
The Mindful Femme
By Abby Molina

The Mindful FemmeNov 04, 2020

An Election Update and Coping with Election Anxiety
At the height of election season Abby and Casey give listeners updates on crucial swing states and the electoral college as well as reflecting on what the aftermath of this election cycle means for our country. Tune in to this episode for some advice on election week self care and some important information about the voter demographics of this election.
Resources

It's Cuffing Season! Part 2
Abby and Casey continue the dating conversation this week by talking about the importance of receiving relationship advice with a grain of salt as well as mindsets around the term "men are trash." Tune in to hear how they're cultivating healthy relationships in their 20's and helpful resources for staying mindful and expanding romantic relationships.

It's Cuffing Season! Part 1
It's that time of year again when the days get shorter and the weather gets cooler. Summer flings are tested and cuffing season is upon us...
This week our hosts are answering listener questions about dating and giving their best advice on how to find the love you deserve. Abby and Casey drop some helpful relationship tips for navigating long distance, when to say "I love you", and setting boundaries in "situationships".
Resources
To Follow

It's Scorpio Season!
This week, The Mindful Femme hosts talk about their own experiences being Scorpios, and useful information for relating to scorpios in your life during their season! This will also be useful if you ARE a scorpio, if you have a scorpio partner, friends, if you attract a lot of scorpios into your life, or if you’re just mystified by our scorpio energy 🧝♀️🧙🏽♀️.
Resources
To Watch:
To Read:

Body Dysmorphia (feat. Voting Info!)

10 Lessons We're Learning in Our 20's
In this episode Abby and Casey talk about 10 of the biggest life lessons they've learned in their early 20's. The hosts talk about how the people they've met, the places they've traveled, and how exploration and adventure has shaped them. In this episode you'll find tidbits of wisdom and advice for shaping self-identity and staying true to yourself as well as some resources that shaped their 20's.
Resources:
To Read:
How to Be Alive: A Guide to the Kind of Happiness that Helps the World
To Watch:
Call Me by Your Name
Lady Bird
Brené Brown - The Call to Courage
To Listen:
Needtobreathe songs: "Brother", "Happiness", and "Bridges Burn"
The Lumineers III
Maggie Rogers

What are Chakras? And Why Should We Balance Them?
This week Abby and Casey educate listeners about the seven chakras and how to balance them! They talk about the importance of chakral balance, methods of doing it, and how to combat physical manifestations of emotional pain in the body.
Resources

Toxic Masculinity: Part 2
The Mindful Femme hosts Abby and Casey continue the conversation on Toxic Masculinity with a new host in the final episode of this two part series. This week, the team speaks with Ben Roston, a close friend and insightful guest on the growing up battling society's masculine expectations. Ben gives some history on the evolution of his relationship with his masculinity, advice for boys out there trying to understand their own identity, being an emotionally expressive man, and more. Casey and Abby also take some time to share some conclusive thoughts on how society can discourage the perpetuation of toxic ideals for men.
Make sure to also listen in to part 1 of this episode, where The Mindful Femme had a conversation with special guest Cam Molina, and discussed the history of the term "toxic masculinity."
Follow Ben Roston on Instagram @roston_the_road_again
Ben's Resources
To watch:
The Mask You Live In documentary on Amazon
My Little Pony on Hulu
To read:
Academic Papers
Sculos (2017) - Who’s Afraid of Toxic Masculinity
Elliot (2018) - Challenging toxic masculinity in schools and society
“Toxic masculinity, masculinity based on simplified norms and understandings of traditionally masculine characteristics such as violence, physical strength, suppression of emotion and devaluation of women (Connell, 2005; Pascoe, 2005; Posadas, 2017) to flourish unfettered.”Zalewski and Parpart (1998) - The “Man” Question in International Relations
“Rather than highlighting the absences and presence of women in the theories and practices of international relations, the authors concentrate on questioning the practices of masculinities, the hegemony of men, and the subject of "man." In this way, they hope to destabilize the field in ways that "adding women and stirring" has not.”Lighter Reads
Tracy E. Gilchrist - What is Toxic Masculinity?
Planned Parenthood - What are gender roles and stereotypes?

Toxic Masculinity: Part 1
In the first episode of this two part series, Abby and Casey provides some history on the term "Toxic Masculinity" before having a candid conversation with Casey's brother and The Mindful Femme's guest, Cam Molina! Cam shares his experiences as a college athlete, coming into reflection on his masculinity, the pressures of physical expectations and appearance, and more.
Tune in next week to hear part two of this episode, with guest Ben Roston, and some added reflection from the Mindful Femme hosts!
Follow Cam Molina @cam_is_trill on Instagram
Resources
History of toxic masculinity:
-https://www.nytimes.com/2019/01/22/us/toxic-masculinity.html
-https://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2019/02/toxic-masculinity-history/583411/
Cam's resources
To read:

Environmentalists You Should Know
In this episode of The Mindful Femme, Casey and Abby profile some environmentalists that have been sharing inspiring and groundbreaking content as activists.
Resources:
To follow:
Leah Thomas @greengirlleah
Intersectional Environmentalist @intersectionalenvironmentalist
Jack Harries @jackharries
Finn Harries @finnharries
Alice Aedy @aliceaedy
Frame of Mind for female storytellers @frameofmind
Earthrise Platform @earthrise.studio
Sophia Roe @sophia_roe
Pillow Talk Sessions by Sophia Roe @thepillowtalksessions
Dominique Drakeford @dominiquedrakeford
Isra Hirsi @israhirsi
US Climate Strike @usclimatestrike
Autumn Peltier @autumn.peltier
Anishinabek Nation @anishinabeknation
Jenny Welbourn @wearilive
Hara the Lable @hara_thelabel
Websites to visit:
IntersectionalEnvironmentalist.com
Good on You for ethical clothing ratings
To Watch:

Mindful News for the Week of August 17th
Abby and Casey give listeners an overview of some of the hottest news topics in the media today. They talk about the selection of Kamala Harris as the VP democratic nominee, the restructuring of the U.S. Postal System and how it will affect voting this November, the explosion in Beirut, and give updates on the Black Lives Matter Movement and coronavirus cases in the US.
Resources:
To Sign:
Petition for Congress to fully fund the USPS in its next stimulus bill
To Stay up to date:
OZY Daily Briefing Newsletter: Quick and digestible news to your inbox
C-SPAN: for nonpartisan political media coverage
To Donate:
Bustle: Where to Donate to Help Beirut
References:
On Portland...
https://www.cnn.com/2020/07/26/us/portland-protest-history-federal-police/index.html
https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2020/aug/09/portland-protesters-clash-police-building-fire
On the U.S. Postal System...
On the Beirut Explosion...
https://www.nytimes.com/2020/08/04/world/middleeast/beirut-explosion-blast.html
https://www.nytimes.com/2020/08/05/world/middleeast/beirut-lebanon-explosion.html
On TikTok...
https://www.nytimes.com/2020/08/07/technology/trump-tiktok-wechat.html?searchResultPosition=2
https://www.wired.com/story/tiktok-ban-us-national-security-risk/
https://www.cnn.com/2020/08/13/tech/tiktok-ban-trump-india/index.html
https://www.theverge.com/21322612/tiktok-security-china-bytedance-spying-app-privacy
On Covid... NYT's Covid News Page
On Schools Reopening During Covid...
https://www.cdc.gov/coronavirus/2019-ncov/community/schools-childcare/reopening-schools.html
https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/2020/08/11/children-schools-coronavirus-leana-wen/
https://www.cdc.gov/coronavirus/2019-ncov/daily-life-coping/children/mis-c.html

Mental Health During a Pandemic
This week, The Mindful Femme has a very special guest, Maria Peters! Casey and Abby talk with Maria about the mental health issues surrounding college graduation, living through a pandemic, and figuring out their futures when it remains so uncertain. They also share some resources to make their health and emotions a priority each day!
Resources:
To read:
The Book of Joy - a conversation about joy from Desmond Tutu and the Dalai Lama
The Daily Stoic - email newsletter, daily meditations for perseverance, wisdom, and the art of living
To download:
Insight Timer - free guided meditations & timer
ZenCare - find a therapist that fits your insurance, location, types of therapy
BetterHelp - online counseling sessions
To listen:
RAIN of self-compassion from Tara Brach - focused on reflection and being gentle with yourself
Jack Kornfield and Sharon Salzberg - guided meditations, including many on Loving-Kindness
Daily Wellness playlist on Spotify
Daily Shine podcast does guided meditations for stress and anxiety
Daily breath with Deepak Chopra
Wake Up with Niall Breslin
Follow Lindsey Rook @lindspire_ on Instagram for guided meditations!

Astrology Crash Course
In this week's episode, Abby and Casey look for the truth in the stars ✨ (And not just in their horoscope). Abby relays how to break down your Astrological birth chart, and Casey gives the low down on each sign's personality! Get ready to learn about more than your star sign, and to hear some chat about how our friends and family may or may not fit the stereotypes of their sign!
Resources
To follow:
Sanctuarywrld on Instagram: Quick astrological breakdowns of the traits of the signs
Kayxstars on Instagram: Funny astrology memes
Scorpiomystique: For my scorpios! An amazing astrologist named Dossé-Via who does weekly, daily, and monthly horoscopes, Also runs Know The Zodiac website and instagram for all signs!
Sistersvillage: In depth breakdowns of the personalities of the signs as mothers, friends, fathers, lovers etc.
To read:
You Were Born for This: Astrology for Radical Self Acceptance by Chani Nicholas- Can also get your detailed chart for free on her site!
Moon omens: Also an instagram, but if you sign up for their newsletter you’ll get daily messages to your inbox alerting you of the shifting planetary alignments and how they’ll affect you (shoutout to mercury retrograde;))
To watch:
Bracha Goldsmith: Horoscopes on Youtube (SO gentle and uplifting and smiley...also they’re super accurate)
The Tarot priest: Individualized tarot readings for each zodiac sign for individual messages and monthly outlooks
To download:

Travel Tales with TMF
This week our Mindful Femme hosts reminisce about a world before coronavirus and travel restrictions. Abby and Casey share funny, unexpected, and, at times, woke travel stories from countries all across the globe that take place in locations like Ecuador, Ethiopia, and other international travel destinations! Travel Advisory: Don't try this at home... or abroad!
RESOURCES:
To listen:
"Stamped" a Travel Gene Podcast
To follow:
SpiritedPursuit - Travel Influencer
Explorerssaurus_ - Travel Couple

Intersectional Environmentalism
After a week away, Casey and Abby are excited to talk about intersectional environmentalism in this episode! They discuss statistics surrounding the communities both, most impacted by and most aware of, the effects of climate change. They also study the whitewashing of the green movement, and how their education systems failed to highlight the stories of the diverse environmentalists that shaped the United States. Finally, Casey and Abby share how they came into the environmentalist movement, and how they plan to continue integrating principles and learning into their own lives.
RESOURCES:
To Follow on Instagram
Dr. Ayana Elizabeth Johnson @ayanaeliza
Nataly Neri @natalyneri
Lauren Singer @trashisfortossers
Queer Brown Vegan (Isaias) @queerbrownvegan
Mari Copeny @littlemissflint
IE @intersectionalenvironmentalist
Leah Thomas @Greengirlleah
Sydney Porter @thesydneyporter
To Listen
Majora Carter Ted talk: “Greening the ghetto” and making urban spaces more green
To Read
Civil Eats' Article: "Dollar Stores Are Taking Over the Grocery Business, and It’s Bad News for Public Health and Local Economies"
Online platforms
Research Links from Episode:
https://www.naacp.org/issues/environmental-justice/
https://www.naacp.org/latest/what-do-clean-air-covid-19-and-earth-day-mean-to-me-cleveland-branch/
https://www.instagram.com/essential_environment/
https://www.motherjones.com/environment/2014/07/white-black-environmentalism-racism/

Let's Talk About...Dating!
The Mindful Femme hosts address both single and relationship life during a pandemic! From dating app Do's and Dont's, to altering your expectations for your partnership mid-chaos, Abby and Casey break down everything you've been wondering about juggling COVID-19 and romance.
RESOURCES
To read:
NYT Article: "Masks, No Kissing and ‘a Little Kinky’: Dating and Sex in a Pandemic"

The Personal Episode
In this episode of The Mindful Femme, Casey and Abby get ~personal~ and answer listeners' questions. Tune in to learn how Abby and Casey met, the meanings of their tattoos, and how Casey met the cast of Love Island USA?
RESOURCES
To listen:
Higher Learning - with Van Lathan and Rachel Lindsay
To read:
How to be Alive: A Guide to the Kind of Happiness that Helps the World

Pride Month and the History of Femme
In honor of Pride Month and the historic Supreme Court ruling this past week, Casey and Abby discuss the historical evolution of the word “Femme,” as well as past brave leaders’ important contributions for the queer community today. They also recognize and give updates to cases surrounding recent black trans lives lost.
RESOURCES
To listen:
The Daily podcast episode: "The Supreme Court Rules From Home"
To follow:
To read:
Them.us lifestyle platform; sign up for their newsletter!
Out.com lifestyle website
National Resource and Education Tool (Abby found this on Tik Tok ;)
Organizations:

Law of Attraction and Manifestation
In this episode, Casey and Abby talk about the history of the Law of Attraction, how they’ve experienced it’s effects in their lives, and how you can start implementing manifestation!
RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:
To Watch:
The Secret on Netflix
Kalyn Nicholson (or her account called Koze) on Youtube
Luca Whitaker's Law of Attraction series on Youtube
To Read:
The Secret by Rhonda Byrne
The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho
TUT- notes from the universe (sign up for their newsletter)
Podcast Music:
Promises by ROFEU https://soundcloud.com/ruslan-delion
Creative Commons — Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported — CC BY-ND 3.0
Free Download / Stream: https://bit.ly/rofeu-promises
Music promoted by Audio Library https://youtu.be/LeP1D9DoiYE

Justice for Black Lives - The Mindful Femme Episode 1
Welcome to the first episode of The Mindful Femme! In the episode, Casey and Abby talk about the Black Lives Matter movement, recent deaths from police brutality and updates to their respective cases, some of the historic moments that have brought our society to where it is today, and share some resources and tips for how you can effectively involve and educate yourself as an anti-racist.
RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:
Readings:
White Fragility by Robin DiAngelo
Citizen by Claudia Rankine
Racism: A Very Short introduction by Ali Rattansi
Podcasts:
Pod Save the People by Crooked Media
To Watch:
13th on Netflix
When They See Us on Netflix
Dear White People on Netflix
LA 92 on Netflix
The Rachel Divide on Netflix
You Can’t Touch My Hair on Youtube
Braids and Appropriation in America by Elle on Youtube
To Donate:
Local Orgs dedicated to paying protestors’ bails
Podcast Music:
Promises by ROFEU https://soundcloud.com/ruslan-delion
Creative Commons — Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported — CC BY-ND 3.0
Free Download / Stream: https://bit.ly/rofeu-promises
Music promoted by Audio Library https://youtu.be/LeP1D9DoiYE