
The State of Potentiality Podcast
By Rebecca Reimer and Sarah Evangeline
It is what it is - what will you do with it?

The State of Potentiality Podcast May 03, 2021

Tyler Towsley - The Parent Wound
Growing up in the home of functional addicts, Tyler Towsley shares his own journey of the downward spiral as an addict, to building the family he never had.

Finding your purpose after disappointment- Derek Whitson
His hard work paid off when he made the national sledge hockey team and participated in the Olympics, not once, but twice!
When an injury ended his career earlier than he had planned - Derek was left to figure out what was next - before he turned 30.
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I Can, Can You? with Wes Harding
If you say you can, you’re right. If you say you can’t, you’re right. Teacher, author, marathon runner, and Team Hoyt Canada founder Wes Harding went from self-proclaimed couch potato… to highly-inspiring triathlete and ironman. If he can do it, so can you. Anything is possible. A close-to-home story of wanting to give up, sweat-drenched determination, and pure human grit.
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The First Flaw with Catherine Pilgrim
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Supporting Your Younger Self with Emerson Edwards
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Past Suffering vs. Future Growth with Peter Palcu
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Working Through Trauma with Ken Dryfhout
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The Unseen Depression with Elliot Kay

Powering Through with Michelle Irvine
“I know what I need to be happy, and boobs are not one of those things.” It may be silly, but it’s also the truth for cancer survivor Michelle Irvine. After finding a lump in her late teens and being told it wasn’t a big deal, Michelle figured she had nothing to fear. Fast forward over a decade later, and suddenly she’s going from biopsy to chemo in less than a month. How do you even begin to cope? Wisdom, comfort, and encouragement are on the menu for this week’s podcast.
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Manifesting Your Dreams with Faisal Lateef
From struggling with anxiety while surrounded by people who did not understand halfway across the world… to achieving goals, discovering his self, and finding his community here in Canada. Faisal Lateef is a big believer in the manifestation of dreams, and taking life into your own hands. Positive thinking, emotional intelligence, and choosing to see failures as opportunities are the tools in his toolbox- listen in to learn how you can add them to yours.
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Why We Took A Break
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When Your Hard Work Isn’t Enough with Levi Tetrault
Tetrault has played for the Chatham-Kent Cyclones, Chatham Maroons, Guelph Storm,
Brantford 99ers, and Leamington Flyers. But who he really wanted to play for was just a
little out of his league. Reaching for the NHL and falling short, his story is one of doing
your best, giving your all, and striving to be better despite life’s holdups and hurdles. Find Levi here: youtube.com/channel/UCmx4pGSFchwe21hryYRhFjw
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Respond vs. React with Michael Crawley
No one can make you feel anything. Right? Let’s try again- no one can make you feel anything- only you can make you feel. Clear as mud? Michael Crawley has been in direct sales for over three decades, and success in such a touch and go business can only be chalked up to one thing- mindset. Join in on this casual chat to learn about the power of pause, creating boundaries with yourself, and how to not take everything personally.
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Taking a Break

Work Ethic vs. Education with Mitch White
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Widowed At 30 with Eva Sawatzky
your young, vibrant, stubborn mule of a husband has Stage 4 cancer. At the young age
of 30, Eva Sawatzky was now a single parent to two young children, and the sole owner
of a farm in Mexico, far from her family in Canada. Lonely, but far from alone, Eva
shares how she waded through her grief… and came out the other side.

Giving Up Vs. Moving On with Sven Erlandson
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Granola Free Yoga - Monika Benovich
It isn’t just a workout. And it sure isn’t just so that you can learn to touch your toes. Yoga is for EVERYONE! If she could only shout one message from the mountaintop, Monika Benkovich would shout this (in mountain pose, of course). The style of yoga that she preaches at Church 444 is one of meeting people where they are, and helping them connect through creativity, movement, and mindfulness techniques. So unroll your mat, and take a deep breath with this week’s episode.
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What Makes Your Heart Sing? with Jose Ucar
When was the last time you listened to yourself? Connected with your core self? Noticed patterns in your behavior… and did something about it? Communication and Public Speaking Coach Jose Ucar loves connecting with people. Better yet, he loves connecting people… with the best versions of themselves. He believes that every struggle is an opportunity to learn, be vulnerable, and shift your mindset. So what will it take for you to shift yours?
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Exploring The World’s Distorted View of Beauty with Katie Pezzutto
Do everything well. Your only option is excellence. Stomachs are meant to be flat. Perfection is the target.
Perfection... is a completely unreachable goal. How did it come to this?
Through her struggles with eating disorders and body dysmorphia, young author Katie Pezzutto transforms her self-image battles into supernatural fantasy page-turners in hopes of reaching out to others who are wrestling with society’s warped view of worth.
So step off the scale, and step into self awareness with this week’s episode.
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How Do You Define Success? With Ben Dua
“You have to find what your passion is, and what your happiness stems from, and then you go for it!” A sweet statement. But if you’re Doctor Ben Dua, you go for it again and again... and again... and one more time AGAIN. This now-successful physician applied for medical school not once, not twice, but four times. Do you have that kind of perseverance? Learn along the way, wear failures as badges of honor, and find happiness in the hurdles with this week’s episode.
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What You Do vs. Who You Are with Elisabeth Enzlin
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What’s your excuse? With Joe Perry
“If you want to test yourself, there’s an opportunity to do it.” Having completed 138 events over the past nine years, Joe Perry is the mud-spattered, face-painted Little Engine That Could of the world of Tough Mudders. Forget “I think I can”- this man’s motto is “I KNOW I can.” No clocks. No pressure. Just the simple thrill of discovering what exactly you’re capable of with a little help from your fellow mudders. So is it an obstacle? Or an opportunity?
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Honoring Your Sexuality with Jessica Mowforth
Trigger Warning - Sexual Abuse . . .
“There’s no such thing as female sex drive.”
“A woman’s sexuality is owned by her future spouse.”
“Self-pleasure is not to be discussed.”
Holistic intimacy and femininity coach Jessica Mowforth is self-described as curious over questioning, and is ready to turn these damaging statements inside out and top over bottom. Listen in as she tears apart the damaging effects of purity culture, explores the sacredness and potency of sexuality, and reveals how honouring your body and all it has to offer is the ultimate, absolute truest expression of self love.
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We all have a responsibility to stand up for what we believe in - Douha Alwahidi
Douha reminds us we all have a responsibility to stand up for what we believe in - and firstly, to know what we believe in.

What We've Learned so Far - Season 1 Wrap Up
Join Rebecca, Sarah and for the first time, producer Brad Reid as they discuss where the idea of the podcast came from and what they've learned so far.
From Rebecca realizing ten minutes in she wasn't a producer to Sarah finding her creativity in connecting with people again, you're sure to learn a thing or two about your hosts.
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I found the motivation to keep going - with Temple Swift
In today's interview we chat with a woman who built her first business before her tenth birthday. But her life came to a screaming halt when the mompreneur was diagnosed with cancer.
Tune in to hear Temple remind Sarah that we get to decide to never give up. Discover how she overcame obstacles in her businesses and ultimately, beat cancer.
Her story reminds us that failure doesn’t have to stop you - only you can do that.
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Do you actually believe what you say you believe? Caleb Peters
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Depressed and Unhealthy to Mental Health Advocate and Personal Trainer
A fly on the wall feel, join Rebecca and Jamie as they discuss the ins and outs of mental health. Working out, setting boundaries, being vulnerable and more.
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Anna-Marie Sarah - Creativity is linked to Mental Health
Join Sarah and Anna-Marie as they talk about creativity and how it can be healing for those who struggle with mental health.
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Sarah Evangeline - “I gave myself permission to feel."
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Processing Emotions Journal Prompts
Feeling Words
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Greg Hetherington - Persistence Got Me Here
Originally from the small farming town of Thamesville, Greg has worked in local radio for more than 30 years. After a substantial career on the airwaves, Greg was given the opportunity to branch out and open up a new station in Wallaceburg, taking to the air in October of 2009. Greg is married to Kelly,who loves radio, loves meeting people, and is the backbone of this radio venture. Climb out of bed with the help of Greg Hetherington, up first at 5 AM. It’s a timeless, local tradition.
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Your Blue Flame
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Technology - How I Took Back Control

James Mac Neil "I'm Recovered"
TW: substance abuse, sexual abuse, childhood trauma
Born to teenage parents in 1968, James survived family turmoil, various levels of abuse and later the consequences of his own self inflicted chaos. As a result of a significant spiritual awakening in his mid twenties James embarked on a journey to find his place and role in a hurting world- today he and his wife Lee-Ann own and operate a groundbreaking death care service catering to every walk of life.
Resources
Canadian Addiction Services
Canadian Family Violence Services.
Recommended Reading
Switch on Your Brain - Dr Caroline Leaf
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State of Potentiality Trailer
At any moment your life could change drastically - a job loss, an unexpected pregnancy, the loss of a loved one - these things are not in your control.
What is in your control, is how you let those experiences change you.
The State of Potentiality Podcast explores what happens when we have to pivot.
Grab a drink, pull up a chair and listen in as Sarah, a 2x college dropout, now a Counsellor and Life Coach,
and Rebecca, a former Magazine Publisher who lost her business to postpartum depression, as we interview people who face adversity and continue to thrive.
It is what is - what will you do with it?