The Forgotten Adoption Option Podcast
By Marcy Bursac
Adoptive mom, two-time author, and app designer Marcy Bursac invites you to heartfelt conversations about foster care adoption - the most affordable way to adopt with a financial cost of $0-$2,500.
Season 3 monthly episodes cover strategies for thriving as an adoptive family. Learn HOW to adopt waiting children in Season 2 and hear personal stories of adoptive parents and adopted children in Season 1.
To learn more about the foster care adoption process and get a copy of The Forgotten Adoption Option in paperback, ebook or audiobook, visit: forgottenadoptionoption.com.
Season 3 monthly episodes cover strategies for thriving as an adoptive family. Learn HOW to adopt waiting children in Season 2 and hear personal stories of adoptive parents and adopted children in Season 1.
To learn more about the foster care adoption process and get a copy of The Forgotten Adoption Option in paperback, ebook or audiobook, visit: forgottenadoptionoption.com.
The Forgotten Adoption Option PodcastMay 09, 2023
00:00
35:24
a practical strategy for parenting adopted children - Trust-Based Relational Intervention® (TBRI®)
Meet adoptive mom Kathy Searle. Kathy is also the vice president of Utah programs for Raise the Future.
May 09, 202335:24
how Mississippi is increasing their pace of adoptions from foster care
Andrea Sanders has been the Commissioner of the Mississippi Department of Child Protection Services since November 2020. She says, "Every day I throw on my CAPE ([which is an acronym for her] core values of Compassion, Accountability, Professionalism, and Excellence) and I challenge my staff to do the same. Our work is too important to not give it our all each and every day. It is truly a new day at MDCPS, and I implore my fellow professionals and all Mississippians to lock arms with us to protect our children by investing in Mississippi families.
Apr 04, 202328:40
modernizing child welfare technology
Meet Matthew Wollack, Vice President of Strategic Development at Wolverine Human Services and President & CEO of eNoble.
Mar 07, 202343:52
how to stay committed to children in the foster care system regardless of the outcome
Meet adoptive mom of a sibling pair - Kara.
You'll learn about how she handled the adventure and uncertainties of the foster care system.
You'll learn about how she handled the adventure and uncertainties of the foster care system.
Feb 07, 202330:32
current adoption trends according to data and research
Meet Ryan Hanlon the President & CEO for the National Council For Adoption.
Dive deeper into the research report Ryan discusses: adoptioncouncil.org/profiles
Need continuing education as an adoption professional, consider the NCFA Conference - adoptioncouncil.org/ncfa-conference.
Jan 10, 202333:28
leveraging technology to connect forever families to waiting children
Meet Thea Ramirez, the founder and Amy Simpson, the director of programs for Adoption-Share.
Dec 06, 202229:16
HOW to write a children's book about foster care adoption
Meet Adam Gunn the co-founder of Seventh Avenue Creative and the incredibly talented illustrator of my new children's book Mallory Cheatham.
Nov 08, 202227:56
HOW to make a make a child in foster care comfortable in your home
Rob experienced the foster care system as a child and then, as an adult, started a nonprofit called Comfort Cases which assembles care packs for children in foster care. To date, his organization has impacted over 185,000 children in the foster care system. Rob has adopted 5 children through the foster care system and is the author of his memoir called A Forever Family: Fostering One Child at a Time.
Oct 06, 202228:22
HOW to use the kitchen to connect with children who have been in foster care
Meet Chef Kibby - biological, foster, and adoptive dad. During the pandemic he pivoted from a catering business to helping foster and adoptive parents connect with their children through the shared act of cooking and eating together.
Sep 13, 202235:47
HOW to understand the unmet needs of children in foster care
Meet Shari Shink, child welfare advocate. She spent 33 years as a lawyer, founded the Rocky Mountain Children's Law Center (the first non-profit law firm for abused and neglected children), and most recently, founded Cobbled Streets, a nonprofit that goes 'upstream' to serve younger foster children, promoting their health, growth, and development and preventing them from emancipating from the foster care system to the streets and homelessness.
Aug 09, 202243:06
HOW to share your family's foster care adoption story
Meet Ancil Lea, adoptive dad & business owner, who peaked the hearts of almost 8 million adults through a simple LinkedIn post.
Jul 12, 202243:07
HOW to verbalize and process fears associated with adopting children in foster care
Meet Joy Gilraine, adoptive mom and parenting coach. In this episode, Joy shares practical ways for current and prospective adoptive families to own their foster care adoption fears and explore them without judgement.
Jun 07, 202237:37
HOW to find and become an adoption-friendly workplace
Rita Soronen, President & CEO of the Dave Thomas Foundation for Adoption, returns to share about the rewards and impact of being an Adoption-Friendly Workplace.
May 02, 202229:11
HOW to see professional photographs and bios of children waiting to be adopted through foster care
Matthew Straeb co-founded the Heart Gallery of America. In this episode you'll learn HOW to see professional photographs and bios of children waiting to be adopted through foster care so that you can consider adopting these children and also share this resource with those you know who are interested in adoption.
Apr 05, 202232:58
HOW you can obtain required training hours without having to go in-person to a class
Meet Liz Brooks Wilburn, Co-Director of Foster Parent College. Noticing the need for convenient high-quality training, Northwest Media Inc. created FosterParentCollege.com to provide online, on-demand, engaging training for current and future foster parents.
Mar 08, 202232:12
HOW to know you're ready to adopt
Lynn Stacy shares how she knew she was ready to adopt and what social service agencies are looking for in adoptive families.
Feb 08, 202237:11
HOW to spot a future adoptive parent
Denise Goodman has cracked the code on recruiting foster and adoptive parents. Are you a future adoptive parent? Find out how to know.
Jan 04, 202240:25
HOW to help waiting children find YOU
Jennifer Jacobs & Jessica Stern developed a software platform that uses "family mapping" technology to find forever families for waiting children. Is your data up-to-date and in the right places? Get the scoop on how online data is used to map a child's family and friend tree and could lead to them finding a permanent family.
Learn more about the tools Jennifer and Jessica are building to help children in foster care at: www.connectourkids.org
Dec 17, 202142:48
Meet Travis & Anna - Adoptive Parents
Travis and Anna adopted a daughter through foster care and then had biological children.
Nov 05, 202142:31
Meet Sandra Flach - Adoptive Mom & Author
Sandra is the author of Orphans No More, co-founder and president of Justice for Orphans, and mom of 8 total children, 5 of which are adopted.
Dive deeper into fetal alcohol spectrum disorder using Sandra's resources at: www.justicefororphansny.org/new-resources.
Dive deeper into fetal alcohol spectrum disorder using Sandra's resources at: www.justicefororphansny.org/new-resources.
Oct 22, 202141:39
Meet Ben & Emily: Soon-To-Be Adoptive Parents
Ben and Emily are in the process of getting licensed to adopt through foster care! Get a peek into what the process is like.
Oct 08, 202141:04
Q&A with Nathan & Marcy
My husband and I answer your questions about the foster care adoption process from readers of my book The Forgotten Adoption Option and The Forgotten Adoption Option Community on Facebook.
Sep 24, 202130:41
Meet Tanya - Adoptive Mom of a Sibling Pair
My husband and I provided respite care for Tanya's boys who she ended up adopting.
Sep 09, 202137:22
Meet Melody - Foster Youth
Melody speaks of her personal journey navigating life from the inside of foster care. She was in foster care for 8 years but never adopted.
Aug 27, 202136:03
Meet Mary - Adopted Child
Mary was adopted through foster care as an infant.
Aug 13, 202134:05
Meet Dalton - Adopted at Age 6
Dalton shares his personal story about being in foster care and then adopted.
Jul 30, 202133:24
Meet Pam - Adoptive Mom (of a sibling group of 7!)
Pam and her husband raised 5 biological children and then adopted a sibling group of 7 additional children.
Jul 16, 202140:36
Meet CJ - Foster Child & Author
CJ is the author of "Obliterating the Odds". She was in foster care and was never adopted although she lived in 35 homes before age 17. Listen to hear her journey of going from tragedy to triumph.
Jun 30, 202141:14
Meet Amber - Adoptive Mom (of a sibling pair!)
Amber is in Texas and is the adoptive mom of a sibling pair. She also gifts my book The Forgotten Adoption Option to potential adoptive families in her area. Get ideas and insights about foster care adoption in this episode.
Jun 10, 202126:19
Meet Sherry Hursey - Creator, Co-Writer and Star of “Lilly’s Light: The Movie
By celebrating current and retired foster parents and spreading awareness about the need for more foster families, Marcy and Sherry hope to inspire prospective foster parents to take the next steps in caring for children in need. Sherry Hursey (Lilly) is an award-winning actress, vocalist, writer and producer whose face and voice are very familiar to television, radio and film audiences worldwide.
Most recognized as Ilene from the hit series HOME IMPROVEMENT and Kirsten Dunst’s mother in the Universal blockbuster BRING IT ON, Sherry has an extensive list of credits from stage to screen. Spreading her wings and following the call of her spirit, Sherry wrote, produced and starred in the uplifting musical pilot LILLY’S LIGHT, which aired on PBS and was the winner of the KIDS FIRST BEST AWARD! Following this, she founded Lilly’s Fostering Hearts (lillysfosteringhearts.org), a non-profit org advocating for displaced and foster youth. This led her to producing PSAs and interstitials for public TV. Sherry is now the co-owner of Turning On the Light Entertainment (TOtLEntertainment.com), for which her and her husband Rick Cowling’s hearts and talents are being fully expressed by producing inspiring and uplifting, positive music and media.
“Lilly’s Light: The Movie” is currently available for purchase or rental on platforms like Amazon, iTunes, and YouTube.
May 28, 202138:39
Meet Nathan - Foster Dad (for 16 years!) to Teens and Young Adults
Nathan shares about his experience being family to teens and young adults.
He has been a foster parent for 16 years.
He has been a foster parent for 16 years.
May 18, 202134:20
Meet Big Brother & Little Sister - My Adopted Sibling Pair
A special Mother's Day episode with my children - Big Brother & Little Sister.
May 07, 202133:21
Meet Natalie - Adoptive Mom (who adopted her first 2 placements!)
For Natalie and her husband, adoption was their Plan A. She shares lessons learned and emotions experienced.
Apr 27, 202123:01
Meet Robin & Dave - Adoptive Parents (of older boys!)
Meet Robin & Dave. A couple who has opened their homes, changed family trees, and started a nonprofit to teach other families how to do that same.
Apr 13, 202134:08
Meet Alice - Adoptive Mom (and one of my mentors!)
Alice is a decade-long foster and adoptive mom. Listen as she shares insights on parenting children as a single mom.
Mar 30, 202128:40
Meet Grandpa Bob - Adoptive Grandparent (and my dad!)
Adoption impacts immediate and extended family. I'm excited to introduce you to my dad who shares his experience with my family's foster care adoption journey.
Mar 09, 202122:13
Meet Rita Soronen - Foster Care Adoption Advocate
Learn about the opportunity to adopt and advocate for children through the foster care system from Rita Soronen, President & CEO of the Dave Thomas Foundation for Adoption.
Feb 16, 202136:42
Meet Hunter - An Adopted Child (who is now an adult!)
Hunter shares his personal story of being in foster care for 6 years and then being adopted by a family that spent many of those years with him.
Feb 02, 202127:19
Meet Jane - Adoptive Mom (when her son was 6-years-old!)
Jane is a caring coworker who adopted a son when he was 6-years-old. She didn’t feel finished parenting after raising three biological children.
Hear how “love can be a noun, a verb, and a decision” when it comes to foster care adoption.
Hear how “love can be a noun, a verb, and a decision” when it comes to foster care adoption.
Jan 18, 202118:60
Meet Robin - Adoptive Mom (of a teenager!)
"It is the best thing and the hardest thing she's ever done."
Robin of Exodus Fitness Retreats shares how she went from "mentor" to "mother" overnight.
Robin of Exodus Fitness Retreats shares how she went from "mentor" to "mother" overnight.
Jan 06, 202130:58
Meet Jennifer - Adoptive Mom (and fellow author!)
This episode is about a 3 month-old baby girl who met her forever family on Christmas Eve.
Adoptive Mom, Jennifer Elwood is the Author of Counting Up to Christmas: 24 Gifts from the Gospel of Luke. Her book is available in full-color paperback and Kindle formats. We met through the FlourishWriters Community.
To learn more on becoming a Respite Provider Google "foster carerespite provider + [your city & state]". For example, here is information on becoming a Foster Care Respite Provider in Missouri. I found this information by Googling "foster care respite provider st louis missouri".
Dec 17, 202026:49
Meet Nathan - Adoptive Dad (who also happens to be my husband!)
This has the feeling of a private conversation in our home. Learn from an adoptive dad who went from zero to two kids overnight. Learn common reservations for pursuing adoption and get a peek inside the real-life journey of the foster care adoption process.
Dec 04, 202023:41