
The Be Ruthless Show
By Samantha Ruth
I’m so passionate about making more NOISE about this—regularly, because I believe it’s the only way that we can begin to break the stigmas—by having the conversations!
The Be Ruthless Show is a place where we’ll be having the conversations other people don’t. The conversations other people won’t.
In order to do that, I’m going BIG and BOLD. I’m anxious, I’m proud, and I’ll shout it for the world to hear. The shame game has got to stop, and it starts with US not being ashamed of OURSELVES!
Look out, world. I’m ready to make a lot of NOISE and DISRUPT things.... Ruthlessly

The Be Ruthless ShowJul 20, 2022

Dogs and Men with Michael Overlie
Today's guest on The Be Ruthless Show is also part of the upcoming Healing Together Through the Holidays Summit - live in Fort Collins, Colorado. Virtual everywhere on zoom!
Michael is a Canine-Partnered Men's Guide, Retreat Leader, Energy Healer and Autor. The death of his brother tore him open and a very special dog helped guide him to another way of being. That grief became a gift as he was able to see how he was being in the world and decided to change. He discovered how dogs are here to help us heal deep trauma and now shows other men how to heal their own lives.
Come see Michael December 4th!
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Griefhab Goes International
PHEW. I made it.
That’s how it feels surviving Thanksgiving without Jim. SO many people are struggling.
So many don’t speak up.
That’s why I do everything I’m doing. One of my clients told me that she listened to one of my podcast’s and was blown away by my passion.
It’s real. It’s a fire raging inside of me. It’s also not about me.
On today’s episode of The Be Ruthless Show, I discuss what it IS about. WHY it matters. Why OVER FIFTY people are joining me to help let the world know that National Grief Awareness Week exists.
Only Griefhab is going International - with speakers from Canada! That’s how big this is.
Healing Together Through the Holidays officially begins in 6 days! But the pre event has already started. Register now and you’ll have access to the library with everything you’ve missed -
But consider being a part of this movement. Help this 50 become 500. And then 5000. Because it’s not about me. It’s about these awareness days. Get your calendar AND your ticket, and be part of the change!
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Surviving Suicide Loss with Catie Hill
The holidays are here, and they’re not fun for everyone. Today’s guest on The Be Ruthless Show tells it like it is!
Catie Hill is an Intuitive Life Coach, Grief Mentor and longstanding member of the Grief Club. As a coach and mentor she provides support, strategies, understanding and compassion for individuals who have experienced devastating loss. Helping them to move through the process of reinventing their life and identity. By investigating the way behaviors and limiting beliefs impact their day-to-day lives, Catie helps them build strategies to shift these patterns. Whether they are new to the grief club or longstanding members, the results can be transformative. Leading to greater acceptance, healing, empowerment and growth.
The grief journey Catie has traveled since the devastating loss of her significant other to suicide in 2010 has culminated in a passion and gift for supporting others as they too navigate the long and arduous path that is grief, with the mission of providing the kind of highly personalized and compassionate support she wishes she had had during her most vulnerable times.
Today we have a real and raw conversation about grief, the holidays, healing, and living in this world that avoids all of these conversations.
You can hear more of Catie’s story during Healing Together Through the Holidays! She’s speaking on December 4th but will be in the audience other days - so come join us LIVE in Fort Collins.
Ticket Prices Have ALL Been Made Donation Based - contribute what you choose for your Live or Virtual Tickets! We don’t want price to keep anyone away. This is about providing everyone with all of the support , resources, and connections you need this holiday season - and beyond!
Register here - pre event bonuses begin being sent out ON Thanksgiving!
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Connect with Catie at:
@whitelightlifecoach
(same for Facebook and instagram)
Email: guidance.whitelight@gmail.com
\Website:
www.withwhitelightguidance.com
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A Little Bit Of My Why
It’s already Thanksgiving Week. I don’t know how that happened -The holidays are here. This used to be my favorite…. It still is. I’m still learning.
We lost my aunt today. So many people I know are experiencing losses. I, for one, don’t pretend I’m ok when I’m not. But so many others do….Why can’t we not be ok?
On today’s episode of The Be Ruthless Show, I get into all of the feeling stuff. And why it matters.
I discuss A Little Bit Of My Why.
I discuss communication.
And Healing Together Through the Holidays. All of the resources. Bonuses. Beginning ON THANKSGIVING!! But you have to register!
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Turning Misery into Motivation
“I moved out and started my own business when I was eighteen” was all I heard back in March when I knew I needed to connect with Madi Balman.
Creative director, wife and mom to be any minute! Literally! She makes it all look easy, but it hasn’t ever been easy.
On todays episode of The Be Ruthless Show, Madi Balman shares her story, and her overall outlook, from misery to motivation!
Connect with Madi at:
https://www.instagram.com/by.madi.mae/
Reach out anytime!
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Everything You Need to Know About Healing Together Through the Holidays
I had an experience today and I’ll have the bruises to show for it. I’m fine. Sassy and Dallas protected me.
But it just reminded me - again! - how much more support the “visible injuries” get. Our invisible emotional injuries get ignored.
Avoided?
No one knows there is a National Grief Awareness Week. But they will after this year. Griefhab presents the first annual Healing Together Through the Holidays.
It’s a 7 day event, live in Colorado, streaming virtually everywhere - with at least 5 speakers/panels a day. Providing you with every resource, support, connection, healing modality you need this holiday season.
On today’s episode of The Be Ruthless Show, I share alllll the details. Including my ‘stumble’ earlier today. You’ll find out about the pre event. You’ll find out about how to get access.
You’ll find out about the 13 month Griefhab 2024 Awareness Calendar. With ALL the awareness dates.
It’s a must listen to episode. It’s also a must share - please. This is more than an event. It’s. My. Movement! Please help me get somewhere in this world that avoids discussing grief!
Be Part of the Change!
Interested in joining the movement?Contact sam@samantharuth.com
Reach out anytime!
But a Calendar & get a Live or Virtual Event Ticket:
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Buy one get one FREE Live Event ticket plus 2 Calendars:
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Interested in discounted orders for 5, 10, or more?Contact sam@samantharuth.com
Stay up to date on all event info / join the event page:
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If you’re not part of the Griefhab Community, join us here:
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Be Part of The Change
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Some of you might be thinking, Shut Up Already, Sam!
Get ready - because I’m honestly just getting started. And people are joining me - so I’m about to get louder!
It’s not about me. It’s about the invisible populations. The people who are too afraid to speak up. Or too broken at this moment. Or they’ve been beaten down by people who just don’t get it. Yet.
You will. One day.
Grief is the ONE thing we’ll absolutely all experience. But the world avoids and ignores. So I got tired…. I got beyond sick and tired of waiting for the world to do what needs to be done.
On today’s episode of The Be Ruthless Show, I’m resharing my 50th birthday announcement from yesterday.
Because it matters. Because you can Be Part of the Change. Because now more than ever Griefhab needs your support.
Announcing the 1st ever 13 Month Griefhab 2024 Awareness Calendar. With artwork designed by kids impacted by loss.
Every person on this planet needs this calendar. Because, yes, it has all of the holidays. But it also has every awareness day you need to know. Every awareness day this world needs to be acknowledged.
Every order comes with a ticket to Healing Together Through the Holidays. Reach out for bulk orders. Share with everyone. Get your holiday gifts. Be Part of the Change!
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I Wish I was Wrong
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I’ve been in Colorado for practically ten years. I need to just accept the fact that mental healthcare here sucks. Period.
It’s below below average. Wayyyyy below average.
I’m not joking or trying to be funny.
It’s lacking and in need of improvement everywhere… but it’s beyond bad here.
On today’s episode of The Be Ruthless Show, I discuss the many, many recent examples proving again why I just wasn’t wrong. Colorado Mental Healthcare is a MESS.
It’s all the more reason you need to attend Healing Together Through the Holidays if you live here!
Get your ticket here: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/healing-together-through-the-holidays-hybrid-conference-tickets-747362550507
And tune in tomorrow for an extra special and extremely important LIVE birthday announcement. Noon MST (11am PST / 2pm EST) on all social channels and YouTube
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eScn2vOpHLc
You don’t want to miss this!

Sweating the Small Stuff
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Today is International Stress Awareness Day. Tomorrow is National Stress Awareness Day. During International Stress Awareness Week. Happy November.
Does anyone want to to discuss preventing stress? Or stress relief? How about identifying things that are stressful or triggering?
On today’s episode of The Be Ruthless Show, I discuss these things. More of the things that we don’t learn in books or in school - but absolutely things we need to be learning about as early as possible.

"The End of Longing" Honoring the Life of MATTHEW LANGFORD PERRY August 19, 1969 - October 28, 2023
FRIENDS is absolutely my favorite TV show. Check my website
But that’s not at all important.
Because Chandler Bing is a character.
And Matthew Perry has done SO much more than act. To quote him, in his book Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Things:
“When I die, I know people will talk about Friends, Friends, Friends. And I'm glad of that, happy l've done some solid work as an actor, as well as given people multiple chances to make fun of my struggles on the world wide web... but when I die, as far as my so-called accomplishments go, it would be nice if Friends were listed far behind the things I did to try to help other people.I know it won't happen, but it would be nice."
- Matthew Langford Perry
(August 19, 1969 - October 28, 2023)
On today’s episode of The Be Ruthless Show, I discuss those important things he did to help other people.
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