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secret life of two gay american teenagers

secret life of two gay american teenagers

By jesse & erin

jesse and erin are two gay twenty-somethings who escaped christian fundamentalism and are watching secret life of the american teenager for the first time and recapping it so you don't have to! subscribe to listen to them analyze the absurd purity culture ingrained in every episode!
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4x15 Defiance

secret life of two gay american teenagersNov 21, 2023

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01:11:31
4x15 Defiance

4x15 Defiance

Try to access Dylan again and I'll access your ass

Nov 21, 202301:11:31
4x14 Smokin' Like a Virgin

4x14 Smokin' Like a Virgin

Erin and Jesse discuss smoking, virgins, likes, and maybe even a! Plus, the startling return of Ashlee Juergens!

Oct 24, 202301:32:32
4x13 ...And Circumstance

4x13 ...And Circumstance

Much like the Novel Coronavirus, a two week break stretched into a full year! WE'RE BACK BABYYYYYYYYYYYY!!!


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Oct 10, 202301:14:50
4x12 Pomp

4x12 Pomp

secret life tries to be pll

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Sep 19, 202201:13:27
4x11 The Games We Play

4x11 The Games We Play

Erin took some time away from their job and Jesse took some time away from being in car accidents to dive back into the wild world of the greatest television program in the world! Shenanigans ensue! 

Sep 12, 202201:12:31
4x10 4-1-1

4x10 4-1-1

Aug 22, 202201:01:07
4x09 Flip Flop

4x09 Flip Flop

adrian wants RICKY!

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Aug 01, 202201:19:35
4x08 Dancing with the Stars

4x08 Dancing with the Stars

omg ricky just take amy to the dance

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Jul 15, 202201:19:28
4x07 Cute

4x07 Cute

amy is SO cute! and it makes her mad!

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Jul 08, 202201:20:14
4x06 Don't Go In There!

4x06 Don't Go In There!

Jul 01, 202201:11:24
4x05 Hole in the Wall

4x05 Hole in the Wall

THE EPISODE CRITICALLY ACCLAIMED FOR ITS UNORTHODOX USE OF MUSIC 

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Jun 24, 202201:12:05
4x04 One Foot Out the Door

4x04 One Foot Out the Door

Jun 17, 202201:05:51
4x03 When Opportunity Knocks

4x03 When Opportunity Knocks

heheheheheheh leaving your wife is so cool!

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Jun 10, 202201:08:45
4x02 Another One Opens

4x02 Another One Opens

May 27, 202201:00:45
4x01 When One Door Closes

4x01 When One Door Closes

May 20, 202201:10:10
3x25 and 3x26 To Be...Or Not To Be

3x25 and 3x26 To Be...Or Not To Be

hell

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Apr 22, 202201:22:55
3x24 It's Not Over Till It's Over

3x24 It's Not Over Till It's Over

Jesse and Erin are back from their impromptu hiatus, and they think that you're amazing, just the way you are! We're in pain!
Apr 08, 202201:05:25
3x23 Round II

3x23 Round II

Mar 18, 202201:32:36
3x22 Loose Lips

3x22 Loose Lips

69TH EPISODE BITCHES

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Mar 11, 202201:33:04
3x21 Young at Heart

3x21 Young at Heart

Mar 04, 202201:12:49
3x20 Moving In and Out

3x20 Moving In and Out

Feb 25, 202201:12:48
3x19 Deeper and Deeper

3x19 Deeper and Deeper

Feb 18, 202201:23:05
3x18 Another Proposal

3x18 Another Proposal

the one in which we talk about if leo fucked a horse

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Feb 04, 202201:26:22
3x17 Guess Who's Not Coming to Dinner

3x17 Guess Who's Not Coming to Dinner

Who's hornier, Jesse or every teenager on this show? Only you can decide!

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Jan 28, 202201:14:22
3x16 Mirrors

3x16 Mirrors

nora is very weird! the title makes no sense! jack and morgan definitely don't have sex! 


meghan kacmarcik (www.instagram.com/newmoonrd) joins us once again!

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Jan 21, 202201:41:34
3x15 Who Do You Trust

3x15 Who Do You Trust

Jan 14, 202201:16:12
3x14 Rules of Engagement

3x14 Rules of Engagement

Jan 07, 202201:24:16
3x13 Up All Night

3x13 Up All Night

Dec 17, 202101:16:38
3x12 Sweet and Sour

3x12 Sweet and Sour

Dec 10, 202101:19:54
3x11 Lady Liberty

3x11 Lady Liberty

Dec 03, 202101:05:48
3x10 My Girlfriend's Back

3x10 My Girlfriend's Back

Nov 26, 202101:13:27
3x09 Chicken Little

3x09 Chicken Little

Nov 19, 202101:34:51
3x07 New York, New York

3x07 New York, New York

Nov 05, 202101:50:32
3x06 She Went That A'Way

3x06 She Went That A'Way

Oct 29, 202102:22:01
3x05 Which Way Did She Go?

3x05 Which Way Did She Go?

Oct 22, 202101:38:50
3x04 Goodbye Amy Juergens

3x04 Goodbye Amy Juergens

Oct 15, 202101:32:04
3x03 Get out of Town

3x03 Get out of Town

Oct 08, 202101:15:04
3x02 Accentuate the Positive

3x02 Accentuate the Positive

Oct 01, 202101:43:47
3x01 Do Over

3x01 Do Over

oh man do we wish we had a do over on picking this show for our podcast! adrian's not pregnant, or IS SHE??? ashley gets the pill while george gets his gross ass hair pulled out. anne is kind of a B, amy and ben (gross) get back together and ricky plays a big part in that (good guy ricky!). ruben shows up and redeems the whole episode by being in it for 2 minutes. enjoy!

HEY WE WERE ON KYLE X WHY!!! listen here: https://noisespace.xyz/2021/09/12/s3e4-wupweeweeanna/

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Sep 24, 202101:54:37
2x24 Ben There, Done That

2x24 Ben There, Done That

Sep 14, 202102:03:16
2x23 I Got You Babe with Special Guest Bisca Rae!

2x23 I Got You Babe with Special Guest Bisca Rae!

Singer/Songwriter, Recording Artist, and Jesse's friend from band camp Bisca Rae stops by the pod to discuss her new music, the fever dream that was music camp, and George's general shittiness in an episode that critics are calling an instant classic! And in the world of Secret Life, alliances are made, sides are drawn, and a shocking twist leaves us wishing we could quit this podcast!

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Sep 10, 202101:53:27
2x22 Good Girls and Boys

2x22 Good Girls and Boys

Sep 07, 202101:33:21
2x21 Choices with Special Guest Ellen Noel!

2x21 Choices with Special Guest Ellen Noel!

Erin attempts to reign in not one but TWO (2) agents of chaos this week as friend/youtuber/hot person Ellen stops in to talk hair plugs, Shailene Woodley's masterful crying, and Ricky's hot mom. Plus, we declare war on Super Wholock Culture! All this and more! Follow Ellen! www.twitter.com/@tsunderemamoru www.youtube.com/c/ellennoel www.instagram.com/ellennotdegenerous www.tiktok.com/@jklawls please subscribe to our patreon to see our l word chart! www.patreon.com/ur2gayfriends follow our twitter: www.twitter.com/urtwogayfriends follow our instagram: www.instagram.com/urtwogayfriends  follow our tiktok: www.tiktok.com/@urtwogayfriends  follow jesse: www.twitter.com/gojesse2k20 our other pod: anchor.fm/neverbeencool send us an email at slwithjesseanderin@gmail.com and please leave us a review on apple podcasts!

Sep 03, 202101:48:41
2x20 Mistakes Were Made

2x20 Mistakes Were Made

Aug 31, 202101:42:25
2x19 The Rhythm of Life

2x19 The Rhythm of Life

Aug 27, 202101:34:38
2x18 Let's Try That Again

2x18 Let's Try That Again

Aug 20, 202101:18:38
2x17 The Second Time Around

2x17 The Second Time Around

Aug 17, 202101:49:05
2x16 Just Say Me

2x16 Just Say Me

Aug 13, 202101:22:15
2x15 Loved and Lost

2x15 Loved and Lost

Aug 10, 202101:23:56
2x14 Til It's Gone

2x14 Til It's Gone

Aug 06, 202101:18:49