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Be Your Own Kind Podcast

Be Your Own Kind Podcast

By Nita Q.

Welcome to the Be Your Own Kind Podcast!

We believe that life should be lived feeling comfortable in one's skin.

I share my thoughts on various topics and interview individuals who have transitioned their dreams into reality in their own way.

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EP 26: BYOK w/ Yalana Allen: Fros and Forgiveness

Be Your Own Kind PodcastApr 01, 2021

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EP 73: BYOK w/ Adraine Jackson: How To Properly Tame Them Curls

EP 73: BYOK w/ Adraine Jackson: How To Properly Tame Them Curls

Adraine Jackson has been in the field of cosmetology for over twenty years and knows the ins and outs of the hair and scalp. In this episode, she shares basic information on properly caring for your hair.

Where to Find Adraine:

Email: jacksonadraine1234@gmail.com

Chapters

00:00:00 Introduction

00:01:45 Listening to the Body

00:05:56 Adraine's Introduction

00:07:33 Importance of Hairstylist Re-Licensing00:09:21 Warning Against Silicone

00:11:11 Check Ingredients on Hair Products

00:11:56 How to Properly Shampoo Hair

00:14:20 Determining Type of Hair

00:18:58 Let a Professional Diagnose your Scalp

00:23:05 Protective Styling 101

00:26:03 Client w/ Hard Water Build-Up

00:28:11 Natural Hair Regimen Precautions

00:31:37 Rice Water Basics

00:33:41 AD: #Betterhelp

00:35:38 Natural Items Safe for Hair

00:38:46 Plan Out Styling and Resting Period

00:41:17 Stigma Surrounding Black Hair

00:45:15 Chemistry of Hair Color

00:49:34 Relaxer Lawsuit Controversy

00:51:51 What Do I Put on My Hair?

00:57:35 Adraine's Future Plans

01:00:38 BYOK Signature Question

01:01:09 Outro Don't forget to sign up for our newsletter to stay updated on future content that will empower you to create a happier and more fulfilling lifestyle. Subscribe at www.beyourownkind.com. Join us on October 3, 2023 at BYOK's Art & Affirmation Event: https://www.beyourownkind.com/event-details/art-affirmations Donate to our Sister's Closet! Our Sister's Closet is a wonderful concept where people can give away things they no longer need for free. These items will be open to all attendees at our event for free. It's a great way to reduce waste and help others in need. If you need us to pick up items, sign up at https://form.typeform.com/to/mwSfoSUK?typeform-source=www.beyourownkind.com. Subscribe to our Media Partner's Youtube:

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Sep 29, 202301:06:06
BYOK Two Cents 61 w/ Mommy: Maximizing Your Gains by Minimizing Your Losses

BYOK Two Cents 61 w/ Mommy: Maximizing Your Gains by Minimizing Your Losses

In this episode, we explore the concept of loss aversion and provide practical strategies for overcoming it. We'll discuss how to reframe losses as growth opportunities and make decisions based on potential gains rather than fear of losses. We delved into the psychology of loss aversion and share tips for maximizing your gains by minimizing your losses and More.


Don't forget to sign up for our newsletter to stay updated on future content that will empower you to create a happier and more fulfilling lifestyle. Subscribe at www.beyourownkind.com.


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Donate to our Sister's Closet! Our Sister's Closet is a wonderful concept where people can give away things they no longer need for free. These items will be open to all attendees at our event for free. It's a great way to reduce waste and help others in need. If you need for us to pick up items, sign up at https://form.typeform.com/to/mwSfoSUK?typeform-source=www.beyourownkind.com.


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00:00:00 Introduction

00:01:47 Sunshine: Glimmers

00:03:37 Sunshine: Cheryl Lee Ralph Showing Gratitude

00:05:05 Sunshine: Sheryl Underwood Inspiration

00:06:48 AD: #THEBLUEPRINTMEDIALIVE

00:07:54 Kee w/ Ree: The Fan Ponytail

00:09:13 Kee w/Ree: God Checking Us When We Mad

00:10:56 Kee w/ Ree: Strawberry Letter Confession

00:19:10 AD: #BYOKPLAFORM

00:20:43 AD: Art & Affirmation Event/ Sister's Closet

00:24:43 What's the 411?: Brick Lady Scamming

00:31:59 What's the 411?: Tent City Moving to Chicago's South Side

00:37:19 What's the 411?: Chicago's in a Deficit

00:42:07 AD: #BETTERHELP

00:44:25 Feature Topic: Maximizing Your Gains by Minimizing Your Losses

00:45:40 Feature Topic: Graduation Goggles

00:50:22 Feature Topic: Endowment Effect

00:53:21 Feature Topic: Loss Aversion-Obsessing Over Loss

00:59:06 Outro

Sep 14, 202301:00:47
BYOK Two Cents 60 w/ Mommy: Should We Chase Happiness?

BYOK Two Cents 60 w/ Mommy: Should We Chase Happiness?

In this episode, we will explore the concept of happiness, why people often chase it, and the phenomenon known as the hedonic treadmill. We will discuss the potential pitfalls of constantly seeking happiness and offer strategies for finding contentment in life.


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00:00:00 Introduction

00:02:13 Sunshine: Swanky's Affirmation

00:05:17 Sunshine: Diddy has a Change of Heart

00:07:54 Sunshine: Queen Bey in her Zone

00:09:00 AD: #THEBLUEPRINTMEDIALIVE

00:10:17 Kee w/ Ree: What Random Thing Gives You Anxiety?

00:12:39 Kee w/ Ree: Neiman Marcus Broke?

00:14:10 Kee w/ Ree: Bodily Fluids Re-routing Flight

00:17:51 AD: #BYOKPLATFORM

00:19:31 BYOK FIRST EVENT!!!

00:22:00 What's the 411?: Woman Attacked by Not Giving Her Number

00:25:02 What's the 411?: Justice for Ta'Kiya Young

00:29:48 What's the 411? The Mayor of Chicago First 100 days

00:36:10 What's the 411?: VP Kamala Ready to Step in If Need Be

00:40:15 AD: #BETTERHELP

00:42:41 Feature Topic: Are We Chasing Happiness?

00:44:50 Feature Topic: Hedonic Treadmill

00:47:49 Feature Topic: Mommy is having a problem with the word Chase

00:52:33 Feature Topic: Hedonic Treadmill Pt. 2

00:54:10 Feature Topic: Synthesizing Happiness

00:57:38 Feature Topic: Defining the Word "Chase"

00:59:01 Feature Topic: Defining the Work "Synthesize"

01:05:18 Outro

Sep 07, 202301:08:04
BYOK Two Cents 59 w/ Mommy: What Type of Friend Are You?

BYOK Two Cents 59 w/ Mommy: What Type of Friend Are You?

The topic of Friendship tends to become more defined and specific the older we become. Let's be honest: life has a way to re-tailoring expectations and/or who fit in our life. Distance doesn't always mean bad, whereas closeness does not always mean good.


In this episode, Mom and I will discuss balancing friendships and the general definition of friendship.


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00:00:00 Introduction

00:01:41 Sunshine: Denzel's Wisdom Corner

00:02:49 Hustle Princess Stopping By!

00:13:31 AD: #PAINTPOPUP

00:14:54 Sunshine: Teyana Taylor Showin Gratitude

00:17:00 Sunshine: Remembering MJ

00:19:29 Sunshine: Congratulations MzMetchi!

00:20:35 AD: #THEBLUEPRINTMEDIALIVE

00:21:27 Kee w/ Ree: Something you Hated as a Kid but Love as an Adult.

00:23:35 Kee w/ Ree: Gizelle doing an Empty Nester Renovation?

00:25:44 Kee w/ Ree: Son Keeps Running Away from Home

00:28:04 AD: #BYOKPLATFORM

00:29:43 What's the 411?: R.I.P. Bob Barker

00:32:21 What's the 411?: What is the Mercury Retrograde?

00:35:42 What's the 411? OT is Owed to Some Illinois Residents

00:39:53 AD: #BETTERHELP

00:43:06 Feature Topic: What Type of Friend Are You?

00:54:10 Feature Topic: K Love Three Types of Friendship

00:54:41 Feature Topic: Actively Productive Friendship

00:56:13 Feature Topic: Actively Distructive Friendship

00:58:11 Feature Topic: Neutral Friendship

01:01:15 Feature Topic: Thinking Now, What Type of Friend Are You?

01:03:36 Outro

Sep 01, 202301:07:32
BYOK Two Cents 58 w/ Mommy: Shooting the Breeze August Edition

BYOK Two Cents 58 w/ Mommy: Shooting the Breeze August Edition

It's that time of the month that we talk about what YOU want to talk about.


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00:00:00 Introduction

00:02:17 Sunshine: Spotless Giraffe

00:03:19 Sunshine: Sha'Carri Fastest Women in the World

00:04:12 Sunshine: That Fitted Sheet Gets the Best of Me

00:05:48 AD: #THEBLUEPRINTMEDIALIVE

00:07:19 Kee w/ Ree: Jesus AI App

00:09:28 Kee w/Ree: Have you Called it Quits Due to that Person's Family?

00:12:29 Kee w/ Ree: The Swifties vs. The Beehive

00:15:47 AD: #PAINTPOPUP

00:17:04 What's the 411?: Drunk 3rd Grade Teacher Fired

00:21:48 What's the 411?: R.Kelly Wages Garnished

00:24:18 What's the 411?: Rudy Giullani Surrender

00:25:55 AD: #BYOKPLATFORM

00:27:25 Feature Topic: Shooting the Breeze

00:28:33 Feature Topic: House Muzic

00:31:28 Feature Topic: What's your Favorite Genre?

00:49:09 Feature Topic: Whitney Moment

00:50:03 Feature Topic: Back to the Music

00:51:17 Feature Topic: Why Do People Not Speak in the Morning?

00:55:32 Feature Topic: Catching Up with Lisa

00:59:45 Feature Topic: Blessing in Gratitude

01:02:13 Outro

Aug 24, 202301:02:56
BYOK Two Cents 57 w/ Mommy: When Self-Love Becomes Selfish

BYOK Two Cents 57 w/ Mommy: When Self-Love Becomes Selfish

Today's podcast on the topic of "When Self-Love Becomes Selfish." This is a topic that I believe many of us struggle with as we try to balance taking care of ourselves while also being mindful of others. In this podcast, we will discuss the signs of when self-love becomes selfish, its impact on ourselves and others, and how we can find a healthy balance.

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Follow my partner Mz. Metchi on #THEBLUEPRINTMEDIALIVE. 00:00:00 Introduction 00:01:53 Sunshine: Maya Angelou on a Quarter 00:02:51 Sunshine: Chrisean Rock Gives Back 00:08:30 Sunshine: Being Kind to Unkind People 00:09:07 AD: #THEBLUEPRINTLIVE 00:10:17 Kee w/Ree: Was KeKe Palmer too much? 00:12:46 Kee w/Ree: Beyonce Shows Lizzo Love 00:15:55 Kee w/ Ree: Trump is First President with a Mugshot 00:17:08 AD:#PAINTPOPUP 00:18:38 What's the 411?: Chicago's Supermarkets Are Closing 00:27:26 What's the 411?: Larry Snelling is Next Police Superintendent 00:28:51 What's the 411?: Maui Residents 00:31:54 AD: #BYOKPLATFORM 00:33:37 Feature Topic: When Self-Love Becomes Selfish 00:38:04 Feature Topic: Should We Be Our Primary Focus? 00:41:30 Feature Topic: Do we Recipricate to Ourselves How We Treat Each Other? 00:43:35 Feature Topic: Difference From Self-Care and Selfishness 00:46:15 Feature Topic: Self Care is a Lifestyle 00:50:45 Feaure Topic: We Can Overload ourself with Self Care 00:57:59 Feature Topic: Wrap Up 00:59:06 Outro

Aug 17, 202301:00:46
BYOK Two Cents 56 w/ Mommy: Accountability 101

BYOK Two Cents 56 w/ Mommy: Accountability 101

Can you say that you are holding yourself accountable? Or are others accountable? We will discuss the ups and downs of holding or not holding accountability. ADS: Pop Up & Paint Event: Purchase Tickets: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/pop-up-paint-specially-curated-pop-up-shop-tickets-674486496267?aff=oddtdtcreator&fbclid=IwAR2PkLRlG-jqTJoS5-ip0z49kcap1Wa0injW7hHNHiH0NFLvQVD3lxGx1EM Be Your Own Kind: https://linktr.ee/be_yourownkindCBS3Designs: Shop custom Signs: https://www.etsy.com/shop/CBS3Designs?ref=shop_sugg_market Go to https://betterhelp.com/byok for 10% off your first month of therapy with BetterHelp and get matched with a therapist who will listen and help #sponsored Follow my partner Mz. Metchi on #THEBLUEPRINTMEDIALIVE. Follow at @thebpmediacoCome to the Fluent Radio Third Annual Car Show!!! More details at www.fluentradio.com 00:00:00 Introduction 00:02:03 Sunshine: Lil Wayne Billboard 00:05:18 Sunshine: Issa Raye Sharing Wisdom 00:10:18 AD: MzMetchi #THEBLUEPRINTLIVE 00:12:00 Kee w/Ree: Women over 60 shouldn't Date? 00:17:22 Kee w/Ree: Chairgate in Alabama 00:24:29 AD: Paint Pop Up 00:26:44 What's the 411?: Billy Porter affected by Writer's Strike 00:33:00 What's the 411?: Fire is Maui 00:35:34 What's the 411?: Mr. T Shoe Giveaway 00:37:37 AD: #FLUENTRADIO Car Show 00:40:16 Feature Topic: Accountability 101 00:40:50 BYOK Flashback: Recap of Last Week 00:42:18 Feature Topic: What is Accountability? 00:47:21 Feature Topic: Accountability is Action 00:58:18 Feature Topic: Accountability Wrap Up 01:01:14 Next Week's Subject: The Me Factor 01:06:31 Outro

Aug 10, 202301:06:56
BYOK Two Cents 55 w/Mommy: Shooting the Breeze

BYOK Two Cents 55 w/Mommy: Shooting the Breeze

It's that time to talk about what YOU want to talk about!


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Chapter


00:00:00 Introduction

00:02:26 Sunshine: August is Your Month!

00:05:34 Sunshine: Barbie Movie Had Points!

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00:07:57 Kee w/ Ree: Man Addicted to Tuna Fish

00:10:16 Kee w/ Ree: Cardi Mic is FOR Sale

00:12:47 Kee w/ Ree: Vice President Mike Pence Denies Denies Denies

00:14:44 Kee w/ Ree: Kylie releases Bratz Doll Collection

00:16:00 PAINT N SIP POP UP AD

00:17:56 Be Your Own Kind AD

00:20:10 What's the 411? Is Lizzo getting Sued?

00:30:29 #FLUENTRADIO Annual Car Show

00:33:03 Featured Topic: You Are Allowed to Say No

00:42:36 Featured Topic: Three Hobbies Everyone Should Have

00:47:53 Featured Topic: You Don't Know Who You're Inspiring

00:56:35 Outro

Aug 03, 202359:58
BYOK Two Cents 54 w/Mommy: Insecurities, Be Gone!

BYOK Two Cents 54 w/Mommy: Insecurities, Be Gone!

Don't nobody got time to put life on hold, waiting for that "perfect weight," that "special occasion," or any other "I do this when's. In this episode, we will talk about living out loudly and relinquishing ever placing yourself on mute.


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Chapters


00:00:00 Introduction

00:01:54 Sunshine: Mom & Daughter Tattoo

00:02:41 Sunshine: Black Teacher Launches Black Math Program

00:04:09 Sunshine: She Is You, Sis!

00:05:09 #THEBLUEPRINTMEDIALIVE AD

00:06:28 Kee w/ Ree: Robbery Gon Bad

00:08:19 Kee w/ Ree: Usher is just Irresponsible

00:11:34 Kee w/ Ree: Jamie Foxx says he is not Cloned

00:13:29 #FLUENTRADIO Annual Car Show AD

00:16:28 What's the 411?: Thailand Burger Kink Introduce the "Cheese"Burger

00:18:23 What's the 411?: Matthew Knowles's son feels Neglected by Beyonce

00:23:20 What's the 411?: The Actual I-Robot Revolution

00:24:54 What's the 411?: Tips for Women Safety

00:30:55 #Betterhelp AD

00:33:09 Featured Topic: Motivation by Cherly Lee Ralph

00:35:11 Featured Topic: Insecurities, Be Gone

00:43:20 Featured Topic: Three Types of Insecurities

00:53:17 Featured Topic: Ten Tips to Overcome Insecurities

01:00:21 Outro

Jul 13, 202301:03:16
BYOK Two Cents 53 w/ Mommy: The Daggers We Speak

BYOK Two Cents 53 w/ Mommy: The Daggers We Speak

In this episode, we will touch upon the detriments of negative self-talk. Come join us to add perspective, have a great conversation on this topic, and more.


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Chapters

00:00:00 Introduction

00:02:48 Sunshine: Coco Jones First BET Award

00:04:15 Sunshine: Lizzo Uplifting a Young Girl

00:05:19 #THEBLUEPRINTMEDIALIVE AD

00:06:20 Kee w/Ree: Rihanna Appointed a New CEO

00:08:26 Kee w/ Ree: Smog in the Air

00:09:38 Kee w/Ree: Smog Conspiracy

00:13:24 Kee w/ Ree: Employer Threaten Employees about Quitting

00:17:31 #fluentradio Annual Car Show AD

00:20:02 What's the 411?: California gives Green Flag for Fake Chicken

00:22:37 What's the 411?: Madonna Hospitalized

00:23:57 What's the 411?: Madonna, the Icon

00:26:42 What's the 411?: Carlisha Hood Press Release

00:34:55 What's the 411?: Ralph Yarl Interview

00:39:17 Be Your Own Kind AD

00:41:13 Featured Topic: The Daggers We Speak

00:45:28 Featured Topic: Ways Negative Self Talk Can Affect You

01:08:47 Featured Topic: 4 Tips to Control Your Thoughts

01:12:30 Featured Topic: Comparison Kills

01:16:20 Outro

Jun 29, 202301:21:25
BYOK Two Cents 52 w/ Mommy: Shooting the Breeze

BYOK Two Cents 52 w/ Mommy: Shooting the Breeze

This is the segment to get into what YOU what to get into! Tune in, and let's have a chat! See You There!

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Follow at @thebpmediacoCome to the Fluent Radio Third Annual Car Show!!! More details at www.fluentradio.com 00:00:00 Introduction 00:01:51 Sunshine: How to Love Yourself 00:03:16 Sunshine: Don't Quit 00:04:46 Sunshine: Black People Mascots 00:06:09 Be Your Own Kind AD 00:07:42 Kee w/ Ree: Google Translate at Nail Shop 00:10:13 Kee w/ Ree: Man has 4 Wives 00:13:29 Kee w/ Ree: TD Jakes Had Enough 00:17:44 Kee w/ Ree: Fatherhood: All or Nothing 00:19:11 #THEBLUEPRINTMEDIALIVE AD 00:21:05 What's the 411?: Kimora Lee Simmons is MAD 00:26:48 What's the 411?: The Warehouse designated Chicago Landmark 00:29:10 CBS3 Designs AD 00:31:07 What's the 411?: Missing Titantic Submersible 00:38:22 #FluentRadio Annual Car Show 00:40:42 What's the 411? Missing Titanic Part 2 00:42:17 Featured Topic: Shooting the Breeze 00:43:06 Featured Topic: Is it a Such Thing As Too Rich? 00:47:32 Featured Topic: Can you be Rich and Bored 00:52:36 Featured Topic: What would you do if you had endless dividends? 00:55:52 Featured Topic: Renita Island Rules 00:59:54 Featured Topic: Random House Music 01:02:08 Outro

Jun 22, 202301:03:17
BYOK Two Cents 51 w/ Mommy: Loving On You

BYOK Two Cents 51 w/ Mommy: Loving On You

This episode is about loving and choosing you and balancing caring for yourself and others. Join us to lend your input on self-care and some trending topics with Mommy and me. 00:00:00 Introduction 00:01:39 Sunshine: No Idea Where God is Taking Me 00:03:09 Sunshine: Kelly Clarkson & Choir in Coffee Shop 00:04:55 Sunshine: Ludacris is Awesome! 00:07:09 AD: #THEBLUEPRINTLIVE00:08:32 Kee W/ Ree: You Been Caught! 00:10:14 Kee W/ Ree: Husband Ratchery 00:13:38 Kee W/ Ree: What's worse than men with enabling mothers? 00:17:22 AD: The Black Wallstreet on Juneteenth Year III 00:18:08 AD: CBS3 Designs 00:19:06 What's the 411?: CPS Pledge 240M 00:23:47 What's the 411?: Anita is Sick of Ya'll! 00:29:27 What's the 411?: Tyler Perry purchases BET and VH1 00:32:31 AD:#Fluentadio 3rd Annual Car Show 00:35:16 Main Topic: Loving on You 00:39:06 Main Topic: Eight Areas of Self-Care 00:39:28 Main Topic: Physical Self Care 00:41:08 Main Topic: Psychological Self-Care 00:42:42 Main Topic: Emotional Self-Care 00:51:27 Main Topic: Social Self-Care 00:52:54 Main Topic: Professional Self-Care 00:56:37 Main Topic: Environmental Self-Care 00:59:11 Main Topic: Spiritual Self-Care 01:04:48 Main Topic: Financial Self-Care 01:08:44 Wrap-Up of Self-Care 01:10:29 Main Topic: Balancing Self-Care and Taking Care of Others 01:13:02 Outro ADS: Be Your Own Kind: https://linktr.ee/be_yourownkind Go to https://betterhelp.com/byok for 10% off your first month of therapy with BetterHelp and get matched with a therapist who will listen and help #sponsored Follow my partner Mz. Metchi on #THEBLUEPRINTMEDIALIVE. Follow at @thebpmediaco Come to the Fluent Radio Third Annual Car Show!!! More details at www.fluentradio.com

Jun 15, 202301:14:38
BYOK Two Cents 50 w/ Mommy: Relationships & All

BYOK Two Cents 50 w/ Mommy: Relationships & All

This episode's main topic is relationships ranging from friendships to romantic ones. Join Mom and me as we discuss healing, finding love again, and rebuilding a relationship after trust has been broken. We will also discuss some trending and random happenings. Join us for laughs and a little introspection.


00:00:00 Introduction

00:02:23 Sunshine: Lamb and Cat, So Cute!

00:03:45 Sunshine: Kee Kee says stop comparing

00:08:25 AD: #THEBLUEPRINTMEDIALIVE

00:09:46 Kee w/Ree: Tyler James Williams has a message

00:12:59 Kee w/ Ree: 123-Year-Old Virgin

00:15:50 Kee w/ Ree: Martha Stewart loathes Remote Working

00:18:17 AD: The Black Wallstreet Juneteenth Event

00:19:52 What's the 411?: Should Violence be Marked as a National Crisis?

00:24:35 What's the 411?: Tory Lanez is facing 13 Years

00:26:50 AD: Tune into #BYOKPLATFORM

00:27:49 Main Topic: The Sister Code

00:31:56 AD: #Fluentradio Annual Car Show

00:34:18 Main Topic: The Sister Code Part 2

00:37:59 Main Topic: How have your parental relationships shaped your behaviors in your current relationships?

00:50:39 Main Topic: The struggles with Falling Back in Love OR Staying in Love?

00:55:41 Main Topic: Professional Relationships

00:57:18 Main Topic: Relationship Talk Wrap Up

01:10:06 Outro


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Jun 08, 202301:12:12
BYOK Two Cents 49 w/Mommy: Welcome to 40!

BYOK Two Cents 49 w/Mommy: Welcome to 40!

I'm 40! And I was asked to talk about it. Considering I've only been 40 for seven days, Mommy is joining me to give me a 411 on what to expect. Join us for a good conversation about this and more!

00:00:00 Introduction 00:02:54 Sunshine: Rick Ross Advice 00:05:30 Sunshine: Hump Day Advice 00:08:37 Sunshine: Closure Does Not Have to Be Nasty 00:11:23 Sunshine: Respect Your Body 00:12:02 AD:#THEBLUEPRINTMEDIALIVE 00:13:26 Kee w/ Ree: Sarah Jakes Prayed Wig Off 00:14:38 Kee w/ Ree: Thin Line Between Love And Hate Debate 00:18:02 Kee w/ Ree: Woman Fakes Sickness For Ex to Visit Her 00:19:53 AD: #FluentRadio Annual Car Show 00:22:33 What's the 411?: Lizzo Blasts Haters 00:26:39 What's the 411?: Will SS & Medicare be eliminated? 00:31:55 What's the 411?: Memorial Day Weekend Shootings 00:34:27 What's the 411?" Lil Mermaid's a Huge Success 00:35:43 AD: #BYOKPLATFORM 00:37:22 Main Topic: Welcome to 40! 00:38:14 Main Topic: What's it Like to be a Gemini? 00:40:24 Main Topic: What are the 40s like? 00:41:48 Main Topic: Mommy's 40 experience 00:44:22 Main Topic: Mommy's 40 and up Advice 00:50:45 Main Topic: Putting Undue Expectations on People 00:53:56 Main Topic: Decisions, Decisions 00:57:12 Main Topic: Learning to Accept Self 01:02:23 Outro ADS: Be Your Own Kind: https://linktr.ee/be_yourownkind Go to https://betterhelp.com/byok for 10% off your first month of therapy with BetterHelp and get matched with a therapist who will listen and help #sponsored Follow my partner Mz. Metchi on #THEBLUEPRINTMEDIALIVE. Follow at @thebpmediaco Come to the Fluent Radio Third Annual Car Show!!! More details at www.fluentradio.com

Jun 01, 202301:14:48
BYOK Two Cents 48 w/Mommy: Shooting the Breeze May Edition

BYOK Two Cents 48 w/Mommy: Shooting the Breeze May Edition

Yay! This episode is where we take a break from structure and chat randomly. Join me tonight to get into some randomness and fun!

00:00:00 Introduction 00:03:39 Sunshine: Positive Tickets in Canada 00:05:43 Sunshine: Robert Deniro Welcomes 7th Child 00:06:37 Sunshine: Culture v. God 00:07:56 Sunshine: Chicago Women Rock! 00:09:00 AD: #THEBLUEPRINTMEDIALIVE 00:10:28 Kee w/ Ree: Martha Bringing Sexy Back 00:12:34 Kee w/ Ree: Friend Breastfeeding Friend's Baby 00:14:45 Kee w/ Ree: Mom has two Baby Showers with potential Fathers 00:16:36 Kee w/ Ree: Jerry leaves fortune to estranged children 00:21:21 AD: #BYOKPLATFORM 00:23:11 What's the 411?: Jamie Foxx Health 00:25:37 What's the 411?: Cash App CEO Deceased 00:27:55 What's the 411?: Dan Ryan May Become a Tollway 00:34:31 AD: #Fluentradio Annual Car Show 00:37:38 Main Topic: Shooting the Breeze 00:39:29 Main Topic: Man Begs for another chance 00:44:07 Main Topic: Good Ole Days of Recess 00:48:21 Main Topic: Technology Killed Some Pleasantries 00:54:56 Main Topic: Adult Recess 01:06:41 Outro ADS: Be Your Own Kind: https://linktr.ee/be_yourownkind Go to https://betterhelp.com/byok for 10% off your first month of therapy with BetterHelp and get matched with a therapist who will listen and help #sponsored Follow my partner Mz. Metchi on #THEBLUEPRINTMEDIALIVE. Follow at @thebpmediaco Come to the Fluent Radio Third Annual Car Show!!! More details at www.fluentradio.com

May 18, 202359:58
EP 72: BYOK w/ Eros, the Poet: Spellbinding Love in Poetry

EP 72: BYOK w/ Eros, the Poet: Spellbinding Love in Poetry

In this episode, I had the chance to sit with the multi-talented Eros the Poet. We discussed the origin and facets of love, masculine v. feminine energy, the art of poetry, and more.


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Website: http://www.erosthepoet.com/

Instagram: www.instagram.com/the_princeofpoetry


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May 12, 202350:09
BYOK Two Cents 47 w/ my Mommy: The Power of Permission

BYOK Two Cents 47 w/ my Mommy: The Power of Permission

Sometimes we are in the way of our progress and success; for some reason, we can consent others to live their best life while holding ourselves captive to who we were vs. what we are striving to become.


In this episode, we discuss ways to permit yourself to be happy, plus some trending topics, odd stories, and more. Join us for some laughs with a hint of introspection.


00:00:00 Introduction

00:01:49 Sunshine: Walking Tacos

00:03:48 Sunshine: #Sheepadoodle

00:04:35 Sunshine: Overthinkers, Be Easy on Yourself.

00:05:55 AD: #THEBLUEPRINTMEDIALIVE

00:07:01 Kee w/ Ree: The Boot Girls

00:09:54 Kee w/ Ree: #Siblings raising Siblings

00:12:14 Kee w/ Ree: #AliciaKeys Unwanted Gift

00:15:37 AD: #BYOKPLATFORM

00:17:33 What's the 411?: #thelilmermaid

00:25:40 What's the 411? #christinaapplegate Hollywood Star

00:27:39 What's the 411?: Chicago Exodus

00:32:34 What's the 411?: #kingcharlesIII Crowned

00:35:43 AD: #fluentradio Annual Car Show

00:39:39 Main Topic: The Power of Permission

00:42:36 Main Topic: Defining Permission

00:44:44 Main Topic: Defining Allow

00:50:48 Main Topic: Have you Forgiven Yourself?

00:59:38 Main Topic: Do You Have Passions or Dreams?

01:07:58 Outro


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May 11, 202301:10:11
EP 71: BYOK w/ Janyelle Milton: Walk in My Shoes

EP 71: BYOK w/ Janyelle Milton: Walk in My Shoes

In this episode, I enjoyed speaking with Gymshow Designer and owner of J Marie Premium Sneakers, Janyelle Milton. Tune in as we talk about legacy, cultural pride, and the importance of creating a lane.


J Marie Premium Sneakers are 100% Italian leather in Premium finishes like faux zebra, crocodile, and Python in vibrant colors. The line comprises Athleisure, fashion, High fashion women's and men's Sneakers, limited edition heels, and boots.


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Website: https://www.jmariepremiumsneakers.com

Instagram: www.instagram.com/jmarieshoes85_premiumsneakers


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May 05, 202301:08:22
BYOK Two Cents 46 w/ my Mommy: Surviving Burnout

BYOK Two Cents 46 w/ my Mommy: Surviving Burnout

I love checking off a box on my to-do list, but I am also learning that life is more than that. With all that getting, make sure you get to live! This episode is about feeling burnt out and ways to change that narrative. Plus, we got into a unique dating dilemma, the met gala, and more.


00:00:00 Introduction

00:02:13 Sunshine: Cute Puppies

00:04:33 Sunshine: #Lizzo,"Who is After 7?"

00:05:55 Sunshine: Teach Our Daughters

00:07:29 AD: #THEBLUEPRINTMEDIA

00:08:41 Kee w/ Ree: "Do I Tell My GF My Secret"

00:11:51 Kee w/ Ree: #BB Judy& #dabrat Donor Situation

00:16:21 Kee w/Ree: Met Gala Recap

00:26:42 AD: #BYOKPLATFORM

00:27:58 What's the 411?: #atlanta Shooter

00:34:25 What's the 411?: Red Table Talk Cancelled

00:35:47 What's the 411?: #Quinta standing with #WGA

00:39:39 AD: #FLUENTRADIO Annual Car Show

00:42:13 Featured Topic: Surviving #burnout

00:44:22 Featured Topic: Take A Break

00:45:53 Featured Topic: Set #boundaries

00:48:56 Featured Topic: Prioritize Self-Care

00:50:37 Featured Topic: Practice #mindfulness

00:57:00 Featured Topic: Connect with Others

01:02:53 Outro


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May 04, 202301:07:26
BYOK Two Cents 45: Shooting the Breeze: Anniversary Edition

BYOK Two Cents 45: Shooting the Breeze: Anniversary Edition

Thank you for going down Memory Lane for our 6th year Anniversary! Also, we touched upon the foolishness of self-checkout while wondering why Latocha Scott keeps interviewing and more.


00:00:00 Introduction

00:01:40 Sunshine: It's Our Anniversary!

00:04:11 Sunshine: #JenniferHudson and #PattiLabelle Unite

00:05:58 Sunshine: #nike Japan AD

00:07:01 Sunshine: Perfection is not the goal

00:08:29 AD: #THEBLUEPRINTMEDIALIVE

00:09:54 Kee w/ Ree: The Unfairness in Wages for Balck Content Creators

00:13:17 Kee W/ Ree: Self Check Out is a Fool

00:17:35 Kee w/ Ree: #chancetherapper, cheating?

00:19:40 AD: #BYOKPLATFORM

00:21:27 What's the 411?: #LatochaScott, what?

00:24:25 What's the 411?: #justiceforralphyarl

00:29:36 What's the 411?: Sending love to #jamiefoxx

00:34:39 AD: #fluentradio 3rd Annual Car Show

00:37:20 Featured Topic: It's Our Anniversary!

00:38:47 Featured Topic: Thank You to all of my Guests!

00:41:11 Featured Topic: BYOK Firsts

00:56:41 Outro


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Apr 20, 202301:02:05
EP 70: BYOK w/ Candace Taylor: The Art of Soul Care
Apr 14, 202355:04
BYOK Two Cents 44 w/ my Mommy: Take a Leap!

BYOK Two Cents 44 w/ my Mommy: Take a Leap!

In this live stream, we kicked off Be Your Own Kind's Anniversary Month with my Mommy! In this episode, my mom and I discussed the positive end of making mistakes, what it means to take a leap, the continuance of the Xscape Saga, the Dalai Lama, the Freaknik Aunties, and more.


00:00:00 Introduction

00:02:10 Sunshine: Baby Love

00:04:21 Sunshine: Congrate Keisha Knight-Pulliam!

00:05:24 Sunshine: Things to Stop Apologizing For

00:15:47 Sunshine: Don't Stop 'Til You Get It

00:17:19 AD: #THEBLUEPRINTMEDIA

00:18:37 Kee w/ Ree: Freaknik Aunties

00:22:42 Kee w/ Ree: Acknowledging Martha Wash

00:25:56 Kee w/ Ree: Pool Warning for Parents

00:28:50 AD: Fluent Radio 3rd Annual Car Show

00:31:49 What's the 411?: Nascar affecting Chicago Traffic

00:33:02 What's the 411?: What in the Dalai Lama?

00:39:08 What's the 411?: SWV and Xscape Saga Continues

00:49:34 AD: BetterHelp

00:52:13 Featured Topic: Taking a Leap

01:06:00 Featured Topic: How Taking Leap Improves Quality of Life

01:13:11 Outro


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Apr 13, 202301:16:01
EP 69: BYOK w/ Kathleen Krueger: Navigating the Freelance Path

EP 69: BYOK w/ Kathleen Krueger: Navigating the Freelance Path

In this episode, I sat down with Freelance Entrepreneur Kathleen Kreuger, and we discussed effective ways of becoming a successful freelancer, flowing with God's will and the Dos and Don'ts when looking for clients.


Kathleen has been a freelance writer since 2010 and expanded this venture into her own content writing agency. She further explained, "That wasn’t my plan, but God did it anyway! I love encouraging others to step out and follow the dreams God gives them."


Follow and Contact Kathleen:


Website: https://kathleenkrueger.com

Instagram: www.instagram.com/crafterofwords


To learn more about Be Your Own Kind visit us at www.beyourownkind.com


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Mar 31, 202349:31
BYOK Two Cents 43: The Importance of Aligning Energies

BYOK Two Cents 43: The Importance of Aligning Energies

Mar 30, 202301:14:57
EP 68: BYOK w/ Elisa Boogaerts: The Confident Mindset
Mar 24, 202345:59
BYOK Two Cents 42: Progress vs. Movement

BYOK Two Cents 42: Progress vs. Movement

In this episode, we touched upon ways to #retireearly while still working a 9-5, the difference between "Motion" and "Action", the #Xscape and #SWV debacle, Rick Ross Animals Roaming, and More.


00:00:00 Introduction

00:02:10 Sunshine: Retiring Early

00:09:36 Sunshine: Life is Sweet Candy Factory

00:12:14 Ad: #THEBLUEPRINTMEDIALIVE

00:13:27 Kee w/ Ree: #rickross Roaming Pets

00:17:02 Kee w/ Ree: Crunchy Ribs

00:17:51 Kee w/Ree: Spirit Airlines Employees Throwing Baggage Items Away

00:20:41 Kee w/ Ree: The famous Newborn Blanket

00:23:39 What's the 411?: #tashak Gotta Pay Up

00:26:51 What's the 411?: Xscape vs. SWV

00:39:07 AD: BETTERHELP

00:42:00 Feature Topic: Progress v. Movement

00:45:57 Feature Topic: Motion v. Action

00:49:42 Feature Topic: How do People Get Stuck in "Motion"?

00:53:52 Feature Topic: Ideas for Taking "Action"

00:58:11 Outro


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Mar 22, 202301:00:05
EP 67: BYOK w/ Trista Guertin: You Are Meant For More
Mar 17, 202345:54
BYOK Two Cents 41: Are You Living Your Best Life?

BYOK Two Cents 41: Are You Living Your Best Life?

I was minding my business and scrolled across Storie Devereaux's posed the question, "Am I Living My Best Life ?"  So, I wanted to explore what it means to live your best life, plus get into some interesting things. 

00:00:00 Introduction

00:05:22 Sunshine: Melanin Goodness

00:07:49 Sunshine: Keep Pressing

00:10:48 Sunshine: Slow Down

00:14:21 AD: #THEBLUEPRINTMEDIALIVE

00:15:23 Sunshine: Comment Chat

00:17:59 Kee w/ Ree: San Fran Paying Reparations?

00:22:20 Kee w/ Ree: Chicago Cafe Opens after Defacing

00:25:13 Kee w/ Ree: Ciara's Sheer Dress Debacle

00:30:21 Kee w/ Ree: Was Angela Bassett Snubbed? 

00:41:21 AD: BetterHelp

00:43:55 What's the 411?: Mexico Travel Warning

00:48:19 What's the 411? Cartel Apologizing

00:51:54 What's the 411? Tobe & Fat Controversary

00:58:42 What's the 411? Nigerian Brothers Speak Out

01:02:15 What's the 411?: Congress Introducing 4-day Work Week

01:05:19 Main Topic: Are you living your best life? 

01:12:45 Outro


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Mar 16, 202301:13:37
EP 66: BYOK w/ Jade Domo: Breaking Tradition

EP 66: BYOK w/ Jade Domo: Breaking Tradition

In this episode, I spoke with the founder of Podding Media, Jade Domo, about starting a business, overcoming entrepreneurial hardships, and breaking tradition. Jade is also an aspirant real state investor, coaching Reskills on an online learning platform in Malaysia and Global Youth Ambassador at TheirWorld She's been a coach in Reskills, an online learning platform in Malaysia. She is a Global Youth Ambassador at Theirworld.

Contact Jade at: 

Website: https://www.poddingmedia.com/

Instagram: www.instagram.com/poddingmedia

Check us out at www.beyourownkind.com

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Mar 10, 202335:30
BYOK Two Cents 40: Shooting the Breeze: Women's Edition

BYOK Two Cents 40: Shooting the Breeze: Women's Edition

Today is #internationalwomensday  Women's Day! In this episode, we discussed some interesting facts about the direction of the Women's Movement and where it comes from. I shared some women that have personally touched my life. Also, we commemorated such ladies as #sherylleeralph and #tashasmith and #chakakhan apologizing for her harsh flashback of #maryjblige  "Sweet Thing."


00:00:00 Introduction

00:01:59 Sunshine: Blessing Season

00:03:44 Sunshine: Cutey Pie

00:04:26 Sunshine: Ways of Politely Saying "No"

00:07:58 AD: #THEBLUEPRINTMEDIALIVE

00:09:05 Kee W/ Ree: Nick Cannon New Game Show

00:10:47 Kee W/Ree: Debra Lee Opens Up

00:16:07 Kee W/ Ree: Whoopi Does It Her Way

00:20:11 AD: BetterHelp

00:23:00 What's the 411? Tasha Smith is Bossing it Up!

00:25:15 What's the 411? Chaka Khan Apologizes

00:29:11 What's the 411? Zombie, What? 

00:33:37 AD: PowerHer Conference

00:36:42 Main Topic: History of IWD and WHM

00:42:47 Main Topic: Honoring My Mommy

00:44:45 Main Topic: Honoring My Support

00:46:48 Main Topic: Honoring Tamika Hill  

00:48:18 Main Topic: Honoring Soulect

00:50:05 Main Topic: Honoring Marcia Campbell

00:52:03 Main Topic: Sheryl Lee Ralph on Loving Life

00:56:08 Main Topic: Women in Business

00:57:58 Main Topic: Bridging the STEM Gap for Girls

01:04:13 Outro


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Mar 09, 202301:07:18
EP 65: BYOK w/ Jeremy Bryant: Random Musings

EP 65: BYOK w/ Jeremy Bryant: Random Musings

In this episode, I spoke with Jeremy Bryant, host of the podcasts,  Paranormal the New Normal and Co-Host of Maniacal Music Musings and Global Strangeness. We discussed a little bit of paranormal, music, movies, and the inside world of podcasting. 


Get connected with Jeremy at: 


Instagram: www.instagram.com/juggalobastard


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Mar 03, 202356:16
BYOK Two Cents 39: Is the Mountain, You?

BYOK Two Cents 39: Is the Mountain, You?

In this live, we discussed some of the areas we may be our own stumbling blocks. We also covered some trending topics such as Michael B. Jordan checking his childhood bully, the Owner of the Lip Bar, Melissa Butler persevering after being rejected on Shark Tank, and more. 

00:00:00 PowerHer Conference w/Asha Ntim

00:12:39 AD: PowerHer Conference

00:14:39 Re-Intro

00:15:51 Sunshine: Black Girls Poppin'

00:18:02 Sunshine: Winner of Chadwick Scholarship

00:18:57 Kee W/ Ree: Omarion Catfish

00:22:44 AD: Betterhelp

00:25:44 Kee W/ Ree: HBCU Sued

00:27:45 Kee W/ Ree: Michael B. Jordan checking reporter

00:32:14 What's the 411?: Black Man Affection

00:37:40 What's the 411?: Adidas needs Ye

00:39:30 AD: #THEBLUEPRINTMEDIALIVE

00:40:48 What's the 411?: Melissa Butler Beat the Odds

00:47:25 Featured Topic: Is the Mountain, You? 

00:49:44 Featured Topic: Do you Own Your Identity? 

00:54:13 Featured Topic: Are you Dependant on your Limiting Beliefs? 

01:00:46 Featured Topic: Get Out Your Way

01:02:35 Outro

01:03:14 AD: PowerHer Conference


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Mar 02, 202301:05:25
EP 64: BYOK w/ Julie Zaruba Fountaine: Exploring Your "Why"
Feb 24, 202338:52
BYOK Two Cents 38: What's your Highest Self?

BYOK Two Cents 38: What's your Highest Self?

Hi Own-Kinders, we have reached the last Wednesday of February, and I would like to wrap it up and talk about residing into the version of our highest self. We discussed some Kee moments, trending topics, and more. 


00:00:00 Intro

00:02:05 Sunshine: Da Brat is Pregnant!

00:03:24 Sunshine: "I Have to Get off the Phone!"

00:05:24 Ad: #THEBLUEPRINTMEDIALIVE

00:06:32 Sunshine: Do What Works for You

00:09:17 Kee W Ree: How Often Do You Wash Your Clothes? 

00:12:06 Kee W Ree: Trophy Husband

00:13:53 Kee W Ree: Happy Anniversary? 

00:15:55 Ad: PowerHer Conference

00:18:19 What's the 411?: Biden, what? 

00:20:36 What's the 411? Daddy LL Cool J, again? 

00:23:35 What's the 411? Chris Brown, NOOOO!

00:30:14 Ad: Betterhelp

00:32:39 Main Topic: Are all your grievances yours? 

00:34:54 Main Topic: Building Confidence and Getting Uncomfortable

00:40:54 Main Topic: What is the Higher Version of You? 

00:50:27 Main Topic: Is there a Lower Self Version? 

00:55:34 Ad: PowerHer Conference

00:57:49 Ad: Bake N Bond

00:58:53 Outro


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Feb 22, 202301:00:12
BYOK Two Cents 37: Shooting the Breeze Love Edition

BYOK Two Cents 37: Shooting the Breeze Love Edition

Feb 16, 202301:00:03
BYOK Two Cents 36: What is Love?
Feb 08, 202301:00:03
EP 63: BYOK w/ Devon Hall: We Are All Survivors
Jan 27, 202301:06:39
EP62: BYOK w/ Kim Snodgrass: The Freedom From Letting Go

EP62: BYOK w/ Kim Snodgrass: The Freedom From Letting Go

BYOK connected with the owner of Rustic Home Organizing, Kim Snodgrass, to discuss her transition from existing to creating her desired life. This episode discusses transitioning into a career as a professional organizer, tips for becoming organized, and the blessing of letting things go. 

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Instagram: www.instagram.com/rustichomeorganizing

Website: https://rhorganizing.com/

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Jan 13, 202348:38
BYOK Two Cents 35: Make Room For your Overflow

BYOK Two Cents 35: Make Room For your Overflow

In this episode, we will discuss the importance of purging and the dangers of holding on to toxicity, and some interesting topics to get into it. Meet You There!

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Jan 10, 202354:20
BYOK Two Cents 34: New Year, Same You

BYOK Two Cents 34: New Year, Same You

I am stoked to start the BYOK Two Cents Live Back Up. It's a new year, and so many topics to get into. In this episode, we will talk about eliminating the stressful energy behind resolutions and some extraordinary and crazy things happening worldwide and in the entertainment world. See you There!

Chapters: 

00:00 Introduction

00:24 Sunshine: Clap For Yourself

04:26 Sunshine: Man Rescues 24 People in Blizzard

09:28 Ad: #BluePrint Media Live

11:17 Flashback: Birth of Apple

13:20 Kee w/Ree: Man Becomes a Dog

16:45 Kee w/Ree: Jeremy v. Santa

19:20 Ad: Manifest w/ Tamika Hill

23:18 Ad: Betterhelp

25:44 411?: Skip Bayless insensitive remarks

31:45 411?: RHOP Wives Lying on Chris

34:54 411?: R.I.P. Gangsta Boo

36:22 411?: Congratulations, Summer Walker!

39:00 Ad: Power Her Conference

41:22 Featured Topic: New Year, Same You

52:28 Outro

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Jan 04, 202354:21
EP61: BYOK w/ Tamika Hill: Discovering Your Dysfunction

EP61: BYOK w/ Tamika Hill: Discovering Your Dysfunction

This interview contains an honest and transparent conversation with therapist and entrepreneur Tamika Hill. We discuss owning our emotions, the importance of healing and setting boundaries, navigating emotionally through the holidays, and more.  

 Tamika Hill, a.k.a your "Raw but Real" therapist, is also a licensed clinical social worker.  Also, she owns a private practice called Step By Step the Spa for your mind and a training company named Thill Consultant.   

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 Email: info@sbsmindspa.com  

Instagram: @Thillconsultant  

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Dec 16, 202256:31
EP 60: BYOK w/ PorcheaLondone Spencer: Rising from Ashes

EP 60: BYOK w/ PorcheaLondone Spencer: Rising from Ashes

In this episode, I explain the incredible story of randomly meeting Brand Strategist PorcheaLondone Spencer while at Cooper's Hawk. She also shared some great Branding pointers and her Pheonix Rising moment this year.  

Connect with PorcheaLondone Spencer:  

Instagram: www.instagram.com/richhomieporchea 

Website: https://bit.ly/couturebrandingsuite  

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Nov 11, 202249:31
EP 59: BYOK w/ Dr. Kelly Alvarado-Young: Living En Color
Nov 03, 202241:08
EP 58: BYOK w/ Danielle Portis: Queendom Healing
Oct 28, 202256:38
BYOK Two Cents 33: Celebrating Madonna + The Latruths Arguing about the Truth & More

BYOK Two Cents 33: Celebrating Madonna + The Latruths Arguing about the Truth & More

In this episode, we talk about Madonna's stated opinion, how Cardi B. was affected, the St. Louis School Shooting, The Latruths publicizing their trauma, and more. 


Chapters

00:00:00 Intro

00:01:10 Fried Boiled Eggs

00:03:19 The Close-Up of the Ant

00:06:46 New Adventures Await You

00:09:21 Poor Labor Conditions of Shein

00:22:53 St. Louis School Shooting

00:31:57 School Shooting in General

00:33:27 Texas Child DNA Kits? 

00:35:36 Emmett Till Statue in Greenwood, MS

00:38:36 Tasha K at it Again

00:41:58 Great TV Shows That Were Cancelled

00:44:20 Cardi B. v. Madonna

00:49:21 Giving Madonna Her Flowers

00:54:19 Mr. Latruth v. MrsLatruth

01:25:55 Outro


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Oct 25, 202201:27:12
BYOK Two Cents 32: Are you Bossing Up? + Chrisean, We are Concerned & More

BYOK Two Cents 32: Are you Bossing Up? + Chrisean, We are Concerned & More

In this episode, we discuss the difference between making excuses and bossing up, #blueface holding on #chrisean and #moniquesamuels, and #ChrisSamuels standing up against rumors & more. 

Chapters

00:00:00 Intro

00:01:48 Jason Lee Expressing Thankfulness

00:07:48 Woman Releases Bees on the Sheriffs

00:10:47 Netflix is a Changing!

00:17:00 Come from a place of Gratitude

00:21:17 Biden plans to Release more Oil Reserves

00:24:11 The Costs of Being a Woman Pt. 1

00:28:49 What is a Capsule Wardrobe

00:34:41 The Costs of a Woman Pt. 2

00:40:14 Are you Bossing Up? 

00:46:40 The Samuels Set the Record Set

00:55:44 Chrisean Rock & Blueface Upcoming Show

00:59:31 Jess Hilarious Feelings about Chrisean and Blueface Relationship

01:01:13 Chrisean and Blueface Backgrounds

01:09:01 Outro


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Oct 20, 202201:10:08
BYOK Two Cents 31: Ye, What?!? + Is There Sisterhood in Hip Hop + More

BYOK Two Cents 31: Ye, What?!? + Is There Sisterhood in Hip Hop + More

In this episode, we will touch upon the George Floyd war Kanye started, Nicki and Latto debacle, Glorilla and Hitkidd debacle, and more. 


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Chapters

00:00:00 Intro

00:02:31 Netflix "The Watcher"

00:07:05 Bella Hadid Tik Tok Sound

00:10:47 Missy Elliot Blvd

00:13:38 Glorilla v. Hitkidd

00:29:01 Kanye v. the Estate of George Floyd

00:38:43 Jaguar's Opinion of Kanye Recent Comments

00:42:28 Remembering Vintage Kanye

00:44:34 Tragic Death of Jaheim McMillian

00:55:34 Nicki v. Latto

01:02:14 Nicki v. Variety & The Grammys

01:17:28 The Girls need to reconcile

01:24:17 Outro


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Oct 19, 202201:25:15
BYOK Two Cents 30: Brandy Hospitalized, Remembering Whitney & Lizzo being a Vibe

BYOK Two Cents 30: Brandy Hospitalized, Remembering Whitney & Lizzo being a Vibe

This episode will highlight how Lizzo rises above fatphobic comments, Brandy hospitalized, admiring the late Whitney Houston, and more. 

Chapters

00:00:00 Intro

00:02:57 4th Quarter Blessings

00:05:14 Why Black People Always Asking "Who Gon' Be There?"

00:07:20 Donald Glover "imitating" Tyler Perry? 

00:09:48 La La Community Work at Rikers

00:12:45 Ye's "The Shop" Episode is pulled

00:15:40 What Ray J Would Tell His Younger Self

00:19:21 Brandy is Hospitalized

00:20:44 Fanning on Brandy

00:30:12 Fanning on Whitney Houston

00:32:23 Whitney's Comments on Fatphobia in the Industry

00:36:15 Lizzo Fatbashed Again!

00:46:55 Lizzo Vanity Fair Spread and Quotes

01:01:36 Lizzo is a Movement

01:06:57 Outro


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Oct 13, 202201:09:01
BYOK Two Cents 29: Candace Owens makes Excuses for Ye & The Glamorization of Drugs in the Media

BYOK Two Cents 29: Candace Owens makes Excuses for Ye & The Glamorization of Drugs in the Media

In this episode, we talk about Candace consistently defending Kanye, Beyonce checking Right Said Fred, how drugs are glamorized in the media, and more. 

Chapters

00:00:00 Intro

00:02:11 McDonald's workers are over Adult Happy Meal

00:05:37 An Interesting Way to Clean Toilet Seat

00:06:13 Accept the Lost

00:09:37 French Dentist Stealing Teeth

00:11:42 Somebody will...

00:14:33 Cardi B's Latest Surgery

00:17:18 Ronald Isley Dropping Bars

00:20:21 Beyonce Sets the Record Straight

00:24:53 Lauryn Hill's Zion all Grown Up

00:28:55 Selah Marley Claps Back

00:32:19 Candace Owens Defends Ye Jewish Tweet

00:37:35 Candace Owens "Exposes" Kim K

00:42:20 President Biden Pardons Marijuana 

00:46:25 The Glamour of Drugs in the Media

01:10:41 Outro

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Oct 12, 202201:12:31
BYOK Two Cents 29: BYOK Two Cents: Divorce in the air, Is Marriage Becoming Obsolete?, & Who is Ashley Grayson?

BYOK Two Cents 29: BYOK Two Cents: Divorce in the air, Is Marriage Becoming Obsolete?, & Who is Ashley Grayson?

In this episode, we will discuss the decline of marriages throughout the year, newly found divorces, and the story behind Ashley Grayson. 


Chapter

00:00:00 Intro

00:02:00 Africa's Largest Statue

00:02:50 The Perm Girls Are All Grown Up

00:05:54 Rihanna is Nervous and Excited about SuperBowl

00:08:04 Stop Forcing It

00:09:47 Lizzo the Flautist

00:15:59 Ari Lennox on Love

00:19:03 Miguel and Wife Splitting Up

00:20:27 Tia Mowry and Cory Hardrict Divorcing

00:30:52 Ton Brady Wife Files for Divorce

00:33:20 Are people choosing Monogamy?

00:38:45 Reasons People Are Waiting to Get Married

00:50:54 Who is Ashley Grayson? 

00:59:19 The Scandal Surrounding Ashley Grayson

01:25:25 My Two Cents On the Ashley Grayson Situation

01:35:04 Outro


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Oct 06, 202201:36:39