
Perspective Shifts: The One Thing Desired
By Cara Blondo
Will you join me in the quest to shift our perspective upward, towards Him?

Perspective Shifts: The One Thing DesiredNov 30, 2022

Guarding Our Mouths to Guard Their Hearts: How Our Words Can Influence Our Friends
Do you long to be a faithful friend, one who loves well and protects and guards the hearts of your friends? In this episode we look at the important role our words play in our friendships and how through guarding our mouths, we can guard our friends' hearts. We consider three specific areas to guard against: complaining, gossiping, and slandering. This episode will challenge us to deal with our own hearts and encourage us to see the influence of our words.
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The Secret of True Strength
How would you describe a strong woman? Is it found in her personality, physical ability, or determinedness? In this episode, we travel to the days of the ancient Greek army and learn the secret of true strength and how we, like the Proverbs 31 woman, can be clothed with strength and dignity. The secret may surprise you!
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When You Feel Too Ordinary
Do you ever feel as though you're just too ordinary; that there's nothing particularly exceptional about your days, your talents, or your life?
If so, I can't wait for you to meet Tabitha, otherwise known as Dorcas, and to hear what the Bible says about her life. She was an ordinary woman who served an extraordinary God. If that sounds like you, be encouraged: Tabitha leaves a great lesson - and example - for us today.
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Eating Disorder Discussion with Dr. Jessica Peck
Have you ever wondered what signs you should look for - or what you should do - if you suspect your child has an eating disorder? Do you long to create a healthy home environment yet struggle with your own body image? And if your child is currently in treatment, are you desperate for hope and the assurance that healing is possible?
In this special episode in recognition of the annual National Eating Disorders Awareness Week, I have the privilege of speaking with Dr. Jessica Peck as she addresses these topics and many more.
Dr. Peck is the author of Behind Closed Doors: A Guide to Help Parents and Teens Navigate Through Life's Toughest Issues. She holds a Doctor of Nursing Practice degree, is an Advanced Practice Registered Nurse, and is a Baylor University professor. She is married and is the mother of four teens.
You can connect with Jessica at drnursemama.com and on Instagram (@dr.nurse.mama) or Facebook (@dr.nursemama). You can hear more by listening to her podcast, the Dr. Nurse Mama podcast, or by listening to our previous conversation, found here.
To listen to my testimony and more, please click here. I would love to connect with you on Instagram (@the_one_thing_desired) or Facebook (@theonethingdesired) and look forward to hearing from you soon!

My Testimony: Finding Hope, Healing, and Harmony (Recovering from an Eating Disorder)
Just as we receive comfort from our Heavenly Father in order to comfort others in their time of trouble, we experience the hope and healing of God in order to give Him glory and impart hope to the hopeless.
In this episode, I share my testimony of finding hope, experiencing healing, and discovering the harmony that He alone brought from the shattered pieces of my life through my battle with anorexia.
Whether you currently have or once had an eating disorder, have a friend or loved one struggling with one, or have experienced any kind of shattering in your own life, I pray this will remind you to look up instead of give up as it renews your belief that God is not done with you yet!
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Finding Meaning in the Mundane
Do you long to know why the mundane matters and to be convinced there's purpose in the ordinary? I do, and my guess is you do, too. In this episode we discuss the importance of asking - and answering - two key questions to help us find this assurance and live intentionally every day.

What Are You Waiting For? Learning How to Wait Well (With Guest Ashlyn Lanni)
What are you waiting for?
Everyone is waiting for something: whether it is to meet your spouse, have a baby, buy a home, find a new job, achieve a dream - or yes, even, for a prayer to be answered -- we are all, to some degree or another, in a season of waiting.
The question isn't "if" we're waiting -- but "how" we're waiting: are we waiting well, gleaning everything there is from this particular season? Or are we so discontent and disgruntled that we're missing the very thing the Lord is seeking to do in our hearts and lives right now?
In this episode I'm joined by special guest, Ashlyn Lanni, as we discuss all things waiting. We uncover common lies we may believe and discuss the truth, hope, and purposes for these seasons. By the end of the conversation, we pray you are encouraged through her story and reminded that God is still writing yours!
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http://www.Instagram.com/AshlynLanni
http://www.Facebook.com/AshlynLanni
Find the printable of Ashlyn's favorite verses by clicking here.
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What's Your STYLE? (Encouragement for Moms)
As we continue our Proverbs 31 series, this episode considers the STYLE of our mothering as we glean Biblical principles applicable for mothers in all seasons.
If you've ever wondered what's your "style" or wished you could mother more (or less) in one particular style or another, this will encourage you to know His "STYLE" and allow Him to fashion you accordingly.

The Building Blocks of Your Home
Do you want to faithfully build your home (your family) like the wise woman of Proverbs 14:1 but feel overwhelmed by all the things you "ought" to do? Do you wonder what such a woman might look like and if it's even possible for you to attain to such a status?
In this episode we "travel" to the lumberyard, vineyard, olive grove, and more to learn of some key building blocks, and their applications, in order to answer these questions and find the encouragement we need regardless of our season of mothering.
Join me as we continue our Proverbs 31 series, "Finding a Woman of Worth: A Portrait of a Woman."

Living Out Loud: Purposeful Living Throughout December and Beyond
In the third part of the three-part series, "Numbering Our Days: Making Every Day Count in December", we continue to glean insight from the responses of Mary in the Christmas account as we look at the importance of being a hostess this Christmas season (and no, it doesn't involve cooking and cleaning!).

How to Make Every Day Count
In the second part of the three-part series, "Numbering Our Days: Making Every Day Count in December", we consider the importance of receiving and responding to the greatest gift ever given - Christ Himself - and how our response to His gift will ultimately affect our responses to the interruptions, changes, and unknown details we are bound to encounter this Christmas season.

Numbering Our Days: What it Means to Make Every Day Count
In part one of this three-part series, we briefly consider what it means to make every day count as we number, or prioritize, our days during what is typically the busiest month of the year, and we consider three important questions to set the tone for a purposeful Christmas season.

Hope for Healthy Relationships with Your Teens: Interview with Jessica Peck
In this episode we talk with Jessica Peck, otherwise known as "Dr. Nurse Mama" and author of Behind Closed Doors: A Guide to Help Parents and Teens Navigate Through Life's Toughest Issues. Jessica holds a Doctor of Nursing Practice degree, is an Advanced Practice Registered Nurse, and is a Baylor University professor. She is married and the mother of four teens. She is passionate about encouraging parents that a healthy relationship with their teen is possible and shares a glimpse of the tools and conversation starters found in her book.
You can connect with Jessica at drnursemama.com and on Instagram (dr.nurse.mama) or Facebook (dr.nursemama). You can hear more from Jessica by listening to her podcast, the Dr. Nurse Mama podcast.

Wisdom for Wives: Subtle Shifts to Help Make Your Marriage a Priority
The Proverbs 31 woman was a woman who blessed her family and honored her God. From a quick reading of the chapter, we can see that despite leading a busy and full life, she was above all a devoted wife. In this 3rd episode of the Proverbs 31 series, "Finding a Woman of Worth: A Portrait of a Woman," we consider eight subtle, practical shifts that can help us prioritize our marriages in the midst of our own busy and full lives.

Getting Value or Giving Value: A Look at Worth, Identity, and Usefulness
In the second episode of the Proverbs 31 series, "Finding a Woman of Worth: A Portrait of a Woman," we consider verse 10 which describes this woman's worth as far above rubies. Does this mean that her worth is derived from being such an incredible wife, mother, or business woman, and if so, what does it mean for us? This episode serves as a reminder of where our worth, value, and identity is truly found as we consider two key "perspective shifts."

Planting Seeds of Truth: Interview with Katie J. Trent
In this episode we talk with Katie J. Trent, homeschooling mom and bestselling author of Dishing up Devotions: 36 Faith-Building Activities for Homeschooling Families. Katie is a leader in the Christian homeschool community and draws on a wealth of knowledge and experience from over a decade of counseling, ministry, and church planting in order to equip women to grow their faith, strengthen their family, and simplify their homeschool.
You can connect with Katie at KatieJTrent.com, @KatieJTrent (Facebook and Instagram), and @GrowYourFaith (Pinterest).
For Katie's free family faith-building bundle, please click here.
For Cara's 5 day YouVersion plan, "Bearing Fruit in Your Home(school)" please click here.

A Woman of Virtue: Good News for Us All!
In this first part of our series, "Finding a Woman of Worth: A Portrait of a Woman", based upon Proverbs 31, we aim to answer the questions: what does it mean to be a woman of virtue, can even I become this kind of woman, and why would I want to.
Whether you have no interest in becoming a virtuous woman - or you think you can't possibly measure up to such a woman, this episode will challenge your thoughts as to what it means, what it looks like, and why it's a privilege to be such a woman.

What is Holy Leisure? (With Guest Cara Ray)
In this episode we are joined by author, blogger, and YouVersion contributor, Cara Ray, as she discusses the concept of holy leisure. Cara shares with us what holy leisure is and what it can mean for our lives.
To connect with Cara and to access her book and YouVersion plans, please visit:
www.cara-ray.com
https://www.facebook.com/pursuingotiumsanctum/
https://www.instagram.com/pursuingotiumsanctum/

When You Wonder if He Cares (The Good Shepherd)
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All it took was one look at a flock of sheep to know everything you needed to know about their shepherd - whether they were well cared for or whether they were neglected. In fact, the hallmark of a shepherd was the attentive care given to his sheep. It's no wonder that Jesus called Himself the Good Shepherd! Yet, just like it was for His disciples and even His friend, Martha, it is easy for us to forget - or question - if He truly cares for us, especially when faced with difficult situations or difficult (or perceived as difficult) people. In this episode we consider the special ways in which our Shepherd takes care of us, His children, even when faced with difficulties of our own.

How to Find Rest For Your Soul
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Just as there are various by-products of physical rest, in this episode we look at the by-products of "soul rest" and how we can attain rest for our souls. If ever our soul - our mind, will, and emotions - needed rest - it is now.

Cultivating Joy
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In this episode, we answer the questions: what is biblical joy, why does it matter, and how can we cultivate it? Regardless of what you are experiencing right now, it is possible to rejoice - in Him. This episode will not leave you feeling discouraged if you aren't currently "feeling" joy but rather will examine the conditions that allow joy - the fruit of the Spirit - to grow.

Eating Disorder Discussion: A Parent's Perspective
In this episode, Cara discusses her recovery from anorexia with her mother in order to offer insight from the parent's perspective.
To view the original interview on Youtube, click here.
To read Cara's testimony, click here.

Moving From "Having Devotions" to "Living Devotedly" (Encouragement for those in busy, pressing seasons)
Could our busy seasons actually be used to expand our devotional life?
What happens to our "quiet times" when we don't have much time and it certainly isn't quiet?
What can we learn from a widow's meager gift?
This episode is for those in busy, pressing seasons of life - new moms, caregivers, seasons of illness - or any who wish to be encouraged to move from "having devotions" to "living devotedly."
To print the referenced Scripture prayer cards taken from Psalm 119, please click here.

How Much More: Lessons From the Crucifixion, Part 2
In this second and final episode taken from Luke 23, we consider the final three points of the series: the reality of the crucifixion, the results of the crucifixion, and our reaction to the crucifixion. The heart of this episode is to examine the implications of the cross and to ask how will we respond.

Passion Week Reading: Resurrection Sunday
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Click here for the Scripture references for this Passion Week Reading Plan.
In this episode of the Passion Week Reading series, we read from Matthew 28 and John 20-21.

Passion Week Reading: Good Friday
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In this episode of the Passion Week Reading series, we read from Luke 22:54-71 and Luke 23.

Passion Week Reading: Thursday
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Click here for the Scripture references for this Passion Week Reading Plan.
In this episode of the Passion Week Reading series, we read from Luke 22:7-30, John 13:1-30, John 14:1-31, John 15:1-11, John 16:7-15, John 17:1-26, and John 18:1-11.

Passion Week Reading: Wednesday
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In this episode of the Passion Week Reading series, we read from Matthew 24, 25, and 26:1-16.

Passion Week Reading: Tuesday
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In this episode of the Passion Week Reading series, we read from Matthew 21:23-41, Matthew 22-23, and John 12:20-50.

Passion Week Reading: Monday
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In this episode of the Passion Week Reading series, we read from Mark 11:15-19 and Matthew 21:12-22.

Passion Week Reading: Palm Sunday
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In the first episode of the Passion Week Reading series, we read Matthew 21:1-11 and Luke 19:29-48.

How Much More: Lessons From the Crucifixion, Part 1
In the first part of this two-part series, we consider the reason for, and the road to, the crucifixion, taken from Luke 23.

Why 'God With Us' Matters, Part 2
Click here for The Power of His Presence 4 day YouVersion Reading Plan
"God with us." What does it mean? Why does it matter? What difference would remembering this truth make in our daily lives? In this episode, part two of a two part series, we aim to answer these questions by looking at select passages of Scripture.

Why 'God With Us' Matters
Click here for The Power of His Presence 4 day YouVersion Reading Plan
"God with us." What does it mean? Why does it matter? What difference would remembering this truth make in our daily lives? In this episode, part one of a two part series, we aim to answer these questions by looking at select Scripture passages as we also consider the first two implications for our lives: "God with us" - the source of our comfort and "God with us" - the reason for our confidence.

One Response & One Race to Run
In the final episode of "The One Thing" series, we conclude the discussion of four specific occurrences of the phrase "one thing" as used in the Bible. In each instance, we learn something about a priority or emphasis given in someone's life. In this episode we take a look at our third and fourth "one thing," taken from John 9 and Philippians 3. Through these lessons, we receive encouragement on how to view our past and what that means for our present.

A Scripture Reading: Words for the Weary
How can a child's question about a plastic cup lead to words of encouragement for the weary?
Listen to this special episode of Perspective Shifts for the reading of five Scripture passages as we are reminded to trade the burden of our cares for the truth of His care.
This is for any who are weary or heavy hearted. Let the brief reading of God's Word offer you hope as together we lift our eyes unto Him, choosing to magnify Him rather than the burden or heartache.

One Requirement
In this series, we discuss four specific occurrences of the phrase "one thing" as used in the Bible. In each instance, we learn something about a priority or emphasis given in someone's life. In this episode we take a look at our second "one thing," which is "one requirement," as stated by Jesus to Martha in Luke 10. Through the words of Jesus, we glean not only encouragement for when days are full and responsibilities are many, but we learn what Jesus deems as most important; the "one thing" that is before all others.

One Request
In this series, we discuss four specific occurrences of the phrase "one thing" as used in the Bible. In each instance, we learn something about a priority or emphasis given in someone's life. In this episode we take a look at "one request," which was made by David in Psalm 27:4, as we consider the implications this request could have had on the "heroes of the faith" long ago, as well as what it means for us in our lives today.

Numbering Our Days: Making Every Day Count, part 3
In the final part of this Christmas series, we consider the signficance of the greatest invitation ever extended to humankind: to come and behold the Son of God. We also redefine the idea of what it means to host this special holiday, as we seek to live in such a way that extends His invitation to others.

Numbering Our Days: Making Every Day Count, part 2
In this brief, second part (of a three-part series) on making every day count in December, we look at how we can number our days and make every day count, as we look at the response of Mary, mother of Jesus.

Numbering Our Days: Making Every Day Count
In this brief, first part (of a three-part series) on making every day count in December, we look at what it means to number our days and consider three important questions to ask ourselves.