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I Am Not My Pain with Melissa Adams

I Am Not My Pain with Melissa Adams

By Melissa Adams

Pain and illness can become an all-consuming experience. As a chronic pain sufferer for over twenty years, I know firsthand how pain can easily take over your life and isolate you from others. But the truth is we are so much more than illness and we are not alone. There are millions of fellow warriors on their own journey. Join me every Tuesday as we hear real stories of people living with pain and illness, their challenges, their victories and the treatments they use to get through each day. I Am Not My Pain and neither are you!
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S2E5: Shining Light on Stigmas for Chronically Ill – Part One

I Am Not My Pain with Melissa AdamsJan 03, 2023

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S3E22: Finding Acceptance and New Purpose with Chronic Illness- Part Two
Nov 28, 202343:46
S3E21: Finding Acceptance and New Purpose with Chronic Illness- Part One
Nov 21, 202334:54
S3E20: The Challenges Facing a Nontraditional Parent with Chronic Illness- Part Two
Nov 14, 202327:34
S3E19: The Challenges Facing a Nontraditional Parent with Chronic Illness- Part One
Nov 07, 202328:08
S3E18: The Constant Juggling Act of Life with Chronic Migraine Disease- Part Three
Oct 31, 202323:39
S3E17: The Constant Juggling Act of Life with Chronic Migraine Disease- Part Two
Oct 24, 202326:48
S3E16: The Constant Juggling Act of Life with Chronic Migraine Disease- Part One
Oct 17, 202327:31
S3E15: The Determined Disabled Entrepreneur- Part Three
Oct 10, 202334:17
S3E14: The Determined Disabled Entrepreneur- Part Two
Oct 03, 202325:50
S3E13: The Determined Disabled Entrepreneur- Part One
Sep 26, 202327:30
S3E12: Advocating for ADA Compliancy- Part Two

S3E12: Advocating for ADA Compliancy- Part Two

Continuing our conversation with warrior, Tracy Marie. Tracy was born with a very rare, progressive life-long disease called Morquio Type A Syndrome. The syndrome causes cellular damage due to a missing enzyme. Even with all her health challenges and being misdiagnosed until 2017, Tracy forges ahead as a singer, songwriter, producer, and sound engineer who has recorded and produced numerous albums and travelled around the country performing with jazz legends like Stanley Jordan or the legendary drummer, Buddy Miles. Tracy knows firsthand the downfalls in implementing the criteria in the Americans with Disability Act and has taken tremendous strides to fight for herself and others with disabilities and rare conditions by advocating for ADA coordinators and by volunteering at her local government as co-chair of the ADA Transition Plan Task Force and at her local hospital as co-chair of the MetroHealth Patient Family Advisory Committee. As of 2021, Tracy has also been working with RAMPD, Recording Artists and Music Professionals with Disabilities, to make the music industry more accessible and to continue her advocacy work on a national level. In Part Two, tune in as Tracy dives into the challenges in getting her city ADA compliant and more about her important advocacy work. Tracy hopes to raise awareness on existing ADA compliancy issues and helps to share the steps we can all take to address them. To learn more about Tracy Marie, go to her website at https://tracymarie.com and go to https://archive.ada.gov/pcatoolkit/chap2toolkit.htm to find the ADA Best Practices Tool Kit for State and Local Governments. This step-by-step kit can help you begin the process of advocating for ADA compliancy in your area.   

Sep 19, 202324:54
S3E11: Advocating for ADA Compliancy- Part One

S3E11: Advocating for ADA Compliancy- Part One

Meet warrior, Tracy Marie. Tracy was born with a very rare, progressive life-long disease called Morquio Type A Syndrome. The syndrome causes cellular damage due to a missing enzyme. Even with all her health challenges and being misdiagnosed until 2017, Tracy forges ahead as a singer, songwriter, producer, and sound engineer who has recorded and produced numerous albums and travelled around the country performing with jazz legends like Stanley Jordan or the legendary drummer, Buddy Miles. Tracy knows firsthand the downfalls in implementing the criteria in the Americans with Disability Act and has taken tremendous strides to fight for herself and others with disabilities and rare conditions by advocating for ADA coordinators and by volunteering at her local government as co-chair of the ADA Transition Plan Task Force and at her local hospital as co-chair of the MetroHealth Patient Family Advisory Committee. As of 2021, Tracy has also been working with RAMPD, Recording Artists and Music Professionals with Disabilities, to make the music industry more accessible and to continue her advocacy work on a national level. In Part One, listen as Tracy shares her story and her opinion on the current ADA compliance issues.  To learn more about Tracy Marie, go to her website at https://tracymarie.com and go to https://archive.ada.gov/pcatoolkit/chap2toolkit.htm to find the ADA Best Practices Tool Kit for State and Local Governments. This step-by-step kit can help you begin the process of advocating for ADA compliancy in your area.   

Sep 12, 202327:31
S3E10: The Cushie Effect: A Life with Cushing’s Disease- Part Two
Sep 05, 202326:39
S3E9: The Cushie Effect: A Life with Cushing’s Disease- Part One
Aug 29, 202324:37
S3E8: Managing the In-Between Years with Huntington’s Disease- Part Two

S3E8: Managing the In-Between Years with Huntington’s Disease- Part Two

Aug 22, 202327:36
S3E7: Managing the In-Between Years with Huntington’s Disease- Part One

S3E7: Managing the In-Between Years with Huntington’s Disease- Part One

Aug 15, 202334:09
S3E6: Resiliency with Arthritis- Part Two
Aug 08, 202327:41
S3E5: Resiliency with Arthritis- Part One
Aug 01, 202325:23
S3E4: Learning to Overcome Adversity Through Chronic Illness
Jul 25, 202329:42
S3E3: The Complexity of Living with Disability
Jul 18, 202336:04
S3E2: Being Transgender and Chronically Ill

S3E2: Being Transgender and Chronically Ill

Meet warrior, Alex. Alex is transgender identifying as trans-masculine and non-binary. From a young age, Alex endured many chronic illnesses and disabilities. He/They was later diagnosed with Agenesis of the Corpus Callosum, a rare brain disorder where there is a partial or complete absence of an area of the brain that connects the two cerebral hemispheres. Alex also manages Dandy-Walker Syndrome, a congenital brain malformation involving the cerebellum and the fluid-filled spaces around it that coordinates movement, and additionally lives with blindness in the right eye, arthritis, chronic pain, non-verbal learning disorder, depression, anxiety, PTSD, OCD, autism, and more. Alex works hard to support the disabled community as a full-time Disability Resource Specialist, as well as strives to care for his/their own health. Alex not only faces tremendous obstacles living with multiple, rare conditions, but he/they faces another huge hurdle; Alex must navigate a healthcare system that doesn’t truly accommodate or comprehend his/their needs as a transgender person. Listen as Alex shares his/their story, the challenges of being transgender and chronically ill, and how he/they supports his/their health and well-being.   

Jul 11, 202325:52
S3E1: Dating When Chronically Ill- Part Two
Jul 04, 202327:25
S2E30: Dating When Chronically Ill- Part One
Jun 27, 202322:10
S2E29: Facing the Male Stigma with Chronic Pain

S2E29: Facing the Male Stigma with Chronic Pain

Meet warrior, Cedric. Cedric was a US Navy Airman until he suffered a severe back injury on duty leaving him in a wheelchair. With time and hard work, Cedric learned to walk again, but the injury resulted in degenerative back disease. Cedric now manages chronic pain from bulging discs in his lower back which has gradually affected his thoracic spine and neck. From childhood to his time in the Navy, Cedric was taught like most men that to show pain is to show weakness. Tune in as Cedric shares his remarkable story and how he battles his daily pain as well as the stigmas associated with being a man in chronic pain.   

Jun 20, 202333:40
S2E28: Sunbreaks in Unending Storms- A Journey of Love and Parenthood while Chronically Ill – Part Two
Jun 13, 202330:25
S2E27: Sunbreaks in Unending Storms- A Journey of Love and Parenthood while Chronically Ill – Part One
Jun 06, 202333:38
S2E26: The Full Impact of Migraine – Part Two
May 30, 202330:26
S2E25: The Full Impact of Migraine – Part One
May 23, 202333:52
S2E24: So Much More Than a Headache- Part Two

S2E24: So Much More Than a Headache- Part Two

Continuing our discussion with warrior, Kathleen O’Shea. Kathy is an award-winning author, a regular blogger for psychologytoday.com, a professor of English and a migraine sufferer for over forty-three years. Her research and expertise combine masterfully to create her award-winning book, So Much More than a Headache: Understanding Migraine through Literature. Listen to Part Two Kathy explains why migraine is a full-time, life-long condition along with sharing significant migraine literature. Finalist in Health category: 2021 Best Book Award and first-place winner in Health category for Firebird, So Much More than a Headache: Understanding Migraine through Literature is currently sold on Amazon and select bookstores.

May 16, 202323:17
S2E23: So Much More Than a Headache- Part One

S2E23: So Much More Than a Headache- Part One

Meet warrior, Kathleen O’Shea. Kathy is an award-winning author, a regular blogger for psychologytoday.com, a professor of English and a migraine sufferer for over forty-three years. What initially began as writing about her own migraine experience transitioned into more as she researched literature on migraine. Her research and expertise combine masterfully to create her award-winning book, So Much More than a Headache: Understanding Migraine through Literature. Tune in as Kathy shares her story and how literature improves our understanding of the complexity of migraine. Finalist in Health category: 2021 Best Book Award and first-place winner in Health category for Firebird, So Much More than a Headache: Understanding Migraine through Literature is currently sold on Amazon and select bookstores.

May 09, 202335:49
S2E22: Life after Chronic Illness
May 02, 202336:45
S2E21: Carrying the Burden of Guilt When Chronically Ill- Part Two
Apr 25, 202328:28
S2E20: Carrying the Burden of Guilt When Chronically Ill- Part One
Apr 18, 202327:37
S2E19: Handling Unpredictability with Rare Conditions- Part Two
Apr 11, 202323:57
S2E18: Handling Unpredictability with Rare Conditions– Part One
Apr 04, 202322:43
S2E17: Finding Your Voice and Identity when Growing Up with a Rare Bone Disorder – Part Two

S2E17: Finding Your Voice and Identity when Growing Up with a Rare Bone Disorder – Part Two

Continuing our discussion with warrior, Marlena Chertock, born with spondyloepiphyseal dysplasia, a rare bone disorder and form of dwarfism resulting in short stature, chronic pain, arthritis, scoliosis, and more. In Part Two, listen as Marlena describes what it was like to grow up with her condition and to begin to recognize the resilience of her body. She shares her journey to identifying as disabled and her thoughts on invisible disabilities in our society. Marlena has published two works of poetry called Crumb-sized: Poems and On that one-way trip to Mars. She works as a Communications Manager, Water at the World Resources Institute, sharing research and data that helps companies, cities, and countries understand water risks and invest in solutions for a water-secure future. She also serves on the Board of Split This Rock, a nonprofit that cultivates poetry that bears witness to injustice and provokes social change, and was previously the Co-Chair of OutWrite, Washington, D.C.’s annual LGBTQ literary festival. Marlena utilizes her life experience to showcase the diversity of disability and chronic pain, highlight the importance of including disabled people in climate change planning, and imagine all bodies in the future through science fiction, speculative fiction, and crip lit (crippled literature). To learn about Marlena Chertock, go to marlenachertock.com.

Mar 28, 202320:04
S2E16: Finding Your Voice and Identity when Growing Up with a Rare Bone Disorder – Part One

S2E16: Finding Your Voice and Identity when Growing Up with a Rare Bone Disorder – Part One

Meet warrior, Marlena Chertock, who was born with spondyloepiphyseal dysplasia, a rare bone disorder and form of dwarfism resulting in short stature, chronic pain, arthritis, scoliosis, and more. Marlena grew up knowing she was different from her peers. Tune in as Marlena shares how she navigated those differences, bullying, chronic pain, and medical interventions to find her identity, advocate for important causes, and become a published author. Marlena has published two works of poetry called Crumb-sized: Poems and On that one-way trip to Mars. She works as a Communications Manager, Water at the World Resources Institute, sharing research and data that helps companies, cities, and countries understand water risks and invest in solutions for a water-secure future. She also serves on the Board of Split This Rock, a nonprofit that cultivates poetry that bears witness to injustice and provokes social change, and was previously the Co-Chair of OutWrite, Washington, D.C.’s annual LGBTQ literary festival. Marlena utilizes her life experience to shine a light on topics such as chronic pain, disability, sexuality, and science fiction. To learn about Marlena Chertock, go to marlenachertock.com.

Mar 21, 202333:43
S2E15: Redefining Success when Chronically Ill- Part Two
Mar 14, 202330:38
S2E14: Redefining Success when Chronically Ill- Part One
Mar 07, 202333:31
S2E13: Discovering Your Authentic Self while Chronically Sick- Part Two
Feb 28, 202329:48
S2E12: Discovering Your Authentic Self while Chronically Sick- Part One
Feb 21, 202343:18
S2E11: Support Your Health- The Value of Self-Advocacy When Chronically Ill- Part Two

S2E11: Support Your Health- The Value of Self-Advocacy When Chronically Ill- Part Two

Continuing our conversation with warrior, Allyson Finn. Allyson is a chronic illness advocate, substitute teacher, actress, and business consultant who has spent the last decade unraveling different health issues caused by a hypermobile form of Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome. Recently, Allyson has been experiencing symptoms including severe gastro issues possibly due to POTS, a comorbidity of Ehlers-Danlos. A true veteran of managing chronic illness, Allyson has developed valuable self-advocacy skills in order to best support her physical and mental health. Tune in as Allyson shares more self-advocating advice including how she managed her medical treatment while experiencing new symptoms.

Feb 14, 202339:47
S2E10: Support Your Health- The Value of Self-Advocacy When Chronically Ill- Part One

S2E10: Support Your Health- The Value of Self-Advocacy When Chronically Ill- Part One

Meet warrior, Allyson Finn. Allyson is a chronic illness advocate, substitute teacher, actress, and business consultant who has spent the last decade unraveling different health issues caused by a hypermobile form of Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome. Recently, Allyson has been experiencing symptoms including severe gastro issues possibly due to POTS, a comorbidity of Ehlers-Danlos. A true veteran of managing chronic illness, Allyson has developed valuable self-advocacy skills in order to best support her physical and mental health. Listen as Allyson shares her thoughts on self-advocating when managing new or difficult doctors and searching for the best medical team and solutions for you. She firmly believes you are the expert on your own body!

Feb 07, 202343:22
S2E9: The Harm Caused by Bias in Healthcare Today
Jan 31, 202337:49
S2E8: A Nightmare Visit at the ER - Courtney’s Story – Part Two

S2E8: A Nightmare Visit at the ER - Courtney’s Story – Part Two

Continuing our discussion with warrior, Courtney, who along with uncommon conditions of POTS and Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome, struggles with worsening unexplained and life-altering symptoms. After experiencing extremely painful and concerning complaints for over a month and receiving little help from her family physician and other specialists, Courtney reluctantly attended her local emergency department only to be confronted with negligence and judgement. Tune in as Courtney talks about how her traumatic experience came to an end, and how she’s coping in its aftermath.

Jan 24, 202336:39
S2E7: A Nightmare Visit at the ER - Courtney’s Story – Part One

S2E7: A Nightmare Visit at the ER - Courtney’s Story – Part One

Let’s catch up with warrior Courtney, from Episodes S1E11 and S1E12, who discussed the dismissiveness, gaslighting and judgements she faces on her odyssey to find respectful medical care. Courtney manages multiple rare conditions, which include POTS and Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome, but she also struggles with worsening unexplained symptoms, which are accumulating over time. Her uncommon, complex and ultimately poorly understood diagnosed conditions alone create their own significant difficulties when accessing emergency room care. In combination with her new, seemingly unconnected, symptoms Courtney faces nurses and doctors who hyper-focus on certain complaints, such as pain, while completely dismissing or shrugging off others. Ultimately sending her home with no answers, and little more than temporary pain control. Listen as Courtney recounts a recent horrific and nightmarish 21 hour-long emergency room visit, where her symptoms were not only dismissed, but where she was repeatedly denied basic compassionate care and how she’s coping after her ordeal.

Jan 17, 202338:06
S2E6: Shining Light on Stigmas for Chronically Ill – Part Two
Jan 10, 202334:49
S2E5: Shining Light on Stigmas for Chronically Ill – Part One
Jan 03, 202340:25
S2E4: The Journey to Identify as Disabled- Part Two
Dec 27, 202222:53
S2E3: The Journey to Identify as Disabled- Part One
Dec 20, 202228:13