The Lit Marriage Podcast

In this episode, Cassidy and Daniela talk about what to do when life gives you lemons--you know, those unexpected curve balls life throws at you! Some take aways are:

>Trust God for solutions and LET IT GO!

>Avoid arguing with your spouse over things you cannot control

>Always remember that God is in control

>"Lemons" are there to refine you and to make you stronger while teaching you life lessons.

They share some biblical insights to support their discussion while including some very pivotal and critical moments in their own marriage where God was teaching them a very important life lesson and how it's matured them in the process.

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To find out more about Cassidy and Daniela, visit their website at www.MakeYourMarriageGreatAgain.ca

In this episode, Cassidy and Daniela talk about 5 (among many) reasons why pride will ruin your marriage--UNLESS--some very crucial precautionary and course - correcting steps are taken! 

1. It distorts your reality

2. It hinders your fellowship with God

3. It hardens your heart

4. It causes you to blame-shift and avoid taking responsibility

5. It's self-seeking

Each point is broken down into further detail and backed up by Biblical principles. This couple offers some practical ways to counteract pride and start taking immediate steps toward a healthier marriage!

To find out more about Cassidy and Daniela, visit their website at www.MakeYourMarriageGreatAgain.ca

In this episode, Cassidy and Daniela get into a very counterintuitive subject--the PURPOSE of marriage. Don't be too quick to write this episode off! We guarantee you, there's more to the title than meets the eye. Our culture inundates us with all types of mantras and mottos, among which are the phrases "find the person that makes YOU happy" or "follow your heart". Though these slogans may sound good, they aren't entirely true. They lack a lot of depth. The Bible delineates the fact that as the Body of Christ, believers are created for a purpose, and the marriage relationship is a pattern of that purpose. 

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To find out more about Cassidy and Daniela, visit their website at www.MakeYourMarriageGreatAgain.ca

Have you noticed the acceleration of Witch Craft/magic and selling one’s soul to the devil in children’s programs? Have you discerned the increase in sexualization and violence lately? I mean, Disney has been doing this covertly from its inception, but now, it's no longer hidden and it’s ubiquitous. The battle for our kid's minds is real. In this episode, Cassidy and Daniela discuss how important it is that as parents, we protect the little minds of our children. The world is such a dark place and more than ever, Satan is contending for their minds. We can't necessarily shield them from everything, nor is it possible to constantly micro manage their lives...but we have a responsibility to guide and guard them as they navigate this new world. Not only are they our greatest God given responsibility; they are our greatest investment.
Strong parenting produces strong marriages! The couple shares some practical ways they deal with these issues in their own home.

Be sure to visit their website to find out more about Cassidy and Daniela at www.MakeYourMarriageGreatAgain.ca. Follow their socials @makeyourmarriagegreatagain. 

In this episode, Cassidy and Daniela share 10 red flags you can look for in your marriage. These are some of the most common issues that pop up throughout their coaching experience as well as past personal experiences. They are listed below and expounded upon in this dialogue, including solutions for how to course correct and eradicate them:

1. Lack of devotional/prayer life

2. Jaded to the Word of God

3. Lack of sex life/synchronized bed time

4. Lack of meals together

5. Devices take over

6. Lack of physical/health discipline

7. Lack of financial discipline/communication

8. Lack of respect/you're annoyed by your spouse

9. Unbalanced priorities

10. Holding grudges

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To find out more about Cassidy and Daniela, visit their website at www.MakeYourMarriageGreatAgain.ca

In this episode, Cassidy and Daniela pose the question, "are you married to your ministry?" As always, this couple doesn't shy away from controversial subjects--so let's dig in! Someone's gotta talk about it, right?

This discussion spurs from the common, yet false ideology that working in "ministry" is justifiably priority above the marriage relationship. The couple dispels this notion using biblical scripture and patterns that clearly delineate a different picture and demonstrate how and why marriage is of greatest priority above all ministry work and other relationships--apart from your relationship with Jesus Christ, of course. They expose and identify red flags that perhaps knowingly or unknowingly signify that you or your spouse may be guilty of committing this dangerous error--and talk about how to fix it! 

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To find out more about Cassidy and Daniela, visit their website at www.MakeYourMarriageGreatAgain.ca

In this episode, Cassidy and Daniela take a closer look at why mental health has declined considerably over the past two years. Although they adamantly claim they are not mental health professionals, they tackle this topic from a biblical standpoint, as well as personal experience and what they've gleaned from personal research. The couple shares some very deep insights on how to identify and get on the road to healing mental health issues specifically in the marriage relationship. A very relevant and timely topic you don't want to overlook!

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To find out more about Cassidy and Daniela, visit their website at www.MakeYourMarriageGreatAgain.ca

In this episode, Cassidy and Daniela hit the very touchy subject of emotional affairs. They define what an emotional affair is, why it's dangerous, how to avoid one, how to identify you or your spouse might be in one, and what to do about it! Emotional affairs aren't always easy to spot, because they happen very gradually and are usually unintentional. The couple provide smart ways to avoid the trap of an emotional affair that can corrode or even destroy your marriage. Make sure to pass this along to a loved one!

For more information about Cassidy and Daniela, visit their website at www.MakeYourMarriageGreatAgain.ca

In this episode, Cassidy and Daniela talk about some very effective parenting and relationship techniques they have been implementing in their own personal family life. These effective practical tools are derived from biblical principles taught by Nicholeen Peck who teaches families on the concept of self government. The five steps are 1. Look at the person 2. Keep a calm face, voice and body, 3. Say "yes (mom, husband, or whoever is giving instruction/speaking), 4. Do the instruction 5. Report back. They also include other skills such as how to disagree appropriately and how to accept a "no" answer. These principles and strategies are life changing and especially ring true during the very polarizing political climate we are living in. Don't miss this episode! Don't forget to share it with a loved one!

To find out more about Cassidy and Daniela, visit their website at www.MakeYourMarriageGreatAgain.ca

In this episode, Cassidy and Daniela talk about the very relevant and pressing issues concerning parenting, as relate to children's education in our ever  changing and unstable landscape due to our global conundrum at this time. They talk about the pros and cons of homeschooling versus traditional and online schooling, and offer resources as well as some great tips for anyone who is perhaps ready to explore the possibility of homeschooling. They base most of their discussion on their personal experience with homeschooling their two precious little ones. 

Surely, there are some valuable take aways in this discussion for anyone listening, whether homeschooling is an option or not! 

To find out more about what Cassidy and Daniela offer, visit their website at www.MakeYourMarriageGreatAgain.ca

Most of us are pretty familiar with the terms "love and respect"...you've probably heard or read it before that women need love and men need respect. Although there is definitely a lot of truth in this statement, we believe it is an over simplification of the greater truth. In this episode, Cassidy and Daniela get to the core of the origin of this commonly stated phrase in the book of Ephesians chapter 5 and dissect what love and respect looks like from a biblical perspective. They discuss how these two aspects relate to one another and how they manifest in practical ways in the marriage.

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For more information on Cassidy and Daniela, visit www.makeyourmarriagegreatagain.ca

Are you having enough pillow talk lately? Quick--hide the kids;P 

If you haven't explored this wonderfully intimate space with your spouse, or maybe, it's been a while because life just gets in the way--it's time to talk about it. In this episode, Cassidy and Daniela get very candid in exploring the different reasons why the pillow talk may have fizzled out and they share some great insights on some silent communication killers that may exist and some simple things you can implement TODAY to put the sizzle back in your conversations--and your love life.

Don't skip this episode--and don't forget to share this with someone else! Help us keep marriages LIT! For more information on Cassidy and Daniela's ministry, visit their website at www.makeyourmarriagegreatagain.ca

Have you ever been in a situation in your marriage where you knew that your spouse was dead wrong...and you just wanted to make that point clear? You want to have the last word and feel vindicated--yet, after it's all said and done, you still feel somewhat incomplete or unsatisfied? Could it be that the Holy Spirit is trying to communicate something to you? Could it be that being right perhaps is overrated? Is it really about being right, or being righteous? What do we mean by that? Well... you'll just have to listen to this podcast episode to find out! In this episode, Cassidy and Daniela discuss the power and importance of an apology--whether you're right OR wrong-- and how it can actually transform your marriage--and spice up the bedroom...yeah, you won't want to miss this! 

Don't forget to share this podcast episode with someone you love! For more information on Cassidy and Daniela's ministry, visit www.makeyourmarriagegreatagain.ca

In this episode, Cassidy and Daniela tackle the very taboo topic of porn in the Christian context of marriage. Would you say porn is good or bad? Neutral? Take a listen as they explore the nuances surrounding this sexual activity and what the Word of God gives us as a guide for navigating this subject. What are your thoughts? Should pornography be a part of the marital union? Is it morally wrong? Or is it completely fine so long as it's kept within the marital constraints? The information discussed in this episode might surprise you...or may at least cause you to consider some things you may never have thought about before. Let's dive into this together, shall we?

To learn more about Cassidy and Daniela, visit their website at www.MakeYourMarriageGreatAgain.ca

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In this episode, Cassidy and Daniela feature special guests Joseph and Marissa Msefya of Forever Marriages as they discuss Intimacy is More Than Sex. In this conversation, they identify the different facets of intimacy that are foundational in the marriage and further explain how neglecting any of the facets can be detrimental. The Msefya's illustrate how intimacy is likened to a house and parallel it to the clear analogy shared by Jesus Christ in Matthew 7:24-27. They share how these usually unidentified and neglected areas of intimacy can put a real damper on the passion in the bedroom! Find out how to follow these very important principles in YOUR marriage in order to have a real meaningful and spicy sex life. It is only when we truly understand the definition and purpose of intimacy that we can truly pursue it and realize it in our marriage! Join this absolutely POWERFUL and INSIGHTFUL conversation with our special guests!

Joseph and Marissa Msefya have been together for 11 years and married for 6. They are millennial parents, Certified Marriage coaches, published authors and are the Founders of Forever Marriages. To find out more about their ministry, visit  their website at www.forever-marriages.com or their socials @forevermarriages

To find out more about and/or register for the upcoming 2021 Marriage Summit happening on this Valentine's Day weekend, be sure to go to their instagram page @forevermarriages and click the link in their bio, or visit bit.ly/marriagesummit2021 

To learn more about Cassidy and Daniela's ministry, visit their website at www.MakeYourMarriageGreatAgain.ca

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Let's face it, has quarantine got you bored? Has the monotony of things thrown you in a lazy rut? Is this affecting your love life? Perhaps, this episode will be just the right thing to get that fizzle out of your sizzle! In this discussion, Cassidy and Daniela share some very helpful practical tips and small tweaks that will be sure to spice up your love life! Who doesn't want that? I think we could all use a little more firey passion to keep things lit;)

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To find out more about Cassidy and Daniela, visit their website at www.MakeYourMarriageGreatAgain.ca

In this episode Cassidy and Daniela identify some of the most common traps that keep couples in toxic loops! It can be something as unsuspecting as a meddling mother-in-law, or even a good friend! In their discussion, they expose some of these subtle and not-so-subtle habits and behaviours that can lead to loss and even devastation if not kept in check! Jam packed with some powerful truth pills! Don't miss this!

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If you want to know more about Cassidy and Daniela, visit their website at www.MakeYourMarriageGreatAgain.ca

In this episode, Cassidy and Daniela talk about the importance of "sticking it out" in your marriage and even in the different projects and goals you set to accomplish together as a couple. All too often, people bail when things get a little tough. Little do many people know, that right beyond that hurdle comes strength, endurance, maturity and success! There are so many good nuggets in this episode! Don't miss it!

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To know more about Cassidy and Daniela, visit their website at www.MakeYourMarriageGreatAgain.ca

In this episode, Cassidy and Daniela talk about how important it is to erase the hurts, fears and apprehensions from the past as well as your spouse's record of wrongs. They share how liberating it is to live in the freeing lifestyle of forgiveness and how it leads to a successful marriage.

To find out more about their ministry, visit their website at www.MakeYourMarriageGreatAgain.ca

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In this episode, Cassidy and Daniela talk about the great hope we have as believers in Christ and how to infuse it in the dark, hopeless world around us. They drive home the impact of living a life of service has on your marriage as well as on those whose lives you touch. Many are experiencing the devastating affects of a lockdown Christmas this year--you'll definitely want to give this a listen and spread it like wildfire--not "the virus"! 

Merry Christmas!

To find out more about their ministry, visit www.MakeYourMarriageGreatAgain.ca

In this episode, Cassidy and Daniela discuss how detrimental it is to leave your everyday burdens at the feet of the Cross. In today's culture, we are often so performance driven and our schedules are so filled to the brim we can very easily become burnt out. The popular voices in the media try to convince us that strong independence is necessary in order to be successful; they couldn't be further from the truth! God created us for total dependency on HIM! Do you ever feel as though maybe you've bitten a little more than you can chew? Are your bills piling up? Having trouble keeping up with the mundane routines of life? This year has especially been challenging for most of the world due to the effects of this pandemic and as a result, many couples have felt the impact of job losses, lack of proper medical care, loneliness, and the list goes on. 

To get a copy of Cassidy and Daniela's book What Love Is Not in paperback, digital or audio format, or to find out more about their ministry, visit www.MakeYourMarriageGreatAgain.ca

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In this episode, Cassidy and Daniela talk about the distinction between having accountability partners versus "buddies". They draw the lines between the characteristics of those who come along side you in your marriage and push you towards success and those who just join you in the ranting and pleasing your carnal nature when things go sour. Having an accountability partner or partners is like having a personal coach who sees your blind spots, prays with and for you, has your best interest at heart and is deeply invested in your life. 

Cassidy and Daniela discuss this particular topic in greater depth in their book What Love Is Not. Get your copy today in paperback, digital or audio format at www.MakeYourMarriageGreatAgain.ca

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In this episode, Cassidy and Daniela talk about the efficacy of a soft answer versus a harsh answer in the midst of a discussion or argument with your spouse. This very important communication skill acts as a buffer in times of heated and emotionally charged moments. It can very well be the difference between a functional marriage and a broken down one. 

Cassidy and Daniela discuss this topic in greater depth in their book What Love Is Not. It can be purchased in paper back, digital or audio at www. MakeYourMarriageGreatAgain.ca

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In this episode, Cassidy and Daniela talk about discerning the difference between God's timing for the calling and tasks He has for us versus our timing. Have you ever felt as though God has forgotten about you or put you on a shelf? You're not alone! Could it be that you were jumping that gun on that Word that was spoken over you long ago? This couple discusses that importance of recognizing that there is a preparation process God has you go through in order to get to your destiny. The process also involves destiny partners who actually come along side you to help get you to the next level! You won't want to miss this episode!

To purchase Cassidy and Daniela's book What Love Is Not or to find out more about their marriage ministry, visit www.MakeYourMarriageGreatAgain.ca

In this episode, Cassidy and Daniela talk about what it means to win an argument--as a team, rather than an individual. They centre their discussion around Proverbs 15:1, "A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger." They also share some practical tips and principles they practice in their own relationship to "win together". Simply put, the only thing you want to compete at, is to be the first to apologize. You don't want to miss this!

To know more about their ministry, or to purchase their book, What Love Is Not, check out their website at www.MakeYourMarriageGreatAgain.ca

In this episode, Cassidy and Daniela discuss the importance of establishing discipleship within the home as opposed to leaving it all to your pastor and spiritual leaders. They break down the way a family structure works in a biblical model and how prayer, bible study (or lack thereof) affect the function and unity of the family. In addition, they delve into some statistics that support the information discussed. You won't want to miss it! Don't forget to share this podcast! 

In this episode, Cassidy and Daniela ask the question: "How do you overcome betrayal?" They share some different examples of what betrayal looks like--from the most subtle to the most heart-wrenching scenarios. In their talk, they share some nitty gritty personal accounts of betrayal from the past and even in their own marriage.  They give their insights on how they navigated through them and ultimately overcame them, using the biblical principles in 1 Corinthians 13 and 1 Corinthians 15:31, and also talk about both perspectives: the betrayer and the betrayed. For further insights, they discuss this topic extensively in their book 'What Love Is Not', available at www.whatloveisnot.ca

In this episode, Cassidy and Daniela talk about the common myths surrounding homeschooled children and debunk each point. They share their Biblically founded as well as personal motives behind why they homeschool, rooting their talk in Proverbs 22:6 and Deuteronomy 11:18-21.  Some of these myths include: Homeschooled children't aren't socialized; They are shielded from the "real world"; They aren't as educated, intelligent or can't go to college: You have to be wealthy to homeschool; Homeschooled kids are "weird"; Homeschooling is a cover-up for child abuse. They share a counter-argument to each of the points above and also share some of their own personal experiences with the institutionalized educational system.  Although they are strong believers in homeschooling and encourage other parents to consider this lifestyle choice, they make it abundantly clear that they do not impose their views and preferences on anyone. We hope you find this episode informative and thought-provoking!

In this episode, Cassidy and Daniela expose ego for what it is and how God views it in light of James 4:6-7  and Psalm 138:6. They list some of the common characteristics , consequences and ultimately, how to slay ego in the marriage, according to James 4:10. Cassidy and Daniela delve deeper into this topic in their book "What Love Is Not", which is available on all online platforms such as Amazon, Audible, Barnes & Noble and also their  their website www.whatloveisnot.ca.