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UNITED State of Women

UNITED State of Women

By Kalena James & Julie Deem

UNITED State of Women is a personal leadership development podcast focused on educating and elevating women's ability to have it all and teach them how to get it! Our USW Podcast transforms personal and professional leadership frustrations for progress into visions for a better one. Women are uniting, starting businesses, and growing companies at a pace faster than ever before. They are at the table in more executive boardrooms, speaking out on more important personal and business issues and becoming key contenders and players in our state and local gov.
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174 - It's About Time You Get Comfortable Being Uncomfortable

UNITED State of WomenMay 24, 2023

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174 - It's About Time You Get Comfortable Being Uncomfortable
May 24, 202320:23
173 - Seeing Someone for Who They Are
May 17, 202333:11
172 - Check Your Mind
May 10, 202326:43
171 - Hitting Reset
May 03, 202318:49
170 - Self-Sabotage 5 Common Behaviors According to Psychology *Best of Episode*
Apr 26, 202319:16
169 - Productivity Hacks to MAXIMIZE Your Day *Best of Episode*
Apr 19, 202323:17
168 - Principles of Servant Leadership *Best of Episode*
Apr 12, 202321:12
 167 - 7 Self-Improvement Actions All Leaders Must Take *Best of Episode*
Apr 05, 202319:07
166 - See the Stepping Stones with Jenee Harlow from Health by Harlow
Mar 29, 202319:59
165 - Overworked and Overwhelmed *Best of Episode*
Mar 22, 202325:27
164 - Celebrate Your Success
Mar 15, 202308:19
163 - Business Principles for Female Leaders *Best of Episode*
Mar 08, 202320:53
162 - Rise from the Ashes with Miss South Tampa 2023, Kristin Tomasello
Mar 01, 202328:52
161 - Harness Your Personal Professional Brand *Best of Episode*
Feb 22, 202325:58
160 - Find Your Hungry *Best of Episode*
Feb 15, 202334:13
159 - How to Retain Your Tribe Through Servant Leadership *Best of Episode*
Feb 08, 202314:02
158 - All Things SEO is Sweet, Holly's Story
Feb 01, 202318:23
157 - Find YOUR Public Speaking Voice *Best of Episode*
Jan 25, 202318:40
156 - Decide to Choose, Graciela's Story
Jan 18, 202333:27
155 - Life After Death with Patrice Graves Part 4
Jan 11, 202316:39
154 - Life After Death with Patrice Graves Part 3
Jan 04, 202314:33
153 - Life After Death with Patrice Graves Part 2
Dec 28, 202219:02
152 - Life After Death with Patrice Graves Part 1
Dec 21, 202219:14
151 - True North Women's Ministry Event with Jennifer Bingaman
Dec 14, 202220:17
150 - Celebrating 150 Episodes!!!!
Dec 07, 202217:08
149 - True North Women's Ministry Event with Quiana Preston
Nov 30, 202223:26
148 - True North Women's Ministry Event with Wilda Buckley
Nov 23, 202211:19
147 - True North Women's Ministry Event with Megan Rawlings
Nov 16, 202219:15
146 - True North Women's Ministry Event with Alta Blake
Nov 09, 202210:46
145 - Global Leadership Summit 2022 Interview with Kylie Salsbery
Nov 02, 202207:11
144 - Global Leadership Summit 2022 Interview with Eileen Hulme, Chancellor at Indiana Wesleyan University

144 - Global Leadership Summit 2022 Interview with Eileen Hulme, Chancellor at Indiana Wesleyan University

In August, Kalena James and I attended the simulcasted Global Leadership Summit hosted in Kokomo, Indiana by Crossroads Community Church. In this mini series, we are sharing interviews from that event.

Eileen Hulme is the Indiana Wesleyan University Chancellor.

Connect with Eileen Hulme on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/eileen-hulme

More information about Indiana Wesleyan University: https://degrees.indwes.edu/

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Huge thank you to Crossroads Community Church for hosting this amazing event and for inviting us!!

Learn more about Crossroads Community Church: https://ecrossroads.org/

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USW Podcast @uswkokomo

Kalena James @yesitskalenajames

Julie Deem @indymompreneur

USW Kokomo Website

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Oct 26, 202211:05
143 - Global Leadership Summit 2022 Interview with Monica Bush, Founder and Executive Director of Legendary Smiles
Oct 19, 202211:56
142 - Global Leadership Summit 2022 Interview with Theresa Veach Director of Programs in Department of Behavioral Science at Indiana Wesleyan University
Oct 12, 202207:26
141 - Global Leadership Summit 2022 Interview with Erin Lee Geiselman Director of Masters of Science and Nursing for non-nurse practitioner tracks at Indiana University Kokomo
Oct 05, 202213:17
140 - Global Leadership Summit 2022 Interview with Jon Sampson, Ph.D. Regional Director at Indiana Wesleyan University
Sep 28, 202207:39
139 - Global Leadership Summit 2022 Interview Jean Merrell from The Way
Sep 21, 202208:47
138 - Global Leadership Summit 2022 Interview Carla Biro from Indiana Wesleyan University
Sep 14, 202207:16
137 - Global Leadership Summit 2022 Interview with Jennifer Bingaman from Cross America
Sep 07, 202212:03
136 - Don't Hide Your Gifts with The Cheesecake Lady, Cassie Smith-Johnson
Aug 31, 202219:60
135 - Lead Like it Matters, Birthday Special

135 - Lead Like it Matters, Birthday Special

Aug 24, 202232:42
134 - Marketing Your Online Business with Caitlin Durning from Meraki Media Management
Aug 17, 202227:17
133 - Strategies for Discipline
Aug 11, 202223:43
132 - Transformative Power of Communication with Colleen Kendrick
Aug 03, 202220:01
131 - Creating Your Energy Vision

131 - Creating Your Energy Vision

How do you take a vision and generate the energy to reach the goals you see for yourself? Kalena James and Julie Deem share tips around how you can create your energy vision.

"Energy leadership is their energetic presence. It is who you are and what you default to at the end of the day and how you're energetically made up in order to really see how you see the world." -Kalena James


If you're in Kokomo, Indiana, Crossroads Community Church is hosting this year's Global Leadership Summit and we're so excited to share that we will be there hosting a live podcast event. This year's topic is: "Voice Your Vision" and is a great opportunity to take the next step in your vision.

The global leadership summit is the premier leadership event of the year. And it brings you and your team a two-day catalytic experience of rich learning, new ideas, fresh perspective, and inspiring stories from leading experts, spanning a wide range of fields and backgrounds.

This is an in-person and virtual event. For ticket information go to: https://globalleadership.org/global-leadership-summit/


Huge thank you to Crossroads Community Church for hosting this amazing event and for inviting us!!

Learn more about Crossroads Community Church: https://ecrossroads.org/


Instagram:

USW Podcast @uswkokomo

Kalena James @yesitskalenajames

Julie Deem @indymompreneur

USW Kokomo Website

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Jul 27, 202214:55
130 - Break Free From Your Dirty Little Secret with Gretchen Hydo
Jul 20, 202220:51
129 - Purposeful Goal Setting
Jul 13, 202218:34
128 - Outside of the Comfort Zone with Liz Carver
Jul 06, 202217:18
127 - 5 Hard Truths That Made Me Stronger
Jun 29, 202231:48
126 - You Can and You Will with Brenda Barnett
Jun 22, 202224:42
125 - Difference is Attitude
Jun 15, 202220:16
124 - Road Trip: Thriving on Vacation with Kids
Jun 08, 202209:34
123 - Breakup to Breakthrough with Zara Marin Franks
Jun 01, 202225:36
122 - My Journey to Podfest 22' - 5 Reasons to Bet on Yourself
May 25, 202208:42
121 - Turning No's into Heck Yes' with Tiphany Kane
May 18, 202221:04
120 - Check Your Mind
May 11, 202225:52
119 - Mind Your Menstrual with Charity Rodgers
May 04, 202216:46
118 - Business Principles for Female Leaders
Apr 27, 202220:03
117 - Stress Less with Carlee Myers
Apr 20, 202233:56
116 - Productivity Hacks to MAXIMIZE Your Day
Apr 13, 202222:26
115 - Your Voice Matters with Founder and Editor-in-Chief of Women Who Podcast Magazine, Kathy Barron
Apr 06, 202223:08
114 - Hitting Reset
Mar 30, 202217:58
113 - When Integrity and Purpose Connect with Stacie Odeneal
Mar 23, 202229:26
112 - Healing Journeys with Becca Benevento
Mar 16, 202216:21
111 - Your Mountain of Resilience with Candice Smiley
Mar 09, 202227:01
110 - Ancestral Clearing® with Elizabeth Kipp
Mar 02, 202223:30
109 - Mindful Based Healing with Sarah Ariaudo
Feb 23, 202217:21
108 - Empowered You with Heidi Lesiw
Feb 16, 202222:31
107 - Stress Management with BIPOC Health Equity Consultant, Reketta Peterson
Feb 09, 202218:35
106 - Thriving in a Male Dominated Industry with The Wright Lawyer, Shahara Wright
Feb 02, 202220:50
105 - Make Money Selling Services with Michelle Waters
Jan 26, 202235:23
104 - Consistency: How to Get Started
Jan 19, 202206:60
103 - Small Goals, Big Progress with Kat Bright
Jan 12, 202224:37
102 - Finding Your Purpose in 2022
Jan 05, 202206:56
101 - Attributes of Resilience
Dec 29, 202118:36
100 - 11 Ways to be More Resilient

100 - 11 Ways to be More Resilient

It's our 100th episode!!! In this episode we are chatting with our friends and as 2021 draws to an end, we’re sharing strategies on how to be more resilient in 2022. Have you ever wondered where resiliency comes from or why it is a good thing to have? Julie Deem shares 11 strategies to be more resilient according to Psychology Today.

· 11 strategies:

1. Stop your negative thought cycles.

2. Question the catastrophe.

3. Overcome your fear of failure.

4. Find the benefits of past challenges and failures. Ask yourself

     a. Were there, or will there be, any positive outcomes that result from this situation?

     b. Are you grateful for any part of this situation?

     c. In what ways are you better off than when you started?

     d. What did you learn?

     e. How did you grow and develop as a result of this situation?

5. Emotionally distant yourself from challenges.

     a. Ask yourself these questions to practice being a fly on the wall:

          i. Would the observer be able to understand why you are upset?

          ii. Would the observer be able to see the other person’s point of view?

          iii. How would the observer evaluate the situation?

          iv. Might this observer view the situation differently than you do?

6. Remember, this too shall pass.

     a. In five years, what will you be doing?

     b. How will you be spending your time?

     c. How will you be feeling?

     d. How will you feel about this particular event?

7. Find the silver lining.

8. Practice reappraisal while streaming movies.

9. Find the benefits in life.

10. Run at the dog.

11. Use your negative emotions to propel you forward.

Read more details about the 11 strategies: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/click-here-happiness/201803/resilience-101-how-be-more-resilient-person 

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USW Podcast @uswkokomo

Kalena James @yesitskalenajames

Julie Deem @indymompreneur

USW Kokomo Website

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Dec 22, 202117:11
099 - Creating a More Fulfilled Future with Sasha Morozov

099 - Creating a More Fulfilled Future with Sasha Morozov

Are you feeling stuck? In this episode Sasha Morozov joins Julie Deem to share her 4-step method that focuses on self, home, relationships, and systems to help moms hit start on the life they’ve put on pause. Sasha is the founder of Sasha x Home and has spent almost 15 years working in the non-profit field to help individuals and families create better futures.

Listen now as Julie Deem and Sasha Morozov have a conversation about, "Creating a More Fulfilled Future".

Sasha x Home

Instagram:

USW Podcast @uswkokomo

Kalena James @yesitskalenajames

Julie Deem @indymompreneur

USW Kokomo Website

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Dec 15, 202128:46
098 - Lifted Naturals with Sylvia Hall

098 - Lifted Naturals with Sylvia Hall

What if you could create a business that was so successful your husband could take an early retirement? In this episode Sylvia Hall joins Julie Deem to share her journey of starting, Lifted Naturals. Learn more about the mood probiotic, Lifted Naturals and the important pieces Sylvia found were critical to have a successful company that ultimately led to her husband being able to retire early.

More about this episode:

- How Lifted Naturals was started to help Sylvia naturally feel better postpartum.

- Why freedom was an important value that made starting a business a risk worth taking.

Listen now as Julie Deem and Sylvia Hall have a conversation about, "Lifted Naturals".

Instagram:

Lifted Naturals @liftednaturals

USW Podcast @uswkokomo

Kalena James @yesitskalenajames

Julie Deem @indymompreneur

USW Kokomo Website

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Dec 08, 202128:00
097 - How to Separate Romantic Rejection From Your Self-Worth
Dec 01, 202123:57
096 - Cultivating Your Attitude of Gratitude
Nov 24, 202110:39
095 - It's About Time You Get Comfortable Being Uncomfortable
Nov 17, 202119:33
094 - 7 Self-Improvement Actions All Leaders Must Take
Nov 10, 202118:17
093 - Self-Sabotage 5 Common Behaviors According to Psychology
Nov 03, 202118:25
092 - Why Leaders Should View Themselves as Servants
Oct 27, 202115:13
091 - Principles of Servant Leadership
Oct 20, 202120:21
090 - How to Retain Your Tribe Through Servant Leadership
Oct 13, 202114:02
089 - Why Servant Leadership is Becoming the Leadership Style of the Future
Oct 06, 202116:57
088 - Dear Lovely Universe with Kaelin Vu
Sep 29, 202126:47
087 - Get Your Mind Right with Leticia Francis
Sep 22, 202123:29
086 - Create the Life You Love with Chantal Cox
Sep 15, 202127:31
085 - Take the First Step with Ashley Anne
Sep 08, 202124:47
084 - Are You a Boss or a Leader?

084 - Are You a Boss or a Leader?

Have you ever thought about the differences between a boss and a leader? Kalena James and Julie Deem break down the five differences between a boss and a leader according to Tony Robbin's Leadership Academy. 

A boss HEARS but a leader TRANSFORMS
A boss SPEAKS but a leader CONNECTS
A boss DICTATES but a leader INSPIRES
A boss DOMINATES but a leader COLLABORATES
A boss wants PROFITS, but a leader wants to CHANGE THE WORLD

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USW Podcast @uswkokomo

Kalena James @yesitskalenajames

Julie Deem @indymompreneur

USW Kokomo Website

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Sep 01, 202121:03
083 - Taking Risks with The Kokomo Post
Aug 25, 202101:14:41
082 - Be an Exhorter, Birthday Episode
Aug 18, 202119:34
081 - Own Your Failures Part 2 of 2
Aug 11, 202114:36
080 - Own Your Failures, PART 1 of 2
Aug 04, 202129:21
079 - Overworked and Overwhelmed
Jul 28, 202124:36
078 - Find YOUR Special Pack
Jul 21, 202159:11
077 - Seeing Someone for Who They Are
Jul 14, 202132:20
076 - Intuitive Eating with Lisa Dahl
Jul 07, 202121:03
075 - Be the Bridge with Amber Kinsey and Sarah Pitzer
Jun 30, 202131:01
074 - Domestic Violence CTA, Amber's Story
Jun 23, 202129:33
073 - Going Virtual with Peace and Plenti
Jun 16, 202129:16
072 - A Closer Look at Domestic and Sexual Violence, Amber and Evie's Story
Jun 09, 202101:05:26
071 - Have a More Fulfilled Life, Maggie's Story
Jun 02, 202135:49
070 - Empowering Changemakers with EYEJ

070 - Empowering Changemakers with EYEJ

Kalena James and Julie Deem chat with EYEJ members, Katie, Shwetha, and Diamond, about an upcoming virtual event that they are hosting through the organization, EYEJ which stands for Empowering Youth Exploring Justice.

The EYEJ Empowering Changemakers are hosting a virtual event, June 4th 5-8:30PM ET with a VIP Social Action room at 4:30PM ET.
You can purchase your ticket through here.

This event will host content/panels in the following areas: criminal justice reform, politics, the Digital Divide, NFL, Social Media Influencing demonstrating by example Changemakers, celebrating BIPOC persons across industries/sectors while empowering our youth.  This not only will elevate our youth and Cleveland but it is an incredible example of bridging worlds together, amplifying racial justice and coming together in an authentic way for positive social impact.

Interested in the VIP Social Action room EYEJ Friend $1,000 Sponsorship level- Katie Ross, katie@eyej.org

Interested in our Youth Council- Diamond Bottoson- diamond@eyej.org

Question about Empowering Changemakers Event- hello@eyej.org

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USW Podcast @uswkokomo

Kalena James @yesitskalenajames

Julie Deem @indymompreneur

EYEJ @EYEJCleveland

Facebook: EYEJ Cleveland

YouTube: EYEJ

USW Kokomo Website

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May 26, 202128:07
069 - Feel Your Feelings, Humanity United with Chanee Momoko

069 - Feel Your Feelings, Humanity United with Chanee Momoko

This episode was previously recorded in our USW FB Group. Chanee Momoko shares in our Humanity United Live series the steps to feeling your feelings. She breaks down how your thoughts, feelings, and actions work together to generate results.

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USW Podcast @uswkokomo

Kalena James @yesitskalenajames

Julie Deem @indymompreneur

Chanee Momoko @chaneemomoko

USW Kokomo Website

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May 19, 202129:47
068 - Build Yourself, Follow Your Dreams with Nash Stephanie
May 12, 202138:41
067 - Toxic Positivity
May 05, 202123:24
066 - Mums & Co. with Carrie Kwan
Apr 28, 202130:02
065 - Facing Life's Blindsides PART 10 of 10
Apr 21, 202131:01
064 - Facing Life's Blindsides Part 9 of 10
Apr 14, 202128:13
063 - Facing Life's Blindsides PART 8 of 10
Apr 07, 202144:09
062 - Facing Life's Blindsides, PART 7 of 10
Mar 24, 202121:04
061 - Facing Life's Blindsides, PART 6 of 10
Mar 17, 202159:50
060 - Beauty from Ashes, Emily's Story
Mar 10, 202140:18
059 - Facing Life's Blindsides, PART 5 of 10
Mar 03, 202141:04
058 - Facing Life's Blindsides, PART 4 of 10
Feb 24, 202132:38
057 - Facing Life's Blindsides, PART 3 of 10
Feb 17, 202136:25
056 - Dance in the Rain, Lynnette's Story
Feb 16, 202130:13
055 - Facing Life's Blindsides, PART 2 of 10
Feb 10, 202126:11
054 - Facing Life's Blindsides, PART 1 of 10
Feb 03, 202121:57
053 - Season 3 Premiere, PURPOSE
Jan 27, 202132:57
052 - Don't Give Up, Season 2 Finale
Dec 30, 202020:52
051 - Find Your Hungry
Dec 29, 202034:13
050 - Domestic Violence CTA, Amber's Story
Dec 23, 202029:33
049 - The Grit Factor
Dec 16, 202033:06
048 - Lower Your Stress with Special Guest, Alison McLean
Dec 14, 202030:59
047 - The Power of Your Words (Humanity United with Tanika Forestal)

047 - The Power of Your Words (Humanity United with Tanika Forestal)