
Too Smart For This
By Alexis Barber
For smart and superficial girls everywhere, this podcast helps multifaceted women untangle society's expectations of them through candid conversations and tangible tips for crafting your own journey. Hosted by Alexis Barber, entrepreneur, creator and full-time Content Strategist at YouTube, you'll hear both the realities of being an ambitious 20-something that identifies as a #MaterialGirl and plenty of gems from our wide range of guests. Follow the show on Instagram and TikTok at @toocollective.

102. The Smart Girl's Guide to Lucky Girl Syndrome
102. The Smart Girl's Guide to Lucky Girl Syndrome
Too Smart For ThisMar 02, 2023
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102. The Smart Girl's Guide to Lucky Girl Syndrome
102. The Smart Girl's Guide to Lucky Girl Syndrome
Welcome back to TSFT ladies! Today we're diving into the popular concept of LUCKY GIRL SYNDROME!
2:00 Feeling “lucky” even without wealth
3:13 What does Lucky Girl Syndrome (LGS) look like?
3:33 Using LGS as a means of introducing positive thinking into your life
3:57 If you believe you’re lucky, you will be
4:12 Manifestation is imperative
7:13 Using vision boards and The Law of Assumption to create your own luck
9:14 Altering your mindset to mirror what you’re trying to manifest/attract
11:19 The more positive energy you throw into the universe, the more positive energy it gives you back
12:48 Setbacks can bring about new and positive possibilities
14:06 Everything works out in the way it’s supposed to
14:50 #1 Create the subconscious belief that you’re a lucky person
14:54 #2 Utilize the Law of Attraction to manifest your dream life
15:05 #3 Trust the process – everything is happening FOR you, not TO you
15:26 Utilizing daily affirmations to ground yourself
15:58 You are your greatest asset – start each day by checking in and reminding yourself what you want
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Mar 02, 202317:41

How To Stop Arguing for Your Limitations
How To Stop Arguing for Your Limitations
Are you arguing for your limitations? This week, Alexis is on the mic solo discussing a major mindset shift.
Show Notes:
(0:40) Being solutions-oriented is more worthwhile than dwelling on the negativity
(1:55) Finding balance amidst uncertainty
(2:40) Granting yourself grace is imperative
(5:33) Argue for your opportunities, not your limitations
(6:30) Using historical reflections as a vehicle for self-assurance
(7:18) Avoid resorting to negativity as a coping mechanism
(7:56) How self-doubt hinders your growth
(8:36) Emphasize the positive instead of the negatives
(9:04) Focusing on what could/does go wrong isn’t fruitful
(9:36) Importance of getting out of your comfort zone
(10:59) How to recognize and combat defeatist mindsets
(12:39) Using positive framing to embrace all that lies on the horizon
(13:23) You’ve come so far, and you’ve got to keep going
(15:30) You are your biggest and best advocate
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Feb 23, 202318:50

100th Episode: I Quit My Job at YouTube! + 4 Reasons Why I Was Able To
100th Episode: I Quit My Job at YouTube! + 4 Reasons Why I Was Able To
Hi Baddies! OMG! It's the 100th Episode of TSFT! Plus we have the most exciting life update, maybe ever?
Head to our IG where we're doing a giveaway to celebrate 100 episodes now :)
Show Notes:
4:35 What do you do when your dream job doesn’t fulfill you?
4:48 Understanding when to quit and walk away
5:30 Decide what, in your life, is most fulfilling and chase after it
9:59 Embarking on the lifelong journey of self-love, self-care, and self-discovery
11:52 Navigating the stress of post-graduate life without a strong familial support system
13:00 Four pieces of advice that have allowed me to navigate the confusion and chaos of the past few years
13:08 Have a plan, but be flexible!
13:42 Learning to adapt is essential for your growth and happiness
14:17 How to view setbacks as learning opportunities
14:54 Bigger and better things are always on the horizon
16:14 When you invest in yourself, that money always comes back to you
16:21 Viewing everything you do with the utmost importance will only allow you to succeed
17:23 Importance of taking time to connect with yourself
17:29 Morning and night routines are essential in building self-confidence
17:39 Doing things for yourself, not for others
18:37 How to bet on yourself
Resources/Mentioned
The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho
Too Collective Website
Too Collective Affirmation Texts
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Feb 16, 202322:45
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How To Know If You're Codependent [& What to Do About It] with New York Times Bestselling Author Melody Beattie
How To Know If You're Codependent [& What to Do About It] with New York Times Bestselling Author Melody Beattie
Hello my friends and welcome back to Too Smart For This! This week's episode is with New York Times Bestselling Author Melody Beattie, who wrote the critically acclaimed CODEPENDENT NO MORE: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself. Since its publication in 1986, the book has sold over 7 million copies and continues to help countless readers heal. For the first time, Beattie unflinchingly reveals her personal story. She also addresses trauma and anxiety in an all-new chapter—subjects she has long felt necessary to address within the context of codependency. She has broadened the lens to address a wide range of compulsive behaviors—making the book even more relevant today than it was when it first entered the national conversation over 35 years ago. Glennon Doyle, Jen Hatmaker, Brené Brown, Whitney Cummings, and many others have been vocal about the importance of CODEPENDENT NO MORE in their lives—and this new edition is poised to reach a new generation of readers.
Melody Beattie's compassionate and insightful look into codependency—the concept of losing oneself in the name of helping another—has guided millions of readers toward the understanding that they are powerless to change anyone but themselves and that caring for the self is where healing begins. With personal reflections, exercises, and instructive stories drawn from Beattie's own life and the lives of those she's counseled, CODEPENDENT NO MORE helps you break old patterns and maintain healthy boundaries, and offers a clear and achievable path to healing, hope, freedom, and happiness.
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Feb 09, 202341:18

Topicals CEO & Founder Olamide Olowe: The Heart Behind the Hype, Running a Company at 26 Years Old, and How She Became the Youngest Black Woman to Raise $10M In Venture Capital
Topicals CEO & Founder Olamide Olowe: The Heart Behind the Hype, Running a Company at 26 Years Old, and How She Became the Youngest Black Woman to Raise $10M In Venture Capital
Hello my beautiful friends and welcome back to Too Smart For This! This week's guest is the incredible Olamide Olowe, CEO and founder of Topicals!
Olamide Olowe is a recent graduate of the University of California, Los Angeles where she was a pre-Med student and received a B.A. in Political Science with a concentration in Race, Ethnicity, and Politics and a minor in Entrepreneurship. In 2015, Olamide co-founded the beauty brand SheaGIRL, in partnership with SheaMoisture. Sundial Brands, parent company of SheaGIRL, was later acquired by Unilever in 2017. Currently, Olamide is the founder and CEO of Topicals, a skincare company transforming the way people feel about skin through effective products for eczema and hyperpigmentation. Olamide is passionate about harnessing the power of culture, technology, and science to improve the relationship between women of color and the beauty industry. She has received notable recognition from Harvard Business School, Google, the PAC12, and the UCLA Alumni Association.
The platform she mentioned re: her entrepreneurial advice launches next week, and we will update the show notes then!
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Feb 02, 202344:17

Sometimes Self-Care Isn't Enough: Dealing with Depression & Life Updates
Sometimes Self-Care Isn't Enough: Dealing with Depression & Life Updates
Hi friends! This episode took a turn but I hope that it really gives some color to how I've been doing lately. Love you so much!
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Jan 26, 202327:28

From Disowned to Major Tastemaker: @Shookerd Gets Real on the Power of Confidence in Dark Times
From Disowned to Major Tastemaker: @Shookerd Gets Real on the Power of Confidence in Dark Times
This weeks story is a tearjerker - we sit down with my new friend Sicard who you may know from his stunning TikTok that features Architectural Digest home reviews and Pinterest dreams. But his life hasn’t been all beautiful - he shares the story of how his family disowned him upon finding out that he was gay at a young age. He takes us on his journey and shares how being himself has gotten him to exactly where he wants to go.
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Jan 19, 202347:11

How to Cultivate Confidence Despite External Forces with Alexa Jay McCoy, Influencer & Plus Size Model
How to Cultivate Confidence Despite External Forces with Alexa Jay McCoy, Influencer & Plus Size Model
Note from Alexis: Welcome to our *new TSFT publishing day, THURSDAYS!! You all voted and this is where we are! Additionally, I accidentally say "finish up" this month's series in today's intro, but that's false - we're actually in the middle of it so we will absolutely have more fabulous Confidence episodes for you this month!
CW: This episode contains discussions of eating disorders and fatphobia.
Have you struggled with body and relationship confidence? So has Alexa Jay McCoy. In today's episode, she gives us the rundown of her personal history with an eating disorder, abusive ex-boyfriend, and anti-blackness that led her to feel awful in her own skin, and how she turned that around to become a thriving influencer and model.
We discuss her most recent publicized run-in at The Highlight Room, the pressures of social media, and dealing with mental health issues as an influencer. If you're in need of a pick-me-up, this episode is for you!
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Jan 12, 202334:39

UNIEKUE: How To Stand Out By Being Yourself
UNIEKUE: How To Stand Out By Being Yourself
It’s 2023 baddies, and we’re kicking off the year with a confidence-building series from the girls who simply GET IT. If you’re in need of a reminder that being you isn’t just good enough, its all you’ve got, today’s episode with Unikue will get you there. Alexis and Uniekue jump into their shared experience of always being seen as “intimidating,” going to predominately white Boarding schools, and how they’ve taken control of their narrative with TikTok. Uniekue shares how to grow on TikTok by being yourself, and teases upcoming projects.
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Jan 02, 202301:06:18

The Tea on my 2023 Goals, Product Favorites from 2022, and How to Live a High-End Life when You Don’t Have Unlimited Funds
The Tea on my 2023 Goals, Product Favorites from 2022, and How to Live a High-End Life when You Don’t Have Unlimited Funds
Hey baddies! It’s the final episode of 2022 and I cannot even believe it! We’re ending the year strong with an incredible community, so much fun, and even more goodness to come in 2023. In todays ep I’m answering your juicy questions and sharing my 2023 Favorites, all linked here!
Favorites:
Finances & Lifestyle
Amex Platinum Card,
Chase Sapphire Preferred
Chani App: https://chaninicholas.com/chani-app/
Superhuman App: https://www.superhuman.app/?gclid=CjwKCAiAy_CcBhBeEiwAcoMRHNxXszkZJzN-hT0geofx-Oqsm9EIdiYvxGUotahqJf571GVGtUBEUhoC-kQQAvD_BwE
Skincare:
Laniege Water Mask: https://bit.ly/3DjGJ5t
Laniege Moisturizer: https://bit.ly/3V5qcZx
Laniege Lip Masks: https://bit.ly/3Pwcuhf
Good Mollecules HA: https://bit.ly/3C4ZyJV
Good Mollecules Discoloration Serum: https://bit.ly/3hyQFks
Black Girl Sunscreen: https://bit.ly/3jco6dj
Makeup
NARS Radiant Longwear: https://bit.ly/2UFcMdN
NARS Light Reflecting Foundation: https://bit.ly/3FxEBrP
Charlotte Tillbury Lip Cheat: https://bit.ly/3uVnGuf
Clothing
Lululemon Aligns: https://bit.ly/3WlI0kc
Alo Sweat Sets: https://bit.ly/3Fsd3nG
Good American Jeans: https://bit.ly/3YxxSa7
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Dec 26, 202232:01

BFFR: The Overlooked Step to Achieving Your Goals in 2023
BFFR: The Overlooked Step to Achieving Your Goals in 2023
Hey baddies! Welcome back to our December series on reflecting and planning for the new year. Today, Alexis dives into the #1 thing helping her recover form this year: taking responsibility for where you are and learning how to BFFR with yourself. Hear how she develops frameworks for failure and how that can help you level ip this year.
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The Tea on my 2023 Goals, Product Favorites from 2022, and How to Live a High-End Life when You Don’t Have Unlimited Funds
Hey baddies! It’s the final episode of 2022 and I cannot even believe it! We’re ending the year strong with an incredible community, so much fun, and even more goodness to come in 2023. In todays ep I’m answering your juicy questions and sharing my 2023 Favorites, all linked here!
Dec 19, 202216:03

What to Stop and Start Doing in 2023
What to Stop and Start Doing in 2023
Hi baddies! For the second installment of our end-of-year reflection series, we're talking the things you should and shouldn't keep doing in 2023 to get to your next level self. Enjoy and remember that you're too smart to not love yourself!
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Dec 12, 202214:58

How To Make an Intentional Vision Board for 2023
How To Make an Intentional Vision Board for 2023
Last year, my vision boards episode was my most popular, so I'm back with a new system that helps you intentionally set goals! Listen in to hear the how to.
Want to download the free PDF to help you get started? Click here.
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Dec 06, 202217:35

Setting Boundaries, Advocating for Yourself with a Chronic Illness, and Building Confidence with SI Swim Model Gigi Robinson
Setting Boundaries, Advocating for Yourself with a Chronic Illness, and Building Confidence with SI Swim Model Gigi Robinson
Have you struggled with chronic illness, confidence, or advocating for yourself? In this episode, we sit down with Gigi Robinson. Gigi is known for many things. From being a finalist in the Sports Illustrated Swim Search, to her advocacy in the chronic illness and body positivity spheres, all the way to NFT research and navigating life as a small business owner. She truly does it all. With features in Bustle, Business Insider, Forbes, and Vogue Business, Gigi combines beauty and brains as GenZ’s forefront thought leader in the content creation space.
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Nov 28, 202249:05

A Guide to Taking Care of Yourself and Your Health When You're at Your Worst with Alyssa Francois
A Guide to Taking Care of Yourself and Your Health When You're at Your Worst with Alyssa Francois
Have you struggled with taking care of yourself, or do you struggle with health issues? In this week's episode of Too Smart For This, we are joined by Alyssa François, a content creator, lifestyle and wellness influencer. At 32, Alyssa was officially diagnosed with endometriosis after years of suffering from debilitating menstrual cramps and no clear answers. Her diagnosis helped her determine her true purpose on this earth which inspired her to take her healing into her own hands, share her holistic healing journey with her community and to become an IIN health coach where her current focus is to help women their daily routines and to nourish themselves inside and out in the best way that they can.
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Nov 14, 202248:08

How to Stay Independent While In A Relationship with Bri Springs
How to Stay Independent While In A Relationship with Bri Springs
Have you struggled with relationships, dating, or communicating with your family? Well, so have we! In week's episode of Too Smart For This, we are joined by Bri Springs, former Bachelor contestant, fashion influencer, and host of the podcast "Ya, But Who Cares?" We touch on everything from Bri's confidence tips, her future financial goals, her family relationships, and why she doesn't tell her boyfriend EVERYTHING. Let us know what you think!
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Nov 07, 202241:48

20+ Micro-Tips That Help me Win The Everyday as a Business Owner, Woman in Tech, and Creator
20+ Micro-Tips That Help me Win The Everyday as a Business Owner, Woman in Tech, and Creator
Your life is made up of years, which are months, which are weeks, which are days! So today Alexis is walking you through how to find the magic in the every day and the little tips she uses to keep everything together.
She also announces that for the rest of the year, we will be switching to 1 episode per week on Mondays! They will also be on video starting Nov 14 on the YouTube channel (subscribe below!)
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Oct 31, 202232:00

3 Ways to Minimize Seasonal Depression BEFORE It Starts
3 Ways to Minimize Seasonal Depression BEFORE It Starts
Hey bestie! In line with this month's balance theme, today we're talking how to stay on track with your goals and balance your emotions in this impending seasonal change.
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Oct 27, 202219:02

What If You Were A Little Nicer To Yourself?
What If You Were A Little Nicer To Yourself?
Hey bestie! In line with this month's balance theme, today we're talking the often forgotten mindset that you need to embody when trying to get anything done.
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Oct 21, 202216:30

ICYMI: Building a Herd Mentality with Entrepreneur Madisen Dewey
ICYMI: Building a Herd Mentality with Entrepreneur Madisen Dewey
Happy Monday Baddies! In the name of balance, this week we're bringing back a past episode with one of our favorite creators and founders, Madisen Dewey!
As a content creator and consumer of social media, Madisen began to notice that the power of building community online was overpowered by the toxic traits of social media. Taking a leap of faith, Madisen quit her job at YouTube and began building Herd Social, an app that isn’t driven by metrics and helps users to discover communities that fit their interests. Throughout this episode, Madisen gets real about her experience as a woman in the tech startup space, what led her to taking Herd Social seriously, how Herd Social is starting the social media revolution, and so much more.
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Oct 17, 202236:06

How to Manage Your Time When You Want to Do Everything
How to Manage Your Time When You Want to Do Everything
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Oct 13, 202222:34

A Masterclass in Believing in Yourself: Adina Eden, CEO of Multi-Million Dollar Jewelry Line Adina Eden & Forbes 30 Under 30 Recipient
A Masterclass in Believing in Yourself: Adina Eden, CEO of Multi-Million Dollar Jewelry Line Adina Eden & Forbes 30 Under 30 Recipient
Have you struggled with believing in your dreams? In this episode, Adina Eden shares how she overcame judgement to launch and scale Adina Eden, her multi-million dollar namesake jewelry line that’s been worn on countless celebrities like Ariana Grande and Hailey Bieber, and is sold in top department stores like Neiman Marcus and Nordstrom. We walk through how she started her business, and the moment that it scaled. Most importantly, she shows us the beauty of believing in your dream even when you don’t see evidence yet
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Oct 10, 202256:16

The 4 Steps to Finding Balance
The 4 Steps to Finding Balance
Hi ladies! Welcome to the first of our solo episodes on BALANCE. It's a complicated topic! This week I'm sharing the frameworks for balance that we all need and love.
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Oct 06, 202221:48

What We Get Wrong About Balance ft. Les Alfred, founder of Balanced Black Girl
What We Get Wrong About Balance ft. Les Alfred, founder of Balanced Black Girl
Is balance even real?
Welcome back to Too Smart For This! This week we are joined by Les Alfred, founder and creator of Balanced Black Girl, a community and podcast that's inspired thousands of women to prioritize wellness. Les and I dive into whether wellness is a real thing, how she uses rituals to make her life easier, and the biggest challenges she's had to overcome to develop balance in her life. This episode is sure to motivate you and help you re-assess your life to find ways to put YOU first.
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Oct 03, 202255:48
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Using Rituals to Accomplish My Goals Faster [My new system!]
Using Rituals to Accomplish My Goals Faster [My new system!]
Hi baddies! For the end of our rituals series, I'm diving in to tell you about how I'm using the 12 week year to set my goals for Q4! I hope this inspires you, and let me know how you felt about this series!
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Sep 29, 202216:56
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A Deep Dive on How to Set Goals [Solo Episode]
A Deep Dive on How to Set Goals [Solo Episode]
Hi friends! WELCOME BACK to Too Smart For This. In this week's solo episode, we're chatting goal setting, and I'm giving you a deep dive into how I set goals, why, and a new system I'm using to plan for the future. Hope you love!
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Sep 26, 202229:30

3 Steps to Create Regenerative Rituals
3 Steps to Create Regenerative Rituals
Hi baddies! Welcome back to Too Smart For This. This week we’re chatting how to create your own rituals from scratch! I am so excited to also announce that the TOO COZY robe is finally available for preorder! Today through October 1, you can preorder the robe on toocollective.com.
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Sep 22, 202220:04

My Story: How I Used Rituals to Go From Insecure to Inspired
My Story: How I Used Rituals to Go From Insecure to Inspired
Hi baddies! Welcome back to Too Smart For This. This week you have me solo for a deep dive into my story and how I got to where I am. I am so excited to also announce that the TOO COZY robe is finally available for preorder! Through October 1, you can preorder the robe on toocollective.com NOW!!!
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Sep 19, 202230:10

Setting Boundaries 101: The Secret to Feeling Better & Getting What You Want
Setting Boundaries 101: The Secret to Feeling Better & Getting What You Want
Hi loves! Welcome Back to Too Smart For This! In this week's episode, we're chatting BouNdAriEs, a very overused term and a VERY annoying thing to remember you need to work on. But without boundaries, it's hard to get what we want. Let's chat about it.
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Sep 15, 202213:02

How to Overcome Setbacks and Burnout by Putting Yourself First with Bria Jones
How to Overcome Setbacks and Burnout by Putting Yourself First with Bria Jones
How do people bounce back from major burnout? Good q - today's guest is my friend Bria Jones, a major social media influencer and one of my biggest inspirations. In this episode, we touch on Bria's experience becoming an influencer, the abundance mindset that has helped her make multiple 6 figures, and how she's focusing on her health!
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Sep 12, 202249:44

Do Any of Us Know How To Relax?
Do Any of Us Know How To Relax?
Welcome back baddies! Have you been relaxing wrong? Yeah, another thing to worry about - we get it. But this week we’re talking through some signs that you might be adding more stress to your life when you’re trying to “self-care.” This shit is hard, right?
Sep 08, 202217:24

How to Become an Influencer in 2022 with Kensington Grey Founder Shannae Ingleton Smith
How to Become an Influencer in 2022 with Kensington Grey Founder Shannae Ingleton Smith
Ever wanted to become an influencer? What about start your own business….with your man as your partner? This week’s guest Shannae Ingleton Smith, founder of Kensington Grey agency, shares everything you need to know about being an influencer in 2022.
Sep 06, 202247:42

Why Is Taking Care of Yourself So Hard?
Why Is Taking Care of Yourself So Hard?
Hello friends and welcome back to Too Smart For This! This week starts a new month and a new series talking about the importance of self-care, and why it can feel so hard to "master." What do you think of this episode? DM us @toocollective on Instagram this week and let us know!
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Sep 01, 202212:54

How to Change Your Life When You're Stuck, Growing on TikTok in 2022, and Founding a Tech Startup with @itxmejules
How to Change Your Life When You're Stuck, Growing on TikTok in 2022, and Founding a Tech Startup with @itxmejules
Hi friends! Welcome back to Too Smart For This! This week, we are joined by my dear friend Julia Montgomery, also known as @Itxmejules on Tiktok and Instagram. Jules is an entrepreneur, content creator, and a fierce follower of her many passions. After playing college golf, she found herself in a corporate health care job she hated, and while binging entrepreneurship podcasts finally decided to start her own thing and change her life. We touch on how she made the jump from health care to tie-dye sweats business owner to content creator to tech founder, and she gives us advice for how to grow your brand with social media.
To learn more about Jules's insight into the creator economy, believing in yourself, and scaling a business from scratch listen to this week's episode!
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Aug 29, 202240:42

How to Stay Motivated while Being Multi-Passionate with Eni Popoola, @enigivensunday
How to Stay Motivated while Being Multi-Passionate with Eni Popoola, @enigivensunday
Welcome back to this week's episode of "Too Smart for This!" This week we are joined by Eni Popoola, a Nigerian-American graduate of Columbia Law School, Harvard, and a content creator From Queens, NY. She is the beauty and lifestyle blogger behind enigivensunday!
In this episode, Eni shares how she pursued many interests including beauty, content creation, and storytelling while pursuing her Law Degree. She will be starting her career in big Law in the fall. To hear more about what kept Eni grounded, motivated and consistent in her multifaceted pursuits, listen to this weeks podcast.
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Aug 22, 202242:46

My SPECIFIC Evening & Morning Routines and Why I Do Them
My SPECIFIC Evening & Morning Routines and Why I Do Them
Hi friends! Welcome back to Too Smart For This. In today's ep we are talking all about my super specific morning & evening routines and the WHY behind each part of them. Thank you for listening and don't forget to leave a review so we can send you a gift! The last two winners are:
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Aug 18, 202216:42

The Transformative Tool Haley Hoffman Smith Uses to Manifest Success as a Creator, Speaker, and Singer
The Transformative Tool Haley Hoffman Smith Uses to Manifest Success as a Creator, Speaker, and Singer
Hi Friends! Welcome back to this week's episode. We are so happy to have so many of you tuning in! This week we are joined by multi-hyphenate artist, author, keynote speaker, YouTuber, motivational coach, Tiktoker, and entrepreneur Haley Hoffman Smith. In this episode, Haley walks us through how she healed patterns of self-doubt and manifested her dream life using EFT tapping.
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"A Happy pocket full of money" by David Cameron Gikandi: https://www.amazon.com/Happy-Pocket-Full-Money-Abundance/dp/1571746625
"The Holographic Universe" by Michael Talbot: https://www.amazon.com/Holographic-Universe-Revolutionary-Theory-Reality/dp/0062014102
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Aug 15, 202251:50

How to Tune Out the Noise & Make the Most of Your Early Career with EveryStylishGirl founder Nana Agyemang
How to Tune Out the Noise & Make the Most of Your Early Career with EveryStylishGirl founder Nana Agyemang
Are your 20s for grinding at work, living a soft life, or both? Well, in this week's episode we talk with entrepreneur, journalist, and digital strategist Nana Agyemang, founder of the iconic brand EveryStylishGirl, about all things business and lifestyle. Launched in 2016, EveryStylistGirl is on a mission to bring career opportunities for Black and Brown women in the media and fashion sphere. Through panels, networking events, and community engagement, EveryStylishGirls' platform continues to bring women together. While growing her own company, Nana was a journalist at Elle and New York Magazine, where she grew The Cut's instagram to over 1 million followers. As a creator herself, she's worked with brands like American Express and WW, and as a journalist, Nana has worked with Refinery29, ELLE Magazine, New York Times and BBC News.
If you're interested in entrepreneurship, how to make the most of your corporate career, or growing your digital presence, this episode is for you!
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Aug 12, 202249:30

The secret to routines that ACTUALLY work
The secret to routines that ACTUALLY work
Hi friends! Welcome back to another episode of Too Smart For This. We're discussing routines today and here's the tea on how to get your routines in order.
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Aug 12, 202218:46

8 Mood-Boosting Tips For Pulling Yourself Out of A Rut
8 Mood-Boosting Tips For Pulling Yourself Out of A Rut
Hi friends! If you’re unaware, the last few weeks have been tough. This episode is about the 8 ways I feel better when I’m simply down bad. I know that life gets hard and not all of these are viable for everyone, and hey, the way you feel better may be completely different from the way I do - but hopefully, these are good thought-starters to help you go from surviving to thriving.
THINGS I MENTIONED
Alive App by Whitney Simmons
Peloton App
Shreddy App By Grace Beverly
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Morning Affirmation Podcasts: Leading Edge & Infinite Intelligence
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Aug 04, 202217:33

You Don't Have to Glow Up Overnight with @averagesisi
You Don't Have to Glow Up Overnight with @averagesisi
Welcome back to Too Smart For This! This week we are joined by TikTok creator Sierra Boudreaux, who is known for her office hot girl videos, being honest about mental health struggles, and her love for CycleBar. We discuss everything from dating to parasocial relationships, and she shares her tips for making great female friendships, among other things! We had a great time, so thank you for listening and thank you Sierra for coming on!
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Aug 01, 202250:44

How to create thriving businesses in every industry with Dulma Altan
How to create thriving businesses in every industry with Dulma Altan
Welcome back to the newest episode of "Too smart for this" This week, we learn from entrepreneur and business powerhouse Dulma Altan. Known for her business breakdowns on Tiktok, Dulma is the CEO and founder of Makelane, a company on a mission to help women create thriving businesses in every industry. She talks about starting her first business, VC funds, creating a community from scratch, helpful tips for understanding what it takes to scale a business successfully, and empowering female entrepreneurs to reach their business goals.
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Jul 25, 202244:02

3 Ways to Stop Feeling Stuck
3 Ways to Stop Feeling Stuck
Hi loves, I hope you all are having a good week. Join me on this week's solo episode where I get close and very personal about feeling stuck and taking action in small ways.
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Jul 21, 202213:01

Survivng the Corporate World, Influencer Tips, and Dating Tea with Simone Alyssa
Survivng the Corporate World, Influencer Tips, and Dating Tea with Simone Alyssa
Today we are joined by aesthetic Scorpio queen and new Nashville resident Simone Alyssa! Simone is a full-time digital creator with over 10 years of experience in corporate operations. In this episode, she shares with us how she's stayed true to herself while living in 9 different cities, how she built an incredible digital community, and tips for dating from someone who's been proposed to 3 times!
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Jul 18, 202239:02

How Not Knowing Yourself Costs You
How Not Knowing Yourself Costs You
Hi ladies! Welcome back to another episode exploring what it means to be multifaceted in 2022. Alexis dives into an old habit she had that was costing her a lot - and what you can do to avoid it now.
Jul 14, 202213:17

The Hard Work Behind Soft Life Living with Chrissy Rutherford
The Hard Work Behind Soft Life Living with Chrissy Rutherford
This week's guest is none other than Chrissy Rutherford, a digital creator and former fashion editor at Harper’s Bazaar!
In this episode, Alexis and Chrissy discuss
⚡️astrology
⚡️how Chrissy built her career in fashion
⚡️the difference between a career as a creator and traditional media
⚡️advice for women looking to build a career they love
⚡️her mental health journey and tips for anyone struggling
⚡️dating advice
and so much more!
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Jul 11, 202247:02

What's The Obsession With Humbling Other Women?
What's The Obsession With Humbling Other Women?
Welcome BACK to Too Smart For This! After a 6 month hiatus, the show is back and it's better. For the first ~7-8 minutes, Alexis shares a HUGE life update before diving into this month's show theme - being multifaceted & embracing who you are. She shares how a recent experience in the DMs prompted the discussion of "humbling" people and what it means for women.
New episodes of the show will be available every Monday and Thursday, so make sure to subscribe now so you don't miss out!
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Jul 07, 202221:05

The Last Episode of 2021 (and for awhile!)
The Last Episode of 2021 (and for awhile!)
hi friends! today I'm chatting through my high highs and low lows of 2021, and sharing with you the tools and mindsets that helped me get through them. this will also be the last episode of the pod for awhile, and I explain why in this episode. love you all and can't wait for more big things in 2022. make sure to follow me on Insta and TikTok and YouTube so you don't miss any new updates!
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Dec 30, 202123:33

Finance & Career Tips
Finance & Career Tips
Welcome back to Too Smart For This! In today’s episode, I am giving my finance and career tips for 2022. I have learned so much about financial planning in the past year along with a big shift in my career. Throughout this episode I talk about the different financial pillars I structure my finances after, how I learned to set boundaries with finances, and how to take control of your career. If you want to learn more, check out my YouTube channel!
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Dec 23, 202120:40

Vision Boards & Goal Setting for 2022
Vision Boards & Goal Setting for 2022
Welcome back to Too Smart For This! In today’s episode, I am talking all about vision boards and goal setting for 2022. You’ll learn what came true from my vision board for 2021, the questions I ask myself to uncover what I truly want, and what I put on my vision board for 2022. Vision boards are such a great way to remind yourself what your goals are and help you get to the root of what you want. Let’s make big things happen in 2022!
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Dec 16, 202116:54

My 23rd Birthday Reflections
My 23rd Birthday Reflections
Welcome back to Too Smart For This! In today’s episode, I am celebrating my 23rd birthday by sharing my reflections on this past year. I look back on where I was a year ago versus where I am today and explain the lessons I've learned throughout it all. I dive into different areas of life, sharing everything that has changed in my family relationships, professional career, and influencer journey. This year has taught me so much and I can’t thank you enough for following along and being a part of it!
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Dec 09, 202132:32

Practicing Law & Self Love with Dellara (@LegalBaddie)
Practicing Law & Self Love with Dellara (@LegalBaddie)
Welcome back to Too Smart For This! In today’s episode, I am joined by Dellara aka “Legal Baddie” on TikTok. She’s a lawyer, content creator, and a straight up bad bitch, killing it in all areas of life. Dellara and I talk about how she started creating content, her journey to becoming a lawyer, meeting haters with compassion, the importance of holding yourself accountable, setting boundaries, and so much more. This conversation with Dellara is a great reminder of how important it is to invest in yourself and your personal growth.
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Dec 02, 202151:04

Q&A: Moving to NYC, Working at Google, & More!
Q&A: Moving to NYC, Working at Google, & More!
Welcome back to Too Smart For This! In today’s episode, I am answering questions that I was asked on my Instagram - ranging from how I moved to NYC, living with MS, working for Google, my tips for interning, and more! You’ll also learn why I put a pause on the podcast last week, the importance of setting boundaries with family members, and how to navigate the difficult emotions that the holidays can bring up.
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Nov 18, 202120:48

Building a Herd Mentality with Herd Social Founder Madisen Dewey
Building a Herd Mentality with Herd Social Founder Madisen Dewey
Welcome back to Too Smart For This! In today’s episode, I’m joined by Madisen Dewey, founder of the Herd Social App. As a content creator and consumer of social media, Madisen began to notice that the power of building community online was overpowered by the toxic traits of social media. Taking a leap of faith, Madisen quit her job at YouTube and began building Herd Social, an app that isn’t driven by metrics and helps users to discover communities that fit their interests. Throughout this episode, Madisen gets real about her experience as a woman in the tech startup space, what led her to taking Herd Social seriously, how Herd Social is starting the social media revolution, and so much more.
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Nov 05, 202134:55

Writing the Realities of a Modern Black Woman with Jayne Allen
Writing the Realities of a Modern Black Woman with Jayne Allen
Welcome back to Too Smart For This! In today’s episode, I am joined by the incredible author, Jayne Allen. Jayne’s book, Black Girls Must Die Exhausted is the first of a three-book series following the story of a modern black woman as she navigates countless themes; mental health, relationships, fertility, finances, race, and so much more. Tune in to this amazing conversation with Jayne to learn about her writing career, the inspiration behind the themes in her book, and what her advice is for young women.
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Oct 28, 202152:12

My Journey With MS
My Journey With MS
Welcome back to Too Smart For This! In today’s episode, I am talking about my experience living with multiple sclerosis (MS). I break down what MS is, my diagnosis and treatment, and how living with an autoimmune disease has impacted my relationship with my body. If you or a loved one are living with MS, I hope this episode can serve as a resource and a reminder that you are not alone!
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Oct 21, 202118:43

Owning Her Identity IRL & Online with Kendra Austin
Owning Her Identity IRL & Online with Kendra Austin
Welcome back to Too Smart For This! In today’s episode, I am joined by influencer, writer, and self proclaimed fat, black, and queer person, Kendra Austin. Having first created her online presence as a teenager on Tumblr, Kendra has been on a mission to adapt her social media platforms as her identity has evolved. Throughout this episode, Kendra talks about her healing journey from trauma, the nuances of being an influencer who is figuring out who she is, how she has curated her community, and the ways she is sharing her voice through writing.
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Oct 14, 202101:07:47

The Years Behind An Overnight Success with Kelsey Kotzur
The Years Behind An Overnight Success with Kelsey Kotzur
Welcome back to Too Smart For This! In today’s episode, I am joined by one of my all-time favorite influencers, Kelsey Kotzur. Kelsey’s platform is a captivating combination of fashion, film, and body positivity. However, there’s always more to someone than what we see online. Throughout this episode Kelsey talks about the lessons she learned from growing up without much money, learning to love her body through weight fluctuation, and the scandal that led to her TikTok rise. Kelsey’s story is a reminder that hard work pays off, our bodies deserve love, and that you’re too smart for anyone who doesn’t support you!
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Oct 07, 202142:11

45. how to manage your finances while living your life with @financesreimagined
45. how to manage your finances while living your life with @financesreimagined
Hello everyone! In todays episode we have my fellow Northwestern Grad and Googler Ceci Marshall, the face behind Finances Reimagined. Ceci is all about a smart approach to managing your money, and she delivers it in such a digestible way. We talk through her background, what to do when you start making money for the first time and start form ), and how to build wealth long term. Check her out at @financesreimagined and let me know what you think!Ceci’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/financesreimagined/?hl=en I Will Teach You To Be Rich: https://amzn.to/3u3E2zU Atomic Habits: https://amzn.to/39yLSIq My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=en Follow Too Smart For This on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/urtoosmartforthis/?hl=en My TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=en My YouTube:Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review!
Sep 23, 202149:34

Your Job Doesn’t Equal Your Worth: What I’ve Learned 1 Year into the Workforce
Your Job Doesn’t Equal Your Worth: What I’ve Learned 1 Year into the Workforce
In this episode, we talk about my first year at Google and what I’ve learned about how to survive the Corporate world. If you come from an environment that is very traditional or are worried about your impact as a new or seasoned corporate worker, this episode is for you!Download my brag brag book: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfOmi-tRtyQfJGYQv9zDiHflHyEar3_MOQOPxfTliQcobZyhw/viewform If you like this episode, please rate & subscribe, and follow us on Instagram @urtoosmartforthis.FOLLOW ME:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=en TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=en BUSINESS CONTACT - alexis@alexisbarberFAQ:Hi! I’m Alexis, a 22 year old working in big tech and a lifestyle content creator focused on realistic fashion, finances, and career in NYC. I love sharing advice, my life, and the realities of my world. Please feel free to DM me on IG or comment if you have any questions :) love you!
Sep 09, 202112:50

Do it for You, Bestie: What I’ve Learned from a Year on Social Media
Do it for You, Bestie: What I’ve Learned from a Year on Social Media
Around a year ago, I got a small following on Instagram and I’ve been navigating this world ever sense. What’s most important though, is that my life is mine, and I live for me, and I can’t control other people’s opinions of me. Whether you’re an influencer or just a woman in this world, these are some words to live by when it comes to managing your emotions in an interconnected world.If you like this episode, please rate & subscribe, and follow us on Instagram @urtoosmartforthis.FOLLOW ME:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=en TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=en BUSINESS CONTACT - alexis@alexisbarberFAQ:Hi! I’m Alexis, a 22 year old working in big tech and a lifestyle content creator focused on realistic fashion, finances, and career in NYC. I love sharing advice, my life, and the realities of my world. Please feel free to DM me on IG or comment if you have any questions :) love you!
Sep 02, 202119:36

42. @BalancedLes on Wellness for Black Women, starting @BalancedBlackGirl, and How She Manages Emotions Effectively
42. @BalancedLes on Wellness for Black Women, starting @BalancedBlackGirl, and How She Manages Emotions Effectively
“You’re Too Smart to compare yourself to other people” says Les, founder of the Balanced Black Girl podcast and a longtime fitness and wellness lover. We chat how she came to be so “zen”, her mission with her popular podcast Balanced Black Girl, and the realities of being Black content creators in the wellness space. If you like this episode, please rate, review, and follow, it means the world! Follow Les on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/balancedles/?hl=en Follow Balanced Black Girl Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/balancedblackgirlpodcast/?hl=en Read: “We Should All Be Millionaires” https://amzn.to/2XOZXyI Listen to the Expanded Podcast: https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast FOLLOW ME:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=en TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=en Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/urtoosmartforthis/?hl=en
Aug 26, 202145:24

41. Alexa Jay (@flexylexxxy) on Building Confidence, Becoming an Influencer & Midsize Model, and Dating in LA
41. Alexa Jay (@flexylexxxy) on Building Confidence, Becoming an Influencer & Midsize Model, and Dating in LA
“You’re too smart for Stupid Boys” says Alexa Jay McCoy, a mixed influencer from LA that shares with us how she grew to almost 50k on TikTok, quit her job to became a model working with brands like Monday Swimwear, and grew her confidence and self love after a traumatizing relationship. Alexa’s TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@flexylexxxy?lang=en Alexa’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexaaamccoy/?hl=en Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=en Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=en Follow the Podcast’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/urtoosmartforthis/?hl=en Inquiries: alexis@alexisbarber.com
Aug 19, 202147:57

40. Q&A: Boarding School, Moving in With My Boyfriend, Plastic Surgery
40. Q&A: Boarding School, Moving in With My Boyfriend, Plastic Surgery
Besties! Today I’m answering ALL of your questions from IG this week. We dive into relationships, boarding school, work, and fashion. Let me know what you think and don’t forget to like & subscriber
Aug 15, 202118:03

39. @nocarbsforsam talks WW, Owning your Personality on Instagram, and Dating in NYC
39. @nocarbsforsam talks WW, Owning your Personality on Instagram, and Dating in NYC
Girlies! One of my favorite Instagram friends Sam, founder and face of @nocarbsforsam, is on today to chat love, life, and carbs! I love her so much and I am sure you will too. To support us, follow us both on socials and let us know what you think of this episode by subscribing and rating!Follow Sam here: https://www.instagram.com/nocarbsforsam/?hl=en Follow Me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=en. Follow Me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=en Contact me: alexis@alexisbarber.com www.alexisbarber.com/contactSubscribe to my YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7-YnRrflV9g6nLMWUkwDtA
Aug 12, 202137:45
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38. 4 Crucial Tips to Survive the Corporate World with Alexis Barber [+ my exact tools!]
38. 4 Crucial Tips to Survive the Corporate World with Alexis Barber [+ my exact tools!]
Baddies! You are too smart to not protect yourself and own your narrative at your corporate job, Here’s my top 4 tips for surviving your first, or fifth job post grad! To download my free project tracker, visit this link: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfOmi-tRtyQfJGYQv9zDiHflHyEar3_MOQOPxfTliQcobZyhw/viewform?usp=sf_link For more post grad tips, check out this video: https://youtu.be/kMvK6KgT6fs Follow Me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=en Follow Me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=en Contact me: alexis@alexisbarber.comSubscribe to my YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7-YnRrflV9g6nLMWUkwDtA
Aug 08, 202113:12

37. How Lynette Adkins Channeled Her Spirituality to Skyrocket her Platform & Leave Corporate America
37. How Lynette Adkins Channeled Her Spirituality to Skyrocket her Platform & Leave Corporate America
She grew 70k YouTube Subscribers in 4 months! Lynette Adkins (@lynetteadki) is one of my favorite content creators and we have a LOT in common, so I was so excited to see ewe blow up on YouTube and build her brand. In this episode, we talk the struggles of being a content creator, the realities of working in big tech, her journey with spirituality, and her most recent growth on social media. Her current favorite podcast: HindsigntBook she’s reading: Blood In Their EyeLynette’s YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCe9i90wu-MA0cKraf6X0v6Q Lynette’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lynetteadki/?hl=en Lynette’s TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lynetteadkins?lang=en Follow Me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=enFollow Too Smart For This on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/urtoosmartforthis/?hl=en Follow Me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=en Contact me: alexis@alexisbarber.com www.alexisbarber.com/contactSubscribe to my YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7-YnRrflV9g6nLMWUkwDtA
Aug 05, 202143:12

36. My 3 Step Trick for Managing Anxiety & Building Confidence
36. My 3 Step Trick for Managing Anxiety & Building Confidence
BESTIES! I am soooo thrilled to be back creating content for the podcast! I have missed you dearly and cannot wait for you to hear the amazing guests we have lined up for the rest of the year.In today’s episode, we discuss my life updates [TIME] and how I came to realize my biggest blocker. Then, I share with you my 3 step method for managing my anxiety, which I’ve had a ton of over the last months!PLEASE subscribe, like, and review and find TSFT on YouTube and Instagram for more! DM me on Insta if you want to chat about all of this
Aug 01, 202113:49

How to Navigate Long Distance, Money Differences, and Find Your Person with My Boyfriend of 4 Years, Jeff!
How to Navigate Long Distance, Money Differences, and Find Your Person with My Boyfriend of 4 Years, Jeff!
This episode is brought to you by Binto: Shop now at www.mybinto.com and use code ALEXIS20 for 20% off!I speak with my boyfriend Jeff about how we met, and how we’ve navigated the last four years through college, long-distance, and living apart in NYC now.We talk communication, making space for each other, and how we’ve lasted through anxiety, hardship, and money differences.Follow Too Smart For This on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/urtoosmartforthis/?hl=en Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=en Follow Dr Alexandra Solomon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.alexandra.solomon/?hl=en The pod will be back this fall! Love you all
May 11, 202142:29

Michelle Pellizzon, Holisticism Founder, on Building an Intuitive and Inclusive Wellness Brand with Spiritual Tools & Anticapitalist Values
Michelle Pellizzon, Holisticism Founder, on Building an Intuitive and Inclusive Wellness Brand with Spiritual Tools & Anticapitalist Values
Today’s episode is with Michelle Pellizzon, the HWIC and founder of Holisticism, an wellness company that takes an intellectual and inclusive approach to wellness. Through memberships like The Cusp (a heaven for wellness lovers and skeptics) and Courses like The North Node, Michelle and her incredible team critique wellness trends and teach you how to build your own intuitive business. I personally love their podcast, The Twelfth House, which has boundless knowledge and incredible guests.Listen to The Twelfth House here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-twelfth-house/id1537579483Follow Michelle: https://www.instagram.com/michellepellizzon/ Follow Holisticism: https://www.instagram.com/holisticism/ Check out Holisticism’s offerings: https://www.holisticism.com/ Follow me: Follow Me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=enFollow Me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=enContact me: alexis@alexisbarber.com www.alexisbarber.com/contact20% off Binto: www.mybinto.com promo code: ALEXIS20
May 04, 202157:07

33. Staying True to Myself Amidst Influencer Culture, Capitalism, and the Corporate World
33. Staying True to Myself Amidst Influencer Culture, Capitalism, and the Corporate World
In this episode, I talk about how learning more about myself has led to a frustration with Influencer culture, capitalism, and being myself at work. It’s super difficult to navigate, but I hope this reassures you you’re not alone.Follow Me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=enFollow Me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=enContact me: alexis@alexisbarber.com www.alexisbarber.com/contactSubscribe to my YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7-YnRrflV9g6nLMWUkwDtA
Apr 30, 202114:04

32. How @astasiawill Built a Career In Sports Media From Tweeting
32. How @astasiawill Built a Career In Sports Media From Tweeting
In this episode, I talk to my fellow Northwestern friend and sports media journalist Astasia Williams about how she built a career from her own Twitter profile and went on to work for major sports brands. Check her out on Twitter here:https://twitter.com/AstasiaWillFollow Me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=enFollow Me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=enContact me: alexis@alexisbarber.com www.alexisbarber.com/contact
Apr 27, 202132:40

How To Get Your First Job Post Grad
How To Get Your First Job Post Grad
Hi all! This is an episode giving you the steps I recommend for getting the job you want, especially if you’re in college or a new post-grad. This is the audio from my YouTube channel, where you can watch the video in full: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7-YnRrflV9g6nLMWUkwDtA/videosDownload the guide here: https://www.alexisbarber.com/blog/download-the-guide-to-get-your-first-job-post-grad Follow Me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=enFollow Me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=enContact me: alexis@alexisbarber.com www.alexisbarber.com/contact
Apr 23, 202109:49

30. Helen Phelan on Intuitive Exercise and Building a Digital Business in a Pandemic
30. Helen Phelan on Intuitive Exercise and Building a Digital Business in a Pandemic
Helen Phelan is a body neutral intuitive pilates instructor and founder of digital pilates and mindful fitness platform, Helen Phelan Studio. As an ex professional dancer and eating disorder survivor, Helen's approach to exercise is based on her lived experience that diet culture and the no excuses mindset keeps people stuck in a bad body image loop that makes them dread movement- despite its mood and energy boosting benefits.She refined her methodology so that it could not only fit into her life in a non-harmful way post recovery, but to support others heal their relationships with movement and their own bodies + feel strong, empowered with intuitive exercise. She works with clients 1:1, in groups, workshops, and through her on demand platform to help people stop thinking of exercise as a way to burn off food and instead as a self-care tool to feel your best, both mentally and physically.She's been featured in InStyle, HuffingtonPost, Well+Good, Coveteur, MindBodyGreen and when not on her mat, Helen is often found rewatching musicals, snuggling with her rescue pup, or hiking in the Catskills.Online Studio/Booking Live Sessions and Classes: HelenPhelanStudio.com50% off first month of HPS with code TOOSMART: https://tv.helenphelanstudio.com/orders/customer_info?o=51621 (valid on Essentials Plus Monthly only)Blog: HelenPhelanStudio.com/journalCatskills Summer Retreat: https://HelenPhelanStudio.com/hps-retreatFree 5 Step Guide To Stop Using Exercise As Punishment And Learn To Love Your Practice: https://helenphelanstudio.com/learn-to-love-your-practiceHolisticism Profitable Content Creator Lab: (affiliate!) https://michelle-509f.mykajabi.com/a/2147485023/riozxc2NFree HPS Community Anti Diet Culture Support + Accountability Group: https://helen-phelan-studio.mn.co/share/SOQ5b_GJ-u1J94nJ?utm_source=manualFree HPS Community Events: https://www.eventbrite.com/o/helen-phelan-studio-32457719665
Apr 20, 202132:51

29. @BalanceByKrystle on Being a Nurse During the Pandemic, Learning to Love Yourself, and Her Natural Hair Journey
29. @BalanceByKrystle on Being a Nurse During the Pandemic, Learning to Love Yourself, and Her Natural Hair Journey
In this episode, I talk to my friend Krystle @balancebykrystle about her journey to becoming a nurse and what it was like to cope during the deadly Covid-19 Pandemic. She gives us tips on self-care and how she creates the stunning feed @balancebykrystle, and she shares even more about how she’s grown through her natural hair journey. Follow her on Instagram below!Krystle’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/balancebykrystle/?hl=enFollow Me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=enFollow Me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=enContact me: alexis@alexisbarber.com www.alexisbarber.com/contact
Apr 13, 202135:53

28. The Truth About Being a Black Content Creator
28. The Truth About Being a Black Content Creator
In this episode, I dive into something that’s been bothering me about content creation for a while. Feel free to leave me your thoughts on my IG! Follow Me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=enFollow Me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=enContact me: alexis@alexisbarber.com www.alexisbarber.com/contact
Apr 09, 202115:01

27. @justjazzzyidk talks TikTok Growth, her Real Estate Career, Confidence and Identity
27. @justjazzzyidk talks TikTok Growth, her Real Estate Career, Confidence and Identity
In this episode, I sit down with my friend Jazmyn Smith aka @justjazzyidk to discuss her growth on TikTok, our love of Grey’s anatomy, her notable career in real estate, and navigating identity and confidence as a mixed woman with a white mom. Check me out on her podcast, Bringing Baggage, and follow us at social links below!Jazzy’s TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@justjazzzyidk?lang=enJazzy’s IG: https://www.instagram.com/justjazzzyidk/?hl=enMy Episode on Bringing Baggage: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/toosmartforthis-host-alexis-barber-chats-me-about-relationships/id1553686410?i=1000513056303Follow Me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=enFollow Me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=enContact me: alexis@alexisbarber.com www.alexisbarber.com/contact
Apr 06, 202155:26

26. How @kiarablanchette Wrote 2 Poetry Books, Started an Online Editorial Company, and a Wine Business At 22
26. How @kiarablanchette Wrote 2 Poetry Books, Started an Online Editorial Company, and a Wine Business At 22
Kiara Blanchette is a young Black beauty creator based in Montreal. By the time she was 18, she self published a bestselling poetry book and ever since, has interviewed people like Jen Atkin and Hoda Kattan for her editorial company, Pure Opulence. After suffering from burnout at a young age, she’s been revived during the pandemic and started Opulent Wines. You can listen to her podcast, Twenty Nothing, and follow her @kiarablanchette on Instagram!
Mar 30, 202139:14

25. How To Navigate “Post-Pandemic” Body Anxiety
25. How To Navigate “Post-Pandemic” Body Anxiety
Hi loves! I really wanted this to be a recording of the Clubhouse room I did with Sami and Cameron this week, but the audio just wouldn’t work :( Instead, I’m sharing my experience with post-pandemic body anxiety and general anxiety in hopes it gives you something to look forward to and some tools to move into this new world with. Sending love!Follow Cameron on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/freckledfoodie/?hl=enFollow Sami on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sami/?hl=enFollow Me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=enFollow Me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=enContact me: alexis@alexisbarber.com www.alexisbarber.com/contactBook a consult with me: www.alexisbarber.com/consultations
Mar 27, 202112:23

24. Co-Founders of KARITE Shea Butter on How to Start a Business with Family while Working Full Time and How Black Women Do It All
24. Co-Founders of KARITE Shea Butter on How to Start a Business with Family while Working Full Time and How Black Women Do It All
Hi All! In todays episode, I sit down with Akua, Abena, and Naana, co-founders of Karite Shea Butter, a luxurious body care brand with naturally sourced Shea butter from Ghana. These three sisters started their business together in 2017 while working full time as a businesswoman, lawyer, and dermatologist, respectively, and have maintained their business while juggling motherhood over the last four years. Tune in to hear their self care tips, how to go about starting your own business with family, and how they manage to do it all. You can shop Karite at www.mykarite.com and follow them on Instagram @mykarite.
Mar 23, 202151:31

22. @lanibfit on Social Media Growth, Intuitive Eating, And Journaling For Self Care
22. @lanibfit on Social Media Growth, Intuitive Eating, And Journaling For Self Care
In this episode, I talk to my friend Allana Blumberg about how she went from an obsessive fitness junkie to an intuitive eater and mover who’s balanced school, work and taking over TikTok, Instagram, and YouTube. Check her out below and shop her merch, too!Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/lanibfit/?hl=enTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@allanarae?language=en&sec_uid=MS4wLjABAAAAhMwHwE360_PJ84r7f2jgRtcQZOOz3UWURSNVzqPAzhvqUrjFW4_NiwMyPLHy0XiY&u_code=da2775f3f52214&utm_campaign=client_share&app=musically&utm_medium=ios&user_id=6773827605826618373&tt_from=copy&utm_source=copy&source=h5_mYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCyAZS6mN2V5oRCtfv96kYpAPodcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/morning-rae/id1539989825
Mar 16, 202144:54

21. What Meghan Markle & Being Mixed Have Taught Me About Advocating For Myself, Setting Boundaries & Self Love During the Pandemic
21. What Meghan Markle & Being Mixed Have Taught Me About Advocating For Myself, Setting Boundaries & Self Love During the Pandemic
In this episode, I recap how a year ago I was in a very dark place and the tools that being isolated in the pandemic gave me. We touch on the recent Meghan Markle interview and dive into boundaries and self love, especially when you're mixed but one half of your family is racist (boundaries needed!)
Mar 12, 202118:45

20. Astrology For Self Discovery with @maxineluzia
20. Astrology For Self Discovery with @maxineluzia
Hi loves! Todays’s episode is with astrologer Maxine Luzia, host of Astrology & You Podcast. She’s a professional astrologer who I became obsessed with after listening to her amazing podcast that she co-hosts with Alice Bell. Their podcast is such a gem of a resource for anyone who is getting into astrology, and after connecting with Maxine, I booked a reading with her where I got an in-depth understanding of my birth chart. We unpacked my Sagittarius stellium and my career purpose and I was able to see the biggest challenges I’ve had to overcome (internally & externally!) in a new light. If you want to learn more about astrology or to book a reading with Maxine, you can find the links below:Listen to Astrology & You: https://www.maxineluzia.com/podcastBook a Reading with Maxine Luzia: https://www.maxineluzia.com/Follow Maxine Luzia on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/maxineluzia/Follow Me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=enFollow Me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=enContact me: alexis@alexisbarber.com www.alexisbarber.com/contactBook a consult with me: www.alexisbarber.com/consultations
Mar 09, 202158:00

19. @LisaHayim on Our Brains and Food, Anti-Diet Culture, and Cultivating Self-Love
19. @LisaHayim on Our Brains and Food, Anti-Diet Culture, and Cultivating Self-Love
I talk to my friend and Registered Dietitian Lisa Hayim about the neuroscience associated with our food choices, how to overcome and move away from controlling food choices, and the societal norms she loves and hates. Follow her @lisahayim!
Mar 02, 202146:40

18. Q&A Part 2: Dieting, Having MS, and How I Got Into Content Creation
18. Q&A Part 2: Dieting, Having MS, and How I Got Into Content Creation
Feb 26, 202116:46

17. Q&A Pt 1: Budgeting, How I Got My Job, and My Move to NYC
17. Q&A Pt 1: Budgeting, How I Got My Job, and My Move to NYC
In this episode, I get into my move to NYC, how I budget, and how I got my job at Google. You can find all links here: alexisbarber.com/linksThis is the book I recommend for budgeting: I Will Teach You To Be Rich https://amzn.to/3qQVF3q
Feb 23, 202126:08

16. Lola Adewuya, founder of @thebranddoula, on Starting A Design Studio, Achieving & Setting Goals, and Corporate Job Realities
16. Lola Adewuya, founder of @thebranddoula, on Starting A Design Studio, Achieving & Setting Goals, and Corporate Job Realities
This week, I interview my friend and coworker Lola Adewuya, the founder of thebranddoula. She and I interned at Google together and both work there full time, and we dive into everything from when the “Dream Job” is boring, building your own business, and tips for anyone looking to start their own design journey. Check her out at https://thebranddoula.co/!
Feb 16, 202151:31

15. Why Do We Love Black Women’s Culture, but Fail to Love Them or Allow Them To Love Themselves?
15. Why Do We Love Black Women’s Culture, but Fail to Love Them or Allow Them To Love Themselves?
In this episode, I talk about society’s love to appropriate Black women’s culture and aesthetics, but their failure to show up for Black female humanity - as represented through the lack of support for them in every industry, the high rate of deaths for Black Trans Women, and the abuse, neglect, and failure to support Black women in the medical field as well. Stereotypes like the “strong” and “angry” Black woman are what are keeping us from accepting Black women, and I tell stories of how that has changed my life and kept me from being my full self too.
Feb 12, 202119:16

14. @insidethenout Founder Nya Jones on Self-Reflection, Starting a Product-Based Business While Working at Facebook, and Stepping Into Your Power as a Black Woman
14. @insidethenout Founder Nya Jones on Self-Reflection, Starting a Product-Based Business While Working at Facebook, and Stepping Into Your Power as a Black Woman
In this episode, I speak with my friend Nya Jones, the creator of the Inside Then Out Journal, a 365 page journal with prompts for daily self reflection. We discuss her story with journaling, how she started and grew her business during a pandemic while working full time as a product specialist for Facebook, and the struggles we face as Black women working in Big Tech. You can find the journals, restocked today, at insidethenout.com!
Feb 09, 202156:13

13. The Roots of Diet Culture: Racism & Fatphobia
13. The Roots of Diet Culture: Racism & Fatphobia
In this episode, I talk about the origins of diet culture, and discuss how closely it is associated with racism. Sources for this episode can be found here:https://simibotic.com/a-brief-history-of-diet-culture/https://www.intheknow.com/2020/07/13/unpacking-the-racist-roots-of-fat-phobia-and-diet-culture/ https://academic.oup.com/ajcn/article/71/6/1392/4729362 https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1038/oby.2010.319 https://www.mayoclinicproceedings.org/article/S0025-6196(19)30352-0/abstract Fearing the Black Body https://www.amazon.com/Fearing-Black-Body-Racial-Origins/dp/1479886750 Anti Diet https://christyharrison.com/book-anti-diet-intuitive-eating-christy-harrison https://www.mindful-nutrition.com/white-supremacy-and-diet-culture/
Feb 05, 202117:13

12. @camarynalejandra on The Pressures of Instagram, Social Justice & Climate Activism, and Growing Into Your Authenticity as A Black Person in a Non-Black Environment
12. @camarynalejandra on The Pressures of Instagram, Social Justice & Climate Activism, and Growing Into Your Authenticity as A Black Person in a Non-Black Environment
In this episode, I talk with my friend Camaryn of @camaynalejandra about her Instagram activism, the pressures of growing on social media, and her journey of growing into herself after stifling her personality in primarily white environments. https://www.instagram.com/camarynalejandra/Follow her on Instagram and check us out for more!
Feb 02, 202151:27

11. 6 Months after Ditching Dieting: I Still Don’t Love My Body
11. 6 Months after Ditching Dieting: I Still Don’t Love My Body
In this episode, I talk about my history with dieting, and discuss how I’ve started coping with body image issues ever since giving up dieting in 2020.
Jan 29, 202114:31

10. @sami on Betches’ Evolution, Today’s Politics, and Letting Go of Dieting
10. @sami on Betches’ Evolution, Today’s Politics, and Letting Go of Dieting
In this episode, I speak with my IG friend and big inspiration, Sami Sage. We get into today’s politics and the future of the democratic party, diet culture, and the evolution of her company, Betches.
Jan 26, 202157:47

09. @bykwest on Blackness in the Wellness Space, Managing 3 Jobs, and Launching A Business
09. @bykwest on Blackness in the Wellness Space, Managing 3 Jobs, and Launching A Business
Kira West is a content creator and community cultivator who’s passion is making wellness inclusive. Kira is a proud Black woman with Caribbean roots born and raised in Brooklyn, NY.Her journey into wellness began with an adventurous spirit and an insatiable desire to travel. Kira was determined to find all of the opportunities she could to experience the world. Her fearless spirit allowed her to travel the world, exploring 6 continents and over 40 countries, often solo. Kira’s love of travel influenced her desire to investigate ways to seek balance in her life and live most optimally. Her journey to seek and define balance was intertwined with Kira’s desire to define for herself the meaning of wellness. Her experience led her to focus on not only travel but fitness and running. These then became the elements that defined Kira’s idea of wellness.Kira asked herself the question, what does a “well” life really look like. As she searched for these answers she found that it is truly different for everyone but it can include fitness, travel, varying forms of self-care, relationships, friendships and new experiences. Kira found that her personal definition of wellness included travel and fitness. Kira, upon defining these elements, also found that often Black and other underserved communities were not included in conversations surrounding wellness, travel or fitness. As Kira began to delve into the lack of diversity and inclusion within the wellness space, she became even more passionate about making wellness inclusive for all. She wants to empower people to seek their own definitions of wellness while also making the space more inclusive. She firmly believes wellness is a right for all and not an exclusive privilege for some.
Jan 19, 202151:05

08. @norajmaxwell on 3 Ways to Be a Better Ally and Breaking Down Systemic Racism on Instagram
08. @norajmaxwell on 3 Ways to Be a Better Ally and Breaking Down Systemic Racism on Instagram
Nora is a 24-year-old activist using her Instagram account to help white & non-Black POC be better allies. She works full-time as the Director of Growth + Admissions at Rivet School, a California-based nonprofit that helps Black and brown, low-income, first-generation working adults earn an accelerated and affordable college degree to unlock economic mobility.
Jan 12, 202158:16

07. The Problem With Not Getting Political
07. The Problem With Not Getting Political
In this episode, I talk about my frustration with large white influencers who refuse to "get political."
Jan 08, 202116:12

06. Ali Bonar @avokween on Comparison, Body Image, and Launching a Product Based Business Kween & Co
06. Ali Bonar @avokween on Comparison, Body Image, and Launching a Product Based Business Kween & Co
In this episode I talk to Kween Ali about recovering from eating disorder/disordered eating thoughts, comparing ourselves to others, and how she invented a delicious food product that's now sold in Whole Foods. Check out Kween & Co Granola Butter and follow Ali on instagram!
Jan 05, 202150:18

05. How I’m Setting Goals for 2021 + New Templates!
05. How I’m Setting Goals for 2021 + New Templates!
In this episode, we touch on what I learned in 2020 and how it's helping me set more intentional goals for 2021.
Dec 31, 202017:31

04. @SkinnyHangover on Growing on Instagram, Balanced Eating after Dieting, and Launching her First Product
04. @SkinnyHangover on Growing on Instagram, Balanced Eating after Dieting, and Launching her First Product
I talk to my friend Olivia from @SkinnyHangover about what it’s like to transition into balanced eating after diet culture’s restrictive mindset, launching her first Product (Happy & Healthy Planner linked in her Amazon store!) and how she grew on Instagram.
Dec 29, 202038:28

03. My Dietitian @lisamnutrition on 3 Ways to Heal from Disordered Eating, Get Rid of Body Bias, and It’s Okay to Want to Lose Weight, Too!
03. My Dietitian @lisamnutrition on 3 Ways to Heal from Disordered Eating, Get Rid of Body Bias, and It’s Okay to Want to Lose Weight, Too!
I brought in my very own dietitian @lisamnutrution to talk all things about healing your relationship with food while recovering from disordered eating. She gives tangible ways to do so without a dietitian, including working on overcoming body bias. Follow her on instagram @lisamnutrition, and if you want, you can work with her at NY Nutrition Group. She accepts a few major insurances!
Dec 25, 202037:28

02. @freckledfoodie on Pregnancy, Relationships, and Getting Political on Instagram
02. @freckledfoodie on Pregnancy, Relationships, and Getting Political on Instagram
In this episode, I talk to my friend Cameron Rogers of @freckledfoodie about her recent pregnancy announcement, her long term relationship with her husband, and what it means to get political on instagram. Check her out on Instagram @freckledfoodie!
Dec 22, 202056:09

Episode 01: Too Smart For This
Episode 01: Too Smart For This
Welcome to the first episode of Too Smart for This with me, Alexis Barber! In this episode, we dive into my journey with insecurity and diet culture, how our generation puts on facades to appeal to others, and talk about the journey I’ve been on the last year in developing my own self-love and value system. We also talk about what to expect from this show in the future. Enjoy!
Dec 05, 202014:54