
Recovery Nuggets Podcast
By David Clemen

Recovery Nuggets Podcast Mar 25, 2022

Dr. Evelyn Higgins' Nugget
Dr. Higgins joins David Clemen on the podcast to discuss new technologies that are helping people with addiction in their lives. We hope you enjoy the conversation!
Check out her website at
You can find a link to her Ted talk, Bio, Consulatation, Books on Amazon, and lots of other great info.
Dr. Evelyn Higgins is a recognized international expert in the epidemiology of substance use disorders, process addictions, and mental health conditions. She is a graduate of the State University of New York with postgraduate studies at Harvard Medical School in Body, Mind, and Spirit medicine with an emphasis on resiliency. A Diplomate of the American College of Addictionology and Compulsive Disorders, she is also a member of the Pharmacogene Variation Consortium, is a Certified Addictionologist, Certified Addiction Professional, Doctor of Chiropractic, and is a Diplomate of the American Board of Disability Analysts specializing in pain management. Dr. Higgins’ work with addictions and primary mental health conditions led her to invent the patent-pending custom panel utilized exclusively by her companies Wired For Addiction® and the Neurotransmitter Reset Program®.

Mini Nugget - When life shows up!
David hops on the show to talk about real life situations and how he is dealing with them. Enjoy the Mini Nugget

Mini Nugget-Dog Days of Recovery
David jumps on for a mini nugget. Recovery isn't always pretty. Life on life's terms can be challening. We can Face every thing and recovery or we can F**k everything and Run. Stay in the present and deal with it.
Enjoy the episode. As always, thank you for showing up for your recovery. =)

Dr. Jamie Marich and Dr. Stephen Dansigers Nugget
The new workbook is Available August 29, 2023
Dr Jamie Marich and Dr. Stephen Dansiger hop on to discuss the new workbork for Trauma and The 12 Steps. We discuss all things recovery as well as how this workbook can enhance your recovery.
Dr. Jamie Marich (she/they) describes herself as a facilitator of transformative experiences. A clinical trauma specialist, expressive artist, writer, yogini, performer, short filmmaker, Reiki master, TEDx speaker, and recovery advocate, she unites all of these elements in her mission to inspire healing in others. She began her career as a humanitarian aid worker in Bosnia-Hercegovina from 2000-2003, primarily teaching English and music while freelancing with other projects. Jamie travels internationally teaching on topics related to trauma, EMDR therapy, expressive arts, mindfulness, and yoga, while maintaining a private practice and online education operations in her home base of Northeast Ohio. Jamie is the author of numerous books on trauma recovery and healing, with many more projects in the works. Marich is the founder of The Institute for Creative Mindfulness.
Dr. Steve played CBGB and Max’s Kansas City in the late 70s; drank, played in a toy rock band and then got sober in the 80s; became an international social justice/diversity educator and rocker again in the 90s; and is now a sought after consultant, trainer, clinician, writer and meditation teacher. Dr. Steve has attempted to cure Marc Maron on WTF, become a master EMDR therapist and provider of EMDR Training as Senior Faculty with the Institute for Creative Mindfulness, and has become a pioneer in the Buddhist recovery field. He is the CEO of StartAgain Associates, where he develops trauma-focused mindfulness based mental health training and technology solutions. He created the MET(T)A Protocol (Mindfulness and EMDR Treatment Template for Agencies), a design for mental health agency treatment using Buddhist mindfulness and EMDR Therapy, currently being utilized in trauma and addiction treatment centers across the country and internationally.

Mike Fecht's Nugget - Author of An Unlikely Yogi
David is reunited with former Manager and all around good dude Mike Fecht. Mike has come on to share his story of dealing with the grief, after the loss of his spouse Shani. He has written a book that chronicles his life after one phone called changed his life.
This episode is dedicated to Shani Fecht and her brilliant spirit.
Famous athletes and their agents. South Beach. After a tumultuous young adulthood, Mike Fecht finally found the job and life of his dreams. Managing a sports performance facility for some of the world’s most famous athletes in South Florida, life was looking up for thirty-five-year-old Mike and his wife of eight years, Shani. Then during the process of relocating from Atlanta, Mike received a call that would change his life forever.
His wife had been murdered in Atlanta.
Dark depths of despair and rage consumed Mike. The grief was overwhelming. But in healing from her own mother’s death, Shani left the blueprint for Mike to follow. At times it seemed as if she might just be throwing nuggets of clues from the other side.
A regular yoga practice was one of Shani’s final gifts to Mike. Although Mike avoided it for years, Shani convinced him to take up yoga a couple of years before her death. In his grief, the yoga mat became Mike’s rabbit hole into a spiritual journey of healing, transformation and connection to his late wife.
Mike let go of all he thought he knew to become something he never imagined.
An Unlikely Yogi takes the reader through an at-times intense journey of grief and loss to hope, healing and recovery on the other side.
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“Mike has truly created a masterpiece! Doing what he does best: finding strength through the discomfort and creating calmness through the breath. An Unlikely Yogi empowers anyone who has gone through some form of trauma to keep flowing. It's an example of what we're capable of overcoming when inner work is our focus. Namaste.”
Jelani Jenkins
5-Year NFL Veteran
Founder/CEO, Postseason
"I cried, then I smiled. I cried some more, then I laughed. This beautiful memoir of hope after tragedy is something everyone can learn something from. Reading about the impact yoga had on Mike’s life has inspired me to create my own yoga space in my home because of the powerful benefits."
Shannon Furman
7-Time Emmy Award-Winning Producer and Director With NFL Films
“Mike’s ability to feed life into others is a gift that has blessed my life wholeheartedly. Mike’s story not only encourages others that have been through adversity, but also how to connect with your inner being. Through yoga and meditation, Mike has taught me to 'let it be.' Mike, I want to thank you, because what we did in Miami changed my life forever! Love the book and love what you stand for!"
Jamar Taylor
8-Year NFL Veteran
"I’ve known Mike for a decade and have found his story and journey inspiring on many levels. Mike pushes himself to not only find his own path to peace but takes the time to help those around him in the process. Having the opportunity to get to know Mike has been a gift, and I look forward to following his growth for many years."
Kathryn Petralia
Cofounder and Chief Keeper, Keep Financial
Cofounder and Former COO, Kabbage.com
Forbes Magazine Top 100 Most Influential Women in the World
Link to the book on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Unlikely-Yogi-Grief-Post-Traumatic-Growth/dp/B0C9RWW3LX
*******Mike's Ted Talk https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TPs9Et43rB0&t=7s

Tara Gilmore's Nugget - Awaken Your Essence
You can find out more about Tara's offerings, retreats, and reiki here:
Tara jumps on the podcast to share her story of overcoming addiction and turning into quite the artist, hustler, and entreprenuer. She has pivoted into a new direction in her business and now is a reiki practicioner as well as a health and wellness retreat host. Her and her husband Shannon have had a show on HGTV called Rehabbed. https://www.tdn.tv/rehabbed
Tara's bio:
My name is Tara Gilmore and I live in Wilmington, NC. I live with my husband Shannon and our dog Hank. I am fortunate and grateful to be surrounded by friends, loved ones, and a community of amazing support! I believe in the power of healing and transformation through connection and whole hearted authentic living! I am a certified integrative health and wellness coach through the Institute of Integrative Nutrition, a 200 RYT, certified Reiki Practitioner through the Usui Method of Natural Healing, and a certified sound healer in Divine Resonance with Hudson Mind Body Spirit. Because of my past struggles with addiction and my commitment to recovery for over 23 years, I have been afforded the opportunity to dive deep into my search for external resources to fix my internal problems. I understand the darkness of this exhausting search for external fulfillment and I also know the light of recovery and limitless possibilities.
Traveling and experiencing different cultures, spending quality time with my husband, dog, and loved ones, and entertaining with delicious ayurvedically inspired meals for my tribe of favorite people are among some of my favorite things to do! I also shamelessly love late night insomnia cookies and ice cream with my husband. Life is about balance!
As adults, sometimes we are disillusioned by the idea that asking for support is a sign that we are somehow “broken” Allow yourself to see that imperfection is truly a gift and is the vehicle to greater connection with yourself and others. Not having all the answers all the time is a great relief. It allows the beauty of having a beginners or childs mind to open to new possibilities and the beauty learning and growing together.
I understand that making changes to your lifestyle may seem scary and overwhelming. I want to make this process exciting, enjoyable, and sustainable! I am here to support you on your journey and would love to be a witness to your success!
You can find out more about Tara's offerings, retreats, and reiki here:

Mini Nugget - Recovery is a renovation
Your Host David Clemen returns to drop a mini nugget discussing the past couple of months, renovating a house, and freedom from active addiction on July 4th, 2023. His anniversary is coming up. July 8th will be 17 years clean! Thank you for listening.

Angie Shy's Nugget-Life Love Music and Space Travel
lifelovemusicandspacetravel.com
instagram.com/coloradogirl777
Thank you for listening

Mini Nugget- Faith Hope Strength and Resilience
David hops on the mic to share his thoughts on Faith Hope Strength and Resilience in relation to life and recovery. Thanks for Listening!

MIni Nugget - Recovery and Relapse
David returns after a hiatus to drop a mini nugget on Recovery and Relapse. Thanks for listening!

Nick Ciadellas Nugget - Never Alone Recovery
One of the founders of neveralonerecovery.com jumps on the podcast to share his story as well as discuss the non profit never alone recovery.
Created by addicts for addicts, Never Alone Recovery is a free resource that aims to provide treatment program matching, drug rehab placement, intervention assistance, and recovery-related education to those struggling with active addiction as well as their loved ones who suffer with them.
At Never Alone Recovery, we believe the highest quality, evidence-based drug and alcohol treatment is necessary if you hope to start a new chapter in your life. Having witnessed the horrors of addiction both personally and professionally, we recognize that you are likely experiencing one of the darkest and most difficult periods in your life.
We pride ourselves on purpose, passion, and efficiency as we aid individuals and their families through the process of finding the right addiction treatment program at the best drug rehab for their addicted loved one.
Dealing with addiction is hard whether you’re the one who’s addicted or you’re that individual’s loved one. For that reason, our goal is to make this entire journey as simple and painless as possible.

MIni Nugget - Give yourself a break and put down the bat.
David hops on the mic to discuss his week. Cracked teeth, grinding, stress, resistance to change etc. Also, the reality that even in recovery, we are
gonna make mistakes, and not only is it ok, it's human. Thank you for listening.

Mini Nugget - Winter and Recovery
David reads an excerpt from Discover Inner Peace- A Guide to Spiritual Well Being by: Mike George.
The Season is Winter and it can give or force us to let go of all the BS , illusions and delusions. What BS have you been telling yourself, and is it time to let go?
Recovery is like a tree in Winter. Exposed and Vulnerable, but solid in the ground. Enjoy the episode.

Theresa Clower's Nugget - Intolightproject.org
Founder | Artist
I’ve had a long-time association with non-profits and have had the good fortune of establishing and directing a number of them over the past forty-some years. That experience, along with my attraction to the arts, has melded beautifully in forming INTO LIGHT PROJECT. I am not a professional artist. I had never done a portrait before attempting the first one of Devin. But something deep inside of me exploded. I can’t stop drawing faces!
The tragic loss of my son, Devin, in Feb 2018 has presented me with a wonderful gift…INTO LIGHT PROJECT. Through this project, I am able to look into the eyes of so many wonderful people, many of them at the prime of their lives, and see the intensity of their compassion, kindness, spirit, zest, humor, their troubles, their pain, and so much more. I get to sit and visit with them quietly. I treasure this time and I hope that through the portraits that are produced, others can see that we are all more alike than different. Thank you. Devin, for leaving this gift for me to find. Peace, my son.
How INTO LIGHT PROJECT was born
Motivated by the death of her son, Devin, to an overdose of fentanyl, founder Theresa Clower took up portrait work as a way of working through her grief. After completing Devin’s portrait, she was inspired to find others who lived and died like her son and to show the extent of the drug epidemic through exhibits involving each State. She aspired to draw their portraits, tell their stories, and start a dialogue around the disease.
What We Do
• PUT A HUMAN FACE on the disease of addiction through hand-drawn portraits and written narratives.
• CHANGE THE CONVERSATION ABOUT DRUG ADDICTION to help erase the stigma and shame so those with the disease will seek the quality care they need and deserve.
• EDUCATE the public about drug addiction as a disease.
• ORGANIZE EXHIBITIONS representing each of the 50 states.
intolightproject.org

Mini Nugget-Overthinking
David Clemen discusses his bumpy entry intro into the new years, talks Dental Issues, and learns it's all gonna be alright.

Jill Fitzgerald's Nugget - Confidant Health
Our Mission
We’re here to help people establish the mindset, habits, and skills to thrive.
We created a model that pairs incredible providers who deliver evidence-based interventions with digitized behavioral-health resources. Our approach maximizes the impact of high-quality care with minimum overhead and without traditional marketing techniques. We transfer the savings directly to our clients – making our care better, more affordable, and more convenient.

Lori and Dean Ashenfelder's Nugget- Fentanyl Poisoning and djswish.org
Lori and Dean join the show to discuss their son's life and legacy. They are the founders of djswish.org
This is a topic that is quite common in today's society. We welcome these parents to discuss this topic so others are aware of what is happening and offer some solutions. Thank you for listening.
From their website:
On July 16, 2021, our lives took a drastic turn. That was the day we lost our only child to illicit fentanyl poisoning.
Life wasn’t perfect before that day, but we were happy and hoped that DJ would find a way to beat the demons that dragged him back into active SUD time after time. God had a plan for DJ and Dean and me. It wasn’t the plan we prayed for and dreamt of. We had a choice to make, live in our sorrow or find a way to keep DJ’s memory alive and help others.
Like many families we watched our son change before our eyes. The real DJ was there at times, but SUD is a wicked disease without an easy remedy. Dean and I felt so very isolated. Few in our circle of family and friends were familiar with SUD. The stigma that surrounds it leads you to believe that you must hide the truth. It tells you that your loved one is weak and if they were just more determined they could beat it. The stigma tells you that you have failed. The stigma is WRONG. We quickly found there are hundreds of thousands of families like ours that don’t know what to do or where to turn.
We helped DJ get into recovery programs and while there we had hope for a bright future. Our son was back, he was healthy and working hard to free himself of the disease. He completed the programs and came home to re-build his life but found so many roadblocks that none of us were prepared to get around. The disease was active again and we helplessly watched the changes in our son once again.
We did all the things traditional “therapy” suggests… set hard boundaries, cut him off, brought him home and so much more. We took him to detox centers and were turned away. For us the traditional efforts were not working. Finally in the summer of 2021 we tried once more to bring DJ home and set strong boundaries in place and thought we were helping him make good decisions. He found a job he enjoyed, stayed away from the people and places that triggered his addiction and we thought we were on the right path. It wasn’t perfect, but we had time – or so we thought. That day in July seemed so normal. We had no idea what the morning would bring.
Losing our son forced us to decide how life would look without him. The first few days and weeks nearly destroyed us both. The grief was suffocating. The anger was fierce. A giant hole made breathing a task. Something had to be done. We had to make a stand and we had to give our son a voice again. He told a friend that if he didn’t survive, he hoped others would be saved because of his death.
In October, DJ’s Wish-Freedom From Fentanyl was launched as a Facebook page to help us spread information and news on the illicit fentanyl crisis our country is facing. While we are still a small group our reach grows daily. We are giving a voice to many, and God has provided many opportunities that we didn’t dream were possible.
DJ’s Wish strives to be a resource for those who feel isolated.

Ryan Nilsen's Nugget- Clen Apparel
Ryan jumps on the podcast to discuss design, sobriety, and keeping busy in recovery. Ryan has his own style and motivations that help keep him sober. On top of being a full time tech designer, he has his own clothing apparel where the design is CLEN and top notch. Thanks Ryan for being on the show!
Check him out at clenapparel.com
You can see his designs on instagram as well instagram.com/clen_lifestyle_gear

Harriet Hunter's Nugget - Miracles of Recovery
Harriet Hunter joins the podcast to talk Recovery and share about her book Miracles of Recovery. Thank you for listening.
Alcoholism and other addictions helped to create a 30-year journey into the darkness of sex, drugs, and alcohol. These obsessions served to stripped me of opportunities to succeed and rise out of my self-imposed hell. It took 30-years of trying to escape from reality to connect-the-dots to freedom and to find hope sufficient to find sobriety. It was about time.
My name is Beth H. For the purposes of my book, my pseudo-name is Harriet Hunter. it was suggested I let you know who I really am. Since my walk into recovery in 1999, I’ve had one primary purpose: to show others how they can achieve their miracles with a vision and determination to never-ever go backwards one day at a time.

Quint Boa's Nugget
Quint visits the podcast all the way from the UK. It was a wonderful conversation about recovery, mental health related animations and much more. Thanks Quint!
Writer/Producer/Director
Video creator
Founder of @shootyou
Animation / Video Production 🎥
Mental Health Advocate 🧠
Psychotherapist (UKCP / BPS / APA)
www.shootyou.com/understanding
instagram.com/quintboa

Brittany L Shelton's Nugget - Freedom from childhood trauma and self destruction.
Brittany Shelton is an author and hops on the podcast to discuss recovery from complex childhood trauma and self destruction. Thank You for listening.
https://twitter.com/_BLShelton
•Author: 'Discovering Beautiful' •15 years #sober •Complex Childhood Trauma Advocate •Generational Freedom •COA •CSA •DV •Breaking Cycles •Art = My therapy.
https://www.amazon.com/dp/1981006036/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_fabc_T6-aGbNKK15DZ

Mini Nugget - Forgiveness, Gratitude annnnd Sarcasm?
David hops on the mic to drop a mini nugget. Heading into the Holidays can be stressful, yet it's a good time to stay in a place of appreciation and gratitude.
Keep on the path. You got this.

Dana Krull's Nugget - I Kissed Alcohol Goodbye
A Message From Dana...
Thanks for stopping by
As a former Army chaplain who developed a toxic relationship with alcohol after leaving the military, I stayed on a solo rollercoaster of rock bottoms, recoveries and relapses...
Finally, in the winter of 2022, I found my way out of the cycle by connecting with people like you.
Let's break up with booze together!
ikissedalcoholgoodbye.com

Martin Lockett's Nugget
Martin Lockett is a writer and speaker whose words have impacted thousands of people, even before leaving prison. He served almost 18 years for manslaughter, caused by an accident one New Year’s eve where he drank excessively and drove through a stop light, colliding with a car carrying three people. Upon learning that the two people who died that night were volunteers in the drug and alcohol recovery community, Martin chose to honor them by dedicating his life to helping others through addiction counseling and drinking and driving prevention.
Martin has made the most of his incarceration by striving to achieve an education and certifications to become a counselor. His list of educational accomplishments includes:
- Earned his high school GED
- Earned a Certificate of Human Services from Louisiana State University
- Graduated from Indiana University: Associate of Arts
- Graduated from Colorado State University-Pueblo: Bachelor of Science in Sociology with honors
- Graduated from California Coast University: Master of Science in Psychology with honors
- Became a member of the Delta Epsilon Tau International Honor Society
- Completed comprehensive substance abuse treatment program
- Interned and earned state certification as a substance abuse counselor (CADC I)
While in prison, he worked in the educational programs for inmates where he:
- Moderated DUI victim impact panels for three years that included offenders and victims and told his own story
- Recorded detailed account of the night of the crash for use at various online panels during the pandemic
- Mentored and trained inmates to become mentors for addictions recovery
- Tutored inmates through the GED curriculum
- Counseled inmates through addictions treatment
As a writer, Martin has used his time behind bars to write in various forms, all with the intention of helping others with his story and life experiences.
- Wrote and published two books: his memoir, Prison to Purpose Pipeline and My Prison Life, his collection of essays
- Published hundreds of blog posts on adjusting to prison life, maximizing opportunities behind bars, the impact of incarceration on families and communities, and current social justice issues
- Published articles in the Oregonian: Honoring my victims every day (2019);Time to pull back on mandatory minimum sentences (2020); Returning to Portland from prison with a commitment to make amends (2021); and Ex-offenders seeking a fresh start need help finding a home base (2021)
While serving his time, Martin Lockett modeled exemplary behavior throughout the entirety of his sentence by not receiving a single disciplinary report. He has focused on achieving his pledge to take up the work of his victims, which he intends to do for the rest of his life.
You can find Martin at martinlockett.com

Jeff Collins Nugget - Gambling Addiction Recovery

Ingrid Clayton's Nugget-Author of Believing Me: Healing from Narcissistic Abuse and Complex Trauma
This week Ingrid Clayton Phd hops on the podcast to discuss recovery from Narcissistic Abuse and Complex Trauma.
With a Masters in transpersonal psychology and a PhD in clinical psychology, Ingrid has a holistic approach to psychotherapy, incorporating trauma-informed modalities like Somatic Experiencing, EMDR and other experiential ways of working with the nervous system.
Based on the belief that a therapist can’t take her clients further than she is willing to go, Ingrid has been using a relational approach to therapy since 2004, bringing her whole self to the work including her personal experience, intuition and education. This enables her to be in real connection and collaboration with her clients.

Joanna Free's Nugget - Buttkicking Nicotine
Joanna Free jumps on the podcast to discuss recovery from Nicotine and Vaping. This is a great topic for discussion as a lot of people in recovery are trying to break free from the chains of Nicotine. Thanks for listening.
https://www.amazon.com/Joanna-NicciTina-Free/e/B09NY3QK4J/ref=aufs_dp_fta_dsk
“Make your mess your message,” they said. Amen to that! But first she had to clean up the mess.
Joanna NicciTina Free was Joanna Cummings: a dedicated (and, frankly, messy) smoker with no hope whatsoever of stopping smoking, ever. She lit up before getting out of bed in the morning and smoked until she was ready to turn out the lights. “I would have bet against myself kicking - the odds were that bad.” Later, with credentials in both mental health and in the treatment of addiction, she still found herself unable to kick the one drug that was still kicking her backside daily.
The author of Kick Butts Take Names and Buttkickers: Twenty Ways to Leave Tobacco (now in its tenth anniversary edition), her work in smoking cessation has been praised by addiction professionals, fellow buttkickers, and even a former US Surgeon General as life-changing, innovative, transformative. She loves buttkickers, even the ones who are just kick-curious to start. As one buttkicker said, “She meets you right where you are” and joins with you on your individual path to freedom.

Mini Nugget -What lies beneath
David talks about miscommunication and misunderstandings. What lies beneath could teach us to be more compassionate to the other.
Thanks for listening.

Mini Nugget-The falling of the leaves
A mini nugget on the gifts of fall. The leaves and what they can teach us. Enjoy.

Mini Nugget-A desire to stop using
Welcome to another mini nugget. The recovery spin wheel was used to pick a topic for this week. A desire to stop using is really the key before surrender. It helps us admit to ourselves there is a problem and then get to the place where we want to stop and STAY STOPPED. Enjoy the episode.

Mini Nugget - Put the bat down/Self Criticism
David shares his thoughts on putting the bat down. Sometimes you just gotta take stock, do something different, and let go.
Thank you for listening.

mini nugget - let go or be dragged
David shares his favorite zen proverb. Let go or be dragged. What are you holding onto that is not serving you today?
Thanks for listening! email the show at recoverynuggetspodcast.com

Mini Nugget - Self Compassion
David shares where he is at and how he deals with emotional surprises. Compassion is easier to practice with ones we know and love, yet practicing self compassion it can be a struggle. Give yourself a break. Recovery is a process and we can survive our emotions today. #grateful.

Mini Nugget- Consequences
This weeks Mini Nugget focuses on the meaning of Consequences. It's not as bad as you think. =)
Keep doing the work, and experience positive consequences.
#grateful # recoverynuggets

Mini Nugget - Fellowship
David hops on to share a Mini Nugget on Fellowship and the power it holds.
Fellowship is defined as: fel·low·ship
/ˈfelōˌSHip/
noun
- 1.friendly association, especially with people who share one's interests."they valued fun and good fellowship as the cement of the community"Similar:companionshipcompanionabilitysociabilitycomradeshipfraternizationcamaraderiefriendshipmutual support mutual respect
Fellowship has the power to keep us connected, loved, and accountable.
Thanks for listening!

Recovery Hardware's Nugget - with Gina Schaefer
Gina is an entrepreneur who owns 13 Hardware stores in the DC Metro area. Gina ditched the booze years ago, and by a simple twist of fate
became a beacon of light to people in early recovery looking for a fresh start. She tells the story of her journey on this weeks episode!
Meet GinaCEO and Co-Founder, A Few Cool Hardware Stores
Schaefer is Founder and CEO of a chain of Ace Hardware stores located in Washington, D.C., Baltimore, MD, Alexandria, VA, Takoma Park, MD and Silver Spring, MD. She is a passionate entrepreneur who grew her company from one to 13 stores in 18 years and now leads a multimillion-dollar business that employs more than 250 people. She is dedicated to maintaining a strong corporate culture. Schaefer's big passion is for developing urban markets, supporting small businesses and helping women to succeed in all aspects of the hardware industry. She has tirelessly focused on the "Return to Main Street" movement in her own city of Washington, D.C., to promote Shop Local campaigns and community revitalization in urban areas.
Schaefer draws her inspiration from fellow entrepreneurs who strive to be creative, think differently and help make a difference. People like Judy Wicks, founder of the White Dog Cafe in Philadelphia who inspired her to use her voice as a force for good; Paul Saginaw and Ari Weinzweig, founders of gourmet food group Zingerman's Community of Businesses in Michigan, from whom Schaefer learned innovative business strategies and Father Gregory Boyle, founder of Homeboy Industries in Los Angeles, who taught her that nonprofit organizations need to think beyond simple charity.
When her busy schedule allows, Schaefer likes to relax by making greeting cards (she's a big believer in the power of the written note), kayaking, taking spin classes, traveling, reading and, of course, mentoring other small business owners.

Mini Nugget- Celebrating Friends Anniversaries
David hops on to give shout outs to celebrate others recovery anniversaries! Also, he discusses steps, a couple of passages from recovery literature, as well as the newcomer being the most important person.

Mini Nugget - Self Awareness and getting back on the path.
David is back from a vacation in the mountains of North Carolina. He shares thoughts on the gifts of recovery, self awareness, getting off track, as well as getting back on track. The themes of forgiveness and compassion are discussed. Also, Recovery Nuggets Podcast was listed in top 10 list of recovery podcasts according to the Sober Buddy App. Whoooo hooooooo!

Mini Nugget - Recovery and Vacation
David shares an update on getting roasted at his 50th birthday party, the gifts of recovery, and making a plan for Vacation.
Just because you go on Vacation doesn't mean your addiction does. We have to remain vigilant in staying on the path of recovery.

Mini Nugget - The Story of Buddy
David describes the power of pets, unconditional love and shares the story of Buddy. Buddy was a stray cat who came into his life at one of the dark nights of the soul. The healed together and had a happy existence together. Navigating Life.
Enjoy the episode.
#recoverynuggets

Lynn King's Nugget 2.0
Lynn King rejoins the podcast to discuss her 1 year Anniversary of being Sober. She shares what it's like to hit a rough patch in early recovery
and how she got through it. We also discuss learning about unmet expectations of other people and how that can be a disappointment. Lynn shares about big changes in her life and navigating moving to another country. Glad to have her back on the podcast.
You can follow Lynn on Instagram at instagram.com/thesobergrandmaroadtrip
Thank you for listening to Recovery Nuggets Podcast!

Mini Nugget July 19, 2022
David shares an update on his health, the show, and a Thank You card from Gina Schaefer. Lots of good stuff happening. Thank you for stopping by the podcast. #recoveryjourney #recoverynuggets

Gigi Langer's Nugget- Author of "50 Ways to Worry Less Now"
A bit about Gigi Langer:
I’m a presenter, retreat leader, and author of the award-winning book, 50 Ways to Worry Less Now: Reject Negative Thinking to Find Peace, Clarity, and Connection. I also have 34 years of sobriety.
Would you like to learn how to overcome your stress, anxiety, and negative patterns? My goal is to help you become calm and wise, even during your most troubling times.
Rather than responding out of impatience, fear, judging, gossip, or self-sabotage, you’ll learn to connect with your own center of loving power so you can enjoy fulfilling relationships, creativity, vibrant health, and success.

Mini Nugget- Celebrating 16 years clean.
David hops on the mic to share a bit of gratitude for celebrating 16 years clean. #grateful

Andrew Susskind's Nugget- LCSW and Author of "It's Not About the Sex"
Andrew Susskind, LCSW, SEP, CGP has been in private practice since 1992 specializing in the following areas:
- relationships
- sexual compulsivity and problematic sexual behaviors
- addictions & trauma
- grief & loss
- mid-life transitions
Andrew is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Brainspotting and Somatic Experiencing Practitioner and a Certified Group Psychotherapist. In 1988 he completed a Bachelor of Arts degree in Psychology from the University of Massachusetts at Amherst before transitioning to the West Coast. After completing a Master of Social Welfare degree from UCLA in 1991, Andrew has worked with individuals, couples, families and groups in his practice.
Speaking, writing, and training are dimensions of Andrew's ongoing desire to learn and grow. He has given numerous presentations and workshops both nationally and locally in Southern California, and he was adjunct faculty in the UCLA School of Medicine Doctoring Program.
Andrew has mentored associates in his private practice since 1997 and serves as faculty for the Principles of Group Psychotherapy course, a prerequisite to becoming a Certified Group Psychotherapist. His recent book It’s Not About the Sex: Moving from Isolation to Intimacy after Sexual Addiction (Central Recovery Press, June 2019) joins his workbook, From Now On: Seven Keys to Purposeful Recovery which was released in 2014.
Andrews website is westsidetherapist.com
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Stephanie Graves' Nugget
Stephanie is recently celebrating 13 years clean and sober! David welcomes Stephanie on the pod to share her story of growing up
feeling like she didn't fit in. A myriad of situations contributed to her eventual turn toward the booze and the drugs. She also found the path of
recovery at quite a young age. Her life is now immersed in recovery and helping others.
Recovery is possible at any age! Enjoy the episode.
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Mini Nugget - Celebrations and Health Issue
David jumps on the mic for a short Mini Nugget. He shares about some recent and upcoming milestones. This summer will be his 16 years clean. He just celebrated 14 years nicotine FREE! Enjoy the mini nugget. Nom Nom Nom

Gina Schaefer's Nugget (Recovery Hardware)
CEO and Co-Founder, A Few Cool Hardware Stores
Schaefer is Founder and CEO of a chain of Ace Hardware stores located in Washington, D.C., Baltimore, MD, Alexandria, VA, Takoma Park, MD and Silver Spring, MD. She is a passionate entrepreneur who grew her company from one to 13 stores in 18 years and now leads a multimillion-dollar business that employs more than 250 people. She is dedicated to maintaining a strong corporate culture. Schaefer's big passion is for developing urban markets, supporting small businesses and helping women to succeed in all aspects of the hardware industry. She has tirelessly focused on the "Return to Main Street" movement in her own city of Washington, D.C., to promote Shop Local campaigns and community revitalization in urban areas.
Schaefer draws her inspiration from fellow entrepreneurs who strive to be creative, think differently and help make a difference. People like Judy Wicks, founder of the White Dog Cafe in Philadelphia who inspired her to use her voice as a force for good; Paul Saginaw and Ari Weinzweig, founders of gourmet food group Zingerman's Community of Businesses in Michigan, from whom Schaefer learned innovative business strategies and Father Gregory Boyle, founder of Homeboy Industries in Los Angeles, who taught her that nonprofit organizations need to think beyond simple charity.
When her busy schedule allows, Schaefer likes to relax by making greeting cards (she's a big believer in the power of the written note), kayaking, taking spin classes, traveling, reading and, of course, mentoring other small business owners.
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Her book Recover Hardware will be available in the fall! Check all the places you can buy books to scoop a copy!

25 piece Mini Nugget - David's Recovery Nuggets
David shares his Recovery Nuggets. 25 Recovery Nuggets to chew on and think about on your journey in recovery.
- I had to want to get clean for myself.
- I had to believe it was possible
- I had to admit to myself that it was a problem, before I could even consider asking for help.
- The gift of desperation is a powerful thing. When you are desperate to get something ( in this case recovery) you will do whatever it takes.
- 12 step programs worked for me. What was in there that worked? Self, society, service, and spirituality. (Higher-power)
- Meetings, connections, and new relationships with others working on their recovery helped me not feel so alone.
- Unlearning a lot of my old ideas about life, values, and the importance of service helps get me out of my head
- Getting into a regular rhythm of recovery dialing vs drunk dialing.
- I had to quit hanging out with old people places and things. The lifestyle of drinking and drugging is just that, a lifestyle. Recovery is a new way of living. It meant getting good sleep, going to meetings, talking to new people in recovery.
- I got a sponsor. Someone to help guide me through the steps and get used to the recovery lifestyle.
- I learned to pray, meditate, be still, and apply the newfound peace in my everyday walk.
- I had to start giving back. Giving back with my time, my efforts, thank people in my life who helped me. I have to give back what was given so feely to me.
- Take accountability for my actions, make amends, put the grocery cart back, drive safely, practice compassion, make mistakes and stay clean and sober thru them as well.
- I have to keep showing up for this thing. Addiction is no joke and can grab hold in a myriad of ways. Food, sex, porn, drugs, alcohol, shopping, lottery tickets, retail therapy, sports. By continuing to show up and be around others I can participate in my recovery.
- Try new things. Especially when it’s uncomfortable.
- My recovery is my responsibility. That means there are certain things I have to do, and certain things I no longer play around with.
- The more I work on myself, the better other people in my life become. What I mean is some of the people I held resentments against were doing their best at the time, and furthermore maybe I was the self centered train wreck who was off the rails
- As I learn to ask for forgiveness, I becoming more willing to forgive others.
- I no longer need to be understood, I do a lot more to try and understand others.
- When someone is sharing with me something that they are going through. I do not have to try and FIX it or give advice. I can just listen and be supportive.
- Gratitude makes a huge difference in my perception of my life, my mistakes, and my material experience. Gratitude can take me from a victim to an accepting person of what is my reality.
- Let go or be dragged.
- Lower my expectations and raise my acceptance.
- The same person can show you who you want to be, and who you do not want to be. IN THE SAME DAY.
- Well rounded recovery involves abstinence from the thing, doing work to improve the patterns that cause me to want to use the thing, connection with others, service to others, showing up for your life be it work, family, community, reading and journaling, finding someone who is emotionally reliable to share your process, for me it was a sponsor. Making mistakes and learning from them and doing my best not to self sabotage when I am close to a new level of learning or growing.

Dr. Robb Kelly's Nugget
Dr. Robb Kelly hops on the podcast to share his experience, his tips, his story, and lastly his Recovery Nuggets!
Robb Kelly, PhD – The Recovery Expert – was born in Manchester England. He grew up in a family of musicians and developed a strong love for music at an early age. He was performing on stage at the age of nine. During his early twenties, he worked at the elite and influential Abbey Roads Studio, as a session musician in London.Addiction was always close to his heart as Dr. Kelly was born into a family that had a history of alcoholism. He began drinking and using drugs at an early age, but he managed to stay on a path of success, moving to Oxford in the early 1980’s to pursue a PhD in Psychology at the prestigious University of Oxford. He continued to drink heavily during his time in Oxford – but still managed to complete his Doctorate studies, graduating with a PhD in psychology in 1984.Even though he was a heavy drinker – no one would have predicted, that he would be living on the streets of Manchester, homeless and alone. He recalls the night where he had a staggering revelation when it came to his own alcoholism. It would later coin two of his most popular catch phrases: “The Problem is not our Drinking, it is our Thinking” and “Step out of the Disease, and into the Solution.”Dr. Kelly was standing on a street corner one night in Manchester. His body was shaking from alcohol withdrawal, and he stood in front of a liquor store, trembling, desperately waiting for the store to open. He knew that as soon as he drank that first sip of alcohol, he would feel relief.As soon as the liquor store opened, he rushed into the store. The clerk grabbed a bottle of Vodka from the shelf, and placed it in a brown paper bag in front of him. As he lifted the bag in his hands his trembling stopped. His body stopped shaking and his mind rested at ease. He had not even taken that first sip; it was just the promise of alcohol that stopped his shaking and eased his restless mind.