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Relationships Rock

By Relationships Rock

A podcast on love, dating, and relationships by Raquel Betesh, M.S., M.S.

As a Jewish matchmaker, relationship coach, and Psychology Professor, I am delighted to take you on a journey as we discuss different topics through the lenses of Orthodox Judaism.

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Episode 34: "What I Want, Does Not Want Me!"

Relationships RockMay 22, 2023

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Episode 34: "What I Want, Does Not Want Me!"

Episode 34: "What I Want, Does Not Want Me!"

We are joined by Shadchanim and Dating Coaches Danielle Aronovitz and Riselle Naimark where we discuss the biggest frustration in shidduchim: "What I Want Does Not Want Me".


Danielle is a shadchan and dating coach for many years for all types of people (as well as a Speech Pathologist!). She can be reached via Whatsapp at: 5163161902.

Risselle Naimark is a Professional Freelance Makeup Artist and Skincare Consultant , who has been in the beauty industry for over 30 yrs.  She is a Shadchan and Dating Coach as well.


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May 22, 202301:03:22
Episode 33: Strike or Filter? Navigating Shidduchim With Divorced Parents

Episode 33: Strike or Filter? Navigating Shidduchim With Divorced Parents

In this episode we are joined by Rivky, where we discuss navigating shidduchim while coming from a divorced home. We discuss the challenges, the questions to ask, and many other insights. Whether you come from a married home, a divorced home, are a single or a parent, there are a lot of rocks in this episode about having the awareness of the type of home you grew up and the type of home you want to build.


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May 15, 202346:52
Episode 32: "Great Expectations: What Should You Expect On Dates?"

Episode 32: "Great Expectations: What Should You Expect On Dates?"

We are joined by Miriam Zeitlin where we discuss expectations for the first few dates, dropping the shadchan, and getting engaged!

Miriam Zeitlin is a certified dating/relationship coach and shadchan. Having been through the shidduch and dating scene with her boys, Miriam saw a huge need for dating coaches who understand the frum shidduch system. Miriam grew up in Brooklyn and attended school in Chicago, so she understands and connects well with people from all  backgrounds.

You can contact Miriam: +1 (718) 909-6256

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May 08, 202348:18
Episode 31: Shifting Your Mindset

Episode 31: Shifting Your Mindset

We are joined by my friend Yocheved where we discuss shifting your mindset, having Emuna, and how to find strength and positivity during dating! Thank you Yocheved for coming on!!


May 02, 202336:12
Episode 30: Financial Intimacy: Discussing Finances & Money Before Marriage

Episode 30: Financial Intimacy: Discussing Finances & Money Before Marriage

In this episode we are joined by my cousin Shana where we discuss the importance of discussing finances during dating!

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May 01, 202345:04
Episode 29: Singles in the City: Community Life & Shidduchim

Episode 29: Singles in the City: Community Life & Shidduchim

We are joined by Rebbetzin Yocheved Goldberg, the Rebbetzin of the Boca Raton Synagogue in South Florida. We discussed the role community leaders, community members, and singles can do to help singles feel connected and included in Jewish Communities.

Rebbetzin Goldberg is also a shachan and kallah teacher. She can be reached at: Goldbergmom@gmail.com.

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Apr 26, 202351:30
Episode 28: Addressing A "Touchy" Subject

Episode 28: Addressing A "Touchy" Subject

We are excited to have Dr. Yossi Ives back on the podcast, this time talking about the very important topic of Shomer Negiah.

Doctor Yossi Ives is an expert in dating. He is a qualified life coach and author of two books on coaching psychology, including Relationship Coaching. He has worked with over a hundred singles, helping them towards marriage. He runs a humanitarian organization and is the Rav of a community in Pomona. It was an honor to have him on the podcast!

You can reach him at: www.datewell.org 

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Apr 25, 202301:01:37
Episode 27: The Laws of Attraction

Episode 27: The Laws of Attraction

We are joined today by the amazing dating coach Hanna Kahana where we discussed all about attraction: What is attraction? What does it feel like? How is it different than infatuation? Can it grow? How much attraction do you need to get engaged? And more!

Hanna Kahana is a certified life coach that specializes in dating and first year of marriage. She is focused on assisting young adults with any questions or concerns they may have as they navigate the dating world. You can reach her at: HannaKahanaCoach@gmail.com. You can also check her out on Instagram: @HannaKahanaCoaching


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Apr 18, 202353:13
Episode 26: Did I get Passed-over? Family, Triggers & Holidays

Episode 26: Did I get Passed-over? Family, Triggers & Holidays

Family is family and yet....there are always triggers, specially during the holidays! Today we are discussing how to make your family time as pleasant as possible, have the right perspective, and at the same time, make time within the social setting to recharge.


Chag Sameach!


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Apr 04, 202318:50
Episode 25: Ten Things Your Kallah Teacher Wants You To Know!

Episode 25: Ten Things Your Kallah Teacher Wants You To Know!

Ten things your kallah teacher wants you to know, with a bonus #11 at the end. Whether single, engaged, or married, here are some important tips to keep in mind!

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Mar 27, 202323:18
Episode 24: Divorcee Roundtable Q&A: The Stigma, Dating Divorcees, & More!

Episode 24: Divorcee Roundtable Q&A: The Stigma, Dating Divorcees, & More!

We are joined today by Eliyahu and Yosef, who share their thoughts and experience on dating a second time around.


-How can you find out what really happened?

-What are red and green flags when dating divorcees?

-Is someone less ready to commit because they went through a divorce?

And many more questions!!


Whether you are dating the second time around or even the first, there are a lot of gems to gain from this episode!


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Mar 22, 202301:03:08
Episode 23: Clarity & Closure: Letting Go & Moving On!

Episode 23: Clarity & Closure: Letting Go & Moving On!

In this episode we discuss getting clarity and closure after a break up and moving on!  Dealing with the pain of letting someone go, gaining clarity on why it didn’t work, getting closure that this person was not for you, allowing you to fully closer that door, and knowing when to revisit an idea. This is part of the journey, and thought painful, can have a very significant impact!

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Mar 15, 202331:30
Episode 22: The Art of Femininty

Episode 22: The Art of Femininty

This is the episode that started all the episodes, the conversation that I would have so many times that I decided to start this podcast! How can you use your feminine energy in dating and beyond? Tune it!

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Mar 09, 202332:17
Episode 21: Guys Roundtable Part 2

Episode 21: Guys Roundtable Part 2

Back by popular demand, the guys are back in the zoom studio answering your questions! Thank you Noach, Yoni and Joshua for coming on and sharing your answers with us!

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Mar 05, 202301:08:12
Episode 20: Awkward Scenarios & Responses

Episode 20: Awkward Scenarios & Responses

This week we are joined by my cousin, Shana, who joined us in the second episode! We discussed some of the awkward scenarios that you sent in a few weeks ago:

-Not liking your engagement bracelet

-Guy turns on non-Jewish music in the car.

-Job offer when you just started dating someone.

-Listening to your gut! And more!

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Feb 27, 202339:56
Episode 19: What Girls Want You To Know Roundtable: Girls Perspective

Episode 19: What Girls Want You To Know Roundtable: Girls Perspective

This week we have the girls in the studio, thank you Shira and Sara for joining us! We are answering questions from the guys and giving the female perspective on kosher flirting and shidduch dating. 

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Feb 21, 202347:55
Episode 18: What Guys Want You To Know Roundtable: Guys Perspective

Episode 18: What Guys Want You To Know Roundtable: Guys Perspective

In this episode we are joined by Joshua, Eliyahu, and Noach who were gracious to share with us their insights and also answer your questions!

Feb 14, 202301:13:44
Episode 17: Porn Addiction & Dating

Episode 17: Porn Addiction & Dating

Listener discretion advised. 

The nature of this topic is very sensitive and private and it is because of that I wanted to put this important information on here. Our guest speaker is Naomi Lewis Afriat, LCSW, is a Licensed Social Worker who has spent 15 years working with teens, young adults, couples and families.

Naomi relocated to Los Angeles in 2020 after living in New York for 15 years. Before leaving New York, Naomi worked with teens, parents, and families in overcoming challenges. She also ran a crisis hotline for parents and provided support in clinical settings. Naomi obtained her Masters in Social Work from Touro College in 2009. She also has a certificate in Crisis Counseling, is trained in EMDR and is a CSAT (Certified Sex Addiction Therapist). In her role as a CSAT, 

Naomi is passionate about supporting addicts, their spouses and their families struggling with sex addiction, intimacy disorders and related issues. The majority of her work in this area is focused on supporting Betrayed Partners of addicts, and helping couples reconnect after betrayal. Naomi is married and enjoys cooking and pursuing her artistic interests in her free time. She is licensed, and practices in CA, NJ, NY, FL, VA & NV.

For more information about Naomi and the work she does, please visit www.intomeyousee.org. She can also be reached via email at NaomiLewisLSCW@gmail.com. 

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Feb 13, 202355:56
Episode 16: Advice to Parents

Episode 16: Advice to Parents

This episode is dedicated to parents of children in shidduchim. Let's bridge that gap between your child and yourself, and use this challenging time period to bring you even closer! 

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Feb 07, 202327:28
Episode 15: Stuck in Dating? Emotional Connection, Physical Attraction & Religious Differences

Episode 15: Stuck in Dating? Emotional Connection, Physical Attraction & Religious Differences

We are joined by Rabbi Doctor Yossi Ives where we discuss "Why Do Singles Get Stuck in Dating?"

Rabbi Doctor Yossi Ives is an expert in dating. He is a qualified life coach and author of two books on coaching psychology, including Relationship Coaching. He has worked with over a hundred singles, helping them towards marriage. He runs a humanitarian organization and is the Rav of a community in Pomona. It was an honor to have him on the podcast!

You can reach him at: www.datewell.org 

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Jan 31, 202343:37
Episode 14: Dating Coach or Coach Bag: Which One is a Better Investment?

Episode 14: Dating Coach or Coach Bag: Which One is a Better Investment?

We are are joined once again by the amazing dating coach Hanna Kahana, where we discuss whats, the whens, the whys, and the hows of dating coaching. 

Hanna Kahana is a certified life coach that specializes in dating and  first year of marriage. She is focused on assisting young adults with  any questions or concerns they may have as they navigate the dating  world. You can reach her at: HannaKahanaCoach@gmail.com. You can also  check her out on Instagram: @HannaKahanaCoaching

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Jan 24, 202338:56
Episode 13: Jealousy & Feeling Burnt Out

Episode 13: Jealousy & Feeling Burnt Out

Jealous of your friends getting engaged? Feeling burnt out from dating? Tune in!

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Jan 18, 202322:24
Episode 12: Going The Distance; Long Distance & Zoom Dating

Episode 12: Going The Distance; Long Distance & Zoom Dating

Tips and tricks for making long distance work and going the distance!

Jan 11, 202319:15
Episode 11: R&R: Advice to My Younger Self

Episode 11: R&R: Advice to My Younger Self

Join me in this real and vulnerable conversation with an amazing friend Rifky as she looks back at her own dating journey and shares "rocks" of wisdom that she has gained through the years. 

Rifky is a co-host of the amazing podcast #spillthetea, check it out: https://open.spotify.com/show/4sKSucFYQMm9ZsoYwoDc9x?si=doE1uufORDyjJDgLlkQlUw

Jan 08, 202326:23
Episode 10: To Flirt or Not To Flirt?

Episode 10: To Flirt or Not To Flirt?

We are back! To flirt or not to flirt? THAT is the question! A follow-up on last week's episode, responding and commenting on the feedback we got. 

Hanna Kahana is a certified life coach that specializes in dating and first year of marriage. She is focused on assisting young adults with any questions or concerns they may have as they navigate the dating world. You can reach her at: HannaKahanaCoach@gmail.com. You can also check her out on Instagram: @HannaKahanaCoaching

Jan 04, 202329:45
Episode 9: Kosher Flirting

Episode 9: Kosher Flirting

We are joined by the amazing dating coach Hanna Kahana where we discuss how to flirt--the kosher way! 

Hanna Kahana is a certified life coach that specializes in dating and first year of marriage. She is focused on assisting young adults with any questions or concerns they may have as they navigate the dating world. You can reach her at: HannaKahanaCoach@gmail.com. You can also check her out on Instagram: @HannaKahanaCoaching

Dec 30, 202231:47
Episode 8: Red Flags, Yellow Flags & Green Flags

Episode 8: Red Flags, Yellow Flags & Green Flags

Today we are joined by the amazing Miriam Zeitlin, where we discuss red flags (STOP!), yellows flags (hmm, maybe?) and green flags (reasons to say yes!). 

Miriam Zeitlin is a certified dating/relationship coach and shadchan. Having been through the shidduch and dating scene with her boys, Miriam saw a huge need for dating coaches who understand the frum shidduch system. Miriam grew up in Brooklyn and attended school in Chicago, so she understands and connects well with people from all  backgrounds.

You can contact Miriam: +1 (718) 909-6256





Dec 20, 202232:45
Episode 7: Medication, Mental Illness & Shidduchim

Episode 7: Medication, Mental Illness & Shidduchim

An important and sensitive subject on how to reveal information and how to receive it. 

Dec 13, 202225:02
Episode 6: Let's Get Real 2.0

Episode 6: Let's Get Real 2.0

Continuing the conversation about unrealistic expectations. What should you compromise on and how can you become more realistic?

Dec 07, 202224:15
Episode 5: Let's get Real & Realistic

Episode 5: Let's get Real & Realistic

My most controversial episode as of yet! Are you being realistic? Tune in to find out...

Dec 05, 202225:48
Episode 4: How to Deal with Pain? Staying Positive While Waiting

Episode 4: How to Deal with Pain? Staying Positive While Waiting

In this episode, we have a conversation about not despairing, staying positive, tips and tricks for feeling gratitude and living a fulfilling and happy single life, while waiting. 

Nov 24, 202224:01
Episode 3: What Truly Matters in a Marriage?

Episode 3: What Truly Matters in a Marriage?

Let's answer one question together: "What should you look for in a spouse?" And let's answer that question by asking another question, "What truly matters in a marriage?" 


Nov 15, 202228:39
Episode 2: Intro: What should you look for?

Episode 2: Intro: What should you look for?

We are joined by a special guest, my dearest cousin Shana, where we discuss: What should you look for in a spouse? What truly matters? How important is attraction and chemistry? What and when should we compromise?

We had such a fun conversation, time truly flew by! We spoke a little bit of everything and left a lot of room for thought! This was an introduction to a very important topic. 

Until next time!

Nov 07, 202231:44
Episode 1: Getting Started With Shidduchim

Episode 1: Getting Started With Shidduchim

Nothing Juicy. Nothing controversial. Just some thoughts on how to get started with the Shidduch process: building your resume, writing your description and putting ishtadlut. Even if you have already been dating for a while--you might find some gems (or rocks) of advice!

Nov 02, 202228:17