On The Fix Podcast

There’s a few misconceptions about what value is and how it works, believing and operating based on these misconceptions can leave us in an everlasting state of want and disappointment. Let’s take a look at 2 concepts of value everyone should know

Traveling is an experience that should become a requirement for life. Everyone should travel, and here’s why in 5 reasons

What is your word worth? Are you a Credible person, do people take you seriously or like a joke, do you deliver when you say you’ll deliver, are you there when and how you say you’ll be? Or do you just say things and often fail to do them. Check yourself, and learn how and why to be credible in this episode

Are you looking for more sources of motivation? Here’s a few

They say “only women and kids are loved unconditionally, men are only loved on conditions of provision” Is this true? Can anyone asides God truly love UNCONDITIONALLY? And who can be loved unconditionally.

Is it right to teach your children about sex early and how early?

Blame yourself first? Sounds wrong right? Let’s explore the concept a little bit and see how it works on the psyche, our lives, selves, and the power shift that comes with it

Social media is a two-edged sword. It can be to your benefit or your destruction. What is it to you and how do you make it a benefit to you? It all depends on you. I’ll be reviewing Clubhouse App in this episode as we talk about SM

Learn to be easy and forgiving on yourself. Everyone makes mistakes. Learn how to let go of your inadequacies and not be so hard on yourself.

Everyone needs a source or means of releasing the pent up tension from feeling, pain, hurt etc in their hearts, it’s important to do this, pent up, built up pain does not good. Find your release to help make life better

How true is the saying “your comfort zone is limiting” I talk about that her, breaking down some benefits of leaving your comfort zone, no matter how scary and unreasonable of a thing it may seem

Having good intentions towards a person isn’t all that matters, it’s not the only part of the question to bother about. Sometimes out good intentions come across the wrong way, and it’s as good as a bad Intention to the receiver, here I talk about the things to also consider after having a good intention towards someone.

So much talk about positive thinking has made so many people think positive thinking is magic, doesn’t involve work, or they are just plain confused about how it works. The Positive thinking cycle is explained in this episode. Understand how it works and wield it better

There’s the conversation of how long to take before saying yes to someone who asks you to be their girlfriend or boyfriend. 1 week, 3 days, 3 months? A guy once told me he would only give a girl 3 days. Lol. Let’s talk about this.

Are you struggling with low self confidence? There are many ways to feel and be more confident of yourself, these are just a few ways.

Do you tend to have bad dates, or you just want to make sure your next date is successful? It doesn’t have to be a romantic date, or doesn’t have to end in love or a relationship. Listen to this episode with me and learn how to have better and more successful dates

So many couples are facing problems because they would prefer their spouse to be a different kind of person in one way or the other. Should you be trying to change your partner and how? Listen to this episode to find out

People always say NEVER GIVE UP! But when you feel like you have no extra energy left to keep going, you wonder HOW? This podcast tells you how to never give up in a few steps

Here are a few realities of life that you should know to help you live better and to make the living experience better for others too

Informally acquired intelligence and intellect is gold in the game of real life, do you want to know how to boost your intelligence, then listen to this

People aren’t the same, neither are they always what they seem like. Stereotyping is kind of normal, but acting on those stereotypes without confirming if they are right can be dangerous. Learn to keep an open mind and confirm that a person or situation is exactly what they seem like before you address or take action with them based on your stereotyping

It’s so easy for people to throw around the work “love” “like” “want”, but then you ask them “Why” and the space out. The Why of anything is very important, it informs the direction and all else of any relationship. Learn to ask the Why. In this episode we talk about asking Why when people say they love you, find out the reason why you are appealing to them and why they want you in their lives

Words can make or break you, heal or make you worse. How do we use our words? This podcast talks about understanding the power of words, it’s effects, and how to use it: Watch the corresponding video on YouTube (Search for Fon Peter)

You’ll find beauty in anything, if you’re looking for it and looking out for it

Going through life with people who are within your compatibility zone, who understand you and/or simply lift your energy and identity can make the whole difference in the quality of life you live. These people are called your tribe, here’s reasons why you should find them and keep them.

Remind yourself that others are going through pain as well, this is not to invalidate yours, but to give you strength in the knowledge that you can overcome your own as well. This is one of my YouTube episodes. You can check my out on YouTube at Fon Peter

How do you show love and appreciation to the people who you care about and who have been there for you? Is that something you struggle with? Maybe you feel it but don’t know how to show it. Here’s some help……..Watch the corresponding video on YouTube at www.YouTube.com/thefonpeter

What’s your biggest mistake, and what did you learn from it. Listen to mine here and take what you can. This video is available on YouTube at the link https://youtu.be/x5Z6i15S1hU

Are you asking yourself or wondering What can I do to have better, more substantial, fulfilling, and happier relationships? Listen to this

When we say a person changes us, or a person helped us grow, aren’t they really the same thing from different perspectives?

Maturity is not about age. It comes with responsibility, taking responsibility for your life and self and others.

Positive thinking is key. But how does it really work? How does it get us to the point if manifestations? It’s not magic after all, so how does it work? Come find out on this episode

Why is there so much homophobia, so much crime and hate on gay men and women. Can we learn to love them regardless of mot being comfortable with or accepting their orientation?

Learn to conduct intentional progress reports of yourself and all that concerns you

Does comparison always have to be seen in a negative way? Can comparison be beneficial? Isn’t that what “Healthy Comparison” is all about?

How do people get to the point of deciding that the best option for them is ending it all, committing suicide?. How can we understand the thought and feelings behind it to enable us help better?.

Everything in life truly has to begin with and from you. This is a practice that brings balance within self and others, it grows love for self and others. Let’s talk about this and draw the line between selfishness, self centeredness, and self priority.

Sometimes letting go can feel like the hardest thing. You wonder how to become strangers again with a person who once knew you inside out, how to keep a safe distance, how to save yourself and move on, just like my friend asked. Oh, and Happy New Year, 🎊🎆 2021

Do we have to endure every unpleasant episode in our lives? Just as you pick the battles you fight, it’s important to pick the pains you endure. Somethings aren’t meant to be endured

We hear that phrase all the time and from everyone, but it can be the hardest to actualize that, activate that self regulated happiness and see the reality of that in your life. On this episode you’ll find out how

This is a knowledge we know but we manifest and believe in a verypassive way. Don’t think the richest people or the people that seem the happiest and/or the happiest, don’t have their own share of troubles.

Have you ever been told or made to feel like you have and set standards that are too high? That’s a lie. This episode helps you understand how to navigate your high standards and live with them.

Can we really be equal to one another? Can Equality exist? Is it even something we really want or can have? Where does Diversity and Equity, strengths and weaknesses come into play?

Is it “Body Shaming” to call someone “Fat”. What is Body Shaming? Where do we draw the line between merely stating fact and body shaming?

Is there a difference between being masculine and being a man? Where on this spectrum does toxic masculinity come in? Are feminine men not men? On this episode I talk about the difference between masculine and being a man.

Can we and Do we really forgive and forget the wrongs and offended of others? Should we even actually forget.

Striving for Perfection: Should we really not strive for perfection? Where do we fall when we strive for perfection and where do we fall when we don’t. Choose your mediocrity

Nigeria: A change is nigh. We are fighting for our lives, and our rights. It is time for and and upturn of the system, demands for better that we deserve. It goes down to the roots, it is time for a re-education, re-orientation, reforms and we begin this with #ENDSARS #ENDSWAT #ENDPOLICEBRUTALITY #ENDBADGOVERNANCEINNIGERIA. Citizens of other countries, international bodies etc, please help us. Help us save our lives and our rights

Credibility is a trait that will gain you a lot of respect, unfortunately a good number of us don’t put enough attention and effort to developing that trait. Let’s talk about how to develop that.

Sometimes the desire/emotion for sometime or someone can blindside is to the fact that it or he/she isn’t right for us. Desire is just one part of the questions. In this episode I hand out some pointers on how and when to know you should go for something, outside of simple desire for it or that person.

On this episode, I talk what social media is to you and i and what it can be. It can make or marr you, What will it be?

Welcome Back to another season of the Fix Podcast. I’m excited. We will be having more real and educative conversations together, and please don’t hesitate to reach me at fonpetermail@gmail.com for topic requests, contributions, and anything else

Hi guys, so today ends Season 1 Series. I hope you had an educative time listening to my podcast, please drop a rating or review. You can also send comments and requests alongside anything else to me at fonpetermail@gmail.com. See you on the next season

Virgins, celibacy, and principles come under the scrutiny and confusion of whether you can actually have love without sex, it’s pretty dicey.

The nation is still talking about Maryam Sanda and her death sentence. What’s the lesson we took out of this? Chopping and Burning ties with people and situations that ruin your sanity and peace can never be overrated.

Have you ever wondered why we should be loyal, have you ever struggled with betraying a friend, cause, or decision and just wondered why you should even bother being loyal to it or him or her.

Friendships with Benefits should be the only way to go. Making friends should be more intentional than accidental. Not everyone is meant to be a friend to you. This episode teaches you the benefits of carefully making and keeping friends.

Sometimes giving yourself a fresh start at something can literally be a life saving move. No Journey cannot appreciate a restart and refresh. Learn to refresh yourself and start again.

I’ll say one thing; Purpose is a beautiful thing, if not THE most beautiful thing anyone has in life. Every other thing is made more beautiful when it aligns with purpose. And you’ll be losing out on all that joy and fulfillment if you waste your own time. Let’s talk about Purpose.

Men are scum!...This is a statement I actually disagree with....relatively you might say, let’s talk about it... Both genders are going to want to listen to this.

So, here’s the thing, everyone is worthless and everyone is worth the world. Find your Niche. Let’s talk about that

Do you know your passion(s)? It’s a shameful thing if you don’t, let’s find out why on this episode

Am I losing it?, nah, you should try doing what I just did

Who Have You Chosen to Be? Stop for a moment and ask who you are, not your default identity? Your intentional identity.

It’s the official introduction of my podcast, a new season. Let’s talk Love Life and me (Fon). I promise you it’ll be exciting

Well, so my podcast is about to be relaunched tomorrow, and I can’t sit still, so I recorded a pre intro😂 Enjoy.

Never kill the Spirit...Never Lose your Spirit. The Spirit is a very vital part of a person and comprises of identity, purpose, passion, drive and vision. Losing your Spirit can leave you empty and with lack of passion and excitement for anything. Don’t lose your Spirit and drive (commonly termed “Don’t Lose Heart”) and Don’t kill another’s spirit and passion

Never kill the Spirit...Never Lose your Spirit. The Spirit is a very vital part of a person and comprises of identity, purpose, passion, drive and vision. Losing your Spirit can leave you empty and with lack of passion and excitement for anything. Don’t lose your Spirit and drive (commonly termed “Don’t Lose Heart”) and Don’t kill another’s spirit and passion

Never kill the Spirit...Never Lose your Spirit. The Spirit is a very vital part of a person and comprises of identity, purpose, passion, drive and vision. Losing your Spirit can leave you empty and with lack of passion and excitement for anything. Don’t lose your Spirit and drive (commonly termed “Don’t Lose Heart”) and Don’t kill another’s spirit and passion

Here’s a narrative of how the past few months went for me. I stood up for myself and my passion, essence and being. I went for my dreams even in the face of my fears, what do you think happened?, let’s see how it goes. Sometimes you just have to make the move regardless of the risk and uncertainty you’re facing, it may just work out, and even if it doesn’t, honey, you’ll be fine.

It is important and necessary to have those people or things in your life that snap you out of negativity, emotional desperation, depression, hopelessness and disbelief....,bringing you back to leveled ground and positivity. Just like a finger in your face.

This episode was inspired while watching the reality show Big Brother Naija. Rejection doesn’t always mean the other person thinks you’re worthless, a Failure and are never gonna make it, sometimes the fault may be from a default on your part, there is a need for people to be awakened to the dynamics of rejection and how to understand it and make it work in their favor...

Death Hath Lost its Sting.....And Let’s Keep it That Way. This is a short poem of inspiration telling that death doesn’t have to bring you down, death truly hath lost its sting, only if you take it.

Ever been told “there’s Beauty in everything”?, and you thought yeah right, huh?, I did too....But here’s the thing, there really is beauty in everything. I realized this while laughing with my friend over something trivial while her father had cancer alongside other issues in our lives. Listen to this episode for more.

Forgiving and Forgetting The moment of Forgiveness is not always the moment of Forgetting. Forgiving is an amazing thing and feeling for you, learn to forgive.... but forget?.... should you forget?, when should you forget?, is it profitable to remember?....listen to this episode and find out

Listening to more on keeping people who are on an A-game motivation, motivation never lasts, have steady doses.

A Purple Poem....A poem of Royalty.... Walking into Royalty and Success drapes in royal robes of purple....Finally...the pain was worth the purple

Lean back and see yourself as a package. A whole blend of factors called You. Stop looking at the faulty fragments that don’t quite look amazing, look at how it creates the beautiful piece that is you and how to make the whole package even better

Roll with people who have an A-game when it comes to motivation, people who will support and push you to big and bigger dreams in all ways they can.