
Real Life Podcast
By Foothills Church Community Church
The place to be if you want REAL answers to your hard REAL questions.

Real Life PodcastDec 01, 2023

Episode 33: Is Exposing Children to Evil Beneficial?
Okay, we got you with the click bait! But in all seriousness, if you are a parent trying to raise your children with a strong faith, you know you can't protect them from everything, but you also don't want their innocence lost to the world. So what's the answer? What do we do when it seems like our children are being more exposed than ever to sexual immorality, violence and all other sorts of agendas out there that are so extreme? Listen in and join the conversation.
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Episode 32: Red Flags in Churches and "False" Teachers
According to the National Congregational Study Survey, there are an estimated 380,000 churches in the US. But how do you find the right one? How do you know what ones are actually teaching the Bible? And what about the ones that teach the Bible in extreme legalism? Whether you are church hunting, brand new to a faith, or have been at a church for years, this one's for you!
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Episode 31: Are Gun Laws Biblical?
Gun laws are something we hear more and more about right now specifically in America. But does the Bible say anything about self protecting? Or protecting others? What is the Jesus way? Maybe the concept of carrying seems extremely unbiblical to you, or maybe you carry and you know that you would protect yourself and others if necessary but you don't take it lightly. Either way, this episode is for you!
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Episode 30: Let's talk about the taboo topic: HELL. Part 2
Whew...we're going there. Let's talk about the taboo topic: HELL. It has been a staple in fear culture, but it also is a biblical truth. So how do we as followers of Jesus navigate this tough concept, especially knowing we have loved ones who don't share our beliefs. Take a deep breath, and press that play button.
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Episode 29: Let's talk about the taboo topic: HELL.
Whew...we're going there. Let's talk about the taboo topic: HELL. It has been a staple in fear culture, but it also is a biblical truth. So how do we as followers of Jesus navigate this tough concept, especially knowing we have loved ones who don't share our beliefs. Take a deep breath, and press that play button.
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Episode 28: Q&A: Catholic Arguments for Forgiveness/Why is Getting Married so Difficult?
Today on RLP, Pastor Dale & Katie answer questions listeners wrote in. Can you be forgiving without confession? And marriage in America sometimes seem more of a hassle than anything (financially). Is it that big of a deal to get married?
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Episode 27: Are Phones Keeping Us from Genuine Connection?
Today Pastor Dale & Katie Jones talk about something most can relate to in todays culture- phones. Has this helped us as a society connect more with others or hindered us? What can we as followers of Jesus do to stand out more on this specific cultural habit?Help us with this project!
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Episode 26: Q&A (Is Stress a Sin/What is up with the Trinity?)
Pastor Dale addresses some questions our RLP listeners have sent in.
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Episode 25: The Inside Scoop with Pastor's Kids
In this one off, Pastor Dale brings on his girls Jessica & Rachel as Katie interviews them on what it was really like to be raised as pastor kids, and what things helped shape them into resilient women. If you want the inside scoop...listen in.
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Episode 24: Gender Roles?
Pastor Dale & Katie Jones continue the discussion in regards to masculinity, as well as what does the Bible say about the "feminine" roles? Are we really equal? according to the Bible? Let's talk about it.
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RLP23 Does the Bible Encourage "Toxic Masculinity?"
Pastor Dale & Katie Jones get into a discussion regarding the buzz word "toxic masculinity" what it means, according to a recent article, and then what the Bible says about men's "role." If you are cringing just reading the title, take a listen. Let us know what you think!
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RLP22- Raising Resilient Kids
Pastor Dale Satrum & Katie Jones continue the conversation on parenting, and specifically- raising resilient kids.
Parents, what are your thoughts on raising kids to be resilient? What kinds of things are you doing to raise resilient adults?
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RLP21: 5 Practices to Pass to Your Children
Join Pastor Dale Satrum & Katie Jones as they talk about how we can "transfer" our faith to our children- or if that is even possible? Join the conversation! Send us any Qs, comments or thoughts you have. We love to hear from you: reallifepodcast@foothillsonline.com or on our Instagram: @reallifepodcast.foothills

RLP20: Embarrassing Jesus in Your Voting?
Pastor Dale & Katie Jones dive into some of the top voting issues of 2024, and discuss what it looks like to vote faith based and on biblical principles.
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19-Are You Embarrassing Jesus in Political Seasons?
Pastor Dale & Katie Jones get into what it looks like to represent Jesus in real life, during real life seasons- including political ones… you want to listen to this one.
We got a seat for you in this 2 part discussion , as we talk about what we got wrong in past seasons, how we can do better- and most importantly follow biblical principles regardless of how heated we get.
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18- Let's Talk Suicide & Mental Health (Robert's Story)
Katie Jones interviews Robert Shriver, (Foothills Tech Director) on his very personal journey through losing his father to suicide, and walking through mental health issues with his mother. Robert shares his story in a real, raw and authentic way and tells about how God was there throughout this dark time. *Disclaimer: We talk about suicide & mental health in this episode.
If you or someone you know is struggling with suicidal thoughts, you are not alone, reach out:
Suicide Hotline Number: 988 (Help is available)
https://www.clackamas.us/publichealth/suicideprevention.html
You don't want to miss this one.
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17-Faith Through Loss of Child (Katlyn's Story)
Pastor Dale & Katie welcome on Katlyn Stansfield, a young mama of 2. Katlyn walked through loss of a child last year and shares her story of unwavering faith and gives hope and encouragement for anyone going through loss.
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16-Does God Have a Dark Side? Pt.2
Join us for Pt. 2 as we dive into some of the harder questions we as followers of Jesus get asked like "Why would a loving God send people to hell," "Why does the God of the Old Testament seem so different than the God of the New Testament?" and other questions, Pastor Dale answers with authenticity and open heart around these complicated, not so fun topics. Join us! Have a thought or a question? We want to hear from you!
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15-Does God Have a Dark Side? Pt.1
Have you ever wondered or been asked any of the following:
-Why would a good God allow suffering to exist?
-Why would God command the death of so many people in the Bible (e.g., the Canaanites)?
-How can a loving God send people to hell?
-Why does God remain so “hidden?”
- Why would God need people to worship Him (isn’t that egotistical and arrogant)?
- Why does the “Old Testament God” seem different than the “New Testament" (Are we less evil than the groups of people God destroyed in the Old Testament)?
Heavy topic that Pastor Dale is willing to get in and talk about. If you have ever wondered these as a follower of Christ yourself, or maybe you are wrestling constantly with these questions before you pursue a relationship with Jesus- or if you are just a skeptic wanting to see how a pastor answers these...welcome! We are here for all of it.
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14-Is Atheism Hurting Humanity?
Part 2 of the Atheism Discussion- Pastor Dale and Katie explore what it looks like to hold an Atheistic worldview, and what implications can/and have come from that. From a Christian perspective- we are not here to guilt or shame anyone, we are here to have and hold intellectual discussions. Join the conversation!
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13: Let's talk Atheism/Agnostism
Today's podcast we dive into a discussion around Atheism, Agnostism, and how we can be intellectually honest and still have conversations around understanding one another. Let's have tools on how to navigate other worldviews and how to respectfully engage and still feel confident in our ability to defend why we believe. We will continue this discussion next week and go further when we look into what are the "ripple effects" of an atheistic world view.
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12: Jehovah Witness Journey (Tim's Story) Why Believe?
Episode 3 of "Why Believe" series- Join us in this incredible interview with our amazing friend Tim as he shares his story from being raised a "J Dub" as he calls it (AKA Jehovah Witness) and being a well known speaker throughout the Jehovah Witness community to hitting rock bottom through divorce and isolation, and being "disfellowshipped" from JW, Tim has an amazing story to share about finding God's grace and what a real relationship with Jesus looks like.

11: Getting Out of a Cult (Matt & Tammy's Story)
In Episode 11 (New Series: Why Believe?) Pastor Dale & Katie interview an incredible couple, Matt & Tammy Lane. Matt & Tammy both grew up within the Followers of Christ Cult, but after a series of events that led them to question everything they thought they knew, bravely left despite being completely cut off from friends and family and everything they knew, share their incredible journey of pursuing true grace, freedom and God's incredible love. You won't want to miss this one!
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Why So Many Denominations of Christianity? (New Series: Why Believe?)
On Episode 10 of RLP, we start a new series: Why Believe?
We are told in 1 Peter 3:15, "Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect..."
But what does that look like in real, raw messy life? There are SO MANY beliefs out there, what makes Christianity, "the right" one? Buckle up! Join the conversation, we would LOVE to hear from you: reallifepodcast@foothillsonline.com
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6 Habits That Are Keeping You From Reaching High Performance/Potential
Pastor Dale & Katie Jones get into the importance of "rest", what that really looks like, and go into 6 habits that keep us from not only high performance, but also our full potential.
References:
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Book Reference: The Power of Full Engagement- Book by James E. Loehr and Tony Schwartz
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Can Divorce Be Healthy?
Special Guest Kristin joins Pastor Dale & Katie to talk about another "church taboo"... D I V O R C E. While we know God created marriage and wants marriages to not just work, but to thrive- but we can't talk about marriage without addressing some gray areas. Kristin is real, authentic and raw about sharing her story and giving her wisdom that she gained throughout this hard time in her life.
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Values & Tools (Marriage) Part 2
Join us for part 2 of Marriage Values & Tools with special guest Lisa Satrum. Dale & Lisa get into 7 Values they have learned and implemented into their 30+ years of marriage. The episode for anyone looking to improve their marriage, learn new tools for a future marriage, or if you are single, have extra tools in the box for married friends of yours when they need some great advice.
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Values & Tools (Marriage) Part 1
Pastor Dale & Katie Jones bring on SPECIAL GUEST Lisa Satrum, Pastor Dale's wife of 30+ years and they share some great values and tools around building a fulfilling, successful marriage. Whether you are married, single or divorced this is one you don't want to miss this one. Dale & Lisa are genuine, authentic and raw about their struggles and victories in marriage.
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Why is Marriage Failing?
In Episode 5 of Real Life Podcast, Pastor Dale Satrum & Katie Jones get into the nitty gritty on the next series: Marriage. In this episode they discuss the hard facts about marriage success and why it is at an extreme decline over the decades. There is a light at the end of the tunnel, but first the issues have to be addressed. Join the conversation! Send us your thoughts at reallifepodcast@foothillsonline.com
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How Worldly Can A Follower of Jesus Be?
Maybe you have heard the term "worldly". Maybe it doesn't mean anything particularly bad to you, or if you were raised in church you know that term comes with some off putting meaning regarding how we should "be". Either way, whether someone who grew up in the church or someone who is trying to build their faith stronger and wrestle with questions- we get into the question. There have been decades of people in the church holding themselves to "holier than thou" ideals, and in return sometimes being very disengaged from the world. Is that such a bad thing? Or are we called to be out in the world? And if so, what are the boundaries and limits? How worldly can a follower of Jesus be?
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4 Mistakes Christians Make Representing Jesus
This week on RLP, Pastor Dale & Katie go more in depth with four mistakes that Christians make when it comes to representing Jesus, and how we can do better collectively. Can you relate to any of this? We want to hear from you! Send us questions, thoughts, ask for advice, give us feedback. We want to connect with you! reallifepodcast@foothillsonline.com
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Why are (SO MANY) People Leaving the Church?
The statistics don't lie- and what they are telling us is there is a problem in the church. Let's dive into the leading reasons people are leaving the church. Is it fixable? What can we do about it? And- if you are someone who has left the church...Katie can relate. Hear a little more on her reasoning for walking away from church and what brought her back.
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Intro To Real Life Podcast
Welcome to the Real Life Podcast! Pastor Dale Satrum and Katie Jones introduce themselves and dive into what the point of a pastor of 25 years and a 28 year old mom starting a podcast is for. If you want real answers to hard questions about following Jesus in real life, this is the podcast for you. We want to hear from you! Send us a question: reallifepodcast@foothillsonline.com