Sucias are my Favorite
By Gallo Chingon
First, CONSENT – Believe it or not, K!nk (should not) happen without it.
TRUST – you have to trust each other.
SAFETY – you have to trust that your partner will be safe.
These three together are the foundation of K!nk and with it one can safely explore their own boundaries with someone else.
Sucias are my FavoriteJul 22, 2021
My Near Death Experience
https://sucias.xyz This episode was inspired by being on an episode of the Christian Reeve Podcast. There we covered a lot of topics including the time I nearly died. So check that episode out https://youtu.be/iJxSZdcxCtY for a broader view of what had happened. in this episode I give a little background and my experience while I was out For more great advice on dealing with life, having a healthy relationship, better seggs life, more success in dating or just life advice in general, checkout Sucias are my Favorite podcast, available on all major platforms https://anchor.fm/sucias
Navigating the Dating Scene IRL
This episode covers how to navigate the dating scene in person and how to manage expectations.
for comments, complaints, questions or even ideas for future episodes you can find me and message me here
mental health and sexual well being
This episode I chat about the six mistakes most make when trying non-traditional relationships
This episode is another short and sweet conversation. This time about conflict resolution and how it can help you in your current, or future relationships. Both in dating and the world at large.
As always, if you want to AT me, or have a question or episode idea, you can call, text, email or message me on socials all my links are here
On this episode of Sucias are my Favorite, we have Felicity Azura, a professional cuddler and sex worker. She writes frequently about her occupations on medium and substack. She is kinky in both her work life and personal life. We get DEEP into the weeds of the cuddle industry. To learn more about my guest, you can find Felicity's substack writing and more at the links below
and as always, if you want to AT me, or have a question or episode idea, you can call, text, email or message me on socials all my links are here
funny coincidence this is episode 6 of season 3 which, released on March 6th.
Don't Use Sex to Strengthen a Relationship
Sex can be an important part of a relationship, but it's NOT a replacement for a deeper connection. In this episode, I talk about the role of sex in a relationship and not only why you shouldn't use sex to strengthen a relationship. But how to create a deeper and meaningful connection with your partner.
As always, you can @ me on TikTok, reddit, IG, email or text just follow the link to the landing page
Taking a Break from Dating
It's natural to want to find a partner and be in a relationship, but sometimes it's necessary to take a break form dating.
Gaining clarity about oneself can help you figure out WHO you ARE and help you figure out what you need in a partner. Join me in this episode to learn some more on how to get through this and as always, you can @ me on TikTok, reddit, IG, email or text just follow the link to the landing page
First Date Red Flags
A bad first date can be a major disappointment and can lead to a LOT of wasted time AND energy.
This episode covers some common Red Flags to look out for and what you can do to save some time and your sanity
as always, you can @ me on TikTok, reddit, IG, email or text just follow the link to the landing page
Dealing with Rejection
This week I talk about rejection and how to deal with it. This is a far more common problem for males, but here in the past few years women have begun to "shoot their shot" sometimes with disastrous results. And while being angry, sad or feeling hurt is completely natural, how those feelings manifest themselves are often "not cool"
So this episode talks about how to deal with those feelings, move on and have a better chance next time you shot your shot.
As always, you can @ me on TikTok, reddit, IG, email or text just follow the link to the landing page
Hamilton Steele interview
Christmas is the Worst
four reason why Christmas is the Worst possible time, of the year
The One That Got Away
This episode is listener suggestion! and here's my opinion on the topic, you're more than welcome to find me through sucias.xyz and message my that way for tips, ideas suggestions and yes, even complaints
THANATOS Interview with Domme Cacia
a quick oral history on BDsM in the US
this episode is about what my mentor's mentor shared with him in the 70s particularly Discipline/Sadism/Masochism parts of BDSM.
Interview with executive co-producer Leigh Anne
Today we talk a little about kink and how they relate to the real world with executive co-producer Leigh Anne. We also hear a little more on the backstory to the creation of this webseries.
Interview with THANATOS creator Andrew C. Fisher
I hart tards
This one might get me cancelled, or lose all you guys. But if you're in this deep, just listen to the whole episode, less than ten mins of your time (less than five if you listen at 2x) and you'll be surprised at the point I'm trying to make.
otherwise you can at me, my phone number and email can be found here
Dating with Therapist Nadia
S L A X wtf is it and how do I use it?
words cuz most of you don't read this. if you do and you wanna @ me, find me at sucias.xyz
how to break up the right way
blah blah words. im bored, are you even reading this?
a conversation between two addicts
This episode I'm joined by Joshua Shea, a porn addict recovery and betrayal trauma coach. He's also an author and public speaker. If you have a porn addiction, or you've been hurt by a partner who is, you can find him at paddictrecovery.com
Where do I find one?
The age old question of finding a submissive. Or at least an often heard question among people I'm acquainted with. Find out how to find one and become a better person along the way
Filter out the Fuckbois
Here I give some advice on what to ask a date to find out if they're a fuccboi or if they're looking for a relationship. All it takes is two simple questions, and some followup ones, more for clarification. To make sure they're a guy that's looking for something serious
date your crush now
I'm going to explain how to date your crush now. Whether you're a guy or gal, I'll help you at least get their attention. But it comes with some harsh truths.
Nice Guys Finish Last
Why do nice guys finish last? what's the difference between a nice guy and a gentleman? Aren't they one in the same? Get the answers to this and more in this episode of your new favorite podcast.
End a Date the Right Way
This episode covers the tragedy that happens every day hundreds of times over, and seeing the results of it on Reddit and hearing about it in my social circles. Both online and "In Real Life"
That issue is not knowing if a date went as well as you thought and whether your date is into you. I share my example of how I end a date and let them know that I like them. Find out what I say and the small group of females that always get a second date and also know that their dates are into them.
After being called out I'm finally following up with one of the intended purposes of this podcast. To educate about keenk in ADDITION to relationships, dating and sex. I share the ten most common keenks I've seen in the last 20 years in North American Metropolitan areas.
What the Cuck?
I'm joined in this episode by Trooth, from Trooth be Told podcast. He is boldly breaking down barriers and sharing a kink of his and goes on to explain what it is and how he discovered it. We also dive into perceptions about machismo, masculinity and western culture and how we deal with sex and sex education as a society. All this and more in this episode
Simpin Ain't Easy
RollerCon 22 with Moonie
This is the only other video to survive RollerCon, just don't ask what happened with the other SD cards. 😒
Moonshine Annie from Central Coast Roller Derby, talks about dating and breaking dicks. Listen in to find out what one should do when a dick gets broken. It just might get you back "IN" sooner. All this and more in today's episode
RollerCon 22 with Backlash
Today I caught up with a skater friend from San Antonio, The one and ONLY Backlash. She's a skater friend for the past 5 ish years now, man how time flies. Anywho, I ran into her during registration at RollerCon and a few other times in passing. It was nearly the end of RC (RollerCon) before I was able to get her on camera for a few minutes between bouts she was playing and I was annoucing/DJing. So listen in to a convo with Backlash a Skater from Alamo City Roller Girls and we chat about dating and what she and most women look for in a guy.
Viva Las Vegas
I don't think I've introduced the co-worker, Jesus, not his real name… or is it? tune into this episode to find out more about Jesus and his girlfriend.
I know you've heard the most common one, if you've been listening for a while. But, there are a few others I have yet to mention, as I was only recently reminded of them. These nuggets are solid gold and I hope they help you out in your life.
Today's guest is Boogie, one half of Blokk Talk podcast duo, and he's gonna share how he learned to be better at getting with women. Listen in as there is an uncanny resemblance to our personal histories.
This is NOT a movie review. Ok it TECHNICALLY is, but it's a more detailed synopsis about the wishes in the movie Bedazzled (2000). And of course how it relates to dating, specifically what a man should strive for instead of longing for a woman he's only spoken with once.
The Ted Talk
No, you didn't miss me on a Ted Talk.
But, if I were invited, this episode would be my talk
The data that I refer to comes from a national study by NCBI - national Center for Biotechnology Info, under US National Library of Information, under US Dept Health & Human Servs
Is it Better to be Gay?
This is more of a flow of thought as I piece together what I was trying to communicate. Originally, I was going to go for something inflammatory. But I realized, thanks to another podcaster, that it is better to stand by my content, and it's quality, than to try and be clickbaity.
Why are we here? No, this isn't a philosophical episode. But it is another personal one, in part, realizing that I've been in Reno longer than I was in San Antonio. Also, I'm going to introduce a cast of characters that I'll likely be talking more about in future episodes
the results are in
Jared is back, this time we talk about his journey in the dating world. His previous luck, or lack thereof and how a little push from your friendly neighborhood Sucio Supreme helped him step up his game, get a girlfriend and by the sound of it, keep her longer than he has in the past.
The Problem with Confidence
Confidence, what does it mean? If I told you, all you need is confidence to succeed what would you need to do to GET confidence? Well this episode I explore what I really mean with the C word, and a better turn of phrase to have more success in talking to slash approaching women.
Man's Man, Being an Individual
Man's Man Listening
Man's Man Leadership
my sex coach
Evil Mark's Life Advice
What is Love?
This episode I delve into the word love, it's various meanings and my takeaway. Plus a call back to episode 50, after all, this is episode 100 if you've been keeping track
Man's Man Skills
Today's conversation is about skills and my view as to how it applies to being a better male in today's climate. It's part 4 of the Askmen.com article How to Be a Man's Man in a Culture That Hates Masculinity. Although this week's paragraph misses the mark, in my opinion.