Make Dementia Your B*tch!
By Rita A Jablonski, PhD CRNP FAAN FGSA
Make Dementia Your B*tch! Nov 22, 2023
Episode 79: Guiding Lights--Navigating Holiday Moments in Dementia Care
In this episode, I help you make the most of the upcoming holidays while caring for someone with dementia. Listen to helpful tips, from involving the person living with dementia to handling the pain in the ass relative who criticizes your care.
Make Dementia Your B*tch podcast has been selected by Feedspot
as one of the Top 25 Dementia Podcasts for 2023—check it out:
https://blog.feedspot.com/dementia_podcasts/
Other resources:
New! 5 Ways to help People living with dementia who refuse help: https://dementiacentricsolutions.com/caring-for-someone-living-with-dementia-tired-of-fighting-and-arguing/
Have a question? Want more information about my programs? Email me: dr.rita.jablonski@gmail.com
Interested in my book? Get your free preview here: https://read.amazon.com/kp/embed?asin=B09SR2ZMM2&preview=newtab&linkCode=kpe&ref_=cm_sw_r_kb_dp_1984RXHNZ8WBNHR7WSJ2
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#frontotemporal #alzheimers #dementia #caregiving #behaviors #dementiabitch #Lewy body #Parkinsons #vascular #holidays
Dementia, Law Enforcement, and Genetic Testing
In this episode, I provide you with a resource: law enforcement who have received crisis intervention training that includes helping caregivers and people with dementia. This is a critical resource, especially for families of people living with behavioral variant FTD. I also discuss genetic testing. Here is the website for free genetic testing, if you qualify: www.probablygenetic.com
- Other resources: Alzheimer’s Association and genetic testing· FTD and genetic testing· Lewy body and genetic testing: Scroll to the bottom of the web page.
Make Dementia Your B*tch podcast has been selected by Feedspot as one of the Top 25 Dementia Podcasts for 2023—check it out: https://blog.feedspot.com/dementia_podcasts/
Other resources:
New! 5 Ways to help People living with dementia who refuse help: https://dementiacentricsolutions.com/caring-for-someone-living-with-dementia-tired-of-fighting-and-arguing/
Have a question? Want more information about my programs? Email me: dr.rita.jablonski@gmail.com
Interested in my book? Get your free preview here: https://read.amazon.com/kp/embed?asin=B09SR2ZMM2&preview=newtab&linkCode=kpe&ref_=cm_sw_r_kb_dp_1984RXHNZ8WBNHR7WSJ2
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#CITI #law enforcement #genetic testing #frontotemporal #alzheimers #dementia #caregiving #behaviors #dementiabitch #Lewy body #Parkinsons #vascular entricsolutions.com/caring-for-someone-living-with-dementia-tired-of-fighting-and-arguing/
Have a question? Want more information about my programs? Email me: dr.rita.jablonski@gmail.com
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#CITI #law enforcement #genetic testing #frontotemporal #alzheimers #dementia #caregiving #behaviors #dementiabitch #Lewy body #Parkinsons #vascular
Episode 77: How to Handle Frequent Crying Behaviors in People Living with Dementia
Caregivers often ask me for ways to manage crying behaviors. These crying behaviors can happen multiple times a day for a short time, or once a day but for hours. Learn what may be causing those behaviors and how to respond in a loving way.
Make Dementia Your B*tch podcast has been selected by Feedspot
as one of the Top 25 Dementia Podcasts for 2023—check it out:
https://blog.feedspot.com/dementia_podcasts/
Free VIRTUAL dementia education and support session calendar:
https://dementiacentricsolutionsllc.clickmeeting.com/monthly-dementia-webinars
Other resources:
New! 5 Ways to help People living with dementia who refuse help: https://dementiacentricsolutions.com/caring-for-someone-living-with-dementia-tired-of-fighting-and-arguing/
Have a question? Want more information about my programs? Email me:.rita.jablonski@gmail.com
Interested in my book? Get your free preview here: https://read.amazon.com/kp/embed?asin=B09SR2ZMM2&preview=newtab&linkCode=kpe&ref_=cm_sw_r_kb_dp_1984RXHNZ8WBNHR7WSJ2
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#frontotemporal #dementia #behaviors
#alzheimers #dementia #caregiving #behaviors #dementiabitch #Lewy body #Parkinsons #vascular #care refusals #vibes #conflict #crying #frontotemporal
Episode 76: Becoming Your Own Dementia Expert
Learn my formula for developing and tweaking strategies when faced with dementia behaviors: neurodegeneration plus personality plus values plus cohort. Sounds complicated, but it is not. When you know how a particular type of dementia is affecting behavior, you can select a strategy and then personalize it by knowing your family member's personality, value system, and time period when they were born.
Make Dementia Your B*tch podcast has been selected by Feedspot
as one of the Top 25 Dementia Podcasts for 2023—check it out:
https://blog.feedspot.com/dementia_podcasts/
Free VIRTUAL dementia education and support session calendar:
https://dementiacentricsolutionsllc.clickmeeting.com/monthly-dementia-webinars
Other resources:
New! 5 Ways to help People living with dementia who refuse help: https://dementiacentricsolutions.com/caring-for-someone-living-with-dementia-tired-of-fighting-and-arguing/
Have a question? Want more information about my programs? Email me:.rita.jablonski@gmail.com
Interested in my book? Get your free preview here: https://read.amazon.com/kp/embed?asin=B09SR2ZMM2&preview=newtab&linkCode=kpe&ref_=cm_sw_r_kb_dp_1984RXHNZ8WBNHR7WSJ2
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#frontotemporal #dementia #behaviors #alzheimers #dementia #caregiving #behaviors #dementiabitch #Lewy body #Parkinsons #vascular #care refusals #vibes #conflict #MemoryCare
Episode 75: How Difficult Family Dynamics Can F*ck With Dementia Caregiving
Pre-dementia family relationships can make caregiving even more challenging. In this episode, I discuss different ways family dynamics cause dementia caregiving to be even more stressful and some approaches to dealing with these dynamics. Whether you are dealing with a super-critical parent who complains nonstop, non-caregiving family members who criticize your care, or sibling fighting that just never seems to stop, this episode may help.
Make Dementia Your B*tch podcast has been selected by Feedspot
as one of the Top 25 Dementia Podcasts for 2023—check it out:
https://blog.feedspot.com/dementia_podcasts/
Free VIRTUAL dementia education and support session calendar:
https://dementiacentricsolutionsllc.clickmeeting.com/monthly-dementia-webinars
Other resources:
New! 5 Ways to help People living with dementia who refuse help: https://dementiacentricsolutions.com/caring-for-someone-living-with-dementia-tired-of-fighting-and-arguing/
Have a question? Want more information about my programs? Email me:.rita.jablonski@gmail.com
Interested in my book? Get your free preview here: https://read.amazon.com/kp/embed?asin=B09SR2ZMM2&preview=newtab&linkCode=kpe&ref_=cm_sw_r_kb_dp_1984RXHNZ8WBNHR7WSJ2
You can also leave questions here: https://anchor.fm/rita-a-jablonski/message
#frontotemporal #dementia #behaviors
#alzheimers #dementia #caregiving #behaviors #dementiabitch #Lewy body #Parkinsons #vascular #care refusals #vibes #conflict #MemoryCare #travel #TSA #TSACares
Episode 74: Avoiding Arguments and Knowing When to Step In
Join me for a replay of March 6's webinar, "Four Ways to Avoid Arguing with a Person Living with Dementia." During the second half of the podcast, I answer a question posed by a listener regarding when to step in and provide more care without overdoing it.
Make Dementia Your B*tch podcast has been selected by Feedspot as one of the Top 25 Dementia Podcasts for 2023—check it out:
https://blog.feedspot.com/dementia_podcasts/
Free VIRTUAL dementia education and support session calendar:
https://dementiacentricsolutionsllc.clickmeeting.com/monthly-dementia-webinars
Other resources:
New! 5 Ways to help People living with dementia who refuse help: https://dementiacentricsolutions.com/caring-for-someone-living-with-dementia-tired-of-fighting-and-arguing/
Have a question? Want more information about my programs? Email me:.rita.jablonski@gmail.com
Interested in my book? Get your free preview here: https://read.amazon.com/kp/embed?asin=B09SR2ZMM2&preview=newtab&linkCode=kpe&ref_=cm_sw_r_kb_dp_1984RXHNZ8WBNHR7WSJ2
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#frontotemporal #dementia #behaviors
#alzheimers #dementia #caregiving #behaviors #dementiabitch #Lewy body #Parkinsons #vascular #care refusals #conflict #arguments
Episode 73: Vacations, Travel, and Dementia
This is the time of year for #vacation and #travel planning. If you are thinking of doing any type of travel with your loved one with dementia, this podcast will help you plan for an optimal experience. Check out a great #TSA resource, TSA Cares.
Make Dementia Your B*tch podcast has been selected by Feedspot as one of the Top 25 Dementia Podcasts for 2023—check it out:
https://blog.feedspot.com/dementia_podcasts/
Free VIRTUAL dementia education and support session calendar:
https://dementiacentricsolutionsllc.clickmeeting.com/monthly-dementia-webinars
Other resources:
New! 5 Ways to help People living with dementia who refuse help: https://dementiacentricsolutions.com/caring-for-someone-living-with-dementia-tired-of-fighting-and-arguing/
Have a question? Want more information about my programs? Email me:.rita.jablonski@gmail.com
Interested in my book? Get your free preview here: https://read.amazon.com/kp/embed?asin=B09SR2ZMM2&preview=newtab&linkCode=kpe&ref_=cm_sw_r_kb_dp_1984RXHNZ8WBNHR7WSJ2
You can also leave questions here: https://anchor.fm/rita-a-jablonski/message
#frontotemporal #dementia #behaviors
#alzheimers #dementia #caregiving #behaviors #dementiabitch #Lewy body #Parkinsons #vascular #care refusals #vibes #conflict #MemoryCare #travel #TSA #TSACares
Episode 72: Handling Conflicts Between Residents in Memory Units, Importance of Early Dementia Diagnosis, and Bruce Wills' FTD announcement
In Episode 72, I tackle 3 topics that were not lengthy enough for their own podcast. Those topics include what to do when people who live in Memory Care Units have conflicts with each other; the importance of getting an early dementia diagnosis so that you can receive one of the new drugs (if you meet the criteria); and Bruce Willis’ FTD diagnosis. His family is very brave sharing this information.
I also recorded this podcast outdoors as an experiment. Open to feedback (yes, no, don't do this again, please have horses neighing in the background).
Make Dementia Your B*tch podcast has been selected by Feedspot as one of the Top 25 Dementia Podcasts for 2023—check it out:
https://blog.feedspot.com/dementia_podcasts/
Free VIRTUAL dementia education and support session calendar:
https://dementiacentricsolutionsllc.clickmeeting.com/monthly-dementia-webinars
Other resources:
New! 5 Ways to help People living with dementia who refuse help: https://dementiacentricsolutions.com/caring-for-someone-living-with-dementia-tired-of-fighting-and-arguing/
Have a question? Want more information about my programs? Email me:.rita.jablonski@gmail.com
Interested in my book? Get your free preview here: https://read.amazon.com/kp/embed?asin=B09SR2ZMM2&preview=newtab&linkCode=kpe&ref_=cm_sw_r_kb_dp_1984RXHNZ8WBNHR7WSJ2
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#frontotemporal #dementia #behaviors
#alzheimers #dementia #caregiving #behaviors #dementiabitch #Lewy body #Parkinsons #vascular #care refusals #vibes #BruceWillis #conflict #MemoryCare #Aduhelm #Leqembi
Episode 71: Preventable Dementia and a Valentine's Day Message
Vascular dementia is considered a preventable dementia, much like heart disease is considered preventable. In this episode, I explain how to prevent vascular dementia. I also share my annual Valentine's Day Message to Dementia Care Partners.
Make Dementia Your B*tch podcast has been selected by Feedspot as one of the Top 25 Dementia Podcasts for 2023—check it out:
https://blog.feedspot.com/dementia_podcasts/
Free VIRTUAL dementia education and support session calendar:
https://dementiacentricsolutionsllc.clickmeeting.com/monthly-dementia-webinars
Other resources:
New! 5 Ways to help People living with dementia who refuse help: https://dementiacentricsolutions.com/caring-for-someone-living-with-dementia-tired-of-fighting-and-arguing/
Have a question? Want more information about my programs? Email me:.rita.jablonski@gmail.com
Interested in my book? Get your free preview here: https://read.amazon.com/kp/embed?asin=B09SR2ZMM2&preview=newtab&linkCode=kpe&ref_=cm_sw_r_kb_dp_1984RXHNZ8WBNHR7WSJ2
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#frontotemporal #dementia #behaviors
#alzheimers #dementia #caregiving #behaviors #dementiabitch #Lewy body #Parkinsons #vascular #care refusals #vibes
Episode 70: Alzheimer's "Cures" and Miracle Memory Pills
You see the ads on TV. You see claims on social media of a revolutionary Alzheimer "cure" (and I'm not talking about the FDA-approved disease modifying drugs). People make claims supposedly backed by research. In today's podcast, I discuss a popular book that has been around for several years and claims to have a program that reverses Alzheimer's disease. I also talk about some common supplements on the market that claim to sharpen one's memory and whether going keto can help protect you from dementia down the road.
Make Dementia Your B*tch podcast has been selected by Feedspot as one of the Top 25 Dementia Podcasts for 2023—check it out:
https://blog.feedspot.com/dementia_podcasts/
Free VIRTUAL dementia education and support session calendar:
https://dementiacentricsolutionsllc.clickmeeting.com/monthly-dementia-webinars
Other resources:
New! 5 Ways to help People living with dementia who refuse help: https://dementiacentricsolutions.com/caring-for-someone-living-with-dementia-tired-of-fighting-and-arguing/
Have a question? Want more information about my programs? Email me: dr.rita.jablonski@gmail.com
Interested in my book? Get your free preview here: https://read.amazon.com/kp/embed?asin=B09SR2ZMM2&preview=newtab&linkCode=kpe&ref_=cm_sw_r_kb_dp_1984RXHNZ8WBNHR7WSJ2
You can also leave questions here: https://anchor.fm/rita-a-jablonski/message
#frontotemporal #dementia #behaviors
#alzheimers #dementia #caregiving #behaviors #dementiabitch #Lewy body #Parkinsons #vascular #care refusals #vibes
Episode 69: Why Does My Family Member with Dementia Say Mean and Hurtful Things to Me?
It is hard enough to care for someone living with dementia. It is even tougher when that person fires mean, hurtful, and nasty words and comments in your direction. In this episode, I explain why this behavior may occur and what to do about it.
Make Dementia Your B*tch podcast has been selected by Feedspot as one of the Top 25 Dementia Podcasts for 2023—check it out:
https://blog.feedspot.com/dementia_podcasts/
Free VIRTUAL dementia education and support session calendar:
https://dementiacentricsolutionsllc.clickmeeting.com/monthly-dementia-webinars
Other resources:
New! 5 Ways to help People living with dementia who refuse help: https://dementiacentricsolutions.com/caring-for-someone-living-with-dementia-tired-of-fighting-and-arguing/
Have a question? Want more information about my programs? Email me: dr.rita.jablonski@gmail.com
Interested in my book? Get your free preview here: https://read.amazon.com/kp/embed?asin=B09SR2ZMM2&preview=newtab&linkCode=kpe&ref_=cm_sw_r_kb_dp_1984RXHNZ8WBNHR7WSJ2
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#frontotemporal #dementia #behaviors
#alzheimers #dementia #caregiving #behaviors #dementiabitch #Lewy body #Parkinsons #vascular #care refusals #vibes
Episode 68: Using the "Caregiver Vibes" Strategy for Care Refusals
It is really frustrating when the person living with dementia refuses to accept care or tells you that he or she already performed the task. You know the drill. “Take a shower,” you say. “I just did,” they say…even though you know it has been days, weeks, maybe months since they have had a shower. Bathing isn’t the only challenging behavior. Convincing a person with dementia to remove soiled clothing can be a nightmare, a literal tug-of-war between the two of you.
One strategy that is useful is called “caregiver vibes.” This strategy has two parts. The first part is to become calm. Yes, I know that can be a tall order when you are exhausted and overwhelmed. I recommend taking 3 deep breaths. Seriously—breathing long and deep helps to reset the vagus nerve and slows down the heart rate. The second part is to picture yourself successfully getting the care done. In this podcast episode, I explain in detail how to accomplish both steps. I also explain how to integrate "caregiver vibes" with other strategies to gain cooperation.
Make Dementia Your B*tch podcast has been selected by Feedspot as one of the Top 25 Dementia Podcasts for 2023—check it out:
https://blog.feedspot.com/dementia_podcasts/
Free VIRTUAL dementia education and support session calendar:
https://dementiacentricsolutionsllc.clickmeeting.com/monthly-dementia-webinars
Other resources:
New! 5 Ways to help People living with dementia who refuse help: https://dementiacentricsolutions.com/caring-for-someone-living-with-dementia-tired-of-fighting-and-arguing/
Have a question? Want more information about my programs? Email me: dr.rita.jablonski@gmail.com
Interested in my book? Get your free preview here: https://read.amazon.com/kp/embed?asin=B09SR2ZMM2&preview=newtab&linkCode=kpe&ref_=cm_sw_r_kb_dp_1984RXHNZ8WBNHR7WSJ2
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#frontotemporal #dementia #behaviors
#alzheimers #dementia #caregiving #behaviors #dementiabitch #Lewy body #Parkinsons #vascular #care refusals #vibes
Episode 67: Weight Loss and Dementia
Weight loss in people living with dementia can stem from a variety of causes: the need for more help or supervision; being too sedated to properly eat; pacing and unable to sit still to consume a meal; or refusing to eat. In this episode, I provide approaches for all of these causes and provide strategies if your family member is refusing to eat.
If you live in the Birmingham, AL area, Vestavia Hills United Methodist Church will be hosting a gathering for caregivers of people living with FTD to assess interest in a support group. This gathering will be Tuesday, Dec 6 6pm-8pm at 2061 Kentucky Avenue, Vestavia, Alabama. See you there!
Make Dementia Your B*tch podcast has been selected by Feedspot as one of the Top 25 Dementia Podcasts for 2022—check it out:
https://blog.feedspot.com/dementia_podcasts/
Free VIRTUAL dementia education and support session calendar:
https://dementiacentricsolutionsllc.clickmeeting.com/monthly-dementia-webinars
Other resources:
New! 5 Ways to help People living with dementia who refuse help: https://dementiacentricsolutions.com/caring-for-someone-living-with-dementia-tired-of-fighting-and-arguing/
Have a question? Want more information about my programs? Email me: dr.rita.jablonski@gmail.com
Interested in my book? Get your free preview here: https://read.amazon.com/kp/embed?asin=B09SR2ZMM2&preview=newtab&linkCode=kpe&ref_=cm_sw_r_kb_dp_1984RXHNZ8WBNHR7WSJ2
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#frontotemporal #dementia #behaviors #alzheimers #dementia #caregiving #behaviors #dementiabitch #Lewy body #Parkinsons #vascular #care refusals #eating #weightloss
Episode 66: Behavioral-variant Frontotemporal Dementia
Behavioral-variant frontotemporal dementia is one of the most misunderstood of the dementias. Today’s podcast is focused exclusively on this dementia. Learn why it is misdiagnosed and how to handle many of this dementia’s specific challenges.
If you live in the Birmingham, AL area, Vestavia Hills United Methodist Church will be hosting a gathering for caregivers of people living with FTD to assess interest in a support group. This gathering will be Tuesday, Dec 6 6pm-8pm at 2061 Kentucky Avenue, Vestavia, Alabama. See you there!
Make Dementia Your B*tch podcast has been selected by Feedspot as one of the Top 25 Dementia Podcasts for 2022—check it out:
https://blog.feedspot.com/dementia_podcasts/
Free VIRTUAL dementia education and support session calendar:
https://dementiacentricsolutionsllc.clickmeeting.com/monthly-dementia-webinars
Other resources:
New! 5 Ways to help People living with dementia who refuse help: https://dementiacentricsolutions.com/caring-for-someone-living-with-dementia-tired-of-fighting-and-arguing/
Have a question? Want more information about my programs? Email me: dr.rita.jablonski@gmail.com
Interested in my book? Get your free preview here: https://read.amazon.com/kp/embed?asin=B09SR2ZMM2&preview=newtab&linkCode=kpe&ref_=cm_sw_r_kb_dp_1984RXHNZ8WBNHR7WSJ2
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#frontotemporal #dementia #behaviors #caregiving
Episode 65: Holiday Survival Strategies for Dementia Caregivers
Holiday season is busy. Even busier if you care for someone living with dementia. In this episode, you will learn helpful strategies for navigating holiday parties and religious celebrations. I provide all purpose "scripts" for dealing with long-distance relatives and uninvolved family members who criticize your care in the form of "concern." Whether you spin the #dreidel, dance around the #Yule log, decorate the #Christmas tree, or burn the #Kwanzaa candles--this podcast is for you!
Make Dementia Your B*tch podcast has been selected by Feedspot as one of the Top 25 Dementia Podcasts for 2022—check it out:
https://blog.feedspot.com/dementia_podcasts/
Free VIRTUAL dementia education and support session calendar:
https://dementiacentricsolutionsllc.clickmeeting.com/monthly-dementia-webinars
Other resources:
New! 5 Ways to help People living with dementia who refuse help: https://dementiacentricsolutions.com/caring-for-someone-living-with-dementia-tired-of-fighting-and-arguing/
Have a question? Want more information about my programs? Email me: dr.rita.jablonski@gmail.com
Interested in my book? Get your free preview here: https://read.amazon.com/kp/embed?asin=B09SR2ZMM2&preview=newtab&linkCode=kpe&ref_=cm_sw_r_kb_dp_1984RXHNZ8WBNHR7WSJ2
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#alzheimers #dementia #caregiving #behaviors #dementiabitch #Lewy body #Parkinsons #vascular #care refusals #apathy #holidays
Episode 64: Apathy in Different Dementias
One of the most frustrating aspects of dementia is when the person living with dementia has no motivation to do anything. This extreme lack of motivation is called apathy. Apathy has different causes in people living with bvFTD than people with other dementias. In today’s podcast, I’m going to explain what causes apathy depending on the type of dementia and, as I always do, will provide some approaches to successfully handle apathy.
Want to hear me LIVE? If you live in the Anniston Alabama area, I will be speaking on November 4 at the Annual Caregiver Conference. Here is the link to register (it is free!): https://www.eastalabamaaging.org/4th-annual-caregivers-conference-caregiving-around-the-clock/
Make Dementia Your B*tch podcast has been selected by Feedspot as one of the Top 25 Dementia Podcasts for 2022—check it out:
https://blog.feedspot.com/dementia_podcasts/
Free VIRTUAL dementia education and support session calendar:
https://dementiacentricsolutionsllc.clickmeeting.com/monthly-dementia-webinars
Other resources:
New! 5 Ways to help People living with dementia who refuse help: https://dementiacentricsolutions.com/caring-for-someone-living-with-dementia-tired-of-fighting-and-arguing/
Have a question? Want more information about my programs? Email me: dr.rita.jablonski@gmail.com
Interested in my book? Get your free preview here: https://read.amazon.com/kp/embed?asin=B09SR2ZMM2&preview=newtab&linkCode=kpe&ref_=cm_sw_r_kb_dp_1984RXHNZ8WBNHR7WSJ2
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#alzheimers #dementia #caregiving #behaviors #dementiabitch #Lewy body #Parkinsons #vascular #care refusals #apathy
Episode 63: Why Does My Family Member's Dementia Look Differently? Cognitive Reserve
Why does my family member’s dementia look differently from others with the same diagnosis, or even at the same stages?
I get this question multiple times a week. Sometimes, caregivers are confused because this is the second, or third, person they are caring for…and their experience this time is very different from earlier experiences. Or, a caregiver is going to a support group and realizes that their loved one’s memory problems are not consistent with what other members are describing. Caregivers start to wonder if the person living with dementia is “pretending” to have memory problems or if the diagnosis is correct. Some caregivers may even believe that their family member could do more if only they would try harder.
One reason why two people with the same diagnosis may behave differently is because of something called “cognitive reserve.” Cognitive reserve is the build up of extra neurons in different parts of the brain. Education, hobbies, and occupation can all build cognitive reserve.
Make Dementia Your B*tch podcast has been selected by Feedspot as one of the Top 25 Dementia Podcasts for 2022—check it out:
https://blog.feedspot.com/dementia_podcasts/
Free VIRTUAL dementia education and support session calendar:
https://dementiacentricsolutionsllc.clickmeeting.com/monthly-dementia-webinars
Other resources:
New! 5 Ways to help People living with dementia who refuse help: https://dementiacentricsolutions.com/caring-for-someone-living-with-dementia-tired-of-fighting-and-arguing/
Have a question? Want more information about my programs? Email me: dr.rita.jablonski@gmail.com
Interested in my book? Get your free preview here: https://read.amazon.com/kp/embed?asin=B09SR2ZMM2&preview=newtab&linkCode=kpe&ref_=cm_sw_r_kb_dp_1984RXHNZ8WBNHR7WSJ2
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#alzheimers #dementia #caregiving #behaviors #dementiabitch #Lewy body #Parkinsons #vascular #care refusals #cognitive reserve
Episode 62: A Variation of Alzheimers--Logopenic Primary Progressive Aphasia
In episode 55, “Frontotemporal Dementia and Speech Problems,” I introduced something known as primary progressive aphasias. Primary, because the speech problems happen first in the disease. “Progressive,” because the speech problems get worse over time. “Aphasia” is a medical word for difficulty speaking. Primary progressive aphasias affect 200,000 people in the United States and are considered “rare.” There is nothing rare about a disease when it affects you or a loved one. PPAs are associated with dementia; instead of memory problems happening first, speech problems happen first. Memory problems happen later. It is the speech problem that gets people to come to a neurology practice, where the specific speech problem is identified.
Make Dementia Your B*tch podcast has been selected by Feedspot as one of the Top 25 Dementia Podcasts for 2022—check it out:
https://blog.feedspot.com/dementia_podcasts/
Free VIRTUAL dementia education and support session calendar:
https://dementiacentricsolutionsllc.clickmeeting.com/monthly-dementia-webinars
Other resources:
New! 5 Ways to help People living with dementia who refuse help: https://dementiacentricsolutions.com/caring-for-someone-living-with-dementia-tired-of-fighting-and-arguing/
Have a question? Want more information about my programs? Email me: dr.rita.jablonski@gmail.com
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Episode 61: Feeling Disconnected from People living with Dementia
Family caregivers often share that they have lost their connection with people living with dementia. Some limit their communication with the person living with dementia because of constant arguments. Others feel sad when their efforts go unappreciated. In today's episode, you will learn why the disconnect happens and how to handle it. You will learn a handy tip for side-stepping arguments.
Make Dementia Your B*tch podcast has been selected by Feedspot as one of the Top 25 Dementia Podcasts for 2022—check it out:
https://blog.feedspot.com/dementia_podcasts/
Free VIRTUAL dementia education and support session calendar:
https://dementiacentricsolutionsllc.clickmeeting.com/monthly-dementia-webinars
Other resources:
New! 5 Ways to help People living with dementia who refuse help: https://dementiacentricsolutions.com/caring-for-someone-living-with-dementia-tired-of-fighting-and-arguing/
Have a question? Want more information about my programs? Email me: dr.rita.jablonski@gmail.com
Interested in my book? Get your free preview here: https://read.amazon.com/kp/embed?asin=B09SR2ZMM2&preview=newtab&linkCode=kpe&ref_=cm_sw_r_kb_dp_1984RXHNZ8WBNHR7WSJ2
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#alzheimers #dementia #caregiving #behaviors #dementiabitch #Lewy body #Parkinsons #vascular #care refusals
Episode 60: Down Syndrome and Dementia
People living with Down syndrome are at greater risk of developing early-onset Alzheimer’s Dementia compared to people without Down syndrome. In this podcast, I provide information about why people living with Down syndrome are at greater risk for developing early-onset dementia, how dementia looks like in this population, the use of dementia medications in this population, and some strategies to help slow functional decline and communicate in spite of the dementia.
Make Dementia Your B*tch podcast has been selected by Feedspot as one of the Top 25 Dementia Podcasts for 2022—check it out:
https://blog.feedspot.com/dementia_podcasts/
Free VIRTUAL dementia education and support session, Monday October 3 at 6 pm central time:
https://dementiacentricsolutionsllc.clickmeeting.com/monthly-dementia-webinars
Other resources:
New! 5 Ways to help People living with dementia who refuse help: https://dementiacentricsolutions.com/caring-for-someone-living-with-dementia-tired-of-fighting-and-arguing/
Have a question? Want more information about my programs? Email me: dr.rita.jablonski@gmail.com
Interested in my book? Get your free preview here: https://read.amazon.com/kp/embed?asin=B09SR2ZMM2&preview=newtab&linkCode=kpe&ref_=cm_sw_r_kb_dp_1984RXHNZ8WBNHR7WSJ2
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#alzheimers #Down syndrome #dementia #caregiving #behaviors #dementiabitch #GAPNA #Southwest
Episode 59: Slowing Down the Loss of Procedural Memories
Procedural memories are memories of how to do things—like how to brush your teeth or program your remote. People living with dementia start to lose these memories in the reverse order that they learned them. Procedural memories created in childhood are the last to go. In this podcast, learn how to slow down the loss of procedural memories by allowing as much self-care as possible.
Make Dementia Your B*tch podcast has been selected by Feedspot as one of the Top 25 Dementia Podcasts for 2022—check it out:
https://blog.feedspot.com/dementia_podcasts/
Free VIRTUAL dementia education and support session, Monday September 5 at 6 pm central time:
https://dementiacentricsolutionsllc.clickmeeting.com/monthly-dementia-webinars
Other resources:
New! 5 Ways to help People living with dementia who refuse help: https://dementiacentricsolutions.com/caring-for-someone-living-with-dementia-tired-of-fighting-and-arguing/
Have a question? Want more information about my programs? Email me: dr.rita.jablonski@gmail.com
Interested in my book? Get your free preview here: https://read.amazon.com/kp/embed?asin=B09SR2ZMM2&preview=newtab&linkCode=kpe&ref_=cm_sw_r_kb_dp_1984RXHNZ8WBNHR7WSJ2
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#alzheimers #lewy body #frontotemporal #vascular #Parkinsons #dementia #caregiving #care refusal #dementiabitch
Episode 58: What People Living with Dementia Want You to Know (formerly the 10 Commandments of Dementia/FTD Care)
I wrote a blog post in 2018 titled the "10 Commandments of Dementia Care." This was followed by "What People with bvFTD Want You to Know." In this episode, I combined both--and updated the information--into a 10-item "Framework for Dementia Care" and added a few more items specific to bvFTD. This podcast episode summarizes a lot of the principles and strategies I encourage caregivers to use with some really unique approaches to bvFTD care.
Free VIRTUAL dementia education and support session, Monday September 5 at 6 pm central time:
https://dementiacentricsolutionsllc.clickmeeting.com/monthly-dementia-webinars
Other resources:
New! 5 Ways to help People living with dementia who refuse help: https://dementiacentricsolutions.com/caring-for-someone-living-with-dementia-tired-of-fighting-and-arguing/
Have a question? Want more information about my programs? Email me: dr.rita.jablonski@gmail.com
Interested in my book? Get your free preview here: https://read.amazon.com/kp/embed?asin=B09SR2ZMM2&preview=newtab&linkCode=kpe&ref_=cm_sw_r_kb_dp_1984RXHNZ8WBNHR7WSJ2
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#alzheimers #lewy body #frontotemporal #vascular #Parkinsons #dementia #caregiving #care refusal #dementiabitch
Episode 57: Decoding "I want to go home!"
In this episode, I explain the many meanings behind requests to go home. I also provide various approaches you can take when faced with a person living with dementia who tells you that they want to go home...but they already ARE home. I also clarify the "entering their reality" approach.
New! 5 Ways to help People living with dementia who refuse help: https://dementiacentricsolutions.com/caring-for-someone-living-with-dementia-tired-of-fighting-and-arguing/
Have a question? Want more information about my programs? Email me: dr.rita.jablonski@gmail.com
Interested in my book? Get your free preview here: https://read.amazon.com/kp/embed?asin=B09SR2ZMM2&preview=newtab&linkCode=kpe&ref_=cm_sw_r_kb_dp_1984RXHNZ8WBNHR7WSJ2
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#alzheimers #lewy body #frontotemporal #vascular #Parkinsons #dementia #caregiving #care refusal #dementiabitch #decision-making #decisional capacity #sexual
Episode 56: Sexual Behavior and Dementia
In this episode, I want to address a topic that can be uncomfortable: sexual behavior in people living with dementia. Sometimes, an aging parent with dementia may make overtures to an adult child of the opposite gender. I explain how this is a case of "mistaken identity" and how to prevent it. There are times when the person living with dementia wants sexual activity, but the spouse, for a variety of reasons, cannot connect in that way. Learn how to meet that spouse's need for loving touch without involving sexual activity. Persons living with bvFTD present extremely challenging sexual behavior--and meds are not the answer.
Free VIRTUAL dementia education and support session, Monday August 8 at 6 pm central time:
https://dementiacentricsolutionsllc.clickmeeting.com/monthly-dementia-webinars
Other resources:
New! 5 Ways to help People living with dementia who refuse help: https://dementiacentricsolutions.com/caring-for-someone-living-with-dementia-tired-of-fighting-and-arguing/
Have a question? Want more information about my programs? Email me: dr.rita.jablonski@gmail.com
Interested in my book? Get your free preview here: https://read.amazon.com/kp/embed?asin=B09SR2ZMM2&preview=newtab&linkCode=kpe&ref_=cm_sw_r_kb_dp_1984RXHNZ8WBNHR7WSJ2
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#alzheimers #lewy body #frontotemporal #vascular #Parkinsons #dementia #caregiving #care refusal #dementiabitch #decision-making #decisional capacity #sexual
Episode 55 FTD and Primary Progressive Aphasias
In today’s episode, I describe two subtypes of frontotemporal dementia: nonfluent variant primary progressive aphasia and semantic variant primary progressive aphasias. Unlike behavioral variant FTD, people with either one of the primary progressive aphasias have problems speaking as the initial symptom. These problems are followed later by memory and behavioral problems.
Other resources:
New! 5 Ways to help People living with dementia who refuse help: https://dementiacentricsolutions.com/caring-for-someone-living-with-dementia-tired-of-fighting-and-arguing/
Have a question? Want more information about my programs? Email me: dr.rita.jablonski@gmail.com
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Episode 54: Caregiver "Vibes" Affect Behavior in People living with Dementia
People living with dementia can respond to our own emotions and energy. In this podcast, I talk about ways to keep your energy, your "vibe," high and positive to avoid triggering some behaviors. I know this is going to sound new-agey and "woo woo," but listen to the podcast and see if some of these things may be happening in your caregiving situation.
New! 5 Ways to help People living with dementia who refuse help: https://dementiacentricsolutions.com/caring-for-someone-living-with-dementia-tired-of-fighting-and-arguing/
Have a question? Want more information about my programs? Email me: dr.rita.jablonski@gmail.com
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Episode 53: Wandering Behavior in People Living With Dementia
Twenty percent of people living with dementia engage in wandering behavior. Learn how to prevent wandering behavior, plans to have in place in case it happens, and what to do should your loved one living with dementia wanders away from home. Here is the link for the Alzheimer’s Association wander resources section: https://www.alz.org/help-support/caregiving/stages-behaviors/wandering
Other resources:
New! 5 Ways to help People living with dementia who refuse help: https://dementiacentricsolutions.com/caring-for-someone-living-with-dementia-tired-of-fighting-and-arguing/
Have a question? Want more information about my programs? Email me: dr.rita.jablonski@gmail.com
Interested in my book? Get your free preview here: https://read.amazon.com/kp/embed?asin=B09SR2ZMM2&preview=newtab&linkCode=kpe&ref_=cm_sw_r_kb_dp_1984RXHNZ8WBNHR7WSJ2
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Episode 52: Challenges Facing Employed Dementia Care Partners in a Post-Covid World
In today’s podcast, I want to recognize the challenges faced by employed care partners and share potential resources to help with these challenges.
Here are the resources I mentioned in this podcast episode:
In some states, Medicaid programspay family members to provide care to persons with dementia, as long as certain criteria are met. There is a program for veterans that also provides payment to family members who are providing in-home care. Area Agencies on Aging also offer a variety of home and community-based services for care partners.
Podcast anniversary LIVE Dementia Problem-Solving and Celebration Event—register here https://dementiacentricsolutionsllc.clickmeeting.com/mdyb-podcast-anniversary
Other resources:
New! 5 Ways to help People living with dementia who refuse help: https://dementiacentricsolutions.com/caring-for-someone-living-with-dementia-tired-of-fighting-and-arguing/
Have a question? Want more information about my programs? Email me: rita.jablonski@gmail.com
Interested in my book? Get your free preview here: https://read.amazon.com/kp/embed?asin=B09SR2ZMM2&preview=newtab&linkCode=kpe&ref_=cm_sw_r_kb_dp_1984RXHNZ8WBNHR7WSJ2
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#alzheimers #lewy body #frontotemporal #vascular #Parkinsons #dementia #caregiving #care refusal #dementiabitch
Episode 51: Spousal Caregivers of People Living with Dementia--Advice from Dr. Gloria Lee
Caring for a spouse who is living with dementia has its own unique challenges. In this episode, Dr. Gloria Lee--a clinical psychologist based in Vancouver, Canada--shares advice on handling guilt, anger, and depression. Dr. Lee specializes in relationships and has helped many spousal caregivers of people living with dementia. Visit her website.
Join me on July 14 2022 at 6 pm central US time to celebrate MDYB's "birthday": https://dementiacentricsolutionsllc.clickmeeting.com/mdyb-podcast-anniversary This is an event for you, my wonderful podcast listeners. Bring your questions and comments.
Free resouce: Five Ways to Help People Living with Dementia Who Refuse Help.
Free preview of my book, "Make Dementia Your B*tch! An Easy Guide to Understanding and Handling Dementia-driven Behaviors."
Have a question? Interested in working with me? Email me: rita.jablonski@gmail.com
#alzheimers #lewy body #frontotemporal #vascular #Parkinsons #dementia #caregiving #care refusal #dementiabitch #spouse
Episode 50: Dealing with "Stubborn" and "Mean" Dementia Behaviors: Tips and Approaches
Does this feel familiar: “I quit my job to care for him, but he never appreciates anything I do.”
Do you find yourself thinking, “Why is she so mean to me? Can’t she see I’m trying to help her?”
Are you asking yourself, “How do I handle the stubbornness? It feels like I’m fighting all of the time.”
You are not alone. One of my colleagues calls these behaviors “Dementia S&M”—stubborn and mean.
In this podcast, I’m going to untangle these "stubborn" and "mean" behaviors and provide some approaches that you may find helpful. You are not alone on this journey!
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#alzheimers #lewy body #frontotemporal #vascular #Parkinsons #dementia #caregiving #care refusal #dementiabitch #stubborn #mean
Episode 49: Q and A with Dr. J--"Can a facility refuse to accept my loved one with dementia?" and Other Questions
In today's episode, I answer listener's questions:
- Can a facility refuse to accept my family member with dementia who has dementia-related behaviors, like refusing medication?
- How do I remove incontinence briefs when my family member fights with me?
- What should I do when my loved one with dementia suddenly becomes more confused and combative?
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#alzheimers #lewy body #frontotemporal #vascular #Parkinsons #dementia #caregiving #care refusal #dementiabitch #decision-making #decisional capacity
Episode 48: My Family Member With Dementia Only Wants Care From Me And No One Else!
Some people living with dementia will only accept care from ONE family member...and no one else! If you are that family member, and you are drowning in care needs, and you are trying to figure out how to bring in help...I have some strategies for you!
My “Confident & Competent Dementia Caregiving Program” is accepting registrations until Tuesday, June 7 at midnight central time. This program is limited to 8 people. Learn more!
#alzheimers #lewy body #frontotemporal #vascular #Parkinsons #dementia #caregiving #care refusal #dementiabitch #decision-making #decisional capacity
Episode 47: Being Your Authentic Self by Using the "Entering Their Reality" Approach to Handle Dementia Behaviors
"Don't piss on my head and tell me it's rain." I don't like being lied to, even if you think the lie is sparing my feelings. I used to lie to people living with dementia because I thought it was kind...until I got caught in a lie. I also felt very fake. Feeling fake can mess up your vibes and increase the behaviors.
In this episode, I dive deeper into one of my favorite strategies, "Entering Their Reality." I use this approach when I'm faced with care refusals and nothing else works. Entering Their Reality is not straight up lying. This approach takes into account the person's type of dementia, their personality, their cohort, and their values. When you "enter their reality," you respond in a way that is aligned with A TRUTH and taps into their values. If this sounds like some weird philosophical approach--it isn't. Listen in and I'll walk you through the strategy, and give you some concrete examples at the end.
This podcast was extracted from a live webinar I gave Monday, May 30 2022. My internet was being fussy and played havoc with my audio. At least Amira was quiet. If you would rather watch the videos, you can watch it here: https://youtu.be/EUtsVfs4ziI
Want to become a confident and competent dementia caregiver? Check out my program--registration closes Tuesday, June 7 2022 at midnight.
Episode 46: Placement Decisions--Nursing Homes or Assisted Living Facilities?
The time to start considering placement options is when you do not need these options in the immediate future. However, if you are think placement may be a possibility, this is the podcast that helps you sort out one essential question: an assisted living facility or a nursing home? Learn the difference between the two, which one Medicare and Medicaid may pay for, and important policies to know about BEFORE deciding.
Nursing Home Compare site: https://www.medicare.gov/care-compare/
My book, "Make Dementia Your B*tch! An Easy Guide to Understanding Dementia-related Behaviors" is now available on Amazon! Order it here.
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Frustrated with care refusals? Get your free copy of my checklist, “ Dementia Hacks: 15 Ways to Manage Dementia Care Refusals.”
Have a dementia question? Want to hear it answered on a future podcast? Email me: info@makedementiayourbitch.com
Looking for a community? I have my own Facebook page for dementia caregivers: Make Dementia Your B!
#alzheimers #lewy body #frontotemporal #dementia #caregiving #care refusal #dementiabitch #assistedliving #nursinghome
Episode 45: Capgras Syndrome in Dementia--My Family Member Thinks I'm Not Me but an Imposter!
Capgras syndrome is the delusion (false belief) that one's family have been replaced by duplicates...by imposters. Capgras syndrome is seen most frequently in people living with Lewy Body dementia but can also occur in other dementias. The breakdown of specific parts of the temporal lobes, occipital lobes, and limbic system connections are thought to be the culprits. Learn more about Capgras and some approaches in this week's podcast.
Here are the articles I referenced:
Josephs KA. Capgras Syndrome and Its Relationship to Neurodegenerative Disease. Arch Neurol. 2007;64(12):1762–1766. doi:10.1001/archneur.64.12.1762
Pereira GCM, de Oliveira GC. Prevalence of Capgras syndrome in Alzheimer's patients: A systematic review and meta-analysis. Dement Neuropsychol. 2019;13(4):463-468. doi:10.1590/1980-57642018dn13-040014
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Have a dementia question? Want to hear it answered on a future podcast? Email me: info@makedementiayourbitch.com
Looking for a community? I have my own Facebook page for dementia caregivers: Make Dementia Your B!
#alzheimers #lewy body #frontotemporal #dementia #caregiving #care refusal #dementiabitch #guilt
Episode 44: Tips for Visiting People Living in Facilities
In this episode, I answer the question, "How do I visit my family member who doesn’t seem to know that I’m even there? Or who doesn’t even know who I am?” As dementia deepens and your family member communicates less, it may seem as if your visits don't matter. I think they do! Tune in for concrete approaches to having a great visit with your loved one, even in the moderate, moderately severe, and severe stages of dementia.
My book, "Make Dementia Your B*tch! An Easy Guide to Understanding Dementia-related Behaviors" is now available on Amazon! Order it here.
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Have a dementia question? Want to hear it answered on a future podcast? Email me: info@makedementiayourbitch.com
Looking for a community? I have my own Facebook page for dementia caregivers: Make Dementia Your B!
#alzheimers #lewy body #frontotemporal #dementia #caregiving #care refusal #dementiabitch #visiting #nursinghome #memorycare
Episode 43: Delusions in Dementia, Part 2--Approaches
Learn some approaches to delusional behavior in this podcast, including a really unique approach to someone who thinks there food is being poisoned!
My book, "Make Dementia Your B*tch! An Easy Guide to Understanding Dementia-related Behaviors" is now available on Amazon! Order it here.
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Have a dementia question? Want to hear it answered on a future podcast? Email me: info@makedementiayourbitch.com
Looking for a community? I have my own Facebook page for dementia caregivers: Make Dementia Your B!
#alzheimers #lewy body #frontotemporal #dementia #caregiving #care refusal #caregiving #dementiabitch #delusions #strategies
Episode 42: Delusions in Dementia Part 1
Delusions are defined as "false beliefs," but these beliefs feel VERY real to people living with dementia. In this episode, I explain how delusions are different from hallucinations and illusions. I explain the 3 common types of delusions that you may encounter caring for a person living with dementia: persecutory (paranoid), jealousy, and scarcity. This content will help you develop strategies to understand and manage delusional behavior--which I explore in deeper detail during the next podcast, "Episode 43: Dementia Delusion Solutions."
My book, "Make Dementia Your B*tch! An Easy Guide to Understanding Dementia-related Behaviors" is now available on Amazon! Order it here.
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Have a dementia question? Want to hear it answered on a future podcast? Email me: info@makedementiayourbitch.com
Looking for a community? I have my own Facebook page for dementia caregivers: Make Dementia Your B!
#alzheimers #lewy body #frontotemporal #dementia #caregiving #dementiabitch #delusions
Episode 41: Three Ways to Know if it is Safe to Leave My Family Member with Dementia Alone
“Is it safe for me to leave my loved one with dementia alone?”
This question popped up as I was working on a piece about caregiver self-care. Dementia caregivers constantly ask me “How do I take time for myself if I’m ‘on duty’ or ‘on call’ 24/7?” Most dementia caregivers know they need to take care of themselves, but they find themselves last on their lists because the needs of their loved ones seem greater than their needs. There are also times where the caregiver has to go somewhere, like a doctor’s appointment or to the hospital for a test, and taking the person living with dementia is not an option…and the person living with dementia is insistent that they can be left alone. Yes, you want to respect their wants and autonomy. The last thing you want to do is to put in place unnecessary restrictions. But how do you know if leaving them alone is safe?
My book, "Make Dementia Your B*tch! An Easy Guide to Understanding Dementia-related Behaviors" is now available on Amazon! Order it here.
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Have a dementia question? Want to hear it answered on a future podcast? Email me: info@makedementiayourbitch.com
Looking for a community? I have my own Facebook page for dementia caregivers: Make Dementia Your B!
#alzheimers #lewy body #frontotemporal #dementia #caregiving #care refusal #caregiving #dementiabitch #safety #supervision
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Episode 40: Deciding to Place a Loved One with Dementia is Not Surrendering!!
There is this belief that "good" caregivers keep their loved one living with dementia at home and "bad" caregivers move their loved one into care--into assisted living facilities, memory care units, nursing homes, etc.
This belief is f*cking bullsh*t.
There are many reasons why home care may not be the safest situation, both for the caregiver and the person living with dementia. I talk about the obvious ones--like caregiver physical and mental health and unsafe behaviors. I also talk about topics that are rarely discussed, like caring for a toxic relative or having zero aptitude for dementia caregiving. I also talk about ways to release caregiver guilt about placement. I want family caregivers to know that placement does not mean you failed. It does not mean you are a rotten son, daughter, partner, spouse, sibling or friend. It means that you are continuing to care for the person with dementia. You are looking for the best option for ALL concerned.
My book, "Make Dementia Your B*tch! An Easy-to-Understand Guide for Family Caregivers" is now available on Amazon! Order it here.
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Have a dementia question? Want to hear it answered on a future podcast? Email me: info@makedementiayourbitch.com
Looking for a community? I have my own Facebook page for dementia caregivers: Make Dementia Your B!
#alzheimers #lewy body #frontotemporal #dementia #caregiving #care refusal #caregiving #dementiabitch #guilt #placement
Episode 39: Releasing Caregiver Guilt, Anxiety, and Fear!
This episode is all about you, awesome caregivers!!! In this episode, I talk about common sources of dementia caregiver guilt, anxiety, and fear. As usual, I do more than talk about it--I provide some strategies for kicking these unhelpful feelings to the curb. I describe "good-enough caregiving" as a realistic way to approach those nagging thoughts around "Did I do everything I could to make them safe and happy?" and "Am I doing enough?" Join me for an uplifting episode aimed at improving your spirits!
My book, "Make Dementia Your B*tch! An Easy-to-Understand Guide for Family Caregivers" is now available on Amazon! Order it here.
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Have a dementia question? Want to hear it answered on a future podcast? Email me: info@makedementiayourbitch.com
Looking for a community? I have my own Facebook page for dementia caregivers: Make Dementia Your B!
#alzheimers #lewy body #frontotemporal #dementia #caregiving #care refusal #caregiving #dementiabitch #guilt
Episode 38: What is Chronic Traumatic Encephalopathy?
Chronic traumatic encephalopathy (CTE) is a type of neurodegenerative disease that includes ongoing and worsening problems with memory. CTE has been depicted in movies and television episodes--but not accurately. In this podcast, Dr. Jablonski explains CTE and describes how it is like Alzheimer's dementia and how it is different. She also explains the confusion around traumatic brain injuries, CTE, and dementia.
Here are the citations for the references she mentions:
MARTLAND HS. PUNCH DRUNK. JAMA. 1928;91(15):1103–1107. doi:10.1001/jama.1928.02700150029009
Mez J, Daneshvar DH, Abdolmohammadi B, Chua AS, Alosco ML, Kiernan PT, Evers L, Marshall L, Martin BM, Palmisano JN, Nowinski CJ, Mahar I, Cherry JD, Alvarez VE, Dwyer B, Huber BR, Stein TD, Goldstein LE, Katz DI, Cantu RC, Au R, Kowall NW, Stern RA, McClean MD, Weuve J, Tripodis Y, McKee AC. Duration of American Football Play and Chronic Traumatic Encephalopathy. Ann Neurol. 2020 Jan;87(1):116-131. doi: 10.1002/ana.25611. Epub 2019 Nov 23. PMID: 31589352; PMCID: PMC6973077.
Schwab N, Wennberg R, Grenier K, Tartaglia C, Tator C, Hazrati LN. Association of Position Played and Career Duration and Chronic Traumatic Encephalopathy at Autopsy in Elite Football and Hockey Players. Neurology. 2021 Apr 6;96(14):e1835-e1843. doi: 10.1212/WNL.0000000000011668. Epub 2021 Feb 24. PMID: 33627496; PMCID: PMC8105967.
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Episode 37: Teen Caregivers of Parents Living with Dementia
Teens caring for parents living with dementia may feel alone and isolated. In today's podcast, I reach out to this segment of my audience. The resources for teens is geared to those teens caring for their grandparents. Caring for a parent with dementia is much different than caring for a grandparent. I provide explanations for some of the behaviors and helpful strategies for communicating with a parent living with dementia. All of the content is geared for teens and adolescents--12 and older.
If you have a question about dementia care, email me: rita.jablonski@dementia.com. Yes, I really do answer my email!
Frustrated with care refusals? Go to https://makedmentiayourbitch.com for a free copy of my checklist, “ Dementia Hacks: 15 Ways to Manage Dementia Care Refusals.”
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You can confidently manage dementia behaviors so that your life and the life of your loved one with dementia become easier and calmer. Check out different ways to learn how to handle many common (and not so common) dementia behaviors: https://dementiacentricsolutions.com
Are you a visual learning? Check out my YouTube channel, where I demonstrate strategies like bridging and chaining
Looking for a community? I have my own Facebook page for dementia caregivers: Make Dementia Your B!
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Episode 36: Air Travel and Dementia Caregiving
I answer a question from a listener about the need to relocate a family member living with dementia across the US. Air travel with someone who has moderate or moderately severe dementia is a daunting challenge. Listen for tips to make air travel easier.
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Check out my book, “Make Dementia Your B*tch! An Easy Guide to Understanding and Handling Dementia-driven Behaviors.”
Have a dementia question? Want to hear it answered on a future podcast? Email me: rita.jablonski@gmail.com.
Are you a visual learning? Check out my YouTube channel, where I demonstrate strategies like bridging and chaining
Looking for a community? I have my own Facebook page for dementia caregivers: Make Dementia Your B!
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Episode 35: Dementia and Medications for Mood, Sleep, and Behaviors
I dive deep into four general categories of medications that are often prescribed for people living with dementia: antidepressants, mood stabilizers, benzodiazepines (spoiler alert--not a good option), and antipsychotics. Learn why these medications are prescribed and what problems may happen when your family member takes them. This information is for educational use only. Consult your healthcare professional before making any medication changes. I hope that this information assists you with having conversations about medications with your healthcare provider.
Here are the studies I mention:
Seitz DP, Adunuri N, Gill SS, Gruneir A, Herrmann N, Rochon P. Antidepressants for agitation and psychosis in dementia. Cochrane Database of Systematic Reviews. 2011(2).
McCleery J, Cohen DA, Sharpley AL. Pharmacotherapies for sleep disturbances in dementia. Cochrane Database Syst Rev. 2016;11:CD009178.
Baillon SF, Narayana U, Luxenberg JS, Clifton AV. Valproate preparations for agitation in dementia. Cochrane Database Syst Rev. 2018;10:CD003945.
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CHECK OUT MY BOOK! “Make Dementia Your B*tch! An Easy Guide to Understanding and Handling Dementia-driven Behaviors.”
Have a dementia question? Want to hear it answered on a future podcast? Email me: rita.jablonski@gmail.com.
Are you a visual learning? Check out my YouTube channel, where I demonstrate strategies like bridging and chaining
Looking for a community? I have my own Facebook page for dementia caregivers: Make Dementia Your B!
Episode 34: Taking the Mystery Out of Common Dementia Meds: Acetylcholinesterase Inhibitors and Memantine
People living with dementia are prescribed different medications along the dementia journey. Two categories of medications are commonly prescribed at the beginning and middle of the journey: acetylcholinesterase inhibitors (like Aricept) and memantine. In this episode, I explain how these medications work, when they are usually prescribed, and if (or when) they can be stopped.
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Episode 33: How to Evaluate a Memory Care Unit--5 Important Questions to Ask!
Many caregivers agonize over the decision to place their loved one living with dementia into a memory care facility. This is a very difficult and personal decision. When you are ready to cross that bridge, make sure you carefully evaluate the facility. Here are 5 very important questions to ask, and which responses indicate a quality facility or a problematic one.
Frustrated with care refusals? Go to https://makedmentiayourbitch.com for a free copy of my checklist, “ Dementia Hacks: 15 Ways to Manage Dementia Care Refusals.”
My book, "Make Dementia Your B*tch! An Easy Guide to Understanding Dementia-related Behaviors" is now available on Amazon! Order it here.
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You can confidently manage dementia behaviors so that your life and the life of your loved one with dementia become easier and calmer. Check out different ways to learn how to handle many common (and not so common) dementia behaviors: https://dementiacentricsolutions.com
Have a dementia question? Want to hear it answered on a future podcast? Email me: info@makedementiayourbitch.com.
Are you a visual learning? Check out my YouTube channel, where I demonstrate strategies like bridging and chaining
Looking for a community? I have my own Facebook page for dementia caregivers: Make Dementia Your B!
#alzheimers #lewy body #frontotemporal #dementia #caregiving #care refusal #caregiving #dementiabitch #memorycare
Episode 32: What is Sun Downing and How to Handle It!
Sun downing--a period of seemingly increased confusion and agitation that may occur in the afternoon/evening but can occur at any time--is a behavioral symptom of distress. Sun downing, like many dementia-related behaviors, is treated like "just one of those things." Like an inevitable behavior that caregivers just have to put up with. I disagree. Having dementia does not alter physical, emotional, or social needs. Instead, the brain changes from dementia make it tougher for people to have those needs met. In this podcast, I explain why sun downing happens, what needs may be triggering sun downing, and how to lovingly respond to those needs.
Frustrated with care refusals? Go to https://makedmentiayourbitch.com for a free copy of my checklist, “ Dementia Hacks: 15 Ways to Manage Dementia Care Refusals.”
My book, "Make Dementia Your B*tch! An Easy Guide to Understanding Dementia-related Behaviors" is now available on Amazon! Order it here.
Loved the podcast? Want to stay in the loop and snag information about free stuff and other offers in my podcast? Subscribe here: https://7ba411eb.sibforms.com/serve/MUIEAGRihMp3YCvMGUbK7usRQOWj7sPJgtULa2BGKd-Bz1zXOobcRoK_BmpIZ7tO_89zC37s-VQ-feGgjL1d18zXNJ7dJ4XCHO-kv2jkm0MNDnKX8yMHEPAp3Am0I5qef9EfoowOWKB-VuqT8Z8BgoVR8GUG0iU-qSsq2blFfDHufPg3DanXuySfS4XEyz4NqtRFOdMbUMF1zk4U
You can confidently manage dementia behaviors so that your life and the life of your loved one with dementia become easier and calmer. Check out different ways to learn how to handle many common (and not so common) dementia behaviors: https://dementiacentricsolutions.com
Have a dementia question? Want to hear it answered on a future podcast? Email me: info@makedementiayourbitch.com.
Are you a visual learning? Check out my YouTube channel, where I demonstrate strategies like bridging and chaining
Looking for a community? I have my own Facebook page for dementia caregivers: Make Dementia Your B!
Episode 31: Removing Dementia Stigma & Stereotypes--Interview with Donna Marentay
The current thinking about dementia care needs to change. In today's podcast, I interview Donna Marentay. , fellow nurse and dementia educator. We discuss OUR VIEW of some hot potato topics: how a dementia diagnosis should NOT be a "no-knock warrant" into people's lives; the need for "free range" caregiving versus helicopter caregiving; and the ongoing need to update current educational content to reflect new knowledge about the relationship between neurodegeneration and behaviors.
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You can confidently manage dementia behaviors so that your life and the life of your loved one with dementia become easier and calmer. Check out different ways to learn how to handle many common (and not so common) dementia behaviors: https://dementiacentricsolutions.com
Frustrated with care refusals? Go to https://makedmentiayourbitch.com for a free copy of my checklist, “15 Ways to Manage Dementia Care Refusals.”
Have a dementia question? Want to hear it answered on a future podcast? Email me: info@makedementiayourbitch.com.
Are you a visual learning? Check out my YouTube channel, where I demonstrate strategies like bridging and chaining
Looking for a community? I have my own Facebook page for dementia caregivers: Make Dementia Your B!
Episode 30: Shadowing, featuring Nurse Practitioner Lindsey Robbins
Shadowing is a very challenging behavior faced by dementia caregivers. The person living with dementia has to be physically near the caregiver. Caregivers will tell you that they cannot even go to the bathroom without their loved one banging on the door or pacing right outside. Certified registered nurse practitioner Lindsey A. Robbins explains the behavior and how caregivers can best manage it. Ms. Robbins has worked with people living with dementia in long-term care and in home-health. She currently works in a neurology clinic that specializes in dementia care.
My book, "Make Dementia Your B*tch! An Easy Guide to Understanding Dementia-related Behaviors" is now available on Amazon! Order it here.
Loved the podcast? Want to stay in the loop and snag information about free stuff and other offers in my podcast? Subscribe here: https://7ba411eb.sibforms.com/serve/MUIEAGRihMp3YCvMGUbK7usRQOWj7sPJgtULa2BGKd-Bz1zXOobcRoK_BmpIZ7tO_89zC37s-VQ-feGgjL1d18zXNJ7dJ4XCHO-kv2jkm0MNDnKX8yMHEPAp3Am0I5qef9EfoowOWKB-VuqT8Z8BgoVR8GUG0iU-qSsq2blFfDHufPg3DanXuySfS4XEyz4NqtRFOdMbUMF1zk4U
You can confidently manage dementia behaviors so that your life and the life of your loved one with dementia become easier and calmer. Check out different ways to learn how to handle many common (and not so common) dementia behaviors: https://dementiacentricsolutions.com
Frustrated with care refusals? Go to https://makedmentiayourbitch.com for a free copy of my checklist, “15 Ways to Manage Dementia Care Refusals.”
Have a dementia question? Want to hear it answered on a future podcast? Email me: info@makedementiayourbitch.com.
Are you a visual learning? Check out my YouTube channel, where I demonstrate strategies like bridging and chaining
Looking for a community? I have my own Facebook page for dementia caregivers: Make Dementia Your B!
#alzheimers #lewy body #frontotemporal #dementia #caregiving #care refusal #caregiving #dementiabitch #shadowing