Diary of a Conversationist

investing in yourself means prioritizing your personal and professional growth, health, and happiness. By taking intentional actions to develop your skills, knowledge, and well-being, you can achieve your goals and live a fulfilling life.

Questions are the currencies of the future, if you desire to be future ready you need to ask yourself quality questions. By asking quality questions your are able to navigate life.

In this episode, I shared 5 simple techniques you can deploy to help you get much more of your desired outcome.

When you know who you are, what you stand for and that all your intentions are forthright, it will not matter what anyone labels you. You walk taller, you act with assurance, you speak with certainty, you carry yourself with dignity, you convey honesty and you embrace all this with humility.

I believe as individuals we can have richer experiences when we are constantly exposing our minds to empowering information and deciding to take actions based on the information.

One way to take control of your life is by choosing to protect your peace. This means consciously deciding what people, activities and situations are worthy of our time, energy and resource.

In this episode Kenny shared with us the various limiting mindset and how these mindset impede people success. He also shared simple strategy on how to upgrade to the Abundance and growth mindsets.

Your life is your responsibility, knowing and accepting will give the the strength and willingness to make it count.

Be careful of the kind of counsel and Advice you subscribe to.

Life offers us people who would be helpful, useful and resourceful to us as we proceed along our life’s journey. It’s to us to identify these people, honor them and nurture the relationship.

On this Episode I shared simple ways I have been protecting myself from unnecessary fear, worry, pressure and anxiety.

On this Episode I shared simple ways I have been protecting myself from unnecessary fear, worry, pressure and anxiety.

In this episode, Adewale Shobande shared valuable nuggets that can help any creative thrive in this dispensation.

Trust the process, refuse to be agitated. Be willing to trust yourself, be willing to try again and most importantly be kind, loving and forgiven towards yourself.

On this episode, Tolu Richard shares with us his self-development journey. How it all began with him been willing to be vulnerable enough to accept what was, as he deliberately chooses to build a desirable outcome.

Live, love and laugh......Decide to be deliberate and intentional about everything that concerns you.

In this episode, I spoke about the things I feel we need to let go of. It’s more like an internal check and regulation as we proceed into 2021.

In this episode, our guest Balquees Raji, shared timeless nuggets with us on how to identify teenagers who need help and possible ways to provide the needed help to them.

In this episode, Edwin Evoh shared with us how self love is an integral part of Self Leadership. He explained the correlation between self awareness and self leadership.

Doing the inner work that leads to outer Transformation. On this episode Kefe shares with us her Growth and Self Love journey.

Stretching is the act of doing something that you know is good for you and it scares you. The more things in your life you get under your ability to handle, the wider your zone, the richer and greater your life becomes

Seeking help can sometimes feel like a big step. You may wonder: Is it the right time? Will I be judged? Will people understand? It’s natural to have these thoughts, but understand that seeking help is an important step towards getting better. Talking to someone you know and trust can be very helpful.

Be willing to try something different that will move you from where you are to where you intend to be

Stop deluding yourself, if you have an expectation of yourself and from other communicate it.

An honourable person accords honour to themselves as much as they honour others.

Self-discipline is all about the willingness to do the needful so you can achieve your desired outcome.

Trusting yourself can build up your confidence, make it easier for you to make decisions, and even reduce your stress levels.

As much as Others deserve your forgiveness you also need to be gracious enough to offer forgiveness to yourself when the need arises.

Fear is an emotion you can learn to leverage on, be willing to learn how to make the most of it.

If you desire a different set outcome in your life experiences you need to carry out a life audit so you know what's not working and change them by doing things differently.

If you seek to change your life you must change your mindset. Reading opens your mind,it give you better perspective on a subject matter.

You are a masterpiece specially crafted by the God himself. Treat yourself with respect and love because you deserve it.

Sometimes the most unexpected incidences happen to us not because we are evil people but its just life. It's always good to have a good attitude and response to the things that happens in our lives.

You may be at a crossroad right now in your life and people may have said your case is hopeless, but I come to assure you that God’s word cannot be broken. Understand that men have their limitations, but the God you serve is not limited.  He is still a God of possibilities.

Clarity brings order and definiteness of purpose into your life.

Your past is past , decide not pass away with it. Focus on what lies ahead because your best days are in front of you.

Look at your life, consider the how much blessings you have enjoyed and let those experiences of the past encourage you to believe for more much blessing for the days ahead.

Your association has the ability to inspire you to level up or make you remain stagnant.

Be encouraged, be hopeful and expectant amazing things will happen for you and through you. 2020 is still has a lot in store for you.

Toxic people always have a way bring drama and chaos to any place they find themselves. Handling toxic people is a sure way of reduce or eliminating unnecessary drama from your life.

We all need a group of people who are willing and able to provide us with practical and emotional support.

Communication is the life blood of any relationship.

Simply put, when you are experiencing egolessness, you are stepping out from the situation and looking at it from a higher perspective.

I feel like COVID came bearing gifts, one thing that it has helped every single person do is to put things in perspective.

Learn to identify those limiting beliefs, then you can annihilate them and experience a change in your state.

If you have noticed that your intimate relationships have been stressful or unfulfilling, it might be time to think about your attachment style.

Vulnerability is the birthplace of connection and the path to the feeling of worthiness.

Knowing your values and living in alignment with it helps you become a better person.

Strategies to help you overcome your insecurity.

Handling tension and pressure in relationship during this Covid 19 seasons.

This lockdown season is a good time to rekindle love in your relationships.

The compulsory social isolation enforced on us due to the coronavirus comes with blessings.

Guard your heart with all Diligence.

Guard your Heart.

Do what you can while you wait for what you want.

Living life objectively with less attachment helps us curtail entitlement.

Advice for March

In this episode Kaiser shares with us how the issue infidelity can be handled through effective communication, value for your significant other and by a sense of commitment.

Relationships with it’s Twist and Turns.

Vulnerability isn’t a weakness, it takes courage and bravery to be vulnerable.

Do you think valentine is overrated? My guest on this episode doesn’t think so.

Empowerment comes by taking responsibility for your Life. Step into the driver seat of your life.

Rejection hurts, but it doesn't have to hold you back...

Social skills are essential in building both personal and professional relationships.

Being socially aware means that you understand how you react to different social situations, and effectively modify your interactions with other people so that you achieve the best results.

Self -Motivation is a fire from within, it's our internal drive to achieve, produce, develop, and keep moving forward regardless of challenges .

It's basically about controlling one's behavior, emotions,thoughts and the ability to manage disruptive emotions and impulses.

Self-awareness is the capacity for introspection and the ability to recognize oneself as an individual separate from the environment and other individuals.

Understanding Emotional intelligence.

A meaningful relationship is as a relationship that is of personal significance, is healthy, caring, and long-lasting, and is one we couldn’t do without.

2020 is a beautiful year, it's a year I believe we will thrive and do great things.

You are the Master of your Fate, if you want a better experience become more Better.

Plan out how you intend to carry out your goals and desires.

Ideologies and how they affect our lives.

Handling the Emotion(Anger).

Do it afraid.

Start from where you are using what you have because if you truly consider what you have is more than enough.

Let there be congruence with your intention, words and actions .

Hard Truths.

Be willing to recognize the emotions of other and understand their perspective on situations.

Bunmi Oyegoke sharing a couple of lessons that life has taught her thus far.

Be thankful for where you are and be optimistic about where you are headed.

If you desire to receive anything it's best you make a request and when you do trust that you will get a favorable response.

Pressure is a privilege, the more pressure you have the more you learn, grow and become a better person.

Advice for millennia; Be patient

Sometimes trying to do things the easy ways complicates things .

As long as your are moving in the right direction towards the attainment of Goals, you should commend yourself for your achievement thus far.

The concluding part of the 7 lessons, I learnt from the last 365 days.

7 lessons that the last 365 days taught me.