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Who Asked Me

By Selle Brooks

Pop culture, Society, reality tv, real life and everything in between!
Join me, selle, just your average reality tv lover talk week to week about my hot takes, confessions, and brushes with reality tv fame
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Tamika's $30,000 ft. Kendrick of Reality & Comics Too

Who Asked MeMar 17, 2023

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Tamika's $30,000 ft. Kendrick of Reality & Comics Too

Tamika's $30,000 ft. Kendrick of Reality & Comics Too

This week Selle is joined by Kendrick of Reality & Comics too. The two discuss where Tamika's $30,000 could be, who they want investigated and all of your other favorite bravo shows. Don't forget to rate and review on Apple Podcasts and Spotify! Instagram: Kendrick: @realitycomicstoo Selle: @whoaskedmepodcast TikTok: Selle: @whoaskedselle
Mar 17, 202301:20:45
Don't Call it Chocolate Cake ft Fly Chy

Don't Call it Chocolate Cake ft Fly Chy

This week Selle is joined by Chy Omari and the two dive DEEP in to all of the Bravo mess. We touch on a little bit of Scandoval, the chaotic Real Housewives of Miami reunion and much more! Instagram: Chy: @fly.chy Selle: @whoaskedmepodcast Tik Tok: @whoaskedselle
Mar 10, 202302:20:55
Real Tea ft Mare and Diana of RealiTEA Check Podcast

Real Tea ft Mare and Diana of RealiTEA Check Podcast

This week Selle is joined by Mare and DIana of the new podcast ReliTEA Check. The trio dives into all of the online drama that's been happening this week and we do mean ALL. Listen to hear what they think is a scheme and what they think is real, as well as recaps of this weeks shows. Instagram:  RealiTEA Check: @realiteacheckpodcast Selle: @whoaskedmepodcast TikTok: RealiTEA: @realiteacheckpodcast Selle: @whoaskedselle
Mar 03, 202301:40:24
The Group Chat ft Taria of WEIGO and Stephanie of Mocha Minutes

The Group Chat ft Taria of WEIGO and Stephanie of Mocha Minutes

This week Selle is joined by Taria and Stephanie to dive into all of the mess. The trio talks about the housewife that skates by getting no heat in Potomac, why you can't have a misunderstanding with the bank and much more!  Instagram: Taria- @weigopodcast Stephanie: @mochaminutes Selle: @whoaskedmepodcast TikeTok: @whoaskedselle
Feb 24, 202302:24:58
She Pulled a You on You ft Noor of The Reality Is Podcast

She Pulled a You on You ft Noor of The Reality Is Podcast

This week Selle is joined by Noor of The Reality Is Podcast to recap all of the Bravo shows they love. The two get into who's getting a taste of their own medicine on which franchise, who's story is making us question a few things and much more. Instagram: Noor: @therealityispod Selle: @whoaskedmepodcast TiKTok: @whoaskedselle
Feb 17, 202301:01:41
Let's be Fair

Let's be Fair

This week Selle is riding solo and voicing some frustrations with the lack of nuance in the reality tv space. She also has some things to get off her chest when it comes to a certain ex housewife and is re-considering watching a fan favorite show. Don't forget to rate and review on Apple podcasts as well as rate on Spotify! Instagram: @whoaskedmepodcast  TikTok: @whoaskedselle 
Feb 10, 202301:29:05
Sometimes Sharing Isn't Caring ft Nyemade That African Butterfly

Sometimes Sharing Isn't Caring ft Nyemade That African Butterfly

This week Selle is joined by Nyemade of the Bold, Black and Addicted to Bravo YouTube channel! The two discuss the scandal that shook the Bravo-verse this week! They're diving into why the "take down" seasons need to end, why your husband doesn't need to show up in person to pay for another woman's hotel room and so much more! As always please do not forget to rate and review on Apple Podcasts and Spotify Instagram: Nyemade: @thatafricanbutterfly Selle: @whoaskedmepodcast  TikTik Selle: @whoaskedselle 
Feb 03, 202301:15:14
People are Protective Over Scooby Doo ft. Sneha of Project Mindy

People are Protective Over Scooby Doo ft. Sneha of Project Mindy

This week Selle is joined by Sneha of the Project Mindy Podcast! The two talk Sex Lives of College Girls, the latest rumor mill involving a Real Housewife of Potomac and of course, part 1 of the Salt Lake City Reunion.  Instagram: Sneha: @projectmindy  Selle: @whoaskedmepodcast  TikTok: Selle: @whoaskedselle
Jan 27, 202301:13:47
Cenote Hair ft Eugene of Problem Addict Podcast!

Cenote Hair ft Eugene of Problem Addict Podcast!

This week Selle is joined by Eugene of Problem Addict Podcast! The two discuss the toll that season 5 Grey's Anatomy took on Selle, how we knew no one in Potomac planned on gettin in the water, and so much more!  Instagram: Eugene: @problemaddictpod Selle: @whoaskedmepodcast TikTok: @whoaskedselle
Jan 20, 202301:19:07
Marysol's Cockies ft Mark of The Pink Pop Box

Marysol's Cockies ft Mark of The Pink Pop Box

This week Selle is joined by Mark of The Pink Pop Box and the two pose the real question of "what is actually in Marysol's cups", they also do some RHOBH casting of their own and of course recap a week of everyone's favorite Bravo shows!  Instagram: Mark: @thepinkpobox  Selle: @whoaskedmepodcast TikTok: @whoaskedselle
Jan 13, 202301:53:57
Me, Myself, and I, a solo episode

Me, Myself, and I, a solo episode

This week Selle is alone with her thoughts to go on about what clickbait story is ruffling her feathers, how she finally realized who Cheryl Burke was talking about on tiktok, Prince Harry calling his brother alarming and so much more! Instagram:  @whoaskedmepodcast TikTok: @whoaskedselle
Jan 06, 202355:27
A 2022 Wrap Up ft Ben Trotter

A 2022 Wrap Up ft Ben Trotter

2022 is coming to an end! That means it's time to walk back down memory lane and discuss some of our favorite and not so favorite moments of 2022. Selle is joined by her long time friend Ben to talk about what they're leaving in 2022, taking into 2023, and the entire year of pop culture! Instagram: Ben- @trotterben Podcast- @whoaskedmepodcast Selle -@selleslife Tik Tok @whoaskedselle
Dec 30, 202202:24:48
Quiet As It's Kept ft. Fly Chy

Quiet As It's Kept ft. Fly Chy

This week Selle is joined by Chy! The two discuss how having a calm spouse is the best, what celeb divorce might start getting messy and of course recap this week in Housewives!
Dec 24, 202202:28:57
RHOM Recap ft Kendrick Tucker of Reality & Comics Too *Bonus Episode*

RHOM Recap ft Kendrick Tucker of Reality & Comics Too *Bonus Episode*

Selle is joined by Kendrick of Reality & Comics Too for a bonus episode recapping the first 5 episodes of Real Housewives of Miami. Tune in to hear why the two hope Lisa H is entering her Waiting to Exhale Era and much more! Socials: Instagram:  Kendrick: @realitycomicstoo Selle: whoaskedmepodcast Tik Tok: @whoaskedselle 
Dec 22, 202259:51
British Business ft Kara Berry of Everyone's Business but Mine

British Business ft Kara Berry of Everyone's Business but Mine

This week Selle is joined by Kara Berry of Everyone's Business but Mine and the two remind everyone that there was a war fought to separate our business from Britains. They go over the publics reaction to Megan and Harry's Netflix documentary, Katie Holmes latest red carpet look and of course recap this weeks Bravo shows! Instagram: Kara: @everyonesbusinessbutmine Selle Podcast: @whoaskedmepodcast Selle Personal: @selleslife TikTok: @selleslife 
Dec 16, 202201:08:26
Don't Let Him Block Your Bag Sis Ft. Taria of WEIGO Podcast

Don't Let Him Block Your Bag Sis Ft. Taria of WEIGO Podcast

This week Selle is joined by Taria of WEIGO podcast! The two touch on no letting your man block your bag, why not a single person knows who to blame for what in SLC and who's friendship is transactional on RHOP. Don't forget to rate and review wherever you get your podcasts! Instagram: Taria: @weigopodcast Selle podcast: @whoaskedmepodcast  Selle Personal: @selleslife Tik Tok: @selleslife 
Dec 09, 202201:07:02
That's Not How it Works ft Emily Hanks of She Speaks Bravo

That's Not How it Works ft Emily Hanks of She Speaks Bravo

This week Selle is joined by the receipt collecting queen Emily of She Speaks Bravo and they break down Bravo's newest reality tv show, Southern Hospitality as 2 former restaurant managers, they discuss who finally caught their attention on RHOSLC and why they're ready to be out of Miami on RHOP.  Instagram: Emily: @shespeaksbravo Podcast: @whoaskedmepodcast Selle: @selleslife TikTok: @selleslife
Dec 02, 202201:09:08
Argue With Your Green Bean Casserole, Not Me ft. Stephanie of Mocha Minutes

Argue With Your Green Bean Casserole, Not Me ft. Stephanie of Mocha Minutes

This week Selle is joined by Stephanie of Mocha Minutes to discuss many of topics including why certain housewives think they deserve loyalty when they behave badly, Todd and Julie Chrisly's sentencing, Family Karma, as well as the altercation that took place in Potomac this last week and why the fandom can't accept that colorism is the invisible cast mate of Potomac.  Instagram: Selle personal: @selleslife podcast: @whoaskedmepodcast Stephanie: @mochaminutes 
Nov 23, 202202:45:06
Why Don't We Talk About It? Ft Elle Murasaki of Housewives and Chit Chat

Why Don't We Talk About It? Ft Elle Murasaki of Housewives and Chit Chat

This week Selle is back after her cross country moving hiatus and she's joined by Elle Murasaki of Housewives and Chit Chat. The two discuss why the women of RHOSLC actually have no clue what's really going on and why the women of RHOP and it's fans cannot see the colorism issue that exist not only in the conversations about the show but in how certain women move throughout the space because of the comments. Don't forget to rate and review. Instagram:  Elle: @housewivesandchitchat Selle personal: @selleslife Podcast: @whoaskedmepodcast  TikTok: Elle: @housewivesandchitchat Selle: @selleslife
Nov 18, 202201:57:44
Two Former Hair dressers ft. Krystina Arielle

Two Former Hair dressers ft. Krystina Arielle

This week Selle is joined by professional actress and cosplayer Krystina Arielle! The two get into the final part of the Beverly Hills Reunion, discuss why Quad's finances are always up for discussion and debate on hair ornaments as two former hair dressers! Be sure to rate and review wherever you listen to podcasts! Instagram:  Krystina: @krystinaarielle Selle personal: @selleslife Podcast: @whoaskedmepodcast Buy Me a Coffe: www.buymeacoffee.com/whoaskedme0
Oct 28, 202202:22:46
What Are We Watching? w/ Jared aka Sasha Belle/Frisbee Jenkins

What Are We Watching? w/ Jared aka Sasha Belle/Frisbee Jenkins

This week Selle is joined by Jared aka Sasha Belle/Frisbee Jenkins from Season 7 of RuPaul's Drag Race! The two waste no time diving right into questioning why they're even still watching Real Housewives of Beverly Hills, where we see the show headed if they don't get it together, break down their favorite housewives right now and so much more!  Instagram: Jared/Sasha/Frisbee: @sashabelley  Selle: @selleslife Podcast: @whoaskedmepodcast 
Oct 21, 202201:36:59
Collabing on the Divorce Announcement ft Taria Faison of WEIGO

Collabing on the Divorce Announcement ft Taria Faison of WEIGO

This week Selle is joined by Taria of What Else Is Going On podcast! The two chat about some of the things Selle would rather do than accept the invitation to collab on her divorce announcement on IG, call out some hypocrisy and of course call out one of the toughest reunions to watch in a long time.  Instagram: Taria: @weigopodcast Selle Personal: @selleslife Podcast: @whoaskedmepodcast
Oct 14, 202202:24:26
This Season has Aged me: A Solo Episode

This Season has Aged me: A Solo Episode

This week Selle is riding solo and goin on tangents about all of the things that have been driving her mad in pop culture and the Bravo-verse lately. Of course she's recapping all of our favorite shows and more!. Buy Me a Coffe: www.buymeacoffee.com/whoaskedme0 Instagram: Personal: @selleslife podcast: @whoaskedmepodcast TikTok: @selleslife
Oct 07, 202250:17
Gaslighting the Gaslighter w/ Emily Hanks of She Speaks Bravo

Gaslighting the Gaslighter w/ Emily Hanks of She Speaks Bravo

This week Selle is joined by Emily of She Speaks Bravo and the two break down what happens housewives throw each other off plan, what the actual hell is going on in Beverly Hills, why you should definitely be able to give a book report on your own book and so much more! Happy listening! Instagram: Emily: @shespeaksbravo Selle Podcast: @whoaskedmepodcast Selle Personal: @selleslife
Sep 30, 202201:46:27
We Should Talk...about dating for potential ft Stephanie of Mocha Minutes

We Should Talk...about dating for potential ft Stephanie of Mocha Minutes

This week on We Should Talk, Selle is joined by Stephanie of Mocha Minutes again! The two discuss what it means to be dating for potential, and why it's totally okay if you're not! They also dive into other topics of the dating conversation and what factors come/came into play when the two have chosen mates in the past. Dn't forget new We Should Talk episodes are posted every Monday and new reality tv/pop culture episodes are posted every Friday! Instagram: Stephanie: @mochaminutes  Selle personal: @selleslife Podcast: @whaskedmepodcast
Sep 27, 202250:39
Getting to the Root of It ft. Stephanie of Mocha Minutes Podcast

Getting to the Root of It ft. Stephanie of Mocha Minutes Podcast

This week Selle is joined by Stephanie of the Mocha Minutes podcast! The two dive into this weeks latest celebrity cheating scandal, the latest arguments that has the internet divided and of course they recap the MESS that is reality tv right now.  Instagram: Stephanie: @mochaminutes  Selle personal: @selleslife Podcast: @whoaskedmepodcast
Sep 23, 202202:11:17
We Do Not Care ft. Raven of Bitch is Better

We Do Not Care ft. Raven of Bitch is Better

This week Selle has the pleasure speaking with Raven of Bitch is Better podcast! The ladies certainly do some bitching, some recapping and a LOT of laughing! They talk rumors, story lines and husbands! Don't forget to rate and review where you listen to podcasts! Instagram: Raven: @mainlyraven  Selle: @selleslife podcast: @whoaskedmepodcast
Sep 09, 202201:59:36
We Should Talk...about how your friendships change when you have kids

We Should Talk...about how your friendships change when you have kids

WELCOME to the new segment of the Who Asked Me podcast called "We Should Talk" where Selle and her guests sit down and discuss real life topics. Some will be fun, some will be deep, but they will all be open. We Should Talk episodes will be released every Monday! This week Selle and her guests are discussing a viral tik tok video that raised quite a few questions about how our friendships change throughout getting married, having kids, and life in general. Be sure to leave a review and rating on Apple Podcasts as well as rate on Spotify! Instagram:  Taria: @weigopodcast Stephanie: @mochaminutes Selle: @whoaskedmepodcast
Sep 05, 202201:50:27
No Joint Birthday Parties

No Joint Birthday Parties

This week Selle is solo on the pod. She discusses why she will never accept a joint birthday celebration, what her mom would have told her if she were to make "rules of the house" as well as some rumors swirling around the internet about a certain tv host and so much more!  Instagram: podcast: @whoaskedmepodcast personal: @selleslife 
Sep 02, 202236:01
We love them, but they're awful ft Tom Hamlett of Dumpster Dive Podcast

We love them, but they're awful ft Tom Hamlett of Dumpster Dive Podcast

This week Selle is joined by Tom Hamlett of Dumpster Dive Podcast! The two discuss the ongoing problematic ways of RHOBH, the reality stars we love in the sense of them being absolute menaces to society and our tv screens and who they're ready to see bow out of the reality tv game and so much more! Don't forget to rate and review your favorite podcasts on Apple Podcasts as well as rate them on Spotify. Instagram: Dumpster Dive Pod: @dumpsterdivepod Selle personal: @selleslife Who Asked Me: @whoaskedmepodcast
Aug 25, 202201:45:17
The (Jersey) Wedding of the Century ft. Noor of The Reality Is podcast

The (Jersey) Wedding of the Century ft. Noor of The Reality Is podcast

This week Selle is joined by Noor, host of The Reality Is podcast and New Jersey expert. Noor walks Selle through what it rally means to be from Patterson, seeing the groom's cake for the first time and why this was actually a dream wedding. They also recap the episodes from this week and Selle let's Britney Spears' ex husband have a few words. Don't forget to rate and review. Instagram: Noor: @therealityispod Selle (personal): selleslife podcast: @whoaskedmepodcast
Aug 12, 202201:43:10
Rehearsed Reads Make My Ears Bleed

Rehearsed Reads Make My Ears Bleed

This week Selle lets everyone know what she thinks should be a pre requisite for being a real housewife and she does not hold back. She also discusses the shit she does when she's home alone that has her feeling quite silly, her growing anxiety and why, not matter what, you will only catch her on a commercial flight...not like anything else is an option. Don't forget to rate and review! Instagram:  podcast: @whoaskedmepodcast personal: @selleslife 
Aug 05, 202254:13
From Tea to Cognac & No In Between w/ Kendrick Tucker

From Tea to Cognac & No In Between w/ Kendrick Tucker

This week Selle is joined by Kendrick Tucker from the Reality and Comics Too Podcast! Selle and Kendrick dive into all things Bravo and this week that was a LOT! They discuss Erika being served in baggage claim, why Toya needed to look like an LOL Doll to have a messy intervention with Dr. Heavenly & who they would have been if they were stuck in the drive way for an hour and a half on a cast trip! Don't forget to rate and review on Apple Podcasts and Spotify! Instagram: Kendrick: @realitycomicstoo Selle personal: @selleslife Podcast: @whoaskedmepodcast 
Jul 29, 202201:32:12
What is wrong with you?

What is wrong with you?

This week Selle finds herslef asking "What is wrong with them?" about a ew Bravo-lebrities. She recaps all of your favorite Bravo shows as well as what was new in pop culture this week. Be sure to rate 5 stars on Spotify and Apple Podcasts as well as review on Apple podcasts! Instagram:  podcast- @whoaskedmepodcast personal- @selleslife 
Jul 21, 202235:18
A Fresh Start

A Fresh Start

Selle is on the pod solo this week and she's giving you an in depth update on why she really took a break. This episode touches on mental health and how it effected her in different aspects of her life. After we check in, Selle lets everyone know where she's at with pop culture, and the favor a certain reality star did for her mere moments before recording this episode. Listen to hear how she feels about RHUGT, M2M and all of our other favorite shows as well as the response she really wants to hear from these reality stars on their problematic behavior! Don't forget to subscribe and rate on all platforms! Happy listening!  Instagram; podcast: @whoaskedmepodcast personal: @selleslife
Jul 14, 202201:32:19
Kitchen Table Talk with Taria Faison of WEIGO podcast

Kitchen Table Talk with Taria Faison of WEIGO podcast

HELLO LOVELY, SNARKY PEOPLE! Selle is back after  ver long mental health hiatus and she is joined by Taria Faison of the What Else is Going On podcast. Taria and Selle have a nice old school kitchen table talk on the episode. They discuss where they're at with reality tv as a whole and discuss their thoughts on why some of their once favorite shows are disappointing. They also get really real about how they feel being 2 black women in the internet community. Don't for get to rate 5 stars and review on Apple podcasts as well as rate 5 stars on Spotify.  Instagram: Taria- @weigopodcast (podcast), @tsfaison (personal) Selle- @whoaskedmepodcast (podcast), @selleslife (personal)
Jun 20, 202201:59:38
Situationships w/ Hannah A Brown

Situationships w/ Hannah A Brown

This episode Selle is joined by special guest Hannah A. Brown! Hanna and Selle discuss the topic that has us all divided right now in the Bravo-sphere which is Situationships. The ladies discuss the Ciara/Lindsay/Austen debacle as well as share some of their own situationship stories they've lived and learned from. They also discuss deep matter, such as whether or not whales wake up a decide they're just going to swim to a different country. Don't forget to rate and review on Apple Podcasts as well as Spotify! Instagram:  Hannah- @hannahabrown Selle- @selleslife Who Asked Me Podcast- @whoaskedmepodcast 
Mar 25, 202201:03:07
Love Is Blind Season 2 Recap ft. Noor from The Reality Is

Love Is Blind Season 2 Recap ft. Noor from The Reality Is

This week Selle is joined by a very special guest! Noor from The Reality Is podcast is here to dive into all that was Love is Blind Season 2! Noor and Selle dive deep into the couples, their differences, and why love might actually be....blurry? Make sure to rate and review not only this podcast but The Reality Is on Apple Podcast as well as rating on Spotify. Happy listening! Instagram:  Noor and The Reality Is: @therealityispod Who Asked Me Podcast: @whoaskedmepodcast Selle's Personal IG: @selleslife Twitter: The Reality Is: @therealityispod
Mar 10, 202247:11
Cancellation Status

Cancellation Status

This week Selle is solo on the episode and poses the question what has "cancel culture" really become? She's answering what it means to her and letting everyone know, there's levels to this shit. She's also opening up and reading replies from her instagram followers on what it means to them. Along with discussing the cancellation status of almost everything she gets into the mess that is the 2 shows on everyone's lips right now: Love is Blind season 2 and Euphoria, of course she's touching on Bravo, because how could she not? Happy listening! Podcast Instagram: @whoaskedmepodcast Selle's Personal Instagram: @selleslife
Feb 25, 202201:17:06
Swindled into Reality w/ Greg Eddings!

Swindled into Reality w/ Greg Eddings!

This week Selle is joined by one half of the Escaping Reality podcast Greg Eddings! Greg and Selle discuss the fever dream that was last weeks episode of Salt Lake City, why they think Gia should pipe down, and Greg might also actually get Selle to see a different side of the Jen vs Marge feud! They also discuss the documentary on everyones mind last week, The Tinder Swindler! You can follow Greg's podcast on instagram @escapingrealitypodcast and Selle and the podcast @whoaskedmepodcast. Happy Listening!
Feb 14, 202201:37:52
I miss the authenticity

I miss the authenticity

Come along with Selle this week as she discusses the mess that is and always will be Bravo. She wonders where the authenticity went in some of the reality tv shows, as well as why she's all of a sudden [kind of] feeling badly for Cal from Euphoria. She also discusses who her top 3 are for Drag Race season 14 and who she feels really should have been lip synching for their lives last week. Selle also kicks off her Black History Month special of highlighting some of her favorite black romantic comedies! As always feel free to discuss all of our favorite shows with Selle over on IG @whoaskedmepodcast and don't forget to leave those 5 star ratings and reviews!
Feb 04, 202255:08
2021: The Recap PT 2.

2021: The Recap PT 2.

This week Selle and long time friend Ben Trotter continue to recap the year that was 2021. Listen as they discuss what shows they were obsessed with, their personal goals for the new year and Ben's "So that happened.." that will leave you all shook! As always don't forget to rate on Spotify and Apple podcasts, as well as write a review on Apple Podcasts. Happy listening! Socials:  Ben: @trotterben (all platforms) Selle: @selleslife (instagram)  Who Asked Me IG: @whoaskedmepodcast
Jan 26, 202201:19:11
2021: The Recap (Season 2 premier)

2021: The Recap (Season 2 premier)

WELCOME BACK! Season 2 of The Who Asked Me Podcast is here and is ready to chat all things anything. This week Selle has long time friend Ben Trotter on the pod to discuss the whirlwind that was the year 2021! In the 1st of 2 parts Selle and Ben discuss what trends they want to see stay in 2021 and celebrity couples they were, and were not so obsessed with! You can follow Ben on instagram @trotterben, Selle on Instagram @selleslife and of course the podcast on instagram @whoaskedmepodcast Just here for Ben? That's okay, skip to minute 9:55!
Jan 19, 202201:14:41
I’m Eating Crow (Season 1 finale)

I’m Eating Crow (Season 1 finale)

On the season finale of Who Asked Me, I’m giving you where I’m at with All of our Bravo shows, a little mini life update on where I’ve been, as well as what to look forward to in Season 2 of the podcast! Don’t forget to rate and review me on Apple podcasts and follow me over on Instagram @whoaskedmepodcast
Dec 07, 202132:18
Chilled bones

Chilled bones

After taking my own advice last week I’m back and hopping up on my soap box then quickly hopping back down. I reveal what’s been driving me crazy about bravolebrities and recap all of the shows that make us go wtf? Don’t forget to follow over on IG @whoaskedmepodcast
Nov 10, 202141:01
Are You Sure?

Are You Sure?

Listen as Selle recaps the mess that is the Bravo-sphere from the past week! She discusses who's she would divorce, who's never actually "canceled" as well as all the tea from the latest housewives book that's got IG buzzing! Of course she's recapping all of our favorite shows from the last week as well!  Don't forget to rate and review as well as download and subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts!
Oct 26, 202101:04:28
GIRLLLLLLAAA (Bravo Recap)

GIRLLLLLLAAA (Bravo Recap)

Did anyone else scream at their TV as much as I did this week? We're discussing early 00's fashion, UGG boots, and early Reunion LEWKS! We're also recapping our shows of course and dissecting the latest Bravo-sphere break up! Don't forget to follow over on IG @whoaskedmepodcast and rate and review on Apple Podcast!
Oct 19, 202101:00:15
She uses a lot of adjectives

She uses a lot of adjectives

HELLLOOOO! and welcome back to the chaos that no one asked for! this week were discussing what notes Jax sent lala and rand to filming with because it's clear he obviously did. Who the least gangster on the VPR cast really is, what salad tossing really means and my full thoughts on this season of RHOBH before we head into the reunion. Don't forget to follow on Instagram @whoaskedmepodcast ! Happy listening!
Oct 12, 202101:13:57
Overhead Projecting (BRAVO RECAP)

Overhead Projecting (BRAVO RECAP)

Happy Bravo Day! This week we are recapping our favorites, letting Fancy Drew have a break while Shaggy and scooby sniff out the lies in Beverly Hills, we're projecting big time over on the Eastern Shore, and trying to stay awake during SLC. We also reopen the doors to our favorite on screen restaurant that is SUR! Don't forget to rate and review me on Apple Podcast, as well as follow me on IG @whoaskedmepodcast 
Oct 05, 202156:06
Let's wrap it TF up (BIP RECAP)

Let's wrap it TF up (BIP RECAP)

Happy BIP recap, and honestly, wtf are we even still doing here? I feel like this could have been wrapped up already, but since it's not we're going to talk about it. Get some relationship advice from my post 20's self, learn why you don't EVER follow your vagina because she's going to lead you down the wrong path 80% of the time. I wonder why no one is ever calling Aaron out on his BS n the beach and who actually hasn't been on the same page since getting together. Don't forget to follow the instagram page over at @whoaskedmepodcast and download wherever you listen to podcasts!
Oct 01, 202128:60
Are you delusional, beloved? (BRAVO RECAP)

Are you delusional, beloved? (BRAVO RECAP)

HAPPY BRAVO DAY! We are here (a day late) to recap all of the Bravo mess from last week! We touch on the Kymanda wedding, as well as where I'm at with my own nuptials. I finally say what it seems most of us have been waning ti say which is SLC is SLEEEPPPPPPPYYYYY and I took a poll so I know and that Potomac episode that had us all screaming at the television! Don't forget to rate and review me 5 stars on apple podcasts as well as download and share wherever you listen! Also don't forget to follow the instagram page to get interactive with me on the day to day! @whoaskedmepodcast
Sep 29, 202157:34
We have no cars (BRAVO RECAP)

We have no cars (BRAVO RECAP)

BRAVOOOOOOOO recap! This week im discussing my very real life, self inflicted problem with HelloFresh, while recapping Bravo. We discuss the RHONY reunion cancellation, Porsha's exit of RHOA and Mama Dottie's shade. I also pose the question: Were we headed towards a sleepy season of RHSLC before Jen Shah got arrested? I think so. Don't forget to subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts as well as rate and review 5 stars on Apple podcasts! Follow me on Instagram @whoaskedmepodcast for all the fun!
Sep 21, 202146:53
Toe Jam: a BIP recap

Toe Jam: a BIP recap

WELCOME TO BIP FRIDAYYYYSSSSS! Find out why my mouth will never go anywhere south of my fiance's kneecaps. I stand 10 toes firm on that. Also hear why your memes of Joe and the women don't hit like yall actually think they do. Find out where I hoe the suburban dropped B*endan off after he left paradise and who's getting excited over a new tatty daddy coming to the beach! Dont forget to rate 5 stars on Apple Podcast and leave a review! Talk to you on Bravo Tuesday!
Sep 17, 202123:30
Am I Supposed to be Moved by This? (a BRAVO Recap)

Am I Supposed to be Moved by This? (a BRAVO Recap)

Welcome back Bravo Recaps! We go over the last 2 weeks of mess in the Bravo-verse. We also discuss this podcast getting back on schedule because lord knows it needs to. We dive into the Dinner Party from hell part 2, the goddess lunch, Robyn's birthday and why when the ladies of BH say they aren''t into Garcelle's Haitian food they're absolutely full of caviar pie. I also confess to you my feelings on the Salt Lake City ladies. Don't forget to rate and review 5 stars on Apple Podcasts and download where ever you listen to podcasts.
Sep 16, 202101:05:02
ARE YOU ACTUALLY KIDDING ME?!: A BIP Recap

ARE YOU ACTUALLY KIDDING ME?!: A BIP Recap

This week...in our BIP recap.. I yell a lot. IF YOU KNOW YOU KNOW! How could I not?! Of course I touch on the sinister couple that is Brendan and Natasha, as well as a few snipers from the side that aren't as innocent as we may think. I also touch on the therapy that is needed for some of these folks, as well as why protecting black women is IMPORTANT and this cast failed to do that this week. Per usual don't forget to rate and review me on Apple Podcasts! Bravo recap will be out next week!
Sep 10, 202138:20
Put him in the Suburban (BIP Recap)

Put him in the Suburban (BIP Recap)

Welcome back to Paradise...recaps. This week were discussing the chaotic overly produced episodes of BIP we got this week. Nevertheless still a mess we love. I tell you all which men I'm ready to put in the Suburban to send them on their merry way because I've had enough. I also throw MAJOR side eye at Aaron and Tre for their treatment of Tammy when Aaron did the same exact thing she's doing last week and much more. Don't forget BIP recaps come out every Friday and Bravo every Tuesday! Happy listening!
Sep 03, 202130:59
Auctioned underwear

Auctioned underwear

What a mess! This week on our Bravo recap we head back to a sleepy NYC, we discuss Dorit's loaded gun of micro-aggressions, and why if my name was attached to underwear being auctioned off I would just shut my mouth. We also dive into the fact that people seem to be forgetting that every action has a reaction while watching Potomac, and why the bar for Ashley's husband is officially below hell. Don't forget to rate and review on apple podcast or download and subscribe where you listen to your podcasts!
Sep 02, 202101:02:53
What was before me, isn't for me

What was before me, isn't for me

Welcome back! This episode we're recapping last week's Tuesday episode of Bachelor in Paradise! If you want to hear my thoughts on Monday's head on over to the Dumpster Dive Podcast, where we recap it all! This episode we're talking about everyone that's attracted to Thomas, Riley's muscles and early 00's Usher one liners. As well as why I may have to bid my love for Brendan farewell. Don't forget to rate and review on Apple Podcasts and follow over on Instagram @whoaskedmepodcast
Aug 30, 202129:52
Did you forget you're being recorded? (Bravo Recap)

Did you forget you're being recorded? (Bravo Recap)

HELLOOOO! This week for our Bravo recap episode, find out why I tapped out of RHONY this past week, and get to know me a little bit better. Also listen to me question if the women of RHOP and especially RHOBH remember that they're being recorded and we can actually see where they lied. I also discuss while I am pretty much Team Wendy in Wendy vs Gizelle, where she lost me a bit. Don't forget to rate and review on Apple podcasts, also remember I am now a  episode a week Podcast! Bachelor in Paradise episodes will be out every Friday!
Aug 24, 202142:43
Bunk Bed humping & Milk of Magnesium: A BIP recap

Bunk Bed humping & Milk of Magnesium: A BIP recap

WELCOME TO PARADISE...recaps! This week we got the premier of the newest season of Bachelor in Paradise since 2019 and oh my WORD am I happy these people are back, whether I actually know the or not. This episode I discuss that Kenny is actually a walking unsolicited sick pic, why Connor the cat needs to keep his hands off of the napes of peoples necks while kissing, and why the place to actually sleep in paradise is the day beds on the beach. BIP recaps will be going up every Friday! Happy listening!
Aug 20, 202124:55
Mind Your Own Areolas

Mind Your Own Areolas

IM BACK! After a week off I'm back to talk to you all about my short break and recap our PROBLEMATIC favorites because lord knows they all lived up to the problematic-ness these past few weeks. Listen as I discuss why its time for change in New York, my theories on the Fox Force Fonies, and why it's just time to call a spade a spade in Potomac. Don't forget to rate and review me on Apple Podcasts and subscribe and download on other platforms as well! Also don't forget to follow me over on the podcast instagram page @whoaskedmepodcast. Happy listenin!
Aug 17, 202146:50
Sarah Cameron, I’d like a word (SURPRISE OBX EPISODE)

Sarah Cameron, I’d like a word (SURPRISE OBX EPISODE)

SURPRISE!!! I decided to derail the podcast this week, and hop on here and discuss one of my guilty pleasure scripted favorites! Netflix’s Outer Banks! I’m talking about my emotions going through the latest season 2 release! Season 2 really took me for a ride in the best and worst ways so buckle up while i discuss it. This episode does contain spoilers so you have been warned!
Aug 06, 202125:41
You don’t want this smoke

You don’t want this smoke

Welcome back! This week we’re breaking down what 4 celebs just absolutely should have just shut the F up. Recapping our franchises? While discussing who does and doesn’t actually want the smoke, when to bring up that you’re a “boss babe” knowing your anatomy and colorism! Don’t forget to subscribe rate and review as well as follow on Instagram!
Aug 03, 202143:40
A physical altercation with an inanimate object

A physical altercation with an inanimate object

Welcome back! This episode we discuss what celebrity couple I’m already sick of. Who the physical altercation was actually between in RHONY this week, what i would do if i drove off a cliff and was unconscious for 12 hours, and why zen wen is the only wen we’ve ever known! Please don’t forget to rate and review me on Apple podcasts and follow IG page @whoaskedmepodcast
Jul 27, 202154:28
Boring Oppressors

Boring Oppressors

On this weeks recap we discuss why ignorance is clearly bliss, why the Beverly Hills women actually do love to push people over the edge, and why I’m absolutely not talking to anyone dressed like the oppressor. I also address some of the whispers surrounding Eboni K, and where i stand on my fan-girl status of her! Don’t forget to rate and review on Apple podcasts! As well as subscribe wherever else you listen! Also follow on Instagram @whoaskedmepodcast
Jul 20, 202101:18:12
Changes might need to be made…

Changes might need to be made…

Hello! This episode we’re discussing what me and Robyn Dixon have in common, the Bravo rumor mill the past few days and recapping our favorite shows! Don’t forget to rate and review on Apple podcasts and subscribe wherever you listen to the episodes!
Jul 13, 202144:00
Capital F that

Capital F that

I’m am VERY exhausted of the conversations surrounding RHONY this season…and it shows this week I’m discussing just that, why Ramona can go straight to hell and quickly, a few things that already aren’t aging well for Erika Jayne, and why Aubrey O’day needs to just get up and hum in the name of the LORDT! Per usual don’t forget to follow on IG and rate and review on Apple podcasts! Happy listening !
Jul 08, 202101:09:39
God forbid i be long winded

God forbid i be long winded

Hi! I know I’m late but forgive me! This week we recap our favorite shows while also talking Britney, Pumping gas, and influencers! Be sure to subscribe, rate and review on Apple Podcasts!
Jun 30, 202144:43
OH MY LAM

OH MY LAM

THIS WEEK WAS MESSY!!! It was so messy i tried my best to narrow it all down for y’all but whew!! I’m tired. Of course we’re talking about The Housewife and the Hustler, RHONY, RHOBH and a new problematic fave: ENCORE!! You also get to hear me sing so turn the volume low before i crack your eardrum! Per usual don’t forget to subscribe, download, rate and review on Apple Podcasts! Happy listening!
Jun 21, 202146:01
Two things can be true…

Two things can be true…

Hello hello! This week I’m discussing why you don’t actually need to be team Heather or team Leah, the actual audacity of Bethenny Frankel, and why Sutton’s ability to center herself in almost everything is unmatched! Also in case no one has said it enough: NEVER TELL THAT STORY AGAIN! Plus a little more! Happy listening and per usual don’t forget to subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts! And rate and review on Apple Podcasts!
Jun 14, 202141:05
Miss Eboni’s Burberry

Miss Eboni’s Burberry

I’ll be honest, this episode is emotional. We discuss that lunch on RHONY, Beverly Hills, my eye sight in comparison to Kathy Hilton’s, and of course another one of my hot takes! Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review! Happy listening!
Jun 07, 202157:29
Stop revealing your sneaky link

Stop revealing your sneaky link

I am back! 2 days late but nevertheless we’re still getting into the mess. This week we recap our favorite shows, i decide who gets to claim the notorious men of RHONY, and continue to wonder why y’all don’t hold some of your “favorite” bravo-lebs accountable. I also have a confession at the end that make come to a surprise for some, but i said what i said! Per usual don’t forget to rate and subscribe on all platforms and leave a review on Apple podcasts! Happy listening!
Jun 02, 202148:12
Morally bankrupt housewives

Morally bankrupt housewives

In this episode i recap all of our favorites from the week! We talk about the IG pre show to the Jersey reunion, the 2 types of people while hungover, and lying about your plasma as it all relates to the housewives! Don’t forget to rate review and subscribe on Spotify, Apple podcasts and more! And don’t forget to follow me on Instagram @whoaskedmepodcast
May 24, 202136:50
40 Million dollar farts

40 Million dollar farts

Of course we’re addressing the engagement announcement that rocked the bravo-sphere. I give you my hot takes on Porsha and her new boo, Chrissy Teigen finding herself in some hot water, and weekly recaps of RHONY, RHOD, and RHONJ. I also reveal which food combo is a problem for me personally. Happy listening!
May 17, 202157:54
Never a bridesmaid

Never a bridesmaid

This episode we recap the RHONY premier, my love for Eboni K Williams, why Jennifer Aydin needs to keep her mothers business out of the streets, and proper bridesmaid etiquette..for me at least! Happy listening!
May 10, 202101:13:38
Burn down the 4th wall

Burn down the 4th wall

Of course we’re talking about that Summer House reunion, but one thing we’re not talking about is “all stars” join me while i chat about who needs to hear VPR isn’t filming, rhoa reunion pt 1 and 2 and why no one should ever tell toya a damn thing ever again. Warning: i say “of it all” a lot this episode and i don’t know why. Happy listening!
May 03, 202147:23
Not a great week for Leo’s

Not a great week for Leo’s

Now before the Leo gang comes after me for the title, some of y’all need to relax. This week we discuss which girls in the summer house i think would make the best friends, where my bar is for VPR, a real housewives of Atlanta season finale recap and much more! So come listen to everything you didn’t ask for!
Apr 23, 202152:07
The episode none of you asked for

The episode none of you asked for

Welcome! In this episode i give you a brief introduction to me, what i retained from pop culture this week, where I’m at with the bravo previews, and my missed shot at reality tv fame!
Apr 19, 202128:43