com 
Sep 29, 202224:58
Mediation as a Life-Saving Experience: A Conversation with Traci L. Ahart

Mediation as a Life-Saving Experience: A Conversation with Traci L. Ahart

Podcast Hosts: Mac & Natalia of https://OlowskaPierre.com Contributing Guest: Traci L. Ahart of https://hellonheelsmediation.com LINKS: {1} https://www.facebook.com/traci.l.ahart {2} https://wanderingsoulsmedia.pic-time.com/-hohannualluncheon2022/gallery Watch here on YouTube: https://youtu.be/kQRMIIm_PkY
Sep 22, 202221:33
Drafting the Arbitration Clause to Help Resolve Conflicts

Drafting the Arbitration Clause to Help Resolve Conflicts

Federico Vasoli of https://dmtvglobal.com speaks with Natalia and Mac of https://OlowskaPierre.com about the fundamentals of the Arbitration Clause and what to take into account when drafting it in addition to what role it plays in dispute resolutions.   Arbitration, being one of the methods of ADR {alternative dispute resolution}, is a way to resolve your legal disputes outside of court.    Because of its multiple benefits, the Arbitration Clause is absolutely advisable to have present in the contract; hence the paramount reason why it's so important to conscientiously plan ahead and draft it together with the contract.   An Arbitration Clause can indicate a particular existing court or be a Clause for an ad hoc court - invented and arranged for by the parties.    The business relationships as it brings flexibility to the possible conflict resolution, enabling for instance to have a multi-step clause, e.g. addressing a specific court for specific types of claims.   Link (s): https://iccwbo.org/dispute-resolution-services/arbitration/arbitration-clause/   Visit our Blog: https://instantmediations.com/drafting-the-arbitration-clause-to-help-resolve-conflicts/  ||  https://instantmediations.com/blog Watch here on YouTube: https://youtu.be/B8BsUdaNls8
Sep 22, 202221:56
The Modern Workforce – A Mediator’s Conversation with Business Guru Hank Moore

The Modern Workforce – A Mediator’s Conversation with Business Guru Hank Moore

Dr. Barbara Manousso’s (http://manousso.us) featured guest Hank Moore (http://HankMoore.com) discusses The Modern Workforce with Mac Pierre-Louis & Natalia Olowska-Czajka of https://olowskapierre.com Hank Moore starts us off discussing a time honored business model for any size company (big or small) utilizing his Business Tree™ dynamic. The Business Tree™ has 7 major […]
Sep 09, 202226:29
Things Judges Consider in Child Support Cases

Things Judges Consider in Child Support Cases

Fran Brochstein of https://www.familylaw4u.com joined Natalia Olowska-Czajka and Mac Pierre-Louis of https://olowskapierre.com to discuss top things judges consider in child support cases. {1} Foundationally there are three types of child support cases: {2} Different factors influence child support adjudication or enforcement and they rank from the child’s needs to the […]
Sep 08, 202232:12
Can You Agree to No Child Support in Family Mediations

Can You Agree to No Child Support in Family Mediations

Tye Bourdony of https://cplspa.com with Natalia Olowska-Czajka and Mac Pierre-Louis of https://olowskapierre.com illustrate how mediation addresses a question so commonly asked by handfuls of many parents, “Can I agree to pay no child support at all?” As usual, it depends… In this video, we dive into creative ways to addressing […]
Sep 05, 202229:15
The Different Ways Mediations Can End With Tye Bourdony

The Different Ways Mediations Can End With Tye Bourdony

Tye Bourdony of https://cplspa.com with Natalia Olowska-Czajka and Mac Pierre-Louis of https://olowskapierre.com discuss how mediations can end; providing examples of the most common scenarios: full agreement (MSA – Mediated Settlement Agreement) – where parties reach full agreement on all topics discussed partial agreement – where parties are able to agree […]
Sep 05, 202228:07
How to Protect Children in Family Battles With Monika Perkowska

How to Protect Children in Family Battles With Monika Perkowska

Child psychologist and Author Monika Perkowska of the SAFE RELATIONSHIP™ method discusses with Mac & Natalia of OlowskaPierre.com about the most common mistakes parents make amidst family battles and provides ways to avoid them. Learn more about her SAFE RELATIONSHIP™ method practice at https://www.monikaperkowska.com/
Aug 22, 202221:03
Community Stewardship – A Mediator’s Conversation with Business Guru Hank Moore

Community Stewardship – A Mediator’s Conversation with Business Guru Hank Moore

Dr. Barbara Manousso’s (http://manousso.us) guest Hank Moore (http://HankMoore.com) opens up his treasure trove of time-tested principles on community stewardship. Definitely noteworthy material for Mediators everywhere to adopt. He shares with Mac Pierre-Louis & Natalia Olowska-Czajka of https://olowskapierre.com its importance in business sectors. Although companies’ financial stewardship is both welcomed & […]
Aug 09, 202225:21
Tips for Avoiding Conflicts Before DNA Results Come Out

Tips for Avoiding Conflicts Before DNA Results Come Out

Angela Miller of MediationNikan.com in conversation with Mac and Natalia of OlowskaPierre.com discussing a trending topic of what to do when you receive a genetic test revealing that you are related to someone you were previously unaware of and how to avoid conflict when this happens. Based on her experience […]
Aug 09, 202220:60
What is Peer Mediation with Chijioke Ibeku

What is Peer Mediation with Chijioke Ibeku

Chijioke Ibeku (to be found here: https://www.linkedin.com/in/chijioke-ibeku-631947192/) is talking with Mac and Natalia of OlowskaPierre.com on peer mediation in Nigeria and Africa in general. He is showing the benefits of introducing peer mediation programs into the school system for pupils as young as 7 years of age. He explains why […]
Aug 02, 202219:20
Cannabis Mediation Basics with Joseph George

Cannabis Mediation Basics with Joseph George

Joseph George “Matrix” of GeorgeandGeorgeADR.com in conversation with Mac and Natalia of OlowskaPierre.com about a newly developing mediation practice in the cannabis field. Joseph is explaining what the cannabis mediation is, how it differs from other types of mediation and what skills it requires from the mediator. Interestingly, mediation in […]
Aug 02, 202221:59
Book Review Part 1 Negotiation Mythbusters with Sylvia Mayer

Book Review Part 1 Negotiation Mythbusters with Sylvia Mayer

Sylvia Mayer of https://smayerlaw.com/ joins Mac Pierre-Louis and Natalia Olowska-Czajka of https://olowskapierre.com/ to challenge the concept of trust in mediation and redefine it. What if this trust needs to be only a little more than to be able to speak to the mediator and lead the entire mediation process to […]
Jul 21, 202223:05
Mediating Handgun Issues in Child Custody Cases With Fran Brochstein

Mediating Handgun Issues in Child Custody Cases With Fran Brochstein

Gun safety is a big topic right now after a wave of mass-shootings. The topic of guns often comes up in family law mediations. Have a listen to Fran Brochstein of FamilyLaw4u.com as she discusses the issue. Link: https://www.washingtonpost.com/nation/2022/06/07/florida-mother-charged-toddler-shooting/ Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/LphxftuzHT0
Jul 20, 202218:43
When Conflict Contributes to Suicide with Brett Lovett

When Conflict Contributes to Suicide with Brett Lovett

Brett Lovett of FamilyReconcile.com dialogued with Mac & Natalia on InstantMediations how suicide intersects with conflicts that stem from relational disconnections. The conversation covers the topic of a suicide is an end result – to an ongoing mental health or emotional needs which are not being met. Introduction of the […]
Jul 19, 202227:00
Mediation in Property Management With Chijioke Ibeku

Mediation in Property Management With Chijioke Ibeku

Chijioke Ibeku, an author, mediator, and conflict resolution trainer based in Abuja, Nigeria, tells us about how he combined his professional career as a lawyer with the need for mediation in property management and how it lead him to write his book titled Understanding Basic Principles of Property Management (link to the book beneath). He gives practical hints to the mediators dedicating themselves to this sort of mediation as well as to the parties who will take part in such a mediation. Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/6Sl5EOcNFnA Connect with Chijioke: On LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/chijioke-ibeku-631947192/ On FB: Chijioke Ibeku Nnanna On Twitter : MEDIATOR IN ACTION On You Tube : Three C’s Met Mediators On instagram: Chijiokennanna LINKS: https://mediatornaija.news.blog/
Jul 19, 202225:42
EPISODE 138 Conflict Resolution Book Review Part 2 “Pre-Suasion” with Sylvia Mayer

EPISODE 138 Conflict Resolution Book Review Part 2 “Pre-Suasion” with Sylvia Mayer

Sylvia Mayer of https://smayerlaw.com/ joins Mac Pierre-Louis and Natalia Olowska-Czajka of https://olowskapierre.com/ to continue to discuss Robert Cialdini’s Pre-Suasion: A Revolutionary Way to Influence and Persuade. Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/vZR2wiuKR1M Highlighted Quote From Recording: So timing comes up in mediation in a lot of ways. First, I want to start by sharing one of the […]
Jul 12, 202221:17
Mediating Workplace Conflicts With Mediator Joseph George

Mediating Workplace Conflicts With Mediator Joseph George

Watch on YouTube here: https://youtu.be/oR7aWkPPSJI Snippet of Illuminating Podcast with Mediator Joseph “Matrix” George: … Poor management style: somebody may not like the way their manager manages them; that could be mediated. And that’s the biggest thing right now in jobs now is poor management style, because after COVID, especially […]
Jul 05, 202217:05
The Dance of Opposites with Dr. Kenneth Cloke

The Dance of Opposites with Dr. Kenneth Cloke

Watch on YouTube here: https://youtu.be/t_wzs7yy1rs
Jun 20, 202225:36
Perspectives of Jeff Aresty of the INTERNETBAR.org on the Conflict in Ukraine

Perspectives of Jeff Aresty of the INTERNETBAR.org on the Conflict in Ukraine

The post Perspectives of Jeff Aresty of the INTERNETBAR.org on the Conflict in Ukraine appeared first on Instant Mediations.
Jun 17, 202225:57
Resolving Conflicts at Work With Dr. Kenneth Cloke

Resolving Conflicts at Work With Dr. Kenneth Cloke

Resolving conflicts at work with Dr. Kenneth Cloke, was our recent episode on the IM Podcast. It was done as part of the series, Titans of Mediations, with seasoned mediator trainer, Dr. Barbara Manousso. Watch on YouTube here: https://youtu.be/-3VvyS60JRM A little snippet of the conversation: Well, I think that the […]
Jun 15, 202230:28
Technology Solutions for Ukrainian Refugees With Jeff Aresty

Technology Solutions for Ukrainian Refugees With Jeff Aresty

Attorney Jeffrey Aresty of the InternetBar joined Mac and Natalia of OlowskaPierre.com to discuss ways to make technology work for justice for Ukrainian refugees
Jun 14, 202223:42
Reframing As A Way To Change Parties’ Perspectives At Mediation

Reframing As A Way To Change Parties’ Perspectives At Mediation

Helping parties see problems and solutions differently is the heart of reframing. In this conversation, seasoned mediator trainer Tye Bourdony of CPLSPA.com joined with Mac and Natalia of OlowskaPierre.com to help professionals and parties understand the value of reframing in mediation.
Jun 08, 202221:44
Mediator Leadership Qualities

Mediator Leadership Qualities

A conversation between Tye Bourdony of CPLSPA.com and Mac and Natalia of OlowskaPierre.com on the leadership qualities of mediators, many of which only come with experience. Check out the conversation on YouTube here: https://youtu.be/WcqpWeMdAVc.
Jun 08, 202225:06
Virtual Courts In A Post COVID World

Virtual Courts In A Post COVID World

Natalia, Co-Owner of InstantMediations.com and lawyer and mediator at OlowskaPierre.com, attended the AIJUDEFA Conference in Seville, Spain, where she was a panelist discussing virtual courts post pandemic. A lot has changed the last two years since Spring 2020. Click to listen or watch to learn more about her experience. YouTube […]
Jun 06, 202219:42
Mediators Thoughts On The Johnny Depp v. Amber Defamation

Mediators Thoughts On The Johnny Depp v. Amber Defamation

Recorded before the Johnny Depp v. Amber Heard case gets resolved, Fran Brochstein of https://www.familylaw4u.com joined Mac and Natalia of OlowskaPierre.com to discuss some of the hot topics that arose during this trial and what ways the alternative conflict resolution could have helped.
May 28, 202223:43
Family Reconciliation after the DNA Genetic testing

Family Reconciliation after the DNA Genetic testing

Brett Lovett joined Angela Miller’s Mediation Nikan Podcast Series to discuss solutions to conflicts after discovering DNA results within the family. Watch videocast here: https://youtu.be/siY0kCv4qbc
May 26, 202234:56
Avoiding Legal Conflict When Appointing & Removing Corporate Officers

Avoiding Legal Conflict When Appointing & Removing Corporate Officers

Choosing the right people for mandatory as well as optional roles in companies is a crucial decision. Removing them may result in damages and conflicts sometimes also under labour law. Let us take a look at similarities and differences in different types of jurisdictions, like Malta, Singapore and Vietnam. See […]
May 25, 202220:30
Pre-Suasion: A Revolutionary Way to Influence and Persuade – A Book Review With Bankruptcy Mediator Sylvia Mayer

Pre-Suasion: A Revolutionary Way to Influence and Persuade – A Book Review With Bankruptcy Mediator Sylvia Mayer

Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/XkqBs5HpLSc Sylvia Mayer of https://smayerlaw.com/ joins Mac Pierre-Louis and Natalia Olowska-Czajka of https://olowskapierre.com/ to discuss Robert Cialdini’s Pre-Suasion: A Revolutionary Way to Influence and Persuade. Sylvia is an avid reader and shares her takeaways from reading Pre-Suasion and how they apply to mediation and conflict resolution. Here is a link to an […]
May 21, 202225:06
DE-ESCALATE: How to Calm An ANGRY Person in 90 Seconds or Less

DE-ESCALATE: How to Calm An ANGRY Person in 90 Seconds or Less

Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/FzDQYVc_dtI
May 14, 202224:04
Similarities Between Family Divorces & Business Divorces With Sylvia Mayer

Similarities Between Family Divorces & Business Divorces With Sylvia Mayer

Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/UKZB0bWBvFQ Sylvia Mayer of https://smayerlaw.com/ joins Mac Pierre-Louis and Natalia Olowska-Czajka of https://olowskapierre.com/ to explore the differences and similarities between mediating family divorces (when a couple separate and need to divide up their property and, if children are involved, set a custody schedule) and business divorces (when owners of a small […]
May 14, 202222:57
Crystall Ball – Predictions about Bankruptcy Mediation with Sylvia Mayer

Crystall Ball – Predictions about Bankruptcy Mediation with Sylvia Mayer

Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/pHW2J-4YXdk Sylvia Mayer of https://smayerlaw.com/ joins Mac Pierre-Louis and Natalia Olowska-Czajka of https://olowskapierre.com/ to look into the crystal ball and predict the direction of bankruptcy mediation in 2022. Mediation is used in bankruptcy cases in a variety of contexts, including disputed claims, challenges to discharge, avoidance actions, […]
May 07, 202227:58
The 3 Biggest Mistakes Mediators Make in Marketing

The 3 Biggest Mistakes Mediators Make in Marketing

Watch YouTube Video here: https://youtu.be/Z4OeoKosask
May 07, 202225:13
Sex, Politics, & Religion At the Office The New Competitive Advantage With Doug Noll

Sex, Politics, & Religion At the Office The New Competitive Advantage With Doug Noll

Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/GeGQPiWszac
May 01, 202224:44
Mediating Conflicts Between Relatives After DNA Testing Results

Mediating Conflicts Between Relatives After DNA Testing Results

Mediator Angela Miller of MediationNikan.com, a conflict resolution expert who handles military family disputes and family conflicts stemming from genetic testing results, shares parts of her story regarding why she mediates unique cases where parties uncover biological truths that shake their world. Watch video of recording here: https://youtu.be/5hwhMV_mehY.
Apr 29, 202229:27
Employment Discrimination Mediation and How Covid Changed Its Dynamics With Marci Jordan

Employment Discrimination Mediation and How Covid Changed Its Dynamics With Marci Jordan

Marci Jordan, a mediator, conciliator and HR consultant at JordanHRConsultants.com joined with Mac and Natalia of OlowskaPierre.com to present the most important issues regarding conflict resolution in employment discrimination cases. Watch the YouTube video here: https://youtu.be/X4VX714ihrc
Apr 17, 202224:15
The Intersection of High Tech Stalking and Domestic Violence – With OurFamilyWizard.com

The Intersection of High Tech Stalking and Domestic Violence – With OurFamilyWizard.com

Kevin Dorsey of the OurFamilyWizard App (OurFamilyWizard.com) joined Natalia and Mac of OlowskaPierre.com in conversation about how technology is sometimes used to cause abuse in family cases. Whether it’s from spying, stalking, or messaging threats, technology can be used to cause harm in domestic cases. Kevin shares tips on how […]
Apr 17, 202226:02
TITAN OF MEDIATION Dr. Habib Chamoun-Nicolas Part 3

TITAN OF MEDIATION Dr. Habib Chamoun-Nicolas Part 3

In part 3 of his 3-part interview series, Dr. Habib Chamoun-Nicolas, renowned scholar and negotiations expert, appeared on Dr. Barbara Manousso’s podcast series alongside Mac and Natalia, to discuss the topics of his book Transcend! Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/dndCwaPhS98
Apr 10, 202226:42
The Need for More Mediation & Conciliation in Housing Discrimination Cases With Marci Jordan

The Need for More Mediation & Conciliation in Housing Discrimination Cases With Marci Jordan

Marci Jordan, a mediator, conciliator and HR consultant JordanHRConsultants.com, joined with Mac and Natalia of OlowskaPierre.com to present the important issues regarding conflict resolution in housing discrimination cases. Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/OqE8TdSK65E
Apr 10, 202222:43
The OurFamilyWizard.com App – What It Can Do For You  With Kevin Dorsey

The OurFamilyWizard.com App – What It Can Do For You With Kevin Dorsey

Kevin Dorsey, of OurFamilyWizard.com joined with Natalia Olowska-Czajka and Mac Pierre-Louis to discuss what the app can do for parents, attorneys, judges, mediators, parenting coordinators, or amici. This tool allows co-parents to connect in a way that protects against miscommunication, he-said/she-said, and fights over admissibility of evidence. Watch on YouTube: […]
Apr 10, 202221:52
TITAN OF MEDIATION Dr. Habib Chamoun-Nicolas Part 2

TITAN OF MEDIATION Dr. Habib Chamoun-Nicolas Part 2

In part 2 of his 3-part interview series, Dr. Habib Chamoun-Nicolas, renowned scholar and negotiations expert, appeared on Dr. Barbara Manousso’s podcast series alongside Mac and Natalia, to discuss the topics of his book Negotiate Like a Phoenician. Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/GGJt24kcWIE.
Apr 03, 202228:27
“Exactly What to Say” A Book Review With Sylvia Mayer

“Exactly What to Say” A Book Review With Sylvia Mayer

What are some “magic words of mediation?” What words do you use to help parties think differently about their position or reflect on their opponent’s position a different way? Some months ago we did a podcast recording with Mediator Darcy Thompson, who explained how the incendiary word “liar” can make […]
Mar 20, 202221:57
Attorney-Mediators Discussing Things Judges Consider in Child Possession Cases

Attorney-Mediators Discussing Things Judges Consider in Child Possession Cases

Fran Brochstein of FamilyLaw4u.com meets with Mac and Natalia of OlowskaPierre.com in Houston, in person, to do this video on things judges consider in the child possession cases (also named as visitation rights or contacts with children). Based on the cases and issues we encountered in our practice as family […]
Mar 20, 202220:09
TITAN OF MEDIATION Dr. Habib Chamoun-Nicolas Part 1

TITAN OF MEDIATION Dr. Habib Chamoun-Nicolas Part 1

In part 1 of his 3-part interview series, Dr. Habib Chamoun-Nicolas, renowned scholar and negotiations expert, appeared on Dr. Barbara Manousso’s podcast series alongside Mac and Natalia, to discuss the topics of his book DEAL, Guidelines for a Flawless Negotiation, published in 2004 by publisher Key Negotiations. Watch the videos […]
Mar 20, 202227:25
Anatomy of a Mediator Commercial; A Conversation with Mediator Joseph George

Anatomy of a Mediator Commercial; A Conversation with Mediator Joseph George

Joseph George of GeorgeandGeorgeADR.com, based in Jacksonville, Florida joins Mac Pierre-Louis and Natalia Olowska-Czajka, co-founders of InstantMediations.com to discuss video marketing of ADR practices. In this episode we go through Joseph’s discoveries and experiences in this field and discuss 3 of his dispute resolution videos used to market his ADR […]
Mar 14, 202232:27
Conflict in Ukraine – Lessons Learned from Vietnam With Chuck Searcy

Conflict in Ukraine – Lessons Learned from Vietnam With Chuck Searcy

Chuck Searcy, Vietnam-based peacemaker and founder of Landmines.org.vn, joined Mediator-trainer author Thomas G. Giglione of Mediation.vn and Mac and Natalia to discuss lessons learned from the Vietnam conflict and how they apply to the current situation in Ukraine 2022. With the eventual end of this conflict will come the work […]
Mar 13, 202236:35
Attorney-Mediators Discussing Morality Clauses & Avoiding Conflicts When Dating After Divorce

Attorney-Mediators Discussing Morality Clauses & Avoiding Conflicts When Dating After Divorce

Fran Brochstein of FamilyLaw4u.com joins Mac and Natalia of OlowskaPierre.com in Houston, in person, to do this video on morality clauses and avoiding conflicts when dating after divorce. The morality clauses which can be encountered in some of the MSAs (mediated settlement agreements) concern stipulating the time (usually at night) […]
Mar 13, 202221:01
Mediating Preference Actions in Bankruptcy Cases

Mediating Preference Actions in Bankruptcy Cases

Sylvia Mayer of smayerlaw.com joins Mac Pierre-Louis and Natalia Ołowska-Czajka of OlowskaPierre.com to talk about a very important bankruptcy issues, which can be mediated, namely the preference actions. Preference actions bring a lot of contentious issues into the bankruptcy proceedings yet mediation can offer a good way out to avoid […]
Mar 13, 202221:01
TITANS OF MEDIATION Dr. Bernie Mayer & Dr. Font-Guzman of “The Neutrality Trap”

TITANS OF MEDIATION Dr. Bernie Mayer & Dr. Font-Guzman of “The Neutrality Trap”

Dr. Jaqueline Font-Guzman joined with Dr. Bernie Mayer upon invitation from Dr. Barbara Sunderland Manousso to talk with Mac-Arthur Pierre-Louis and Natalia Ołowska-Czajka of OlowskaPierre.com in PART 3 about their book The Neutrality Trap: Disrupting and Connecting for Social Change. The conversation goes through the topics of social change, touching […]
Mar 13, 202225:27
Conflict in Ukraine Day 14- A Polish Perspective

Conflict in Ukraine Day 14- A Polish Perspective

On the same evening that US Vice President Kamala Harris gave an address in Warsaw, Poland, addressing ways the United States was ready to help Ukrainian refugees entering Poland, InstantMediation’s co-founder Natalia Olowska-Czajka of OlowskaPierre.com/polska sat down on the podcast to record her recent experiences in the city, and to […]
Mar 10, 202230:42
HowToMarketMyMediationPractice.com With Natalie Armstrong-Motin

HowToMarketMyMediationPractice.com With Natalie Armstrong-Motin

Natalie Armstrong-Motin of HowToMarketMyMediationPractice.com joined Sylvia Mayer of Smayerlaw.com, and Mac & Natalia of OlowskaPierre.com, to talk mediator marketing strategies that really work and business basics of successful practices. The discussion centered on the foundational pieces mediators need, including the five marketing activities that have proven most effective for successful […]
Mar 07, 202229:30
TITAN OF MEDIATION Dr. Bernie Mayer

TITAN OF MEDIATION Dr. Bernie Mayer

Dr. Bernie Mayer, professor emeritus of Dispute Resolution of The Werner Institute at Creighton University, spoke with Dr. Barbara Sunderland Manousso of Manousso.us, together with Mac-Arthur Pierre-Louis and Natalia Ołowska-Czajka of Olowskapierre.com, to discuss the themes in his book The Neutrality Trap: Disrupting and Connecting for Social Change. Co-written by […]
Mar 06, 202225:18
Attorney-Mediators Discussing Can I Track My Children When They Visit the Other Parent

Attorney-Mediators Discussing Can I Track My Children When They Visit the Other Parent

In this episode Fran Brochstein of FamilyLaw4u.com joins Mac and Natalia of OlowskaPierre.com and for the first time – physically together, in Houston, in person, to do the video! We share the insights on the tracking methods used commonly by one parent against another and what consequences it can bring. […]
Mar 03, 202212:28