
How to Ruin Your Own Reputation
By Marci Warhaft
For the risk takers, rule breakers and unconventional thinkers who aren’t afraid to shake up the status quo in order to live their lives in their own unique ways.
My guests are unapologetically living lives that differ completely from what was expected of them. It could be in the form of a unique occupation, a non-traditional lifestyle, or whatever makes some people shake their heads in disapproval.
If a fun and feisty conversation excites you, let’s chat!
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My guests are unapologetically living lives that differ completely from what was expected of them. It could be in the form of a unique occupation, a non-traditional lifestyle, or whatever makes some people shake their heads in disapproval.
If a fun and feisty conversation excites you, let’s chat!
Buy me a coffee: ko-fi.com/marciwarhaft

Gayle Lynn - Opening the door to an open relationship
Gayle Lynn - Opening the door to an open relationship
How to Ruin Your Own ReputationOct 20, 2022
00:00
51:37

Life after Death: Fake or Factual?
Life after Death: Fake or Factual?
Do you see dead people?
Do you hear them?
Bob Ginsberg has been investigating mediumship and other evidence of life after death since 2003. He’s an author, radio host, founder of The Forever Family foundation and is featured in the Netflix docuseries “Surviving Death”.
It was his own personal experience with grief and loss that inspired his deep dive into the topic of life after death.
During our conversation I ask Bob:
Can mediums really communicate with lost loved ones?
Can they visit us in our dreams?
What happens during near death experiences?
Tune in and decide for yourself.
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🔗 http://www.beyondthefivesenses.com
🔗 http://www.foreverfamilyfoundation.org
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Mar 23, 202351:05

The Perks of Polyamory with Jacki Yovanoff
The Perks of Polyamory with Jacki Yovanoff
Polyamory: The practice of engaging in multiple romantic relationships, with the consent of all the people involved.
Let’s face it, even the most traditional relationships can be complicated, so the thought of trying to cultivate and nurture several relationships at the same time can sound absolutely impossible. That being said, polyamorous relationships are becoming more and more popular every day.
My guest today is Jacki Yovanoff, a self described bisexual/pansexual/queer, cis, non-monogamous, brash feminist who loves talking about relationships. She’s a speaker, educator, advocate, research nerd, settler, partner & parent of four - and so much more.
Jacki and her partner have been in a polyamorous relationship for over 10 years and know what it takes to make it work. Jacki explains how open communication and complete honesty is the key to thriving in a situation where multiple romantic connections are involved.
Can you really love more than one person at the same time?
Does jealousy ever become a problem?
Tune in and find out!
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** Guest Links **
🔗 The Ethical Slut (third edition): A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships, and Other Freedoms in Sex and Love by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy - https://amzn.to/3LGhQXx
🔗 Building Open Relationships: Your Hands on Guide to Swinging, Polyamory, and Beyond! by Liz Powell - https://amzn.to/3TvYWo9
🔗 Love's Not Color Blind: Race and Representation in Polyamorous and Other Alternative Communities by Kevin A. Patterson - https://amzn.to/3ZR0sUa
🔗 Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy by Jessica Fern - https://amzn.to/3TgixZ4
🔗 It's Called "Polyamory": Coming Out About Your Nonmonogamous Relationships by Rebecca Hiles and Tamara Pincus - https://amzn.to/3LqVWaA
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Mar 16, 202342:18

Non-Binary for Beginners with Ocean Atlas
Non-Binary for Beginners with Ocean Atlas
Who would have thought that something like Pronouns could become such a controversial issue, and yet, here we are!
During this episode, we dive into what feels like a sudden influx of new ways for people to identify themselves and why it’s important to respect them. Our guest, Ocean Atlas, explains what it means to be non binary and why we don’t have to understand a person’s identity to be a good ally.
Ocean Atlas is the Amazon bestselling author of Nonbinary For Beginners: Everything you’ve been afraid to ask about gender, pronouns, being an ally, and black & white thinking. Just within the last decade, Ocean has lived several previous lives including MBA and management consultant at a top firm, yoga teacher and Reiki master in healing circles, and solo traveler and backpacker in Central America, to name a few. Ocean has ruined their reputation several times over and has never felt better about it. Their pronouns are they, she, he, or no pronouns.
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🔗 Nonbinary for Beginners: Nonbinary for Beginners
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Mar 09, 202350:22

Decoding Infidelity with Giovanna Elias
Decoding Infidelity with Giovanna Elias
This is an easy one, right?
Cheating is wrong. Simple as that.
Or is it?
What defines “cheating”?
Can you be cheating with someone you’ve only met online and never in person?
Does there have to be physical intimacy for it to be considered cheating or is sharing an emotional connection cheating too?
Why are people unfaithful?
Is monogamy unrealistic?
Giovanna has spent the last 10+ years travelling the world, observing human behaviour and asking what truly makes us happy, healthy and fulfilled. She is a people-lover, travel-goer, neuroscience-enthusiast, philosopher at heart- and ultimately calls herself: A HUMAN CONNECTION EXPERT. Pulling from her background in Communications, Human Rights, NLP and Holistic Medicine, she is beyond passionate about creating a world where people can communicate effectively, lead consciously, resolve conflict gracefully, and ultimately connect deeply and meaningfully in all relationships. She empowers professionals to build meaningful connections with anyone, anywhere, at anytime and communicate consciously in order to overcome conflicts in their relationships from work life to family, friends and romance. She does this through her life-changing 9-key system called “The Connection Code.” Connect with her today, and learn more about what she does!
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🔗 Book a CONNECTION CALL:
https://calendly.com/-connectioncall/30min
🔗 Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/giovanna.fjm.elias/
🔗 Linkedin:
https://www.linkedin.com/in/relationships-communication-coach/
🔗 Youtube:
https://www.youtube.com/theconnectioncode
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Mar 02, 202350:04

"The Prison Lady” Phyllis Taylor Changing Inmates’ Lives
"The Prison Lady” Phyllis Taylor Changing Inmates’ Lives
Meet Phyllis Taylor, “The Prison Lady”
Phyllis openly and honestly shares her experiences of going from teaching technology to lawyers to counseling prison inmates. For 20 years Phyllis was teaching technology to over 500 lawyers and support staff at a high profile international law firm.
Then life took her in a different direction where she’s delivered motivational workshops at several Ontario prisons. Phyllis has commanded the largest prison audience in Ontario and won awards for her dedication, innovation, and inspirational work. Coaching and counselling marginalized people, while guiding them on their healing journey is what Phyllis calls, “Making her Dream a Reality!”
Read more in Phyllis’ book, “The Prison Lady”.
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Feb 23, 202331:09

Casey Donatello - From "Good Girl" to OnlyFans Creator
Casey Donatello - From "Good Girl" to OnlyFans Creator
NSFW: Casey is the author of three erotic lifestyle memoirs, adult content creator, part-time nudist and swinger.
Her memoirs detail the emotional, mental and physical aspects of discovering my sexuality in the lifestyle over the past 18 years from a shy Catholic girl, to insatiable unicorn, to a happily married hotwife vixen.
At 40, Casey pushed her boundaries by creating an OnlyFans page and it has truly been one of the most rewarding experiences of her life.
** Guest Links **
🔗 IG: @inbedwithstrangers.official
🔗 OnlyFans: @HotWifeLife869
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Feb 16, 202350:23

Stolen from Africa founder Neil 'Logik' Donaldson
Stolen from Africa founder Neil 'Logik' Donaldson
Neil is a magnetic and empowering visionary leader, father, digital media creator and author.
He is the founder of Stolen from Africa and Reason with Logik, two outlets rooted in artistic expression and knowledge of self, promoting tangible change.
Established in 2004, initially piloted as a street apparel campaign, Stolen from Africa has developed into a nationally incorporated, non-profit arts education organization focusing on cultural and historical awareness of the African Diaspora. The organization has executed Ontario-wide projects inclusive of documentaries, youth-led research projects, curriculum development, community collaboration, and strategic outreach.
“Why do I do this? Because it's my calling. I'm a humanitarian, and I own it. I don't know anything else. If you're into astrology, it's written in the stars. I'm a Virgo sun, Aquarius rising, with my moon in Taurus. Nuff said."
** Guest Links **
🔗 Reason with Logik on Spotify - https://anchor.fm/reasonwithlogik
🔗 Stolen from Africa - https://www.stolenfromafrica.org
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Feb 09, 202346:22

Jolene Beaton - Matchmaker & Love Broker
Jolene Beaton - Matchmaker & Love Broker
Since I am a self-professed love/relationship skeptic, who better for me to have on my show than a professional matchmaker and dating coach? Jolene has matched and coached over 20,000 people and has created a dating challenge and written a book to help even more.
What makes someone an “expert” in dating? Is there a science behind making love matches? What are the common mistakes we’re making that might keep us from meeting our “person”? Can we be happy without a partner in life? Listen in and find out!
** Guest Links **
🔗 Jolene's Linktree: http://linktr.ee/jolenebeaton
🔗 Dating Explained Book: https://a.co/d/1pUsdxa
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Feb 02, 202334:21

Uncovering the Secret World of Canadian Spies: I Was Never Here & CSIS
Uncovering the Secret World of Canadian Spies: I Was Never Here & CSIS
Imagine dedicating years of your life to a career that you can’t tell anyone about.
Imagine meeting someone new and having to completely lie about what you do for a living.
Now Imagine trying to keep all of your lies straight.
Keeping secrets is a big part of living life as a spy.
Andrew Kirsch served as an intelligence officer with Canadian Security Intelligence Service for just under a decade.
In his book, “I Was Never Here: My True Canadian Spy Story of Coffee, Codenames and Covert Operations in the Age of Terrorism”, he tells us the truth about his life as a spy.
** Guest Links **
🔗 Website: https://kirschgroup.ca/
🔗 Book: https://amzn.to/345KEov
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Jan 26, 202347:16

Kink on the Fringe with ProDomme Priestess Francesca
Kink on the Fringe with ProDomme Priestess Francesca
Priestess Francesca is a ProDomme who spent 12 years working as a mechanical engineer until a senior manager discovered her side job, reported her and ultimately got her fired! Interestingly, she believes that it’s her work as a dominatrix that contributed greatly to her success in the corporate world.
Instead of quitting sex work, she doubled down and now helps and heals others as a PROFESSIONAL DOMINATRIX.
BUCKLE UP and get ready to hear about healing through kink in ways that will probably surprise (and shock) you.
** Guest Link **
Francesca is offering a FREE extended 45-minute consultation call for our podcast listeners!
Contact Francesca here:
🔗 https://www.priestessfrancesca.com
Make sure you write: Ruin Them in the subject line of your email.
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Jan 19, 202301:04:09

Vic Ferrari - Tales from the NYPD
Vic Ferrari - Tales from the NYPD
Meet Vic Ferrari 🌟
Vic is a retired twenty-year NYPD detective who moved to Florida and became a writer!
With an impressive five books under his belt, he takes readers behind the scenes with stories of the good, the bad, and the ugly realities of working in auto theft and narcotics. I had a lot of questions, and Vic was FULL of stories that kept me informed and entertained.
What was the biggest bust he was involved in?
What happens when an officer is forced to take drugs while undercover?
What tv cop show does Vic think comes the closest to getting it right?
Check it out!
** Guest Links **
🔗 Amazon - https://www.amazon.com/Vic-Ferrari/e/B01IIQXLBC/ref=aufs_dp_mata_dsk
🔗 IG - https://www.instagram.com/vicferrari50/
🔗 Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/vicferrarinypd
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Jan 12, 202337:25

Marci Marie Simmons - Inmate to Advocate
Marci Marie Simmons - Inmate to Advocate
One day she was a busy, working mother of five, driving her kids to soccer practice, coaching cheerleading, going to PTA meetings, and the next, she was being sentenced to 20 years in prison!
What drove her to commit her crime? Why couldn’t she stop on her own? What impact did this have on her family?
After serving over a decade in a Texas penitentiary, Marci started sharing her experiences on TikTok! She answers questions about what life was really like behind bars and has become an outspoken activist and advocate for those still fighting against a prison system that is horribly flawed and often cruel.
Marci shares her story in a way that is entertaining, sometimes heartbreaking and always honest.
** Guest Links **
🔗 Linktree - https://linktr.ee/marcimarie114
🔗 TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@marcimarie114
🔗 YouTube - @marcimarie114
🔗 Lioness Justice Impacted Women's Alliance - https://www.lionessjiwa.org
🔗 Statewide Leadership Council - https://www.texascjc.org/statewide-leadership-council
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Jan 05, 202358:40

Laugh Your Heart Out with Carla Collins: The Comedy Powerhouse!
Laugh Your Heart Out with Carla Collins: The Comedy Powerhouse!
Meet Carla Collins!
Carla Collins is an award-winning comedian, actress, television and radio host and was named “Comedian of the Year” by the Southern California Motion Picture Council. In December 2023, she won an LA Film Award for Best Supporting Actress and has appeared in many movies and television shows in both the US and Canada and performs comedy in clubs, theatres and festivals all over North America.
She is the creator of Chuckle and Chill: Comedic Meditation, a revolutionary new concept where after delivering thirty minutes of her stand-up comedy Collins leads the audience through an authentic, relaxing guided meditation. An instant hit, her comedic meditation has already been featured on NBC’s California Live, CP24 News, SiriusXM Radio, CBC’s Metro Morning and in The Eden Magazine and LA’s Splash Magazine. Collins is the bestselling author of Angels, Vampires and Douche Bags.
Her hilarious comedy can be heard around the world on various Sirius XM stations, Spotify, iHeartRadio, TIDAL and Pandora. You can also hear her melodic voice on several commercials and cartoons. Carla has five comedy albums currently available on iTunes: Mobius Stripper, The Best of the Worst of Carla Collins, Recovering Nudist, PandEPIC! and the newly released Reverse Mortgage Cowgirl.
A fierce animal lover, Ms. Collins has been involved with the SPCA and Humane Society for years and is an ambassador for World Animal Protection. She resides in Los Angeles, California and is currently searching for her next rescue animal(s). Being an emotional support cougar herself, Carla is allowed on most planes and in most restaurants.
** Guest Links **
🔗 Website: https://www.carlacollins.com
🔗 IG: @CarlaCollinsComedy
🔗 YouTube: @CarlaCollinsComedy
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Dec 29, 202240:32

Bonus: From Pre-school to Pole Dancing
Bonus: From Pre-school to Pole Dancing
How does one go from teaching pre-schoolers how to spell their names to teaching adults how to swing around a pole?
After years of working as an early childhood educator, and dealing with the postpartum blahs, Jane needed some spice in her life. A friend suggested they take a pole dancing class. She fully admits to walking into her first class feeling a little self-righteous and judgemental about the entire concept of pole dancing and then how surprised she was to immediately fall in love with it! Who knew that she’d ended up quitting her job, opening her own studio and becoming a two- time Canadian Pole Dancing Masters Champion? But what did people think? Tune in to find out!
Jane Wilson has taught over 10,000 people to feel strong, sexy and confident through pole dancing and is the author of “The Up To No Good Club: Defining A Life With Strength & Swagger”She has spent over a decade teaching pole, fitness, heels, and chair dancing classes while encouraging women to flip their hair, bang their heels, and love their curves. Featured in Canadian Living and on CityLine.
** Guest Links **
🔗 The Up to No Good Club - https://www.theuptonogoodclub.com/
🔗 IG - https://www.instagram.com/beginnerpoledancing/
🔗 IG - https://www.instagram.com/thejanewilson
🔗 YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCyQr4-XjMokQw1ncHCZZCvA
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Dec 26, 202215:27

"Chief Food Guy" Matthew Gray Shares His Tips for Creating a Life Worth Devouring
"Chief Food Guy" Matthew Gray Shares His Tips for Creating a Life Worth Devouring
Matthew’s life has been filled with food, fun and fabulousness ever since the age of 17 when he accepted an offer to join The Eagles on their Hotel California tour and got a taste of the rockstar life. His skills were not on the stage, but in the kitchen, and his talent as a chef led to gigs with bands like Pink Floyd and Fleetwood Mac. His creativity resulted in a bunch of unusual experiences with celebrities, like the time he nearly burnt down the home of a major movie star! He founded several unique businesses, including one that had him serving dinner to naked Hollywood A-listers!
Matthew also tells me which famous actor was the nicest. (Hint: He’s Canadian)
This was a really FUN conversation about what life can look like when you let the things that bring you the most joy lead the you in the wildest directions.
Hawaii Food Tours: www.hawaiifoodtours.com
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Dec 22, 202245:19

Behind The Music With Toronto's Rebellious Rocker, Mr. Slade
Behind The Music With Toronto's Rebellious Rocker, Mr. Slade
Ever wondered what it's like to be a rebellious rocker in Toronto?
In this exclusive interview, Mr. Slade takes us on a behind-the-scenes look at his life as a musician and how he's shaking up the Toronto music scene. You won't want to miss this!
With music that is described as having elements of Heavy Metal, 80’s Metal, Electro, Disco and Pop Punk, Mr.Slade has created a sound that is completely his own.
“I love the aggressiveness of Metal and I love the sexiness of Dance music and Disco. I wanted to create something that was the combination of both of those things”.
Chris’s music is an extension of his beliefs, both political and spiritual. It’s a soundtrack for his personal rebellion against society and its rules. As a queer. south Asian musician, He wants to prove that labels are for soup cans and not people.
** Guest Links **
🔗 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/2TqQ9VJggVOUwAGXYt19QL?si=gFokhOjhR2ikDDxAAq_rDw
🔗 IG: https://www.instagram.com/mrslade1977/
🔗 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjG3PJcXyS9ibNKgGnNd9Xw
🔗 Links: https://smarturl.it/ni4ild
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Dec 18, 202222:19

Gender Sensei Mac McGregor
Gender Sensei Mac McGregor
MAC MCGREGOR, “The Gender Sensei” is the Co-Founder and Executive Director of “Positive Masculinity”, a nonprofit that works to dismantle toxic masculinity and create a healthier model of masculinity for all people.
From being the top female athlete on the US Marshal Arts Fighting Team, to transitioning into his authentic self and becoming the first transgender person to run for office in Washington state, Mac is creating a world where people can feel supported in being their true selves.
** Guest Links **
🔗 Website: https://macsmcgregor.com/
🔗 Positive Masculinity: https://www.positivemasculinitynow.org/
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Dec 15, 202241:43

Sex over 50 without limitations - Susan “The Maven” Jarvis
Sex over 50 without limitations - Susan “The Maven” Jarvis
Meet Susan “The Maven” Jarvis
This is a SPICY One! 🌶️ 🌶️ 🌶️
If you’re shy, you might want to grab some pearls to clutch while watching/listening!
This sex over 50 episode is definitely NSFW 😳
After experiencing her own sexual reawakening in her 50s, Susan made it her personal and professional mission to encourage people, especially women over 50, to explore their sexuality to the fullest capacity.
Susan’s newfound zest for sexual adventure lead her to a deeper connection with herself and her partner. Releasing old insecurities and shame have resulted in a liberation she is intent on sharing with others.
Susan provides access to high-quality, premium pleasure products via her online sexual health boutique, The Spicy Boudoir. She also hosts the podcast. “The Maven, Private Diaries”.
📚 Chapters 📚
00:00 Introduction
00:53 Meet Susan "The Maven" Jarvis
02:05 No expiration dates
03:46 Mature women and sex
06:47 Sexual re-awakenings
12:10 Other forms of sexual pleasure
12:55 Swinging and group sex
14:56 Sexuality
17:45 Myths busted
18:23 Men over 50
19:30 Women over 50
22:39 Kink 101
23:42 Managing libido
25:45 Toys
26:56 Shame and body image
29:42 DIY
31:26 Mindfulness and self-care
35:19 Mental health
37:48 The Spicy Boudoir
40:14 Movie: "How to Please a Woman"
43:11 Closing
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🔗 The Spicy Boudoir - https://www.thespicyboudoir.com
🔗 The Maven, Private Diaries Podcast - https://anchor.fm/the-maven
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Dec 08, 202245:10

Mastering “Modern Flirting” for Men with Jared "Psych" Laurence
Mastering “Modern Flirting” for Men with Jared "Psych" Laurence
Jared "Psych" Laurence is an international motivational speaker, CEO of Modern Flirting, author of “How To Meet Your Dream Girl Tonight” and “The Psychology Of Modern Flirting”. In the last 15 years, he’s been globally recognized as a Lifestyle Consultant and Dating Mentor.
During that time Jared has been voted the best new dating mentor, received many awards from leaders in his industry, taught over 1,000 students around the world, and is credited with preventing 17 suicides and creating over 50 marriages.
Using classically trained counseling and innovative techniques, he has helped many clients. This includes multi-millionaire entrepreneurs, programmers, marketing gurus, but also struggling college students.
No stranger to helping those in distress, after volunteering at a suicide and crisis hotline center, he found his calling in coaching and mentorship.
Modern Flirting
https://www.modernflirting.com
The Psychology of Modern Flirting: 15 Steps To Becoming The Modern Man Than Women Love
https://www.amazon.com/Psychology-Modern-Flirting-Steps-Becoming/dp/1797429841
How To Meet Your Dream Girl Tonight
https://www.amazon.com/Meet-Your-Dream-Girl-Tonight/dp/1797493043
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Dec 01, 202201:06:20

Willow, "The Pesky Prostitute" Reveals the Truth About Sex Work
Willow, "The Pesky Prostitute" Reveals the Truth About Sex Work
Fighting a system that’s screwing sex workers out of the protection they deserve.
Willow is a self described Canadian Whore who is passionate about sex, sex work, sex workers' rights and dismantling the patriarchy.
She’s an outspoken activist advocating for the full decriminalization of sex work, and one of the funniest people I follow on Twitter.
Willow shares why she’s unashamed and unapologetic about her career in the sex industry and how dangerous it is when lawmakers make decisions based on feelings instead of facts.
Follow Willow here: @aubriepesky
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Nov 24, 202201:07:08

Bobby Waldner: The Glitter Dad - Adoption, gay parenting, and the art of “mothering”
Bobby Waldner: The Glitter Dad - Adoption, gay parenting, and the art of “mothering”
Bobby Waldner, better known as ‘The Glitter Dad’ from Tiktok. Bobby is the fabulous dad extraordinaire to his two equally awesome kids, Michael 15, and Audrie 10. Bobby and his husband James adopted the sibling pair from foster care and they have been a family for six years. Bobby is not only a dad, but a writer and yoga teacher.
TikTok: The Glitter Dad
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Nov 17, 202242:38

Joshua Shea - Got Porn?
Joshua Shea - Got Porn?
GOT PORN?
Whether we want to admit it or not, a LOT of people are watching porn. In fact, research shows that more people are watching porn than engaging in actual sex.
Why is that?
What does that have to do with the rising number of men in their early twenties experiencing erectile dysfunction?
What’s the difference between enjoying porn and being addicted to it?
Tune in to today’s episode with special guest and porn addiction expert, Josh Shea.
Joshua Shea is a pornography addiction expert, certified betrayal trauma coach, therapeutic disclosure specialist and the author of four books about pornography addiction.
Prior to admitting his 24-year addiction to pornography in 2014, Joshua was a prominent magazine publisher, award-winning journalist, film festival founder and politician in central Maine.
In 2017, Joshua launched PAddictRecovery.com. He is a TEDx Talk speaker and has developed and presents a porn addiction educational presentation series for colleges, churches, libraries and other groups. Sober since April 2014, Joshua still lives in Central Maine with his wife and two children.
http://www.paddictrecovery.com/
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Nov 10, 202255:26

Joshua Shea on the ins and outs of porn addiction
Joshua Shea on the ins and outs of porn addiction
What’s the difference between enjoying porn and being addicted to it?
Tomorrow, Tune in to episode 10 of How to Ruin Your Own Reputation with special guest and porn addiction expert, Josh Shea.
Joshua Shea is a pornography addiction expert, certified betrayal trauma coach, therapeutic disclosure specialist and the author of four books about pornography addiction.
Nov 09, 202200:40

“Marcus and Lilly” - Hosts of the “Secrets of a Sugar Daddy” Podcast
“Marcus and Lilly” - Hosts of the “Secrets of a Sugar Daddy” Podcast
“Marcus and Lilly”, hosts of the “Secrets of a Sugar Daddy” podcast, share true stories from a Sugar Daddy and his Sugar Baby.
What really goes on in sugar daddy/baby relationships?
Are sugar babies glorified escorts?
What’s a Splenda Daddy?
These questions and more are answered this week when we talk to the host and co-host of the #1 Sugar dating podcast in the world.
Find out why more and more people are ditching traditional dating sites for these “sweeter” ones.
Follow our guests here for more information: www.secretsofasugardaddy.com
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Nov 03, 202201:10:29

Julie Lawrence - From Hitting Rock Bottom to Shattering Glass Ceilings
Julie Lawrence - From Hitting Rock Bottom to Shattering Glass Ceilings
Imagine going from being a superstar in the advertising industry to near homelessness, battling drug and alcohol addiction following a destructive office relationship. Now imagine surviving multiple life-threatening situations and regaining control of your health and career only to battle new demons in the form of soul-crushing misogyny in the workplace.
Julie Lawrence had fought some pretty tough obstacles in her life and was not expecting her new position as an editor of a woman’s magazine to be added to the list. She quickly found out how little respect is given to the only woman in a company run by men.
Throughout today’s episode, Julie describes the blatant sexism she endured and how it inspired her to quit her job and create DEFY Magazine.
DEFY Magazine is for women, written by women, and will tackle the issues we want and need to be discussing.
Dare to Defy with Julie Lawrence
DEFY Magazine
www.defymagazine.ca
Instagram
http://www.instagram.com/editorjulesl
http://www.instagram.com/defymagazine
Oct 27, 202248:40

How to Ruin Your Own Reputation: Misogyny in the Workplace
How to Ruin Your Own Reputation: Misogyny in the Workplace
We asked some viewers to share their experiences with misogyny in the workplace. Listen to what they had to say, check out our next episode on Thursday!
Oct 25, 202200:49

Gayle Lynn - Opening the door to an open relationship
Gayle Lynn - Opening the door to an open relationship
What would you do if your partner came to you one day and told you they wanted to have sex with someone else?
That was the decision my guest today faced when her husband of over 30 years told her he wanted to open up their marriage.
Gayle Lynn shares with us the journey of sexual reawakening she experienced with her partner and within herself. As a relationship coach, she’s using her experiences to help other couples interested in exploring non-monogamy. She helps to navigate family and cultural beliefs, communication pitfalls, processing emotions and more. Her desire is that her clients will be able to evolve their relationships into what they desire and achieve inner peace.
Contact Gayle here: https://linktr.ee/relationshipsevolving
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Oct 20, 202251:37

Matt & Laura - Life is Better Naked
Matt & Laura - Life is Better Naked
Naked when possible. Clothed when practical,” is how Matt and Laura would describe their perfect existence. As nudists/naturists, they believe their lifestyle has boosted their self-confidence, massively improved their body image and has introduced them to a community of people who allow them to be themselves without fear of judgement. No pretense, no shame, no clothes. Why is life better naked? Listen here and find out.
Matt and Laura can be found on Instagram at @topnotch_nudists
Find Sara Dee Hardy on Twitter at @bodyimageday or on Instagram at @bodyimagedayatanudelake
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Oct 13, 202242:14

Joe Pardavila - From pissing off Taylor Swift to charming Jennifer Aniston
Joe Pardavila - From pissing off Taylor Swift to charming Jennifer Aniston
What do Jon Bon Jovi, Jennifer Aniston, Mark Wahlberg and a slew of other celebrities all have in common? They’ve all been interviewed by today’s guest, Joe Pardavila. Joe also managed to tick off Taylor Swift without even dating her! In his book, “Good Listen”, Joe shares the lessons he’s learned from his decades' worth of experiences (both good and not-so-good) chatting with some of your favourite, and maybe, not-so-favourite celebs. Joe and I have a really fun, high-energy conversation, during which I realize that I may have been completely manipulated by Hugh Grant!
Great info. Great stories. Come listen!
JOE PARDAVILA has produced over ten thousand hours of audio content over the course of his career in podcasting and terrestrial radio. Joe was a radio personality and producer on the legendary New York City radio station, 95.5 PLJ, where he was part of the iconic “Scott & Todd in the Morning”. He studied sketch and improv comedy at the Upright Citizens Brigade and was a founding member and actor in the New York-based sketch comedy group, Clip Show. The group performed at the Upright Citizens Brigade Theater and the People’s Improv Theater, and their video sketches were featured on Funny or Die and the Huffington Post. He is the codirector, writer, and producer of the award-winning horror satire, “The Witches of Bushwick”. Currently, he serves as the director of podcasts for Advantage Media Group | Forbes Books
Good Listen: Creating Memorable Conversations In Business And Life
https://www.amazon.com/Good-Listen-Creating-Memorable-Conversations/dp/1642253847/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=Good+Listen&qid=1664201852&sr=8-1
Twitter @joepardavila
https://twitter.com/joepardavila
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Oct 06, 202201:02:06

Pharrell Shaymar “The Trans Technician” - Fighting for Equity in Combat Sports
Pharrell Shaymar “The Trans Technician” - Fighting for Equity in Combat Sports
Meet Pharrell A.K.A the Trans Tech, A.K.A. The Pad Tech
His vision is to enable equity in combat sports. He’s doing this through advocacy, educational videos and breaking down barriers and stereo types of trans people in combat sports.
His message as a trans man:
”I will never become a biological male. But I am a gentleman.”
@the_trans_technician
Sep 29, 202249:04

Master Joshua and his Sex Slave Karma
Master Joshua and his Sex Slave Karma
About Master Joshua and sex-slave Karma:
Master Joshua is a professional Dominant (a male Dominatrix) and a Non-Traditional Sexual Behaviors consultant. He helps people resolve the shame surrounding taboo sexual desires and identities. Karma Said, His sex slave, is a kink reporter, publisher, and a happily married (to another man!) mother of two. She's the author of "Surviving Master Joshua: The BDSM Memoir Of An Unfaithful Wife" (Carnal Culture, April 2022). Born of lies and betrayal, ultimately their story is one of uplifting personal transformations. It also showcases the lifestyle of one of the most sensationalized and misunderstood factions of LGBTQA+.
Links:
Surviving Master Joshua: The BDSM Memoir Of An Unfaithful Wife
https://www.amazon.com/Surviving-Master-Joshua-Memoir-Unfaithful-ebook/dp/B09SQBVL1Z?ref=d6k_applink_bb_dls&dplnkId=5ce2b559-d944-41ec-9712-e1c814891383
https://survivingmasterjoshua.com/
https://carnalculturepublishing.com/
Master Joshua:
https://masterjoshua.com/
https://kinkcollective.net/
https://ssdce.org/
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Sep 22, 202254:35

Kai Hibbard - The Reality of Reality TV
Kai Hibbard - The Reality of Reality TV
What do TRUTH and REALITY have to do with TV?
As it turns out, even less than you’d think.
On today’s episode, I chat with Kai Hibbard, runner up on season 3 of reality game show “The Biggest Loser”. Kai was first cast into the spotlight through her participation and subsequent denunciation of the weight loss show. She speaks candidly of the abuse the contestants endured behind the scenes, and the damage it did to her health. After her experience on the show, Kai decided that she no longer wanted to be part of the problem and decided to become part of the solution. This decision led to interviews with media outlets like: Time magazine, Good Morning America, ABC and CBS NEWS, People Magazine, US Weekly magazine, Inside Edition, Access Hollywood, TMZ and several others. Her honesty was met with intense anger from viewers who accused her of being selfish and hypocritical and led to daily online threats for several years. Her experience fuelled her desire to fight society’s fat phobia and the dangers of diet culture. She has since become a licensed social worker counselling clients dealing with a variety of struggles.
Kai’s outspoken fearlessness combined with her true tales from TVland make this an episode you don’t want to miss!
Want more? Do yourself a favour and head over to Amazon and order her book!
Losing It: A Fictional Reimagining of my Time on Weight Loss Reality TV: Hibbard, Kai: 9780578415529: Amazon.com: Books
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Sep 15, 202241:52

Coming Up on How to Ruin Your Own Reputation
Coming Up on How to Ruin Your Own Reputation
For the risk takers, rule breakers and unconventional thinkers who aren’t afraid to shake up the status quo in order to live their lives in their own unique ways.
For most of my life I kept secrets hidden from everyone I knew. These secrets carried a heavy weight of shame and guilt that kept me from living my life with the freedom and joy I deserved. A couple of years ago, I decided to write my memoir, expose all of my secrets, and risk losing friends, family and job opportunities.
Here’s the best part: As soon as my book was published and the truth was out, I felt FREE!
Instead of people judging me negatively, they appreciated it and respected my authenticity and fearlessness. My experiences have led to life choices many people don’t understand and I’m OK with that.
My guests are unapologetically living lives that are completely different from what was expected of them. It could be in the form of a unique occupation, a non-traditional lifestyle, or whatever makes some people shake their heads in disapproval. We discuss the freedom that comes from living honestly and without concern about what other people think.
If a fun and feisty conversation excites you, let’s chat!
Sep 15, 202202:14

Trailer
Trailer
For the risk takers, rule breakers and unconventional thinkers who aren’t afraid to shake up the status quo in order to live their lives in their own unique ways.
For most of my life I kept secrets hidden from everyone I knew. These secrets carried a heavy weight of shame and guilt that kept me from living my life with the freedom and joy I deserved. A couple of years ago, I decided to write my memoir, expose all of my secrets, and risk losing friends, family and job opportunities.
Here’s the best part: As soon as my book was published and the truth was out, I felt FREE!
Instead of people judging me negatively, they appreciated it and respected my authenticity and fearlessness. My experiences have led to life choices many people don’t understand and I’m OK with that.
My guests are unapologetically living lives that are completely different from what was expected of them. It could be in the form of a unique occupation, a non-traditional lifestyle, or whatever makes some people shake their heads in disapproval. We discuss the freedom that comes from living honestly and without concern about what other people think.
If a fun and feisty conversation excites you, let’s chat!
Aug 31, 202201:07