
Thoughtful Thursdays
By New Hope Community Church
Encouraging words, conversations, and wisdom about life and faith from the team and members of New Hope Community Church.

Thoughtful ThursdaysAug 25, 2022

9 Tips to be a More Effective Parent - Part 2 (Episode 020)
In this episode of Thoughtful Thursdays Mike Elkins, Daniel Fernihough, Misty Hageman, and Nik Walborn continue a discussion on an online article titled "9 Steps to More Effective Parenting". They discuss whether they agree with the 9 steps, and share parenting wins, fails, and just plain funny stories that you might be able to relate to as a parent. In this "Part 2" episode we cover Steps 6-9.
Link to 9 Steps to More Effective Parenting
https://kidshealth.org/en/parents/nine-steps.html
6. Make Communication a Priority
7. Be Flexible in Your Parenting Style
8. Show that Your Love is Unconditional
9. Know Your Own Needs and Limitations as a Parent

9 Tips to be a More Effective Parent - Part 1 (Episode 019)
In this episode of Thoughtful Thursdays Mike Elkins, Daniel Fernihough, Misty Hageman, and Nik Walborn discuss an online article titled "9 Steps to More Effective Parenting". They discuss whether they agree with the 9 steps, and share parenting wins, fails, and just plain funny stories that you might be able to relate to as a parent. We weren't able to get through all 9, so in this episode we cover Steps 1-5 and next episode will be looking at Steps 6-9. Unfortunately we had a power issue with our camera while recording, which caused a loss of around 10 minutes of video footage in the middle of the episode.
Link to 9 Steps to More Effective Parenting
https://kidshealth.org/en/parents/nine-steps.html
Step 1: Boost Your Child's Self-Esteem
Step 2: Catch Kids Being Good
Step 4: Make Time For Your Kids
Step 5: Be a Good Role Model

Behind the Scenes of New Hope Staff Culture - Part 3 (Episode 018)
In this episode of Thoughtful Thursdays Mike Elkins, Daniel Fernihough, Cammie Short, and Nik Walborn discuss the "Staff DNA" (values) that shape and inform the culture of New Hope Community Church. As we can only cover 2-3 values per episode, this will be a multi-part series. Join us for an encouraging conversation and be challenged to ask yourself: "What are the values of my family?"

Behind the Scenes of New Hope Staff Culture - Part 2 (Episode 017)
In this episode of Thoughtful Thursdays Mike Elkins, Daniel Fernihough, Cammie Short, and Nik Walborn discuss the "Staff DNA" (values) that shape and inform the culture of New Hope Community Church. As we can only cover 2-3 values per episode, this will be a multi-part series. Join us for an encouraging conversation and be challenged to ask yourself: "What are the values of my family?"

Behind the Scenes of New Hope Staff Culture - Part 1 (Episode 016)
In this episode of Thoughtful Thursdays Mike Elkins, Daniel Fernihough, Cammie Short, and Nik Walborn discuss the "Staff DNA" (values) that shape and inform the culture of New Hope Community Church. As we can only cover 2-3 values per episode, this will be a multi-part mini series that will be added to in the future. Join us for an encouraging conversation and be challenged to ask yourself: "What are the values of my family?"
Episode Resources:
Crucial Conversations by Joseph Grenny and Kerry Patterson
https://amzn.to/3y3gTQt
Crucial Conversations GLS Video
https://youtu.be/-dKYunkN0Bs
The Brownie Experiment
https://youtu.be/-dKYunkN0Bs?t=1148

How to Stay on God's Path for Your Life (Episode 015)
In this episode Mike Elkins, Daniel Fernihough, Cammie Short, and Nik Walborn wrap up our sermon series, Travel Light with a discussion about their faith journeys and have an honest conversation about how to stay on the path that God has for your life. Join us as we share some things from our personal lives and what God has been teaching us during this series.
Watchman Nee
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Spirit of the Disciplines
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Conformed to His Image
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What Pastors Have Learned about Mental Health (Episode 014)
In this episode Mike Elkins, Daniel Fernihough, Cammie Short, and Nik Walborn talk about our sermon series on mental health and what they have learned as we have tackled this topic. Join us as we share some things from our personal lives and what God has been teaching us during this series.
Check out HOLO HLTH: https://holohlth.com/

What is Worship Anyway? (Episode 013)
In this episode we jump into the topic of worship, we look at worship from King David, worship fails, and how we can better worship God on a daily basis. Join Jason Clarke, Alex Moss, Arminda Walborn and Nik Walborn as they discuss what it looks like to live a life of worship.

Anxiety, Depression, Mental Health, and the Church (Episode 012)
In this episode Mike Elkins, Daniel Fernihough, Cammie Short, and Nik Walborn talk about the new sermon series that we started called Anxious For Nothing which focuses on anxiety, depression, and mental health. Join us for an open, honest, and raw conversation about mental health, the church, and some of the challenges that we have faced personally in our own lives.
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How to Share Your Faith in Your Own Backyard (Episode 011)
In this special podcast episode Niki Huard, Rhonda Owens, Cammie Short, and Nik Walborn talk about what it looks like share the gospel in our own backyard and have a heartfelt discussion about Lifewise Academy, an incredible gospel opportunity coming to Bryan City Schools.
Lifewise Academy Facebook Page
https://www.facebook.com/lifewiseacademybryan Lifewise Community Interest
Email Sign Up
https://www.lifewiseacademy.org/nearlaunch/3904367/bryan-city?fbclid=IwAR0fpvIHsba3xV4X1E8_ifgelNRaMURn-eaHQpt-5equ4v98INYHPxj8C-4

Your First Steps to Take When Checking Out Church (Episode 010)
In this episode Daniel Fernihough, Cammie Short, and Nik Walborn talk about some of the weird things that Christians do and say; and how coming to church for the first time can feel kind of strange. They offer tips and insight on what your first steps should be if you are interested in trying out church or how to help walk alongside someone that is new to church and checking out God for the first time.

How to Invite Someone to Church (Episode 009)
More than 50% of Christians did not invite anyone to church in the last year, yet 80% of people share that they came to church because of a personal invitation. In this episode Mike Elkins, Daniel Fernihough, Cammie Short, and Nik Walborn discuss the importance of inviting those around us to "come and see" what Jesus is all about. Listen and learn how you might prepare to invite someone to church.

How NOT to be a Lukewarm Christian (Episode 008)
In this episode Mike Elkins, Daniel Fernihough, Cammie Short, and Nik Walborn discuss Revelation Chapter 3 and the letter written to the "lukewarm" Christians living in Laodicea and discuss how we today can make sure that we avoid the mistakes that they made in their lives and faith.

How to Say Yes to God (Episode 007)
On this week's podcast Mike Elkins, Daniel Fernihough, Cammie Short, and Nik Walborn have a discussion surrounding Moses' insecurity in himself and what it looks like to not only listen to God, but to say "yes" to Him when He calls us to move.
Beginner's Pluck on Amazon - https://amzn.to/34wzABp
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Looking Back and Knowing Your Story (Episode 006)
In this episode Daniel Fernihough, Cammie Short, and Nik Walborn discuss the importance of looking back on your past to see how God has worked and how knowing your story can make an impact on your present and future.
Gospel Coalition Article: https://bit.ly/preparetohear

Spiritual Distraction and Intimacy with Jesus (Episode 005)
In this episode Mike Elkins, Cammie Short, and Nik Walborn discuss what it looks like to combat against spiritual distraction in your faith and how that can lead to more intimacy with Jesus.

How to Finish a Fast Well (Episode 004)
This week on the Thoughtful Thursday podcast. Join Mike Elkins, Cammie Short, and Nik Walborn as they discuss what it looks like to Finish Well during a fast.

How to Endure a Fast Well (Episode 003)
This week on the Thoughtful Thursday podcast. Join Mike Elkins, Cammie Short, and Nik Walborn as they discuss what it looks like to Endure Well during a fast.

How To Start a Fast Well (Episode 002)

How to Plan Well to Fast (Episode 001)
In this episode Mike Elkins, Cammie Short, and Nik Walborn discuss what it looks like to Plan Well when it comes to preparing for a Fast.