Musings Of a Tired Nigerian Girl

Welcome to this weeks episode of "Musings Of a Tired Nigerian Girl,” today, we dive deep into a topic that's close to my heart: boundaries. In this insightful episode, I'll share my personal journey of setting and respecting boundaries while drawing inspiration from valuable tips I discovered on Psych Central.

I'll take you through my own experiences, the challenges I faced, and the transformative moments that made me realize the importance of boundaries in our lives, especially in the bustling Nigerian context.

We'll explore the complexities of cultural norms and societal expectations that often test our ability to establish and maintain boundaries. I'll discuss how these factors can affect our mental and emotional well-being.

We'll delve into practical tips for respecting boundaries, ensuring that our relationships, both personal and professional, thrive in an atmosphere of mutual respect and understanding.

Expect engaging anecdotes, heartfelt revelations, and a few laughs along the way as we navigate the journey of self-discovery and growth through the lens of boundaries.

Tune in to "Musings Of a Tired Nigerian Girl" and let's embark on this enlightening exploration together. Whether you're from Nigeria or anywhere else in the world, this episode will resonate with anyone who's ever grappled with the art of setting and respecting boundaries. Join me on this empowering journey!

In this bonus episode of "Musings Of a Tired Nigerian Girl," I take you on a wild ride through one of my most frustrating experiences as an online shopper. Join me as I spill the tea on my misadventures with an Instagram vendor who promised the world but failed to deliver – quite literally! Get ready for a rollercoaster of emotions, from anticipation to disappointment, as I recount the absurdities of this online shopping debacle. If you've ever had your patience tested by unreliable vendors, you won't want to miss this storytime episode. So grab your headphones and join me in venting and laughing at the absurdity of it all.

In this episode of "Musings of a Tired Nigerian Girl," I sit down with the incredibly talented Oni, who wears many hats as an entrepreneur, activist, avid reader, poet and student. Together, we dive deep into the heart of a matter that resonates with every Nigerian – the educational system.

Join us as we dissect the strengths and weaknesses of the Nigerian education system, drawing from our own personal experiences and insights. We explore the challenges students face, the gaps in the curriculum, and the pressing need for reform. But we don't stop there; we're also bringing you fresh ideas and solutions for improving the quality of education in our beloved country. Tune in for a thought-provoking conversation that promises to spark change and inspire action.

The Day of the Politician’s Milk, on todays episode I read chapter 6 from Book 2 of Ben Okri’s Famished Road and in this installment we continue on, on the part of politicians and false promises

In this introspective episode of "Musings Of a Tired Nigerian Girl," Join me in an introductory episode to “Boundaries” exploring the importance of setting boundaries and the consequences when they are not respected.

Through my own story, I hope to shed light on the challenges we face when our boundaries are crossed and how this can affect us mentally, emotionally, and even physically.

And of course birthday shenanigans, I’m coming across fellow Virgorians this year, I honestly never realized how many we are ♍️🧁

Join me, and my incredible guest, Fatima, in this powerful episode of where we delve into a topic that hits close to home for many of us: Toxic Relationships. We're pulling back the curtain on those sneaky signs that often creep into our connections, the ones we might not notice at first. Together, we're unravelling the layers of toxic dynamics, discussing how they can drain our energy and self-worth.

Fatima and I share personal stories, anecdotes, and insights that shed light on the dark corners of toxic relationships. We're not just stopping at identification; we're also exploring strategies to address and untangle ourselves from these harmful patterns. Our goal is to help you recognize the red flags, empower you to take action, and provide a space where you don't have to navigate this journey alone.

Whether you're currently in a questionable relationship or you've moved past one, this episode offers relatable experiences, practical advice, and the reminder that you deserve healthy, uplifting connections. So, grab your earbuds and join us as we have an open, honest, and sometimes even humorous conversation about toxic relationships. It's time to reclaim your strength and prioritize your well-being.

Diving into Dreams and Destinies: Unpacking Ben Okri’s Famished Road Book 2 In this episode, I finish Book 2,5 of Ben Okri’s Famished Road.

Episode 4 of "Musings Of a Tired Nigerian Girl" brings a captivating conversation to the forefront as I am joined by the insightful guest Ofem Ubi. Together, we delve into the dynamic world of creativity, exploring the theme of "The Power of Collaboration, Overcoming Isolation, and Finding Support."

In this episode, we reflect on our personal journeys as creative individuals, highlighting the challenges and triumphs we’ve experienced while navigating the artistic landscape. We candidly share our encounters with isolation and the struggle to find like-minded souls who understand the creative process. This episode is a testament to the power of connection, showcasing the transformative potential of collaboration and camaraderie. "The Synergy of Creativity: Powering Through Together" serves as a beacon of encouragement for all creative individuals seeking to break free from isolation, find their tribe, and amplify their artistic voices in unison.

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“Breaking Barriers: Maryam Shetty's Journey. Women in Nigerian Politics"
In this episode of "Musings of a Tired Nigerian Girl," we delve into the inspiring journey of Maryam Shetty, a former political ministerial candidate whose recent departure from the race has sparked important conversations about the role of women in Nigerian politics.

Join us as we explore Maryam Shetty's path to candidacy, the challenges she faced, and the reasons behind her withdrawal. How she served as a catalyst for other women’s political aspirations.

Tune in for a thought-provoking discussion on how one woman's pursuit of political office ignited a flame of hope and ambition among many, marking a significant milestone in the ongoing journey towards gender equality and representation in Nigerian politics.

🎙️ In the long-awaited return of "Musings of a Tired Nigerian Girl," join host Hikmah as she breathes new life into the podcast, unveiling a vibrant new season filled with captivating content, diverse topics, and engaging guests. 🌟

This season promises to take you on an exhilarating journey through the diverse landscapes of Nigerian culture, society, and beyond. 🇳🇬✨
Tune in, subscribe, and follow us on Instagram [motng_] to be part of this exciting journey! 📲🔊👂 #NigerianPodcast #Season4Premiere #RebirthAndResonance

Azaro gets lost on this episode, listen to the end to find out if he found his way home or continued his journey to the end.

On this episode the topic is Unveiling the Veil: My Experiences as a Hijabi in Nigeria. When I say South I mean the South Western part of Nigeria. This episode I share my experience and opinion on wearing the hijab in Nigeria.

On this episode, book club continues. The lovely Habiba Shehu reads book 2. The journey of Azaro continues but this episode we get introduced into the mystery of Madame Koto’s Bar.

On this episode I talk about the appropriation vs appreciation debate and if intention matters. I look forward to hearing from you guys!

Can this boy be normal? We know the answer to that lol
On this episode Farida continues to take us through the adventures of Azaro and let's just say... It goes down the hill from here

Still on "Famished Road" by Ben Okri. On this episode of book club Maryam reads episode 7-9. She takes us through Azaro's experience in the house of ghosts...

On this episode I share 10 things I've learnt in my 20's. Sometimes I'm shocked by how far I have come, the fact that I'm on the road to 30's is just wow for me. In my head I'm a baby gyal lol.
I hope I'm able to give some direction at least to my young-ings and if you're on this road with me, share somethings' you've learnt in your journey to adulthood with me on IG @motng_ . Until the next episode, toodles XOXO.

Feeling very depressed. Started off excited ended the day void. Some days really do be like this.
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On this episode, Farida takes us on a journey behind Azaro's eyes and his escape from the Island women. Frying pan to fire comes to mind lol... Enjoy!

On this episode, we start our "Book Club" reading of Ben Okri's Famished Road. I initially wanted reading chapter 1 only but that took like 7 minutes and that was it?! So I read more. Here we have chapter 1-3. Tune in Saturday for chapter 4-7. ***Edit***. For some reason I didn't end up posting on the day I recorded but I'll tell you all about that on IG @motng_.

On this episode I chat to you guys about life and some sad quotes from books... Bad description I know, I'm tired. xoxo

Happy new year! So this is an old pre-recorded episode. On this episode I give you guys a recap into my new year and how life had been going up until 29th Jan. Enjoy!
And I am doing much better now 25th April Allhamdulillah. xoxo

On this episode I just talk honestly, the theme is Eid so listen, enjoy and have a beautiful Eid celebrations my love.

On this episode, I chat to you guys about Ramadan, spirituality and how I keep myself on track despite not having that "connection" with the season.

Honestly I had fun editing as much as I had fun recording 😜. Why does it sound like Farida is tired of me 💀. Y'all this is part 2! Have fun listening 🎧

The long awaited season is here my lovelies, on this episode I am hosting with Farida and we basically laugh, tell stories and catch up. This segment has been split in two parts so stick around for Part 2. A gift that keeps giving 😌😉

Miss me? I decided to round up the season per your vote on Instagram (@motng_). It's been a while, I apologize. In this episode, I discuss yesterday's Election, casting my vote, and the overall experience.
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You know how Cookie said “I gats to put me first Lucious” yeah… thats the vibe. On this episode I talk about letting go and the bigger person culture. Lets get into it!

On this episode I talk about some Insta gossip, Naija strezz and bants in between

On this episode I talk to you guys about how I spent Saturday as well as some good advice! *moon face* . Also… I came up with a new word… you heard it here “Audio Vlog”

This episode I talk a bit about growth and changes? #Birthday vibes. Note this should have come before the previous episode hence the name *DISCLAIMER*

Missed me? Same here! On this episode I give you guys a breakdown of Kaba Fest (Kaduna Art and Book Festival which took place from the 14th -17th of September! It was vibes on vibes

On this episode I talk on a bunch of random topics as usual lol. The love we fake and the hate we spread

On this episode I talk about content creating and some of the challenges content creators face in Nigeria.

This is the final episode of my recording with Farida! Remember if you are not already doing so, check out our Instagram page @motng_ and lets get the conversation rolling.

On this episode I have with me in the house my home girl OG vibes Farida! Super excited. We talked about Nysc and our experience in practice post Nysc amongst other things but unfortunately I had to cut the episode short. Look forward to the second bit of this recording, more laughs ahead

On this episode, we talk about pishtacos and reclaiming your mental space. Pretty chill yeah?

In this episode I have a guest with me and she came and conquered, we talked, we shared our opinions and we’d love to hear and read yours. Check our IG account @Motng_ and lets get the discussion rolling

MOTNG is back with a “very chill” season 2. Join us every week on your favourite podcast service provider and lets get talking… I have so much I wanna do this season *fingers crossed*

So like the title, its been a hot minute and yeah this was pre recorded wayyyy back in July and yh it just made an appearance finally. Cheers 🥂 and yeah, here is to hoping this would open more. doors to more episodes 🌚. Missed you guys tho 😘 (Using a lot of emojis and shit lol)

In this episode , I talk about the recent twitter ban across the country, freedom of speech or lack there of and as usual expressed my yet again tiredness at this country. (I said ON THE FACE OF THE PRESIDENTS TWEET. The KEYWORD being ON THE FACE OF IT, do not misconstrue it with me saying there is nothing wrong with his tweet.

Happy belated Independence day I guess...
XOXO Tired Nigerian Girl

In this episode, I talk of certain Ramadan and faith struggles, Eid, Interesting traditions, food and lots more. This is a generally feel good episode, like the title states, its all rants and bants. Eid Mubarak to you all once again

So this episode, with the help of you guys we talk about relationship and the length a certain sister went in trying to keep hers. Would you leave your job for your S/O? Or is that too much to ask for? Please do check out @jamar.healthfoundation on IG.

On this episode I give you a tip how to avoid an awkward conversation this ramadan and talk about this Pantamai issue and the direction this country is heading... Where are we doing? What do we want? Join the conversation on Anchor or Instagram, looking forward to your input.

In this episode I talk about NYSC and the proposed bill to scrap it, advantages and the ultimate price some youths have had to pay while serving their country

In this episode I touch on the recent NLC strike (which btw, a rumor is going around about there possibly being another strike...) hobbies, reading in particular and preferences. I made a mistake, calling the protagonist in Shadow and bone Ayana... I meant to say Alina and yes, its on Netflix and disclaimer, I haven't watched it but I am already biased. As of the time I am writing this description, I have finished Ruin and Rising and it was beautiful.

So have you heard about the hijab ban in France? Ridiculous right? On this episode I give you a bit of an introduction, I discuss my two cents on the ban and finished this podcast episode on the “I cannot come and kill myself” note our country is well known for. Listen, share, enjoy !

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