
Lit with Melinda Hill
By melinda hill

Lit with Melinda HillFeb 28, 2023

Caroline Portu: Protect Your Voice

Dennis Staroselsky: Own Your Power

5 Ways to Be There For a Friend Who Is Having Marriage Troubles
We’ve all been there: You’re out for girls’ night and one of your friends is complaining about her husband. Or, worse, she’s on the phone with you describing how her marriage is currently in a freefall and begging you for some advice. (...listen for more!)
As mentioned in the episode:
5 Ways to Be There For a Friend Who Is Having Marriage Troubles (HelloGiggles)
L.A. Affairs: I went on a date with my dead ex-boyfriend (Los Angeles Times)
Host & executive producer: Melinda Hill.
Producer & editor: Todd Donald.
Music by The Polarity & Skipp Whitman.
Visit MelindaHill.com and follow Melinda on Facebook, Instagram, IMDb, Twitter, YouTube & Yelp

I went on a date with my dead ex-boyfriend
This is a very special episode. It is near and dear to my heart. Have you ever wanted to have one last chance to say things to a deceased loved one? What would you say if you had that chance, if you could get all your unanswered questions answered? What would it look and feel like to have closure, forgiveness and peace with someone you loved, but it ended weirdly or badly or abubtly or in some other way you didn’t like? How would those feelings show up in other places in your life for you? How would you show up differently in your life if you had that closure, that peace if unsaid things were said?
This episode is about what happened when I had the opportunity to get closure and peace. On Halloween 2021, the L.A. Times published my story, titled “I went on a date with my dead ex-boyfriend”. This podcast episode today is very special to me because it’s the actual session with a psychic medium that I had which inspired my true story published in the L.A. Times, the behind the scenes of me re-connecting with my deceased ex.
As mentioned in the episode:
L.A. Affairs: I went on a date with my dead ex-boyfriend (Los Angeles Times)
Medium Lisa (Psychic Medium)
Host & executive producer: Melinda Hill. Producer & editor: Todd Donald. Music by The Polarity & Skipp Whitman. Visit MelindaHill.com and follow Melinda on Facebook, Instagram, IMDb, Twitter, YouTube & Yelp

I Gamified the Dating Apps with This Spreadsheet Method
On this episode, we start things off with 'Texts fm My Friends' and then I'll share with you the special spreadsheet method that I personally used to gamify the dating apps. Also included: Packing Essentials for YOUR Self-Partnered Honeymoon (see previous episode).
As mentioned in the episode:
114cm Invisible Selfie Stick (photos)
Aviator Nation: 5 stripe collection, 5 stripe hoodie - ocean 2 (outfit)
Aviator Nation: Cashmere (outfit)
Macbook Air (laptop)
Louis Vuitton Rolling Luggage & Carryall (luggage)
Gucci Travel Bags & Ophelia Medium Tote (luggage)
Chocolate Sun: Organic Glow Med. Tanning Cream (self tanner)
bareMinerals: Complexion Rescue Tinted Moisturizer with Hyaluronic Acid & Mineral SPF 30 (easy make-up)
Sephora: Drunk Elephant Skincare sets (skincare)
Green Wedding Shoes: 25 Best Boho Wedding Dresses for 2023 (wedding dress)
Mac Cosmetics: Lipglass (lip gloss)
Dolce & Gabbana Leopard-print one-piece swimsuit with plunging neckline (swimsuit)
Host & executive producer: Melinda Hill. Producer & editor: Todd Donald. Music by The Polarity & Skipp Whitman. Visit MelindaHill.com and follow Melinda on Facebook, Instagram, IMDb, Twitter, YouTube & Yelp

My Self-Partnered Honeymoon Accidentally Manifested My Fiancé
So this episode is about the concept of a self-partnered honeymoon, how I came up with it, why I did it and my whole experience and journey with it. It's really just about ultimately not waiting on a partner or any other external circumstance in order to live your best life, now. I hope you enjoy it!
As mentioned in the episode:
Melinda Hill's Self-Partnered Honeymoon : YouTube video
Hotel Nômade Tulum | Luxury Tents, Villas & Wellness
Mia Selina : BeachClub & Restaurant
Host & executive producer: Melinda Hill. Producer & editor: Todd Donald. Music by The Polarity & Skipp Whitman. Visit MelindaHill.com and follow Melinda on Facebook, Instagram, IMDb, Twitter, YouTube & Yelp. Please subscribe to, rate & review and share this podcast!

My Year of Dicks w/ Pamela Ribon & Sara Gunnarsdóttir
Pamela Ribon explains how she parlayed her year of dating dicks into a memoir and a spot on the Oscar short list while her director Sara Gunnarsdóttir visits from Iceland. Melinda aspires to delegation and automation outlined in "Breaking the Good Girl Myth" and "the Four Hour Work Week."

The Cult of Podcasting w/ Ben Lee

Becoming Broadway Barbara w/ Leah Sprecher
You know Broadway Barbara from her viral videos, Fosse tutorials and her sold out live shows but do you know the secrets of Broadway Barbara? Melinda chats with the creative genius who created Barbara, the lovely and talented Leah Sprecher, about the journey of becoming the brilliant and iconic Broadway Barbara.

The Superhero is You w/ Steve Zim
Personal trainer Steve Zim, who trains Marvel characters and also trained Melinda for LOVE, WEDDINGS AND OTHER DISASTERS, stops by to share his process for writing four books and becoming #1 on Amazon and his new workout website www.ATUmobile.com designed to helpe anyone feel like a superhero.

Trust Your Instincts w/ Nicole Paone
Nicole Paone stops by on Thanksgiving to talk about her movie FRIENDSGIVING. The first feature Nicole wrote and directed is produced by Ben Stiller’s Red Hour and stars comedy powerhouses Kat Dennings, Chelsea peretti, Aisha tyler, Malin Ackerman, Deon Cole, Jane Seymour, Margaret Cho, Fortune Feimster and Wanda sykes. Nicole talks about overcoming her obstacles getting the film made and the advice that helped her get it done.
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How to Be Better Now w/ Holly Ramos
Holly Ramos is an iconic singer song-writer and frequent collaborator of Jesse Malin's who discusses her new album about healing scars and making better choices.

Nerd Circus w/ Todd Stashwick
Melinda's LOVE, WEDDINGS AND OTHER DISASTERS cast mate Todd Stashwick shares how the movie helped him process his father's passing. As a writer, actor and alumnus of Second City, he also explains his creative process for writing scripts and creating games involving meditation, cardio, and Dungeons and Dragons. Todd discusses how to make villains interesting in shows like Vampire Slayer, Curb Your Enthusiasm, Heroes, Supernatural, The Originals, Gotham, 12 Monkeys and Kim Possible and also his new venture Nerd Circus. Plus the origins of #HillthyTips!
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Twitter: @ToddStashwick @TSNerdcircusInsta: @Tstashwick @TheNerdCircus

Listen to Your Inner Voice(s) w/ Tara Strong
Ray of sunshine Tara Strong chats about the extreme positivity that saves her, bullying, the #MeToo and #BLM movements, activism, veganism, voice acting and her solid creative process. Tara is known for her beloved characters “Bubbles” in The Powerpuff Girls, “Timmy Turner” in The Fairly Odd Parents, “Dil Pickles” in Rugrats, “Raven” in Teen Titans, “Twilight Sparkle” in My Little Pony, and so many more but most importantly she’s using her voice to fight for real change.

Accessible Activism w/ Jason Daley Kennedy
Meditation teacher and founder of Meditation for Assholes, accessible activist, husband and parent of three adopted children Jason Daley Kennedy discusses his process of making a difference in the world and his pivotal role in Melinda's comedy special ideation through the use of meditation.

Fixing Up Houses Instead of Men w/ Grey DeLisle-Griffin
Grey is a prolific voice actress, comedian, Grammy-winning singer-songwriter and super manifestor. The little girl whose mom forgot to take her to Disneyland grew up to voice a myriad of Disney characters in addition to Prince Puppycorn from Unikitty, Daphne Blake in the Scooby-Doo franchise, Sherri and Terri from The Simpsons, Betty Rubble and more. She discusses how growing up with addiction made her into a chameleon focused on fixing others and how she's now refocusing that energy. Plus we address dating on Raya, dating during Covid and her psychic's predictions for the 2020 pandemic and election. ***Please note this is Part 1 of Grey's interview. For part 2, a special exclusive bonus episode with even juicier nuggets, go to Patreon.com/MelindaHill to access. Enjoy!

Story Queen w/ Kristen McGuiness
Navigating the journey from growing up with a drug dealer dad to becoming a bestselling author and writing coach, Kristen McGuiness discusses what she finds inappropriate about parenting in a pandemic, how to craft and package one's narrative and how to make peace with one's past.

How to Become a TikTok Star w/ Stephen Kramer Glickman

All Apologies w/ Paul Gilmartin
The host of the Mental Illness Happy Hour discusses how to pivot out of toxic masculinity and the power of taking responsibility for one's actions.

INAPPROPRIATE conversation w/ Mary Lynn Rajskub & Melinda Hill
Mary Lynn stops by Melinda's virtual screening to discuss her new comedy special "Inappropriate" now avail at melindahill.com.

Cancel Culture & Wet Ass Pussy w/ Margaret Cho
Margaret reflects on Cardi B's WAP, where cancel culture makes cancelled people go, and overcoming invisibility as an Asian woman in comedy on the route to finding inner peace. Plus she shares a new recipe!

Primary Purpose w/ Ant
Fresh off of Tinder, comedian Ant has been many things: a flight attendant who became an overnight comedy sensation, a judge on LAST COMIC STANDING, and a TV star with a secret drug habit but today he is clear that his primary purpose is staying sober and helping others do the same.

CAKE w/ Dwayne Perkins
Dwayne Perkins chats about his process for staying positive & prolific with his unique CAKE system which helped him write, produce and star in a movie (DYING TO KILL) and comedy special (TAKE NOTE) all in the same year. He also stresses the importance of knowing what to do with yourself when others aren't able to figure it out & choosing to fill the mind with PBS over people getting punched in the face. Oh and he wrote a book called ZOMBIE RUN! What can't he do?!

The Self-made Struggle is Real w/ Tom Stern
Tom Stern, filmmaker, writer, director known for FREAKED, KEVIN HART'S GUIDE TO BLACK HISTORY, ANDY MILONAKIS SHOW, CRANK YANKERS and more, discusses overcoming depression, self medicating induced psychotic breaks, and toxic shame on his journey to writing on a major commercial franchise & spearheading the Butthole Surfers documentary.

Punk Pilates w/ Billy Morrison
Billy Idol guitarist/Royal Machines co-founder/ fine art painter Billy Morrison discusses his journey from a heroin addiction that had him pushing a shopping cart on Hollywood Blvd. to a morning ritual that includes waking at 5 a.m., transcendental meditation, and pilates-- or *"Punk Pilates" as IG live listener Kerry Stranman labeled it.

Truth is Beauty w/ Michelle L’Amour
Fabulous Michelle, prolific burlesque superstar who was banned from YouTube, overcame the heartbreak of alopecia when she stopped hiding and realized that beauty is embracing one's truth.

Feeling is Healing w/ Myq Kaplan
Vegan activist comedian Myq Kaplan (from Conan and Comedy Central) walks us through overcoming divorce and high school hardships with the healing modalities of meditation and ayahuasca, arriving at full acceptance of all the feels.

Self Awareness is key w/ Yassir Lester
Yassir Lester from Showtime's BLACK MONDAY and GIRLS talks about the hustle that brought him from door man at Hollywood Improv to TV writer & how he's using the pandemic downtime to create new work.

Power of the Ugly Cry w/ Kate Miller
Kate Miller from HIGHTOWN for STARZ discusses her journey fm NYC go-go dancer to Broadway actress, her upcoming appearances in film & TV like Hightown & how she found her husband John Dimaggio (he was always there!)

Go with Your Gut w/ John DiMaggio
John Dimaggio, best known for Futurama, Adventure Time, Disenchantment and Better Call Saul talks about the importance of not questioning your intuition.

The Creation of DEAD TO ME w/ Liz Feldman
Liz Feldman, creator and showrunner of Netfix's DEAD TO ME, discusses her trajectory from child comedian to head honcho of one of the hottest shows in Hollywood and how she moved through grief by using reframing and gratitude to rewrite the story of her life.

From Chasing a High, to Creating HIGHTOWN w/ Rebecca Cutter
Fabulous Rebecca Cutter (creator and showrunner of HIGHTOWN) shares her writing process and secrets for creating a hit show.

Overcoming Perfectionism in a Pandemic
"Some trauma survivors become perfectionists, perpetually working to prove worthiness. I hope in this mandatory season of stillness, we come home to the truth that we are enough. We have nothing to prove. Any moment we catch a glimpse of this truth is freedom. #Breath" --by @DrThema

The Power of Six Minutes w/ Mary Lynn Rajskub
Mary Lynn Rajskub, actress and comedian best known for playing Chloe O'Brian in 24 and Elizabeth in Paul Thomas Anderson's Punch-Drunk Love, reflects on surviving unsafe situations in the early days in LA and shares what helps her have creative fulfillment and productivity during the pandemic (six minute focus intervals) and what hasn't helped so much (wine.)

Save Yourself w/ Brian Dannelly
The great Brian Dannelly (writer/director SAVED, WEEDS, IN THE DARK) discusses the importance of humility, overcoming evangelical trauma, second chances and working with strong women.

Happy w/ Neda Disney
Wonderful Neda Disney graciously rolls with the trauma of our technical difficulties to discuss how happiness affects ambition, her writing process, her novel PLANTING WOLVES and her bestie Brian Dannelly.

Right Now is the Show w/ EG Daily
Dear friend EG Daily is a singer & actress best known as Tommy Pickles in Rugrats and Buttercup in The Powerpuff Girls. We've had many fun-derful collaborations including our web series "Melania Trump's Cousins" and her TV show "Beverly Hills Broke" also starring Tara Strong. She explains how the sudden death of a lover illustrated that the present moment is the award everyone's really been waiting for.

How to Marry Yourself w/ Tracy McMillan
Tracy McMillan is television writer whose credits include Mad Men and Good Girls Revolt, a relationship expert whose Ted talk “The Person You Really Need to Marry” has more than 12 million views and host of the relationship reality show FAMILY OR FIANCE on the OWN network.

Brushstrokes with Bridget w/ Bridget McManus
Bridget McManus had a MeToo moment but she didn't let it stop her from becoming a television host, screenwriter, producer, director and award-winning performer who created and hosted two television shows for the Logo Network: the award-winning comedy talk show, Brunch with Bridget, and Bridget McManus Presents: That Time of The Month. She shares her inspiring and artistic journey from her first and her process of becoming a TV star from her a project she made in her single apartment in Hollywood.

Don’t Take BS From Fu**ers w/ Greg Behrendt
Greg Behrendt, New York Times bestselling author, comedian, musician, life coach and and positivity trainer who’s sold over 4 million books and hosted two talk and reality shows bearing his own name shares how overcoming cancer and a subsequent opioid addiction inspired his spiritual enlightenment and his new book “Don’t Take Bullshit From Fuckers.”

Love Me Daddy w/ Danny Zuker
Hilarious Danny Zuker is best known for his Emmy Award winning work as a writer and executive producer of ABC's Modern Family. He discusses his fascinating journey with overcoming cocaine addiction & how daddy issues can be a comedian's greatest asset.